When I’m sober, I feel amazing. Our relationship gets better, sex life gets better, writing gets better.

My wife has known about my porn addiction for years, but during periods of relapse it always seems to fade from our collective awareness, which of course feeds the relapse. My most recent awakening came as a result of me confessing that I had gone back to porn yet again. I’ve confessed before, and I’ve […]

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Age 25 – Doing NoFap has taught me that my attitude towards sex and women has been really, really fucked up for some time

I thought I would write down what I have learned about myself – and specifically about how my brain has developed its conceptions about sex and sexuality – through my experiences of NoFap. This isn’t supposed to be in any way scientific, just some observations and what I think I have discovered through this process. […]

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Age 18 – ED & DE cured: The benefits and changes I have experienced in just this short time really took me by surprise

Lately, my life has been a complete turn around from what it was a little over a month ago. It took me lying to my girlfriend for months and her finding out about it to get me to finally grind out my longest streak ever (and still going strong!) Here’s a little background: I am […]

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Executive Functioning of Sexually Compulsive and Non-Sexually Compulsive Men Before and After Watching an Erotic Video (2017)

COMMENTS: Most of the subjects appear to be  sex addicts, not “porn addicts”: Older, male, all in treatment, higher % of gay/bisexual, etc. The study assessed executive functioning at baseline, and again at least 6 months later, right after the subjects viewed a porn film of their choice. Results: At baseline, controls and sex addicts […]

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Age 26 – Stay busy

I think I can finally say I am cured… I am not saying I don’t get the urges, but the key is to look away as soon as possible, not go deep into the fantasies and most importantly, no touching, surely I don’t recomment edging: (1) easy to relapse (2) the blue balls effect is […]

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Age 26 – No more PIED or delayed ejaculation. Get morning wood every day. My life has changed amazingly.

This is my post after a year of being clean of PMO. Let me tell u again my story. Until 1 year ago I was technically virgin. (Very low past sexual exp). I started PMO tactically from age 18-19 to 25. (First 2-3 years lower frequency). So. 1 year ago I tried to lose my […]

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