Iingxaki Zonobumba: Nangu Baza Abafazi (2013)

I-intanethi yokuvuselela ngokugqithiseleyo i-intanethi inokuphazamisa ubomi besini sabasetyhini

IsiSweden esithandwayo iphephancwadi leendaba litshanje ukuba abantu basetyhini baqaphela uguqulelo lwabo lwe "porno impotence," (esele ichaziwe Madoda aseSweden). Omnye umfazi uthi,

Ndizibuze malunga nesizathu sokungabikho kwam umdla kwisini ebomini-bokwenyani. … Ndiyayibona ipateni: Amanyala amaninzi = ukuhla kwamandla kunye neqabane. Ndifikelele kwinqanaba apho ndikhetha ukuphuma khona ngesondo kunye neqabane kwaye ndihlala kwi-porn. … Khange ndiyicinge nokuyicinga le nto ngokwenkqubo yomvuzo. Kwaye ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokucacileyo kungumvuzo! Ndicinga ukuba ngaphezu kokutya. ”

Wathi enye:

"[Ukusetyenziswa kwe-Porn] kukodwa kunokuxhobisa, kodwa kunokuba ngumqobo xa ngequbuliso ufuna ukuseka ubudlelwane obusondeleyo."

kwaye omnye:

Ndiyintombazana eneminyaka eyi-23, ndibukele iphonografi ukusukela nge-14/15, kwaye bendiza kuhlaziya amalungu esini kakhulu. Kwindawo apho ndingakwaziyo ukulala nyani ukuba andiziphulula amalungu esini, kuba bendiphulula amalungu esini rhoqo ebusuku ngaphambi kokuba ndilale, iminyaka emininzi. Kwaye andikaze ndibenayo i-orgasm komnye umntu, ndinokuzenza ngokwam kuphela, xa ndibukele iphonografi (okanye ndicinga ngeso lengqondo). Andizange ndiyeke ixesha elide kuneentsuku ze-4 okanye kunjalo, kodwa ndifuna ukuyeka. Njalo xa ndigqibile, ndiziva ndidiniwe kwaye ndifuna ukulala / ukulala. Kumnandi. Ndiqala ngaphi? Andikwazi ukuzilawula, ndicinga ..

Kwakhona, akufani nokuba ndiyibukele kuba andinawo amaqabane endabelana nawo ngesondo, ndinobomi obuqhelekileyo bokuthandana kwaye ndinamaxesha akwaneleyo e-kinky, kodwa awaze andonelise njengam .. Ndifuna ukonwabela , kwaye ndicinga ukuba andinako ngenxa yeziyobisi ezingamanyala.

Sihlala sibuzwa ukuba kutheni ngethuba ibhulogi malunga neengxaki zabasetyhini ababhinqileyo. Impendulo: Abantu abathumela kwi-Intanethi malunga neempawu zabo ezinxulumene nezamanyala baphantse babe ngamadoda kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, sikhuthazekile ukuba sithathe amanyathelo ngenqaku laseSweden elingentla, sagqiba kwelokuba simbe nzulu. Sikhethile Reddit / NoFap, ebonakala ngathi yeyona nto ibalaseleyo kubasetyhini kwiindawo apho (ubukhulu becala abantu abancinci) bezama ukuyeka i-Intanethi kunye / okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini. Ngaphezulu kwama-700 kumalungu ayo angama-60,000 + achonga esidlangalaleni njengamabhinqa, abizwa ngokuba “ngabasetyhini.”

Kwama-abasebenzisi bama-540 abesifazana besihlolisise, kuphela malunga nekota kwithunyelwe. Kulabo, i-93% yayizama ukuyeka ukuziphatha okungafunekiyo (ngokuqhelekileyo iifoto, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukusetyenziswa kwezesondo ngokugqithiseleyo/ ukuphulula amalungu esini). Sothuswa kukuba kuphela i-7% ibifuna ingcebiso malunga nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn. Nangona babekho abathandanayo kunye nabasetyhini phakathi kwesampulu, uninzi lweeposta lwaluthetha ngesondo kunye namadoda.

Siye sachukunyiswa yindlela ii-akhawunti ze-femstronauts ezibonisa ngokusondeleyo ngayo amava eengxelo zamadoda ezibonisa iimpawu ezinxulumene ne-intanethi ye-porn. Njengoko uza kubona, abafazi, nabo, bakhalaza ngokulahleka kwemvakalelo kunye nokuvuswa ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo lokwenyani, ukunyuka kwiintlobo ezingafunekiyo ze-porn, ukucaphuka, ukungakhathali, umlutha, ukulala ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa koonografi, njalo njalo. Abaninzi babona iingenelo eziphawulekayo xa beyeka.

Njengolu luvo lwethu lokuqala olunzulu lokujonga iingxelo ze-femstronauts, sifuna ukufaka uninzi lwamazwi ababhinqileyo. Siliqhekeze eli thuba lide kula macandelo alandelayo:

  • Abasetyhini abaneengxaki ezibangelwa ziinkonzo zoononophelo bathetha
  • Ukuphuculwa emva kokuyeka
  • Iimpawu zoonwabo

Abasetyhini abaneengxaki ezibangelwa ziinkonzo zoononophelo bathetha

Inyaniso yokuba amadoda namabhinqa abona iimpawu ezifanayo zibonisa ukuba umba woononophala banamhlanje unokuba sesichengeni sobuchopho bomntu ebusweni beevidiyo ezingamanyala eziphakamileyo namhlanje. Nantsi isampulu yezizathu zabafazi zokuyeka.

Ukulahlekelwa kobubele bokuzalwa / isifiso somlingane

Fiona: Ndiyesaba ukuba ukugcoba ngokugqithisileyo nokubukela iphonografi kuyandichukumisa kakhulu (ngokwenyama nangengqondo) xa ndilala ngesoka lam.

jonge: Ndingumfazi kubudlelwane bexesha elide. Ndidla ngokugcoba yonke imihla embalwa, kwaye ndaqala ukusebenzisa i-porno kuba yenza kube lula kwaye ikhawuleze ukufikelela kwi-orgasm. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha ngalinye liba nzima ngakumbi ukuya kufikelela kuvuthondaba, kwaye kule minyaka idlulileyo iphonografi endiyibukeleyo iye yanda kakhulu / ingaqhelekanga ukufumana inani elifanayo lonwabo. Andikwazi ukufikelela kuvuthondaba kunye nesithandwa sam. Kuyinyani ukuba iphonografi iyakukhathaza, kodwa nje ukuba ungabinayo i-orgasm ngaphandle kwayo, kunzima ukuyeka.

Sienna: Ndisandula nje ndaqhekeka kunye nesithandwa sam kuba ndizange ndive nantoni na. Ndandixelele ukuba kwakuyindoda engafanelekanga, kwaye oko kunokuba yinyani, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ukuphinga kwam unaphakade kungandivumi ukuba ndivale iindwangu endandingayiziva ngayo. Ukususela ekubeni ndandingumntwana osemncinci, ndiye ndihlambalaza okanye ndingakhange ndibukele i-porno kakhulu imihla ngemihla.

kelly: Kuthina mantombazana i-ED emodareyitha kunzima ukuyibona,… kodwa ndiziva ngendlela efanayo njengoko ndifunda abafana bayichaza. Kukho umnqweno kodwa akukho mvuselelo. Akukho kuphazamiseka, ukutsala, ukungxama, imvakalelo eyonwabisayo kwi-clitoris nakwisisu esisezantsi, kuphela luhlobo lokutyhala kwengqondo ukuya kwisini. Kwaye i-BTW, mna do unomntu, ngaphandle kokuba unokuchazwa ngokuchanekileyo njengo-PO: okanye i-orgasming ngelixa i-excitation isezantsi, kunye nomgangatho we-orgasm uqobo. I-orgasm enjalo ayifumanekanga ngaphandle kohlobo oluthile lokuxhalaba, kodwa lwakhiwe kwizitho zangasese.

Surya: Ndingumfazi we-23 y / o kwaye ndiphulula amalungu esini rhoqo ngokuhlwa ukuze ndilale ngamanye amaxesha emini. Ndibona isithandwa sam amaxesha ambalwa ngeveki. Ndimkhumbula kakhulu xa sele emkile, kodwa xa sihlangene, kufana nokuba yonke into yam yokwabelana ngesondo iyanyamalala.

Ellen: Khange ifike kum, de mna nesithandwa sam saye saqala ukuzama, ukuba ndinengxaki. Ndikuthandile ukuziva kamnandi. Ndiyenzile xa ndizivuza ngokwam, ndizenza ndiziva ndibhetele, okanye ndonwabile. Kodwa ngoku ndiyabona ukuba ndiqhelene kakhulu ne-vibrator kunye nesam isandla andinakukwazi ukwenza i-orgasm okanye ndiziva ndiziva ndi-ethe-ethe xa umfana endithandana naye endonwabisa. F * ck. Oko. Sh * t.

ValerieLixesha lokuba ndiyeke ukuxhomekeka kwi-porno ukuze ndihambe.

lilone_mg: Ndiyintombazana eneminyaka eyi-19. Umfundi waseKholejini, intombi eyintombazana, njl. Ukunyaniseka, ekuqaleni ndiyilandele le nxalenye njengesiqhulo. Andiqondanga ukuba iyintoni na injongo, ngakumbi xa ipmo inkulu kakhulu, akunjalo? Ke, njengabaninzi, ndiqale ukukhukhumeza xa ndandisemncinci. I-Nbd. Andizange ndiyenze rhoqo, andizange ndibone nayiphi na into echaphazelekayo. Emva koko ndafumana igumbi elinye ekholejini. Ndiza kuthi pmo ngokoqobo kuba ndandidikwe. Emva koko, ndaqala ukuqaphela iingxaki kubomi bam ngokwesini kunye nesithandwa sam seminyaka ye-4. Kwakungathi siphelelwe kukuvumelanisa. Akukho namnye kuthi owonwabileyo. Sathetha, saza
Bobabini bayavuma ukuba (ngamanye amaxesha) sasine-pmo ngaphambi kwesondo, ukuze ndikulungele kwaye angahlala ixesha elide. Ndade ndathi andisayiboni inqaku kwezesondo kwakhona. Ayibuhlungu lonto ?? Kwaye ngokunyaniseka, andikhathali malunga nokuhlala ixesha elide. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ukuhlala naye kuphela kwento endiyifunayo. Ke ukuqala ngobo busuku, ndayeka i-pmo iveki. Ukusuka kuloo nto, ndiye ndaphawula ukuba bendiphendula kakhulu, ndinomdla, kwaye macala onke ndichulumancile kwaye ndimamele. Ndibuyele umva ukusukela, kodwa ndifuna ukuqhubeka ukusuka kwi-pmo. Luchaphazele ubudlelwane bam, inkuthazo kunye noqeqesho lwam. Ndifuna ukuba yintombi engcono, kwaye ndingcono kum. Ukuqala ngobu busuku, ndiyathetha ukuba ndibekho.

Ukubamba kunye "nokulibazisa"

Sophie: Ukuphulula amalungu esini ngamakhosikazi kunokuba kuhle ukuba kungalawuleki. Akukho “xesha lisezantsi.” Ngeentsuku "zokugula" ekhaya ndisiya esikolweni ndisiya kwiibinks ze-porn kunye nama-cum malunga namaxesha e-30 +. Ngoku, ndifuna ukuyeka ukucinga ngokunyaniseka koononophala ngelixa ndilala ngesondo ukuze ndikwazi ukuhlala. Iyandikhusela ngokusondeleyo kwimeko.

Alana: Ndafumanisa i-porn kwi-10. Kodwa umdla wam onobugqwetha wawubumnene [kude kube ngu-13 ubudala]. Ndiza kuchitha iminyaka elandelayo ye-4 edging kunye ne-orgasming imihla ngemihla, kwaye ngemihla embi, ndiyakwenza kaninzi ngamaxesha. Emva koko, ndiza kuziva Kwakunjengokutshatyalaliswa ngokugqithisileyo emva kokuphakamileyo. Ndaziva ndonwabile, ndonwabile, kwaye ndidandathekile nakwezinye iifap. Ingqiqo enkulu yokuzibamba inceba yayiza kuhlamba. Ndiya kucinga ngabazali bam, kwaye ndiziva ndihlazekile kukuba intombi yabo yayiza kuzifihla egumbini lakhe, iitaleni ezibethekileyo, ukugcoba ngokugqiba. Kuphela ubulili besini, kunye novuyo lobuxoki ukuzalisa ingqondo yam.

liz: Ngelixa andifumani nto iyindalo Ephosakeleyo ngokuphulula amalungu esini ngokumodareyitha, kunokuba ugule ukuxhomekeka kakhulu kwinto ehlaselwe ngokweemvakalelo kwaye iyingozi. Kwaye xa uqala, ungazikhawulela njani kumodareyitha, ngokwenene? Kwaye [amanyala ayinyani kwaphela. Ugh!

tinaKutshanje, ndizifumana ndisihla mhlawumbi amaxesha ama-6, ama-7 ngemini. Kuthatha ixesha lam, kundenza ndifike emva kwexesha. Andikwazi ukukunceda uzive ukuba kukuthabatheka kweentlobo, kuba andikwazi. I-porn iyandonyanyisa kodwa kutshanje bendiyisebenzisa njengokulungisa ngokukhawuleza, ngokuchasene nesigqibo sam esingcono. Nangona kunjalo, yonke into i-pro-masturbation kodwa ndivakalelwa kukuba lixesha lokuthatha i-gauntlet kwaye wenze le nto.

Ukulahlekelwa usondlo / ukubonwa abanye njengezinto zesini

Elise: Ndineemvakalelo zokuba xa ndilala nomntu endimthandayo, ndiyaphazamiseka kuba ndibukele iphonografi kakhulu kwaye ndicinga ngazo zonke izinto ezimbi endizibukeleyo. Yenza nje lo mqobo mkhulu kubomi bam besini 🙁

Amanda: Ndikubudlelwane obude. Ndiyidlwengula phantse yonke imihla. … Ndizifumana ndicacisa ngokwasemphefumlweni abahlobo bam abangamadoda; kwaye ndiphulukana nexesha elininzi elibalulekileyo endifanele ukuba ndilichithe emsebenzini. Kwakhona ndandidla ngokudlala ngothando xa ndandisemncinci ngaphambi kokuba ndifumanise ukuba amanenekazi nawo angakwazi ukuphulula amalungu esini nawo (awade afikelela nakwikholeji), emva koko ndalahlekelwa ngumnqweno wokubamba okanye ukusondela emadodeni.

Lilly: Ndiphulula amalungu esini i-4 ukuya kuma-6 amaxesha ngeveki kuxhomekeke ekubeni ndifumana ixesha elingakanani ndedwa. Silala ngesondo mhlawumbi kanye ngeveki kwaye akukaze kube kuhle. Akukho namnye kuthi ogcina amandla kuye. Ndikhethe ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokujonga imifanekiso ukuze ndichithe ixesha kunye naye. Ndiye ndaba yinto endiyithiyileyo.

kat: Ndingumntu wesini esahlukileyo. Ngexesha elizayo xa ndibona umhlobo omtsha endiye ndenza i-masturbated to, into eyahlukileyo. Nokuba "ndiqhelekile" kanjani ukuba ndicinga ukuba ndiyabamba, andinako ukushukumisa imvakalelo yokuba uyazi ukuba ikhona into ekhoyo. Lo ngumzekelo omnye wokuba kutheni ndiqala ngaphandle komceli mngeni we-schlick [ukuphulula amalungu esini]. Ndidiniwe kukungakwazi ukuqonda inyani kuba ndigxile kakhulu kumnandi.

Ukunyuka okungafunekiyo kwiimfono ezingaphezulu kwezocwangco

nina: Ndiqalile ukujonga iphonografi ukuze ndiziphazamise kwinyani kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndiyiphulula amalungu esini ukuze ndizilibazise. Elona candelo libi kukuba iphonografi endiyijongileyo iye yafumana ukuphazamiseka okuqhubekayo.

shona: Ndihlala ndibukela iphonografi okoko bendinonxibelelwano lwe-intanethi. … Ndiphulula amalungu esini kanye kanye ngemini kwaye izinto endizibonayo ziya ziba nzima kwaye ziyaqina… bendisoloko ndisiya kudlwengula iphonografi kutsha nje.

Chelsea: Kuphela kuphela unyaka okoko ndafumanisa ubuhle be-orgasm. Kodwa sele ndibonile isabelo sam sezona zinto zihamba phambili kunye neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Kwaye ukucinga ukuba ndisemncinci. Ndifuna ukuba nam kwakhona. Kodwa kunzima.

Ukunciphisa umlutha (ukungakwazi ukuyeka ngaphandle kwemiphumo emibi)

Jen: KUFUNEKA NDIPHONZE yonke imihla. Ndiyagula kwaye ndidiniwe yiyo. Ndibuhlungu phantsi ... kubuhlungu. Kwaye ingqondo yam ayinakuyeka ukudlala imifanekiso yeengcinga zesondo nokuba uvukile okanye ulele. … Ndiyakukhumbula ukuba ngumntu oqhelekileyo kwaye nditsaleleke kumantombazana [isithethi sithandana nabo] kwaye ndiyabuthanda ubuhle babo. Konke kuhambile. Ndiziva ngathi ndingu-Asexual ngoku. Andikhathalele nakweyiphi na into eyabelana ngesondo okoko kwaqala ubukhoboka bam.

Alicia: Umlutha wobugqwetha utshintshe ubomi bam ngeendlela ezininzi. Ndihlala ndingenangxaki yokufumana ingqalelo emadodeni kwaye ndomelele ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye ndinomtsalane. Bendihlala ndibukela iphonografi kunamadoda amaninzi endibaziyo. Ndingafumana isikhuthazo, emva koko ndichithe naphi na ukusuka kwimizuzu emihlanu ukuya kweyure ndikhangela ividiyo efanelekileyo ukuba ndiye kuyo kuba ndizifumene ndikruqukile zizinto ezindala ezifanayo. Ndaqala ngezinto ezithambileyo kwiminyaka yam yokuqala yeshumi elivisayo kwaye yajika yaba zezona zinto zininzi endinokuzifumana. Ndine-gig ye-porn kwi-PC yam, ndibeka iifayile kwifowuni yam kunye ne-mp3 / isidlali sevidiyo ukufikelela ngokulula, kwaye ndafumana iakhawunti yolingo kwindawo ye-porn kuba ndabona i-gif endijike kakhulu.

Yonke into kuye kwafuneka ibe roucher kum. Ndandifuna ukubizwa ngokuba ndiyinjakazi nehenyukazi. Ndacela ukubethwa ngempama kwaye uninzi lwabafana alunakuyenza. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakuyinto yonke kodwa ukuthanda kum; Yonke into eyayilahlekile kubomi bam besini yayikhamera kunye nentlawulo yomvuzo. Ndandicinga ukuba ndithandana nabasetyhini, kodwa andinakuze ndizibone ndibudlelane nomfazi. Ngokusisiseko ndandingazichazanga mna kuphela, ndandicacisa abafazi ebomini bam. Ukuhlangana ngesondo nabanye baziva belungile, kodwa khange bandenzele lukhulu. Ndiza kuxoka malunga nendlela evakalelwa ngayo kwaye ndiza kubhala i-orgasms ukuze iphele. Yaziva ingalunganga, kwaye ndifuna nje ukushiywa ndedwa. Ngamanyala? Ndiza kuba nee-orgasms ezinamandla kwaye ndiyenze naphi na ukusuka kwabahlanu ukuya kwabahlanu ngosuku.

Umonakalo owenzileyo kum ngokwasemphefumlweni ngokubhekisele kwisini, ukuzithemba, kunye nolwalamano luyabonakala kakhulu. Kwakhona, kwandenza ndafuna ukudlala ngothando namadoda kakhulu. “Kutheni kufuneka ndithethe nalo mfana mhle nje? Akasoze andenze ndizive ndimnandi ngokwesondo ngendlela endiziva ngayo ndedwa. ” Ndiya kuba nencoko kunye nomfana kwi-intanethi, kwaye ndivuka nje kwaye ndihambe kwi-PC ukuze ndihlaziye. Ndiza kufika emva kwexesha eklasini okanye emsebenzini kuba bendifuna ukungena kwiseshoni enye ye-porn ekhawulezileyo. Ndandibuhlungu kwaye ndandifuna ukuyitshintsha.  (Jonga ukuhlaziywa kuka-Alicia apha ngezantsi.)

Megan: Ngokuqinisekileyo ndicinga ukuba likhoboka elisemthethweni. … Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo unemvakalelo yokungalawuleki. Kwandithatha ixesha elithile ukuba ndibandakanyeke noononophala, kodwa emva kokuba ndenzile, ndichitha iintsuku zonke ndibukela i-porn kunye ne-masturbating endaweni yokusebenza (ekhaya). Ngaphandle kwe-masturbation egqithisileyo, ndiza kuba ndingakhuselekanga kwaye ndingakhathali kubomi bokwenyani, ukuhlangana nabantu abangahleliyo ngesihogo nje sayo. Andikwazi ukucinga malunga nantoni na ngaphandle kwesondo ixesha elininzi. Ndivakalelwa kukuba amandla am asuswe ngokupheleleyo kwaye ingqondo yam kunye nokugxila kukwahlukana. Ukugxininisa kuyo nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo kunzima, ngakumbi ngoononophala obukhoyo ngomzuzwana kwi-intanethi. "Ukuhlehlisa" kungaphaya kolawulo.

Ngokubhekisele kwinguqu yabasetyhini ye-ED, ngokuqinisekileyo ndandinalo hlobo lomcimbi ngokukhuthaza amandla. Ukuze ndihambe nomfana ndiza kufuneka ndicinge ngento ethile engqondweni yam ukuze isebenze. Ubuntununtunu babungekho bebodwa, okanye ndandisetyenziselwa indlela endandiziva ngayo xa ndiyenza kum. Ndingazifumana ngomzuzu okanye emibini, kodwa kuya kuthatha ixesha elininzi, KUNINZI ixesha elide neqabane, ukuba konke. [Imikhwa yam] yabuyela umva xa ndithandana nendoda entle kakhulu eyayingenangxaki nge-porn okanye i-masturbation. Kuba naye wayengekho likhoboka okanye echukunyiswe yimifanekiso engamanyala, ndandinengxaki yokuyiqonda le toni iphantsi, inobuqhophololo, nothando olwenziweyo ngesondo. Ndicinga ukuba oku kunokuba yinto abajamelana nayo abafana. Xa umntu engathelekisi inkangeleko yomzimba kuphela kodwa nokuziphatha ebhedini, kwaye bayaqaphela ukuba inenekazi labo aliziphathi njengeyona nkwenkwezi ye-porn bayithandayo, bayaxubana nalo mahluko kulindelo.

UWhitney: “Bendihlola” umzimba wam kusenokwenzeka ukuba ndineminyaka esi-8 ubudala. Ndaqala ukubukela iphonografi ~ iminyaka eyi-9. Ukufikelela kwikhompyuter naphi na xa ndifuna kunye nengqondo enomdla ekhokelela kuphononongo olungaqhelekanga. Ngokukhawuleza ndafunda ubuchule endinokuthi ndibusebenzise ukufikelela kwi-orgasm. Ndibambelele kuyo iminyaka eyi-9.

Ukuphulula amalungu esini kwakusoloko kukufumana isiqabu kum, into yokuthatha ixesha lam, into yokuthintela uxinzelelo, into yokundinceda ndilale ebusuku. Ndikulungele ukuzenza ndonwabe, nokuba kuphela okwexeshana. Ndiyakhumbula intsasa yemarathon, ukuphulula amalungu esini iiyure ezininzi, ndibona ukuba mangaphi amaxesha endinokuthi ndi-orgasm. Khange ndiqonde ukuba ngumlutha, andibonanga mpembelelo ibinayo kwindlela endiziva ndonwabile ngayo, indlela endijamelana ngayo nobomi, nendlela endisebenza ngayo.

Kubudlelwane bam bokuqala bokwenyani, ngokwam andinakukwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye nesithandwa sam. Kwakungekho nto wayenokuyenza enokuziva ilungile, ngokunyaniseka ubukhulu becala ibuhlungu. Khange ndikwazi ukuchaza ukuba kwakungekho ndlela anokuphinda ngayo ubuchwephesha bam, ayisiyiyo into yokuba ndandingafuni ukumlungiselela, Andikwazi. Ekugqibeleni yafikelela kwinqanaba apho ndingazukuzama khona; kwakulula ukumnika intloko kwaye ayeke naluphi na ulonwabo esiphelweni sam. Kwakulungile ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndiyazi ukuba ndiyamkholisa. Wenzakala okwethutyana, ecaphuka kuba engakwazi ukundonwabisa. Wayenomsindo nam, nangona kunjalo. Akazange aqonde, kwaye andinakuthi ndizamile ngokwaneleyo ukumcacisela. Esi yayisisibetho esikhulu ekuzithembeni kwam. Andikwazi ukwenza into umntu endimthandayo ayifunayo kum. Ekugqibeleni, wayeka nokuzama ukundonwabisa.

Ndancamathela kubudlelwane kwi-Intanethi ngaphambi nasemva koko. Ndiqhubekile namagumbi okuncokola, ndifumana amadoda anokubhala amagama anokundivumela ukuba ndenze into endinokuzenzela yona ndedwa. Kwakuyixesha elimnyama elimnyama. Ndandixinezelekile (ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo), kwaye bendihlala ndibuya esikolweni kwaye ndimosha ngorhatya phambi kwelaptop yam, ndifumana ikink apha okanye apho ukubukela iiyure, kulandela ikhonkco emva kwekhonkco. Malunga nonyaka ophelileyo, ndadibana nendoda yamaphupha am, ngokunyaniseka. Ndandisoyika ukuba ndibekwe kwimeko apho kulindeleke ukuba ndihlale naye. Bendingafuni ukubona ukubonakala kokuphoxeka endikhe ndakubona ngaphambili, andifuni kuxhomekeka kuloo nto. Ndingayichaza njani ukuba kunzima kum ukuba ndenze i-orgasm kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha andinakukwenza oko kwenzeke? Ndingamjonga njani emehlweni ndize ndimxelele ngokusisiseko, "ayinguwe, ndim"?

Uvulekile kwaye wamkela; kuye kwamnandi. Udale indawo apho ndikhuthazwa khona—hayi ucinezelwe-ukonwabela yonke into, apho kungafuneki ukuba ndijolise kuye kuphela kunye nolonwabo, apho ndinokuphumla khona. I-Orgasm ayisiyiyo injongo yokugqibela kuthi; ukonwabela ixesha lethu kunye. Kuthetha umhlaba kum. Kwaye iye yanceda; Ndifumene ngaphezulu kokuxhonywa kwam. Kodwa, andilunganga kuye, okanye nakwam, ukuba andizami ukungazibekeli mda, ngokuthetha. Kwiminyaka ye-9 ithathe iphonografi kunye / okanye amabali kunye neendlela ezithile zokundinika i-orgasm .. Lixesha lokwahlukana nomkhwa.

Ndifuna ukukwazi ukujonga emehlweni akhe kunye ne-orgasm naye, kuye, ngaphandle kokufuna iphonografi. Ndifuna ukonwabela lonke unxibelelwano naye. Ndifuna ukukhululeka koxinzelelo okungandishiyi ndiziva ngathi ndifuna ukuya kuhlamba ngaphambi kokuba ndibone mntu. Ndifuna ukukwazi ukujamelana nobomi ngaphandle kokuguqukela kumlutha ophulula amalungu esini kum.

Ukuphuculwa emva kokuyeka

Amandla amaninzi, ukukhuthaza

Ithemba: (Usuku lwe-36) La mava andincede kakhulu. Andikwazi nje ukuzivumela ukuba ndibuyele kwindlela endandiyiyo kwakhona. Ndonwabile kwaye ndinamandla yonke imihla, kwaye kukho ukuzithemba kum andizange ndiyazi ukuba ikhona. Andifuni kulahlekelwa yiyo.

Nikki: Ndaphinda ndabuyela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngamaxesha ambalwa ukususela ekuqaleni kwam inyanga edlulileyo kodwa ndazibona ngokwenene izibonelelo. Okokuqala kwam amandla am phezulu! Andizange ndibe yinto enamandla ngaphambi kokuba ndibe ne-spliff Ndikulungele ukuba ndiyenze!

Kristen: Khange ndijonge iphonografi kude kube ziinyanga ezintandathu zokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba ndiyeke. Andizange ndihlaziye i-masturbated ngaphezu kweyodwa ngosuku kwaye ndibukele i-porno ngaphezu kwesibini ngeveki. Kwaye, oyena mshukumisi mkhulu wokunciphisa ngokwenene yayikukuziva amandla amaninzi, inkuthazo, kunye nobabalo lwasentlalweni endandinalo xa ndandingazange ndiphulula amaphambili ngeentsuku ezimbalwa. Xa ndiziva ndifuna ukuba khumbula nje indlela endiziva ngcono ngayo xa ndingaziphulula amalungu esini ngokwam.

Ukonwaba ngakumbi ngokwesondo kunye nokuphendula ngokomzwelo / ngokwesondo

UOlivia: Ndaqala ukuhlaziya i-masturbating xa ndiyintombi kwaye xa ekugqibeleni ndabelana ngesondo, andizange ndiyonwabele. Ndaziva ndindisholo kwaye ndacwangciswa ukuba ndiphume kuphela kwi-clit. Emva kokwenza inyanga ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza i-pornography, ndaqala ukuzonwabisa ngesondo okokuqala kwaye andizange ndixhomekeke kwi-clit nonke.

Meg: Umcimbi wam ophambili yayikukuba ndazenza buhlungu kangangokuba bendinokuba novakalelo kakhulu kwi-SO yam ukuba indinike umlomo njlnjl. Ndandihlala ndiphulula amalungu esini yonke imihla, ubuncinci kabini, ngaphambi kokuba ndilale, ngaphandle komkhwa kunokuba eneneni bendifuna. … Kuphele nje iveki kwaye sele ndi… ahem, ndonwabela izibonelelo nge-SO yam!

Julie: Izibonelelo ze-nofap azikho nje kumadoda. Andizange ndicinge ukuba isondo sinokufumana ngcono kunokuba besele sinjalo, kodwa ndandingalunganga. Xa omabini amaqabane egcina wonke umnqweno wabo komnye, izinto zinokumangalisa.

Njani: Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyabona ukwanda kobuntununtunu emva kwexesha lokungafaki okanye ukulala ngesondo. Indenza ndizive ngcono nokuba kukho abanye abantu basetyhini abathatha inxaxheba. Uthando lwenza ukuba isondo libe ngcono kakhulu. Ngamava ahluke ngokupheleleyo ekunciphiseni iimfuno zakho ezisisiseko kunye nomntu (okanye wena ngokwakho) kunye nokwenza uhlobo lothando olunyibilikisa umhlaba kwaye luvakala njengamava e-transcendental.

Sheena: Ngobusuku bokugqibela salala ngesondo, kwaye akukho namnye wethu oye wafa okanye wafa okanye nayiphi na iveki ephelileyo kwaye yayimangalisa. Ndanduluka ngokukhawuleza, nzima, mhlawumbi enye yezona zinto zingcono (kungekhona kubamelwane). Nayiphi na into Ndiyakhuthazwa ukuba ndiqhubeke! Ndiyathemba ukuba wenza njalo!

Bhete: Ndikwenza oku ukuze ndiphinde ndizwela. Iyasebenza. Xa ndenza iiveki ezimbini ndabuya ndaza ndafika ngemizuzwana nje. Ndiyekile ukuze xa ndihlala ne-SO yam kunye nesondo ndiyolonwabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazibona umdla wam emva kwexesha lokungafaki.

uJessie: Ndiyekile xa umyeni wam eyekile ukuwa okokugqibela. Izolo, bendine "O" ezimbini kuphela kumnwe womyeni wam. Eli yayilixesha lethu lokuqala kwiminyaka esi-8. Ungowokuqala kwaye kuphela komntu owakhe wakwazi ukwenza oku. Kungenxa yokuba ndiyekile ukuba ndedwa ophethe iqhosha lam.

Samantha: Xa ndigcina ukonwaba kwam kwimisebenzi kunye nesoka lam, kukwangcono kakhulu kwaye ngakumbi ukuziva uthandana.

Kimberly: (Usuku lwe-33) Ndiyabona ngakumbi ukuzonwabisa ngexesha lokulala ngenxa yokuba ndifumana ixesha elide phakathi kwexesha lokuzonwabisa.

USarah: Ndingumfazi oneminyaka eli-19 ubudala owenza i-nofap. Ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale i-nofap yesondo yayingumsebenzi ngenxa yokuba andizange ndive nantoni na, ndandilinda iqabane lam ukuba liphumelele ukuze liphele. Besikunye phantse unyaka ngoku kwaye bendinokubala kwelinye icala inani lamaxesha endiye ndane-orgasm nabo, kwaye akukho namnye kubo owayelungile. Kodwa ngobusuku bokugqibela ngesondo ndaziva ndimangalisa kwaye ndayeyona nto yabelana ngesondo endinayo ixesha elide. Andikho kuyo yonke indlela yokuqalisa kwakhona kodwa ndivuya kakhulu ukubona oko kugcinwe.

Umoya ongcono, ukulinganisela okukhulu kwengqondo

Caitlyn: Ndingumntu ongcono ngelixa ndingahlambalazi. Ndonwabe ngakumbi, ndonwabile, ndinemveliso ngakumbi. Iphonografi iluhlobo lwe-crutch kum-into yokubuyela umva kuyo. Mhlawumbi sisixhobo esikhulu sokulibazisa.

Kerri: [Usuku lwe-41] Wayenembeko, ethambile kwaye eyiyo, kwaye ngumfo wokuqala endakhe ndanaye ukusukela ndayeka. Emva kokuhamba elona xesha lide phakathi kwe-orgasms okoko ndandineminyaka eyi-11, ndakufumanisa kulula kakhulu ukuba andonelise. Ndaziva eli nqanaba lokuzihlonipha endikhe ndalifumana ngaphambili. Ewe ndineentsuku zam zokuziva ndingonwabanga kakhulu, kodwa ndifumana ingcaciso yokucaca kunye noxolo rhoqo ngoku.

Kayla: Ndineengxaki ngokukhwabanisa ekubeni ndandineminyaka eyi-13 okanye njalo. Khange ibandakanye iphonografi kude kube yiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo ukusukela oko abazali bam babeneefilitha kwiikhompyuter zethu. Ekugqibeleni ndabona ukuba ndinomlutha omncinci malunga nonyaka ophelileyo. Kudala ndizama kwaye ndicima ukuyeka kwaye kutshanje ndikwazile ukuyeka ngaphezulu kwenyanga.

Ndandidla ukujonga wonke umntu endawubonayo njengomfana. Kwakungumngeni wangempela kwaye wandigcina ukuba ndibe nobudlelwane obuhle kunye nabafana abakhulu. Ukususela ekushiyekeni, ndiyakwazi ukubheka abantu njengokuba banokuba nobuhlobo obuninzi kunokuba bafumane isithandwa okanye isini somlingani. Ubuhlobo obunempilo bundibangela ukuba ndizive ndikhululekile kunye nabafana ngoko ndide ndiphele. Kukulungele ukuba segumbini kunye namadoda kwaye ucinge ukuba uhleli phantsi kwaye uphethe indebe yekhofi kunye nabo kunokuba ucinge ukuba ingaba njani ebhedini.

Jillian: Ndiyintombi nto kwaye andinawo amava kubudlelwane. I-Porn ibumbe indlela endibajonga ngayo abanye, ngakumbi abesilisa. Ndicinga ukuba umlutha wam wawubi kakhulu ngaphambili. Okwethutyana ndingakhange ndibone abantu abaqhelekileyo benomtsalane kwaphela kwaye endaweni yoko bendingena yaoi kwaye hentai. ' Ukuziphatha okuthoba isidima okubonwe kwi-porn kuya kundenza ndishushu, kodwa emva kwenyani kuya kundenza ndingakhululeki kwaphela. Ndafaka ngaphakathi into eninzi "yokungabikho kwexabiso" eboniswe kumanenekazi. Ukusukela ukuyeka-kwaye ndakhuthazwa ukuba ndiyeke ngenxa yobugcisa bemfazwe - ndiyachukumiseka yindlela endixinezeleke ngayo, ukugcina ingqondo yam kude nemifanekiso engamanyala. Kwaye angcono kangakanani amaphupha am, uyilo lwam. Ndiya ndiphucula xa ndibona abantu njengabantu kwaye ingqondo yam ayikho kumjelo kwaye indibangela uxinzelelo (kakhulu) kwakhona. Kwaye kukho uxinzelelo oluncinci kakhulu kuzo zonke iindlela zobomi. Ndiva amandla angaphakathi kwaye ndonwabile ngaxeshanye, nangona ndifumana umthambo ukuba ubaluleke kakhulu njengendawo yokuphulula amalungu esini iphonografi ayisiyiyo eyokuphuma kwakhona.

Ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe, ukuphumelela

Mora: (Usuku lwe-35) Andizange ndikhuthazwe, ndikhathazeke kwaye ndihlala ndiphuma kwaye ndiphume ekudakaleni. Ndandinayo i-masturbating to pornography nsuku zonke kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndandidla ngokulala embhedeni kwaye ndiyenze iiyure. Bendisazi ukuba kuninzi endifuna ukukufeza kodwa yonke into ibiziva ngathi imile. Ke ndinike oku. Usuku lokuqala lwaluyinto entle. Ndiye ndahamba ngebhayisekile eyi-11km, ndibhale uluhlu lwezinto ekufuneka ndizenzile kwaye ndingakhange ndikhethe nto nganye. Izinto ezipholileyo ezenzekileyo kwezi ntsuku zingama-35 zidlulileyo: -Ukunika imisebenzi emibini esekwe kubuntu bodwa - Akusekho kuxhatshazwa emsebenzini-Kukhuliswe i-4000 yeedola ngaphandle kwenzuzo-Uthathe uxanduva ngakumbi kumbutho woluntu endibandakanyeka nawo, ukufumana imbeko ngakumbi -Umama ojongane nemicimbi yosapho engasonjululwanga, wagqibela ngokubhabha utata kwilizwe liphela ukuze usapho lwam lube kunye okokuqala kwiminyaka emibini!

Yintoni enomdla kukuba ayithathi kangako ukundivulela ngoku. Ndifumene ifoto yomntu onxibe isuti ngolunye usuku ngesiqhelo ngekhe ibenempembelelo enkulu kodwa ndaziva ndiphambene xa ndiyijonga. Ndiyathemba ukuba i-nofap izakundinceda i-orgasm kube lula kakhulu xa ndikunye nomfana olandelayo, oku kuhlala kuyinto enkulu kwaye mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ndandinesimo sengqondo sokuba “Kulula ukuba ndiyenza ndedwa.”

Ukufumana uqeqesho kwenye indawo kwenza kube lula ukufumana uqeqesho kwezinye iinkalo zobomi. Kwakhona, kukuphuma kuxinzelelo kunye nentlungu endingenakusebenzisa, ke kuya kufuneka ndenze enye into ngawo onke loo mandla. Ndaziva ndibuhlungu ngokwamanqanaba, kodwa yayingaqhelekanga, ngokungathi bendinokucaca okuninzi ngeenxa zonke kwaye bendinokuyithetha kwaye ndibone iintlungu zam ngokuthe ngqo. Ndazibhalisa kwisiqingatha semarathon kwaye ndineeveki ezisixhenxe kuqeqesho lwam. Andizange ndibaleke ngaphambi koku! Uhlawulelwe ngokundwendwela enye yezona ndawo zikude zase-Australia (iphupha lizaliseka). Andikaseli tywala phantse iiveki ezine. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa ndidibana nebhendi kwesinye isixeko, ndifumana ukungena simahla kumnyhadala womculo, emva koko ndiza kuba sendleleni kunye nabo ukuya kwenye idolophu, apho ndiza kuhlala khona iiveki ezimbalwa ndidlala umculo.

Aisha: Ndinengxaki yokunyanzelisa i-masturbation ngexesha elithile. Ndizifumene ndisenza lonke ixesha kwaye ndikufumene kunzima ukuyeka. Ndisandula ukwaphula istep sam sesithathu ngokuyeka. (Elinye linamalunga neeveki ezintathu). Eli lixesha lokuqala ukuba andikaze ndizabalaze kulo naluphi na uhlobo iqhume. Ndicinga ukuba mhlawumbi kufuneka uhlale ixesha elithile uze uvele ucinga ngengqondo emva koko. Ndicinga ukuba kum ukuba mhlawumbi iiveki ezimbini zincinci elincinane. Kodwa xa ndiqala ukuzama ukuyeka ndifuna ixesha elide ukuze ndingabanjwa ukuba ndihlaziye i-masturbating.

Karen: (Usuku lwe-24) andenzi No Fap ukuze ndilawule iimpembelelo, umzimba wam, kunye nokubuyisa ingqondo yam njengani nonke. Ndiyathatha inxaxheba kuyo kunye neqabane lam. Le nkqubo kunye neziphumo aziyiyo nje i-placebo. Itshintsha izinto nyani. Ndizinikezela amandla engqondo kunye neemvakalelo kwizinto ezinemveliso kakhulu ngoku endaweni yokuhlala ndicinga ngesondo. Umyeni wam uthi unomnqweno owandisiweyo kunye noxabiso ngam. Ndiziva ndizimele ngakumbi kwaye ndizithembile.

Nyra: Uphucula ngosuku 26:

  • Andinamandla amakhulu, kodwa mna ndivelisa ngokuthobeka
  • Ndisafuna ukuhlaselwa ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ndinamandla amaninzi kunokoqobo
  • Andiyiyo i-supermodel, kodwa ndilahlekelwe ubunzima obuncinci kwaye ndinomdla wokuqhubeka nokusebenza
  • Ayilulo utshintsho olukhulu, kodwa isini ngokuqinisekileyo sinamandla ngakumbi kunokuba sasinjalo (nangona sasiyinto entle kakhulu ukuqala kwayo) kwaye ndinxibelelene ngakumbi nobuqili, iimvakalelo zokwenyani zokuvuka
  • Andilwenzi naluphi na utshintsho ebomini, kodwa ndinomdla omncinci emsebenzini wam. Ndihlala ndingaphazamiseki kancinci, kwaye ndihlala kancinci emsebenzini.

Dee: Kwakunzima umzuzwana, kodwa ekugqibeleni ndayeka ukumisa kangangeenyanga ezilandelelanayo. … Andiyenzi xa sele ndikruqukile, kuba ndiyaqonda ukuba yinto nje enokundenza ndizive ngcono ngokukruquka. Ndizama ukwenza into engapheliyo, njengokusebenza kwiprojekthi. Ndisawajonga amava am kwaye uphando endilwenzileyo kunye nalo lubaluleke kakhulu. Ndafunda okuninzi malunga nohlobo lomlutha, kwaye ndaye ndazi ngakumbi xa ndisenza into ngokunyanzelekileyo ngokuchasene nokwenza ngenxa yokuba ndifuna ngokwenene. Kusengumzamo wokwenza eso sigqibo, kodwa ngoku ndikulungele ngakumbi. Ndiqale ukusebenzisa izakhono zengqondo endizifundileyo kwizinto ezinje ngeziyobisi zeswekile kunye nezinye, izinto ezinamandla. Ngoku, ndiziva ndiphantsi kolawulo. Kuphilile ukwenza izinto ukuze uzive ulungile, ukuba nje uyazi ukuba yile nto uyenzayo kwaye awuzukubanjwa kwiluphu, ngokusisiseko uleqa inamba.

Ukuphucula impilo, ukufaneleka

Ashleigh: Iintsuku ezingama-20 zisenokungabonakali ngathi zininzi, kodwa zezam. Ukongeza, ndilahlekelwe zii-12kgs kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, kwaye ndiziva ndothusile.

joan: Ndiva ngathi ukufota okugqithisileyo kunegalelo kulomba weenwele kubafazi nabo. Ubomi bam bonke ukusukela ebuntwaneni ndinolu hlobo lucekeceke, luthe kratya, kwaye luneenwele. Wonke umntu osapho lwam uneenwele ezingqindilili (ngaphandle kukamama, ngubani oqiqa ukuba, kusenokwenzeka ukuba une-porn / fap yokunyanzelwa / umlutha naye) kwaye ndaye ndacinga ukuba ndinamajoni omama amancinci. Kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo ndafumana i-nofap kwaye ndaqala ukuzama ukufikelela kwiintsuku ze-90. Andizange ndiyeke, ukubuyela umva kwakhona kundenza ndifune ukusebenza nzima ngakumbi. Ndiqale ukuzikhathalela ngcono kwaye oko bendizikhohlisa ngaphandle kwezakhamzimba ezininzi (ulwelo lwabasetyhini oluvuselelayo alunakuba ngamanzi nje) kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo ukongeza ekutyeni ngokuchanekileyo bendithatha imultivitamin mihla le. Ndaphinda ndaphosa i-vitamin D kunye no-C. Umahluko uyamangalisa. Khange ndigule njengoko bendihlala ndifumana ngexesha lotshintsho lonyaka, ulusu lwam lukhangeleka lungcono. Kodwa elona candelo lililo (ngaphandle kwexhala elinxulumene nefap liyanyamalala) yintloko yeenwele zam. Abahlobo bam bakudala abakholelwa ukuba ukuthatha nje iinwele zemihla ngemihla ze-multivitamin kundivumele le ntloko intle yeenwele. Into abangayiqondiyo kukuba andisiyiP / MOing 3-10 amaxesha mihla le. Uninzi lwezi zinto zinokuchotshelwa kwi-bro-science kodwa eneneni, amalungu ethu okuzala afika kuqala kuluhlu lwemizimba yethu yokuhambisa izondlo, yonke enye into yesibini.

alicia: [Ibali elingentla] Ukurhoxa kwaba njalo, kwaye kusenzima ngamanye amaxesha. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiphupha ukuba ndiphule i-streak yam okanye ndiza kuphupha malunga neefoto zoononopopasho endandidla ngokubukela. Ngamaxesha athile enyangeni, izibongozo zomelele ngenxa yezizathu ezicacileyo (iihormoni!), Kodwa ingqondo yam ijolise ngakumbi kwinto yokuba andifuni ukwaphula irekhodi lam ukuze ndiyityhalele ecaleni.

Ngokuphathelele kuzo naziphi na izibonelelo ezongezelelweyo, ndilinde ukubetha usuku lwe-90 ukuze ndiqiniseke. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ndiye ndabona ukuba ndinamandla kakhulu emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Ndibuyele ekusebenzeni kwaye ndingoyena mntu unamandla ebomini bam. Kwakhona, ndiye ndaye ndaye ndaye ndagxila kuloo nto. Ndiyakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukumisa kundincedile ukuba ndinyamezele enye into ebalulekileyo endiyenzileyo kwaye ndikhethe ukuhamba.

Terra: (Usuku lwe-98) Ubomi bam buye buguqukela bhetele xa kuthelekiswa noko bekunjalo, kodwa andiqinisekanga ukuba ndingayifumana malini na ukuba ndingayeki. Ndinemisebenzi emibini, ndenza ukuzilolonga yonke imihla kwaye, kwiipawundi ezili-115 ezihla zivela malunga ne-135, ndikwimeko engcono kunokuba bendineminyaka.

Iimpawu zoonwabo

Imeko yesondo ye-Porn ayikhawulelwanga ekuphenduleni okungafanelekanga ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo lokwenyani (kwabanye abasebenzisi). Inokubangela nabasetyhini ukuba bakholelwe ukuba iimeko ezingamanyala zimele isini sokwenyani, zibenze bacinge ukuba ufuna ukuphathwa njengeenkwenkwezi zoononophala, okanye ubuncinci zibangele ukuba bazinyamezele iinkolelo ezibonisa amanyala.

Eli bhinqa liselula, umzekelo, linika ingxelo (kwiphepha lase-UK) ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn ye-boyfriend yakhe kwaba nefuthe kumnqweno wakhe ukuphinda ubudlwengulwe, ayeyicinga ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo kuba wayemlungiselele ngokubonisa ukudlwengula.

UWhitney: Ukubona i-hardcore porn kundichaphazele ngeendlela ezininzi. Kutheni ndingakhange ndibukeke njengabafazi? Kutheni amabele am amancinci? Ngaba amadoda ebengathandi ukuba iilabia zam zinde? Kuthiwani ngam ukuba mhlophe, kungangcono ukuba nditshentshile? Uchetyiwe, usikiwe, ityholo? Kutheni le nto ndingangxoli ngoluhlobo, kutheni ndingenako ukuhlala njengala mantombazana? Kwandithatha ixesha elithile xa ndandiselula ukuba ndiqonde ukuba i-fake and nonrealistic porn is. Ukubona kwangaphambili yinyani engama-20/20.

Lena: Iqabane lam liye laphulukiswa kwi-ED yakhe ngokuyeka ukugcoba i-pornography, kwaye ukususela ngoko siye salala ngesondo. Emva kokuqalisa i-nofap, ndilahlekelwe kwam amandla okuphuma, ngesizathu esithile. Kodwa libuyile! kwaye ndiyakwazi ukukuxelela ukuba kutheni: Iqabane lam liye landibukela ngathi wayeya kufumana i-pornstar eyayimemeza kwaye iphosa inwele zayo, kwaye yamphatha njengomntu wangempela eneemfuno zangempela. Wenza umgudu wokungacingi ngam njengomfazi, okanye umntu, kodwa njengam, onokwakhe uluvo olumnandi. Wayengazange abe nomuvo wokuba ufanele enze kwaye enze zonke izikhundla zesini. Sasibabini nje abantu ababini banandipha isondo. Xa ndizama ukugxininisa, wagxininisa kum kwaye mna kuphela, kwaye mna kuye xa efikelele kumncinci. Yaye yenze yonke imohluko.

dana: Andinangxaki yokulutha iphonografi, kodwa into endiyenzileyo (ndiyenza, kodwa ndiyachacha kancinci) yayinoluvo lokuba njengowesifazane, kufuneka ndenze njenge-pornstar ukuze ndigcine indoda inomdla. Ukugcuma rhoqo, ukugqithisa, ukutshintsha rhoqo isikhundla, ukuba (kulungile, ukufakela) i-10 orgasms, ukulungele ukwenza nantoni na, njlnjl. Ukuba yinyani yokwenyani, kuba ucinga ukuba yindlela ekufanele ukuba ibe yiyo kwaye yile nto amadoda ayithandayo, isenza ukuba kube nzima ukonwabela ngokwenyani okwenzekayo. Kwaye oko kuyeza: ukucinga ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umfana abukele imifanekiso engamanyala kwaye akuphathe njengokwabelana ngesondo.

Amadoda ayaqaphela kwakhona:

"Abasetyhini bajikeleza," uthi uEvan, kunye ne31. "Ndiyintle. Ndiya kumfazi ovukayo. Kodwa ndiqaphele ukuba abafazi bafumana ilizwi elininzi ngoku. Okwenza into engingazi ngayo, okanye abafazi baqala ukulinganisa oko kwenzekayo kwi-pornography. Ukunyaniseka, kuluhlobo olunzima. Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndiyathanda. "

Ngokudibeneyo amadoda nabafazi banokoyisa umceli mngeni wokwahlulahlula iphonografi kwi-Intanethi. Imfesane efanayo linyathelo lokuqala. Njengoko i-femstronaut ibonisile,

"Ingqondo yethu isebenza ngokufanayo [njengendoda], akukho mahluko kwinkqubo yomvuzo. Akukho mahluko ubalulekileyo kunye neenkqubo zengqondo ezikhokelela ekubetheni. Ngaphandle kweyantlukwano yesiqhelo yomntu ngamnye. Iimvakalelo zethu zisebenza ngokufanayo. Ukungazithembi kunokuba yinto enxulumene nesini, kodwa ke, iyonke, kukungaqiniseki okudala. Sifanele sifunde indlela yokujongana neziqu zethu ngenye indlela ngaphandle kokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla ngokuvuselela ngokwesondo. Njengamadoda. ”

Kwaye njengoko indoda yathi,

"Enye yezinto endinika ukuqhuba ngakumbi kunye nesibindi sokuzama i-r / PornFree kwaye ngoku r / NoFap kukuba ndiyazi ukuba kukho abantu basetyhini apha abanengxaki efanayo. Ukwazi ukuba andinguye umntu ongenangqondo kwaye kukho abantu abavela kuzo zombini izini kunye nalo mbandela kwenza ukuba kube lula kakhulu ukwenza oku. Sonke singabantu nje apha. Amadoda nabasetyhini ngamacala nje ahlukeneyo engqekembe yomntu, abambelele kweli litye de ligqunywe lilanga. ”

Amabali amaninzi apha nakwicandelo lezimvo ngezantsi

Uhlaziyo-amanqaku kunye nezifundo ezipapashiweyo ukusukela ngo-2013:

Ngcaciso: Iziphumo zophononongo azibonisanga mahluko ubalulekileyo phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini kwi-CIUS [Inqanaba lokuSebenzisa okunyanzelekileyo kwi-Intanethi] amanqaku…. Ubukho bamaqelana abasetyhini abakwiqela elisemngciphekweni… bahambelana nezinye izifundo zokuziphatha kakubi (Khazaal et al., 2017), ukubonisa ukuba iisampulu zamabhinqa zisengozini eyandayo yeziyobisi.

Amashumi amathathu ananye eepesenti (31.8%) abasetyhini kwisampulu efundiweyo baxele unyango olufuna i-CSB kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ukusetyenziswa koonografi ngengxaki kwakuyeyona nto inamandla yeempawu ze-CSB.
Isikrini esifutshane sephonografi (BPS). I-BPS yinto ye-5 isixhobo sokuhlola esilinganisa ingxaki… IINKCUKACHA
Kubafazi abangama-674, ama-57.4% (n= 387) amanqaku ama-6 okanye phezulu kwi-SAST-PL, ebonisa i-CSB, kunye 73.3%
(n= 494) yesampuli ifumene amanqaku e-4 okanye ngaphezulu kwi-BPS ukulinganisa iimpawu zokusetyenziswa koonografi okunengxaki

Abasetyhini abajongene neentlobo zemibandela echazwe kule post bangakufumana ezi zinto zenza umdla:

ukusuka E-UK Telegraph:

Abasetyhini abaxhomekeke kuncinci nemiphumo emibi yokubukela i-porn kunamadoda.

"Ndiqala ukubukela ngokugqithiseleyo i-hardcore porno, de ndide ndiyeke ixesha elithile"

U-Siobhan Rosen, umgcini wezobulili nge-American GQ, uthi kum, "Ndijonge i-Pornhub kwaye ndifumana ingcamango efanayo ndicinga ukuba abantu bangena kuyo, apho kuqala ukubona abantu ababini balala ngesondo. Kwaye ndathi, 'Ndifuna enye into.' Ndiqala ukukhangela i-pornography eninzi kwaye ibe nzima, de ndide ndiphoqe ukuba ndiyeke ixesha elithile. "

Ababukeli abenza iphonografi bahlala bexela ukuba baziva bengavukanga kangako ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo- into uRosen athe wayifumana, nayo. "Mna neqabane lam senza isivumelwano sobabini esingazibukeli iphonografi ngenxa yesi sizathu, kwaye ubomi bethu bezesondo bungcono kakhulu ngenxa yoko."

Kutheni i-pornography iyindlela yokufa yomtshato ovuyayo: Izibini ezitshatileyo ezijonga izinto ezindala zibeka ingozi yokuqhawula umtshato

"Izibini ezitshatileyo ezibukela iphonografi ziphantse zayiphinda kabini ingozi yokuqhawula umtshato, abaphandi bathe izolo. … Men Abafazi babo ababukela iphonografi banokukhuthazwa ziindaba zokuba ukuba uyayeka ukubukela, amathuba okuqhawula umtshato ehle aya kwiipesenti ezi-6 phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo ekwenziwe udliwanondlebe nabo. Kodwa ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuqhubeka, umngcipheko wokuqhawula umtshato uhlala kwiipesenti ezili-18. ”

Umbukiso wesilayidi kwisimo sengqondo sesondo

I-Article malunga neentlobo zoononophala kunye nokuziphatha okubi ngokwesondo

Kutheni i-porn iyakonwabisa ngaphezu kweqabane

Iseluleko kumaqabane omntu ozama ukuyeka

Amandla esondo kunye nomfazi oyedwa

Uluvo lwamadoda ngabafazi kunye nothando luyatshintsha ngaphandle kokusebenzisa iphonografi

Iimifanekiso zoonografi ze-intanethi zisebenzisa phakathi kwabasetyhini abasemgangathweni: iinjongo zesini, i-Body Monitoring, kunye nokuziphatha komzimba (2018)

Izimvo zabasetyhini phantsi eli nqaku

Imifanekiso engamanyala kunye neziyobisi: Ayisiyiyo nje ingxaki yendoda

Abafazi baxela iingxaki ezinxulumene noononophelo (uonomathotholo)

Ukukhula kobungqina benzululwazi yomjikelezo we post-orgasm (uphando)

Uphononongo malunga nokulala phakathi kwezesondo kunye neziyobisi kwiingqondo

Ukukhangela inkxaso eyinyani, eyincedo yamadoda nabasetyhini abayifumana kwi-overconsumption ye-intanethi ye-intanethi? Tyelela REDDIT.NoFap. Esi sithuba Iqaqambisa isimo sokwamkela, inkathalo kuninzi lwamadoda apho, kwaye kukho umfazi kwiqela leemodareyitha.

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Iitshaneli ze-3 ze-YouTube ngabantu ababhinqileyo abazame i "nofap":

► AAHANA: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCksU…

► KasumiKriss: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp4_…

► Chel-lalasVeganMania: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyb-…

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AmaQonga amaTyhini:

Iingcinga ezi-28 kuIingxaki Zonobumba: Nangu Baza Abafazi (2013)"

  1. Ibhinqa lakwa-Femstronaut

    Owu kude kangakanani ukusukela oko ndafumana le subreddit. Andikwazi ukubulela wonke umntu ngokwaneleyo ngokundixhasa. Iintsuku ezingama-60 ngaphandle koononophala, 26 ngaphandle kwe-MO. Zombini ziirekhodi ezintsha kum. Ndiziva ngathi ndiphakathi kotshintsho olukhulu bendihlala ndiphupha ngokuba namandla: ukutya okungcono, isimo sengqondo esingcono, inkuthazo yayo yonke into ebhodini, amandla omzimba nangokwengqondo kwaye ixhala lam liyanyibilika. Ilizwi lam livakala "sexier" nayo.

    Siyabonga akukho fap!

    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1i4zgn/60_days_without_porn_today_and_i_found_this/cb118iv

  2. Ibhinqa lichaza i-pornography kwelinye ibhinqa

    Ndingumfazi onengxaki yoononophelo ukuze mhlawumbi ndikuncede ndikunike umbono othile. Xa ndijonga iphonografi, andiyithandi into endiyibonayo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba izakundishiya. Yinto yengqondo. Iindidi zezinto endijonga kuzo ngamanye amaxesha, zizinto Bendingazukuze ndizenze, kwaye andizukuze ndikhohlise umyeni wam.

    Ugqirha wam wakhe wandixelela ukuba ukuba uyifumene ibambekile kwingqondo yakho ukuba imvakalelo embi, njengokucekiseka, ukuziva unetyala, umsindo uqhagamshelwe kwi-orgasm .. iba yinto ekujikisa. Nantoni na ayifunayo ngobulumko boononophala, inokumenza azive kakubi .. kodwa kukuziva okungalunganga okumnika i-orgasm .. engatsho ngokuqinisekileyo njengoko ndingamazi, kodwa yindlela eqhelekileyo.

    Yintoni i-nofap eyenzayo ivumela umntu ukuba asete kwakhona loo ndlela, ukuze bafunde ukwenza i-orgasm kwinto elungileyo, ekhuthazayo. Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka umnike ithuba, inyani yokuba usebenza ngokutshintsha luphawu oluhle kakhulu. Ndiyabazi abafazi abaninzi abayeni babo abayenzayo le nto kwaye abanakuze bakucinge nokuzama ukutshintsha. Ukuba unamathela kuye kwaye umncede, ulwalamano lwakho luya komelela ekugqibeleni.

    Kwakhona, unokufuna ukujonga ezinye iindlela zokucebisa kwindawo yakho.

    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1j020d/ok_no_fapchange_my_mind/cb9qopp

  3. U-Wistronaut kwiforum

    Njengowesifazane owenza i-nofap andizange ndiqiniseke ukuba iziphumo ziya kuba njani. Ndikumhla we-15 ngoku, kwaye ndifumanisa ukuba ndibakhathalele ngakumbi abantu endibathandayo kwaye ndifuna ukuba bonwabe. Ndiyapheka kwaye ndibhaka lonke ixesha. Kubonakala ngathi ukunciphisa uxinzelelo ngandlela thile. Esi sisiphumo esinye ebendingasilindelanga! Mhlawumbi ukusuka kukonyuka kwe-estrogen kunye neprogesterone? Luvakalelo endilulibeleyo ixesha elide.

    I-NoFap yenza ukuba ndikhule ngakumbi

  5. Izimvo zithunyelwe kwi "Psychology Namhlanje" phantsi kwelinye inqaku

    Ubunono obangela ukuba u-ED ku-Amadoda / kubangele ukulahleka kwesondo kwi-women in women and I used to watch the porn all times. Okubalulekileyo kuba umfana wam wayengakhange avule ngaphandle kokubukela i-porn kuqala. Ngoko wayandibukela kunye naye.Kude ixesha elide andinakuguqulwa ngaphandle kokubukela iipilisi kuqala kwaye emva kokulala ngesondo okanye ukuhlaziya umzimba.

    Emva kwesikhashana ndizange ndivule yonke into ngaphandle koononophelo kwaye ndingafumana i-orgasm kuphela xa ndihlaziya ngesisu, kodwa kungekhona kwisini.

    Ndiye ndathetha nabahlobo bamantombazana kwaye abanye babo abakwazi ukuguga ngesondo kodwa bayakwazi xa bebukela iidashulo. Ngoko oku akuchaphazeli kuphela abantu abachaphazelayo nabasetyhini.

  6. AmaQonga amaTyhini

  7. [Umfazi oselula olikhoboka lephonografi ufumana uncedo lomfana

    Ngokomntu ndaziva ndibhetele malunga neengxaki zam ze-PMO emva kokuba ndixelele b / f malunga kwaye wathi uziva engakhuselekanga kwaye ubeka ingqondo yakhe ngokukhululeka ukwazi ukuba ubudlelwane bethu / iingxaki zesini zinento eninzi yokwenza nengxaki yam ye-PMO. Ngoku uliqabane lam lokuziphendulela- ndibuyele izolo kwaye eyona nto imbi kuye kukuba ndimxelele ngayo !! To Uthe kum ebemnandi - “sikulento sikunye,” ke ndiva nje ukuba ndiyamxhasa. Ngokucacileyo wonke umntu wahlukile, kodwa ukuba uyi-b / f ikwi-PMO ukudumba kunokuba kuhle ukuba babini bazame ukuyeka kunye?

    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1o4uig/this_is_weird_things_that_have_changed_for_me/ccoueev

  9. Umbono womnye umfazi ukuba unomdla.

    Ndaqala ukulala ngesondo ngaphambi kokuba i-intanethi ibekho. Ndicinga ukuba oku kunokuba kundiphazamise ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakulungile. Ndiyathetha kakuhle. Emva koko into yaqala ukutshintsha. Ndayiqaphela malunga neminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakuya kungonelisi. Yonke into endinokuyicinga kukuba le yayiqhelekile kwaye inento yokwenza nobudala. Ndandineminyaka nje engama-20 ubudala.

    Ndihlala ndihlaziya i-masturbated ukususela kumncinci, kodwa ndicinga ukuba yanda ngokukhawuleza kule minyaka elishumi edlulileyo. Ndicinga ukuba ndicinga ukuba isondo belingathandeki kangako ngeminyaka, ndayeka emsebenzini ukuze ndenze inkqubela ebomini bam. Le ikwii-20 zam. Yimpambano leyo.

    Kwakukho amaxesha apho ndandiqala ukufumana amacebo okuba i-fap kunye ne-porn kwakungalunganga ngamadoda, kodwa kwiminyaka eyi-10 eyadlulayo u-thete wayengenalo ulwazi kwi-nofap naphi na. Ndifumene incwadi endala ekulawuleni ukunyuka kwakho apho isithandwa sam ngelo xesha sahleka.

    Ukukhawuleza phambili eminye iminyaka eli-10, kwaye isini sibi kakhulu kunokuba ungacinga. Okwangoku andikwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abantu beyenza ngakumbi. Okubi ngoku-ndiyinxalenye yengxaki. Ndandinesondo esibi esibi, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndingaze ndiphinde ndenze ngaphandle kokuba ndingafumana umntu okhululekileyo. Ndikwi-30 yam kuphela.

    Mna ngokobuqu ndinemigca emide kakhulu enomdaka apha naphaya. Yonke into endinokuyithetha ngokwenene uyayifumana. Ukuba uyeka, ukwabelana ngesondo kuya kuba kuhle kwakhona. Iphindaphindwe kabini isigidi sayo nayiphi na into oyenzele yona.

    Ndiphulukene neminyaka eyi-20 elungileyo yobomi bam ngenxa yoku. Ukuba yayingengabo, yayindim. Musa ukufap. Sukwenza oku kuwe. Sukwenza oku komnye umntu. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufanele ukuba kumnandi. Iyonwabisa. Qho xa usikhupha enye uyayonakalisa. Uyonakalisa ngentombazana kwaye uzimoshele ngokwakho.

    Ndiva kabuhlungu kuni nina bantu kunye namantombazana akhule enekhompyuter ekhayeni lakho. Ngoobani ababengamakhoboka oononophala kwaye sele benzima ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphambi kokuphulukana nobuntombi bakho. Ndiyayazi into ophulukene nayo. Yiloo nto kuphela endinombulelo kuyo yonke le nto. Oko ndiyazi ukuba ndilahlekile.

    Umbono womnye umfazi ukuba unomdla.

  10. Ibali elinye lowasetyhini

    Ngomhla unyaka odlulileyo ndabanjelwa kwi-funk exinezelekileyo. Ndandiphinde ndiphindaphinda iindibano ezifanayo zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo iminyaka emithandathu kunye nokunyanzelisa i-masturbation ixesha elide kunelo. Ndandilungile kakhulu ekuxoxeni, ukuxhaphaza nokuzenza ngathi. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo yam, ndingazibethelela zonke iingxaki zam kwenye into, kwaye ndandingummangaliso xa ndenza izizathu. Ndandisoloko, kwaye ndisekho, umlutha wesondo.

    Ndiye ndazibonakalisa njengomlutha wesondo ukusuka ku-2009. Ukususela ngoko ndiyekile ukusela utywala kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, ukhula lwamachiza kunye nelabhu. Ukuphuma kwezinto kwakulula ukufaniswa neenguqu zengqondo kunye nokuziphatha endikufuneka ndiyenze. Eminye imiphumo yokuxhatshazwa kwam ngokwesondo iquka (kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ayigcinanga) kwimibandela emininzi yemvakalelo kunye neyesondo kwimiba yam yahlala ixesha elide, ihlala iphethe izinto ezininzi ngexesha elifanayo, ilala kwaye ixhaphaze abanye ngenxa yokunyaniseka kwangoko, ukunyanzela i-masturbation nje ukuba ufikelele emini, kunye nokujikeleza kwemvakalelo.

    Kunyaka omnye odlulileyo bendenze inkqubela phambili kulwalamano lwam. Ndishiye ubudlelwane obungenampilo kwaye ngandlela thile ndakwazi ukwaphula umjikelo wam wokutsiba usuka kwinto engenampilo uye kolandelayo. Nangona kunjalo bendisajonga ukubonakala ngathi ayisiyonto inkulu, kuba "Khange ndenzakalise mntu, akunjalo?" Bendingasiqondi isizathu sokuba ndingazivelisi, ndingenamdla kwaye ndidiniwe ngengqondo xa ndisazi ukuba ndinako ukwenza okungakumbi. Andisakwazi ukugcina ubomi bam buqu bungachaphazeli ubomi bam bomsebenzi, kwaye uphononongo lwam lokuphela konyaka lwalungelulo. Ishedyuli yam yemihla ngemihla ijonge into enje: vuka, fap, utye isidlo sakusasa, uye emsebenzini, ungenzi nto incinci xa ucinga ngeesondo, yiya ekhaya kwangoko, fap, thintela ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya / ukutya / ukunxulumana (okanye ukuba bekunyanzelekile yenza into, fap ukuze ufumane amandla okuyenza), yiya kulala, fap ulale. Ngenxa yoko ndandisitya kakubi, ndizihlukanisa ndedwa kwaye ndisenza konke okusemandleni ukuze ndilahlekelwe ngumsebenzi.

    Ngomhla wonyaka odlulileyo ubusuku-benga-binge-binge bangela ukuba ndithathe isinyathelo esilandelayo ekuphumeni kwam. Kwakunzima nje. Ndabhoxisa kwaye ekugqibeleni ndatshitshisa lonke iqoqo lamatokethi. Ndacacile imbali yombhrawuza yam kwaye ndafakela ukukhusela isofthiwe kwimihlaba yam eselula. Ndizama ukuhlala ndixakekile ngokuphanda izinto zokuzilibazisa endandifuna ukuzizama (ezahlula ekufundeni ukulele ukufunda indlela yokuthunga kunye netoni yezinye izinto eziyingozi). Ndicwangcise ngokugqibeleleyo iintsuku zam kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala, ndingalokothi ndizithembe ukuba ndedwa ndikhulule ixesha. Ndabelane ngesicwangciso sam esilungileyo kunye neqela lam iqela le-12.

    Ngandlela-thile into ethile yasebenza. Ndayenza ngaloo nyanga yokuqala enzima. Ndafunda indlela yokulala ngaphandle kwayo, ndafunda indlela yokuphepha i-pornography, ndafunda indlela yokuzincama xa ndifuna. Ndadlula ngokukhawuleza, ndakhala ixuku, ndajongana nobunzima bokuqala. Ufumene inkxaso evela kulo mgcini wexesha elidala kunye nakumgqirha wam kunye neqela le-12. Ndandiqala ukutya okulungileyo, ndisebenza ngokuqhubekayo, ndizinyamekela xa ndilambile, ndivakalelwa, ndedwa okanye ndotiniwe. Ndaba ngumdala endingazi ukuba ndifanele kwaye kwaye. Ndafunda indlela yokwenza kakuhle ukwakheka kwam, ukuzigqoka, zenze iinwele zam zibuke kwaye zive kakuhle. Ndathatha amanyathelo omntwana naphi naleyo; bayeka ukuthenga ukutya okungenamsoco, baqalisa ukudlala umdlalo, bavolontiya kwilayibrari, bamkela ubusuku bemidlalo kubahlobo bam, bayeka ukuthetha nabantu abathandayo unxila / nympho kum bhetele kunomtsha omtsha.

    Ndineefowuni ezimbalwa ezifutshane. Ndadlula emva kweeveki eziliqela ngokugqithisileyo kwiinyanga ze-3 kunye neenyanga ze-11. Njalo kwakuba lula ukuhlala. Ndiye ndafunda indlela yokuziva iimvakalelo endicinga ukuba ndingazange ndibe nazo. Ndiye ndafunda ukuba ndingonwabi kwaye kulungile ukuba kunjalo, andisadingeki ukuba ndibaleke ngesondo / ngesithombeni. Ndiye ndayeka ukukhukhumazeka nangokwemvakalelo. Ndilahlekelwe i-10 lbs kwaye ndiyekile ukutya kokumvakalelo. Ndiye ndikhokele iqela lam iqela le-12 ngoku.

    Inkqubela phambili endiyenzileyo iyandimangalisa. Kufuneka ndihlale ndizikhumbuza ukuba unyaka lixesha elide kwaye sisonke isimbuku samakhulu amanyathelo omntwana. Ndonwabile kwaye ekugqibeleni ndiyayiqonda ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukonwaba. Ndiphilile kwaye ekugqibeleni ndiyayiqonda indlela yokumamela iimfuno zam kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ziyintoni na iimfuno zam. Bendihlala ndiyazi ukuba ndenze ntoni ukuzikhathalela, bendifuna ukuyeka ukunyanzelisa amalungu esini ixesha elide ukuze ndizinike ixesha kunye namandla eemvakalelo okwenza lo msebenzi.

    Ndandifuna nje ukuthetha, ukusuka kwintliziyo yam, ndibulela kubo bonke abaFapstronauts ngaphandle. Ndiyabulela kubo bonke abesilisa kunye nabesifazana kulo mhlaba olungele ukuzenza abasengozini kunye nokwabelana ngeengxaki zabo. Ndiyabulela kuwo wonke umntu osebenza kanzima ukwenza le ndawo ekhuselekileyo ukwabelana (nakwi-throwaways). Intliziyo yam iya kuwo wonke umntu esalwa noxanduva lwabo kunye nokuhoxiswa kwabo. Ukuba ukunyanzela okunyanzelekileyo kukulawula ubomi bakho, ndiyazi ukuba uya kufumana amandla okuyeka.

    Ngomso ndingumnyaka we-1 kwaye ndiceba ukuhlala ngale ndlela de ndife ngokuguga. Ndiyichitha le ndlela yokutshatyalaliswa.

    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1ty6t0/tomorrow_i_am_1_year_sober/

     

  11. Ukuzithemba kweNoPorn kuchaziwe (uHlelo lwaBasetyhini)

    Ngobusuku bokugqibela ndafunda / u / RainFallsOnonke Iposi http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1wedby/noporn_confidence_explained/ Apho echaze khona iimpembelelo zoononophala kumadoda. Ndithathe isigqibo sokuguqulela iposti yakhe kwimbono yabasetyhini.

    Icandelo 1

    -Sijonge iinkwenkwezi ezingamanyala kwiividiyo kwaye sifuna ukunqweneleka njengoko zinjalo ke sinenqanaba eliphantsi lokuzihlonipha kuba yile nto ifanelana ngesondo elingamanyala lifundisa amantombazana amancinci: Uyalahlwa, ungumngxunya wakhe kwaye akukho nto iyenye . Into

    -Sidla imifanekiso engamanyala ngakumbi, sibona le "mizimba egqibeleleyo" esingenakufana nayo ngaphandle kotyando lweplastikhi / i-makeup enzima / ii-angles ezincomekayo zekhamera. Umbono wento yokwenyani utshintshile.

    Ukuhlonipha kwethu kuncitshiswa kwaye ithemba lethu liphantsi.

    Icandelo 2

    -Abasetyhini kula mavidiyo bachongwa ngenxa yeembonakalo kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu (kumashishini) ubungakanani babo besifuba, kunye nokubonakala kwezesini.

    -Ininzi yethu sinama-vaginas aqhelekileyo, mhlawumbi singabikho ngaphandle kodwa kungekho rhoqo. Sineengalingani ze-labia minora kunye namajelo. I-labia yethu inokuba yinto ebomileyo / ubungakanani / umbala. Amabele ethu aqhelekileyo. Isithintelo sethu sinamafutha / isitrato / isikwere.

    -Ngokubukela iifoto zeentlanzi siyazichukumisa ngokwabo ukuba sicinge ukuba asiqhelekanga.

    -Ukuziqhelanisa nabantu abanoononophelo esizibona sisanelisekanga, oku kubakho ukungakhuselekanga kunye nokunyaniseka kwesondo. (Nokuba uluntu ngokubanzi, ubuncinane ndiyifumana.)

    Isiphelo-Akunakwenzeka ukuba uzihloniphe kwaye uzithembe ngelixa ubukele iphonografi.

    Isisombululo-Yeka ukubukela iphonografi. Le ndlela yokucinga iyahamba. Uya kuba nakho ukuphinda ube nentlalontle kwakhona. Uya kufuna ukuthetha namadoda nabafazi abatsha.

    Esi sithuba malunga neNoPorn, hayi iNoFap. Ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokwawo kuneziphumo zawo kunye neziphumo zawo.

    Hlela * - Ndifuna ukongeza enye inqaku, ndiziva ngathi ezi ziphumo zixhomekeke kwinqanaba lokusetyenziswa komntu. Umntu obukele iphonografi mhlawumbi kube kanye ngexeshana kusenokwenzeka ukuba azive ngale ndlela. Kodwa abantu ababukela ngokungaguquguqukiyo baya kuziva ezi ziphumo.

    Ukuzithemba kweNoPorn kuchaziwe (uHlelo lwaBasetyhini)

    by LCD8724

     

  12. I-Erotica ngumceli mngeni wabasetyhini

    [Post on r / nofap] http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1yx6yz/from_a_girls_experience_why_do_women_need_to_be/

    Ke, ndifuna ukubeka ingxoxo echaza ukuba kutheni amantombazana elapha kwaye ziziphi izibonelelo eziza kufunyanwa ngabafazi kungabikho fap kumava ababhinqileyo. Ndiza kuqala.

    Society

    Umbutho usixelela abasetyhini ukuba ukufakela likhoboka lamadoda kuphela. Ke ukuba ungumfazi ofunda amaxesha angama-20 ngemini, uphefumla isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye namantombazana athandana nawo uyokulala ebusuku yedwa kwaye oyena mhlobo wakhe usondeleyo kukungcangcazelisa, uluntu luthi, "Wow, ukhanyiselwe ngokwesini kwaye unesini!" . Awusoze ufumane naliphi na ihlazo okanye imiyalezo evela eluntwini isithi indlela oziphethe ngayo ayamkelekanga ngaphambi kwexesha. Ngexesha abafazi abaninzi bafike kwinqanaba apho bathi ndicinga ukuba ndinomlutha ngokwesondo, izinto ziye zambi kakhulu. Mhlawumbi boyisakele ukwanelisa enye into ebalulekileyo okanye abananto ibalulekileyo, amawa ethu ngamanye amaxesha asezantsi kunamadoda ngenxa yokuba asinakukholelwa ukuba, njengabafazi, sinengxaki.

    ukuchacha

    Xa ekugqibeleni sifuna ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo, kunzima kakhulu ukufumana indawo okanye inkqubo ejongene nesiyobisi sabasetyhini. Yonke iwebhusayithi enye endiyibonileyo yathetha malunga ne-porn, endingayiboniyo (ngakumbi malunga noku kamva). Uninzi lwewebhusayithi zilungiselelwe abafana, nto leyo indenze ndaziva ndindedwa kwaye ndedwa. Ndiyakhumbula ndiqonda ukuba ndinomlutha kwaye ndiziva ndineentloni kuba amantombazana bekungafanelanga ukuba abenazo ezi ngxaki kwaye adideke kuba andifumani maqela nabasetyhini abaziyo into endihamba nayo. Ndiyakhumbula indlela endaziva ndonwabile ngayo xa ndafumana abafazi kule forum kwaye ndaqonda ukuba ayindim ndedwa osokolayo. Ndiziva ndisebenza kakuhle kwaye ndaziva ngathi ndingade ndiqale ukujongana nengxaki yam.

    Yahluke njani i-PMO yabasetyhini

    I-PMO yabesetyhini iyahlukileyo kwaye kungekhona kuba akukho fap yabanika abanye abasetyhini ngesigama sokusasa. (Schlicking? Yintoni esihogo?) Kwahlukile kuba amaxesha amaninzi abafazi baphuma ngaphezu kwabafana. Ndinabahlobo ababhinqileyo abanokuphuma kumaxesha ahlekisayo ngobusuku bunye kuba ukwenziwa kwezinto eziphilayo kwabafazi kukuvumela oko ukuba kwenzeke. Kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, uninzi lwabasetyhini (ayingabo bonke) abachitha ixesha elininzi hayi ne-porn, kodwa kunye ne-erotica. Amava ababhinqileyo abandakanya uninzi lweengcinga zokuphuma, ngelixa amadoda ebonakala kakhulu. Nge-intanethi, kulula ukufumana i-erotica kuyo yonke indawo, kwaye kukho iiforamu ezipheleleyo ezinikezelwe kuhlobo lwe-erotica oyifunayo. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu, bendiya kuba ne-7 okanye i-8 yamaphepha e-intanethi ahlukeneyo ndize ndigqithe kuwo malunga neeyure ezi-3 okanye ezi-4 okanye nangaphezulu, ndikhangela ibali eligqibeleleyo lokwabelana ngesondo ukuze ndiqhubeke. Ukujongana nengxaki ye-pmo yabasetyhini, umntu kufuneka ajongane ne-erotica. Vibrators, zezesibini. Ngaphandle kokusebenzisa enye, andinakukuxelela nantoni na ngaphandle kokuba, abantu endibaziyo bathetha ngokubanjwa kokufa kwaye abanakuphuma ngepenisi yodwa.

    Indlela i-PMO yeTyhini efana ngayo:

    Ke, ndizifundile izimvo ezivela kubafana apha apho bacinga ngomfazi onesidlidlizi njengento enomdla. Kubo, i-PMO yabasetyhini imalunga neevidiyo ezingcolileyo ze-porno kunye nokugcuma okuninzi. Mayonyiswa lokaka. I-PMO yabasetyhini iyacekiseka kwaye iyabuhlungu njengepmo yamadoda. Ulele ebhedini emva kwexesha le-12 okanye le-15 usukile kwaye unqwenela ukuba bekukho umfana ecaleni kwakho. Imalunga nokuba nesizungu kwaye ungenanto kwaye ujikele kwi-pmo xa uneengxaki. Imalunga nokuba ungakhathali, ungazikhathazi ngokunxiba kwenye into ngaphandle kwezikipa kunye ne sweatshirts kuba hee, abafana abanamsebenzi kwaye awufuni bf. kunene? kunene? Kukuba neentloni kwaye ungonwabi ekuhlaleni ukubamba unxibelelwano lwamehlo kunye nabahlobo bakho, ulibale malunga nomfana omthandayo odanisa epatini. Xa ucinga nge-PMO yabasetyhini, ndiyakucenga ukuba ucinge ngentombazana, nge-3 kusasa, ilele ebhedini, isidlidlizi ecaleni apha, sijonge esilingini. Uziva ubanda kwaye ulusizi kwaye uwedwa kwaye ulila kuye kuba uziva elilolo. Akukho nto intle kwaye ishushu ngayo. Ukuchaphazeleka, yeyona nto incinci uyithandayo unokuyenza.

    Nangona kunjalo, ndiyanithanda kakhulu nina bantu kwaye ndiyabulela ngokundivumela ukuba ndibe yinxalenye yoluntu lwakho. Ndabona nje ukuba abafana kule foram banobubele kwabasetyhini kwaye ndaziva ngathi ukucacisa i-PMO yenze umbono wabasetyhini kuya kwenza into eninzi. Ndiyathemba ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba oku kunceda abafana apha ukuba baqonde ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwabasetyhini kwaye basiphathe njengoodadewethu ezingalweni. Enkosi.

     

  13. Ibhinqa lichaza amava akhe emva kwenyanga engekho noonopopayi

    Ndingumfazi we-26 oneminyaka elidala. Ndandisebudlelwane obude obungenamsebenzi obungenamsebenzi apho ndakwazi ukusebenzisa i-porno ukuba ndiyifumene. Emva kobudlelwane bephelile, ngokuqinisekileyo ndandisa ukusetyenziswa kwamabhonografi kwimihla ngemihla. Ndadibana nam ngoku siyazibandakanya kwaye silala ngesondo rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, xa ndingekho emsebenzini ngeenyanga ezimbalwa, ndandidla ngokuphinga amaninzi ngamaxesha. Ngexesha lakufika ekhaya, andizange ndive ngathi ukulala ngesondo okanye ngesondo akuzange ndive

    Ndabuyela emsebenzini kodwa ndandidla i-masturbating nokubukela i-porn ubuncinane i-2-3x ngosuku. Ndabona ukuba wayengenakukwazi ukundithabatha ngomlomo (wayesebenzisa onke amaxesha!) Kwaye akanakwenzeka ngezandla zakhe.

    Sele zine iiveki ndingabinayo i-masturbation, i-porn okanye i-vibrators kwaye ndiziva ngathi nditshintshile !!! Ukwabelana ngesondo kwethu kunye kuye kwaba nesiqhamo ngakumbi kwaye kunxibelelana. Andinayo imifanekiso engamanyala ebaleka entlokweni yam. Unako ukundikhupha ngoku ngoku kokubini ngomlomo nangezandla zakhe kwaye ndiziva ngathi uzaliseke kakhulu. Ndiyamlangazelela ngokuchasene nokunqwenela iphonografi. Ndisafumana izibongozo kodwa ndinako ngakumbi kwaye ndikulungele ukuzilawula.

    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2gw52e/i_am_a_woman_yesterday_was_one_month_of_no/

  14. Nceda!
    Ndiye ndaqondiswa apha ukusuka kwidonga lamadoda kuba bekuphela yinto endingayifumanayo.

    Ndingumfazi we-21 kwaye ndinolwalamano nowasetyhini.
    Ubungqina bam obuninzi bobugqwetha obangela ingxaki kukuba andinakuyidlala kunye nentombi yam.
    i-1 okanye i-orgasm kunye naye kwaye kwenzeka kuphela ngenxa yokuba ndicinga ngezinto eziphathekayo.

    Andinayo imiba emininzi eqhelekileyo njengoko ndiyazi, andizange ndiye kwiindawo eziphakamileyo kunye ne-masturbating ngosuku kwaye ayizange ibe ne-hardcore eqhubekayo. Ukungakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kunye neqabane lam yeyona ngxaki yam inkulu.

    kuqaliswe kwakhona kwiiveki ze-6.
    Ndiyicinga ukuba nje ndiyazibuza ukuba ubani oye waba nompembelelo njengami kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ngaba ubuye ubuyele kwisiqhelo?

    Nceda!!

  17. Ndingumfazi oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala. Nali ibali lam

    Ke, oku kuzakuvakala ngathi kukuphambana, kodwa bendiphulula amalungu esini okoko ndineminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ndiyazi, izandi zixakekile. Ndinomzala malunga neminyaka efanayo, kwaye wandibonisa indlela yokwenza ngayo. Kwaba ngumlo onqabileyo emva koko. Abazali bam bandibamba kwaye babekhathazekile. Babengayazi indlela yokunceda, ke bebengasandivumeli ukuba ndihlambe kwakhona. (Ndiza kuqhuba amanzi… ufumana inqaku).

    Ndafumanisa ukuba ndingahlambalaza izandla zam kwaye ndaqhubeka. Andizange ndiyiqonde ukuba yintoni. Ndazi nje ukuba ndiziva ndilungile. Umama wam ekugqibeleni wandixelela ukuba yayinjani into yokuziva ngesondo xa ndandineminyaka eyi-12. Ndaziva ndonyanya kwaye ndayeka… iiyure ezimbalwa. Ndiqale ukuyenza kwiiklasi zam phantsi kwedesika yam. Ndinombandela wokwenyani.

    Ukukhawuleza kwiminyaka eyi-17 kwaye ndinomlutha. Imifanekiso engamanyala yaqhubeka nokuba nzima ngakumbi kwaye ndazibona ndonyanya ngenxa yento endiyibukeleyo. Ndadibana nesoka lam elandazisa kwiNoFap. Kwandithatha ixesha elithile ukuqonda ingcamango yendoda engayibukeli iphonografi okanye i-masturbate. Emva koko ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizame ngokwam.

    Ndenze iintsuku ze-21 kwimizamo yam yokuqala! Ndaye ngaphaya kwehlabathi. Ndandiziva ndingcono. Ndinekhofidence engakumbi. Kwaye isondo sethu sasingu-AMAZING. Emva koko ndaqhekeza. Ukususela ngoko andinakuyenza loo nto ngeveki.

    Sele ziinyanga ezimnandi ezi-9 kunye nale ndoda kwaye ndinetyala kuye lokuzisindisa ngenxa yakhe. Ndiphule namhlanje, kodwa ekugqibeleni ndikulungele ukuyithetha ngokuvakalayo kwaye ndiyazibophelela- NDIKULUNGELE UKUYEKA. Ukuba nabani na ufuna ukundinika ingcebiso, ndingayixabisa! Ndinqwenela amathamsanqa ngethemba lokuphila ubomi obude!

    Siyabonga ngokufunda abafana!

    Ndingumfazi oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala. Nali ibali lam kwaye ngethemba lokuqala kohambo oluyimpumelelo.

  18. I-22F: isityhilelo kunye neengcamango malunga nokukhwabanisa kwabasetyhini abalahlayo

    Ukubeka nje phaya, i-22F, engazange yalala ngesondo. Bendihlala ndibavalela phantsi abantu xa bendibetha ngoba bendizicingela (ndingazanelisa nje, banokwenza ntoni? Abawazi nomzimba wam), bendicinga futhi "andinaxesha ukuthandana ”

    Kodwa bendinexesha elaneleyo lokuba neeyure kwiLaptop yam, i-PMO, ndonqena nje. Ndiphelile ngosuku lwe-4 kodwa andizange ndifake usuku ukususela ekubeni ndandifana ne-15. Ndandihlala ndibabona abantu bengenasidingo ebomini. Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba andizukuqala ukuthandana nomntu ngomlingo. Kufuneka ndibengcono. Ndifuna ukuba ngcono, nangaphambi kokuba ndifumane umntu endimkhathaleleyo ngaloo ndlela.

    Ndandikude kwinyani andinakuma umntu wokwenyani ondichukumisayo. Oko kumnandi kakhulu! Kwakhona, kubafana abathi amantombazana awafumani nofap, mandikuxelele. Sifumana i-horny njengaye yeall. Sinezinto ezifanayo eziqhubekayo. Abanye babantu aboyikekayo endikhe ndadibana nabo ibingamantombazana (for fucking real!). Ukuba intombazana ayiqondi i-nofap, ayisiyiyo kuba ungumfazi. Sifundiswe i-porn yinto ekulindelwe ukuba abantu babukele. Asifuni ukucinga ngayo. Siyayijongela phantsi (uvumela nje umphunga), kuba amantombazana asezantsi anazo zonke iintlobo zokungakhuseleki malunga ne-bf / abayeni babo bebukele amantombazana ahamba ze engengawo. Ukuba bathoba i-nofap, okanye umlutha wakho, mhlawumbi benza nje ngokuthetha ngayo, okanye ukuvuma ukuba yingxaki. Makhe ndikuxelele nje, njengokuba ucinga ukuba i-pornography iyinxalenye yobomi (njengokuba oontanga bakho bekwenzile kube yinto eqhelekileyo), kuye kwayinto eqhelekileyo e-US. Sixelelwe ukuba ayisiyonto inkulu. Kwilizwe lee-boozers akukho mntu ulikhoboka lotywala.

    hlela: kwakhona, ukuba ne-orgasm kuthatha ixesha eliphambeneyo (iiyure ze-2), kwaye ngelixa lixesha elininzi lichitha yonke imihla, andifuni nabantu endinokulala nabo kwixa elizayo ukuba bazive ngathi abakho konele.

    Intombi ye-22F, isityhilelo kunye neengcamango ezichasayo zokuxhatshazwa kwezilwanyana zamabhinqa.

  19. xa uyeka ukuwujonga, uqala ukuziva ulunge ngakumbi
    Ke mna, andinakutsho ukuba ndinengxaki yokulutha iphonografi. Nangona kunjalo, ndaye ndatyhila kulo ndimncinci kakhulu (iminyaka eyi-9) ngokukhangela nje kwi-intanethi. Andizange ndiqiniseke ukuba yintoni isondo ngokwenene emva koko. Kude kube namhla, ndisazibuza ukuba ingaba imbono yam ngesondo iya kwahluka na ukuba andikaze ndibone iphonografi.

    Nsuku zonke emva kwesikolo ndazifumana ndisoloko ndikhangela i-website ye-porn (malunga neminyaka emibini). Ekugqibeleni ndayeka iminyaka emininzi, kwaye ndandineminyaka engama-10 ubudala, ndaqala ukuyibukela kwakhona kwiiveki ezimbalwa.

    Ukunyaniseka, nje ukuba uqale ukuyibukela uziva ngathi awukwazi ukuyeka. Kwaye uziva unamathele kuyo. Kodwa xa uyekile ukubukela, uqala uziva ungcono. Ubomi bakho buba ngaphezulu kakhulu kunokukhangela rhoqo iisayithi ze-porn iiyure ngokuthe ngqo. Ndifumanise ukuba iphonografi endikade ndiyithanda ukubukela… kwakamsinya ndayeka ukubukela ndaza ndaqala ukukhangela ezinye izinto ezinzima.

    Kuyahlekisa kuba wakuba ugqibile, ujonge ividiyo kwaye uqaphele ukuba zihlekisa kangakanani ezi vidiyo. Uvakalelwa kukuba yinkampani ehlambalaza ngokupheleleyo kwaye uye waphula ikhowudi yakho yokuziphatha.

    Andizibukeli iphonografi rhoqo, kodwa ndiyazibamba ndizijonga mhlawumbi malunga namaxesha ama-5 ngonyaka. Ndisebenza ekutshintsheni loo nto, kwaye ndizama ukuyinqumla ebomini bam ngonaphakade. Permalink

     

  20. Ibhinqa-iinyanga ezi-3 ezantsi

    Andizange ndibhale okanye ndiphawule ngaphambili kodwa apha iya.

    Kuqala ndingathanda ukufikelela kwamanye amabhinqa ngaphandle. Le yindoda elawulwa yi-subreddit kwaye kuya kuba mnandi ukwazi ukuba ayindim ndedwa umfazi. Kodwa, ndiyaqikelela ukuba silapha sonke ngesizathu esinye.

    I-Porn ibe ngumcimbi kum iminyaka emininzi ngoku. Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyeke iinyanga ezi-3 ezidlulileyo xa ndandiqonda ukuba andinakukwazi "ukugqiba" kunye neqabane lam le-2 iminyaka. Ndicinga ukuba kungenxa yokuxhomekeka kwam kwi-porn. Yiza ukucinga ngayo andikaze ndibenaye umntu ngaphandle kwam, ndibukele iphonografi. Akukho nto emva kweenyanga ezi-3 eziqinileyo ngaphandle kwayo, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba imini iya "kuza" (haha) apho ndingakwazi khona kunye neqabane lam. Bekukho rhabaxa kodwa sinxibelelana kwaye konke kuphumele ngaphandle.

    Yiyo leyo. Enkosi ngokufunda!

    Iinyanga ze-3 phantsi

  21. Ndiyintombazana eneminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu ubudala, kwaye ndigqibile ngoSuku 1 m /

    Ibali lam kukuba bendilikhoboka lemifanekiso engamanyala kwaye ndaye ndacima iminyaka emine, kancinci ngaphambi kokuba ndijike iminyaka eli-13. Iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zokuphinga amalungu esini xa ndiqala. Ndiqale kancinci, ngokufuthi ndibukele ividiyo okanye ezimbini ngexesha. Emva kwenyanga, yaba yinto yemihla ngemihla. Oku kwaqhubeka kunyaka olandelayo, ekugqibeleni kwanda ukuya kwii-PMO ezininzi ngosuku ngalunye lweveki, olwaqhubeka lucima kude kube izolo.

    Kulo lonke le nto ndijamelene nokuguquka kwemizwelo enkulu. Ndandicatshukiswa, ndihlala ndixakekile, ndingonwabanga, kwaye ndilahlekelwa yintlungu nabahlobo bam ngenxa yalezi nguqulelo. Ngokunyanisekileyo, ndiyathanda ukuba ndibe ndithi ukunyuka kwayo yonke into, kodwa ndiyazi ngoku kwaye ngenxa yokuba ndikwazi ukuyeka ukuchitha yonke imeko yexesha lokukhulula.

    Le mikhwa yehla yaza yahamba. Xa zihamba, ubomi bam buxhomekeke kwi-PMO yam elandelayo. Yayiyinto eyenze ukuba usuku lwam okanye iveki ibengcono- andikwazi ukuqhubeka ngokwengqondo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni ngaphandle kwawo. Njengomntu omncinci ochwetheza oku kum, iyothusa le nto.

    Ingqungquthela - okanye, mhlawumbi ngakumbi, i-nadir - yale nto yafika ngeli hlotyana xa ndifuna ubudlelwane bezesondo nge kik ngenjongo yodwa yokufumana ukwaneliseka okufanayo kunye ne-porn. Ndiqale izingxoxo ezininzi ngexesha, kwaye zonke ziphela ngamathontsi amakhulu kwimood yam. Into elungileyo kuphela evela kubo kukuba ndenze unxibelelwano lomntu, kwaye olunye lolo nxibelelwano luzise apha.

    Ndifuna ukuba ngumntu ongcono, ndifuna ukonwabela ubomi kwaye ndonwabe ndikhululekile ekusebenziseni iphonografi rhoqo. Andazi ukuba ubomi bam buza kuba njani ngexesha nasemva kokuqalisa kwakhona, kodwa ndikulungele ukubona apho ndingaya khona. 🙂

    Ndiyintombazana eneminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu ubudala, kwaye ndigqibile ngoSuku 1 m /

  22. Yeka indlela i-hardcore porn ikhupha ngayo njengentombazana

    Molweni nonke. Ndonwabile kakhulu ukufumana olu luntu. Ndandifuna ukwabelana ngendlela i-pornography kunye ne-masturbation eyonakalisa ngayo ubulili bam njengowesifazane.

    ISIGQUBO / ISIGQUBO ISEXWAYISO: inkcazo yesini, i-pornography kunye ne-masturbation

    Ke ndiyayithiya iphonografi. Ndiyayithiya kakhulu, kodwa ndiyibukele kangangeeyure, iminyaka. Ndandineminyaka eyi-12 kuphela xa ndiqala ukubukela iphonografi, kwaye kwaneyokuqala endandiyibukele yayisele iyimiboniso yokudlwengula, ubuncinci. Andizange ndikwazi ukuqonda ukuba yintoni udlwengulo olwalukho ngokwenene kuloo minyaka, kwaye ndaye ndikhona, ndandihamba ngayo. Ekugqibeleni, emva konyaka wokuqala woononophala, kwavela ukuba andinakukwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle kokuba kwakuyi-jarring okanye i-pornography egqithiseleyo. Kwakudingeka ndikwazi ukukhawulezisa i-dopamine. Ndihlala ndizama ukufumana olona manyala lobundlobongela. Ezinye izinto ndaye ndangena nzulu kuzo okwexeshana, kodwa ndiyabulela uthixo andizange ndiqhubeke nokuthanda, shit + piss porn, isondo, ulwalamano kunye nokudlwengulwa, kwaye, kuzo zonke izinto ezi-fucking, boku no pico (anime pedophilia). Ngethamsanqa, uninzi lwe-porn endandiyibukele yayiyi-anime, ke andijonganga bantu bokwenyani (andicingi ukuba ngekhe ndikwazi ukuvuswa ukuba ibingabantu bokwenyani). Kodwa ukulala nesilwanyana yayingabantu bokwenene. Ndigqibile kwakhona ndisiya kwimfuyo yezilwanyana. Ndiyacekiseka kakhulu ngokuba ndibukele kwaye ndiphume kuyo yonke loo nto, kwaye ndingathanda ukuthi kudala, kodwa akunjalo. Andiyi kubukela nayiphi na into engamanyala, kodwa ndisachaphazeleka kakhulu yile minyaka yokukhwela iziyolo.

    Andikwazi ukuvuthwa kunye neqabane lam. Andikwazi ukuzithemba kwimbali yam yesondo edlulileyo, kuphela ihlazo kunye nokunyanyeka. Andizithembanga ngokumangalisayo, ngokuzithelekisa nabafazi abakwimifanekiso engamanyala kwaye ngenxa yokuba ndibekelwe imeko yokuba abantu basetyhini baphathwe njengabaphantsi kwaye bengaxabisekanga ngako konke oko kudlwengulwa. Kwaye ngelixa ndinokuthi andizange ndifumane isondo, i-zoophilia, kunye ne-anime pedophilia + scat njengokuvusa ngaphandle kweveki enye yokufumana ingqalelo (ndacaphuka ngabo kungekudala, enkosi thixo), udlwengulo kunye nobundlobongela . Xa ndizama ukuphulula amalungu esini emva kokuyeka iphonografi, izigcawu zokudlwengula ziya kuhlala zibuyele entlokweni yam, kwanaxa ndifuna ukulwa nazo. Xa ndisiva malunga nodlwengulo, ndiziva ndinomsindo kwaye ndicaphukile kwaye ndibuhlungu ngexhoba, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kukho le nto imbi kangaka yokuvuseleleka endikruqulayo kwaye ndinqwenela ukuhamba, kodwa andizukuyenza.

    Ndiyayithiya intiyo ye-porn, ndiyayithiya into yokuba ndiyibukele, kwaye ndiyithiyile indlela embi ngayo. Ndiyakucaphukela ukuba wonke umntu okujikelezileyo uyayibukela, kwaye andiziva ndikhuselekile okanye ndikhululekile xa ndikubo. Andiziva ndonwabile njengowesifazane, ndisazi ukuba sincitshisiwe kwisekisi yemizimba ekhutshelwa ukonwaba komntu wonke. Ndiyayicaphukela indlela andinakho ukubukela umboniso weTV okanye imovie ngaphandle kokugcweleyo kwindawo yamanyala (ujonge kuwe, iNetflix). Ndivakalelwa kukuba andinakubaleka, kwaye nengqondo yam iyathanda ukundingcungcuthekisa ngokubuyisela ezo ndawo entlokweni yam.

    Ndayeka i-porn ye-3 okanye ye-4 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, kodwa andikaze ndiyithathe ngokungathandabuzekiyo indawo ye-nofap. Nanini na xa ndenza i-masturbated, iifoto zoononophelo ziza kuza engqondweni, kwaye kwakubi nje njengokuyijonga. Kodwa ngoku ndigqibile. Ndidikiwe yile. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kube malunga nothando, ukusondelelana, kunye nokunxibelelana, hayi ubundlobongela, ukudlwengula, kunye nokuzithoba kwabasetyhini.

    Oku bekungafanelekanga ukuba kwenzeke. Kwakungafanelekanga ukuba ndibenako ukufikelela ekubukeni abantu abadala abakhulileyo be-fucking kwiminyaka eyi-12. Ndiziva ndiphuke kakhulu ngokwesondo, ngamanye amaxesha xa ndabelana ngesondo ndiziva ndiziva ngathi ndiyinto yokuntywila, kunye neentloni kunye nokungabi naxabiso.

    Kodwa ndiyamthanda iqabane lam ngaphezu kokuba ndicinga. Wayeka ukubukela iphonografi kwiminyaka eyi-2 eyadlulayo emva kokuba ndithethile naye, kwaye naye waziva enezothe kwaye engaphantsi komntu emva kokubukela iphonografi. Kodwa okwangoku andibonakali ngathi ndilahla ixhala lam ngokwaneleyo ukuze ndiphonononge ngakumbi kunye naye. Andifuni nantoni na engaphambili emzimbeni wam. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba uninzi lwayo kungenxa yeembali zam ezingamanyala, ngakumbi uhlobo endandinomdla kulo. ndabona i-100 yabasetyhini xa wayebukele iphonografi (eyanditshabalalisa ngokwenene- ndaphinda ndaphinda ndazibulala okwethutyana). Ndiphuphe ngokufumana utyando lweplastiki ukusukela ndingu-100, kwaye ndisacinga njalo ngayo.

    Ndiza kuyeka yonke into yokuphulula amalungu esini ukusukela ngoku. Ndifuna ezo mvakalelo zinamandla zivela kumdibaniso wam kunye neqabane lam, hayi nje imvakalelo engekho nzulu yokuphuma. Ndifuna ukugcina isini sam sothando kunye nokusondelelana, kwaye ngethemba lokuba ndinokuwulungisa wonke umonakalo endiwenzileyo kule minyaka idlulileyo.

    Hlela: wow guys, ndiza kuphendula kuye wonke umntu kungekudala. Enkosi ngazo zonke iingcinga zakho kunye neempendulo! Kwaye uxolo ngokungayiphawuli nsfw- ulungile. Iphawuliwe ngoku!

    Yeka indlela i-hardcore porn ikhupha ngayo njengentombazana

  23. Umlutha wobugqwetha kumbono womfazi olikhoboka

    Ndibuyele kwakhona kumhla we-90 we-streak. Ndiziva ndoyikeka. Ngokwenyani ivaliwe nje i-tab. Ngokukhawuleza ndigqibile, ukuzisola okukhulu, iintloni kunye netyala ndagalela. Andizange ndiyenze kude kube ngoku. Ngonaphakade.

    Ndiqale ukubukela iphonografi kwiminyaka eyi-10 kwaye ngoku ndilapha, kwiminyaka eyi-12 kamva. Ndandihlala ndiyazi ukuba ayilunganga, bendihlala ndiyazi ukuba iyonakalisa. Ngumlutha. Itshabalalisa iintsapho, amakhondo omsebenzi, ubudlelwane kunye nokuzithemba. Ndinqwenela ukuba ithathwe ngokungathí sina njengekhoboka leziyobisi. Ngandlela thile, iba mbi nangakumbi kuba sinokufikelela kuyo nangaliphi na ixesha esifuna ngalo. Singasitsala isixhobo kwiipokotho zethu zangasemva kwaye siyibukele nanini na kwaye naphi na kwaye ihlala ixabisa kwanto.

    Kuyothusa.

    Ndinqwenela ukuba umlutha we-porn wamkelwe naphakathi kwabafazi. Njengomfazi, ndiziva ndindedwa ngamanye amaxesha. Ndiyazi ukuba uninzi lwenu ningamadoda, kwaye ndicinga ukuba kuyamangalisa ukuba nisebenze nzima ukuphucula nina kunye nabo bakungqongileyo kodwa ndinqwenela ukuba abantu basetyhini babeqhelekile. Kwisikolo sangeCawa, khange bachaze kumantombazana amancinci ukuba eli lithambeka, kuphela ngamakhwenkwe. Kufuneka kuthethwe NGawo WONKE UMNTU.

    Nangona kunjalo, ndiziva ndibuhlungu ngento endiyenzileyo. Andinakugxeka mntu ngaphandle kwam. Ndandinamathuba okuba ndimke. Ikhompyuter yam yabanda, ifowuni yakhala, njl Zonke ezi mpawu zaqhubeka zindixelela ukuba ndingazenzi kwaye andazihoya. Ndizonyanya.

    Emva kokuba ndigqibile, ndadlula kwizimvo zevidiyo ukubona ukuba bathini abantu. Amadoda amadala agxile kumfazi okwividiyo. Uye wandikhuphela ngaphandle. Kodwa yile nto iphonografi, ichaphazela wonke umntu obandakanyekayo, ngakumbi abafazi.

    Abanye baphikisana kwaye baya kuthi abafazi abenza oku bayavuma kwaye ayisiyonto inkulu, kodwa kuthatha umntu okhathazeke kakhulu ukwenza oko ukuze aphile. Ndazibandakanya naleyo ndlela yokuphila ngaphambili kwaye yeyona nto ndizisola ngayo ebomini. Ukuzithemba kwam kwakuphantsi kakhulu ngelo xesha, khange ndiqonde ukuba indiphazamisa njani. Kude kube namhla, ndihlala ndisoyika ukuba umntu angandazi. Ndacima loo mifanekiso kunye neevidiyo kwiminyaka eyadlulayo kodwa yi-intanethi kwaye yonke into isisigxina. Ndisenamaphupha amabi malunga nayo. Ndihlala kwi-intanethi ngokungaziwayo kwaye andizange ndibeke igama lam lokwenyani kwizinto ezinje ngeakhawunti kuba ndiyoyika ukuba umntu othile angandibona.

    Kwakukho isibini samadoda ingakumbi endinexhala lokuba anokundiphatha kakubi. Ndihlala ndisoyika yonke into. ongatshatanga. usuku. Andizange ndixelele mntu ngobomi bam bangaphambili. Ndikhathazekile ngokuchwetheza nje.

    Ngokusebenzisa iphonografi, abantu bayayixhasa le nto. Ngokuqinisekileyo banokuvuma emva koko, kodwa uthini malunga ne-5, 10, 15 iminyaka ukusukela ngoku? Ezi vidiyo zamantombazana asekholejini ayophule ngokwasemthethweni intliziyo yam. Baza kuzisola. Nawuphi na ubudala uya kuzisola.

    Ndiyicinga ukuba ndihamba nje ngoku. Ndiye ndayibamba yonke le nto iminyaka. Ndiyabulela kwi-subreddit kunye nenkxaso eninika yona omnye komnye. Ndicinga ukuba imnandi kakhulu kwaye intle. Ndiyathemba ukuba ngenye imini imizabalazo yethu iya kubonwa njengeyokwenyani, iziyobisi ezifanelekileyo kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ngenye imini singayithintela ukuba yenzeke kwisizukulwana esilandelayo.

    Umlutha wobugqwetha kumbono womfazi olikhoboka

  24. Ibhinqa apha! Inqaku lokuqala… Ukuzama ukumisa le ngxaki ngaphambi kokuba yenzeke.

    Ke apha ndizifumana. Umfazi oneminyaka engama-33 ubudala ongatshatanga. Ndidibanise ubomi bam. Kodwa ndiye ndaqonda kutshanje ukuba into endicinga ukuba ayinabungozi ayisiyiyo.

    Ndibukela iphonografi. Hayi yonke imihla. Kodwa iintsuku ezininzi. Ngamanye amaxesha amaxesha ambalwa ngemini. Ndiyayibukela xa ndikruqukile, andikwazi kulala, horny, ngenxa yesihogo sayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ihamba kunye nomjikelezo wam (i-horny, i-pornography). Kufike kwinqanaba lokuba andinakukwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngaphandle kwayo.

    Ndikhe ndafumana ezinye ii-hookups kulo nyaka, ezingafane ndizigqibe ngezo, kodwa ngoku ndibona umntu rhoqo kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo. Silale ngesondo ubuncinci amaxesha e-15 kwaye akukhange kube kanye ndikwazi ukuba ne-orgasm. Mhle, ulungile, ulungile ebhedini. Sisebenzisa i-lube, nokuba sisebenzise ukonyusa okongeziweyo. Ndinga. Hayi. Gqiba. Andizange ndibe ne-orgasm kwisini ngaphezu konyaka. Bekulusizi. Xa eshiya indlu yam emva kwesondo, ndijonga iphonografi ukuze ndizifezekise. Yimvakalelo elusizi xa unayo loo ngcaciso emva kokuba kwenziwe konke.

    Andikwazi nokugqiba ukwenza izinto ngokwam ngengcinga yam kwakhona. Ndiyakhumbula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ndikwazi ukugqiba (nangona ngesondo okanye i-masturbate) ngokucinga ngezinto endizibonayo kwi-pornography. Ngaba oku kuqhelekile?

    I-Porn idale iingcinga ezingqondweni zam eziye zandifaka. Ayikuko ukuba ubufanasini akulunganga, kodwa andingowesini. Andifuni ukuba ndithandane okanye ndithandane nentombazana. Andizange ndivulwe yintombazana kumntu (ngaphandle kokubona ukukhanga, kodwa ndingakhange ndivule ngokomzimba). Kodwa ndiphuma kwi-porno yobungqingili ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na into. Ibuyisele kum ngokupheleleyo. Ngaba akhona amanye amabhinqa anamava oku? Andizange ndibenomdla wokubukela i-MM okanye i-MMF ye-porn, kodwa mva nje ndizibambile ndiguqulwa yiyo. Ukunyuka nje ukuya kwindawo engaqhelekanga, kum, ubuncinci.

    Ke ndiqala olu hambo lwamanyala. Sele ziintsuku ezimbini. Andicingi ukuba ndingunobangela omkhulu wokuchaphazela ukusebenza kwam kwemihla ngemihla… Kodwa xa iqala ukubuchaphazela ubudlelwane bam kunye nobomi bokwenyani bomntu kwisini somntu… lelona xesha lokwenene lokwenza into.

    Enkosi ngokumamela. Ndingathanda ukuva okungakumbi kubantu basetyhini.

    1. Ilungu leforum liphendule:

      zigiferous_rex

      Ibhinqa apha, amava afanayo. Ndiyekile ukutsala. Kuyixesha lokulungiswa, ukuqinisekisa ukuba, kodwa ufanelekile ngokuqinisekileyo xa unayo inyanga ezimbalwa ngaphandle kwayo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kungcono. Ukuphonyula kungcono. Uziva uzilungele emva koko, ngenxa yokuba akukho slimy, unetyala lokuvala isithuba.

      Kwaye, xa ndijonga emva kwe-shit ndandisoloko ndibukela nje - wtf, kutheni ???

  25. Abafazi be-NoFap:

    Molweni nonke! Ndingumfazi ozimele kule ndawo ixesha elide. Ndikuthandile ukufunda ngamabali akho kunye nempumelelo. Ndiyayonwabela kakhulu inkxaso abahlali bayasizana.

    Ndikhe ndanazo neentloni zokuthetha phandle kuluntu ngoba andingomntu. Ndiyintokazi ena-23 yr etshatileyo, enengxaki yokufumana iziyobisi ngokuziphatha okubi kangangeminyaka elishumi.

    Iyitshintshe kakhulu indlela endandizijonga ngayo, amadoda kunye nesini ixesha elide. Mna, njengabaninzi kuni, ndiziva ndinoyolo kakhulu, ngakumbi phakathi kwamadoda. Ndaba nombono ongathandekiyo kunye nongenangqondo wesini ixesha elide. Umlutha wam kwi-PMO wawubonakala ukuqhuba ubomi bam ngamanye amaxesha.

    Ndiyavuya ukutsho ukuba kube ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezingama-30 okoko PMO!

    Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, ndabelana ngale mfihlakalo- yeefilimu ezibonisa amanyala kunye nokuhambisa amalungu esini ngokuthatha phantse iminyaka elishumi yobomi bam, kumyeni wam. Ndamxelela nangolu luntu. Ndamangaliswa kukuba wayendixhasa kakhulu. Ndivakalelwa njengonqabileyo ngaphandle, ndingumfazi kule ndawo, kodwa wandikhuthaza ukuba ndenze iposi yam yokuqala apha. Kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho abanye abantu basetyhini abaxhuzulayo abanokuthetha nabo?

    Ngapha koko, emva kokuthetha nomyeni wam, siye sagqiba kwelokuba sizame imowudi ye-PM kunye! Njengoko sikholelwa ukuba inokusinceda ukudibanisa okungakumbi, kwaye ikwancede nokuziphilisa kwikhoboka lam. Sele ndiziva ndilungile kwaye ndinemveliso kunangaphambili kwinyanga ephelileyo.

    Ndonwabile ukuba le ndawo ikhoyo. Sele indincedile ngeendlela ezininzi. Yiyo yonke into ngoku. Ndiyathemba ukuba wonke umntu unosuku oluhle!

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