pambuyo-orgasmic
Palibe amene amadziwa zomwe zimayambitsa leni Zizindikiro za post-orgasmic (POIS).
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Ndimaona nkhaniyi ngati yofunika kwambiri kwa anthu ena omwe ali ndi vutoli (kuphatikizapo ine), omwe akhala pachibwenzi chapakati mpaka nthawi yayitali ndi mwamuna wawo (kwa ine ndi zaka 6). Ndikupeza kuti mwamuna wanga sakukongola kwenikweni ndipo inenso sindikukonda kwambiri nditagonana ndi munthu wo ...
Ndimadzipeza ndekha ndikukankhira gf yanga masiku angapo ndipo sindikufuna zinthu ngati kukumbatirana. Sindimayankhulanso; kukhumudwa kwanga ndi nkhawa ndizomwe zikuyang'anira. Kupatula kuti sindikufuna kuthana ndi chibwenzi changa, ndikudziwa ndikumverera, kuti kugona ndi atsikana enawa kumandisiya - posachedwa - mosakhutira chimodzimodzi. Vuto ndi ubongo wanga wosakhutira wofunafuna dopamine, womwe umawoneka kuti sukhala kapena wokwanira. Ndipo ndimakonda gf yanga, chifukwa chake ndimadziimba mlandu chifukwa chakumva, kuchita komanso kuganiza nthawi zina.
Kukhala ndi O kumayambitsa malingaliro osafunikira awa. OI itakhala ndi chiwombankhanga cholimba komanso ndikakumana ndi zovuta, zomwe zimandibwezera ku zolaula, ndikadapanda kukhala tcheru. Zinthu zimaipiraipira, ndikabwerera ku PMO. Ndikuyembekeza kuti ndingathe kukonza vutoli pomaliza kuyambiranso (ngakhale zitanditengera masiku 200 opanda PMO). Sindikufuna kupatukana ndi gf wanga - iye ndiye vuto. Dongosolo langa la dopamine lowonongeka mosakayikira limayambitsa izi.
Ndikudabwa, ngati zibwereranso mwakale komanso ngati ndidzakhutitsidwanso ndi kugonana kwanga ndi gf yanga. Kupatula zovuta zanga za ED ndi PE, kugonana ndi O sikusangalatsa kwenikweni chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti malingaliro abwinowa abweranso IO - ndipo ndimadzida chifukwa cha izi. Koma sindingathe kuzithandiza. Ndizachilendo, vuto lonse la PMO ...
Anthu nthawi zina amazindikira kuti malingaliro abwino pamalopo amakwaniritsidwa ndi zizindikilo zosasangalatsa zomwe zimakhalapo pambuyo pake, zomwe zimangokhala kwa maola angapo mpaka milungu ingapo. Zizindikirozi zimasiyana mosiyanasiyana pazotsatira zake zonse komanso kuuma kwake. Zina ndizobisika kotero kuti zimangokhudza kusunthika ndi kuzindikira kokha; ena amawonekera mwakuthupi.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti inuyo, kapena mnzanu, mungakhudzidwe ndi zizindikiro za pambuyo pa orgasmic, ndikupangira zolemba ziwiri zaposachedwa za Psychology Today :
- Amuna: Kodi Kuthamangitsidwa Kwafupipafupi Chifukwa Chakudya?
- Akazi: Kodi Madzi Amakupatseni Chimango?
Zizindikiro za pambuyo pa kugonana sizimakhala zofanana nthawi zonse, ngakhale mwa munthu m'modzi. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zina zimasiyana malinga ndi mtundu wa kugonana komwe munthu amachita (kuseweretsa maliseche, kugonana, kugonana mkamwa, ndi zina zotero), kuchuluka kwa chilimbikitso chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti munthu afike pachimake, kaya munthu amakhuta kwambiri, komanso kangati wafika pachimake. Chochititsa chidwi n'chakuti, pali umboni wochuluka wakuti kugonana komaliza ndi kugonana kumachepetsa nkhawa kuposa machitidwe ena ogonana, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kumakhala ndi mphamvu zosiyanasiyana za mitsempha.
N'zotheka kuti zizindikiro zamitundu yonse pambuyo pa kugonana zimagwirizana ndi zochitika za ubongo muubongo. Komabe, mpaka pano, ofufuza sanafufuze zotsatira za kugonana pa ubongo kupitirira theka la ola pambuyo pa kukhwima (ndipo posachedwapa pafupifupi tsiku limodzi mwa akazi ). Ofufuza aku China adapeza kuti kugonana kumayambitsa kusintha kwa mahomoni komwe kumapitirira masiku osachepera asanu ndi awiri . Palinso umboni wambiri wochokera ku kafukufuku wa nyama womwe umasonyeza kusintha kwa ubongo pambuyo pa kugonana kapena kugonana mwamphamvu , komwe kumawoneka kuti kumatenga milungu iwiri.
Katswiri wa zamaganizo Richard A. Friedman adanenanso kuti zizindikiro za kupweteka pambuyo pa orgasmic, kuvutika maganizo, ndi zina zotero, sizikutanthauza kuti munthu ali ndi vuto la maganizo kapena manyazi, monga momwe anthu ambiri amaganizira. Anaona kuti ngakhale odwala omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino m'maganizo amanena kuti zizindikiro zotere ndi izi. Zizindikiro zoopsa kwambiri nthawi zina zimatchedwa Post-Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS). Zomwe zimayambitsa zimakhala zovuta kuzizindikira, koma POIS ikhoza kukhala zotsatirapo za mankhwala.
N'kutheka kuti kupuma kwa matenda a ubongo pambuyo pake kumakhalapo tonsefe, ndipo anthu omwe amawona kuti ali ndi mphamvu yowonjezera. Mwachitsanzo, zikhoza kukhala kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, omwe amawoneka kuti amachepetsa chisangalalo mu ubongo, akungowonongeka kwambiri ndi "khungu" kamene kali ndi ubongo chifukwa cha kupweteka kwambiri-zomwe zimakhala zosasangalatsa kwambiri kuti zimayendetsa iwo abwereranso kukafuna chithandizo cha matenda a ubongo pachimake china.
Mnyamata uyu anazindikira kuti atangopeza zolaula (zochepa) kwa miyezi ya 6, zizindikiro zake zokhudzana ndi maliseche zinachepetsedwa kwambiri:
Ndikadutsa masiku 56 opanda PMO. Ndiye, nditatha kuseweretsa maliseche, ndimakhala wopanda nkhawa, wopanda nkhawa, wotayika. Koma tangoganizani chiyani? Pambuyo pa miyezi 6 iyi yopanda zolaula ndikutha kunena kuti sindiyeneranso kuda nkhawa za kupsinjika pang'ono / kosasintha. Ubongo waubongo ndi chizindikiro changa chokha tsopano.
Mnyamata uyu adawona kusintha kwa nthawi:
Kumayambiriro koyambiranso ndimagwera pansi pambuyo pa O. Tsopano sinditero. Ndimakumanabe ndi zovuta pambuyo pa O nthawi zina. Nkhope yanga imakwiya, nthawi zina ndimamva kuyabwa (nthawi zina ndimagwiritsa ntchito madontho a diso), nthawi zina ndimagona. Zonsezi zitha kukhala bwino, koma ndikhozanso kudwala mtundu wina wa POIS, yemwe akudziwa, nthawi idzauza.
Nawa ena ndemanga kuchokera kwa ogwiritsa ntchito masamba omwe aona kusintha kwaposachedwa kwa post-orgasmic.
Ndikachita maliseche m'mawa m'mawa mutu wanga umakhala wovuta kwa theka loyamba la tsiku. Ndikapita ku yunivesite yanga zonse zimawoneka ngati zakutali osati zenizeni. Zili ngati ine ndikungowonerera nditakhazikika m'mutu mwanga ndikuyang'ana kudzera pamagalasi ozizira. Ndikamaganizira za izi, zovuta zochepa zomaliza zomwe ndidakhala ndi mnzanga sizinakhale ndi tanthauzo lililonse. Ndimamva kukhala wabwinobwino kupatula kwakanthawi kochepa pambuyo pothana ndi tulo.
Onerani kanema wa munthu amene anali ndi zizindikiro zoopsa ngati chimfine zomwe zinatha atasiya zolaula.
M'miyezi ingapo yotalikirana ndazindikira kuti, ndikapanda kuseweretsa maliseche, chikondi changa ndi chikondi changa kwa bwenzi langa chimakulirakulira. Ndikuwona kuti momwe ndimamulembera nawonso. Ndimamva bwino kwambiri chikondi chomwe chimamvekera bwino pamtima. Koma mutatha kuseweretsa maliseche pamakhala kusintha. Kumverera kwa chikondi (ngakhale kulibe) kumachepa, ndipo momwe ndimamlembera zimasinthanso. Ndimakhala wotalikirana kwambiri, ndipo zimawoneka m'mawu anga. Pambuyo pa masabata awiri osachita maliseche zinthu zimasinthiranso.
Ndine wamwamuna, 33, ndikudabwa chifukwa nthawi zambiri ndimagonana ndikuvutika maganizo. Zingakhale zogonana kwambiri kuposa kale lonse, koma kenako ndikuvutika maganizo ndipo sindingathe kuyembekezera kuchoka kwa iye.
Ndikumva kuti anthu a POIS ndiopambana chifukwa adalumikiza zizindikilo zawo ndi mawonekedwe. Sindinathe kulumikizana mpaka kukhalapo kwake atandiuza. Panali zisonkhezero zina zambiri zomwe zimafotokoza chimodzimodzi-kuti kuwonjezeka kwazisokonezo kumakhala bwino. khalani! Ndinawononga madola masauzande ambiri ndikugwira ntchito pazinthu zomwe ndimaganiza kuti ndizosazindikira. Pokhapokha kuti zomwezi zichitike muubwenzi wotsatira. . . monga wotchi.
Chifukwa chake sindinachite maliseche kapena kuyang'ana zolaula masiku 124. Chiwonetsero changa chomaliza chinali masiku 71 apitawo. Zochitika zokhazokha zogonana panthawiyi zakhala ndi atsikana. Kupita patsogolo kwanga kwakhala kokhumudwitsa. Ndikayamba kumva bwino mtsikana amabwera. Kapenanso ndimayesetsa kuyimbira foni mtsikana ndipo pamapeto pake timasokonekera. Kutumizirana mozungulira popanda chiwonetsero kumayambitsa nthawi yovuta kwambiri mwina mwina sabata. Kutumizirana mozungulira ndi chiwonongeko kumayambitsa nthawi yovuta ya masiku 21 okhumudwa kwambiri. Izi zachitika kangapo ndipo zimapangitsa kuyambiranso kwathunthu. Zakhala zokhumudwitsa kwambiri kunena kuti sichingakhazikitsidwe pomwe ndikungoyamba kumva bwino.
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