David Ley Akuukira Mtsinje wa NoFap (May, 2015)

YBOP Comments: Izi zidalembedwa poyankha zomwe David Ley adalemba polemba nofap. Zimagwira ntchito yayikulu: 1) kuwonetsa kuti zomwe amati sayansi yotsutsana ndi zolaula ndi utsi ndi magalasi, ndi 2) mapepala omwe amati amatsutsa zolaula amachokera kwa anthu awiri omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala ogwirizana - Chithunzi cha Nicole & David Ley. Sinthani, 2019: David Ley tsopano akulipilidwa ndi makampani opanga zolaula zododometsa xHamster kuti alimbikitse mawebusayiti ake ndikuwapangitsa ogwiritsa ntchito kuti kuwonetsa zolaula ndikugonana ndizabodza!

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Cholemba cha David Ley NoFap Phenomenon yodzaza ndi amuna a udzu, zolakwika komanso mabodza. Dziwani kuti zomwe a Ley adalemba zilibe zonena zakubwezera zomwe ananena. Onaninso kuti Ley adatseka ndemanga, zomwe sizachilendo kwa Psychology Today zolemba pamabulogu. Mwakutero, zomwe Ley adalemba zimangonena zabodza osagwirizana ndi zomwe akunenazo.

Ley ndiye mlembi wa Nthano ya Kugonana Kwachiwerewere. Walembetsa 30 kapena mabungwe a blog amabwera ndikutsutsa NoFap, kuledzera, kugonana ndi kugonana ndi ED. Nthaŵi zambiri David Ley wakhala pamodzi ndi mnzawo wapamtima Nicole Prause kuti azizunza ndi kutchula NoFap woyambitsa Alexander Rhodes (ndi ena). Apa tikupereka zitsanzo zochepa (maulalo amatengera zigawo zamasamba ofotokoza za kuzunzidwa kwa Prause ndi kunyozedwa kwa anthu ambiri ndi magulu). Zigawo zotsatirazi zikuwulula zenizeni za Prause ndi Ley:

Kuphatikiza apo, a David Ley amangonena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kulibe vuto lililonse ndipo ngati wina akukumana ndi mavuto chifukwa anali ndi "zovuta zina". Makanema apa TV, magazini, masamba awebusayiti nthawi zambiri amapita kwa Ley ngati "mphamvu" pa zolaula komanso zotsatira za zolaula chifukwa ofufuza zamankhwala - omwe angapereke chithunzi cholondola chazofufuza pa intaneti - nthawi zambiri samayang'ana zolaula pa intaneti makamaka . Komanso sapezeka mosavuta ngati Dr. Ley wofunitsitsa. Chifukwa chake amayambitsa mkangano pazofalitsa nkhani ngakhale kuti sanaphunzire kwambiri zamankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso zakugonana, ndipo sanasindikizepo kafukufuku wapachiyambi.

Monga tanenera, David Ley ali ndi mbiri yakuukira Nofap, reddit / Pornfree, RebootNation, ndi zina zotero m'mabuku a blog ndi Twitter. Ngakhale kuti vitriol yake yowonjezereka ikuwonjezeka, iye salinso kulola kubwezeretsa. Ley amatseka ndemanga pa zolemba zambiri zojambula zolaula (kapena ngati iye atsegula ndemanga amachotsa iwo omwe amatsutsa zonena zake). Iye wachita chotero chifukwa ndemanga pa ake post imatcha ED-zochititsa kuti ED ikhale nthano sanapite m'njira yake. Makamaka, ndemanga zotsatirazi zomwe zidalembedwa, ndi akatswiri awiri omwe adamuthandiza, zidamupangitsa kuti aletse kuyankhapo.

Dzifunseni kuti: Kodi ndizolondola bwanji kuti katswiri wamaganizo amenyane ndi magulu othandizira monga Nofap? Ngati ali ndi vuto ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi zolaula pa intaneti, kodi sayenera kuwukira asayansi omwe akuchita kafukufuku m'malo mwa anthu omwe akuvutika kuti achire? Mungaganize zotani za "wasayansi" yemwe samakhulupirira za khansa, koma m'malo motsatira amatsenga, adatsata odwala khansa omwe akuyesetsa kuti akhalenso ndi thanzi labwino?

Ndipo ndizabwino bwanji kusokoneza ndikunamizira magulu awa kusiya zolaula ndikugawana zomwe akumana nazo - koma osawalola kuchitapo kanthu chifukwa mwatseka ndemanga? Nditha kupita pamzere-ndi-mzere kudzera pa zomwe Ley adalemba, koma nazi zitsanzo zochepa za zonena zake zosagwirizana ndi zomwe Nofap adalemba:

"Chosangalatsa ndichakuti palibe amene ali mgulu la r / NoFap alidi wasayansi yemwe amafufuza za matenda amitsempha ndi magwiridwe antchito."

Ley akuti akudziwa ntchito za mamembala onse a 400,000 + a Nofap. Zoonadi? M'malo mwake, Nofap imaphatikizapo amisala, asayansi yama psychology, ndi ma MD angapo omwe amadziwika kuti ndi otere. Nawa mafayilo a ochepa a MD omwe adachira (PIED). Nayi fayilo ya wodwala matenda a maganizo, yemwe anali ndi PIED, amene ndinamufunsa pa radiyo yanga. Ley akuganiza kuti palibe vuto lopangira tsankho pa nkhaniyi:

"M'malo mwake, ndi akatswiri ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, omwe aphunzira zokwanira za sayansi yaubongo kukhala zowopsa, chifukwa amawona zomwe akuyembekeza kuwona, ndikumasulira sayansi yaubongo kuti igwirizane ndi malingaliro awo."

Zachidziwikire kuti sapereka zitsanzo, osagwidwa mawu, zoneneza zosamveka. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti Ley alibe chidziwitso cha neurobiology. Izi ndizofanananso ndi zomwe a Ley adalemba pazokhudzana ndi zolaula. Koma zoona zake ndi ziti?

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Choyamba, pali maphunziro a 41 amitsempha, komanso kuwunika kwa 21 kwa mabuku / ndemanga zofalitsidwa pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula: Popanda kusiyanitsa kafukufuku aliyense ndikuwunikiranso zimathandizira mtundu wa zolaula. Onani tsamba ili Maphunziro a Ubongo pa Ogwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula ndi mndandanda waposachedwa. Awa si "okonda chidwi" kapena "YBOP chabe" kunena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumapangitsa kusintha kwamaubongo okhudzana ndi zosokoneza. (Izi ndi zomwe Ley auza atolankhani omwe amalumikizana naye.) Akatswiri odziwa za ubongo ku University of Cambridge, Yale University, ndi Max Planck Institute aku Germany akuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumatha kusintha ubongo.

Apanso, ndi 100% yamaphunziro omwe afalitsidwa. Maphunziro awa aubongo amayenera kuganiziridwanso motere. M'zaka zingapo zapitazi Chiyanjano cha 330 pa intaneti maphunziro a ubongo tafika, onse kuwonetsa kusintha kwamaubongo omwewo monga momwe zimawonekera pakukonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kafukufuku wambiri wogwiritsa ntchito intaneti amaphatikizapo ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, ndipo zonse zimawonetsa kuthekera kwa zoyambitsa zomwe zimachitika pa intaneti zoyambitsa matenda opatsirana (pankhaniyi, kusuta).

Maphunziro okonda kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti ayenera kuganiziridwa pakadutsa zaka zambiri zakumwa kwaukadaulo, zomwe zimatidziwitsa kuti zizolowezi zonse zimagawika momwe ubongo umasinthira. Mogwirizana ndi kuzimiririka kwa umboni, The American Society of Addiction Medicine inafalitsa "malingaliro atsopano oledzera”Mu 2011. ASAM idanena kuti zizolowezi zamakhalidwe zilipo, kuphatikizapo zizolowezi zakugonana, ndipo ndizowona ngati zosokoneza bongo.

Madokotala azachipatala a ASAM a 3000 ndi omwe kwenikweni Akatswiri osokoneza bongo, osati a Ley kapena ena ochita zachiwerewere omwe amati zolaula za pa intaneti sizikukhudzanso ubongo wa munthu kuposa ziboliboli pamakoma amphanga. Mamembala a ASAM akuphatikizapo asayansi ambiri padziko lonse lapansi omwe ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo. Werengani zolemba za Ley mosamala. Sanatchuleko katswiri wamankhwala osokoneza bongo. Ndi "sayansi" iti yomwe Ley amagwiritsa ntchito kutsimikizira zomwe ananena? Makamaka mapepala ofufuzira omwe adachita ndi Nicole Prause yemwe amakhala mbali yake, amapangidwa ndi mphira ndi anzawo ogonana. Mapepalawa sakanakhoza kupitiliranso kwa anzawo ndi akatswiri osokoneza bongo a neuroscience.

Pomalizira, monga 2018 tili ndi chidziwitso cha boma. Mankhwala omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri padziko lonse, Mayiko Akumayiko Onse a Matenda (ICD-11), ali ndi matenda atsopano woyenera kuchita zachiwerewere: "Kugonana Kwachiwerewere. "

Kodi umboni wa Ley uli kuti?

Chodabwitsa ndichakuti ambiri a "sayansi" ya Ley amadalira anthu awiri okha, iyemwini & Chithunzi cha Nicole, ndi mapepala awiri awa:

  • Pepala loyamba: "Chilakolako cha kugonana, osati chiwerewere, chimakhudzana ndi mayankho okhudza ubongo" (2013). Nicole Prause anali mlembi wamkulu
  • Pepala lachiwiri: “Emperor Alibe Zovala: Kuwunikiranso za mtundu wa 'Zolaula' (2014). David Ley & Chithunzi cha Nicole anali olemba aakulu.

Ley & Prause sanangokhala nawo limodzi kuti alembe pepala # 2, komanso adagwirizana kuti alembe Psychology Today Zolemba pa blog pamapepala #1. Cholemba cha blog chinapanga miyezi 5 pamaso Pepala la Prause lidasindikizidwa mwalamulo (kotero palibe amene angatsutse). Mwinamwake mwawonapo zolemba za Ley ndi mutu wa oh-catch: Ubongo Wanu pa Zolaula - SIMASULUTSA. Mwachidule, phokoso lalikulu limachokera kwa anthu awiri omwe adagwirizana kuti alembe ndi kulengeza mapepala awiri. Palibe pepala limene limati ndilo, kapena zomwe mutuwu umatanthauza.

Pepala loyamba - Phunziro la Nicole Prause EEG (Steele et al., 2013)

Phunziro la Nicole Prause EEG limathandiziradi zolaula (yoyamba pamapepala awiri omwe takambiranawa). Pomwe Pembedzero lidapanga zifukwa zingapo zopanda maziko, zotsutsana pamafunso ake atolankhani za izi, kafukufuku wake adanenanso za kuwerengedwa kwapamwamba kwa EEG pomwe ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula adadziwika. Izi ndizomwe zimachitika anthu omwe ali ndi chizolowezi choledzera amadziwika ndi zomwe amakonda. Chifukwa chake, zotsatira za Prause zidapeza umboni wogwirizana ndi zolaula - monga momwe ananenera zosiyana. Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufukuyu adanenanso za zolaula zomwe zimakhudzana ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana. Mwachidule: Kafukufukuyu adapeza kuti ubongo umalimbikitsa kwambiri zolaula komanso chilakolako chogonana (koma osati chilakolako chogonana).

Chodabwitsa, woyankhulana Chithunzi cha Nicole adanena kuti anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amangokhala ndi "libido," komabe zotsatira za phunzirolo zimati zosiyana kwambiri (chilakolako cha phunziro la kugonana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi chinali kusiya kugonana kwawo). Pamodzi izi Steele et al. Zotsatira zikuwonetsa zochitika zazikulu muubongo (zithunzi zolaula), koma zocheperako poyerekeza ndi mphotho zachilengedwe (kugonana ndi munthu). Kulimbikitsa ndi kukhumudwitsa, zomwe ndizizindikiro zakusuta.

Chonde werengani izi Psychology Today Kuyankhulana kwapemphero za EEG kuphunzira kwake. Kenaka werengani ndemanga za 2 pansi pa zokambirana za Pemphero Pulofesa wa Psychology John A. Johnson:

"Maganizo anga adakalibe ponena kuti aumuna ake sagwirizana ndi zochitika zogonana monga ubongo wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo amavomereza mankhwala awo, atapereka kuti akulemba maphunzilo apamwamba a P300 pa zithunzi zogonana. Mofanana ndi omwe amamwa mankhwala omwe amasonyeza ma P300 spikes akamaperekedwa ndi mankhwala osankhidwa. Akanatha bwanji kuganiza kuti ndizosiyana ndi zotsatira zenizeni? Ndikuganiza kuti zitha kukhala chifukwa chamalingaliro ake-zomwe amayembekeza kuti apeza. ”

Kenako werengani ndemanga iyi - John Johnson akupitiriza.

Muthanso kuwerenga zowunikiridwa za 8 zowunikiridwa ndi anzawo za Prause's 2013 EEG Study. Zonse zothandizira Johnson akuti kafukufuku wa Prause akugwirizana ndi "chizolowezi chomwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo" (kuti iye ndi Ley adanyoza mosasamala).

  1. 'High Desire', kapena 'Mwachisa' Chizolowezi Choledzeretsa? Yankho kwa Steele et al. (2014), lolembedwa ndi Donald L. Hilton, Jr., MD
  2. Phunziro loyamba la Cambridge - Valerie Voon, Thomas B. Mole, Paula Banca, Laura Porter, Laurel Morris, Simon Mitchell, Tatyana R. Lapa, Judy Karr, Neil A., Neural Correlates of Receptive Reactivity Kwa Anthu Omwe Ali ndi Zomwe Amachita Zachiwerewere (2014) Harrison, Marc N. Potenza, ndi Michael Irvine. Dziwani kuti 11 asayansi omwe ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo amakambirana za kafukufuku wa EEG wa Prause kuyambira ndi chiganizo ichi:Zomwe tapeza zikusonyeza kuti ntchito ya DACC imasonyeza mbali ya chilakolako cha kugonana, zomwe zingakhale zofanana ndi phunziro pa P300 mu CSB maphunziro okhudzana ndi chikhumbo [25].”Mwanjira ina, anali kuuza a Prause mwaulemu kuti samamvetsetsa zotsatira zake, zomwe zinali zogwirizana ndi kusuta.
  3. Neuroscience of Internet Pornography Addiction: A Review and Update (2015), wolemba Todd Love, Christian Laier, Matthias Brand, Linda Hatch & Raju Hajela
  4. Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Kubwereza ndi Zipatala zapakhomo (2016), ndi Brian Y. Park, Gary Wilson, Jonathan Berger, Matthew Christman, Bryn Reina, Frank Bishop, Warren P. Klam ndi Andrew P. Doan
  5. Njira Zozindikira ndi Zopanda Kumvetsetsa: Kodi Zimathetsa Nthawi Zambiri Zolaula Gwiritsani Ntchito? (2017) ndi Sajeev Kunaharan, Sean Halpin, Thiagarajan Sitharthan, Shannon Bosshard, ndi Peter Walla
  6. Njira zokhudzana ndi kugonana (2018), Ewelina Kowalewska, Joshua B. Grubbs, Marc N. Potenza, Mateusz Gola, Małgorzata Draps, ndi Shane W.Kraus.
  7. Kulimbana ndi Uliwonse pa Intaneti: Zimene Timadziwa ndi Zimene Sitili-Kufufuza Kwambiri (2019), Rubén de Alarcón, Javier I. de la Iglesia, Nerea M. Casado ndi Angel L. Montejo.
  8. Kusanthula kawiri kawiri: "Kuyambika ndi Kukula kwa Kugonana kwa Kugonana kwa Edzi: Kusokonezeka Kwaumunthu, Kulimbitsa Mchitidwe ndi Neural Mechanism" (2019)

Mutha kuwerenganso izi kutsutsa kwathunthu, kufotokozera zomwe Phunziro la EeG la Prause linapeza, ndi momwe zomwe zili mu nyuzipepala sizigwirizana ndi zomwe zapeza. Ndikupemphani kuti muwerenge buku lalifupi.

Pepala lachiwiri - "Ley & Prause" kuwunika "komwe sikunali kuwunika (Ley et al., 2014)

Pepala lachiwiri silophunzira konse. M'malo mwake, imati ndi "kuwunikiranso zolembazo" pazokhudza zolaula komanso zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha zolaula. Palibe chomwe chingakhale kutali ndi chowonadi. Otsatirawa ndi kusanthula kwakutali kwambiri, komwe kumayenda mzere ndi mzere, kuwonetsa ma shenanigans onse Ley & Prause adakoka - Emperor Alibe Zovala: Fairytale Yowonongeka Imakhala Ngati Yophunzira  Icho chimasokoneza kwathunthu chomwe chimatchedwa kubwereza, ndipo zikulemba zolakwika zochuluka zafukufuku omwe tawatchula.

Chodabwitsa kwambiri pakuwunika kwa Ley ndikuti adasiya maphunziro ONSE omwe adapeza zoyipa / umboni wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Inde, mwawerenga pomwepo. Ponena kuti aunikire mwachidule, akatswiri awiriwa adaganiza zosiya maphunziro awa poti anali maphunziro ogwirizana. Ingoganizani? Maphunziro onse pa zolaula ndi ogwirizana. Pali, ndipo zokongola kwambiri zidzakhala, maphunziro olumikizana okhaokha, chifukwa ofufuza alibe njira yopezera "anamwali olaula" kapena kupewa zolaula nthawi yayitali kuti athe kufananiza. (Amuna zikwizikwi akusiya zolaula mwadzidzidzi pa maofolomu osiyanasiyana, komabe, zotsatira zake zimasonyeza kuti zolaula pa intaneti ndizovuta kwambiri pa zizindikiro zawo ndi kubwezeretsa.)

Zitsanzo zochepa za zomwe Ley & Prause adakoka:

  1. Monga tafotokozera, sanalole maphunziro aliwonse omwe amawonetsa zovuta chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula chifukwa chakuti ndi "chabe" ogwirizana, kenako natchulanso monga chithandizo cha malingaliro awo osiyanasiyana maphunziro othandizira.
  2. Adasankha mizere yosokeretsa, yopusitsa kuchokera mkati mwa maphunziro, polephera kunena zenizeni za ochita kafukufukuwo kutsutsa ziganizo.
  3. Iwo ankanena ngati zowonjezera maphunziro ochulukirapo omwe sali othandizira kwathunthu kulemba ndi zomwe zinanenedwa.
  4. Iwo adatetezera kuti achotsedwa ku khalidwe labwino chifukwa cha maphunziro omwe ali ndi zaka za 25, osanyalanyaza maphunziro atsopano, ochulukirapo, otsutsana, omwe amatsutsana ndi akatswiri omwe akutsutsana nawo.
  5. Iwo sanazindikire (kapena kusanthula) maphunziro ochuluka a ubongo pa ovuta pa intaneti.
  6. Iwo ananyalanyaza zofalitsa ziwiri zomwe zafalitsidwa ndi ubongo zomwe zinachitidwa pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ku Cambridge University ndi Max Planck, zomwe zimachotsa ziganizo za Ley / Prause.

Mwachidziwitso, awo olemba zojambula zithunzi Michael Perelman, Charles Moser ndi Peggy Kleinplatz anabweretsanso magazini yosavomerezeka ya kugonana yotchedwa Mauthenga Amakono Akugonana Amagonana (zomwe sizinasindikizidwe zaka zambiri) kuti zitheke "kubwereza" uku kwa anthu osakayikira! Ndikuganiza kuti Ley adalemba mbiri: aka kakhoza kukhala koyamba kuti kuwunikiridwa kwa zolembedwa ndi munthu yemwe 1) sanafalitsepo kale 2) alibe ukadaulo pantchito (chizolowezi).

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri: Mukawona chingwe chogwirizana ndi nkhani yomwe imanena kuti kuwononga zolaula kwathyoledwa, tsatirani chitsimezo. Ndikukhoza kutsimikiziranso kuti mutha kupeza chimodzi mwa izi 2 zosamveka mosavuta, ndi mapepala osatsutsika kumbuyo kwake.

Nanga bwanji za Porn-Indedi ED?

Ley & Prause akuti PIED ndi nthano. Zowonjezera zambiri. Choyamba, tsambali limalumikizana ndi akatswiri pafupifupi 120, kuphatikiza aphunzitsi angapo a urology, omwe amazindikira ndikuchiza PIED - Zithunzi-Zophatikizapo ED mu Media: Akatswiri omwe amazindikira PIED. (Kusintha - Zithunzi zochititsa chidwi za ED zoperekedwa ku American Urologic Association Conference, Meyi 6-10, 2016: Gawo 1, Gawo 2, Part 3

Chachiwiri, kafukufuku akuyang'ana kugonana kwachimuna kuyambira chiwerengero cha 2010 chiwerengero cha zochitika zokhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso zoopsa za mliri watsopanowo: low libido. Zalembedwa m'nkhaniyi komanso pamapepala owonetsedwa ndi anzako a madokotala a 7 US Navy - Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Kubwereza ndi Malipoti a Clinic (2016)

Zochitika zakale ED ED: Erectile dysfunction poyamba anayesedwa mu 1940s pamene Nkhani ya Kinsey inatha kuti kuchuluka kwa ED anali zosakwana 1% mu anyamata kuposa zaka 30, zosakwana 3% anthu 30-45. Pamene maphunziro a ED omwe ali anyamata ndi ochepa, awa 2002 Kusanthula meta ya 6 yopambana kwambiri ED maphunziro adanena kuti 5 ya 6 idawonetsa ED mitengo ya amuna pansi pa 40 pafupifupi 2%. The 6th Kufufuza kunabwereza ziwerengero za 7-9%, koma funso limene linagwiritsidwa ntchito silingathe kufanana ndi maphunziro ena a 5, ndipo sanayese osatha Kusokonekera kwa erectile: "Kodi muli ndi vuto lokhazikika kapena kukhala ndi erection? nthawi iliyonse chaka chatha? ".

Kumapeto kwa 2006 kwaulere, kusonkhanitsa mavidiyo owonetserako zolaula kunayambira pafupipafupi ndipo kunayamba kutchuka. Izi anasintha mtundu wa zolaula mowa kwambiri. Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'mbiri, owona akhoza kuwonjezeka mosavuta patsiku la maliseche popanda kudikirira.

Maphunziro khumi kuyambira 2010: Kafukufuku khumi wasindikizidwa kuyambira 2010 amawonetsa kukula kwakukulu kwa matenda opweteka a erectile. Mu maphunziro 10, erectile kukanika mitengo kwa amuna pansi 40 ranged ku 14% kuti 37%, pamene mitengo kwa libido otsika ranged ku 16% kuti 37%. Ena kuposa Kubwera kwa akukhamukira zolaula (2006) palibe variable zokhudzana ED unyamata ali appreciably asintha zaka 10-20 (mitengo kusuta pansi, ntchito mankhwala ndi okhazikika, mitengo kunenepa amuna 20-40 mpaka% 4 yekha kuyambira 1999 - onani ndemanga iyi ya mabukuwa). Zochitika posachedwa za kugonana zimagwirizana ndi kusindikizidwa kwa kafukufuku wambiri wokhudzana ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi "chizoloŵezi cha zolaula" ku zochitika zogonana ndi kuchepetsa kukakamiza kugonana.

Mpaka pomwe munthu atha kufotokozera posachedwa 500% -1000% ikudumpha mumitengo ya ED ya amuna ochepera zaka 40, ndibwino kuganiza kuti akatswiri omwe atchulidwawa atha kukhala olondola za PIED, ndikuti akatswiri azakugonana omwe ali ndi zolinga mwina sangakhale odalirika.

Chachitatu, alipo tsopano Zotsatira za 40 kugwirizanitsa zolaula kapena zolaula zolaula ndikugonjetsa ubongo ku zofuna zogonana. Kuphatikiza apo, Phunziro la 75 limagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsira ntchito zochepetsera kugonana komanso kukondana. Monga momwe ife tikudziwira onse Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna adanena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zambiri zogwirizana osauka kugonana kapena kukondana.

Potsiriza ife tiri zikwi za nkhani zobwezeretsa Mogwirizana ndi zomwe tafufuzazi zitha kupezeka pamasamba awa:

pomwe: Wolemba mnzake wa Ley komanso mnzake Chithunzi cha Nicole wakhala akudandaula kwambiri ndi maulamuliro a debunking-amachititsa ED, atachita Nkhondo yopanda chilungamo ya 4 pa pepala ili la maphunziro, pomwe nthawi yomweyo amazunza komanso kupeputsa anyamata omwe achira ku zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula. Pomaliza, ndikofunikira kuzindikira wolemba ameneyo Chithunzi cha Nicole ali maubale oyandikana ndi zolaula ndipo wamangika chifukwa cha PIED yolemetsa, atapumira a Nkhondo ya zaka 3 pa pepala ili la maphunziro, pomwe nthawi yomweyo amazunza komanso kupusitsa anyamata omwe achira ku zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula. Onani zolemba: Gabe Deem #1, Gabe Deem #2, Alexander Rhodes #1, Alexander Rhodes #2, Alexander Rhodes #3, Mpingo wa Nowa, Alexander Rhodes #4, Alexander Rhodes #5, Alexander Rhodes #6, Alexander Rhodes #7, Alexander Rhodes #8, Alexander Rhodes #9, Alexander Rhodes #10,  Alex Rhodes # 11, Gabe Deem & Alex Rhode pamodzi # 12, Alexander Rhodes #13, Alexander Rhodes #14, Gabe Deem #4, Alexander Rhodes #15. Titha kungoganiza kuti ndichifukwa chiyani Pembedzero limachita izi komanso zosokoneza. Pali zambiri pankhaniyi - Kodi Nicole Anagwiritsira Ntchito Pulogalamu Yolimbikitsa Zogulitsa Zojambulajambula?).

David Ley kusamvana pazachuma (COI)

COI #1: Pakuwombana kopenyeka kwachuma, David Ley ndi kulipidwa ndi makampani opanga zolaula za chimphona cha X-hamster kutsatsa masamba awo ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti kuzolowera zolaula komanso chizolowezi chogonana ndizabodza! Makamaka, David Ley ndi omwe angopangidwa kumene Alliance Health Alliance (SHA) akhala ogwirizana ndi tsamba la X-Hamster (Strip-Chat). Mwaona "Stripchat imagwirizanitsa ndi Health Health Alliance kuti igwiritse ntchito bongo lanu lomwe limakhala ndi nkhawa":

Bungwe loyambitsanso za Health sex Alliance (SHA) gulu laupangiri akuphatikiza David Ley ndi ena awiri "Akatswiri" a RealYourBrainOnPorn.com (Justin Lehmiller & Chris Donahue). RealYBOP ndi gulu la poyera zolaula, omwe amadzitcha “akatswiri” otsogozedwa ndi Chithunzi cha Nicole. Gulu ili pano likuchita nawo kuphwanya malamulo kosamaloledwa ndi kuphwanya malamulo kuloza ku YBOP yovomerezeka. Mwachidule, omwe akuyesera kuti ateteze YBOP akulipiridwanso ndi makampani azolaula kulimbikitsa mabizinesi awo, ndikuwatsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti zolaula ndi ma cam sizimabweretsa mavuto (onani: Nicole Prause ali pafupi, amagwirizana pagulu lazamalonda ngati zolaula ngati zolembedwa bwino patsamba lino).

In m'nkhaniyi, Ley amatsutsa kukweza kwake kotsatsa zolaula:

Inde, akatswiri azaumoyo omwe amagwira ntchito limodzi ndi malo ogulitsa zolaula amakumana ndi mavuto ena, makamaka kwa iwo omwe amafuna kuti azikhala opanda nkhawa. "Ndikulakalaka [olimbikitsa zolaula] onse azakuwa, 'Onani, David Ley akuchita zolaula," akutero Ley, yemwe Dzinali limatchulidwa pafupipafupi ndi zonyansa m'magulu ogonana ndi maliseche ngati NoFap.

Koma ngakhale ntchito yake ndi Stripchat mosakayikira imamupatsa chakudya kwa wina aliyense wofunitsitsa kuti amulembe ngati wakondera kapena mthumba la malo oonera zolaula, a Ley, malonda amenewo ndi oyenera. "Ngati tikufuna kuthandiza [oonera zolaula], tiyenera kupita kwa iwo," akutero. "Umu ndi momwe timachitira izi."

Kukondera? Ley akutikumbutsa za madokotala otchuka a fodya, ndi mgwirizano wa Zaumoyo, Sukulu ya Fodya.

COI #2 David Ley ndi kulipidwa kuti mupewe zolaula komanso zolaula. Pamapeto pa izi Psychology Today Blog positi Ley akuti:

Kuulura: David Ley wapereka umboni pamilandu yokhudza milandu yomwe imakhudzana ndi zachiwerewere. "

Mu tsamba latsopano la 2019 David Ley adapereka ntchito zolipiridwa zabwino:

David J. Ley, Ph.D., ndi katswiri wazamisala komanso woyang'anira wotsimikizika wa AASECT wokhudza zachiwerewere, ku Albuquerque, NM. Wapereka umboni waukatswiri komanso umboni wazamalamulo milandu ingapo kuzungulira United States. A Dr. Ley amadziwika kuti ndi akatswiri pazachinyengo zabodza zokhudzana ndi chiwerewere, ndipo adatsimikizika ngati mboni waluso pamutuwu. Iye wachitira umboni m'makhothi aboma ndi feduro.

Lumikizanani naye kuti mupeze ndandanda wa zolipiritsa ndikukonzekera nthawi yoti mudzakambirane za chidwi chanu.

Nicole Prause amapindulanso chifukwa chokana kugonana komanso zolaula. Kuchokera kwa iye Liberos Tsamba (tsamba lomwe lidachotsedwa, ndipo Prause analichotsa pa Internet WayBack Machine):

"Kugonjetsa kugonana" akugwiritsidwa ntchito mobwerezabwereza ngati chitetezo pamilandu, koma sayansi yake ndi yosauka. Tapereka umboni wa luso lofotokozera momwe dzikoli likuyendera ndikupanga alangizi a malamulo kuti athandize magulu kumvetsetsa momwe zasayansi akuchitira panopa kuti awonetsere chithandizo chawo.

LKufunsana mwaulemu ndi umboni kagwiritsidwe ntchito kawiri pa ola limodzi.

Chodabwitsa kwambiri, a Prause & Ley amachitiranso zachipongwe, kunyoza komanso kuwononga ma cyber. Mwawona tsamba ili zomwe zidapangidwa kuti zitsutse kuzunzidwa komwe kumachitika komanso zonama zomwe wopanga kafukufuku wakale wa UCLA a Nicole Prause adachita monga gawo la kampeni ya "astroturf" yokopa anthu kuti aliyense amene sagwirizana ndi ziganizo zake akuyenera kunyozedwa.

COI #3: Ley amapanga ndalama pogulitsa mabuku awiri omwe amakana kugonana ndi zolaula ("Nthano ya Kugonana Kwachiwerewere, "2012 ndi"Porn Ethics for Dicks,"2016). Pornhub (yomwe ili ndi chiwembu cha porn GiantGeek) ndi amodzi mwa malonjezo asanu osindikiza kumbuyo omwe alembedwa ku Ley's 2016 zokhudza zolaula:

Chidziwitso: PornHub anali akaunti yachiwiri ya Twitter kuti mubwezeretse njira yoyamba ya RealYBOP kulengeza tsamba lake la "katswiri", ndikuwonetsa kuyanjana pakati pa PornHub ndi Akatswiri a RealYBOP. Zopatsa chidwi!

COI #4:Pomaliza, David Ley amapanga ndalama kudzera Semina za CEU, pomwe amalimbikitsa malingaliro okana-kukana omwe adalembedwa m'mabuku ake awiri (omwe samanyalanyaza sanyalanyaza mazana a maphunziro ndi tanthauzo la zatsopano Kuzindikira Kakugonana Kwamisala mu buku la World Health Organisation's diagnostic. Ley amalipiridwa zolankhula zake zambiri zokhala ndi malingaliro okonda zolaula. M'mawonetsero awa a 2019 Ley akuwoneka kuti akuthandizira ndikukulimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula za achinyamata: Kupanga Kugonana Koyenera ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula Zoyenera Kuchita Achinyamata.

Zomwe zili pamwambapa ndi nsonga chabe ya Ice ndi Ley.

Pofotokoza mwachangu za makanema osawerengera owonera a Gabe Deem: ZABODZA ZABWINO - Chowonadi Chopezerera Kusuta Ndi Zogonana.