David Ley ndi mlembi wa buku lakuti The Myth of Sex Addiction, Ethical Porn for Dicks ndi Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them lonena za chisangalalo cha cuckoldry . Walemba zolemba pafupifupi 30 pa blog zomwe zikutsutsa ndi kutsutsa NoFap , chizolowezi chogonana , chizolowezi chogonana, zovuta zogonana zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula komanso zotsatira za zolaula paubwenzi. David Ley nthawi zonse amanena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sikuvulaza ndipo ngati wina akukumana ndi mavuto ndi chifukwa chakuti anali ndi "mavuto ena". Mapulogalamu apa TV, magazini, mawebusayiti nthawi zambiri amatembenukira kwa Ley ngati "ulamuliro" pa chizolowezi chogonana ndi zotsatira za zolaula chifukwa ofufuza azachipatala - omwe angapereke chithunzi cholondola cha momwe kafukufuku wa chizolowezi chogonana pa intaneti - nthawi zambiri samayang'ana kwambiri zolaula pa intaneti. Komanso sizipezeka mosavuta ngati Dr. Ley wofunitsitsa. Chifukwa chake amatha kuyambitsa mkangano m'manyuzipepala ngakhale kuti sanaphunzire kwambiri za chizolowezi ndi kugonana, komanso sanatulutse kafukufuku woyambirira.
David Ley ndi mnzake wapamtima Nicole Prause nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito limodzi, onse awiri akutchulidwanso kuti "akatswiri," pomwe akatswiri enieni a zamaganizo omwe ali ndi vuto la kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, omwe afalitsa maphunziro olemekezeka kwambiri pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula (Voon, Kraus, Potenza, Brand, Laier, Hajela, Kuhn, Gallinat, Klucken, Seok, Sohn, Gola, Kor, ndi ena), sanatchulidwe. Ley kapena Prause sali ogwirizana ndi yunivesite iliyonse , komabe atolankhani ena, mwina okhudzidwa ndi ntchito zamphamvu za atolankhani za Prause, modabwitsa amakonda onse awiri kuposa akatswiri apamwamba a zamaganizo ku Yale University, Cambridge University, University of Duisburg-Essen, ndi Max Planck Institute. Onani.
Kwa zaka zambiri Ley ndi mnzake wapamtima Nicole Prause akhala akuchita chiwembu mobisa komanso mobisa, kusokoneza atolankhani, kugawana nawo zokambirana, kutumizirana maimelo ndi mabungwe olamulira, komanso kuwongolera njira zowunikiridwa ndi anzawo m'njira zodabwitsazi (masambawa amafotokoza zambiri zamakhalidwewo: Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Page 4, Page 5.). Onsewa amanyoza, kuzunza komanso kugwiritsa ntchito ma cyber-stalk anthu ndi mabungwe omwe achenjeza za zoyipa zolaula kapena adafalitsa kafukufuku wofotokoza zakuwononga zolaula. Odwala, izi zikuphatikiza ma cyberstalking komanso kunyoza anyamata omwe adanenapo pagulu zakuchira zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula. Zolemba m'malumikizidwe awa: Gabe Deem #1, Gabe Deem #2, Alexander Rhodes #1, Alexander Rhodes #2, Alexander Rhodes #3, Mpingo wa Nowa, Alexander Rhodes #4, Alexander Rhodes #5, Alexander Rhodes #6, Alexander Rhodes #7, Alexander Rhodes #8, Alexander Rhodes #9, Alexander Rhodes # 10, Alex Rhodes # 11, Gabe Deem & Alex Rhodes pamodzi # 12, Alexander Rhodes # 13, Alexander Rhodes #14, Gabe Deem # 4, Alexander Rhodes #15. Onse a Prause & Ley ali ndi chidwi ndi zoyambitsa ED zonyansa popeza palibe chomwe chingakhale chowononga iwo ovomereza zolaula (Prause / Ley nawonso waed a Nkhondo yazaka zitatu yolimbana ndi pepala ili lamaphunziro ndi kampani ya makolo ya Journal, MDPI).
Posachedwapa, Prause ndi Ley adakulitsa zochita zawo zosavomerezeka komanso nthawi zambiri zosaloledwa pothandizira ndondomeko ya makampani opanga zolaula. Mwachitsanzo, Pa Januwale 29, 2019, Prause adalemba fomu yofunsira chizindikiro cha malonda kuti apeze YOURBRAINONPORN ndi YOURBRAINONPORN.COM. Mu Epulo 2019, gulu lotsogozedwa ndi Prause ndi Ley linachita zinthu zosaloledwa zophwanya chizindikiro cha malonda cha YourBrainOnPorn.com popanga "RealYourBrainOnPorn.com."
Pofuna kutsatsa tsamba lawo losaloledwa, anthu odzitcha "akatswiri" adapanga akaunti ya Twitter ( https://twitter.com/BrainOnPorn ), njira ya YouTube , tsamba la Facebook , ndipo adafalitsa nkhani yofalitsidwa . Pofuna kusokoneza anthu, nkhani yofalitsidwayo ikunena zabodza kuti imachokera ku tawuni ya Gary Wilson - Ashland, Oregon (palibe "akatswiri" omwe amakhala ku Oregon, osati Ashland). Dziweruzeni nokha ngati "akatswiri"wa akupititsa patsogolo zofuna za makampani opanga zolaula kapena chowonadi cha sayansi chofufuzira mwa kuwerenga nkhani iyi ya ma tweets a RealYBOP. Yolembedwa mu kalembedwe kosokeretsa ka Dr. Prause , ma tweetswa amatamanda ubwino wa zolaula, amawonetsa molakwika momwe kafukufukuyu alili pano, ndipo amanyoza anthu ndi mabungwe omwe Prause adawavutitsa kale.
Kuphatikiza apo, "akatswiri" adapanga akaunti ya Reddit ( wogwiritsa ntchito/sciencearousal ) kuti apeze malo ochezera a pa intaneti a reddit/pornfree ndi reddit/NoFap ndi drivel yotsatsira , ponena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sikuli koopsa komanso kunyoza YourBrainOnPorn.com ndi Gary Wilson. Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti Prause, yemwe kale anali katswiri wamaphunziro , ali ndi mbiri yakale yolemba mbiri yogwiritsa ntchito maina ambiri kuti alembe pamabwalo ochezera a pa intaneti. (YBOP tsopano ikuchita nawo milandu ndi Prause ndi anzake ogwirizana ndi zolaula ).
Mikangano ya zofuna ( COI ) si yatsopano kwa David Ley. Maloya amamulipira ndalama zambiri kuti atsutse kugonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana; amagulitsa mabuku otsutsa kugonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana; amasonkhanitsa ndalama zolankhulirana kuti atsutse kugonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana. Zonsezi zikuvutitsa ndi kunyoza anthu ndi mabungwe omwe amalankhula za zotsatira zoyipa zomwe zingachitike chifukwa cha zolaula pa intaneti.
Komabe, Ley tsopano wadutsa malire mwalamulo. Akugwira ntchito ndi kampani yayikulu yogulitsa zolaula ya xHamster , yomwe imagula ntchito zake kuti ikweze mawebusayiti awo ( monga StripChat ) ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti chizolowezi cha zolaula ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndi nthano chabe! Onani momwe Ley adzauzira makasitomala a xHamster zomwe "maphunziro azachipatala amanenadi za zolaula, camming ndi kugonana":
Kodi Ley adzauza makasitomala a xHamster kuti kafukufuku aliyense yemwe adafalitsidwapo za amuna (za 70) amalumikiza zolaula zambiri ndikusakhutira ndikugonana? A Ley awauza onse 52 maphunziro a ubongo pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula / okonda zachiwerewere amafotokoza kusintha kwa ubongo komwe kumaoneka mwa omwe ali osokoneza bongo? Kodi adziwitsa omvera ake kuti 50% ya ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula fotokozerani kuchuluka kwa zinthu zomwe m'mbuyomu zidawakhumudwitsa kapena kudana nazo? Mwanjira inayake ndimakaikira.
Makamaka, David Ley ndi Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) yomwe yangopangidwa kumene agwirizana ndi tsamba la xHamster (StripChat). Onani "Stripchat imagwirizana ndi Sexual Health Alliance kuti igwire ubongo wanu wodera nkhawa womwe umayang'ana kwambiri zolaula ." Stripchat imagula mawonetsero a SHA, motero amalipira Ley ndi ena mwanjira ina chifukwa cha ntchito zawo zogonana.
Chaka chimodzi kuchokera pamene nkhaniyi idawonekera koyamba, Ley adati salipidwa mwachindunji ndi "kampani yolaula," koma izi zikusokoneza: Stripchat adalipira SHA yomwe idalipira membala wa board ya SHA Ley . Izi zikufanana ndi dokotala wopepesa wosuta yemwe akunena kuti sanalipidwe mwachindunji ndi Phillip Morris, koma m'malo mwake adalipidwa ndi The Tobacco Institute . Zabwino, David. (Ley akunenanso kuti Stripchat si yekhayo amene amagula mawonetsero a SHA ndipo gawo lokha la ndalama za SHA limachokera ku Stripchat. Ndiye chiyani?)
Palibe amene akugula njira ya Ley yolekanitsa anthu, kuphatikizapo atolankhani ( Sexcam therapy – Mkati mwa tsamba la kamera lomwe limapereka chithandizo cha kugonana kwa anthu ovutika maganizo ):
"Ndi chiwonetsero chosalekeza cha anthu, kupatulapo zenera limodzi losafanana. Pamenepo, mwamuna wina akugona mosasamala atavala shati labuluu lotseguka khosi patsogolo pa malo owala. Dinani pa iye ndipo mulowa macheza ndi Dr David Ley, katswiri wothandiza anthu ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha yemwe adalembedwa ntchito ndi Stripchat kuti apereke magawo aulere othandizira anthu pagulu kwa ogwiritsa ntchito tsamba lino."
M'mawu awo okwezererapo timalonjezedwa akatswiri aza ubongo wa SHA kuti atonthoze ogwiritsa ntchito "zolaula" komanso "manyazi" (Ley ndi akatswiri ena a "SHA" ndiopepuka kuti akhale akatswiri aubongo).
Bungwe lolangiza la Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) lomwe langoyamba kumene limaphatikizapo David Ley ndi "akatswiri" ena awiri a RealYourBrainOnPorn.com (Justin Lehmiller ndi Chris Donaghue). RealYBOP ndi gulu la "akatswiri" odzitcha okha omwe amachirikiza zolaula , omwe amatsogozedwa ndi Nicole Prause . Gululi pakadali pano likuchita zinthu zosaloledwa zophwanya malamulo a malonda ndi kugwirira anthu m'nyumba zawo zomwe zikuyang'ana ku YBOP yovomerezeka. Mwachidule, omwe akuyesera kuletsa YBOP akulipidwanso kuti agwirizane ndi makampani opanga zolaula kuti akweze mabizinesi awo, ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti mawebusayiti a zolaula ndi makamera sabweretsa mavuto. (Dziwani: Nicole Prause ali ndi ubale wapamtima ndi makampani opanga zolaula monga momwe zalembedwera patsamba lino .)
Akaunti yovomerezeka ya StripChat Twitter ikuwulula chifukwa chenicheni cholipira "akatswiri" a SHA: kuti achepetse nkhawa zawo kuti apewe kutayika kwa makasitomala olipira. SHA idzachita izi mwa "kulankhula za kafukufuku waposachedwa wokhudza kugonana, camming ndi chizolowezi," kutanthauza kusankha ntchito yomwe ofufuza "awo" adachita. Kodi Ley/SHA adzatchula kuti maphunziro mazana ambiri amalumikiza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa zambiri?
Munkhaniyi , Ley akutsutsa kutsatsa kwake kopanda phindu kwa makampani opanga zolaula :
N’zoona kuti akatswiri azaumoyo wogonana omwe amagwira ntchito limodzi ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amakumana ndi mavuto ena, makamaka kwa iwo omwe akufuna kudzionetsa ngati osakondera. “Ndimayembekezera kuti [olimbikitsa zolaula] onse azifuula kuti, ‘O, taonani, onani, David Ley akugwira ntchito yokhudza zolaula,’” akutero Ley, yemwe dzina lake limatchulidwa kawirikawiri m’madera oletsa kugonana monga NoFap.
Koma ngakhale ntchito yake ndi Stripchat mosakayikira imamupatsa chakudya kwa wina aliyense wofunitsitsa kuti amulembe ngati wakondera kapena mthumba la malo oonera zolaula, a Ley, malonda amenewo ndi oyenera. "Ngati tikufuna kuthandiza [oonera zolaula], tiyenera kupita kwa iwo," akutero. "Umu ndi momwe timachitira izi."
Kodi wasankha? Ley akutikumbutsa za madokotala otchuka a fodya , ndipo Sexual health Alliance ikutikumbutsa za Tobacco Institute.
Ngakhale kuti amalipiridwa kuti alimbikitse zokambirana za makampani azolaula, Ley ali ndi mikangano ingapo yomwe ili ndi chidwi.
Mkangano Wachidwi #2: David Ley akulipidwa kuti achotse zolaula ndi chizolowezi chogonana. Pamapeto pa positi iyi ya blog ya Psychology Today, Ley akulengeza ntchito zake:
Kuulura: David Ley wapereka umboni pamilandu yokhudza milandu yomwe imakhudzana ndi zachiwerewere. "
Mu 2019 tsamba latsopano la David Ley linapereka ntchito zake zabwino zoti "zitsutse" :
David J. Ley, Ph.D., ndi katswiri wazamisala komanso woyang'anira wotsimikizika wa AASECT wokhudza zachiwerewere, ku Albuquerque, NM. Wapereka umboni waukatswiri komanso umboni wazamalamulo milandu ingapo kuzungulira United States. A Dr. Ley amadziwika kuti ndi akatswiri pazachinyengo zabodza zokhudzana ndi chiwerewere, ndipo adatsimikizika ngati mboni waluso pamutuwu. Iye wachitira umboni m'makhothi aboma ndi feduro.
Lumikizanani naye kuti mupeze ndandanda wa zolipiritsa ndikukonzekera nthawi yoti mudzakambirane za chidwi chanu.
Mkangano wa Chidwi #3: Ley amapeza ndalama pogulitsa mabuku awiri omwe amakana kugonana ndi chizolowezi cha zolaula (“ The Myth of Sex Addiction ,” 2012 ndi “ Ethical Porn for Dicks, ” 2016). Pornhub (yomwe ndi ya kampani yayikulu ya zolaula ya MindGeek) ndi imodzi mwa mabuku asanu olembedwa kumbuyo kwa buku la Ley la 2016 lonena za zolaula:
Chidziwitso: PornHub inali akaunti yachiwiri ya Twitter kubwereza tweet yoyamba ya RealYBOP polengeza tsamba lake la "katswiri" (lolimbikitsa zolaula), zomwe zikusonyeza kuti PornHub ndi akatswiri a RealYBOP agwirizana . Zodabwitsa!
Mkangano wa Chidwi #4: Pomaliza, David Ley amapeza ndalama kudzera mu masemina a CEU , komwe amalimbikitsa malingaliro a anthu okana kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo omwe ali m'mabuku ake awiri (omwe mosasamala (?) amanyalanyaza maphunziro ambiri ndi kufunika kwa matenda atsopano a Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder mu buku lothandizira la World Health Organization). Ley walipidwa chifukwa cha zokambirana zake zambiri zomwe zikuwonetsa malingaliro ake olakwika pakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Mu chiwonetserochi cha 2019, Ley akuwoneka kuti akuchirikiza ndikulimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa achinyamata: Kupanga Kugonana Kwabwino ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula Mwanzeru mwa Achinyamata.
Ili ndiye nsonga chabe ya madzi oundana. Onani tsambali pamasamba ambiri okhudzana ndi David Ley:
- Kuzunzidwa Kosavomerezeka kwa Nicole Prause ndi Kuipitsa Kwa Gary Wilson & Ena
- Kuzunzidwa Kosavomerezeka kwa Nicole Prause ndi Kuipitsa Kwa Gary Wilson & Ena (tsamba 2)
- Kuzunzidwa Kosavomerezeka kwa Nicole Prause ndi Kuipitsa Kwa Gary Wilson & Ena (Tsamba 3)
- Malipoti Oipa a Nicole Prause ndi Njira Zoyipa Zoyipa.
- Nicole Prause & David Ley akunena zabodza kuti Gary Wilson adachotsedwa ntchito ku Yunivesite ya Oregon University
- Zopempherera kuti zikhale ndi mapepala owonetsera za Sayansi ya Chikhalidwe (Park et al., 2016) adabwezeretsedwa
- Nkhani ya University of Wisconsin yophunzitsa aphunzitsi (Racquet) yomwe imalengeza apolisi onyenga ndi Nicole Prause (March, 2019)
- Chidindo Chachidakwa Choletsedwa Chogonjetsedwa ndi Amuna Osokoneza Ubongo (www.realyourbrainonporn.com)
Zosintha #1: StripChat yalengeza gawo lina la David Ley: Stripchat Yabweretsa Kulengeza Gawo la Chithandizo cha Paintaneti kuti Likambirane za "#NoNutNovember"
Dziwani: Zomwe zili pamwambapa zikuyang'ana kwambiri Nofap.com ndi woyambitsa wake Alex Rhodes. Onani - Mbiri yayitali ya Nicole Prause, David Ley & RealYBOP yozunza ndi kunyoza Alexander Rhodes wa NoFap.
Zosintha #2 (Novembala, 2019) : Pomaliza, nkhani zolondola zokhudza woneneza, wonyoza, wozunza, wophwanya malamulo a malonda, Nicole Prause: “Alex Rhodes wa Porn Addiction Support Group ‘NoFap’ Akutsutsa Wofufuza Zachiwerewere Wokonda Zolaula chifukwa cha Kunyoza” lolembedwa ndi Megan Fox wa PJ Media ndi “Nkhondo za zolaula zimakhala zachinsinsi mu No Nut November” , lolembedwa ndi Diana Davison wa The Post Millennial . Davison adapanganso kanema wa mphindi 6 wonena za machitidwe oipa a Prause: “Kodi Zolaula Zimasokoneza?”.
Zosintha #3: Ley tsopano ali ndi tsamba lake la "StripChat": https://stripchat.com/blog/tag/sexuality/
Kunena zoona.
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Stripchat Tsopano Popereka Mankhwala Aulere Ogonana
Mudamvapo za Snapchat. Koma kodi mudamvapo za Stripchat?
Tsambali, lomwe kwenikweni ndi kalabu yojambulidwa kudzera pa kamera yapa intaneti, posachedwa lidachita kafukufuku wamkati pakati pa ogwiritsa ntchito. XNUMX peresenti ya ogwiritsa ntchito akuti akukumana ndi nkhawa "ena" pa nthawi yomwe adakhala patsamba. XNUMX peresenti ya ogwiritsa ntchito amati amakhala ndi nkhawa "nthawi zambiri kapena nthawi zonse".
Kuphatikiza apo, 29 peresenti ya ogwiritsa ntchito maukwati akuti akuda nkhawa ndi kutsitsa kwawo komwe kumachitika ndi chinyengo, pomwe 31 peresenti ya omwe adakwatirana adawonetsa kuti Stripchat idayambitsa mavuto mu maubale awo.
Stripchat amawerengera manambala motere: "Kuda nkhawa komanso kupsinjika kwa ubale ndi nkhani zazikulu," amavomereza. “Kulira kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kothawirako ku zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku, osati zomwe zimawonjezera. Ndichifukwa chake Stripchat akudzipereka kukhala mtsogoleri wazabwino komanso zakukhosi kwa ogwiritsa ntchito. ”
Chifukwa chake, Stripchat yalengeza mgwirizano wake ndi Sexual Health Alliance "kuti ibweretse akatswiri azamisala azachipatala, ofufuza za kugonana ndi akatswiri azaubwenzi pa nsanja yake yapadziko lonse lapansi ya kamera kuti ayankhe mafunso okhudza chizolowezi chogonana ndi kusakhulupirika pa intaneti" kuyambira pa Ogasiti 1. Idzakambirananso "njira zomwe izi zingakhalire bwino pamoyo wanu."
Ena mwa mafunso awa ndi awa:
- "Kodi kukubera miseche?"
- "Kodi ungakondane ndi cam cam?"
- "Kodi zolaula zolaula?"
Popeza Dr. David Ley, yemwe adatsogolera gawo la Ogasiti 1, [2019], adalemba buku lotchedwa The Myth of Sex Addiction , zikuwoneka kuti yankho la funso lomalizali lidzakhala "ayi" womveka bwino.
Makampani opanga zolaula amapeza ndalama zambiri kuposa NFL, NBA, ndi MLB kuphatikiza. Amapezanso ndalama zambiri kuposa NBC, CBS, ndi ABC kuphatikiza. Mphekesera zikusonyeza kuti makampani opanga zolaula amapeza ndalama pakati pa $6 ndi $97 biliyoni pachaka. Chifukwa chake Stripchat imalimbikitsa ogwiritsa ntchito ake kuti zolaula zitha kukhala zosokoneza komanso zovulaza maubwenzi awo sizomwe ena angatchule kuti ndi chitsanzo chabwino cha bizinesi.
A Max Bennett, Wachiwiri kwa Purezidenti wa News Media ku Stripchat, anena kuti gawo loyambirira la August 1 "inali mwayi kwa iwo kuti adutse zina zabodza komanso zolaula zomwe zimalimbikitsa zolaula, ndikulankhula ndi katswiri zomwe sayansi imanena."
Koma kodi sayansi imati chiyani kwenikweni?
Choyamba, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumachepetsa ubongo, malinga ndi Max Planck Institute . Kumapangitsa amuna kukhala ndi vuto la kusagwira ntchito bwino kwa erectile. Kumadziwikanso kuti kumayambitsa mavuto amisala mwa amuna ndi akazi, kuphatikizapo nkhawa, kuvutika maganizo, komanso mavuto a mawonekedwe a thupi.
Nzosadabwitsa kuti mmodzi mwa anthu atatu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito Stripchat amanena kuti Stripchat imayambitsa mavuto m'maubwenzi awo. Anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula sakonda kwambiri mnzawo ndipo sakhutira kwambiri ndi kugonana. Zithunzi zolaula zawonetsedwanso kuti zikuwonjezera kusakhulupirika m'banja ndi 300 peresenti.
Chifukwa chake ngakhale akatswiri a Stripchat ataona kuti zolaula sizowonetsa pakamwa ndipo kusokonekera sikubera, pali mafunso enanso ambiri omwe akatswiri omwe amati ochita zachiwerewere ayenera kuyankha. A Ben Bennet akuti "akunja simalandila nthawi zonse" anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Mwinanso pali chifukwa chotere.
Malinga ndi "sayansi," ngati Stripchat akufuna kukhala mtsogoleri wazikhalidwe zam'maganizo ndi m'maganizo kwa ogwiritsa ntchito, kungawalangize kuti asiye zonse.
Nkhani ina: “Thandizo la sexcam - Mkati mwa tsamba la cam lomwe limapereka chithandizo chazogonana kwa ogwiritsa ntchito nkhawa"
Mawu: Andy Jones
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Chophimba kunyumba chatsamba la Stripchat laku sexcam ndi unyinji wa pinki, thupi losuntha. Bwalo lililonse limakhala ndi nkhope ndi thupi la wosewera wamaliseche, akumadzipukusa ndikupanga nawo kanema wawo wawung'ono.
Sukulu_Teach, " woyesa" wa tsitsi lakuda wokhala ndi bob wa nthawi ya Pulp Fiction Uma Thurman ndi cleavage yodzaza ndi ming'alu, akukoka nthochi. MilkyFetishMegan akuwoneka ngati awiriawiri opanda nkhope, mabere opanda mitu, maso a nsonga ngati abulu akuyang'ana pazenera. GingerSnaps, banja la polyamorous (opambana mphoto ya YNOT ya " Best Cam Couple, 2019 "), akusangalatsana wina ndi mnzake ndi akazi atatu osiyana. Ndikadina kanemayo ndipo Queen's Somebody to Love imasewera kumbuyo. Ochita sewero onse akuwulutsa pompopompo kuchokera m'zipinda zawo zogona, m'makona onse a dziko lapansi.
Ndi chiwonetsero cha anthu chosasunthika, kupatulapo zenera limodzi losafanana. Pamenepo, mwamuna wina akugona momasuka atavala shati labuluu lotseguka khosi patsogolo pa malo owala. Dinani pa iye ndipo mulowa macheza ndi Dr David Ley, katswiri wothandiza anthu ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha yemwe adalembedwa ntchito ndi Stripchat kuti apereke magawo aulere othandizira anthu ogwiritsa ntchito tsamba lino.
Ali pano chifukwa makasitomala a Stripchat ali ndi nkhawa . Posachedwapa tsamba lino lachita kafukufuku wa ogwiritsa ntchito 6,000 , ambiri mwa iwo ndi amuna azaka zapakati pa 18 ndi 24. Linapeza kuti 11 % akuda nkhawa " kwambiri" ndi momwe amagwiritsira ntchito ma webcam. Ndipotu , tsamba lino linadabwa ndi kudzipereka kwa mafunso a ogwiritsa ntchito, kuyambira: " Kodi kuseweretsa maliseche sikuli bwino?", mpaka: " Kodi ndikunyenga mnzanga?" Ndipo modandaula: " Kodi ndawonongeka chifukwa cha ubale weniweni?" Pakadali pano, 40 % adati akonda ochita seweroli.
Pokhala ndi chikumbumtima chazikhalidwe zomwe sizimawonekere pa zolaula adasankha kuthana ndi mavutowa. Ndi komwe Dr Ley amabweramo: akatswiri a zolemba ndi a Nthano Ya Kugonana Kwachiwerewere.
" Pali kusiyana pakati pa kuganiza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito kwanu zolaula sikungatheke komanso kuti sikungatheke."
Ley akuti Stripchat, limodzi ndi Sexual Health Alliance, adamuyandikira chifukwa ankafuna katswiri wa zamaganizo yemwe ankathandiza " njira zopanda manyazi komanso zathanzi" zothetsera mavuto omwe angabuke pogwiritsa ntchito makamera ogonana nthawi zonse. Funso ndilakuti, kodi gawo lalifupi la uphungu pa intaneti lingathandizedi munthu amene akuganiza kuti ali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula ndi atsikana a kamera?
Mu gawo limodzi lotseguka pakhomo amafikira ogwiritsa ntchito mazana angapo, ndipo monga momwe zilili ndi mawindo ena, mukalowa, mumapeza mafunso a Dr Ley. Ena akunyoza (m'modzi akuti Ley akuwoneka ngati " dokotala woledzera") koma ambiri amadandaula poyera. " Kodi kuthera maola anayi patsiku akuyang'ana ma webcam okongola kwambiri?" akufunsa wogwiritsa ntchito wina. Dr Ley akuwoneka kuti sakuganiza kuti: " Ngati mutakhala maola asanu patsiku mukuonera TV , kodi mungadandaule kuti ndinu wokonda TV ?" akufunsa.
Ndipotu, popereka fanizo lolakwika pang'ono, Dr Ley akunena kuti " pali kusiyana pakati pa kumva kuti kugwiritsa ntchito kwanu zolaula sikungatheke komanso kuti sikungatheke. Mungamve ngati simungathe kulamulira pa roller coaster, koma nthawi zonse mumakhala mukulamulira bwino."
Kuchokera ku mayankho ngati awa, n'zovuta kudziwa ngati " chithandizo" chilipo kuti chithandize kwambiri kapena kuti anthu asamavutike pa webusaitiyi poika pulasitiki pa mantha enieni. Kupatula apo, kubisa phokoso la kulira kwa chisangalalo kwa zana ndi kusinthasintha kosalekeza kwa malonda. Kupeza ochita sewerowa kumachitika kudzera mu mawonekedwe omwe amakulipirani chifukwa cha kuyanjana. Phokoso la ndalama limamveka bwino pano kuposa pa bala lililonse lokwera mtengo. Ogwiritsa ntchito amagula ma tokeni m'maphukusi - mwachitsanzo ma tokeni 90 pa $ 9 . 99 , ma tokeni 2255 pa $ 199 . 99 - ndipo tokeni iliyonse yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito imapeza " ping" yayikulu pazenera yomwe imawalola kuti azilumikizana ndi wochita seweroyo wosankhidwa. Sizachilendo, akutero tsamba lino, kuti munthu m'modzi yekha awononge $ 10,000 pamwezi pa makamera a sex. Kuchokera pamalingaliro amenewo, sizikupanga nzeru kwambiri kwa bizinesi yawo kulemba ntchito katswiri wothandiza yemwe angauze ogwiritsa ntchito kuti atuluke.
Chimene, mwina, ndicho chimene ena angafune. Mosiyana ndi vuto lalikulu, katswiri wa zamaganizo Paula Hall wa alangizi a zachiwerewere ndi zolaula ku Laurel Centre akuti anthu omwe amamwa makamera achiwerewere ndi omwe amapanga chiwerengero chachikulu cha makasitomala omwe amabwera kwa iye kuti amuthandize. Iye akuti ogwiritsa ntchito amakopeka ndi malingaliro akuti uwu ndi ubale wapamtima kuposa zolaula zosavuta, zaulere.
“ Anthu amayamba kuwononga nthawi ndi ndalama zambiri kuposa momwe amafunira,” akutero Hall. “ Akupitirizabe kufunafuna dopamine yomweyi. Amayamba kuzindikira kuti sakuwononga nthawi ndi okondedwa awo, kapena akuchoka m'gululi msanga kuti akawononge nthawi yambiri pamasamba awa. Kenako angayambe kuwagwiritsa ntchito kuntchito. Nthawi zambiri zimatha ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kompyuta ya kuntchito. Zimenezo zitha kutha ntchito yawo ndipo ndawona anthu akutaya ukwati chifukwa cha zimenezo.” Kumayambiriro kwa chaka chino, Andrew Barnbrook wazaka 38 adanyenga abwana ake ndalama zokwana £ 250 kuti apeze ndalama zothandizira chizolowezi chake chosewera cam ndi mkazi wina.
Ndizomveka kuti mizere pakati pa zenizeni ndi zongopeka imatha kusokonekera. Chiwonetsero chilichonse cha Stripchat chimapatsa owonera chidziwitso chakumwa choledzeretsa mdziko lapansi laomwe akuchita; kwa nthawi yaying'onoyo, uli mchipinda chawo, ngati kuti - unene mwakachetechete - wabwerera kwawo patatha tsiku. Ndiubwenzi wapulasitiki, koma chilichonse chili ndi mphamvu yakukokerani kwina: chikho chopanda kanthu chakumbuyo ndi mawu olimbikitsa, pilo yolumikizidwa molumikizana ndi duvet, dzina lojambulidwa pamwambapa lamanja. KirstieVegas, wofiirira wamlomo wofiirira wochokera ku France ali ndi pilo ya Captain America. Kodi ndichifukwa choti amakonda Captain America kapena chifukwa chakuti mafilimu a Marvel ndi mbedza yabwino kuti amuna azicheza?
Ndipo amakonda kucheza. Mafunso a ogwiritsa ntchito amafika kwa ochita sewero mwachangu, kuyambira pa zopempha zogonana zomwe zalembedwa mwaulemu - " chonde mundiuze kuti ndizidziseweretsa maliseche" - mpaka kukambirana za mbiri ndi zosangalatsa - " Mukuchokera kuti?", " Kodi mumasewera COD ?" - mpaka kufunsira kopanda tanthauzo - " Mukugonadi?" ndi " Kodi mungathe kusamba?" (Funso lomalizali limapezeka m'chipinda chilichonse chochezera chomwe ndimalowa).
" [Kamera yolankhulirana] inali yabwino kuposa chibwenzi — panalibe kukanidwa, panalibe masewera — unkacheza ndi mtsikana wokongola kenako n’kuyamba kugonana."
Ochita sewero a Stripchat ayamba kuchitapo kanthu kuti aletse mafani awo kuti asatengeke kwambiri. " Ndimadziwitsa ogwiritsa ntchito kuti sindikufuna chibwenzi ndipo ndimakhazikitsa malire," akutero Melrose Strip, wazaka 26 , mtsikana wazaka 3 wa cam . Amatha kuwulutsa kwa ogwiritsa ntchito 1000 , kanayi pa sabata ndipo akuti nthawi zonse amayenda molimba pakati pa kusunga chidwi cha anyamatawa komanso kupewa chidwi choipa.
Darnell*, wazaka 27 , wakhala akugwiritsa ntchito mawebusayiti a kamera kwa zaka ziwiri. Ndimamupeza pa ulalo wa sexcam wovomereza za forum ya " NoFapp" - tsamba loletsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komwe amuna amalangizana momwe angasiyire kuseweretsa maliseche ndi zithunzi zovuta. Komanso pa NoFapp pali akazi ndi atsikana omwe akuyembekeza kupulumutsa okondedwa awo ku chizolowezi chogonana kapena akuyesera kumvetsetsa zotsatira zake. Darnell akuopa kuti ogwira nawo ntchito kapena abale ake adziwa momwe amathera madzulo ambiri.
Iye akuti kugwiritsa ntchito kwake makamera olaula kunachokera ku Pornhub. " Umenewo unali mankhwala osokoneza bongo anga," akutero kudzera pa imelo. Anayamba kuganizira kwambiri za mtsikana wa ku Russia wa makamera olaula yemwe adamuwona patsamba la zolaula laulere. Koma, atatopa ndi makanema omwewo 6-7 omwe alipo , Darnell anayamba kufunafuna zambiri ndipo adapeza mbiri yake patsamba la makamera olaula olipidwa. Iye akuti uwu unali mwayi wake wolankhula naye zenizeni.
“ Ndinkaganiza kuti ndinali bwino kuposa anyamata ena omwe anali kale kucheza naye,” iye anatero. “ Ndikananena zinthu monga: “ Ma dimples ako ukamwetulira ndi okongola kwambiri.” Kapena ndikanamufunsa za nyimbo ya R'n'B yomwe ndinamumva akusewera pa kanema wapitawo. Anayankha bwino kwambiri. Ndinkamva ngati ndapambana mtsikana wokongola kusukulu.”
Darnell akunena kuti mtsikana watsopanoyu ankaoneka wokoma mtima kwambiri kuposa kuonera mafilimu olaula omwe anapangidwira aliyense. Anayamba kukonda kwambiri zinthu. Anali ndi nyimbo zonse zomwe mtsikana wake wapa cam ankasewera m'mawonetsero ake ogonana kuti azitha kulankhula naye za izo ndipo anali kupeza ndalama zokwana $ 40 mpaka 50 pa sabata pa mapulogalamu ake.
" Zinali bwino kuposa chibwenzi," akutero. " Panalibe kukanidwa, panalibe masewera. Unkacheza ndi mtsikana wokongola kenako unkachita zogonana. Unkamuyang'ana akudziseweretsa maliseche, kuona momwe akumvera. Koma kenako ndinkakwiya anthu ena akamalankhula za thupi lake, kuti anali ndi bere lokongola. Ndinakwiya kuti nawonso amamufuna."
Darnell walowa nawo m'gulu la atsikana ena a pa intaneti koma akufunitsitsa kuchepetsa kugwiritsa ntchito kwake. " Ndimawononga $ 400 pamwezi ndikumwa khofi wakuda kuti ndikhale maso ndikucheza nawo, kuti onse akhale osangalala. Ndimakonda koma ndimadzida ndekha nthawi imodzi."
Ndimaganizira za Darnell pamene ndikuonera Dr Ley pawindo lake la Stripchat. Iye akuti palibe umboni wakuti zolaula zimasokoneza chilakolako cha kugonana, kuti ndi bwino kuti mutulutse umuna nthawi 21 pamwezi kuti muteteze prostate yanu ndipo - ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti mukukhala nthawi yayitali mukugonana pa intaneti - muyenera kungowonjezera zomwe mumaganiza kuti ndi " zathanzi" mwachitsanzo kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kucheza ndi anthu ena, m'malo mochepetsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Iye akuti mavuto athu ndi zolaula sakhudzana kwenikweni ndi zolaula zokha koma ndi anthu omwe amatichititsa manyazi chifukwa chozionera.