Anyamata achichepere omwe amakonda kwambiri zolaula 'ndipo amafuna thandizo
Chokhachokha: Achinyamata anyamata akuyamba kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri ndi zolaula zoopsa kwambiri pa intaneti zomwe tsopano akufuna thandizo kuti asiye kuwonerera izo, malinga ndi kafukufuku watsopano.
30 Sep 2013
Wachisanu wa anyamata omwe ali pakati pa 16 ndi 20 adayankhula ku yunivesite ya East London kuti "amadalira zolaula ngati zosangalatsa za kugonana kwenikweni".
Kafukufuku wogonana pa Intaneti anafufuza ophunzira a 177 ndipo anapeza 97 peresenti ya anyamatawo atawona zolaula.
Kwa iwo, 23 peresenti adayesa kuleka kuyang'ana koma sakanatha, pamene 13 peresenti adafotokoza zomwe akuwonera "zikuchuluka kwambiri".
Awiri pa asanu ndi awiri adanena kuti akufuna thandizo lazamalonda chifukwa adamva kuti chizoloŵezi chawo cholaula chinali kuthawa.
Ambiri amati adatayika maubwenzi, anzawo osamalidwa, ndikudula miyoyo yawo chifukwa cha khalidwe lawo loipa.
Dokotala Amanda Roberts, wophunzitsa maganizo pa yunivesite yomwe adayambitsa maphunziro, omwe adawonedwa ndi Telegraph Wonder Women, adati: "Pafupifupi anayi aliwonse ayesera kuigwiritsa ntchito ndipo sangathe, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti pali zovuta zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula gulu ili.
"Chifukwa chakuti pulogalamu yolaula imakhala yowonjezereka komanso yowonjezera; kulikonse. "
Anati zotsatira zake zinali "kudandaula" ndipo analankhula za zotsatira zake kwa anyamatawo: "Ndikuganiza kuti ndizovuta kwambiri zomwe zingakhale zovulaza kwambiri kwa ana.
"Zimakhalanso zowononga kudzikuza kwawo, chifukwa siziwoneka ngati choncho, ndipo amayembekezera atsikana kuyang'ana ndikuchita ngati nyenyezi zolaula.
"Amadziona kuti ndi oyenerera, ndipo ambiri amanena kuti iwo akusokonezeka chifukwa chakuti sakanatha."
Pulofesa Matt Field, yemwe ndi wachinyamata wazaka zachinyamata wa zaumoyo ku yunivesite ya Liverpool, ananenanso kuti: "Achinyamata ali pachiopsezo chotenga mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndipo ndicho chifukwa cha ubongo wawo."
Iye anafotokoza kuti anthu ali ndi 'malo opindulitsa' mu ubongo omwe amakula mofulumira kwa achinyamata ndipo amawapangitsa iwo kukhala okhudzidwa ndi zosangalatsa zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula monga zolaula.
Koma mbali ya ubongo yomwe imayesa kudziletsa siimakula kufikira munthu wamkulu ali pakati pa zaka makumi awiri, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti achinyamata asamangidwe.
Dr Roberts anawonjezera kuti: "Kuti mukhale wosokoneza bongo, muyenera kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi choledzeretsa poyamba koma onse amavomereza, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zoyipa kwambiri.
"Mafilimu akadali amodzi mwa mawu okweza kwambiri pa intaneti. Zisanayambe kukhala ma DVD ndi magazini kapena malo otsika kwambiri, koma tsopano ndizovuta kwambiri ndipo zili mfulu pa intaneti. "
Phunzirolo linapezanso kuti 80 peresenti ya atsikana a zaka 16-20 adawona zolaula.
Kuchokera mwa iwo, asanu ndi atatu pa zana amamverera kuti sakanatha kuyang'anitsitsa, pamene 10 peresenti adanena zomwe akuwonera zakhala zoopsa kwambiri.
Pamene anyamata ankayang'ana kwambiri zosangalatsa, atsikana ankaonera zolaula chifukwa cha chidwi kapena kuphunzira.
Kafukufuku akubwera pambuyo pa kafukufuku wa NSPCC, yotchedwa The Daily Telegraph, kuti ana atatu a sukulu amakhulupirira zolaula zimasonyeza momwe achinyamata ayenera kukhalira ndi chibwenzi.
Pulojekiti ya Women's Better Sex Education campaign yomwe inayambika mwezi watha, yatsindika momwe ana akulimbikitsidwa kuchita khalidwe losayenera la chiwerewere ndi zolaula pa intaneti, ndipo akuyitanitsa maphunziro a kugonana m'masukulu kuti apite patsogolo.
David Cameron, Pulezidenti, wanena kale kuti akuthandizira pulojekiti ya Telegraph koma adzalengezabe momwe boma lidzakhazikitsire kusintha.
Zotsatira zamakono zamakono pa maphunziro a kugonana sizinasinthidwe kuyambira 2000, kulephera kuzindikira kukula kwakukulu kwa zithunzi zolaula zomwe zachitika pazaka 10 zapitazi ndi kukula kwa webusaiti yamakono ndi intaneti.
Kafukufukuyo adzawonetsedwa pa DVD 4 zolemba zojambula zojambulajambula pa Brain Lolemba 30th September ku 10pm, monga gawo la Channel 4's Campaign for Real Sex.
Kudabwa kwa Telegraph Akazi ndi kulengeza maphunziro abwino a kugonana, kulimbikitsa David Cameron kuti abweretse kugonana ndi maubwenzi maphunziro m'zaka za 21st. Lembani pempho lathu pa change.org/bettersexeducation kapena tumizani imelo ku email [imelo ndiotetezedwa]. Tsatirani kampeni pa Twitter #bettersexeducation, @TeleWonderWomen
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