- Ana amatha kujambula zithunzi zolaula mosavuta pogwiritsa ntchito makompyuta
- Pulogalamu ya NSPCC inapezekanso mmodzi mwa khumi 12 kwa zaka za 13 akuda nkhaŵa za chizoloŵezi chogonana
- Kafukufuku wina adawulula kuti Pornhub anali pakati pa anyamata akuluakulu a 11 mpaka 16
- Mnyamata wina adagwiritsa ntchito wifi yakomweko kuti aziona zolaula makolo atatenga iPad
Ndili ndi anyamata atatu aliwonse mnyamatayo, Sally Shaw ndi mwamuna wake Simon, msilikali wa asilikali, ankaganiza kuti atha kuonetsetsa kuti atetezeka pa intaneti.
Anyamatawo, omwe anali ana a Sally, analetsedwa kugwiritsa ntchito zida m'chipinda chawo pambuyo pa 10 koloko masana, ndipo wifi m'nyumba yawo yazipinda zinayi ku Derby idazimitsidwa usiku.
Sanadziwe kuti m'modzi mwa anyamatawo - Matthew wazaka 14 - anali kuyambiranso mobisa kuti awonere zolaula.
'Tidazindikira koyamba machitidwe ake atalandira iPhone,' akutero Sally wazaka 41. 'Amakhala nthawi yayitali kumtunda, koma timaganiza kuti mwina atenga chibwenzi.
'Usiku wina, ndinamupeza ali m'chipinda chake akukambirana ndi abwenzi awiri akusukulu pafoni pomwe onse amawonera zolaula zomwezo pa iPads.
'Adalumphira ndikuyesera kubisa zomwe amachita, koma zomwe ndidawona zinali zopanduka. Sindinakhulupirire. '
Wokwiya komanso wokwiyitsa, Sally ndi Simon, 43, anaika mwana wawo kwa mlungu umodzi ndipo anatenga foni yake ndi iPad.
Pambuyo pokambirana mobwerezabwereza komwe iwo adalamula ngakhale malamulo okhwima pa intaneti, iwo ankaganiza kuti vutoli linathetsedwa. Ndipotu, chinali chabe chiyambi cha mantha awo.
Sally, mayi wanthawi zonse anati: 'Amapeza njira zotizungulira. 'Anapitilizabe kupereka zosamba m'munda ndipo ndimaganiza kuti amandithandiza.
Patangopita nthawi yochepa ndinazindikira kuti anali atakhala pansi pamunda kulowa pa wifi ya oyandikana nawo.
'Tinayesa kutenga foni koma amangotenga iPad kuchokera kwa mng'ono wake. Kapenanso adabwereka imodzi kwa mnzake waku sukulu. Anakwanitsa kusintha machitidwe a makolo pa wifi yathu kuti ndi iye yekha amene amadziwa malamulowo.
'Tidazindikira kuti panali gulu la anyamata asanu omwe akukhudzidwa; mtundu wa 'zolaula' zomwe zimatha kuwonera makanemawa mozungulira kuti athe kuwona zomwe aliyense akuchita. Ndinawona kuti zinali zosokoneza kwenikweni.
'Sitinkafuna kumulanda foni kwamuyaya, chifukwa ndi ulendo wamakilomita awiri kupita kusukulu ndipo timafuna kuti akhale otetezeka.'
Chododometsa ichi ndi chimodzi chimene makolo ambiri achikondi amapeza akulimbana ndi lero.
Ziwerengero zaposachedwa zimasonyeza kuti 81 peresenti ya 13 ya zaka zapakati pa 18 ali ndi foni yamakono, pamene 43 peresenti ya 12 kwa zaka za 15 ali ndi piritsi monga iPad.
Pokhala ndi 58 peresenti ya mafoni a m'manja tsopano okhala ndi intaneti, ana amatha kujambula zithunzi zolaula mosavuta.
Carolyn Bunting wa Internet Matters, bungwe lomwe limaphunzitsa makolo za mavuto omwe ana awo angakumane nawo pa intaneti akuti: 'Ana amatha kupeza zachiwerewere mosavuta pa intaneti, kaya chifukwa chofuna kudziwa zambiri kapena mwangozi.'
'Izi zitha kukhala zosokoneza komanso zokhumudwitsa chifukwa zolaula zimawonetsa zithunzi zosagwirizana zogonana komanso maubale.'
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti nthaŵi zina achinyamata amayamba kukonzedwa ndi zolaula.
Kafukufuku wa ana pafupifupi 700 ndi NSPCC sabata yatha anawonetsa kuti pafupifupi mmodzi pa khumi aliwonse 12 kwa zaka za 13 ali ndi nkhawa chifukwa chokhala ndi chilakolako choonera zolaula, pamene oposa khumi pa khumi apanga kapena amakhala nawo kanema.
Zotsatira zosokoneza zikuwonetsanso kuti m'modzi mwa asanu mwa omwe adafunsidwa adati awona zithunzi zolaula zomwe zinawadabwitsa kapena kuwakhumudwitsa.
Uku ndi kufufuza kwatsopano kumene kumakhudza akatswiri a ubwino wa ana. Kafukufuku wa BBC chaka chatha adapeza kuti 60 peresenti ya achinyamata anali a zaka 14 kapena aang'ono pamene anayamba kuona zolaula pa intaneti.
Lipoti lina chaka chatha, ndi ChildWise lothandizira, adawonetsa kuti webusaitiyi Pornhub inatchulidwa m'masewera asanu omwe amakonda kwambiri ndi anyamata akuluakulu a 11 mpaka 16.
Kwa Sally ndi Simon, zinthu zinkaipiraipira.
'Matthew adayamba kuda nkhawa,' akutero Sally. 'Sankafuna kuphatikiza m'moyo wabanja. Sanadikire kuti achoke patebulo atadya chakudya chamadzulo. Anayamba kudzipatula.
'Ndinayesa kulankhula ndi makolo a anyamata ena omwe anali nawo koma sindinapite. Ndinakumana ndi ndemanga zambiri monga: "Mwana wathu sangachite izi…" '
Atathedwa nzeru, Sally anapita kusukulu kuja ndipo analankhula ndi mphunzitsi wamkuluyo, yemwe anaitana Matthew ndi anzake. Zinapezeka kuti 'mphete zolaula' zidayamba pomwe m'modzi mwa anyamatawa adapeza zolaula pa intaneti kudzera pa tsamba logawana nawo pa YouTube.
Misonkhanoyi inakonzedweratu kuti anyamata ndi mlangizi wa sukulu, onse payekha komanso ndi makolo awo.
Sally akuti: 'Matthew sanandilankhule kwa masiku angapo nditapita kusukulu, koma momwe tikudziwira kuti' zolaula 'zidathera pamenepo. Ndizokopa koopsa, ndipo chomwe chiri chosokoneza ndichakuti ndizogonana, popanda zolaula. Amapatsa ana malingaliro olakwika pa maubwenzi.
'Vuto ndiloti limapezeka mosavuta, ndipo yesero limakhalapo nthawi zonse.'
Laura Kay ndi mayi wina yemwe adachita mantha atazindikira kuti, ali ndi zaka khumi zokha, mwana wawo wamwamuna Nathan anali atayamba zolaula. Ndipo izi zidachitika ngakhale kuti amaika zosefera pazida zonse kunyumba kwawo.
'Ndine wanzeru kwambiri ndipo ndimaganiza kuti ndichita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndilepheretse Nathan kuwona zolaula. Chifukwa chake nditamupeza atagona kumtunda, ndi iPad yake itatsegulidwa, ndipo nditawona kuti akuyang'ana zinthu zovuta kwambiri, ndidakhumudwa, 'atero a Laura, 43, woyang'anira media media yemwe amakhala ndi Nathan, tsopano 13, ku Exeter .
Mnzake wachikulire adamuwonetsa momwe angadutsire zosefazo ndikumulondolera tsambali. Zinandipweteka kwambiri. Kusowa kalikonse kwa mwana wanga wamwamuna kudasokonekera.
'Tsiku lotsatira, ndidakumana ndi Nathan ndipo adagwetsa misozi akunena kuti sakufuna kuziwona koma mnzake ndiye adamupanga. Ndinakwiya kwambiri. '
Chiyambireni izi, a Laura ati asintha mapasiwedi ndipo amayang'anitsitsa zomwe mwana wawo akuchita pa intaneti, koma nthawi zina amakhala odabwitsidwa ndi zomwe awulula.
'Ndinamuletsa kuyankhula ndi abwenzi awiri pa intaneti chaka chatha chifukwa sindinakhulupirire chilankhulo chogonana chomwe onse anali kugwiritsa ntchito.
'Si anyamata okha ayi. Anzathuwa anali asungwana azaka 11 ndi 12 wazaka akugwiritsa ntchito mawu a 'C' nthawi zonse ndikunena zinthu monga: 'Kodi mukufuna kundimenya?'
Amachokera kuti mawuwa? Ndakumanapo ndi atsikana amenewa pamaso ndipo ndi achichepere aulemu kwambiri omwe mungafune kukumana nawo. Simungalote kuti atha kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ndi mawu ngati amenewo, koma onse akuchita. '
Mavuto a Laura sanathere pomwepo. Chaka chatha adapeza kuti Nathan - monga 60% ya achinyamata - adapemphedwa kuti azigonana.
'Ndidayitanidwira kusukulu ya Nathan chifukwa mtsikana adadandaula za iye akumupempha kuti amutumizire zithunzi zopanda pake.
'M'malo mwake, mtsikanayo anali akufunsa Natani zithunzi za mbolo yake ndipo anali kujambula zithunzi zomwe anapeza pa intaneti ndikuzitumiza kwa iye.
'Adamutumiziranso kuwombera koma adangodandaula pomwe Nathan adatumiza imodzi mwa mnzake, yemwe adamupempha kuti amutumizirenso.
'Boma likuyenera kuchitapo kanthu mozama kuti lithetse izi. Ifenso, monga makolo, tiyenera kuyamba kulankhula za izi, komanso masukulu. ' Momwe zolaula zimakhudzira ana athu m'kupita kwanthawi ndizomwe akatswiri sangagwirizane nazo, koma katswiri wazamisala Pulofesa Geoffrey Beattie akuti achinyamata atha kuwonongeka kuposa momwe timaganizira.
Amada nkhawa kwambiri ndi zomwe zingayambitse kuvulala kwamaganizidwe ndi 'flashbulb memory'. 'Zambiri zomwe takumana nazo pamoyo watsiku ndi tsiku tiziiwala msanga,' akutero, 'koma pali zinthu zomwe timafuna kuyiwala, komabe sizingatheke, ngakhale titayesetsa motani.
'Pali zithunzi ndi zochitika zomwe zimakhalabe muubongo wathu ndipo sizimawoneka ngati zikutha nthawi: ndege yolowera mu Twin Towers, chithunzi cha basi pa 7/7, kapena imfa ya Diana.
'Mukukumbukira mayendedwe onse, monga komwe mumakhala, omwe mumakhala nawo, zomwe zidanenedwa komanso mawonekedwe pankhope za ena.
'Kukumbukira kowoneka bwino kumeneku kumatchedwa kukumbukira kwa flashbulb ndipo ndi gawo lalikulu la kupsinjika kwakutsogolo chifukwa sikutha ndi nthawi. Koma izi ndi zithunzi zowawa zomwe ana athu amaziwona tsiku lililonse. '
Palinso nkhawa ina kuti zithunzi zomwe achinyamata akuwona zidzakhudza ubale wawo mtsogolo.
Suzie Hayman, trastii wa bungwe lothandizira mabanja a Family Lives komanso wolemba How To Raise A Happy Teenager, akuti: 'Zithunzi zolaula zomwe achinyamata ambiri tsopano akuwona pa intaneti zimachotsera zogonana komanso maubale pazomwe zili mumtima.
Kugonana kumakhala chinthu chongotengeka, chinthu chopanda chikondi, ulemu kapena chisangalalo.
'Achinyamata ambiri omwe timalankhula akuti zolaula zitha kukulitsa kuzunzidwa pogonana popeza ziyembekezo zogonana zitha kukhala zopanda nzeru. Achinyamata amakakamizidwa kuti achite zinthu zoipa zomwe zimafanana ndi zomwe zawonetsedwa m'mafilimuwa.
'Tsoka ilo, anthu omwe amawonera zolaula zambiri zimawavuta kuti azilumikizana ndi ena padziko lenileni pamalingaliro.'
Nanga nchiyani chikuchitidwa? Boma likukonzanso mapulani kwa ana a zaka zapakati pa 11 kupita kumudzi kuti aziphunzitsidwa za kugwiriridwa ndi kugonana m'masukulu. Chizindikiro chokhumudwitsa cha nthawiyi, mwinamwake, koma izi ziphatikizapo kukambirana zomwe akuphunzira poonera zolaula.
Panthawiyi, Mlembi Wachikhalidwe Sajid Javid posachedwapa adalonjeza kudziwitsa zaka zomwe zimawathandiza kuti aziletsa zolaula.
Ngakhale kuti akatswiri amalola kuti asamuke, iwo adachenjeza kuti zingakhale zovuta kuzigwiritsa ntchito, choncho makolo adakali oyamba kuteteza.
'Makolo atha kutenga njira zowonetsetsa kuti ana awo amangowona zomwe zikuyenera zaka zawo pa intaneti,' atero a Carolyn Bunting a Internet Security Charity Internet Matters. Izi zikuphatikiza kukhazikitsa zowongolera za makolo pa burodibandi ndi injini zosakira, kuyang'anira mbiri ya asakatuli awo ndi mapulogalamu omwe adatsitsa pafoni yawo.
'Simuchedwa kwambiri kukambirana ndi mwana wanu za zolaula pa intaneti.'
M'malo mwake, pali mapulogalamu angapo omwe amatsata zomwe mwana amayang'ana. Pulogalamu yatsopano yotchedwa Mobile Force Field yakhazikitsidwa posachedwa yomwe imazimitsa mapulogalamu aliwonse omwe makolo safuna kuti ana awo azigwiritsa ntchito ndikuwalepheretsa kutumiza kapena kulandira ma selfies osayenera.
Kwa makolo ena, zachedwa kwambiri kuteteza ana awo. Natalie Bridger, wazaka 35 wazophunzitsa kuchokera ku Newcastle, adachita mantha atazindikira kuti mwana wawo wamwamuna wazaka 12 Christopher anali akuonera zolaula - ndikuwonetsa kwa mlongo wake wazaka zisanu ndi zinayi.
'Masabata anayi kapena asanu apitawo, pomwe banjali linali kuwonera TV, ine ndi mwamuna wanga Lee tidazindikira kuti mwana wathu wamkazi Abigail wapanga zolankhula pafupi ndi pakamwa pake zomwe zimatsanzira kugonana mkamwa,' akutero Natalie.
Tonse tidasiya kufa ndikumufunsa zomwe akuchita. Adati, 'Palibe kanthu', koma ndidamugwira ndikusinthana ndikuwona mwana wathu wamwamuna.
'Atamukakamiza, adavomereza kuti amayang'ana zolaula ndipo Abigail adalowamo ndipo adamuwonetsa zithunzizo.
'Lee ndi ine tinazizira. Palibe aliyense wa ife amene amadziwa momwe angaletse mawebusayiti mpaka posachedwa ndipo ngakhale tsopano tili, tikufunikirabe kudziwa omwe angatilepheretse.
'Nthawi iliyonse akakhala piritsi lake tsopano, timadabwa kuti akuchita chiyani. Tamuuza kuti tiwunika mbiri yake ndipo titha kutenga pulogalamu yake nthawi iliyonse kuti tiwone zomwe akuchita. Pakadali pano, zikuwoneka kuti zagwira ntchito.
'Koma zomwe akuziwona zimandiopsa. Simungaletse ana kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti palimodzi, komabe podina batani amatha kutsegula dziko lazithunzi zosokoneza zomwe sindikufuna kuti aziwone.
'Zikuwoneka kuti zivute zitani kuti tiwateteze, nthawi zonse amapeza njira yozungulira.'
Natalie akuyembekeza kuti zithunzizi sizinawavulaze. Zangokhala kanthawi kuti tidziwe kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zikuchitika m'badwo wachinyamata.
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