Tikukhulupirira kuti izi zimathandiza amuna onga ine omwe samadziwa kuti ali ndi vuto kufikira atakula. Ndinayamba PMO ndili ndi 13 ndikuganiza kuti zinali zachilendo. Abambo anga adandigulirako P mag ndipo ndimatha kuwona P pa intaneti komanso njira zosasangalatsa, ha. Sindinaganize kuti ndili ndi vuto kwazaka zambiri chifukwa ine PMO mwina mwina 2-3 pa sabata.
Koma ndinazindikira zaka 4 zapitazo kuti ndinali ndi vuto chifukwa Sindingathe kuyimitsa PMO ngakhale pomwe ndimafuna. Ndimamva ngati bulu chifukwa ndinali 30+ yo ndikudzigwira, ngakhale ndili ndi gf. Nthawi zina ndimangoyang'ana pa P osakhala wowopsa. Ndidayesetsa kuyima zaka 4 zapitazi ndikuyesera chilichonse kuchokera kwa omwe amatsata, kulemba zolinga, kukhala otanganidwa, azimayi osiyana, kuyankhula ndi anyamata ena za kuima, kusinkhasinkha, chilichonse.
Tsoka ilo, chilimwechi ndidapeza zinthu zonga Zolaula (pachimake pofewa) pa piritsi langa la mwana wa 8. Ndidalankhula naye za izi ndipo ndidamva chisoni atandiuza momwe sangathandizire kuyang'ana kapena kutulutsa m'mutu mwake. Ndidamuuza kuti P sinali njira yothanirana ndi malingaliro azakugonana komanso kuti kukumana ndi atsikana pamasom'pamaso ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yochitira izi ndipo ndili pano kuti ndimuthandizenso. Anamvetsetsa ndipo tsopano ndimayang'anira zamagetsi (zomwe sindimamulola kuti azigwiritsa ntchito tsopano) kwambiri.
Komabe, izi zidandipatsa mphamvu komanso chilimbikitso chomwe ndimafunikira kuti ndiyimitse PM (O ndi mkazi) zabwino. Sindinkafuna kukhala wachinyengo ndi mwana wanga ndipo ndimangofuna kuchotsa P ndi M zomwe zidandipangitsa kumva kuwawa.
Ndikumva bwino tsopano ndikuwongolera ndipo lingaliro la PM likuwoneka lachilendo kwa ine. Madalitso onse omwe timamva ndiowona. Kotero ndine wokondwa kuti ndipitirizabe kwamuyaya. Aliyense amene awerenga izi, mutha kutero. Ndinaganiza kuti ndizosapeweka kuti ndikhale PMO kwa moyo wanga wonse, koma pamapeto pake ndidayima kwakanthawi komanso ndichikhulupiriro chambiri kuposa kale.
Ingoyang'anirani zoyambitsa monga kusungulumwa, kunyong'onyeka, ndi kutopa. Ndipo ngati muli ndi mnzanu khalani weniweni ndi iwo. Ndidauza mayi anga kuti sindingayang'ane P kapena chilichonse pafupi ndi icho ndipo amandithandiza. Adzakhala onyadira nanu ndipo amakulemekezani kwambiri.
Khalani ndi moyo wabwino!
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