Lero, baji yanga ya NoFap imawerengera masiku a 50. Kutalika kwambiri komwe ndapita kopanda zithunzi zolaula kapena kusefa MOYO wanga.
Zowona kuti ndapanga izi mpaka pano ndi umboni wotsimikizika kwa ine kuti ALIYENSE akhoza kusiya.
Ulendo wautali kuti ufike pomwepa. Ndine wazaka 40. Wokonda zolaula zaka 25. Moyo wanga wakhala wokhumudwitsa kosatha ndikusowa mwayi.
Ndakhala ndikuyesera kusiya PMO ndikukhalitsa moyo wanga zaka 2.
Pambuyo pazaka za 2 zobwereranso osatha, zoyesayesa zalephera, ndikupumanso, kufika masiku 50 zidawoneka ngati zosatheka kwa ine.
Nditapeza / r / nofap ndikuwona anthu omwe afika masiku 90… masiku 120… masiku 365… zimawoneka ngati nthano zopeka zasayansi.
Sindinadziwone kuti ndine m'modzi mwa anthu odabwitsawa omwe ndimatha kuchita zosatheka.
Nthawi zonse ndimangoganiza kuti anyamata awa (komanso atsikana) anali ndi zosokoneza kwambiri. Zoti akhala akupanga zaka zochepa kwambiri kuposa ine. Kuti ndiopangidwa ndi chitsulo champhamvu kuposa ine ndipo ali ndi mphamvu zomwe ndilibe.
Eya, ndatsimikizira kuti ndalakwitsa. Ndipo ndine wokondwa kwambiri!
"Zokhumudwitsa" zonse zimandithandizira kuzindikira mwatsatanetsatane momwe kubwerera m'mbuyo kumamvekera. Chingwe, kubwereranso kumayambiranso masiku osanayambiranso. Kuzindikira zomwe zimayambitsa ndikuwona masinthidwe a zochitika, kuwoneka, malingaliro kumabweretsa kubwereranso ndi chidwi, miyala yozindikira kuti musayandikire zinthu izi ndi zomwe zandilola kufikira pano.
Izi ndikudziwa kuti ngati sindileka tsopano ndikukhala moyo wanga limodzi… ndichedwa kuti ndichedwa. Panalidi lingaliro loti, "chabwino, HIQP, mwayenda mozungulira… NDI NTHAWI".
Ndikudziwa masiku 50 sindiwo pomwe NoFap yanga isanakhale chiyambi - Machiritso anga atenga miyezi yambiri ndikukonzekera kutuluka.
KOMA, ndimangofuna kutumiza ndikukudziwitsani nonse kuti ZIKUTHEKA kusiya njira zolaula ndikujambula. Ufulu ndiwotheka!
Chifukwa chake, za Ufulu. Ndayamba kale kutengera zomwe zimamva. Nayi chiyambi:
Ufulu ku Manyazi
Palibe kalikonse, pakompyuta yanga, kapena pa ma hard drive aliwonse omwe angandichititse manyazi ndikapezeka. Ndimatha kuyang'ana aliyense m'maso ndikudziwa kuti palibe chomwe ndingabise komanso palibe chochititsa manyazi. (Dziwani: Sindimayang'ana nthawi zonse koma zikuyenda bwino tsiku lililonse)
Kumasulidwa ku kuda nkhawa
Ndikutcha kuti KUPHUNZITSA. Ngakhale sindikanadzitcha kuti wopanda nkhawa tsopano… pali kuunika pa za moyo wanga komanso kulimba mtima za tsogolo langa zomwe sindinamvepo kale. Ndi chiyembekezo, chiyembekezo, chiyembekezo chabwino, komanso kunyada mwa ine zonse pamodzi zimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndili ndi zinthu zazikulu mtsogolo mmoyo wanga!
Ufulu ku Kukhumudwa
Monga munthu amene walimbana ndi vuto la kuvutika maganizo kuyambira ndili mwana (YES, ndikuwona kulumikizidwa kosagwirizana ndi zolaula ndi kusefa), nditha kunena kuti ndikuyamba kukhala ndi chithunzi chamunthu wabwino, ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito zovuta m'moyo wanga, ndikuti kulola kupsinjika kumandipangitsa kukhala wankhanza kapena wopanda chiyembekezo ngati kale. Mwanjira ina, ndimakhala wokhumudwa pang'ono. Ndimachitanso zolimbitsa thupi tsiku lililonse ndikusinkhasinkha ndipo izi zikuthandizira kwambiri.
Ufulu ku Mantha
Sindinadziganizirepo ngati munthu wokhala ndi nkhawa za chikhalidwe cha anthu, koma ndimada nkhawa ndi chilichonse ndipo zonse zimayamba kundipweteka. ZONSE ZONSE NDI ZONSE. Anthu akulira, mokweza mawu, malo akulu, magetsi owala, mwadzidzidzi, ngakhale mayendedwe odabwitsa. Anthu osankhika, anthu opusa, anthu onenepa. Panalibe mathero a zinthu zomwe zimangofika pamitsempha yanga!
Tsopano ndikuwona kuti mitsempha yanga ikhoza kutenga zomwe ndimaganizira kale ndikukweza komanso sindimakwiya kale. Pali kusokonezeka pang'ono komanso zisokonezo m'matumbo mwanga zokhudzana ndi zochitika zina, anthu ena, nthawi yofikira, maudindo obwera.
Ufulu ku Want
Tiyeni tizitche “Kusasamala Kwa Akazi” Osati mwachipongwe, (ngakhale izi zikuchitikabe)… Sindikusamala ayi.
Poyamba inali nkhondo yoyera yoyang'ana kutali ndikamawona mtsikana wokhala ndi mawonekedwe abwino kapena nkhope yokongola - pa intaneti kapena panokha. Tsopano, ndimangoyang'ana kutali chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti ndi ubongo wanga wokha womwe umadziponyera wekha mwayi wa kugunda kwa dopamine.
Kodi ndidzasangalalanso ndi mtsikana wokongola tsiku lina? Zedi. Kodi ndidzasangalalanso ndi bulu wamkulu tsiku lina? Mwina. Chofunikira ndikuti ... zilibe kanthu.
Kusayanjanitsika uku ndiumodzi mwa ufulu wanga womwe ndimakonda kwambiri! Ingoganizirani kukhala moyo wopanda chilichonse chomwe chimakuchititsani kugonana. Palibe kumangika kwenikweni pamoyo, kopanda mawonekedwe okondeka kwambiri paphwando, palibe mtsikana wokongola wamaloto. Palibe chomwe chimanditaya ine kuchokera ku sangfroid yanga.
Nditha kupezeka ndikusintha moyo monga zimachitikira ndi kukhazikika, osadziphatika. Zimandisangalatsa. Ngati izi zikuwoneka bwino ... ndilembetseni kwa moyo wanga wonse.
Pa mbiriyi, tsiku lina ndikuganiza kuti ndidzakhalanso ndi mtsikana. Koma nditatha zomwe ndakhala ndikudandaula ndi zolaula, kukula, maubwenzi olephera, kusweka mtima, ED, PE ... Ndikungofuna kupuma kwanthawi yayitali kuchokera kuzonsezi.
Chifukwa chake ndikuchita izi “zovuta” ndipo ndi njira yabwino kwambiri kwa ine.
Ufulu ku Inertia
Zokwanira kunena kuti ndakhala ndikufa ziwalo moyo wanga wonse. Masiku omaliza a 50 andiona ndasiya zizolowezi zanga nthawi yayitali. Ndayambanso kuwerenga MABUKU. Ndayamba kusinkhasinkha kawiri tsiku lililonse. Ndakhala ndikupanga maumboni kawiri tsiku lililonse. Ndayamba ngakhale masewera olimbitsa thupi opepuka kunyumba.
Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga ndimachita zinthu zatsiku ndi tsiku ngakhale sindimakonda. Kunyada ndi malingaliro oti ndakwaniritsa zomwe zimabwera chifukwa chokhala ndi chizolowezi chochita zinthu za tsiku ndi tsiku Zomwe Mungachite, m'njira zambiri, ndizokhutiritsa kuposa zomwe ndimapeza pozichita.
Kusintha uku kumamveka kosafunikira, koma kumbukirani kuti sindinali chinthu china koma mipando yomwe imakhala ndi ubongo kwa moyo wanga wonse wachikulire.
Ndipo ndi chiyambi chabe cha njira zanga zochira. Ndili pa masiku 50 okha!
Tithokoze powerenga izi.
Pali zambiri zoti zanenedwe ndipo ndikutsimikiza kuti ndakwatula. Ndine wokondwa chifukwa chogonjera kumeneku chifukwa cha kudzoza konse. YBOP ndi / r / nofap zakhala njira yanga yodutsamo ndikayamba kudzichiritsa ndekha ndikudzilowetsa mwa Munthu sindinakhalepo ndi mwayi wokhala m'moyo.
Tikukhulupirira, pamene ndikupita patsogolo ndikuyambiranso, nditha kupitiliza kulimbikitsa ena ngati ndingathe.
Khalani olimba, limodzi ndi onse.
*Powombetsa mkota:
Zaka 40 zakubadwa - kukula zaka zolaula 25 zaka - zaka 2 zolephera zoyambiranso -
Pomaliza masiku a 50 nofap!
Maubwino omwe akuyamba koma zabwino kwambiri.
Mutha kuchita izi!
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