Achinyamata khumi mwa khumi ndi awiri mpaka 12 amaopa kuti "ali osokoneza" zolaula, kafukufuku wa NSPCC ChildLine watha.
Onerani kanema wa mtsikana akukambirana za zolaula panthawi yomwe anali 13
Ofufuza anapeza kuti mmodzi mwa achinyamata asanu alionse a 700 omwe anafunsidwa anati anaona zithunzi zolaula zomwe zinawadetsa nkhaŵa kapena kuzikhumudwitsa.
Chikondicho chimanenanso kuti 12% mwa anthu omwe anafunsidwa akuti adatenga nawo mbali, kapena adachita, kanema yolaula.
Limati kuonera zolaula "ndi gawo la moyo watsiku ndi tsiku" kwa ana ambiri omwe amalumikizana ndi foni yawo.
ChildLine yakhazikitsa polojekiti yowunikira komanso kupereka malangizo kwa achinyamata za zotsatira zovulaza za kuwonetsa zolaula potsatira zotsatira zafukufuku.
'Wankhanza'
Mnyamata wina wazaka zosakwana 15 adauza ChildLine kuti "amakhala akuwonera zolaula nthawi zonse, ndipo zina zimakhala zankhanza".
Anati: "Sindimaganiza kuti zimandikhudza poyamba koma ndayamba kuwona atsikana mosiyana posachedwa ndipo zikundidetsa nkhawa.
"Ndikufuna kudzakwatirana mtsogolo koma ndili ndi mantha kuti mwina sizingachitike ndikapitiliza kuganizira za atsikana momwe ndimaganizira."
Mtsikana, yemwe tsopano ali 17, anauza BBC kuti adagwidwa ndi chibwenzi chake panthawi yomwe anali ndi zaka 12.
"Ankaganiza kuti zili bwino pang'ono," adatero.
“Ndinadzimva wonyansa, wosokonezeka, wodabwitsidwa.
"Zithunzi zolaula sizongokhala kanema ya mphindi 10 - zimakhala ndi zotsatirapo."
Pulogalamu ya ChildLine Yotsutsa Zigamu Zithunzi (FAPZ) yapadera imagwiritsa ntchito zojambula zowonongeka zomwe zimatanthauzanso kuwonetsa zolaula kwa anyamata ndi atsikana.
Zithunzizo zimagwirizana ndi mfundo zambiri komanso malangizo omwe angathandize achinyamata kudziwa zotsatira za kuwonetsa zolaula m'moyo weniweni ndikuwateteza kuti asadziike okha pangozi.
'Kufikira mosavuta'
Peter Liver, mtsogoleri wa ChildLine, adanena kuti kunali kofunika kulankhula momasuka za nkhaniyi.
"Ana azaka zonse masiku ano ali ndi mwayi wopeza zolaula zambiri," adatero. “Ngati ife monga gulu tipewa kulankhula za nkhaniyi, tikulephera zikwi za achinyamata zomwe zikuwakhudza.
"Tikudziwa kuchokera kwa achinyamata omwe amalumikizana ndi ChildLine kuti kuonera zolaula ndi gawo la moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo kafukufuku wathu akuwonetsa kuti m'modzi mwa azaka zapakati pa 12 mpaka 13 wazaka akuganiza kuti kuonera zolaula ndichikhalidwe chabwinobwino.
"Amauza ChildLine kuti kuonera zolaula kumawakhumudwitsa, zimawapatsa mawonekedwe a thupi, komanso zimawapangitsa kukakamizidwa kuchita zachiwerewere zomwe sanakonzekere."
Iye analandira kulengeza sabata yatha ya zolinga zophunzitsa ana kuyambira zaka za 11 za kugwiriridwa ndi kugonana monga mbali ya maphunziro, zaumoyo ndi zaumoyo (PSHE) kusukulu.
"Ntchito yathu ikugwirizana bwino ndi izi," adatero.
"Kudera lonse, tiyenera kuchotsa manyazi komanso manyazi omwe amapezeka polankhula za zolaula - ndichifukwa chake tikukhazikitsa ntchitoyi ndikuthandiza achinyamata kusankha mwanzeru."
'Kuwononga ndi kukhumudwitsa'
[Onerani kanema wa katswiri akuwombera alamu]
A Dame Esther Rantzen, omwe adakhazikitsa ChildLine, adati ndizodabwitsa kuti ana omwe ali ndi zaka 11 akuyandikira thandizo ndi nkhawa zawo zolaula.
"Achinyamata akutembenukira pa intaneti kuti aphunzire za kugonana komanso maubale," adatero.
"Tikudziwa kuti nthawi zambiri amapunthwa pa zolaula, nthawi zambiri mosadziwa, ndipo akutiuza momveka bwino kuti izi zimawapweteka komanso zimawakhumudwitsa.
"Makamaka atsikana anena kuti amadzimva kuti akuyenera kuwoneka ngati anyamata olaula kuti azikondedwa ndi anyamata."
Dame Esther anati maphunziro apamwamba anali ofunikira.
"Tiyenera kuyankhula ndi achinyamata za kugonana, chikondi, ulemu ndi kuvomereza tikangomva kuti ali okonzeka, kuwonetsetsa kuti apeza malingaliro oyenera pakati pa ubale weniweni ndi zolaula zadziko lapansi," adatero.
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MAFUNSO: Kuuza ana "zolaula sizowona" ndi "njira" yothetsera vutoli. Amafuna maphunziro a momwe ubongo wachinyamata umagwirira ntchito ndi zomwe zimakopa kwambiri ngati zolaula zomwe zikuwonetsedwa masiku ano. Zambiri, onani Maphunziro & Zolaula.
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