Pepani Dr. Perry, ndi zolaula. Kafukufuku wa 2021 akutsutsa chiphunzitso cha ziweto cha Perry chakuti kuseweretsa maliseche, osati zolaula, ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pamavuto a ubale. Onani Zithunzi Zolaula ndi Kusakhutira Pakugonana: Udindo wa Chilakolako cha Zolaula, Kuyerekeza Zolaula Kwambiri, ndi Kukonda Kuseweretsa Zolaula (2021 ).
ZOCHITIKA ZOCHITSA - 2019: Wolemba Samuel Perry adatsimikiza zokonda zake pamene adalowa mgwirizano ndi amgwirizano nawo Chithunzi cha Nicole ndi David Ley poyesera kuti chete YourBrainOnPorn.com. Akatswiri a Perry ndi akatswiri ena a pro-porn ku www.realyourbrainonporn.com alowa kuphwanya malamulo kosamaloledwa ndi kuphwanya malamulo. Wowerenga ayenera kudziwa izi RealYBOP twitter (ndi kuvomerezedwa kowoneka ndi akatswiri ake) akutenga nawo gawo pakuyipitsa ndi kuvutitsa a Gary Wilson, Alexander Rhodes, Gabe Deem ndi NCOSE, Laila Mickelwait, Gail Dinesndipo aliyense amene amalankhula zolaula za porn. Kuphatikiza apo, David Ley ndi akatswiri ena awiri a "RealYBOP" tsopano kulipidwa ndi makampani ojambula zolaula chimphona chachikulu cha xHamster kulimbikitsa mawebusayiti ake (ie StripChat) ndikuwonetsetsa kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso zolaula ndizabodza! Prause (amene imayendetsa RealYBOP twitter) zikuwoneka kuti osangalatsa kwambiri ndi makampani oonera zolaula, ndipo imagwiritsa ntchito RealYBOP twitter kuti zolimbikitsa makanema azolaula, kuteteza PornHub (yomwe idasunga makanema ogulitsa ana zolaula komanso kugonana), ndi khalani nawo omwe akulimbikitsa pempholi kuti agwire PornHub imakhala ndi mlandu. Tikhulupirira kuti "akatswiri" a RealYBOP akuyenera kulembetsa umembala wawo wa RealYBOP kuti ndi "mkangano wosangalatsa" m'mabuku awo owunikiridwa ndi anzawo.
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Mfundo zazikuluzikulu zotsutsa (Perry, 2020):
- Wofufuza zachipembedzo a Samuel Perry pepala latsopano ndikuwunikiranso zomwe adagwiritsa ntchito m'modzi mwa maphunziro ake olaula.
- Zikuwoneka kuti zowononga zolaula Chithunzi cha Nicole ndipo David Ley "adalimbikitsa" Perry kuti awunikenso. Chidziwitso: Chaka chotsatira Perry nayenso adagwirizana ndi paketi yake yatsopano ya nkhandwe (Prause, Ley ndi chums awo) kupita munthu webusaiti yathu ndi zamalonda amawononga chizindikiro cha YBOP. Mukuyesera kutseketsa kutsutsa kwa YBOP?
- Kubwerera ku "kuzindikira" kwatsopano kwa Perry. Pambuyo powerengera kodziwika bwino "Perry adalimbikitsa kuti kuseweretsa maliseche, osati zolaula, ndiye vuto lenileni pamaubwenzi. Awa ndiye malo olankhulirana a Prause ndi Ley akhala akukankhira, mwachiwonekere kuyesa kusokoneza anthu poyerekeza zolaula. Onani pansipa.
- Kulephera kwa kafukufuku watsopano wa Perry ndiko kusowa kwa deta yeniyeni, yodalirika pafupipafupi. Popanda zimenezo, zomwe akunena sizongoganizira chabe.
- Malingaliro a Perry akuwerengedwa ndi Phunziro la 80 likugwirizanitsa zolaula kugwiritsira ntchito kuchepetsa kugonana ndi chiyanjano cha banja (kuphatikizapo maphunziro a 7 longitudinal). Monga momwe ife tikudziwira onse Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna adanena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zambiri zogwirizana osauka kugonana kapena kukondana.
Kufufuza njira yatsopano: kuseweretsa maliseche ndiye komwe kumayambitsa, osati zolaula… osati zolaula.
Vuto la Prause-Ley: chochita ndi maphunziro ambiri omwe amagwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi zotsatira zoyipa zambiri ? Popeza akatswiri okonda zolaula amatha kungopereka maphunziro okayikitsa komanso malingaliro olakwika, anthu achinyengo awa adapanga njira yatsopano yothandizira kampeni yawo ya agnotology: amadzudzula zoyipa zonse za zolaula chifukwa cha maliseche. (Mukuti chiyani ?)
Motero, mu 2016, ena mwa akatswiri otsutsa za zolaula (Ley & Prause) anakhala akatswiri oyamba kuyesa kutsimikizira dziko lapansi kuti kudziseweretsa maliseche, osati kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula za digito, ndiko kunayambitsa kukwera kwakukulu kwa kuchuluka kwa anthu osakwanitsa zaka 40 omwe ali ndi vuto la kugonana . "Kufunika" kwa mfundo yolankhula molimba mtima imeneyi kuli mu kuthekera kwake kuyambitsa kukayikira m'maganizo mwa anthu za zoopsa za zolaula. Ndi zosokoneza zodabwitsa kuchokera ku umboni wonse wosonyeza kugwiritsa ntchito mopitirira muyeso zolaula pa intaneti zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto. Katswiri aliyense wa zamatsenga adzakuuzani kuti njira yochepetsera chowonadi ndikungoyambitsa kukayikira m'maganizo mwa anthu omwe akufuna kupitiliza khalidwe lodziwononga. Big Tobacco imaonedwa kuti ndiye wopanga "sayansi ya zamatsenga," mwa njira.
Tiyeni timveke bwino. Palibe kafukufuku aliyense amene a Deniers amatchula, kupatulapo kamodzi kosamveka bwino, komwe kumapereka chithandizo chochepa cha "si zolaula; ndi maliseche ". Chosiyana ndi pepala ili lolembedwa ndi katswiri wa zachikhalidwe cha anthu SL Perry.
History
Tiyeni tiwone momwe kampeni iyi idachitikira.
Ndiponso, ngakhale kuti maphunziro opitilira 100 akugwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kusakhutira ndi kugonana kapena ubale, David Ley ndi Nicole Prause adapanga njira yatsopano yolimbikitsira makina awo ofalitsa nkhani zolaula : maliseche ndiye vuto lenileni, osati kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Sizingakhale zolaula.
Ngakhale kuti mfundo yolankhuliranayi inalibe chithandizo chilichonse, ndipo imayesa kutsutsa upangiri wa zaka makumi ambiri wa zachiwerewere wakuti kuseweretsa maliseche si vuto, inakhala yankho lawo ku kafukufuku watsopano uliwonse wogwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi zotsatira zoyipa. Ngakhale kuti palibe katswiri wa urologist amene adagwirizana nawo, Prause & Ley adavomereza, akuimba mlandu kuseweretsa maliseche nthawi zonse chifukwa cha kusagwira ntchito bwino kwa maliseche mwa amuna osakwana zaka 40!
Mwachitsanzo, Prause mu 2016 akuyesera kukana zomwe kafukufukuyu adapeza ndi mwamuna wake wachizolowezi wodziseweretsa maliseche:
Monga mukuwonera, pafupipafupi kuseweretsa maliseche sikungakhale ndi chochita ndi zotsatira za phunziroli:
Poyesa izi, tafufuza a 487 amuna a koleji (zaka za 18-29) ku United States kuti ayerekezere kuchuluka kwawo kwa zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi zokonda za kugonana. Zotsatira zinawonetsa kuti zithunzi zolaula zomwe mwamuna amaziyang'ana, ndizofunika kuti azigwiritsa ntchito panthawi yogonana, pemphani zolaula zogonana zogonana naye, mwadala mwadzidzidzi kujambula zithunzi zolaula panthawi ya kugonana kuti azikhalabe okondana, ndipo amakhala ndi nkhaŵa pazochita zogonana ndi thupi lake chithunzi.
Osati atha kuchitidwa, Ley amaletsa maliseche pofuna kusokonezeka kwa erectile kwa anyamata.
Apanso, palibe katswiri wa urologist amene akugwirizana ndi zomwe Ley ananena kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumayambitsa ED mwa anyamata (onani kuti Ley satchula chilichonse kuti amuthandize). Komabe, chikhulupiriro cha Ley ndi chakuti " zolaula sizimayambitsa mavuto aliwonse ... konse. "
Nicole Prause ndi David Ley adatsutsa maphunziro a zolaula a Samuel Perry (kodi Perry adamva kuti ali pachiwopsezo chokwanira kuti awunikenso pepala lake loyambirira?).
Sizoseketsa, chifukwa Prause imawopseza anthu ambiri. Iye wakhala akuzunza anthu kwa nthawi yayitali, kunyoza anthu ena komanso kupereka malipoti ankhanza kwa anthu ndi mabungwe awo ku mabungwe awo olamulira kapena mabungwe a maphunziro - kuphatikizapo ofufuza, madokotala, akatswiri azachipatala, akatswiri a zamaganizo, ogwira nawo ntchito omwe adagwira nawo ntchito kwa nthawi yochepa ku UCLA, bungwe lothandiza anthu ku UK, amuna omwe akuchira, mkonzi wa magazini ya TIME , mapulofesa angapo, IITAP, SASH, Fight The New Drug, Exodus Cry, magazini yamaphunziro ya Behavioral Sciences , kampani yake yayikulu MDPI, madokotala azachipatala a US Navy, mkulu wa magazini yamaphunziro ya CUREUS, ndi magazini ya Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (kutchula ochepa).
Kodi Perry anayankha bwanji? Zikuoneka kuti anaganiza kuti, “ Ngati simungathe kukambirana nawo , gwirizanani nawo.”
Mu Epulo, 2019 Perry sanayesenso kukhala wofufuza wopanda tsankho. Analowa nawo gulu kuti aba chizindikiro cha YBOP. Mutha kuwona Prause, Ley ndi Perry akuwonetsedwa kwambiri patsamba la akatswiri a "Real Your Brain On Porn": https://www.realyourbrainonporn.com/experts . Onani tsamba ili kuti mudziwe zambiri: Kuphwanya Malamulo Oyendetsera Zinthu Mwankhanza Komwe Kumachitidwa ndi Okana Kusuta Zolaula (www.realyourbrainonporn.com).
Kafukufuku wa Perry alibe deta yolondola yokhudza kuseweretsa maliseche
Pambuyo pa "kujambula zithunzi" kwapamwamba, Perry adanenanso kuti kuchuluka kwa maliseche, osati kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, ndiye chifukwa chenicheni cha chisangalalo muubwenzi. Mpata waukulu mu kusanthula kwatsopano kwa Perry ndi kusowa kwa deta yeniyeni komanso yodalirika yokhudza kuchuluka kwa maliseche, popeza adangofunsa kuti " Kodi mudamaliza liti maliseche ?" Popanda deta yolimba yokhudza kuchuluka kwa maliseche, zomwe akunena ndi zongopeka chabe. Kuchokera ku kafukufuku wa Perry:
Mazochita Odziseweretsa. NFSS ndi RIA onse amafunsa mafunso awiri ofanana okhudza kudziseweretsa maliseche omwe wolembayo adawaphatikiza muyeso umodzi wodziseweretsa maliseche pa kafukufuku onse awiri. Ophunzirawo adafunsidwa koyamba ngati adadziseweretsa maliseche (Inde kapena Ayi). Amene adayankha kuti adadziseweretsa maliseche adafunsidwa kuti, “ Kodi mudadziseweretsa maliseche liti komaliza? ” Mayankho anali kuyambira 1 = lero mpaka 9 = chaka chapitacho.
Perry akupitiriza:
"Ngakhale funso ili silikufunsa zafupipafupi ... .."
Osaseka. Ndipo komabe, Perry, Prause, Ley, Grubbs ndi ena tsopano akupanga zonena zawo modabwitsa motengera pepalali lokhalokha komanso "kupeza" kwake kosasamala kudalira izi. Makina abodza okhudzana ndi zolaula akuwonetsedwa pakuwunikanso kwa Perry.
Ndipotu, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri kunagwirizanitsidwa ndi chisangalalo chochepa cha ubale m'zitsanzo zonse za Perry (A & B):
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Zomwe Perry amanena kuti akhoza kupasula magulu opanga maulamuliro pogwiritsa ntchito maliseche sangathe kuchitidwa mozama - makamaka popeza analibe deta yolondola yokhudzana ndi maliseche.
ZOCHITIKA - Leonhardt et al., 2019 amalankhula ndi pepala la a Samuel Perry
MAKAMBO ACHIWIRI: Mu 2018, Archives of Sexual Behavior inafalitsa Leonhardt et al., 2018 ndipo inapempha ndemanga. Povumbulutsa tsankho lomwe limapezeka m'magazini a sexology, ndemanga zinayi mwa zisanu ndi chimodzi zinali za "akatswiri" a RealYBOP Samuel Perry, Taylor Kohut, Nicole Prause & David Ley (Ley kapena Prause si akatswiri). Monga tafotokozera, RealYBOP ikuyesera kuletsa kutsutsa kwa YBOP mwa kuba chizindikiro cha YBOP.
RealYBOP ndi akatswiri ake akugwira ntchito mwakhama polimbikitsa zolinga za makampani opanga zolaula . Pofuna kuletsa zolaula ndikusokoneza anthu, apanga meme kuti kuseweretsa maliseche, osati zolaula, ndiye vuto "lenileni". Mu mgwirizano, ndemanga zinayi za akatswiri a RealYBOP zikunena izi (zochokera pa pepala limodzi la Perry ndi malingaliro ake okhudza ntchito ya kuseweretsa maliseche).
Mu 2019, Leonhardt ndi anzake adayankha ndemanga zonse 6 ndi " Sexual Media and Sexual Quality: Aims, Distinctions, and Reflexivity—Response to Commentaries (2019) . " Nayi gawo (losatchulidwa mokwanira komanso losalemekeza, koma lotsutsa kwambiri) momwe olembawo amalankhula za meme ya "ndi kudziseweretsa maliseche, osati zolaula":
Timalimbikitsa ofufuza kuti azitha kuwerengera maliseche pakufufuza kwamtsogolo, kuti awerenge mosamala ndemanga pamutuwu (Ley, 2019; Perry, 2019b; Pembedzero, 2019), ndikuphatikizanso mtundu wa Perry polankhula pamphambano yazogwiritsira ntchito zolaula komanso maliseche. Nthawi yomweyo, timachenjeza kuti tisaganize kuti mayanjano aliwonse omwe angakhalepo pakati pa zolaula ndi zomwe zachitika makamaka / zimangotengera kuseweretsa maliseche. Kuchita zododometsa ndikuganiza momwe kuseweretsa maliseche pakokha kumatha kulumikizidwa kwa nthawi yayitali ndikuwonjezeka kwa chiwerewere (Tokunaga, Wright, & Roskos, 2019), kuwona akazi ngati chinthu chogonana (Vandenbosch & Eggermont, 2012; Vandenbosch & van Ooseten, 2017 ), ndikuwona ukwati ngati chinthu chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo (Leonhardt & Willoughby, 2018), osaganizira malembedwe omwe amafotokozedwera pazakugonana. Potenga gawo lina, kafukufuku wambiri akuwonetsa kuti zolembera zimakhudza malingaliro ndi machitidwe pazochitika zankhanza (Anderson et al., 2010) ndi machitidwe okonda kusintha zinthu (Coyne et al., 2018). Zingakhale zododometsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, kuyesa kutchula maliseche pofotokoza zakulembedwa zolembedwa kuchokera kuzosangalatsa mpaka pazomwe zimachitika.
Mphamvu zomwe zingalembedwe kuchokera pazakugonana zitha kukhala zobisika kwa wogwiritsa ntchito mwa apo ndi apo, ndipo timazindikira kuti nthawi zina mayanjano azitali amakhala osasinthika (mwachitsanzo, Perry & Longest, 2019). Monga tanena kale, owongolera ena atha kukhala olimba kwambiri kotero kuti zimakhala zovuta kupeza gulu lamphamvu (Leonhardt et al., 2018). Koma zina mwazosagawanika izi ziyenera kuyambitsa kulingalira mosamala kuti ndi liti ndipo zingakhudze bwanji kutengera malingaliro ndi machitidwe. Tili okondwa kuvomereza zofunikira pakufufuza kwaposachedwa zomwe zikuwonetsa kufunikira kwa kuwerengera maliseche mukamaphunzira zankhani zachiwerewere (Miller et al., 2019; Perry, 2019a). Nthawi yomweyo, tiyenera kukhala osamala kuti tisakokomeze zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu akhale ndi vuto lodziseweretsa maliseche ndikupanga mayeso ovuta kwambiri kuti tiwone momwe izi zimayendera.
Kudalirika
J Sex Res. 2019 Jan 11:1-13. doi: 10.1080/00224499.2018.1556772
Perry SL 1.
Kafukufuku wambiri awona kulumikizana kosalekeza komanso kosavuta pakati pa zolaula ndikugwiritsa ntchito ubale wapabanja. Ngakhale malingaliro osiyanasiyana afotokozedwa kuti afotokoze mgwirizanowu, kafukufuku sanawunikenso ngati kulumikizana komwe kumachitika pakati pa zolaula ndi zotsatira zaubwenzi kumakhudzana kwambiri ndi kuseweretsa maliseche kuposa kuwona zolaula. Kafukufuku wapano adalemba magawo awiri oyimira mayiko omwe ali ndi njira zofananira ngati kuyesa kuchita maliseche kumachepetsa kapena kuthetseratu mgwirizano pakati pazogwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso chisangalalo. Maulamuliro amaphatikizidwa pamafupipafupi ogonana komanso kukhutira, zodandaula, ndi zina zofunikira. Zotsatira zochokera ku 2012 New Family Structures Study (NFSS; N = 1,977) ndi kafukufuku wa 2014 Relationships in America (RIA; Ng = 10,106) akuwonetsa kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumalumikizidwa ndi chisangalalo chamtundu wa abambo ndi amai, pomwe zolaula sizigwirizana kapena amakhala wosagwirizana ndi chisangalalo chachibale kamodzi kuseweretsa maliseche. Zowonadi, umboni ukusonyeza kuyanjana pang'ono pakati pa zolaula ndikugwiritsa ntchito chisangalalo chamtundu wina pokhapokha kuseweretsa maliseche komanso kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Zotsatira zikusonyeza kuti kafukufuku wamtsogolo pamutuwu ayenera kuphatikiza njira zoseweretsa maliseche komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso kuti kusintha kwa malingaliro olumikiza zolaula kumagwiritsidwa ntchito pazotsatira zaubwenzi kuyenera kuganiziridwa.
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