Kudzudzulidwa kwa a Samuel Perry "Kodi Kulumikizana Pakati pa Zithunzi Zolaula Ndi Kusangalala Kwambiri Ndi Zotengera Zamaliseche? Zotsatira za Kafukufuku Wamayiko Awiri ”(2019)

Pepani Dr. Perry, ndi zolaula. Kafukufuku wa 2021 amatsimikizira zomwe Petry amaganiza kuti kuseweretsa maliseche, osati zolaula, ndizofunikira kwambiri pamavuto amgwirizano. Mwawona Zithunzi Zolaula ndi Kusakhutira Pazakugonana: Udindo Wakuwonetsa Zolaula, Kuyerekeza Kwapamwamba Zolaula, komanso Kukonda Kugonana Kwamaliseche (2021)).

ZOCHITIKA ZOCHITSA - 2019: Wolemba Samuel Perry adatsimikiza zokonda zake pamene adalowa mgwirizano ndi amgwirizano nawo Chithunzi cha Nicole ndi David Ley poyesera kuti chete YourBrainOnPorn.com. Akatswiri a Perry ndi akatswiri ena a pro-porn ku www.realyourbrainonporn.com alowa kuphwanya malamulo kosamaloledwa ndi kuphwanya malamulo. Wowerenga ayenera kudziwa izi RealYBOP twitter (ndi kuvomerezedwa kowoneka ndi akatswiri ake) akutenga nawo gawo pakuyipitsa ndi kuvutitsa a Gary Wilson, Alexander Rhodes, Gabe Deem ndi NCOSE, Laila Mickelwait, Gail Dinesndipo aliyense amene amalankhula zolaula za porn. Kuphatikiza apo, David Ley ndi akatswiri ena awiri a "RealYBOP" tsopano kulipidwa ndi makampani ojambula zolaula chimphona chachikulu cha xHamster kulimbikitsa mawebusayiti ake (ie StripChat) ndikuwonetsetsa kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso zolaula ndizabodza! Prause (amene imayendetsa RealYBOP twitter) zikuwoneka kuti osangalatsa kwambiri ndi makampani oonera zolaula, ndipo imagwiritsa ntchito RealYBOP twitter kuti zolimbikitsa makanema azolaula, kuteteza PornHub (yomwe idasunga makanema ogulitsa ana zolaula komanso kugonana), ndi khalani nawo omwe akulimbikitsa pempholi kuti agwire PornHub imakhala ndi mlandu. Tikhulupirira kuti "akatswiri" a RealYBOP akuyenera kulembetsa umembala wawo wa RealYBOP kuti ndi "mkangano wosangalatsa" m'mabuku awo owunikiridwa ndi anzawo.

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Mfundo zazikuluzikulu zotsutsa (Perry, 2020):

  1. Wofufuza zachipembedzo a Samuel Perry pepala latsopano ndikuwunikiranso zomwe adagwiritsa ntchito m'modzi mwa maphunziro ake olaula.
  2. Zikuwoneka kuti zowononga zolaula Chithunzi cha Nicole ndipo David Ley "adalimbikitsa" Perry kuti awunikenso. Chidziwitso: Chaka chotsatira Perry nayenso adagwirizana ndi paketi yake yatsopano ya nkhandwe (Prause, Ley ndi chums awo) kupita munthu webusaiti yathu ndi zamalonda amawononga chizindikiro cha YBOP. Mukuyesera kutseketsa kutsutsa kwa YBOP?
  3. Kubwerera ku "kuzindikira" kwatsopano kwa Perry. Pambuyo powerengera kodziwika bwino "Perry adalimbikitsa kuti kuseweretsa maliseche, osati zolaula, ndiye vuto lenileni pamaubwenzi. Awa ndiye malo olankhulirana a Prause ndi Ley akhala akukankhira, mwachiwonekere kuyesa kusokoneza anthu poyerekeza zolaula. Onani pansipa.
  4. Kulephera kwa kafukufuku watsopano wa Perry ndiko kusowa kwa deta yeniyeni, yodalirika pafupipafupi. Popanda zimenezo, zomwe akunena sizongoganizira chabe.
  5. Malingaliro a Perry akuwerengedwa ndi Phunziro la 80 likugwirizanitsa zolaula kugwiritsira ntchito kuchepetsa kugonana ndi chiyanjano cha banja (kuphatikizapo maphunziro a 7 longitudinal). Monga momwe ife tikudziwira onse Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna adanena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zambiri zogwirizana osauka kugonana kapena kukondana.

Kufufuza njira yatsopano: kuseweretsa maliseche ndiye komwe kumayambitsa, osati zolaula… osati zolaula.

The Prause-Ley conundrum: choyenera kuchita Zofufuza zambiri zomwe zimagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsira ntchito zotsatira zoipa zambiri? Popeza kuti anthu ochita zachiwerewere ogonana ndi amaliseche amatha kutulutsa maphunziro osokoneza bongo komanso maganizo osiyana siyana, anthu opusawa amapanga njira yatsopano yothandizira polojekiti yawo: amaimba mlandu onse okhudzana ndi maliseche mmalo mwake. (Nenani chani?)

Choncho, mu 2016 zochepa zolaula-sayansi Deniers (Ley & Prause) adakhala akatswiri oyamba kuyesa kutsimikizira dziko lapansi kuti maliseche, osati kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zamagetsi, anali ndi udindo pa Kuthamanga kwakukulu muyezo wa erectile wosagwira ntchito mwa amuna pansi pa 40. "Mtengo" wamalankhulidwe olimba mtimawu umatha chifukwa chokhoza kukayikitsa pagulu za kuwopsa kwa zolaula. Ndizosokoneza modabwitsa kuchokera ku maumboni onse osonyeza kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula pa intaneti zomwe zimayambitsa zovulaza. Katswiri aliyense wamatsenga angakuwuzeni kuti njira yosokoneza chowonadi ndikungobweretsa kukayikira m'malingaliro a anthu omwe akufuna kupitiliza kudziwononga. Fodya Wamkulu amadziwika kuti ndiye wopanga "sayansi ya agnotology," mwa njira.

Tiyeni tikhale omveka. Palibe maphunziro omwe a Deniers amatchulapo, kupatula chimodzi chokha, omwe sapereka chithandizo chilichonse kwa awo "si zolaula; ndi maliseche”Hering'i wofiira. Kupatula ndi pepalali wolemba SL Perry.

History

Tiyeni tiwone momwe kampeni iyi idachitikira.

Apanso, ngakhale pa maphunziro a 100 kugwirizanitsa ntchito zolaula ku mavuto a kugonana ndi osauka kugonana kapena kukondana. David Ley ndi Nicole Prause adalimbikitsa njira yatsopano yopititsira patsogolo makina osokoneza bongo: Kugonana ndi chilakolako chenichenicho, osati kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula. Sindingathe pezani zolaula.

Ngakhale kuti zokambiranazi sizinathandizidwe kwenikweni, komanso zimayesetsa kuthana ndi upangiri wazaka zambiri zakugonana kuti vuto lodziseweretsa maliseche silili vuto, lidakhala gawo lawo loyankha kafukufuku aliyense watsopano wokhudzana ndi zolaula kukhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa. Ngakhale palibe urologist adagwirizana nawo, a Prause & Ley adalumphira nsombazo, akudzudzula mchitidwe wodzitama wokhazikika kwa matenda osatha a erectile mwa amuna pansi pa 40!

Mwachitsanzo, Pembedzero mu 2016 kuyesa kuchotsa Kafukufukuyu akupeza ndi chizoloŵezi chake chachizolowezi chodzishamula:

Monga mukuwonera, pafupipafupi kuseweretsa maliseche sikungakhale ndi chochita ndi zotsatira za phunziroli:

Poyesa izi, tafufuza a 487 amuna a koleji (zaka za 18-29) ku United States kuti ayerekezere kuchuluka kwawo kwa zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi zokonda za kugonana. Zotsatira zinawonetsa kuti zithunzi zolaula zomwe mwamuna amaziyang'ana, ndizofunika kuti azigwiritsa ntchito panthawi yogonana, pemphani zolaula zogonana zogonana naye, mwadala mwadzidzidzi kujambula zithunzi zolaula panthawi ya kugonana kuti azikhalabe okondana, ndipo amakhala ndi nkhaŵa pazochita zogonana ndi thupi lake chithunzi.

Osati atha kuchitidwa, Ley amaletsa maliseche pofuna kusokonezeka kwa erectile kwa anyamata.

Apanso, palibe urologist yemwe amavomereza zomwe Ley ananena kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumayambitsa ED mwa anyamata (zindikirani kuti Ley sanatchule chilichonse chothandizira). Komabe, chikhulupiriro cha Ley ndi "zolaula sizimayambitsa mavuto aliwonse…."

Nicole Prause ndi David Ley adatsutsa maphunziro a zolaula a Samuel Perry (kodi Perry adamva kuti ali pachiwopsezo chokwanira kuti awunikenso pepala lake loyambirira?).

Osati kusewera, monga Prause akuwopseza anthu ambiri. Ali ndi kuzunza kwanthawi yayitali, kuipitsa mbiri komanso kupereka malipoti abodza payekha komanso mabungwe kwa mabungwe awo olamulira kapena mabungwe ophunzira - kuphatikiza ofufuza, madokotala, othandizira, akatswiri amisala, anzawo pantchito yake yayifupi ku UCLA, bungwe lachifundo ku UK, amuna akuchira, a TIME magazini editor, apulosi angapo, IITAP, SASH, Nkhondo Yatsopano Mankhwala, Exodus Cry, magazini yophunzitsa Sciences makhalidwe, kampani yake ya makolo MDPI, madokotala a ku United States a Navy, mutu wa nkhani yophunzira CUREUS, ndi magazini Kugonana & Kukakamira (kutchula ochepa).

Kodi Perry adayankha bwanji? Zikuwoneka ngati adaganiza, "If simungathe kukambirana ndi 'em, lowani nawo. ”

Mu Epulo, 2019 Perry sanadziyesere kukhala wofufuza wopanda tsankho. Adalowa nawo gulu kuti adziwe chizindikiro cha YBOP. Mutha kuwona Prause, Ley ndi Perry atchulidwa kwambiri patsamba la akatswiri la "Real Your Brain On Porn": https://www.realyourbrainonporn.com/experts. Onani tsamba ili kuti mudziwe zambiri: Chidindo Chachidakwa Choletsedwa Chogonjetsedwa ndi Amuna Osokoneza Ubongo (www.realyourbrainonporn.com).

Kafukufuku wa Perry alibe deta yolondola yokhudza kuseweretsa maliseche

Pambuyo pa zowerengetsa zamaphunziro "chitsanzo," Perry akukamba kuti kugonana kambirimbiri, osati kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula, ndizovuta kwenikweni mu chiyanjano chimwemwe. Phokoso la kafukufuku watsopano wa Perry ndilo kusowa kwachindunji, zodalirika zokhudzana ndi chizoloŵezi cha maliseche, monga momwe adafunsira "Ndi liti pamene mwakhala mukutsata maliseche? "Popanda chidziwitso chodziwika pafupipafupi, zomwe akunena sizongoganizira chabe. Kuyambira kuphunzira kwa Perry:

Kuchita Makhalidwe Ogonana. NFSS ndi RIA amafunsa mafunso ofanana omwewa ponena za maliseche omwe mlembiyo adagwirizanitsa ndi mchitidwe umodzi wodetsa maliseche kawiri kafukufuku. Ophunzira anayamba kufunsidwa ngati akhala akuchita maliseche (Inde kapena Ayi). Anthu omwe adayankha kuti iwo adakonzeratu, adafunsidwa kuti, "Munamaliza liti?"Mayankho kuyambira 1 = lero mpaka 9 = kuposa chaka chapitacho.

Perry akupitiriza:

"Ngakhale funso ili silikufunsa zafupipafupi ... .."

Osaseka. Ndipo komabe, Perry, Prause, Ley, Grubbs ndi ena tsopano akupanga zonena zawo modabwitsa motengera pepalali lokhalokha komanso "kupeza" kwake kosasamala kudalira izi. Makina abodza okhudzana ndi zolaula akuwonetsedwa pakuwunikanso kwa Perry.

Ndipotu, kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kwakukulu kunakhudzana ndi Zochepa ubale wachimwemwe m'mayesero onse a Perry (A & B):

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Zomwe Perry amanena kuti akhoza kupasula magulu opanga maulamuliro pogwiritsa ntchito maliseche sangathe kuchitidwa mozama - makamaka popeza analibe deta yolondola yokhudzana ndi maliseche.


ZOCHITIKA - Leonhardt et al., 2019 amalankhula ndi pepala la a Samuel Perry

ZOLEMBA: Mu 2018 the Zilembedwa Zotsatira Zogonana lofalitsidwa Leonhardt et al., 2018 ndipo adafunsira ndemanga. Kuwulula zamtanthauzidwe zomwe zimapezeka m'magazini a sexology, 4 yama 6 ndemanga anali "Akatswiri" a RealYBOP Samuel Perry, Taylor Kohut, Nicole Prause & David Ley (ngakhale Ley kapena Prause siophunzira). Monga tafotokozera, RealYBOP ikuyesa kutseka pakutsutsa kwa YBOP pakuba chizindikiro cha YBOP.

RealYBOP ndi akatswiri ake akugwira nawo mwakhama ntchito zotsatsa zolaula. Pofuna kuchotsa zolaula ndikusokoneza anthu, apanga lingaliro loti kuseweretsa maliseche, osati zolaula, ndiye vuto "lenileni". Pogwira ntchito yolumikizana, ndemanga za 4 za akatswiri a RealYBOP zimanena izi (kutengera pepala limodzi la Perry ndi malingaliro ake okhudzana ndi kuseweretsa maliseche).

Mu 2019, Leonhardt et al. ikuyankha ndemanga zonse 6 ndi "Zida zakugonana ndi Khwalala: Zolinga, Kusiyanitsa, ndi Reflexivity — Kuyankha Ndemanga (2019).”Nayi mawu (onyozeka komanso ovuta, koma otsutsa) omwe olemba amalankhula za" kuseweretsa maliseche, osati zolaula "meme:

Timalimbikitsa ofufuza kuti azitha kuwerengera maliseche pakufufuza kwamtsogolo, kuti awerenge mosamala ndemanga pamutuwu (Ley, 2019; Perry, 2019b; Pembedzero, 2019), ndikuphatikizanso mtundu wa Perry polankhula pamphambano yazogwiritsira ntchito zolaula komanso maliseche. Nthawi yomweyo, timachenjeza kuti tisaganize kuti mayanjano aliwonse omwe angakhalepo pakati pa zolaula ndi zomwe zachitika makamaka / zimangotengera kuseweretsa maliseche. Kuchita zododometsa ndikuganiza momwe kuseweretsa maliseche pakokha kumatha kulumikizidwa kwa nthawi yayitali ndikuwonjezeka kwa chiwerewere (Tokunaga, Wright, & Roskos, 2019), kuwona akazi ngati chinthu chogonana (Vandenbosch & Eggermont, 2012; Vandenbosch & van Ooseten, 2017 ), ndikuwona ukwati ngati chinthu chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo (Leonhardt & Willoughby, 2018), osaganizira malembedwe omwe amafotokozedwera pazakugonana. Potenga gawo lina, kafukufuku wambiri akuwonetsa kuti zolembera zimakhudza malingaliro ndi machitidwe pazochitika zankhanza (Anderson et al., 2010) ndi machitidwe okonda kusintha zinthu (Coyne et al., 2018). Zingakhale zododometsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, kuyesa kutchula maliseche pofotokoza zakulembedwa zolembedwa kuchokera kuzosangalatsa mpaka pazomwe zimachitika.

Mphamvu zomwe zingalembedwe kuchokera pazakugonana zitha kukhala zobisika kwa wogwiritsa ntchito mwa apo ndi apo, ndipo timazindikira kuti nthawi zina mayanjano azitali amakhala osasinthika (mwachitsanzo, Perry & Longest, 2019). Monga tanena kale, owongolera ena atha kukhala olimba kwambiri kotero kuti zimakhala zovuta kupeza gulu lamphamvu (Leonhardt et al., 2018). Koma zina mwazosagawanika izi ziyenera kuyambitsa kulingalira mosamala kuti ndi liti ndipo zingakhudze bwanji kutengera malingaliro ndi machitidwe. Tili okondwa kuvomereza zofunikira pakufufuza kwaposachedwa zomwe zikuwonetsa kufunikira kwa kuwerengera maliseche mukamaphunzira zankhani zachiwerewere (Miller et al., 2019; Perry, 2019a). Nthawi yomweyo, tiyenera kukhala osamala kuti tisakokomeze zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu akhale ndi vuto lodziseweretsa maliseche ndikupanga mayeso ovuta kwambiri kuti tiwone momwe izi zimayendera.


Kudalirika

J Sex Res. 2019 Jan 11: 1-13. pitani: 10.1080 / 00224499.2018.1556772

Perry SL1.

Kafukufuku wambiri awona kulumikizana kosalekeza komanso kosavuta pakati pa zolaula ndikugwiritsa ntchito ubale wapabanja. Ngakhale malingaliro osiyanasiyana afotokozedwa kuti afotokoze mgwirizanowu, kafukufuku sanawunikenso ngati kulumikizana komwe kumachitika pakati pa zolaula ndi zotsatira zaubwenzi kumakhudzana kwambiri ndi kuseweretsa maliseche kuposa kuwona zolaula. Kafukufuku wapano adalemba magawo awiri oyimira mayiko omwe ali ndi njira zofananira ngati kuyesa kuchita maliseche kumachepetsa kapena kuthetseratu mgwirizano pakati pazogwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso chisangalalo. Maulamuliro amaphatikizidwa pamafupipafupi ogonana komanso kukhutira, zodandaula, ndi zina zofunikira. Zotsatira zochokera ku 2012 New Family Structures Study (NFSS; N = 1,977) ndi kafukufuku wa 2014 Relationships in America (RIA; Ng = 10,106) akuwonetsa kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumalumikizidwa ndi chisangalalo chamtundu wa abambo ndi amai, pomwe zolaula sizigwirizana kapena amakhala wosagwirizana ndi chisangalalo chachibale kamodzi kuseweretsa maliseche. Zowonadi, umboni ukusonyeza kuyanjana pang'ono pakati pa zolaula ndikugwiritsa ntchito chisangalalo chamtundu wina pokhapokha kuseweretsa maliseche komanso kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Zotsatira zikusonyeza kuti kafukufuku wamtsogolo pamutuwu ayenera kuphatikiza njira zoseweretsa maliseche komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso kuti kusintha kwa malingaliro olumikiza zolaula kumagwiritsidwa ntchito pazotsatira zaubwenzi kuyenera kuganiziridwa.

PMID: 30633584

DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2018.1556772