Zaka 60 - Ndinapezanso kugonana kwanga; Pamapeto pake nditha kukondana ndi mkazi wanga osaganizira zolaula

Masiku a 100 apitawa ndinali ndi vuto lokonda zolaula ndipo ndidatenga tsiku la 30. Zinali zovuta m'masiku oyambilira ndipo ndidatsamira anthu ambiri pano kuti andipatse upangiri ndi thandizo. Nanga ndaphunzira chiyani kuti nditha kupatsira ena?

Choyamba, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuzindikira pachiyambi ndikuti NDINU achiwerewere. Osadzipusitsa poyesa kungodula kapena kuyerekezera kuti mutha kuchiritsidwa ndikuti tsiku lina zidzakhalanso zotetezeka kuti muwonere zolaula. Werengani zonse zomwe zalembedwa pano, makamaka nkhani zopambana komanso zolemba zomwe zikufotokozera zomwe zolaula zimakhudza ubongo wanu. Kugwiritsa ntchito maola ochepa kubwaloli tsiku lililonse koyambirira sikungokupangitsani inu, kukupangitsani kuti mugwiritse ntchito intaneti nthawi yosawonera zolaula. Muyenera kufika poti mumvetsetse momwe zolaula zimakhudzira ubongo wanu ndikudzipangira lonjezo lokonzanso zomwe zawonongeka.

Phunziro lachiwiri kwa ine linali loti ndichite zinthu zatsopano zomwe sizikuphatikizapo kuyang'ana pa intaneti- kudzipereka pantchito zantchito, kuwonjezera, kuyambiranso kukonzanso nyumba ndi zitsanzo zochepa. Kuchotsa nthawi yanu kutali ndi ziyeso zolaula ndikofunikira masiku oyambirira. Ngati mungayesedwe mukakhala pamzere ingopita molunjika ku bwaloli mpaka chilakolakocho chitatha kapena mukasamba madzi ozizira, mutuluke mnyumba ... ..

Phunziro lachitatu kwa ine ndidali kugwiritsa ntchito bwino kuchokera pakumenya zolaula ngati chilimbikitso chofuna kupitiliza zovuta zina. Ndinaganiza zoyamba kukhala wokhazikika komanso kuchepetsa thupi. Musayese izi molawirira, ndinayamba zovuta zanga zowonjezereka nditakumana ndi cholinga changa cha tsiku la 30.

Phunziro lachinayi kwa ine linali kufunika kouza ena malingaliro anu. Ndili ndi mwayi kukhala ndi mkazi wachikondi yemwe wandichirikiza paulendo wonse watsiku la 100. Kungowauza wina zonse zakusuta kwanu ndikukhala ndi chidwi chodzimangirira kumakweza mapewa anu. Kumbukirani kuti simuli nokha paulendowu, ngati mulibe mnzanu, bwenzi kapena mlangizi woti mulankhule naye, ingotumizani PM kwa winawake pa tsambali.

Phunziro lachisanu kwa ine limasinthira kukhala a PMO omasuka m'dziko lozunguliridwa ndi zithunzi zolaula, kuphulika kwa malonda ndikusankha kopanda kwachinyengo komwe kumatulutsa ulalo wokhala ndi zolaula patsamba lanu. Pang'onopang'ono ndinazindikira kuti ndimakonda kuwona mkazi aliyense, weniweni kapena wowoneka ngati pixel ngati mutu wokhoza zolaula chifukwa malingaliro anga anali mumaganizo opitilira kugonana. Pambuyo pa masiku a 100 a PMO aulere, ubongo wanga ukulemedwa ndi zithunzi zolaula ndipo malingaliro anga oyamba ndikakumana ndi wina watsopano ndikudziwana nawo monga munthu komanso osaganizira za iwo zogonana. Inde mutha kuthana ndi izi ndikuwona mwana wotentha pagombe ndikusilira kukongola kwake kwachilengedwe m'njira yopanda kugonana. Mutha kuwonanso makanema mwamanyazi komanso mungogwirizanitsa zomwe zawonekera ndi chiwembucho.

Phunziro lomaliza kwa ine linali loti ndizindikiranso zakugonana kwanga ndikuphunzira momwe ndingapangire chikondi kwa mkazi wanga popanda zolaula zomwe zidapangitsa kuti azisangalala. Mutha kusangalala kwambiri m'chipinda chogona popanda zolaula pazenera ndipo koposa zonse mulibe zolaula pamutu panu. Inde zimatenga nthawi komanso kuleza mtima kwambiri koma chisangalalo kuchokera pakupanga zolaula chopanda zolaula chimapitilira kufupika kwakanthawi kuchokera kwa PMO ndipo ngati bonasi yowonjezerapo simukupeza kuti PMO ali wolakwa kapena wopanda pake.

Ndiye patatha masiku 100 ndikumva bwanji pakadali pano? Maganizo anga ndi omveka bwino, ndinkangoyendayenda mu utsi pakati pa magawo a PMO. Ndimachita bwino kwambiri chifukwa sindimataya nthawi pa PMO. Ndikumva kuti ndine wolimba, wolimba mtima komanso ndimakhala mwamtendere ndi ine ndekha. Chodandaula changa ndikuti zidanditengera nthawi yayitali kuti ndifike kuno koma mochedwa kuposa kale. Ndasankha kuti ndisakhazikitsenso kauntala yanga ndi cholinga china chanthawi yayitali, pokhapokha atapanga chisankho cha "Moyo wanga wonse"

Ndikukhulupirira kuti maphunzirowa akukuthandizani, ngati mukuwerengabe positi yayitali ndiye kuti mufunika thandizo!

Khalani athanzi abwenzi anga ”…………

Lingham

ulusi: Masiku a 100 ndingaphunzire maphunziro otani?

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