Ndikulingalira mutuwo ukunena za kuchuluka kwa zomwe zili patsogolo pamalingaliro anga masiku ano! Ndili ndi chida chowerengera pafoni yanga ndipo ndinazindikira kuti chinali chaka tsiku lina ndikuganiza kuti 'ndizabwino!'
Ndine munthu wosiyana ndi zomwe ndidakhala chaka chimodzi kapena zapitazo.
Ndine wokwatiwa, koyambirira kwa 30s, ndili ndi mwana wazaka ziwiri komanso wina panjira. Ndiyenera kunena kuti kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga, ndikukhala mogwirizana ndi kuthekera komwe ndimadziwa kuti ndakhala ndikukumana nako.
Unalinso chaka chovuta kwambiri m'moyo wanga. Zinayamba molakwika mu Ogasiti 2013 pomwe wachibale wapamtima kwambiri anamwalira ndikuipiraipira nditataya ntchito (Yomwe idabwera ndi nyumba ndi chitetezo) ndikuyenera kusamukira mbali ina yadzikolo kukagwira ntchito.
Ndine wonyadira kuti pazonsezi ndichinthu chomwe ndakhala ndikumamatira.
Ndidamuuza mkazi wanga za miyezi 3 yapitayo ndipo anali wosangalala nazo. Anafufuza pa intaneti ndipo akhala akumuthandiza komanso kulimbikitsa. Ngati ndimakonda kugonana ndipo samakhala ndi malingaliro akuti azichita nthabwala kuti ayesetsa kuwona momwe ndasiya kuseweretsa maliseche. Chifukwa chake, ndibwino kuti titha kuseka za izi.
Kusintha kwakukulu kwakhala mukugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanga. Ndimakonda kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi banja langa ndipo sindimadikirira kuti aliyense agone kotero ndimatha kugogoda chimodzi chomwe chimatanthawuza kugona mochedwa kenako ndikatopa m'mawa ndiye kubwereza.
Ndakhala munthu wammawa!
Palibe, ndipo ndikutanthauza, SINDINAKHULUPIRITSE kuti izi zikadachitika. Ndimadzuka theka la ola pamaso pa wina aliyense, ndikumwa kapu yanga ya tiyi ndikupumulirani tsikulo. Ndimayamba kugwira ntchito pafupifupi theka la ola mola (Osachedwa mphindi 10 monga ndakhala ndikuchitira zaka) ndipo ngakhale zakhala zikuchitika chaka ndi chaka chino, ndine wokondwa.
Pambuyo pa kumwalira kwa banja ndikusowa ntchito, ndinapita kukaonana ndi khansala kuti ndikalankhulepo pomwe sindinatchulepo za kufalikira (sikunali vuto panthawiyo), zidandithandizira ndipo ndimalangiza izi kwa aliyense, ngakhale chimodzimodzi.
Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyomu chaka chatha komanso pang'ono, ndinali ndi zonama zoyambira pomwe ndimapita mwezi umodzi ndikubwereranso. Ndidayamba ulendowu mu Marichi 2013 ndipo ndidayamba kumene kupitirira chaka chapitacho.
Upangiri wanga kwa aliyense kuyambira kapena ali ndi vuto lakubwereranso umangopita nazo. Tsiku loyamba ndilovuta kwambiri, ndiye kuti tsiku lachiwiri ndilovuta kwambiri ndiye kuti tsiku lachitatu ndilovuta kwambiri mpaka tsiku limodzi, dzulo linali lovuta kwambiri. Kenako zimayamba kukhala zosavuta. Kwa ine, kuzungulira chizindikiro cha tsiku la 90-100 ndi pamene ndinayamba kusintha. Ndimamva kusilira kumasungunuka ndipo kunakhala kovuta.
Ngakhale, nditagonana kapena kupusitsika, ndimaganizirabe za omwe akuthamangitsayo ndikuyesetsa kudziwa kuti ndidzakhala ndi zilakolako tsiku lotsatira.
Sindingadutsenso zina zambiri pano chifukwa pali anthu abwinobwino omwe alankhula bwino kuposa ine omwe angakupatseni nkhani zawo, ndimangofuna kuti ndiphatikize pang'ono chaka chimodzi.
Ndinaima kubwera kuno tsiku lililonse kuzungulira tsiku la 90-100 ndipo nditadziwa kuti ndasiya kubwera kuno kwambiri, ndinadziwa kuti ndinali pa njira yoyenera.
Ngati muli patsiku 1, kapena tsiku 1000, tsiku lotsatira nthawi zonse limakhala lotheka kukwera. Koma kunena zowona, ndikofunikira kuyesetsa ndipo sindinabwerere.
LINK - Chaka chimodzi masiku awiri.
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LIPOTI LA MASIKU 90 - Lipoti la masiku 93 lochokera kwa m'modzi mwa akuluakulu! Ndakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri ndipo ndaphonya masiku 90!
Mbiri - Ndili ndi zaka 30, ndakhala m'banja kwa zaka ziwiri ndipo ndili ndi mkazi wanga kwa zaka 7. Tili ndi ubale wabwino kwambiri womwe unayesedwa chaka chapitacho pobadwa kwa mwana wathu watsopano. Mwana ndi wokongola, wodabwitsa komanso chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe chidatichitikirapo, koma kusowa tulo kunativutitsa ndipo tinakumana ndi mavuto kwa miyezi 9 yoyambirira. Tinayamba kusangalala pambuyo pake ndipo chilichonse chayamba kukonzedwanso. Ndinganene kuti sitinabwererenso ku moyo wabwinobwino, komanso tili bwino komanso amphamvu kuposa kale lonse.
Mbiri yanga yakale imayamba ndili ndi zaka pafupifupi 12 kapena 13. Ndikukumbukira kuti panali magazini ya tv yomwe inali ndi malonda obisika kumbuyo komwe kuli atsikana ooneka ngati mabulogu owoneka bwino otsatsa imodzi mwanjira zazikulu. Ndimakumbukirabe nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinayenda. Ndinadabwa kwathunthu koma ndinamva bwino. Kuchokera pamenepo, zidangokhala zomwe zinali mmoyo wanga masiku awiri kapena atatu, koma nthawi zambiri kamodzi kapena kawiri patsiku. Kamodzi mumwezi wabuluu, ndi chinthu chomwe chingakhale kangapo patsiku.
Nthawi zonse ndimakhala wanzeru kwambiri ndipo ndimakhala bwino m'moyo, koma ndimadziwa kuti nthawi zambiri ndimachita zochepa kuti ndipeze ndalama. Bwana wina adandiuzapo kuti ndikakhala pa fomu, ndimagwira bwino ntchito ku kampani yathu yopitilira 300, koma ndikakhala kuti sindinasangalale, ndinali wopanda ntchito. Mapiri ndi zikho. Palibe kusasinthasintha.
Sindinakhalepo ndi vuto lalikulu ndi akazi ndisanakumane ndi mkazi wanga, koma miyezo yanga inali yokwera kwambiri ndipo ndinaphonya mwayi wochepa womwe ukadakhala mwayi wabwino, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndi momwe zimachitikira. Ulendo wanga udatha kuno, komwe ndili wokondwa.
Kufotokozera momveka bwino
Zolaula zanga nthawi zonse zinali za anthu osamvera ndipo nthawi zonse ndimakonda latex, zovala zonyezimira ndi nsapato . Zinadutsa nthawi zina zomwe zinayamba kukhala zachilendo chifukwa zinthu zachizolowezi sizinkandipangitsa kukhumudwa. Sindinasangalalepo ndi kugonana monga kale pokhapokha ngati mkazi wanga akuvala zovala zabwino ndipo ndinaona kuti kugonana kwachibadwa kunali kokhumudwitsa.
Tsiku lina ndikusakatula bokosi langa latsopano la zolaula (Zikomo kwa Reddit!), Ndinakumana ndi YBOP ndipo ndinalibe mafayilo.
Ndidalira. Ndinalira chifukwa ndinadziwa kuti ndili ndi vuto. Ndidayesapo kuyima kangapo koma sizinadutse masiku angapo. Ndinadziwa kuyambira pomwepo, ndisintha. Zinali pafupifupi miyezi 8 yapitayo ndipo ndimawona masiku 93 apano ngati chiyambi cha kusintha kumeneku.
Kuthamanga koyamba kunali kosavuta. Ndinalimbikitsidwa kwambiri. Zinali zabwino. Kenako adayambiranso atabwereranso kwa miyezi ingapo. Kenako ndinali pa 30-day day streak (ndinali ndisanadutse masiku 30) ndikupita kutchuthi kwa masabata a 3 komwe ndinalibe intaneti (ndimatcha izi ndikuchita Nofap pamachitidwe achinyengo!). Ndidabwerako ndili ndi masiku opitilira 50 pansi pa lamba wanga ndipo ndidadziwa kuti nambala imeneyo inali yayikulu kwambiri kuti ndingaleke. Nditha kukhala ndikutaya masiku 30, ndidapeza kuti ndikosavuta kufikira masiku a 30, koma masiku a 50-china chinali choyesayesa chachikulu kuwononga. Ndapezeka ndikupanga maulemu kangapo ndikuti "Bwerani, simukufuna kutaya masiku a xx. Ndinu abwino kuposa izi ndipo mukudziwa. ” Ndinalonjeza kuti ndizimitsa kompyuta ndipo ngati ndikadafunabe kutha mu mphindi 10, ndikhoza. Koma sindinatero. Kapena osachepera!
Superpowers
Amuna ambiri pano amalankhula zamphamvu. Ndidazindikira patadutsa sabata, ndimayang'aniridwa pang'ono m'malo ogulitsira ndi ena. Zinali zabwino kwa ego, koma mphamvu zenizeni zinali zoyendetsa mwadzidzidzi zogonana. Mkazi amayenera kundiyimitsa ndikumamuvutitsa zogonana nthawi zonse popeza zimayamba kumuchulukira! Kugonana kwakhala kodabwitsa, talumikizana kwambiri ndipo Dick wanga wakhala wolimba ngati mwala nthawi yomwe tidagonana! Bwino kuposa boma lopanda pake nthawi zina limatha. Kwa anyamata okwatirana kunja uko omwe sanapiteko sabata yopanda, perekani mwezi umodzi kuti muwone zomwe zimachitika! Simudzakhalanso konse!
Pakunena izi, ndimadziwa za omwe akuthamangitsayo komanso kuti masiku ogonana atatha anali 'masiku owopsa'. Chifukwa chake ndimakhala tcheru kuti ndipewe chilichonse chomwe chingayambitse zovuta zanga ndikungokhala ndi mndandanda wazinthu zodalirika m'malo mozizika pachikwama changa. Kuti mwina mwake.
Mphamvu zenizeni zanga zakhala zomveka. Ndilibe utsi wamaubongo, ndili wolimbikitsidwa ndipo ndili ndi mphamvu zambiri. Ndimadzuka 6am m'mawa uliwonse (m'malo mwa mphindi 10 ndisanatuluke mnyumbamo), ndimagona ola limodzi loyenera komanso wamphamvu kuposa onse - Ndine wokondwa. Wokondwa kwambiri.
Kusintha Maganizo Tsopano ndili wokondwa, koma pafupifupi tsiku la 50-70, ndinakhala ndi kusintha kwakukulu kwa maganizo ndipo ndinamva ngati ndili pansi pa mtambo mphindi imodzi ndipo ndinasangalala kwambiri mphindi ina. Zinali zovuta kuthana nazo. Ndimaganiza kuti ichi ndi 'poizoni' womaliza kuchoka muubongo wanga wa zolaula ndi ubongo wanga watsopano ukubwera ndikuchita zomwe ukufuna.
Ngati mukukumana ndikusintha kwamalingaliro, ndizovuta, koma zimadutsa. Ndimatsitsimuka mukadziwa kuti zatha.
Moyo wanga watsopano
Chabwino. Chasintha ndi chiyani?
Zambiri.
Ogwira ntchito mwanzeru (bwana wosiyana ndi womaliza kutchulidwa), abwana anga adandiuza masabata awiri apitawo awona kusintha kwenikweni. Nthawi zonse amaganiza kuti ndine waulesi koma ndasintha masewera anga ndipo zinthu zakhala zodabwitsa. Ndi bizinesi yaying'ono ndipo abwana alibe ana omwe akufuna kuyendetsa. Takhala tikukambirana m'masabata angapo apitawa za ine kugula bizinesi zaka 2 akafuna kupuma pantchito. Si bizinesi yamadola mamiliyoni ambiri, koma ili m'gawo lapamwamba la ziwerengero za 5 potengera chiwongola dzanja. Ndimanena kuti ubongo wanga ndi zolaula ndipo chifunga chatha. Ndalimbikitsidwa kuti ndichite bwino.
Ndayambanso bizinesi yaying'ono yamlungu yomwe idayamba sabata yatha. Yayamba kundipangira ndalama mazana angapo kumapeto kwa sabata ndipo ngati ndingayikakamize, mwina imatha kubweretsa $ 1,000 pamasiku awiri. Sindikufuna kuyikankhira chifukwa ndimakonda nthawi yanga ndi banja langa 😉 Koma, ino ndi nthawi yomwe ndimatha kuyang'ana zolaula - ndimagwiritsa ntchito kupanga bizinesi yaying'ono iyi.
Yemwe ndalankhula naye za nofap
Palibe aliyense. Ndikumva chisoni ndi izi. Ndinkachita manyazi kwambiri kugawana ndi mkazi wanga kapena anzanga. Ndidakali. Ndi zamanyazi zomwe ndakhala ndikuchita kuyambira ndili mwana ndipo ndikufuna kuti ndimuuze, koma sindikudziwa kuti ndingathe. Sili kolemetsa kenanso, ingofuna kuti mugawane nawo kupambana.
njira
Kusinkhasinkha ndi yoga ndi abwenzi anga atsopano. Ndinayesa chinthu chozizira chozizira, koma sindine wovuta kwambiri! Ndikulemba mndandanda wazinthu zomwe ndikufuna kuchita ndikuphunzira ndikusunga papepala. Ndidalembetsa ku lynda.com ndipo ndachita zonse zoyipa zomwe ndidati ndizichita koma sindinachite. Tsopano nditha kulembetsa masamba awebusayiti bwino, ndimachita bwino ndi Java, ndikuphunzira kujambula ndikumaliza, ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yomwe ndimakhala ndikupanga china chake chaluso.
Chifukwa chake, ndachiritsidwa!
Kodi ndimasilira. Ndasintha kangapo m'masiku 90 apitawa, ngakhale osati pafupifupi milungu iwiri. Ndayang'ana zolaula pang'ono, koma ndine wokondwa kunena kuti sizinandichitire chilichonse. Zinali zodabwitsa, zosangalatsa.
Sindikuganiza kuti ndidzachiritsidwa. Ndikuopa kuti fap imodzi ibweretsa nyumba yamakhadi yomwe ndamanga. Ndapereka ndalama zambiri m'tsogolo mwanga kuti ndidzayambitsenso ubongo wa ubongo ndipo ndimakondwera kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimakondera PMO. Ndikumva ngati malingaliro anga amathamanga momasuka kwambiri ndipo liwiro langa ndikumveka kwamaganizidwe ndipamwamba kwambiri.
Chifukwa chake, chotsatira
Masiku 94. Ndichoncho. Palibe chandamale, palibe mapeto. Ndikuganiza kuti pamapeto pake ndakankha zojambulazo ndipo ndakhala ndikumenya zolaula.
Ndamasuka. Ndikumva ngati ndamasulidwa m'ndende ndikuloledwa kukhala ndekha. Ndimayang'ana m'mbuyo pazaka 15 zapitazi za moyo wanga, osati monga kuwonongera, monganso mwayi wina waphonya. Osandilakwitsa, ndakhala ndi moyo wabwino mpaka pano zokumana nazo zabwino, koma zitha kukhala zabwino kwambiri komanso zokumana nazo zabwino.
Pepani yayitali kwambiri. Tikukhulupirira kuti anyamata ena okwatirana pano atha kulimbikitsidwa ndi nkhaniyi!
Ndili wokondwa. Mkazi wanga ndi wokondwa. Bwana wanga ali wokondwa. Ndimachita zinthu ndipo ndimachita zinthu mwadongosolo. Kumene kunali theka-abulu ndi chisokonezo, tsopano pali zolimbikitsa komanso bata.
Tithokoze chifukwa chotsatira izi mpaka kumapeto!
TL; DR Ndidayimitsa kusewera masiku a 93 ndipo yasintha moyo wanga mopitilira muyeso.