MAFUNSO: Kumbukirani kuti anyamata omwe sanayambe msanga zolaula pa intaneti nthawi zambiri amachira ku PIED mosavuta, chifukwa chake upangiri wa mwamunayo ungagwire ntchito kwa omwe ali mumkhalidwe wofanana.
Ndabwera kuno kuti ndigawe nkhani yanga yopambana ndikuyembekeza kuti ingathandize anyamata ena kunja uko ndi vutoli.
Choyamba, pang'ono za ine: ndili ndi zaka twente faifi. Ndinayamba kuseweretsa maliseche ndili ndi zaka pafupifupi khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi, ndipo ndidakhala wowonera zolaula wazaka pafupifupi khumi ndi zisanu ndi zinayi. Pofika zaka makumi awiri ndi ziwiri, ndidazindikira kuti zomwe ndidasankha sizinali momwe zidalili kale. Uku kunali kuzindikira pang'ono ndi pang'ono; Ndinali kuseweretsa maliseche ndikumangirira mwamphamvu, motero ndinaganiza kuti izi ndizolakwa.
Ndinapitilira, komabe, ndipo ED yanga idayamba kuvuta. Pofika nthawi ya chilimwe ya 2014, ED yanga inali yoopsa kwambiri mwakuti sindinadzukenso ndi mapangidwe ake. Sindingathe kukhala ndi lingaliro popanda kukondoweza. Kugwira kwanga pochepetsa maliseche kunali kolimba kwambiri kotero kuti mbolo yanga inali yofiyira komanso yotupa nthawi yomwe ndimamaliza.
Komabe, ndinayenera kuzikonza.
Koma kodi?
Choyamba, ndimaganiza zokaonana ndi dokotala. Koma, pansi pamtima, ndimadziwa kuti ED yanga ndiyomwe ndimachita. Chifukwa chake ndimaganiza zoyesa kudziletsa - kusiya kuseweretsa maliseche kwathunthu. Njirayi idawoneka ngati yopanda tanthauzo pamtunda, ngakhale pakuwunika kwakukulu sikunamveke; Ndidakhazikitsa ubongo wanga ndi thupi kuti ndizitha kuyankha mwanjira ina yakugonana, ndiye ngati ndikufuna kubwerera komwe ndiyenera kukhala - komwe ndimakhala ntchito kukhala-ndiye kukhala mozungulira ndikudikirira thupi langa kuti lithandizire kusintha momwe limakhalira sikugwira ntchito.
Ngati ndikadayimitsa thupi langa ngati chinthu chimodzi, ndikadatero mokangalika ngati china.
Chinanso chinali chiyani? Komabe, ndinayenera kudziwa cholinga changa. Izi zinali zophweka mokwanira: Ndimafuna kuti mbolo yanga ikwaniritse bwino, mwamphamvu, komanso popanda kusangalatsa.
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Ndidayandikira kukonzanso ubongo ndi thupi langa m'mene zimayandikira kuphunzitsa nyama.
Khwerero 1 Nditasiya maliseche kwakanthawi. Ndinkadziwa kuti, kuti ndisayang'anenso bongo ndi thupi langa, ndiyenera ndiyambe kuwononga zomwe ndikufuna. Ndinakhala pafupifupi milungu iwiri osavulala. Zinali zovuta, inde, koma ndinayenera kudziwitsa ubongo wanga kuti ndikuyang'anira.
Khwerero 2 Pambuyo pa masabata awiriwo, ndinachita zoseweretsa, koma m'malo mogwiritsa mwamphamvu momwe ndinakhalira, ndimagwiritsa ntchito mopepuka momwe ndikanathera. Ndinapitanso pang'onopang'ono momwe ndingathere. Mbolo yanga inali yolakwika kwathunthu. Chilimbikitso chakuyenda molimba mtima sichinali chovuta kukana, koma ndimadziwa kuti ndiyenera kukhala woyang'anira. Zinanditengera pafupifupi theka la ola mbolo yanga isanayambe kuyankha izi, ndipo ola limodzi kapena apo ndisanakhale ndi kupumula. Nthawi yonseyi ndinakhala wosamala ndikuyenda pang'onopang'ono. (Ndilo lamulo lofunikira.) Chiwonetsero changa sichinali chachikulu. Zinali zosangalatsa pang'ono, makamaka. Koma ndimaphunzitsa ubongo wanga ndi thupi phunziro lofunika: ngati likufuna chisangalalo, ndiye iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yomwe izipezere kuyambira pano.
Ubongo umatha kusunthika. Tikagona, ubongo wathu "umadzipanga tokha" kuti uzolowere chilichonse chomwe tachita tsiku limenelo. Umu ndi momwe "kukumbukira minofu" kumakulira. Mukamaphunzitsa ubongo wanu kuti chisangalalo chogonana chidzangokhala kudzera pazofewa, zosakhwima, ndizo nditero sintha. Izi sizingachitike mwadzidzidzi, koma zichitika. Ichi chinali chiphunzitso changa. M'malingaliro mwanga, chinthu choyipitsitsa chomwe mungachite poyesa kuthana ndi zolaula ndikupangitsa ED ndikungopewa osachita chilichonse, kudikirira kuti thupi lanu lidzikonze.
Chifukwa chake, ndimachita maliseche kamodzi patsiku sabata yonse. Mu sabata yoyamba ija, ubongo wanga ndi thupi langa zidakana. Nthawi zambiri ndinkangokhalira kukhumudwa ndikamachita maliseche, ndipo nthawi zina ndinkangofuna kupita mofulumira, koma ndinkadzikakamiza kuti ndizichedwa kuyenda pang'ono.
Sabata yachiwiri idakhala ndikudziletsa - osachita maliseche ngakhale pang'ono.
Sabata lachitatu linali kubwereza koyamba. Ndinkasewera kamodzi patsiku, pang'onopang'ono komanso modekha. Chinthu choyamba chomwe ndidazindikira ndikukula kwa chidwi. Ndinalemba kuti zinanditengera nthawi yayitali bwanji kumaliza tsiku lililonse la sabata yoyamba, ndipo ndidachitanso chimodzimodzi sabata yachitatu. Poyerekeza masabata awiriwa, ndidapeza kuti nthawi yomwe idanditengera ku chiwonetsero inali yochepa. Ndinazindikiranso kuti zomwe ndimasankha zinali zolimba, ndipo sizikanatha ndikasiya kuseweretsa maliseche. (Amakhala pafupifupi masekondi makumi awiri mpaka makumi atatu asanayambe kuzimiririka, poyerekeza ndi sabata yoyamba, pomwe amaponya nthawi yomweyo.)
Ndinkabwereza ndondomekoyi nthawi zonse, ndikusintha mlungu uliwonse pakati pa maliseche ndi kudziletsa. Tsopano ndi pakati pa Januware 2015 ndipo nditha kunena moona mtima kuti thanzi langa lachiwerewere latsala pang'ono kubwerera. Ndatha kuthetsa ubongo wanga ndi thupi langa. Ndimadzuka m'mawa uliwonse ndikumangirira. Ndimatha kuganiza zodetsa ndikukhazikika popanda kukhudza mbolo yanga. Zomwe ndimasankha zimakhala zolimba ndikasiya kuseweretsa maliseche - nthawi zina kwa mphindi zingapo. Ndili paubwenzi watali ndi mtsikana, ndipo ndili ndi chidaliro chonse kuti, tikakumana ndikupanga zogonana, ndidzatha kuchita ngati bambo wazaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu wathanzi.
Iyi ndi nkhani yanga yopambana. Zowona sindinganene ngati zingagwire ntchito kwa anthu ena, koma ndikukhulupirira kuti zithandizira munthu m'modzi yekha.
LINK - Momwe Ndinasinthira Zomwe Zimapangitsa Kuti Ndisamawononge Zolaula za ED Popanda Kutaya Maliseche
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