Zaka 30 - namwali wazaka 30 wokhala ndi PIED mwamtheradi, kugonana masiku 270.

Nditangolowa patsamba lino chaka chatha ndidayang'ana nkhanizi, ndipo ndikukumbukira bwino ndikuganiza "ndidzatumiza kuno tsiku lina". Nditangogonana koyamba m'moyo wanga (kawiri!; D) nali gawo langa labwino.

Choyamba, ndikulemba zolemba za bullet apa. Ndalemba ulendo wanga m'mbiri yanga kotero ngati wina akufuna kudziwa tsatanetsatane wake chonde onani. Ndipitiliza kupitiliza momwe sindinakhazikitsire bwino (kupambana kokha kudzera pakadutsa pano) koma ndikumva kuti ndatsala pang'ono kufika. Ndimayamikiranso aliyense amene wandifunira zabwino chaka chino - ndi gulu labwino kwambiri - ngati wina ali ndi mafunso akatha kuwerenga izi chonde funsani chifukwa ndili wokonzeka kuthandizira.

Pano pali chidule cha komwe ndidali, zomwe ndidutsamo, ndi komwe ndili:

1 chaka chapitacho ndinali namwali wazaka za 29. Ngakhale ndimakhala ndi chibwenzi chazitali komanso chokongola, kuphatikiza zojambula zolaula, komanso zolaula, zidandisinthitsa kukhala munthu wopanda ntchito. Mwina mosiyana ndi ambiri a inu ndinalinso ndi zowonjezera pakukongoletsa komanso zongopeka. Izi ndimakhulupirira kuti zidandipangitsa kukhala ndimavuto a ED kale. Ndimatha kulumikizana ndi malingaliro anga owoneka bwino, koma zikafika pazinthu zenizeni panali mawonekedwe ena muubongo wanga kotero sindinachite. Izi zinali choncho betwen wazaka za 15-24 kapena choncho. Mwa 24 ndikuyamba kukhala ndi Broadbandband, ndidatembenukira ku zolaula ndipo zidakhudzanso chimodzimodzi. Zowonera tsiku ndi tsiku. Timalipirira tsiku lililonse. Adapha galimoto iliyonse yachilengedwe yomwe ndidamponya miyala. Pomaliza ndidapeza tsamba ili ndikuganiza zomenya ziwanda zonsezi. Nayi chidule:

Juni 2012: adalowa apa ndikuyamba kuyesetsa kwanga koyamba.
Ogasiti 13th 2012, tsiku 36: Kuyesera koyamba kwalephera.
Ogasiti 19 2013, tsiku la 44: Kuyesanso kwachiwiri kulephera. Pa nthawi yomwe ndimapanga zolakwitsa zonse: ndikukana kuti ndili ndi "chizolowezi", ndikutsimikiza kuti ndikhoza kuzigwiritsa ntchito, ndikuwona zolaula nthawi ndi nthawi chifukwa ndimangofuna kudziwa. Mwachidule chinali chopusa. Ndinkadziwa za mavutowo, ndimadziwa kuti china chake sichili bwino, koma ndidakana kudzipereka kwathunthu kuti ndikonzeke.

Disembala 19th 2013, malo anga otsika. Lingalirani kuti ndikotheka. Ndinalankhula ndi bwenzi langa za zolakwa zanga kwa nthawi yoyamba (koma osati zachiwerewere). Pamapeto pake zinandiwonetsa kuti izi zitha kuwononga moyo wanga. Ndinkayang'ana mtsogolo ndipo ndimatha kuwona mkazi wotentha ndi banja la hapy, kapena ndimatha kuwona osangalala popanda gir komanso osatha kubereka ana. Izi zidandipatsa kuyendetsa bwino kuti ndikonze vutoli ndikupereka 100% kuti ndikonze.

Januwale 28th 2013: ndimenya bwino kwambiri masiku akale a 44.
February 13th 2013: masiku 61. maloto oyamba amoyo wanga!
Marichi 25th 2013: masiku 101! Ndinapeza chandalama changa chachikulu

Marichi 31st 2013: masiku 107. Adakhala wotsika kwambiri atalowa mzere wachiwiri. Zomwe ndidapeza paulendo uwu ndikuti ubongo wanga unasewera miseche pa ine. Nditha kupita ndikumadzimva kuti ndili padziko lapansi ndikungoganiza zachiwerewere komanso azimayi, kuti ndizichita ziro sabata yotsatira ndikufunsa ngati ndimakondanso kugonana ndi akazi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake magazini yamtengo wapatali.

Meyi 7th 2013: masiku 147. Ndikuyembekeza kwambiri kuti ndatulukira pamzere wangawu. Kuchulukitsa libido yachilengedwe komanso kuthekera kokhala ndi zokongola zachilengedwe popanda zolaula kapena zongopeka. Ndinalemba ziyembekezo zanga zogonana patchuthi.

Juni 16th: Kubwezeretsa kwanga koyamba pambuyo pa tsiku la 185! Mwa izi. Ine ndimachita bwino koma sindinathe kupeza 100%. Nditakhala wokondedwa kangapo ndi bwenzi langa ndikuwonjeza kugonana, ndidapeza mwayi waukulu. Kuphatikiza pa kukhumudwa kwanga pakugonana kwathunthu, ndidasiya. Laspe yanga yoyamba komanso yokhayo ku 2013. Ndinapangitsanso kutsimikiza mtima kwanga kuti ndipirire.

September 7th: Nditayeretsanso kukhala miyezi yochepa ndikuwona kupita patsogolo koyenera kotero ndidaganiza zopita ku viagra kuti ndikadutsitse mzere womaliza! Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe ndimakhala ndikuchiganizira nthawi zonse koma ndimafuna kumva ngati ndidayambitsa chizolowezi ndisanatembenuke mapiritsi. Mwachidule ndinatenga gawo limodzi, labwino kwambiri, ndikugonana kokwanira nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga kawiri (kamodzi usiku komanso m'mawa). Matsenga!

Tsopano: Ndidakali pamwambamwamba ndipo ndikumva ngati ndapambana kwambiri, koma sindinakhazikike. Ndikukhulupirira kwambiri kuti ubongo wanga ungathe kulumikizana mwachilengedwe komanso popanda mapiritsi, koma kungopeza vuto lomwe limapangitsa izi (zomwe ndi zomwe kugonana kudakhala) chinali chinthu chachikulu kwa ine. Ulendo wopita ku ma dotolo ukhoza kukhala wofunikira ngati sindinagonenso zolakwika zachilengedwe koma m'njira iliyonse ndikumverera bwino.

Nawa maupangiri - atha kukuthandizani kapena sangakuthandizeni koma andithandizadi:

1.) Dziwani kuti sizosavuta koma sizovuta. Sizowona. Tonse tili ndi vuto koma tonse tili ndi yankho. Poyerekeza ndi anthu ambiri mdziko lino omwe amayenera kuthana ndi chitsutso chachikulu m'miyoyo yawo, sitikhala nacho choyipa. Mulibe khansa yotsimikizika ndipo simunapange kuti tambala wanu awombedwe kumalo ankhondo. Mutha ndipo muthana ndi zowonjezera zanu ngati mungakhale ndi chidwi!
2.) Osataya miyezi yanu yoyamba. Zindikirani kuti muli ndi vuto lalikulu komanso kuti simukufuna kufika pazaka zanga ndikalibe namwali. Panthawi yomwe inu abwenzi ndikuyamba kukwatiwa ndikukhala ndi ana, ichi sichinthu chomwe mukufuna kuti chikhale pamwamba panu. Zindikirani vuto lanu, pewani zosewerera zolaula pa laputopu yanu, siyimitsani P, M ndi O kumalizaeley 100%, dont m'mphepete, osangokhala ndi peek, ingofafutani nyengo yanu!
3.) Ndili ndimunthu wovuta kwambiri ndipo ndimakonda kusewera (zabwino kwambiri) makhadi. Koma ndimatha kuyenda njanji ndikutaya ndalama zambiri kutchova juga pambali. Kamodzi pomwe ndinali wophunzira wosauka ndinkaponya ndalama zanga zonse kubanki - pafupifupi $ 8k - pamtengo wapamwamba wakuda. Iyi inali tani ya ndalama kwa ine panthawiyo. Wina patsamba lakutsogolo adandipatsa malangizo awa omwe ndidalemba paulendo uwu:

Mukayambiranso kuzindikira kuti ndi njira yadyera. Osamangokhala okhumudwa komanso okwiya, koma yang'anani pa anthu omwe mumawalekerera. M'malo otchova juga ndimaganiza za makolo anga omwe sakhala ndi ndalama zambiri koma amatha mkatikati m'matumbo kuti anditengere ku Uni ndipo ndawaza ndalama mumphindi za 10 kuposa zomwe amapeza m'miyezi ya 2. Momwe ndimaonera zolaula ndidaganiza za bwenzi langa lomwe wapita zaka 9 popanda kugonana ndipo sanandiyikepopo. Ndipo tengani malingaliro amenewo ndi kuwalumikiza iwo ndi kumverera kudwala uko pansi pa mimba yanu. Dziwani kuti mwawakhumudwitsa komanso dziwani kuti simudzachitanso chifukwa simudzafunanso kumva chonchi.

Ndikukuuzani chiyani, zomwe zimandigwira ntchito, zonse mu njuga komanso zolaula!

4.) Chitani zigawo zing'onozing'ono. Yesetsani kufikira mwezi. Ndiye nthawi zambiri zomwe zimatchulidwa za 90. Kenako mutha kuvomereza kuti mwina simunakonzekere koma mudutsa koyipitsitsa. Chifukwa chake khalani ndi mwezi wina kapena awiri. Ndi zina zotero. Musalole ziyembekezo zanu patsiku lachilendo kenako ndikuphululuka ngati simunakonzekere. Muli mmenemu kwa nthawi yayitali koma mumakhala oyera pambuyo pake.
5.) Pempherani. Ndikungokangana. Sindine wachipembedzo ndipo sindine mlaliki koma zimandithandiza. Munjira zambiri kunali kuwonjezerapo lingaliro la magazini. Zinapitiliza kuganizira kwambiri zolinga zanga ndipo zimandipatsa mphamvu kudziwa kuti wina akundiyang'ana ndikundipatsa mphamvu.
6.) Pomaliza, werengani nkhani yopambana apa yomwe mukugwirizana nayo kenako ndikudzipereka kukhala munthu amene amalemba nkhani yake mtsogolo. Izi zinandithandizadi. Pezani chidaliro mu kupambana kwa ena ndikudziwa motsimikiza kuti palibe chifukwa chomwe simungayendere zolaula.

Zikomo kwambiri powerenga ndi mapulogalamu ngati awa ndi aatali kwambiri. Ndipitilizabe kukonzanso zolemba zanga popeza zimachitika kwambiri. Koma ndikumva kuti tsopano ndili ndi zolaula, 90% zopeka MO zaulere (ndimapezabe zolimbikitsa), ndipo 100% yaulere namwali

Ngati wina ali ndi mafunso chonde funsani ndipo ine ndidzayankha.

Zabwino zonse

LINK - Namwali wazaka za 30 wazaka zonse wokhala ndi PIED, kuti agone m'masiku a 270.

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