Ndinayamba zolaula ndi maliseche ndili ndi zaka 12 (ndidzakhala 24 yo mu Disembala). Ndinayamba kuonera zolaula monga chidwi chofuna kudziwa za kugonana ndi zinthu zonse. Sindinazolowere mpaka zaka 2-3 zapitazo.
Zaka za 2-3 zisanachitike banja langa lidayamba kukhala ndi mavuto azachuma ndipo mchaka chatha abambo anga adayambanso kumwa zovuta (Adamwa mowa pafupifupi zaka 10). Pambuyo pamavuto awa ndinatembenukira ku zolaula kuti ndikondwere ndikuthawa moyo wozunzika. Kuyambira zaka zapitazi za 2-3 ndakhala ndikuchita zolaula 2-3 kangapo pa sabata komwe kumakhala kofanana ndi nthawi ya 156 pachaka.
Ndinalowa nawo webusayiti iyi mu Feb 2017. Ndinabwereranso kangapo koma kusintha kunabwera m'moyo wanga mwezi watha. Ndikawerenga mutu wakuti "Chinsinsi chokhudza kugonana" kuchokera m'bukuli ndikuganiza ndikulemera (ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muwerenge bukuli kangapo osati chaputala chokhudza kugonana). Ngakhale ndinali nditawerenga bukuli ndisanawerengepo chaputala chilichonse koma ndidawerenga chaputalachi kangapo. Ndazindikira kuti kuwononga mphamvu zakugonana kuli ngati kungowononga chidwi chanu ndikukhumba kukwaniritsa zonse zomwe mukufuna m'moyo wanu.
Panapezekanso mawu abwino mu chaputala chimenecho omwe anati "Munthu wamisala wogonana sali wosiyana ndi wamisala wopenga chifukwa onse ataya kulamulira kwamaganizidwe awo".
Pambuyo pa izi ndinayamba kuganiza ndipo pamapeto pake ndinazindikira kuti ndawononga zaka 10-12 zolimbikitsa zanga, kulakalaka ndi mphamvu zanga pachinthu chopanda pake. Kudziseweretsa maliseche kumakusangalatsani kwa mphindi zochepa. Koma sizoyenera kukhala ndi moyo ngati mudzakhala ndi chibwenzi chokhalitsa kapena mukadzakwatirana mumakhala ndi chisangalalochi nthawi zambiri momwe mumafunira komanso osadzanong'oneza bondo. Ndinazindikiranso kuti kugonana ndichinthu chabwinobwino komwe tonse tidzakumana nacho chibwenzi ndipo sizingathandize kupatula mphamvu yanu pochita zolaula mukamayang'ana zolaula pafoni yanu, pa tabu kapena pa PC.
Ndinafikira chisankho ndipo nthawi iliyonse ndikakhala ndi chidwi chodziseweretsa maliseche ndimangobwereza m'maganizo mwanga kuti sizoyenera kuchita. Mudzakhala nazo mwanjira iliyonse mukapeza bwenzi kapena mkazi. M'malo mwake yang'anani pakupeza zolinga zachuma, zolinga zaumoyo ndi kuphunzira maluso ena omwe angakuthandizeni kusintha moyo wanu.
Chifukwa chake ndikufotokozerani momwe palibe zolaula zamasiku a 30 zomwe zakhudza magawo osiyanasiyana a moyo wanga.
2. Zotsatira zaumoyo pambuyo pakuyambiranso
Ndisanayambirenso ntchito ndinkakhala waulesi komanso wopanda chidwi. Masabata oyamba a 2 anali ovuta koma ndimangobwereza ndekha kuti kuseweretsa maliseche sikofunika. Mu sabata yoyamba ndinali ndi matendawa. Ndinkaona kusinza komanso kusachita chidwi. Sindinapeze chilichonse choyenera mkati mwa masabata awiri oyamba. Koma kamodzi masabata awiri atadutsa. Ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti ndili ndi mphamvu zomwe sindinakhalepo nazo m'zaka zapitazi za 2-2. Ndinayamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi tsiku lililonse popeza ndidaphonya tsiku limodzi kapena awiri pakati koma kwathunthu ndimachita masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe sindidachitepo kale. Komanso ndinali ndi mavuto aziphuphu kuyambira mwezi watha ziphuphu zanga zatsala pang'ono kutha (zidandigwirira ntchito koma ngati muli ndi vuto lalikulu la ziphuphu chonde lemberani dokotala wanu). Ponseponse ndimadzimva kuti ndili ndi mphamvu zambiri.
3. Zachuma zimayambanso kuyambiranso
Kuyambira miyezi 4-5 yapita ndimavutika kupanga dongosolo lazandalama kuti ndipeze ndalama kumsika wamsika, tsamba lawebusayiti ndi YouTube. Sindinathe kulemba ndondomeko yoyenera ndipo ndinayesanso kuchita malonda pamsika wamsika komabe ndinataya ndalama zanga. Koma mu ndalamayi ndidapeza phindu lalikulu kuyambira pomwe ndidayamba kuchita malonda. Komanso ndinatha kulemba dongosolo lathunthu lazachuma chamtsogolo mwa sabata imodzi (zomwe sizinachitike kuyambira miyezi ingapo yapitayi momwe ndimakhalira maliseche). Maganizo anga asinthanso. Ponseponse ndikuganiza kuti nditha kuchita bwino kukwaniritsa zolinga zanga zachuma.
4. Zotsatira zam'mbuyo pambuyo pokonzanso
Ndikamayang'ana zolaula ndimakonda kuwona chilichonse chokhudza zolaula. Ndinkakonda kuwona akazi ngati zolaula komanso zinthu zogonana (zomwe zasokonekera koma ndi momwe ndimaganizira za akazi). Komabe kuyambira masabata awiri apitawa ndayamba kuwona akazi ngati anthu (ngati munthu wabwinobwino osati chinthu chogonana). Komanso ndaona kuti chidaliro changa polankhula ndi akazi chawonjezeka kwambiri monga sichinachitikepo m'moyo wanga. Ngakhale asungwana ena adandiyamika kuti ndachita china chosiyana ndikuwoneka chatsopano (chabwino sindinathe kuwauza chifukwa chake). Sindimangolankhula ndi atsikana okha koma ndi anthu ena onse m'moyo wanga ndi gawo lakuya monga sindinayambe ndachitapo kale.
Zolemba zomaliza: Zambiri ndikungomva bwino. Ndikuganiza choncho ndipitiliza izi nthawi yayitali momwe ndingathere. Ingokumbukirani anyamata sizoyenera chifukwa zimakupatsani mphamvu, chilimbikitso ndi chidwi chanu chofuna kupeza munthu yemwe angakhale wachikondi cha moyo wanu.
Ndikuganiza kuti uwu ndi mwayi wanga womaliza pa tsambali koma ndikapeza china chabwino chogawana pa tsambali ndithu ndigawana.
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