Chifukwa chake ndidapanga masiku 90 masiku angapo apitawa. Iyi ndi nthawi yachiwiri yomwe ndachita masiku 90. Ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi zolaula kwa zaka zoposa zitatu. Sindinadziwe kuti poyamba ndinali wosuta, koma nditazindikira kuti ndinali ndi PIED, ndinaganiza zosiya zolaula ndikuchita maliseche, ndipo ndinayenera kunena, sizinali zophweka. Zomwe ndapeza ndikuti kulimbika kuli ngati minofu, mukamayigwiritsa ntchito kwambiri, imalimba. Ndikuganiza kuti kwa anthu ambiri, zimatenga nthawi kuti zolaula zitheke. Koma ndikulonjeza kuti mukamanena kuti "ayi" pakulakalaka, kumakhala kosavuta kunenanso nthawi ina mukadzakopeka. Chifukwa chake musataye mtima chifukwa pakapita nthawi, mphamvu zanu zidzakulirakulira ndikutsimikiza mtima kwanu.
Ndimalimbikitsidwabe nthawi ndi nthawi, ndipo amatha kukhala nane mpaka kalekale. Koma zakhala motalika kwambiri ndipo ndakhala ndikudandaula kwambiri kotero kuti ndikudwaladi ndi zolaula ndipo sindimamva kuti ndikulamulira moyo wanga. Ndikudziwa tsopano kuti kugonja pakulakalaka kwamtundu uliwonse, ngakhale kungoyang'ana mtundu pa IG kapena kutsitsa tinder kachiwiri, kudzayambiranso ku kubwerera komweko komwe kumatsatiridwa ndikusowa chiyembekezo komanso kukhumudwa.
Sindinkafuna kulemba izi chifukwa ndinkafuna kuthana ndi mavuto onse omwe ndakhala ndikulowerera ndisanafike. Tsoka ilo ndikulimbana ndi zowawa zambiri zam'mimba ndi zovuta zomwe ndikuganiza kuti mwina zikukhudzana ndi vutoli, chifukwa chake sindili komwe ndikufuna kukhalapo.
Ndine wachibadwidwe wopanda chiyembekezo, ndipo ngakhale kuti zizolowezi zanga zolaula zawononga ubale wanga ndi anthu ena, ndipo zandipangitsa kuti ndiphonye mwayi, ndaphunzira kuwona zabwino zomwe zimabweretsa izi moyo wanga. Chizoloŵezi changa choonera zolaula ndichimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe ndidakhalira wokonda zauzimu, ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti zimabweretsa "kudzuka kwanga kwauzimu", komwe kwabweretsa chisangalalo chochuluka komanso chabwino m'moyo wanga, ndipo chandiika malo abwinopo oti ndiyambe kupereka chikondi ndi chithandizo chochuluka kwa anthu omwe ndimawakonda. Kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yambiri kuti ndikulitse moyo wanga wauzimu m'malo mowonera zolaula kapena kuseweretsa maliseche mwina ndiye zifukwa zazikulu zomwe ndidafikira masiku 90. Ndidasiya chizolowezi choyipa chomwe chandibweza m'mbuyo ndichizolowezi chabwino chomwe sichimangondipindulitsa ine komanso anthu mmoyo wanga. Sindingapitirire kukula mu uzimu wonse koma ngati mumawakonda, r / uzimu ndi malo abwino oyamba.
China chabwino ndichakuti ndimatha kuwongolera kwambiri moyo wanga, komanso ndekha monga munthu. Ndimatha kubwerera ndikutenga nthawi kuti ndizimvetse ndekha komanso chifukwa chake ndimachita zinthu zina. Nditha kuwongolera zomwe ndikulakalaka, komanso kuzindikira bwino ndikamachita zinthu zomwe sizindipindulira ine kapena wina. Zowawa zam'mimba zomwe ndakhala nazo zandipangitsa kuchita zambiri zolimbitsa, yoga komanso kusamalira thupi langa zomwe ndimawona kuti sizingachitike mwanjira ina. Kwenikweni, ndaphunzira kuti ndisakhale mnkhanza pazinthu zoyipa zomwe zimandichitikira, koma kuwona kuti zikuchitikadi kwa ine kuti ndizitha kuzithetsa ndikukhala wamphamvu, wabwino, wathanzi komanso zambiri munthu wozungulira.
Ndine wotsimikiza kwambiri panonso, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti zikuwonetsa. Ndimasamala kwambiri zomwe anthu amaganiza ndipo ndimadzikonda kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndikudandaula za momwe anthu ena amaganizira za ine, ndipo ndimadzifunsa kuti "Dikira kaye, bwanji ndichifukwa chiyani ndimasamala zomwe amaganiza?" Ndimavutika kwambiri ndimavuto azikhalidwe ndipo mwachilengedwe ndimada nkhawa kwambiri ndi momwe anthu amandionera, koma ndimawona ngati ndikuyamba kudzipangira zinthu tsopano, kuti ndisakwaniritse ziyembekezo za anthu ena. Ndimavala momwe ndimafunira, ndimachita zinthu zomwe ndimakonda kuchita, ndikumacheza ndi anthu omwe ndimawakonda kwambiri, ndipo ndimakhala omasuka kwambiri ndi ine chifukwa. Ndinapita ndi anzanga usiku watha, ndipo ndinatsiriza kuvina ndikupanga ndi mtsikana yemwe ndi wokongola kwambiri. Sindinakhale ndi chidaliro chochita izi kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo ndikuganiza zidandiwonetsa kuti mukakhala omasuka ndikudzidalira ndikusiya kusamala kwambiri zomwe anthu okuzungulirani amaganiza, anthu amatha kuzindikira izi ndi amakopeka ndi zimenezo. Ndili ndi SC ya atsikanayo ndipo tikukonzekera kukumana :)
Mfundo inanso ndikuti PIED yanga yapita kwathunthu. Kugonana ndibwino kwambiri kwa ine tsopano. Ndizowona bwino kwambiri poyerekeza ndi zolaula zomwe zimangowoneka bwino ndipo chifukwa chake zimakonda. Kugonana ndikuyembekeza kukhala ndi chidziwitso chofananira ndi zomwe zimapereka zolaula kumangobweretsa kusakhutira ndi PIED. Koma popita nthawi mudzaphunzira kukonda momwe mumayenera kukhalira.
Mwachidule zonse zomwe ndaphunzira pankhondo yanga yopitilira:
- Kumbukirani kuti pakapita nthawi, mudzalimba, choncho ngati mwayambiranso pakadali pano, musataye chiyembekezo chifukwa chodabwitsa ndichakuti muli ndi mwayi wina wothana ndi zomwe zingachitike nthawi ina ikadzabwera, ndipo ndi nthawi yomwe zimakhala zosavuta.
- Palibe zifukwa. Kwenikweni chilichonse chomwe chingayambitse kuyambiranso, sichingafunsidwe, palibe kusiyanitsa, palibe zifukwa. Mukudziwa nokha ndipo mukudziwa kuti kuyang'ana pa msungwanayo pa IG kumangokupangitsani kuti mumalize patsamba la lalanje ndi lakuda, ndiye bwanji mukuvutikira? Osayesa ngakhale kudzipangira nokha.
- Ndi njira yophunzirira. Pakapita nthawi muphunzira zomwe zimayambitsa, zomwe zimakugwirirani ntchito popewa komanso momwe zolaula zakhudzira moyo wanu. Zanditengera nthawi yayitali kuti ndiwone zinthu zomwe zandikhudza ine ndipo zimandivutitsa kuti ndizione koma zimangondilimbikitsa kuti ndisinthe ndikukhala munthu wabwino.
- Kutaya malingaliro a wozunzidwayo. Izi zikuchitika kwa inu, osati kwa inu. Ganizirani momwe mudzakhalire olimba mtima komanso olimba mtima mukamenya izi. Sindinachite izi kuti ndipeze atsikana ambiri kapena kuti anthu ambiri andikonde, koma izi ndi zinthu zomwe zidzachitike mukayamba kuwongolera moyo wanu, ndikuyamba kukhala omasuka ndikukhala nokha.
Chidziwitso chomaliza: Ndili othokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha inu anyamata komanso dera lino. Ndikuganiza kuti momwe zinthu zikuyendera, zovuta zolaula zomwe zikupezeka pagulu zimangopitilira kukula ndikukula. Yakhala yovomerezeka kwambiri pagulu pano kuti idakhazikika pakutha msinkhu kuyambira ali mwana. Izi zimangotanthauza kuti dera lino lidzangokhala lofunika kwambiri chifukwa palibe malo omwe angathandizenso. Tili patsogolo kwambiri pakufufuza zolaula komanso mavuto onse omwe amabwera chifukwa chodziwika bwino. Ndife omwe anthu amapempha thandizo, osati madokotala. Chifukwa chake tiyeni tipitilize kuchita zomwe timachita ndikufalitsa kuzindikirako anthu asanagwe nawo nkhondo yomwe talimbana nayo.
-Mudkip98
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