Pambuyo pa masabata a 18 osakhala PMO ndikuganiza kuti ndi nthawi yabwino yoganizira zomwe ndakumana nazo.
(Ndipo ndikuwopa kuti yakhala yayitali; ngati yayitali kwambiri ingodutsani kumindime itatu yomaliza kuti mupeze mfundo zazikulu zomwe ndikufuna kugawana nanu.)
Ndine bambo wamwamuna wazaka za 26 ndipo ndakhala ndikujambula ndikuwona zolaula kuyambira zaka zosachepera 13 (ngati sindinatalikirane; ngakhale ndili ndi malingaliro owoneka bwino a momwe ndidaliri ndekha woyamba sindingakumbukire momwe ndidaliri ndi zaka zambiri) nthawi imeneyo). Kotero osachepera theka la moyo wa PMO - zodabwitsa komanso zowopsa, ndikayima kuti ndilingalire.
Ngakhale ndisanapunthike pagawo lino ndinayesapo kangapo konse (chifukwa ngakhale pamenepo ndimangodziwa kuti mtundu wamtunduwu sungakhale wabwino kwa munthu wathanzi, ngakhale atakhala kuti ndi ena omwe amalimbikitsa ufulu wogonana, ndi zina zotere). lengeza). Nthawi ina ndinatsala pang'ono kufika masiku a 90 (zokumana nazo zabwino poganiza kuti izi zinachitika kalekale zisanachitike :-)) koma kenako ndinayambiranso chigwacho ndipo sindinachira.
Ndinayeseranso pafupifupi magawo atatu a chaka chimodzi nditaonera nkhani zitatu zolimbikitsa za TED pa Youtube zomwe nditha kulimbikitsa ndi mtima wonse kwa aliyense (Gary Wilson: "Kuyesera kwakukulu zolaula"; Ran Gavrieli: "Chifukwa chani ndasiya kuonera zolaula"; Philip Zimbardo: "Kutha kwa anyamata?"); Komabe, kuyambira pachiyambi sindinakhale ndi chidaliro mwa ine ndekha kuti ndikanatha kuchita popanda PMO ndipo sindinganene kuti izi sizingatheke.
Poyamba ndidangosewera popanda kuonera zolaula komanso osaganizira chilichonse komanso zodabwitsa momwe zimamvekera kuti zidayenda bwino, koma masiku owerengeka okha. Ndiye chilimbikitso chofuna kupezana chikuyambiranso kukhala champhamvu kuposa kale ndipo nthawi zina ndimatha kusewera katatu patsiku ndipo ndisanadziwe kuti ndidakumana ndi konkire m'malingaliro mwanga. Choyipa chachikulu nthawi zina sindimatha kuyang'ana mzimayi wokongola m'misewu popanda kumuvula zovala zake ndikuyenda naye pulogalamu yonse ndikukhala ndi chidwi chofika kunyumba kuti ndikwaniritse ma phantasies anga (ndikunena za zovuta zomwe ndimadutsamo. msewu wapansi panthawi yachilimwe!).
Ndipo kudabwitsidwa, kudabwitsidwa: Nditamaliza kuonera zolaula ndimphamvu zopangidwanso mwatsopano kotero kuti ndimaganizira za izi tsopano zimandibwezeranso nkhawa. Moona mtima ndidamva ngati kalulu wa labu yemwe samadziwa kuchokera pansi pazolimbikitsidwa zonse zomwe ndimadzipereka. (Kodi mudayamba mwafika pomwe ma tabu asakatuli anu amapeza ochepa kotero kuti zimawavuta kuti azingolankhula pa intaneti imodzi? Inde, ndi mavidiyo osiyanasiyana omwe ndimaganiza kuti ndiyenera kuwonera ndikugawa umuna wanga nthawi yomweyo. kumbukirani usiku wanga woyamba kuyambiranso zolaula - nditatha kupanga ma 5 nthawi zina ndimamvanso kuti ndiyenera kupanga foto, ndikudzidana ndekha chifukwa cha izo. Ndi momwe zimakhalira kukhala ndi chizolowezi, osakayika konse za izi.
Ndipo kenako kunadza usiku wina womwe unali ngati vumbulutso kwa ine (mwina ena a inu mwakumana ndi chinthu chofanana): Ndimawonera zojambula zonse zolaula (osadandaula, kunalibe nyama kupatula anthu okhudzidwa ;-) ) mpaka ndidakafika ku imodzi yomwe idandichepetsera kudzipangitsa kuti ndisadane ndi ena. Unali chithunzi cha mtsikana wazaka za 18 kapena 19 ndipo anali ndimawonekedwe owoneka ngati owopsa m'maso mwake ndipo ndimaganiza kuti akundiyang'ana m'maso ndikuganiza ndekha kuti ndine mwana wazachinyengo bwanji. Nthawi yomweyo ndinatseka msakatuli (kumaliza bizinesi yomwe sinachitike kuti ndi yosatheka,) ndipo usiku womwewo adalumikizana ndi noFap ndikudziletsa ndekha kuchokera ku PMO kuyambira nthawi imeneyo. Kumva koteroko usikuwo - chinali lingaliro lakudzinyadira, kundichotsera ine ndekha, chinthu chomwe sindingathe kuchimvetsetsa, komanso chomwe ndidakumana nacho kale, osatinso mphamvu iyi. Ngati mwakhalapo kale mukudziwa bwino zomwe ndikutanthauza.
Poyamba, ndimangofuna kuyesa kutsiriza zovuta za tsiku la 90 (ndikusunga njira kuti ndibwerere ku moyo wanga wakale pambuyo pa nthawi iyi) ndipo ndidatha kuchita popanda kubwereranso (chachikulu zikomo kwa inu nonse pa upangiri wako wonse wothandiza ndi kuvomereza koona mtima m'mawu anu. Ndipolemekezedwe chida chododometsanso! Izi zatsimikizira nthawi ndi nthawi kukhala othandiza kwambiri (ndipo ndikadali ndi ine)! Komabe, kuyandikira kumapeto kwa nthawi ya tsiku la 90 Ndimaganiza mwanjira ina kuti sizacitika zambiri kapena sizinasinthe konse, mwina sizimawoneka ngati ine.
Koma zomwe ndimayiwala kapena kuiwala ndikuti ndimagwiritsa ntchito bwino nthawi yonse yomasulidwa ndi mphamvu zomwe zidawonongeka kwa PMO - Ndinkachita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse, ndimawerenga nthawi yanga yaulere, ndimawerenga kwambiri kuposa kale. .
Ine mwanjira inayake ndidakwanitsa kupanga dongosolo latsopano la moyo wanga; nthawi zina chifukwa chokana kwambiri kukhala PMO, ndidayamba kumanganso moyo wanga watsopano ndi wathanzi. Nthawi zina ndimadzimva ngati wongobadwa kumene - sindimaganiza zotere poganiza kuti nthawi yayitali yopanda PMO ndi chatsopano cha thupi langa lonse ndi malingaliro. Ndikuganiza kuti ndili wokondwa kwambiri tsopano - nthawi zina ndimakhala wokondwa kukhala wamoyo komanso othokoza chifukwa chokhala moyo uno womwe ndikukhalamo.
Munthawi yanga pano yopanda PMO anthu osiyanasiyana andiuzanso kuti akuganiza kuti ndayamba kukhala bambo weniweni - zachitika zokha?
Chilimbikitso chofuna kubala chinandithandizira kwambiri - anthu ambiri pano amati nthawi yomwe amavutikira kwambiri inali masabata angapo oyambilira - koma zinali zosavuta kwa ine. Idali gawo lapakati (pafupi sabata la 8) lomwe nthawi zina linali vuto lalikulu. Ndikukumbukira nthawi ina nditakhala kutsogolo kwa kompyuta ndikuganiza zofunafuna kanema wa zolaula zomwe zidawonekera kale m'mutu mwanga. Izi zidatenga pafupifupi mphindi za 10 pomwe ndidangokhala pamenepo ndikuganizira zomwe ndaganiza ndi malingaliro anga ndipo ndikunyadira ndekha mpaka lero zomwe sindinapereke munthawi imeneyi.
Pali nthawi zina zomwe ndimaganizirabe zodandaula zanga ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kusinthitsa chithunzi changa chonyansa (tsopano ndikudziwa momwe gulu lathu limatithandizira komanso makamaka zotsatsa zina), koma mukudziwa? Ubongo wanga umawoneka kuti unasinthika mpaka pomwe umatha kukangana ndi mbali yake yakuda ndipo umatulukira wopambana, chifukwa tsopano zikuwonekeratu kuti kusefa ndikuonera zolaula sikuli koyenera. Nthawi. Mphindi yaying'ono yakukhumbayi, kugonjera kufooka kwanu kulibe zotsatira zabwino zilizonse.
Ndipo pali chinthu chimodzi makamaka chomwe ndakhumudwitsidwapo pamakalata ndi ma Fapstronauts ena - kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga ndimaona kuti ndine amene ndimayang'anira. Ndimamva mphamvu yayikulu mwa ine kuti chilichonse chomwe chikufunika kuchitika, chitha kuchitika, chifukwa zomwe ndakumana nazo posiya PMO zandiphunzitsa kuti ndili ndi mphamvu kuti ndichite, kapena ndiyesetse kupereka zomwe ndingathe.
Kudula nkhani yayifupi kusiya izi zoyipa sizingandigwiritse ntchito osadutsa njira iliyonse - kuyimitsa PMO kwathunthu ndikosavuta kuposa kungobwerera pang'ono pazokonda zanu, ndikhulupirireni. Monga momwe zidalembedwera kale izi zisanachitike apa (koma sizinganenedwe zambiri nthawi zambiri): Ubongo wanu ndi chida chodabwitsa kwambiri chodzinyenga nokha. Ingoganizirani izi: palibe amene akudzidziwa bwino kuposa momwe mumadziwira, kotero mukudziwa miseru yonse yamalonda kuti mudzinyenge nokha ngati simumamatira ku konkriti, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kusiya PMO kwathunthu, ngakhale kuli kovuta komanso kupweteka bwanji khala paciyambi.
Ndiye zilizonse zomwe mungachite, musangodzipusitsa poganiza kuti kusiya PMO sikunasinthe kapena sikungasinthe kalikonse m'moyo wanu - ngati mutha kuyimitsa, kuyenera kukhala ndi zotsatirapo ndipo izi zitha kukhala zabwinoko zanu. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale pang'ono pang'onopang'ono kupita kwanu patsogolo kungakhale - kumapitabe patsogolo, ndipo kupita patsogolo kulikonse kuchokera kudera lanu lakale kuli bwino, kapena chifukwa chiyani mukadayamba kujowina noFap koyambirira?
Pitilizani moyo wabwino, khalani athanzi, ndipo musadzinyenge nokha! Ngati mukufunitsitsa kuchita izi, simukufunanso chilimbikitso china kapena zabwino zonse kuchokera kwa ine. Zomwe mumapeza ndikuyenera ulemu wanga.
LINK - Masabata a 18 opanda PMO - momwe zimakhalira
ZOCHITIKA - Chaka cha 1 cha NoFap - Moni wochokera ku Freaking Moon!
kuti:
MaFayida onse
Komwe inu-muli
Padziko Lonse
kuchokera ku:
Me
Crater Aristarchus
Mwezi wa Freaking
"Ndasankha kupita ku Freaking Moon, osati chifukwa ndizosavuta, koma chifukwa ndizovuta." (ndikupepesa kwa JFK, RIP)
Inde, ndikudziwa, ndikadayenera kulemba kale, koma mukudziwa momwe ziriri, ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito, kuphunzira, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo nthawi yonseyi ndakhala ndikumanga roketi yomwe yangonditengera ku Freaking Moon. Chifukwa chake mukuwona, kunalibenso nthawi yokwanira yocheza ndi bwenzi, kapena mwina ndikudziuza izi… Chaka chimodzi chapitacho, ndidakali padziko lapansi, ndaganiza zoyamba ulendowu, ndipo sindinayerekeze kuuza abwenzi kapena abale za izi, kuwopa kuti anganditane wopenga (sindinauze aliyense amene ndimamudziwa, btw). Ndani adati sizingachitike? Chabwino, anali ine zaka zonsezo zisanachitike. Ndipo zinali zowona: Ukadziuza wekha kuti sungathe, ndiwe wamatsenga, chifukwa udakwaniritsa ulosi wako kale.
Chifukwa chake rocket idangofika kuno ku Crater Aristarchus pa Freaking Moon ndipo m'mene ndimaganizira malo owoneka bwino ndidaganizira za mainjiniya onse opambana anga omwe adapangitsa kuti ulendowu ukhale wotheka, onse a noFap-wiz, apainiya onse omwe adapanga mapa pansi pamaso panga ndikugawana zomwe akumana nazo ndi nzeru zawo. Zikomo kwambiri kwa inu nonse.
Ndiye zimatenga chiyani kuti mumange rocket, mungafunse? Pamafunika nthawi. Zimatengera kulimbikira. Zimatengera kudzidalira. Zimatengera chikhulupiriro chosagwedezeka, kuti zomwe mumachita ndizoyenera. Osati chifukwa cha zomwe anthu ena angaganize za inu, osati chifukwa cha anthu omwe mungakumane nawo chifukwa chotsatira, koma chifukwa cha inu. Zimatengera, chilichonse chomwe mungapatse zomwe muli nazo. Koma sizitengera zapamwamba. Ndakumvani mukukumva, si choncho? Koma ndi zoona.
Za okonda zam'mwamba izi: Ndizovuta kukambirana za china chake chofotokozedwa mosiyana ndi wina aliyense koma ngati mawuwa akutanthauza kukhala ngwazi ya akazi, kutsogolera moyo wa wosewera, kumadutsa osadandaula kapena kuda nkhawa ndi chilichonse osapereka zoyipa pa chilichonse, ndiye ndiyenera kukuuza kuti sindine ndipo alibe. Koma ngati muwafotokozera kuti ndiwo mkhalidwe wolimbikira pomwe pakufika zovuta, osagonja mukakhumudwa, mukumva chisangalalo komanso kusangalala podzifanizira tsopano ndi zomwe mumachita kale, ndiye kuti ndakumanapo nazo ndipo ndikuchitabe.
Kotero, kodi ndine wokondwa kuti tsopano ndafika ku Freaking Moon? Inde. Koma kodi ndine wokondwa, wokondwa kwambiri, wosangalala? Ayi. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chisangalalo chachikulu ndi chisangalalo zidayamba kupanga roketi iyi poyamba. Zikanakhala zosavuta nthawi zonse, sindikanakhala ndi chidwi cholemba za izi - ndiwo mavuto omwe ndimakumbukira bwino kwambiri ndipo ndi omwe adandiumba kwambiri. Koma munganene kuti, 'nanga bwanji "Gawo limodzi la munthu, chimphona chimodzi chimadumpha anthu"? Chabwino, kwa ine, ndi sitepe imodzi kwa munthu, kenaka sitepe imodzi, kenaka yotsatira… Chifukwa, mukuwona, sindikuwona mzere womaliza wa ulendowu, ndikungowona zochitika zazikulu njira yonse, kuti ayenera kugonjetsedwa mmodzi ndi mmodzi. Zowonadi, pamakhala chochitika chimodzi chaching'ono tsiku lililonse, nthawi zambiri pamakhala palinso zingapo, koma nthawi zambiri timakhala otanganidwa kwambiri, ndipo timangoziwona mwatsatanetsatane, galimoto yathu ikawonongeka ndipo ulendo wafika povuta kwenikweni, tiyenera kuyenda, ndikupita sitepe ndi sitepe.
Kuyang'ana m'mwamba, kuyang'ana m'mbuyo, kuyang'ana kutsogolo
Koma, munganene kuti, Nditha kuwona mwezi wa Freaking, ndipo uli kutali kwambiri, sindingafikire! Zedi, ndikutsimikiza kuti ili kutali, koma kumbukirani, ndichifukwa chake mumayang'ana kwoyamba. Koma ngati mtunda ukukulira, ndiye kuti ndili ndi kanthu kena koti ndikuuze: usayang'ane kumwamba! Mwachangu, khalani ndi zolinga zomwe mungakwaniritse, pitani pang'ono ndi pang'ono, ndipo musanadziwe kuti mudzakhala pa Freaking Moon.
Ndikamayang'ana padziko lapansi, kadontho ka buluu, ndimaona mwayi. Malo omwe ndayimilira pano, Mwezi wa Freaking, ndi malo ochepa omwe adayendapo (kapena amatero) ndipo ndikumva bwino kutsatira m'mapazi awo. Koma zimatenga nthawi kuti ndipange mapazi anga, kubwerera padziko lapansi. Kapena, ndani akudziwa, mwina ndipitanso patsogolo, kumatauni osadziwika omwe akundiyembekezera pakati pa mapulaneti ndi nyenyezi ...
Kulikonse komwe kuli, ndikuyembekezera kukuonani kumeneko!
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