Chinyorwa chaJarryd Bartle "Zorora Vanhu! Zvinonyadzisira Hakusi Kuguma Kwebudiriro ”Cherry anotora mashoma ongororo uye anonyorera tsamba-peji kune mupepeti kuti atsigire zvirevo, asi panguva imwe chete vachiregeredza kupokana kukuru kweuchapupu. Bartle anoshandirwa ne "The Eros Association", Inozvidaidza kuti - Vakuru veAustralia-chete indasitiri musangano. Ndokumbira utarise kuti kusvika Nyamavhuvhu 2020 Jarryd Bartle abvisa zvachose "Relax Folks!" kubva ku blog yake. YBOP's critique ichiri kuwanikwa pane iyo Medium webhusaiti iyo yakaburitsa iyo yekutanga posvo.
Kuti zvive nyore kuwana mamiriro ezvinhu epanguva ino ekutsvakurudza zvinonyadzisira Ndakapa apa mashomanana mazita ezvidzidzo izvo zvakananga kana kuti zvisina kukanganisa zvinotaurwa naB Bartle:
- Zvinonyadzisira / kurara pabonde? Peji ino inonyora 52 neuroscience-based studies (MRI, fMRI, EEG, neuropsychological, mahormone). Vese vanopa rutsigiro rwakasimba rwemhando yekupindwa muropa sekuwana kwavo girazi izvo zvakawanikwa zvehuropi zvakataurwa muzvidzidzo zvekupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka.
- Ichokwadi nyanzvi 'maonero panyaya yekuona zvinonyadzisira / zvepabonde? Urongwa urwu hune 27 yazvino neuroscience-yakavakirwa zvinyorwa zvekuongorora & zvinyorwa nedzimwe nyanzvi dzepamusoro dzenyika munyika. Zvose zvinotsigira mufananidzo wezvinodhaka.
- Zviratidzo zvekudhakwa uye kukura kune zvimwe zvinhu zvakanyanyisa? Pamusoro pezvidzidzo zveCNNX zvinowanikwa zvinowirirana nekuwedzera kwekushandisa zvinonyadzisira (kushivirira), kugara kune zvinonyadzisira, uye kunyange kubvisa zviratidzo (zvese zviratidzo nezviratidzo zvinosanganiswa nekupindwa muropa). Rimwe peji ne Zvidzidzo gumi zvichiratidzira zviratidzo zvekubvisa muvashandisi vane porno.
- Chirwere chekuongorora chirwere? Nyika inonyanya kushandiswa kurapwa kwekurapa, The International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), ine itsva yekuongorora akakodzera kunyadzisira kunetseka: "Kunyanya Kuita Zvepabonde Zvirwere. "
- Debunking nheyo yekutaura isingatsigiswi inoti "chido chepabonde chakakwirira" inotsanangurira kubvisa zvinonyadzisira kana kukanganisa zvepabonde: Pamusoro peongororo makumi maviri neshanu dzinokanganisa kutaura kuti bonde & porn vanopindwa muropa "vanongova nehupombwe"
- Zvinonyadzisira nezvinetso zvepabonde? Iri runyora rine mitsva ye 40 inobatanidza zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa / zvinonyadzisira zvepabonde kune zvinetso zvepabonde uye kuderedza kukwezva kune zvepabonde. The kutanga 7 zvidzidzo mune urongwa zvinoratidza causation, sezvo vatori vechikamu vakabvisa kushandiswa kwepabonde uye vakaporesa zvirwere zvepabonde zvisingaperi.
- Zvinonyadzisira zvinokonzerwa nehukama? Pamusoro peongororo makumi manomwe neshanu dzinoshandisa zvinonyadzisira dzinoshandisa kushoma kwepabonde uye kugutsikana kwehukama. Sezvatinoziva zvose zvidzidzo zvine chokuita nevanhurume zvakashuma zvekare kushandiswa kwepabonde kunosanganiswa murombo zvepabonde kana ukama kugutsikana.
- Kushandisa zvinonyadzisira kunokanganisa utano hwepfungwa uye hwepfungwa here? Pamusoro peongororo makumi manomwe neshanu inoshandisa porn kushandisa kune varombo hwepfungwa-manzwiro hutano & hurombo hwekuziva zviitiko.
- Kushandisa zvinonyadzisira kunobata zvitendero, maitiro uye maitiro? Ongorora zvidzidzo zvega - kupfuura 40 zvidzidzo zvinoshandiswa zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa ku "un-egalitarian attitude" pamusoro pevakadzi uye maonero evanhukadzi - kana iyo pfupiso kubva kune ino 2016 meta-kuongorora kwe 135 yakakodzera zvidzidzo: Mamiriyoni uye Zvepabonde: Hurongwa hweHupuriro Hwekutanga, 1995-2015. Excerpt:
Chinangwa chekuongororwa uku ndechekugadzira hutsva hwekutsvaga kuongororwa kwekutsvaga kwehuwandu hwepabonde. Chinangwa chakanga chiri chekutsvakurudza kwakabudiswa mune peer-reviewed, mabhuku emutauro weChirungu pakati pe1995 ne2015. Zvose zveZ109 zvinyorwa zvine zvidzidzo zve135 zvakaongororwa. Zvakawanikwa zvinopa uchapupu hunogara huripo hwokuti zvose mabharatori anoonekwa uye nguva dzose, kusvibiswa kwezuva nezuva kwehuwandu hunobatanidzwa zvakananga nemigumisiro yakawanda yemigumisiro, kusanganisira mazinga akawandisa ekugutsikana kwemuviri, kuzvikudza kwakanyanya, rubatsiro rukuru rwekuita zvepabonde nekutenda kwepabonde, uye kunyanya kushivirira zvechisimba zvepabonde kune vakadzi. Uyezve, kujekesa kwezviri kuitika kune izvi zvinotungamirira vakadzi nevarume kuti vave nepfungwa shoma yevakadzi vane unyanzvi, tsika, uye hukama.
- Zvakadini nechisimba chepabonde uye kushandisa zvinonyadzisira? Imwe meta-analysis: Meta-Kuongororwa Kwezvinonyadzisira Kushandiswa uye Zvechokwadi Mabasa eHabonde muna General Population Studies (2015). Excerpt:
22 zvidzidzo kubva kune 7 nyika dzakasiyana dzakarongedzwa. Kushandiswa kwakabatanidzwa nechisimba chepabonde muUnited States uye kune dzimwe nyika, pakati pevarume nevakadzi, uye mune zvidzidzo zvepabonde uye kwenguva refu. Shamwari dzaive dzakasimba pamashoko pane zvepabonde zvepabonde, kunyange zvazvo zvose zvaive zvakakosha. Zvose zvinowanzoitika zvinoratidza kuti zvigaro zvechisimba zvinogona kuva zvinowedzera.
"Asi zvinonyadzisira hazvishandisi kuderedza kubata chibharo here?" Kwete, maitiro ekubata ave achiwedzera mumakore achangopfuura: "Kubhadhara mitengo iri kuwedzera, saka usatora zvinyorwa zvepabonde zvinonyangadza. ”Maona peji rino pamusoro pezana zana zvidzidzo zvinobatanidza kushandiswa kwepabonde kune utsinye hwepabonde, kumanikidza uye chisimba, uye kutsoropodzwa kukuru kwekufungidzirwa kweanowanzo dzokororwa kuti kuwanikwa kweiyo porn kwakakonzera kudzikira kwemabatiro ekubata chibharo.
- Zvakadini nezvekushandisa zvinonyadzisira nevechiri kuyaruka? Chengetai urongwa huno pamusoro peC270 yedzidzo yevechidiki, kana izvi kuongororwa kwemabhuku: kudzokorora # 1, review2, kudzokorora # 3, kudzokorora # 4, kudzokorora # 5, kudzokorora # 6, kudzokorora # 7, kudzokorora # 8, kudzokorora # 9, kudzokorora # 10, kudzokorora # 11, kudzokorora # 12, kudzokorora # 13, kudzokorora # 14, kudzokorora # 15.
Pasi ini ndinotaura nezvemashoko mashomanana aJarryd Bartle anoti:
BARTLE YAKATAURWA: Panic purveyor Porn Harms Kids inotinyevera kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinokonzera 'maitiro akafanana neurological kune avo vanocherechedza muzvinhu zvinodhaka'. Unsprisingly zvinoita shuga, kana kutenda muna Mwari or pabonde - izvo zvinoita kunge zvinokodzera!
Bartle anotora chikamu ichi kubva pane zviri mukati. The article by Porn Harms Kids ari kutaura kuti kupindwa muropa kwepabonde kunotungamirira kune humwe huro hunochinja sezvinoonekwa mumishonga inodhaka. Zvose zvidzidzo zvehutano zvakabudiswa kusvika zvino zvakatsigira izvi zvinotaurwa.
Iro hukuru hunhu hunochinja hunobatanidzwa kune zvose zvinodhaka uye zvinodhaka, sezvinotsanangurwa mune ino pepa rakabudiswa gore rino The New England Journal of Medicine: "Neurobiologic Kufambira mberi kubva muBurin Disease Model of Addiction (2016)". Ichi chiongorudzo chakakosha kubva kuMutungamiriri weNational Institute pamusoro pezvinodhaka zvekudhakwa uye kudhakwa (NIAAA) George F. Koob, uye mutungamiriri weNational Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) Nora D. Volkow, kwete chete inotaura nezvekuchinja kwehuropi kunobatanidzwa mukudhakwa, iyo inotaura zvakare mundima yaro yokutanga kuti kunetseka kwepabonde kuripo:
"Tinopedzisa kuti neuroscience inoramba ichitsigira chirwere cheuropi chirwere chekudhakwa. Ongororo yeNeuroscience munharaunda ino haisi chete inopa mikana mitsva yekudzivirira uye kurapwa kwezvinodhaka zvinokonzerwa nemishonga pamwe nemafungiro ehutano akafanana (semuenzaniso, kuzvokudya, pabonde, uye kubhejera) .... "
Muzvinyorwa, uye zvakanyanyisa, mazwi ehutano hunokosha-hunokonzerwa nehuropi huri: 1) Sensitization, 2) Desensitization, 3) Dysfunctional prefrontal circuits (kunyengedzera), 4) Dysfunctional stress circuits. Zvose 4 zvekuchinja kwehuropi idzi dzakaratidzwa pakati pamusoro pe50 neuroscience-yakavakirwa zvidzidzo pane vanogara vachishandisa porn & vanoita zvepabonde:
- Sensitization (cue-reactivity & zvishuwo): Maseru ehuropi anobatanidzwa mukukurudzira uye mubairo kutsvaga kuva nehunhu-kutaridzika kune ndangariro kana zvirevo zvine hukama nehunhu hwekuita. Izvi zvinoguma kuwedzera "kushaiwa" kana kuchiva kana uchida kana kufara kunopera. Somuenzaniso, zvinyorwa, zvakadai sekushandura kombiyuta, kuona pop-up, kana kuva ari oga, kunotyisa zvakaoma kukurumidza kuchengeta zvido zvekuona zvinonyadzisira. Vamwe vanotsanangura kushushikana kwekushushikana kwepabonde se "kupinda mumugwagwa unongova chete unopukunyuka: porn '. Zvichida unonzwa uchikurumidza, kukurumidza kutsungirira mwoyo, kunyange kutinhira, uye zvose zvaunogona kufunga nezvazvo kuisa pane yako yaunoda tube site. Studies inorondedzera kukurudzira kana kuisa-reactivity muvanoshandisa zvinonyadzisira / vanoita zvepabonde: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26.
- Desensitization (yakadzikira mubairo kunzwisisika nekushivirira): Izvi zvinosanganisira kwenguva yakareba makemikari uye shanduko shanduko dzinosiya munhu kunyanya kufunga nezvekufara. Desensitization inowanzo kuratidza seku shivirirana, ndiko kudiwa kwedosi repamusoro kana kukurudzira kukuru kuti uwane mhinduro imwechete. Vamwe vanoshandisa porn vanopedza nguva yakawanda online, vachiwedzera zvikamu kuburikidza nekumisikidza, kutarisa kana vasingaite bonhora, kana kutsvaga vhidhiyo yakakwana yekuguma nayo. Kushushikana kunogona zvakare kutora fomu yekukwira kune mamwe marudzi, dzimwe nguva akaomarara uye mutorwa, kana kutokanganisa. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti kuvhunduka, kushamisika kana kushushikana zvinogona zvese kukwidziridza dopamine uye kudzikisira kumutsa zvepabonde. Zvimwe zvidzidzo zvinoshandisa izwi rekuti "habituation" - izvo zvinogona kusanganisira nzira dzekufunda kana nzira dzekupindwa muropa. Zvidzidzo zvekuzivisa kushushikana kana kugara muvanoshandisa porn / vanoita zvepabonde: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8.
- Dysfunctional prefrontal circuits (kushaya simba kwekuda + hyper-reactivity kune cues): Dysfunctional prefrontal cortex inoshanda kana shanduko muhukama pakati peiyo mubairo system uye nekamberi yekortex inotungamira mukudzora kushushikana kwekutonga, asi zvishuwo zvakakura zvekushandisa. Dysfunctional prefrontal circuits inoratidza sekunzwa kuti zvikamu zviviri zvehuropi hwako zviri kuita tug-ye-yehondo. Iyo inokurudzirwa kupindwa muropa kwenzira dziri kudanidzira 'Hongu!' nepo 'uropi hwako hwepamusoro' huri kuti, 'Kwete, kwete futi!' Nepo zvikamu zvekutonga-zvekutonga zvehuropi hwako zviri mune isina kusimba mamiriro ekujairira nzira dzinowanzohwina. Zvidzidzo zvichitaura nezvehurombo hutungamiriri hwekushanda (kusazvibata) kana kushandura chiitiko chekutanga muvanoshandisa porn / vanoita zvepabonde: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18.
- Kusagadzikana kunetseka (kuda kukuru & zviratidzo zvekuregera): Dzimwe nyanzvi dzekupindwa muropa dzinoona kupindwa muropa nedambudziko, sekushandisa kusingaperi kunokonzeresa shanduko dzakawanda muhuropi hwehuropi, uye zvinokanganisa kutenderera mahormone ekushushikana (cortisol uye adrenaline) Kunetsekana kwekushushikana kwepfungwa kunokonzera kunyangwe kushushikana kudiki kunotungamira mukuchiva uye kudzokazve nekuti inoita nzira dzakasimba dzakasimudzirwa. Uye zvakare, kurega kupindwa muropa kunoita kuti uropi hunyanye kushushikana hunotungamira kuzviratidzo zvekusiya zvinowanzoitika kune zvese zvinodhaka, zvinosanganisira kushushikana, kushushikana, kushaya hope, kutsamwa uye kusanduka kwemamiriro. Chekupedzisira, kushushikana kwakanyanya-kunetseka kunodzivirira iyo inotungamira cortex uye mabasa makuru, kusanganisira kutonga kwekushushikana uye kugona kunyatsonzwisisa mhedzisiro yezviito zvedu. Zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kusagadzikana kushushikana sisitimu mune vanoshandisa porn / vanoita zvepabonde: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5.
BARTLE YAKATAURWA: Kunyangwe kana 'kupindwa muropa nehupombwe' kuripo se phenomena, hapana - kunze kweboka duku reStifiketi-level self-kuzivisa 'unyanzvi hwepabonde hwezvepabonde' - inofunga kuti yakapararira.
Izvi zvinonyengera nhema. Chokutanga, World Health Organization inoratidzika yakanyatsoziva zvepabonde uye zvepabonde zvinotapira pasi pemuburira izwi rokuti "kubvumira kuita zvepabonde chirwere" (Tsvakurudzo dzinoverengeka dzehutano hwevamwe vanoita zvepabonde dzakashandisa izwi iri). Iko shanduro inotevera yeCI inokonzerwa kunze kwe2018. Ita beta yakanyorwa ye itsva ICD-11 inosanganisira kufungidzirwa kwe "Kuita zvinetso zvepabonde zvepabonde" pamwe chete ne "Kushungurudzwa kunokonzerwa nekunyadzisa mafungiro". Nenzira, ichangobva kusikwa behavioral addiction category rinowanikwa mune itsva DSM-5, ne "Injodzi yekutamba Internet" yakagadzirirwa kuiswa.
Iyo DSM-5 (yakabudiswa kumashure mu2013) pakupedzisira yakaramba "Hypersexuality Disorder" pamusoro pezvaikurudzirwa neBlack Work Group, asi hazvina kumboongororwa zvakajeka "zvinonyadzisira zvinodhaka" sekuongororwa. Mukati, vashandi vehutano vanorwara vanorwara vanoshandisa 'zvimwe zvekuita zvepabonde' zvinowanikwa mune zvose zviripo zvino ICD-10 uye irizvino DSM-5 ("Kuongororwa kwehutano hwepabonde kana kuita zvepabonde zvinogona kuitwa kuburikidza nekushandisa ICD-10 uye DSM-5 pasinei nokurambwa kweizvi kuongororwa neAmerican Psychiatric Association)
Mukuwedzera kune iri kuuya ICD-11, the American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM) vakati "Kuita zvepabonde zvinodhaka" zviriko! " The American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM) yakagadzirisa zvinenge zvakave chigunzo chekupedzisira muhutano hwekushungurudzwa kwepabonde-inodhaka kukwikwidza muna August, 2011. America anonyanya kukanganisa masayendisiti eAAMAM akabuditsa avo kushandura tsanangudzo itsva yekusvuta. Tsanangudzo itsva inotsanangura pfungwa huru yakaitwa paWebrainOnPorn website. Zvinonyanya kukosha, zvinokanganisa maitiro zvinokanganisa uropi nenzira dzakakosha sezvinoita zvinodhaka. Mune mamwe mazwi, chidhakwa chimwe chirwere (mamiriro), kwete mazhinji.
Kune zvese zvinangwa, iyi dudziro nyowani yakapedza gakava pamusoro pekuti bonde uye kupindwa muropa nezvinonyadzisira "kunyatsodhakwa"ASAM inonyatsotaura kuti Zvinodhaka zvepabonde zviripo uye inofanira kukonzerwa nehumwe hutano hunokosha hunoonekwa muzvinhu zvinodhaka. Kubva kuAASAM FAQs:
MUBVUNZO: Iyi tsanangudzo itsva yekudhakwa inoreva kukanganisa kunobata kubhejera, zvokudya, uye tsika dzepabonde. ASAM inonyatsodavira here kuti kudya uye zvepabonde zvinodhaka?
MHINDURO: Tsananguro nyowani yeASAM inoita kubva pakuenzanisa kupindwa muropa nekungotsamira pazvinhu, nekutsanangura kuti kupindwa muropa kwakabatana sei nehunhu hunopa mubayiro. … Iyi dudziro inotaura kuti kupindwa muropa kuri maererano nekushanda uye kutenderera kwehuropi uye marongerwo uye mashandiro ehuropi hwevanhu vakapindwa muropa nezvinosiyana nechimiro uye mashandiro ehuropi hwevanhu vasina kupindwa muropa. … Fmaitiro uye zvepabonde nemitemo yekubhejera inogona kuwirirana ne "kutsvaga kutsvaga mibairo" inorondedzerwa mune iri tsanangudzo itsva yekudhakwa.
BARTLE YAKATAURWA: Saka zvakapararira ndeye nhoroondo yehupombwe hwekuita zvepabonde iyo ichangobva kubudiswa mu Journal of Sexual Medicine yakanga ichinzi "Zvinonyadzisira Kuona: Ramba Wakanyarara uye Uenderera Mberi
Zvichinyatsotaura kuti Bartle aigona kungotumira tsamba ye 1 peji kumugadziri kuti atsigire kutaura kwake kuti kusvuta kwepabonde hakupo. Kunyanya kutaurira ndechokuti "op-ed" haana kutaura nezvekuona zvinonyadzisira kana zvepabonde, achizarura kuti Bartle akakundikana kuverenga kana kunzwisisa zvaakataura.
Pane kudaro, Taylor Kohut akashandisa "op-ed" yake kusataura zvisina kururama kuti tsvakurudzo "yakanyatsovhenganiswa" pamigumisiro yehupenzi pahukama uye kuita zvepabonde. Heino chokwadi:
Iko ikozvino pamusoro pe40 zvidzidzo zvinobatanidza kushandisa zvinonyadzisira / zvepabonde kupindwa muropa nezvinetso zvepabonde uye kuderera kweanousal kune zvekuita zvepabonde. Iyo nharo pamusoro pekuvapo kwehupombwe-inokonzerwa nekuita zvepabonde kunopera, se kutanga 7 zvidzidzo muurongwa zvinoratidza causation, sezvo varwere vakabvisa kushandiswa kwepabonde uye vakaporesa zvirwere zvepabonde zvisingaiti.
Sezvakanyorwa mune ino peer-yakadzokororwa bepa inosanganisira 7 US Navy varapi - Zvinonyadzisira ZvepaIndaneti Zvinokonzera Zvinetso Zvepabonde Here? Kuongorora neKliniki Reports (2016), zvidzidzo kuongorora vechidiki zvepabonde kubvira 2010 mushumo mamiriro ezvakaitika zvehutano hwekuita zvepabonde, uye kutyisa kwematambudziko echirwere chitsva: pasi libido.
Isati yasvika yekusununguka kwekusununguka kwepabonde (2006), zvidzidzo zvepamusoro-soro uye meta-analysis zvakaratidza kuti erectile kusagadzikana kwehuwandu hwe2-5% muvarume pasi pe40. Erectile kudzvinyirira muhuwandu mune zvidzidzo zve 8 kubva pa 14% kusvika ku35%, asi mazana ekuderera kwepido (hupombwe) kubva pa 16% kusvika ku37%. Icho chiri pedyo ne 1000% kuwedzera kwevechidiki ED yehuwandu mumakore ekupedzisira e10-15. Ndezvipi zvakasiyana-siyana zvakashandurwa mumakore ekupedzisira e15 angakwanisa kuenzanisa nekusimudzirwa kwemazuva ano?
Mukuwedzera kune zvataurwa pamusoro apa 28, peji ino ine zvinyorwa nemavhidhiyo nemapurisa anopfuura 150 (urology maprofesa, urologists, masayendisiti, masayendisiti epfungwa, vanoona nezvepabonde, MDs) vanobvuma uye vakabudirira kubata zvirwere zvepabonde-zvinoita kuti ED uye zvinonyadzisa-zviitwe kurasikirwa kwechido chepabonde. VaUrologists vakapa kaviri uchapupu hwehupombwe hunokonzerwa nekuita zvepabonde pamusangano wegore negore weAmerican Urological Association. (Cherechedza Dr Pacha mharidzo kuri YouTube.)
Ko zvakadini nemigumisiro yezvinonyadzisira pahukama? Iko ikozvino pamusoro peongororo makumi manomwe neshanu dzinobatanidza porn dzinoshandisa kushoma kwepabonde uye kugutsikana kwehukama. Chidimbu kubva kune yazvino meta-ongororo yakaongorora zvese zvakakosha zvidzidzo (Zvinonyadzisira Zvinoshandiswa uye Kugutsikana: Meta-Kuongorora, 2017):
Zvisinei, Kuona zvinonyadzisira kushandiswa kwakabatanidzwa nemigumisiro yakaderera yekugutsikana kwevamwe mumagariro ekupatsanurana, kuongorora kwenguva refu, uye kuedza. Kushamwaridzana pakati pekuona zvinonyadzisira kushandiswa uye kuderedzwa kwekugutsikana kwezvibvumirano hakuna kuenzaniswa negore ravo rekusunungurwa kana kuti zvinyorwa zvayo.
Chii chaiva Taylor Kohut huchapupu hukuru hwekutsigira zvaanotaura? Tsvakurudzo yake chaiyo ye2016: Migumisiro Inonzwisisika Yezvinonyadzisira Pahukama Hwakaroorana: Pakutanga Zvitsva zveZvivhurwe, Vakabatanidzwa-Vakatsanangurwa, "Pasi-kumusoro" Tsvakurudzo.
Zvimwe zviviri zvinokanganisa zvinokanganisa zvinokonzera mhinduro isina zvazvinobatsira mukudzidza kwake:
- Chidzidzo hachina mumiriri wemuenzaniso. Kunyange zvazvo nyanzvi dzakawanda dzichiratidza kuti vashomanana vevasikana vanoita zvinonyadzisira 'shamwari dzevakadzi vanogara vachishandisa zvinonyadzisira, muchidzidzo chino 95% yevakadzi vakashandisa zvinonyadzisira pachavo. uye 85% yevakadzi vakanga vashandisa zvinonyadzisira kubvira pakutanga kwehukama (mune dzimwe nguva kwemakore). Izvo zviyero zvekushandisa zvakakwirira kudarika mukoroji-varume vakuru! Mune mamwe mazwi, vanotsvakurudza vanoita sokuti vakanyora muenzaniso wavo kuti vabereke zvavakatsvaga.
- Chokwadi: Dhamba-sectional data kubva kuUnited States Survey (General Social Survey) yakashuma iyo chete 2.6% yevakadzi vakanga vashanyira "webhusaiti yepabonde" mumwedzi wapera. Dhata kubva 2000, 2002, 2004. Kune zvimwe ona - Zvinonyadzisira uye Imba (2014)
- Chidzidzo chacho chakashandisa mibvunzo "yakasununguka" apo nyaya yacho inogona kupfuurira mberi uye pamusoro pezvinhu zvinonyadzisira. Zvadaro vatsvakurudzi vakaverenga ramblings uye vakasarudza, shure kwechokwadi, zvii zvaipindura "zvakakosha," uye kuti vangaudza sei (spin?) Ivo mumapepa avo. Zvadaro vatsvakurudzi vaiva neguru kuratidza kuti zvimwe zvidzidzo zvose pamusoro pehupombwe uye hukama, izvo zvakashandisa zvakasimbiswa, nzira dzezvesayenzi uye mibvunzo yakananga pamusoro pezvinoitika zvekusangana Chakakanganisa. Iyi nzira yakarurama sei?
Pasinei nezvikanganiso zvinokuvadza vamwe vakaroorana vanotaura nezvekuvhiringidza kwakaipa kubva pakushandisa zvinonyadzisira, zvakadai se:
- Zvinonyadzisira zviri nyore, zvinonakidza, zvinomutsa, zvakanyanya kudiwa, kana zvinopfuura zvinonakidza kudarika zvepabonde nemumwe wako
- Zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandisa zvinoshungurudza, zvinoderedza kukwanisa kugona kana kuchengetedza zvekuita zvepabonde, kana kuti kugadziriswa.
- Vamwe vakati zvinotsanangurwa zvakananga nezvekushushikana semagumisiro ekuona zvinonyadzisira anoshandisa
- Vamwe vaishushikana nekurasika kwehukama kana rudo.
- Izvo zvakarongerwa kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinoita kuti zvepabonde chaiyo zvive zvisingabatsiri, zvinowanzoitika, zvisinganyanyi kubuda, kana zvisinganyanyi kufadza
Webhusaiti itsva yaTaylor Kohut muna 2017 (pornforscience.com, yanga isisashande muna Mbudzi 2022) kuedza kubhadhara mari inoratidza kuti anogona kungova nerongwa. Kohut ine nhoroondo yekudhinda zvidzidzo zve "kugadzira" zvakagadzirirwa kuwana zvishoma kana kuti hazvina matambudziko zvinobva pakushandisa zvinonyadzisira. Somuenzaniso, peji yaKhut's 2016, "Kuita Ruvengo Kwevakadzi"? Zvinonyadzisira Vashandi Vanowedzera Kuwedzera Gender Egalitarian Maonero Kune Vasiri Vasiri Vamiririri Mumiririri American Sample ".
Kohut akaiswa egalitarianism senotsigiro yeChikadzi chekutsanangurwa, Vakadzi vane nzvimbo dzesimba, Vakadzi vanoshanda kunze kwemusha, Kubvisa pamuviri. Heinoiyi kiyi: Vanhu vazhinji, avo vanoita sevanonyanya kusununguka, vane kure huwandu hwehutano hwekushandisa zvinonyadzisira kudarika zvekunamata. Nokusarudza izvi zvinotarisirwa uye kusazvidza zvimwe zvingasagadziriswa, munyori anotungamirira Taylor Kohut aiziva kuti aizoguma nevanoshandisa zvinonyadzisira vachikwirira zvakakwirira pakudzidza kwake zvakanyatsosarudzwa kusarudzwa kwezvinoreva "kuenzanisa." Akabva asarudza zita rakasarudzwa.
Ichokwadi: inenge dzose zvidzidzo inorondedzera zvinopesana nemigumisiro. Pano pane zvidzidzo zve40 zvinobatanidza zvinonyadzisira zvinoshandiswa kune mafungiro ekuita zvepabonde, zvinoshandiswa uye kusagadzikana.
BARTLE YAKATAURWA: Muongororo yeAustralia yakabudiswa gore rino, chete 4% yevarume uye 1% yevakadzi vakati vaidhakwa 'zvinonyadzisira'.
Chirevo chekudzidza chaive chakatsausa sezvo chakasiya huwandu hwakakura hwezvakashata mune iwo makumi matatu uye pasi - iwo akakura achishandisa internet porn.
Maererano neTable 5 mukudzidza, 17% yevarume nevakadzi vane makore 16-30 boka vakashuma kuti kushandisa zvinonyadzisira kune zvakashata kwavari. (Kusiyana, pakati pevanhu 60-69, chete 7.2% yaifunga zvinonyadzisira yakaipa.)
Ndezvipi zvinyorwa zvitsva zvinobva kuongororo iyi zvingave zvakasiyana kudai vanyori vakanga vachisimbisa kuti vakawana 1 mu 5 vechidiki vaitenda kuti kushandiswa kwepabonde kwaive ne "mamiriro akaipa" kwavari? Chii chakaita kuti vaedze kuderedza kuwanikwa uku nokuregeresa uye nekuisa pfungwa pamigumisiro yechipfuva-pane kuti boka rive panjodzi yezvinetso zvepa internet?
Paunotarisa mberi kwechinhu chisina kunyengera, tinowana zvikonzero zvakawanda zvekubvunza mubvunzo uyu:
- Ichi chaive chirevo chemuchinjikwa chechimiro chemazana emakore evanhu 16-69, varume nevakadzi. Zvakanyatsosimbiswa kuti majaya ndeavo vashandisi vekutengesa zvinonyadzisira. Saka, 25% yevarume uye 60% yevakadzi vakanga vasina kuona zvinonyadzisira kamwe chete mumwedzi yekupedzisira ye12. Nokudaro nhamba dzakaungana dzakaderedza dambudziko kuburikidza nekufukidzira vashandi vari pangozi.
- Mubvunzo mumwechete, wakabvunza vatori vechikamu kana vakashandisa zvinonyadzisira mumwedzi yekupedzisira ye12, hazvirevi kuti zvinoshandiswa sei kushandisa zvinonyadzisira. Semuenzaniso, munhu akambomira mumusana wepisimusi pop-up anoonekwa seakasiyana nemumwe munhu anonyadzisira 3 nguva pazuva kumatare anonyadzisira.
- Zvisinei, apo tsvakurudzo yakabvunzwa kune avo "vakamboona zvinonyadzisira" izvo vakaona zvinonyadzisira mugore rapfuura, yepamusoro yepakati yaiva mwana boka. 93.4% yadzo yakanga yaonekwa mugore rapera, nevana 20-29 vekare shure kwavo pa88.6.
- Dhiyabhorosi yakaungana pakati peOctober 2012 naNovember 2013. Zvinhu zvakashanduka zvakawanda mumakore ekupedzisira e-5, nemhaka yekupinda kwe-smartphone-kunyanya kuvashandi vaduku.
- Mibvunzo yakabvunzwa mumakombiyuta-anobatsira foni kubvunzurudzwa. Izvo zvakasikwa kuti zvive zvakanyanya mukushamwaridzana zvisingazivikanwi, kunyanya kana kubvunzurudzwa kuri pamusoro pezvinhu zvinotambudza zvakadai sekushandisa zvinonyadzisira uye kupindwa muropa kwepabonde.
- Iyi mibvunzo inobva pazviri pachedu-maonero. Ramba uchiyeuka kuti kuvhiringidzika kazhinji havasati vazviona sevanodhakwa. Kutaura zvazviri, vazhinji vashandisi vepaIndaneti vanoita zvisingaiti kuti vagobatanidza zviratidzo zvavo nekushandisa zvinonyadzisira kunze kwokunge varega kwenguva refu.
- Chidzidzo chacho hachina kushandiswa mibvunzo yakagadziriswa (yakanzi isingazivikanwe), iyo inonyanya kuongorora yakaongorora zvose zvinodhaka zvepabonde uye zvinonyanya kuitika kune vanoshandisa.
Zvakare, vashomanana vanogara vachiona zvinonyadzisira vanoona kuti zvinonyadzisira zvakakanganisa sei kusvikira mushure mekunge vasiya kushandisa. Kazhinji vashandisi vekare vanoshandisa mwedzi inoverengeka kuti vaone zvikanganiso. Nokudaro, chidzidzo chakafanana neicho chinosakundikana zvikuru.
Zvakadini nenguva ichangopfuura kusazivikanwa tsvakurudzo dzevashandisi veIndaneti?
Zvinodhaka zvinowirirana, zvichienderana nemiganhu yekudzidza, asi kana iwe uchida kunzwisisa mamiriro echokwadi, zvakakosha kuisa pfungwa kune avo vari pangozi vari kusanganisa (kusingapindi kuvimba nezvidzidzo zvevanhu vakawanda zvinosanganisira vanambuya). Muna 2016, mapoka maviri evatsvakurudzi (imwe kubva kuEurope, imwe kubva kuAmerica) yakaongororwa kana kubvunzwa mukono vanoshandisa zvinonyadzisira. Mapoka maviri aya akaudza kuti 28% yevatongi vavo vanogona kuedza kuedza kushandiswa kwechinetso ("Zvinyorwa Zvitsva Zvevanhu Vanofarira Kutsvaga Kuchengetedzwa Kwekushandisa Kwezvinonyadzisira") Kana kuti vainetseka nezvekushandiswa kwavo kwepabonde ("Mabasa ekuita zvepabonde paIndaneti: Kuongorora zvidzidzo zvekunetseka uye kusina matambudziko emashandisirwo emashandisirwo mumuenzaniso wevarume"). Muna 2017, vadzidzisi vakaongororawo vadzidzi vekuUkoloni (vamwe vavo vakanga vasina vashandisi vepabonde) zvekuita zvepabonde. Mhinduro yakaratidza izvozvo 19% yevadzidzi vehurume uye 4% yevadzidzi vechikadzi vakawana kuedza kwekudhakwa ("Cybersex Addiction Pakati pevadzidzi veKunivhesiti: Chidzidzo Chakawanda").
Cherechedza: Kuita zvinodhaka hazvirevi nyaya yose. Vamwe varume vechidiki vane zvinonyadzisira zvepabonde zvinokonzera zvinonyadzisira havakwanisi, uye havangasangana nemhando ipi zvayo ye "kutengesa" chikamu. Kunyange zvakadaro, dzimwe nguva vanoda mwedzi kuti vadzoke kubva pakushamiswa kwakaderera uye zvimwe zvinetso panguva dzepabonde dzakaparadzana, zvakadai sokuoma kwekugumira uye kuchengetedza zvisarudzo.