Oo. Zinthu zasintha kwambiri kuyambira pomwe ndinayamba izi:
- Ndinathetsa chibwenzi ndi chibwenzi changa cha chaka chimodzi. Nthawi zambiri ichi sichinthu chosangalatsa, koma kwa ine ndichomwecho. Onani, ndimaganiza zanga zonse zolaula, ndimakhulupirira kuti bola ndikugonana, palibe china chilichonse chofunikira muubwenzi. Ndinkangokhala ndi iye chifukwa sindinkaganiza kuti ndingapeze wina aliyense woti ndigone naye. Kotero masiku angapo apitawo, ndinazimaliza. Ndili ndi zinthu zofunika kuzilingalira kuposa kugonana.
- Kusintha kwaumoyo: Ndinavutika ndi zomwe ndimakhulupirira kuti ndi hemorroids. Ndinachita manyazi kwambiri kupita kwa adotolo kuti ndikapeze china chonga ichi kotero sindinadziwe ngati anali ma hemorroids koma kuchokera pazomwe ndinawerenga, ndikumva zowawa pafupifupi zaka 2, miyezi ingapo yapitayo idayambitsa kuyabwa kokwanira komanso kundiwotcha usiku. Ndinkakonda kudzuka ndimaso am'mawa m'mawa uliwonse kwa zaka zapitazi za 10. Ndinkakonda kunena kuti magalasi amalumikizidwe, ngakhale ndimawakonza bwino. Zinthu za 2 izi zapita kwathunthu. Ndikudziwa kuti zikugwirizana ndi zovuta chifukwa adayimilira mwezi woyamba ndipo sanabwererenso. Tangoganiza kuti zinthu izi zinali zokhudzana ndi nkhawa.
- Ntchito: Posachedwapa ndanyansidwa ndekha chifukwa chochepetsa kwambiri moyo wanga wonse. Ndidamaliza sukulu yayikulu ndili ndi digiri ya accounting komanso GPA yabwino. Ndilibe chilichonse choti ndisonyeze. Ndinatsimikiza mtima kuti ntchito yamakampani kapena yaofesi "siili yanga". Tsopano ndazindikira kuti uyu anali munthu wanga waulesi wongochita chodzikhululukira chopangira chifukwa cholephera kugwira ntchito yabwino ndi maudindo akulu. Ku koleji ndinali kale wanzeru komanso wokonda kwambiri ntchito yanga, koma waulesi kwambiri kupeza ntchito. Nditamaliza koleji ndinali waulesi kwambiri kupeza ntchito yabwino. ndimaganiza kuti sindinakwanitse ntchito, sindinkaganiza zopambana. Ndinakhala "wauzimu", ndikusiya ntchito yabwino kuti ndigwire ntchito yosavuta. Ndinawakhumudwitsa makolo anga. Zonse chifukwa cha zolaula. Ngakhale pomwe ndidaganiza zogwirira ntchito kunyumba ngati wogulitsa masheya, ndidalephera mwachangu chifukwa ndimayang'ana zolaula patatha maola awiri ndigulitsa. Tsopano ndikuzindikira zonsezi. Tsopano ndikumva ngati ndikufuna kupambana. Ndikumva ngati ndikupita pazomwe ndikufuna. Ndakhala ndikupempha ntchito ndikuwerenga mabuku posaka ntchito. Ndikudzikonzekeretsa kuti ndipeze ntchito yomwe ndimafuna kuyambira ndili mwana. Sindinakhalepo pamaso pamakompyuta anga kwa maola 2 molunjika popanda zosokoneza zolaula, ndikungofuna ntchito.
Kodi ndaphunzira chiyani mpaka pano? Ntchito iliyonse imayamba ndikungoyeserera pang'ono. Mukakhala otopa mumalingaliro mumakhala aulesi. Simungamve ngati kuchita chilichonse chomwe chimafunikira khama. Koma mukayamba kuchitapo kanthu ngakhale mukukhala ndi ulesi mudzapeza "mphamvu" ndipo pakapita mphindi zochepa mudzakhala bwino pochita izi ndikusangalala kuti mwayesetsa koyamba. Ichi ndichifukwa chake pmo ndiyovulaza, zimakupangitsani kukhala bwino ndikutopetsa komanso ulesi.
Umu ndi momwe ndidafikira masiku 90. Poyamba sindinkawerengera masiku oti ndikhale mfulu, ndinayesetsa kaye kukhala mfulu kwa maola 12 okha, kenako maola 24, kenako 36 ndi zina zotero. Patatha masiku angapo, ndinawerenga masikuwo. Tsopano ndikuwerenga miyezi.
Komanso, kudzipatsa nokha njira zina zoipa. Ngati mumachita zoseweretsa maliseche, ndiyo njira yofunafuna mnzanu weniweni.
Chomaliza chomwe ndikufuna kunena ndi ichi. Dzukani tsopano. Ambiri ngati si anthu onse omwe amayesa nofap adzalephera kangapo asadapusitsidwe koma ndikukhulupirira kuti ambiri adzapambana pamapeto pake. Osakhala nawo pagulu lomwe silimachita bwino ndikutaya. Tengani vutoli tsopano. Nthawi imadutsa mwachangu ndipo musanadziwe mudzanong'oneza bondo kuti simunayime pmo mutangodziwa izi. Mukadayamba tsiku la Chaka Chatsopano, mukadakhala kale masiku 30 opanda pmo.
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KULUMIKIZANA - Pomaliza masiku a 90!
by omarm1984
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