Ngaba sinokuvuya ngakumbi ngaphandle koonografi?
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, amadoda avela kuwo wonke umhlaba aqala ukufika kwidibansi yam yewebhusayithi ndikhalaza ukuba awakwazi ukuyeka ukusebenzisa i-intanethi ye-intanethi. I-Google ibathumele-mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba isayithi lam likwabelana ngolwazi malunga nemigangatho yesondo kwingqondo. Noko ke, indawo yam, ngokuphathelele ubudlelwane, kungekhona ukubuyisela. Nangona kunjalo uxinzelelo lwabo olubonakalayo, kunye nefuthe lezononophelo kwiintsebenziswano zabo, landikhuthaza ukuba ndiwamkele. Njengoko ndiphulaphule, aba baveleli baxhasa omnye nomnye emzabalazweni wokushiya imifanekiso engamanyala.
Zivame ukubika utshintsho oluphawulekayo njengokusetyenziswa koononophelo: amandla angakumbi, ukunyaniseka kwezentlalo, ukugxininisa ngakumbi, ukuzuza okungakumbi kwimisebenzi yokusebenza, ukulungiswa okunamandla, ukubuyela kwiminqweno yesondo ngaphambili, ukunyaniseka okukhulu kunye nokuzonwabisa ngakumbi kwizinto ezithandekayo zobomi. Ngamafutshane, amadoda amaninzi avuya ngakumbi ngaphandle kwe-intanethi ye-intanethi.
Amava abo ndibonise ukuba ingozi enkulu yezononophelo ayibonakali kubasebenzisi abaninzi. Kubangelwa ukukhuthazwa okukhulu kwesekethe yesibonelelo sengqondo-inxalenye yecala "lobuchopho bama-mammalian", elingaphantsi kwe-neocortex entsha (ingqondo engqiqo). Isiphaluka somvuzo silawula iimvakalelo, ukuxhatshazwa, ukutya, ukukhuthaza, kunye nazo zonke izilingo. Ihamba kwi-neurochemical ebizwa ngokuthi i-dopamine, "fumana!" I-neurotransmitter.
Ukuveliswa kwemimandla (ukuchaneka koomatshini, Iimidlalo yevidiyo, iividiyo phonografi) ngokuqhelekileyo uyayikhathaza le ngxenye ebalulekileyo yengqondo, ukuba ukunyanzeliswa kuba ngumngcipheko. Ngaphezu koko, ubuchopho bethu buguquke ekukhanyeni nje kuphela ukulungelelanisa, kodwa kunye i-bonanza yezofuzo ngesondo kunye neqabane lomdlali.
Ngako oko, i-intanethi ye-intanethi, enika amaqabane amatsha ngokucela i-ejaculate kwiqhosha ngalinye lomgcini, iirejista zivuyisa kangangokuthi ingqondo ibuye ikwazi ukuziphendulela ngokugqithiseleyo ukugxininisa ngakumbi nangakumbi ngakumbi kula manqaku afunyenwe. Oku kungakwazi ukulungiswa ngokukhawuleza kokubaluleka komsebenzisi.
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Umjikelezo wethu womjikelezo wesiphaluka usuquke phambili ukuba usiqhube ngesini kunye nokutya. Kubonakala ngathi sisengozini ekukhuliseni ukuvuswa kwesondo kunye nokutya okungenamsoco. Ukutya kwe-Junk kuye kwanceda ukuba i-64 ipesenti yabantu baseMerika banzima kakhulu (kunye nesiqingatha sazo zigqithiseleyo).
Kwaye ngoku ukuba isimahla, iividiyo zokusasaza ziyafumaneka ngasese ekuboneleleni okungapheliyo, zingaphi zisebenzisa i-porn? (Icebo: kunyaka ophelileyo unjingalwazi waseMontreal kwafuneka ahlaziye izifundo zakhe malunga nemiphumela ye-porn. Akazange afumane "iintombi ezinyulu zamadoda" kwikhampasi enkulu eyunivesithi.)
"Ukutshatyalaliswa kweentlobo zoononopopasho ze-intanethi akusikho isifaniselo," kuchaza uNyman Doidge The Ubunzima Obuguqula. Abasebenzisi beSonti bakhohliswa kwiiseshoni zoqeqesho zoononografi ezidibana nazo zonke iimeko ezifunekayo ekutshintsheni kweeplastiki zeemephu zeengqondo, oko kukuthi, ukuqwalasela, ukuqiniswa, kunye nokudibanisa i-dopamine yokuqhagamshelana kwe-neural entsha.
Enyanisweni, i-dopamine yezibilini zomlilo zivelisa i-drug-like high ephosakeleyo kunokuba isondo kunye neqabane eliqhelekileyo. Kwi playboy Udliwano-ndlebe, umculi uJohn Mayer wavuma ukuba wayeza kuhlaselwa kwimifanekiso kunokulala ngesondo. Wa cacisa,
Imifanekiso engamanyala kwi-Intanethi itshintshe ngokupheleleyo ukulindela kwam isizukulwana sam. Ungahlala njani unxibelelanisa i-orgasm [nomntu] esekwe kwiminyhombiso? Ufuna enye… kwezikhulu ufunge ukuba izakuba yile uyigqibayo, kwaye awukagqibi. Kwimizuzwana engama-100 eyadlulayo ubucinga ukuba leyofoto yayiyeyona nto ishushu ukhe wayibona, kodwa uyiphosa umva kwaye uqhubeke nokuzingela kwakho kwaye uqhubeke uzenza mva emsebenzini. Ayichaphazeli njani isayikholoji yokuba nolwalamano nomntu othile? Kunyanzelekile.
Umvuzo wesekethe yomvuzo we-porn awusayi kubona owokugqibela njengelungelo lomzamo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, le nxalenye yengqondo ayinakuqiqa. Inobunzima bokukhetha ngokokukhululwa kweyona dopamine.
Ngokudakisayo, ngelixa umntu ehlaziya ekuvuseleleni okukhulu kangangokuthi unakho ukufuna ukuvuselela okukhulu. Le ndlela yokuqala iguquke ukuba isigcine emsebenzini xa kukho into ebaluleke kakhulu ("ixabiso") lijikeleze. Isebenza ngokuphazamisa impendulo yokuzonwabisa ngexesha (ngokubuthathaka kwimiphumo ye-dopamine), ngoko sijonga ngeenxa zonke.
Oku, ngendlela, kutheni izilwanyana zonyango zifuna ngaphezulu nangaphezulu ukuze zifumane impembelelo efanayo. Esi sixhobo mhlawumbi sasebenza kakuhle ngokusabalalisa izakhi zofuzo xa bevumile, abalingani banoveli babenqongophala. Namhlanje, nangona kunjalo, ingqondo iphosakele nganye i-2-D i-hottie njengelungelo eliphambili lokudlula kwiijethi. Umntu ongamanyala angenza ngathi unomsebenzi ongeke wenziwe.
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Amadoda angatshatyalaliswayo achaza ukwanda kwamanqweno obomi bokuphila, njengengqungquthela yabalingani boqobo. Ngelo xesha, banako i-hypersensitive kwisistim sezesondo zabo iingqondo ezidibanisa "nentuthuko." Kwabaninzi, ukufuna izinto ezininzi ezikhuthazayo kuyaba mfuneko ukukhulula ubunzima bokuvakalelwa kukuba unomxholo oyintloko wokonwaba kwabo ulahlekile-kwaye kunjalo. Utshintsho lweBrazil luye lwacipha ixesha elide amandla abo okuzonwabisa.
Akuqhelekanga kumadoda abanjwe kulo mjikelezo ukuba bazive bexhalabile, behlala benenkinga yokuhlakulela, bexhala, bephelelwa yithemba, bengenandaba. Ngaphambi kokuba baqalise kwakhona ubuchopho babo, ubomi bubonakala bengenanto, kodwa ngenxa yokusukela komnye umntu onomdla wokutshisa. Njengomntu oyedwa wakubeka:
Ngamaphephancwadi, ukusetyenziswa kobugqwetha kwakungamaxesha ambalwa ngeveki kwaye ndingayilawula ngokusemthethweni. 'Kungenxa yokuba kwakungekona' okhethekileyo '. Kodwa xa ndangena kwilizwe elibukhali le-pornography ye-intanethi, ubuchopho bam befumene into efuna nje ngaphezulu nangaphezulu .... Ndangaphandle kolawulo ngaphantsi kweenyanga ze-6. Iminyaka yamagqabi: akukho iingxaki. Iinyanga ezimbalwa ze-intanethi yoxwebhu:
Abasebenzisi abaninzi abaqapheli ukuba bahamba ngaphi baze banike ubuchopho babo ithuba lokubuyela kumlinganiso. Kweminye, ukuyeka ukude ukufunyanwa ukuze kufezwe oku kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu (ukugubha, ukulala, ukuphelelwa ithemba, ukuthanda, ukuhlula iintloko) abaziva bebanjwe.
Ngokomzekelo, kwi-Great Internet Porn-Off, i-70 ipesenti yabamncintiswana abazange bahambe bengabonanga iiveki ezimbini. Akunakho namagosa athile IKomishoni yoTywala kunye noTshintshiso, ingathi.
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Iplanethi apho amadoda afundela ikhompyutha asebenzisa ingozi enkulu yokusetyenziswa kakubi koononophelo baya kuvuyiswa. Abantu abazabalazela ukukhupha izifiso ukwenzela ukuba baninzi kunye nokuvuselela ngokuqhelekileyo banalo ixesha elincinci, uvelwano, okanye isombululo sokwenza izinto, izizathu ezilungileyo, ubudlelwane, okanye izinto ezinonwabo zendalo. Nangona kunjalo utshintsho kulabo abaziva bephuculwe ngaphandle koononophala luyabakhuthaza. Cinga ngezi zithuba:
Ndiziva kwakhona. Ndivakalelwa kwakhona. Inzala yam yabhinqa iphakanyisiwe, ukuzithemba kwam kunyuke kwaye kundikhuthaza kwakhona. Ndiyiminyaka eyi-28 ngoku kude kube yimizuzu emibini edlulileyo ndivakalelwa kukuba ndineminyaka engama-15 ubudala. Kodwa njengoko ndiyiphilisa kwaye ndibuyiselwe kule nto yokunyanzeliswa, ndiziva ndiziva ndingenakuze ndijongane nayo ngaphambili. Landincede ndikhule.
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Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa ndaqaphela amandla okwandisa, ukunyuselwa kwenyameko, kunye nokuzithoba. Emva kwenyanga-nangona kuthatha amalinge ambalwa ukufika apho-ezo ziphuculo zaziphezu kwephahla. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kamva, ndandidlala ngokwesini. Kukulungele ukuphakanyiswa ngezinto ezincinci, njenge-blouse ebonakalayo okanye nje ukuhamba kwamabhinqa, iinwele ezikhanyayo kunye neqhumiso.
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Ndihlala ndikhululekile kunye nam kwaye ndingabheka abantu kwiso, ngenceba kunye nentembelo engaphezu kwabantu. Ndinebafazi ababini bazisa ngokwawo izolo, bhinqa isandla sam. Wowu. Ndandikhululekile ukuthetha nabantu bonke. Ndabhalela amaphepha amabini eskripthi esaya kwinqanaba elincinci kunokuba ndikulindele. Ukusetyenziswa kusetyenziswa uphahla.
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Ndinamandla amaninzi, ndingenamandla kakhulu, ndinomdla ngakumbi kwaye ndinesizathu somsebenzi, andiyiva igalelo lonke ixesha, kwaye ndivakalelwa ngongcamango olunzulu loxhumano nayo yonke into ejikelezile. Kodwa utshintsho olukhulu olwenzileyo lulamano lwam. Intombi yam kwaye ndiziva ndandisondelelene.
Xa kuziwa kwizinto ezicacileyo zobulili, uluntu lwethu luya kulahleka kwiingxoxo malunga nentetho yamahhala, isantya sokunyaniseka, ukunyanzelwa ngokwesondo, kunye nokulimala kubantu besithathu. Mhlawumbi simele sijonge ngokugqithiseleyo amandla angamanyala okugqithisa ubuchopho.
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Uninzi luye lwavela ukususela ekubeni uMarnia wabhala inqaku elingentla apha kwi-2010 (kuquka ukudala i-YBOP kwi-2011). Imimiselo embalwa yenkxaso yembalo yeziqinisekiso ezichazwe kwinqaku:
- Ukuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni? Incwadi yokusetyenziswa kwezifo zonyango ngokubanzi, Ulwahlulo lwaMazwe ngamazwe (ICD-11), iqulethe uvavanyo olutsha ezifanele ukuxhatshazwa koonwabo: "Ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo ngokunyanisekileyo. "(2018)
- Umlingo woTywala / wesondo? Eli phepha liluhlu Izifundo ze-39 ze-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikela ngenkxaso enamandla kwimodeli yoxilongo njengoko iziphumo zabo zibonakalisa iziphumo zeengqondo ezichazwe kwizifundo zokuxhatshaliswa kweziyobisi.
- Iingcamango zangempela zeengcali zoononongo / isondo? Olu luhlu luqulethe 16 Ukuphononongwa koncwadi kwangoku kunye neenkcazo ngenye yezinzulu zenzululwazi kwihlabathi. Yonke inkxaso ngenkxaso yomzobo.
- Iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa kunye nokunyuka kwamanqaku angaphezulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokunika ingxelo ezifunyenweyo ezihambelana nokwanda kokusetyenziswa kwe-porn (ukunyamezelana), ukuhlala kwi-porn, kunye neempawu zokurhoxa (zonke iimpawu kunye neempawu ezinxulumene nomlutha).
- Ukuxubusha ingongoma engathethiweyo yokuthetha "inqweno yesini ephakamileyo" ichaza ukuxhatshazwa koonobumba okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini: Ubuncinci izifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa ibango lokuba isini kunye neziyobisi ezingamanyala "banomnqweno ophezulu wesondo"
- Iiduna kunye neengxaki zesondo? Olu luhlu luqukethe izifundo ze-26 ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koonwabo / ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo kwiingxaki zesini kunye nokwenyuka kokunciphisa isisombululo sezesondo. I fIzifundo ze-5 ziluhlu lubonisa bangela, njengabathathi-nxaxheba baqhelise ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye nokuphulukisa izifo ezingasinikiyo zesondo.
- Imiphumo yeSigxina kwimibutho? Izifundo eziphantse ze-60 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo ukuya kwisini esincinci kunye nolwaneliseko lobuhlobo. (Ngokuba sifuna zonke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zaxela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo olunxulumene nalo zihlwempu zesini okanye ukwaneliseka kobudlelwane.)
- Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuchaphazela impilo yengqondo nengqondo? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-55 ezinxibelelanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn nakwimpilo yengqondo-yeemvakalelo kunye neziphumo ezibi zokuqonda.
- Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kunokuchaphazela iinkolelo, iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha? Hlola uphando lomntu ngamnye Izifundo ze-25 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo "kwiingcamango ezingafaniyo" malunga nabasetyhini kunye neengcamango zesondo - okanye isishwankathelo kule mvavanyo-meta ye-2016: Imidiya kunye nokuSondo: I-State of Research Empirical, 1995-2015. Ngcaciso:
Injongo yale ngongoma yayiwukuba kuhlanganiswe uphando lweempawu zokuhlola uphando lwezesondo zoxhatshazo. Ugxininiso lwaluphando olushicilelwe ekuhlaziyweni koontanga, iincwadi zeelwimi zesiNgesi phakathi kwe-1995 kunye ne-2015. Iimpapasho ze-109 eziqulethwe zifundo ze-135 zahlaziywa. Iziphumo zanikezela ubungqina obuqhubekayo bokuthi ukuboniswa kwebhubhoratri kunye nokuhlaliswa rhoqo kwimihla ngemihla kuhambelana ngqo nemiphumo eyahlukeneyo, kubandakanywa amanqanaba aphezulu ekunganeliseki komzimba, ukuzithemba okukhulu, ukuxhaswa okukhulu kweenkolelo zesini kunye neenkolelo zentlobano zesini, kwaye ukunyamezela okukhulu kobundlobongela ngesondo malunga nabasetyhini. Ngaphezu koko, ukuchazwa kokulinga kwesi siqulatho kubangela ukuba amabhinqa namadoda abe nombono oncitshiswe ngokubhekisele kwiinkalo zabasetyhini, ukuziphatha kunye noluntu.
- Kuthiwani ngoxhatshazo ngokwesondo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezilwanyana? Olunye uhlalutyo lweemeta: I-Meta-Uhlalutyo lweeNzame zoTywala kunye nezoNyathelo zeZenzo zoLwabizo ngokwesondo kwi-Studies General Population (2015). Ngcaciso:
Izifundo ze-22 ezivela kumazwe ahlukeneyo akwa-7 zahlaziywa. Ukusetyenziswa kwakunxulumene nobudlova ngokwesondo kwi-United States nakumazwe ngamazwe, phakathi kwamadoda kunye nabesifazane, kunye nokufundiswa kwexesha kunye nexesha elide. Amanyano ayomelele ngokuthetha ngaphezu kwesondo, nangona bobabini bebalulekileyo. Umzekelo jikelele weziphumo uphakamise ukuba umxholo onobundlobongela unokuthi ube yinto enzima.
- Kuthiwani malunga nokusetyenziswa koonwabo kunye nentsha? Khangela olu uluhlu lwangaphezulu Ucwaningo lwe-200 olutsha, okanye olu xwebhu lwe-2012 yophando - Impembelelo ye-intanethi ye-Internet kwi-Adolescents: Ukuphononongwa koPhando (2012). Ukususela kwisiphelo:
Ukwandisa ukufikelela kwi-Intanethi ngabaselula baye badala amathuba angakaze afikelele kwimfundo yesondo, ukufunda nokukhula. Ngokwahlukileyo, umngcipheko wengozi obonakalayo kwincwadi iye yabangela abaphandi ukuba baphenye ukutshatyalaliswa kwentombazana engamanyala kwi-intanethi ngokuzama ukuluhluza ukulwa. Ngokuhlangeneyo, ezi zifundo zibonisa ukuba ulutsha oludla uonografi luya kuba neengcinga kunye neenkolelo zesini. Phakathi kwezinto ezifunyenweyo, amanqanaba aphezulu eengqondo zengqondo, ukukhathazeka ngokwesondo, kunye nokuhlola kwangaphambili kwezesondo kuhambelana nokusetyenziswa rhoqo kweentlekiso zoonografi .... Nangona kunjalo, ukufunyaniswa okuqhubekayo kuye kwavela ekusebenzisaneni kweentlobo zoononografi ezibonisa ulutsha olubonisa ubundlobongela ngamanqanaba okwanda okuziphatha ngokwesondo. Uncwadi lubonisa ukulungelelaniswa phakathi kokusetyenziswa kwentetho yeentlekele kunye neengcinga zobuqu. Amantombazana abika baziva bengaphantsi kwababhinqa ababujonga kwizinto eziphathekayo zobulili, ngelixa abafana bekwesaba ukuba bangabi njengobomi okanye abakwazi ukwenza njengabo bantu kule mijelo. Iintsholongwane zivakalisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwabo kwezonografi kunciphile njengoko ukuzithemba kwabo nentlalo yoluntu kwanda. Ukongezelela, uphando lubonisa ukuba abatsha abasebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala, ngokukodwa efumaneka kwi-Intanethi, banamazinga aphantsi ekuhlanganisweni koluntu, ukwanda kweengxaki zokuziphatha, amanqanaba aphezulu okuziphatha kakubi, iziganeko eziphezulu zeempawu ezixinzelelekileyo, kunye nokunciphisa ukunyaniseka kwengqondo kunye nabaxhasi.
- Ukuze i-debunking malunga nantoni nganye yokuthetha kunye ne-cherry-picking study yibone oku kuluhlu olubanzi: Debunking "Kutheni Sisaxhalabe Ngokuphathelele Ukujonga Iidemon?? ", NguMarty Klein, Taylor Kohut, noNicole Prause (2018). Indlela yokuqaphela amanqaku afanelekileyo: Ba catshulwa Prause et al., I-2015 (ngokukholelwa ngokukhohlisa ukuba ikhupha umlutha we-pornography), ngelixa idibanisa ngaphezu kwe-3 izifundo ezili-12 ze-neurological support the drug addiction.
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