Achinyamata Amagwiritsa Ntchito Zambiri Kuti Apeze Mojo wawo

Kodi kusuntha zolaula, kutumizidwa kudzera mumawebusayiti, kuyambiranso kugonana kwa achinyamata?

Pakati pa 2006-07, pamene anyamata anafika koyamba patsamba lathu lawebusayiti ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana okhudzana ndi zolaula , nthawi zambiri ankachira atatha miyezi iwiri osachita zolaula, kudziseweretsa maliseche kapena malingaliro a zolaula, komanso kutopa pang'ono. Ambiri mwa iwo anali amatsenga apakompyuta omwe anali atapeza zolaula zapaintaneti mwachangu patsogolo pa gulu - kenako n’kuyamba kukhala ndi mavuto osadziwika bwino pakugonana kwenikweni. Tidzawatcha "Akale."

Pasanapite nthawi tinayamba kuona zochitika ziwiri zosayembekezereka:

  1. Chigumula cha anyamata achichepere (zaka makumi awiri zoyambirira ndi zaka khumi ndi ziwiri) adayamba ndi yemweyo mavuto a erectile-disfection function. Mwamsanga, iwo anali alendo ambiri ku ulusi komanso masamba ambiri pomwe amuna anali kudandaula za zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso
  2. Achinyamata achichepere ("Obwera kumene") nthawi zambiri amatenga nthawi yayitali (nthawi zina miyezi yambiri) kuti abwezeretse ku mavuto awo. Ndipotu, ena ankafuna kucheza ndi wokondedwa weniweni-zomwe zimabweretsa vuto "nkhuku ndi dzira" mdziko lapansi lokhala ndi zibwenzi.

Oldtimers ochiritsira:

[Zaka 51] Ndili ndi masiku 65 opanda zolaula tsopano ndikuwona zotsatira. Ndakhala ndi ED kuyambira 2007. Zinali zikuipiraipira mpaka Viagra sizinathandize. Ndinayamba kukhumudwa komanso kutaya mtima. Ndakhala ndikufuna mankhwala a ED kwa miyezi ingapo. Ndayesera zonse: kusiya caffeine, DHEA, mavitamini ndi michere, kuonda, kuwonjezera minofu, kuwonjezera mafuta m'thupi, zitsamba. Ndinayamba kuganiza kuti ndiyenera kukhala nawo, kuti linali gawo lokalamba. Ndinasiya kuzizira pa zolaula ndipo sindinaphonyepo pang'ono. Ngati zolaula zimandibera kugonana kwenikweni ndiye kuti sikofunika.

Kuchira kwanga kwakhala kukukwereranso. Koma zosankha zanga m'mawa zakhala zosasinthasintha masabata angapo apitawa ndipo nthawi ziwiri zapitazi ndakhala ndikugonana ndidapeza miyala yolimba yomwe sindinakhale nayo zaka zambiri ndipo ndimayisunga nthawi yonseyi. Ndipo kutulutsa umuna kumabwera mosavuta ndikumverera bwino kwambiri. Kutengeka kwa kugonana kukubwereranso. Pamaso pomwe ndimatha kukhala ndi vuto lokwanira zogonana ndimamva ngati kuti mbolo yanga yatsala pang'ono kufa. Tsopano ndikumva kuti nyini ikutsika pamwamba pa mbolo yanga ndipo imamva Zodabwitsa.

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Wanga ED wapita 90%. Vuto langa laCHIYAMBIRI silinalipo, mwinamwake ndikubwera mofulumira kwambiri kwa iye, koma kugonana ndibwino kwambiri. Ndimadzuka ndikukwera kwambiri m'mawa kwambiri komanso popanda malingaliro kapena kukhudzidwa, imatha kufika ku 20-30 maminiti. Ndili ndi zaka 49 zowonongeka. Ndani akanaganiza kuti boner wanga wachinyamatayo abwereranso! Ubwenzi wanga wapabanja ndi wabwino kwambiri chifukwa chakuti ubale wanga ndi wabwino.

Watsopano Watsopano:

Ndili pa Tsiku 141 lokhala ndi maliseche zolaula. Sindinakhalepo ndi mavuto a ED, koma ndinachedwetsa mavuto okomoka, zovuta zochepa, komanso kudalira / kusowa kwa zinthu zofunika kuzilingalira. Pakadali pano, ndimamva 85-90% ngakhale nditakhala pafupi miyezi 5. Ndidagonana bwino sabata yatha ndipo zinali zosangalatsa. Ndikumva ngati ndikufunikiranso kuyambiranso (ndikuganiza kuti mwina ndikufuna mnzake wokhazikika), koma ndikumva kuti ndachiritsidwa. Kugonana kunabwera usiku kwambiri ndipo patatha tsiku lalitali lakumwa. Ndinali wovuta kwambiri, koma nthawi yanga yochira inali yabwino ndipo zinali zabwino kwa onse awiri.

Nchifukwa chiyani chikhalidwe ichi cha ED?

Mwina izi ndi zotsatira zachibadwa za ubongo wa achinyamata wosinthasintha kwambiri womwe umagundana ndi zolaula zothamanga kwambiri (monga, zolimbikitsa kwambiri). Kafukufuku waposachedwa, wowulula momwe asayansi angathandizire kugonana kwa nyama zoyamwitsa komanso kufooka kwapadera kwa ubongo wa achinyamata, akuchirikiza lingaliro ili. (Zambiri pansipa.)

Mukuona, a Oldtimers anayamba kudziseweretsa maliseche ali ana osapitirira muyeso. Kutengera ndi zaka zawo ndi momwe zinthu zilili, anayamba ntchito zawo zogonana okhaokha ndi kabukhu, magazini, kanema, zolaula za pa TV, kapena modabwitsa (kwa anyamata amakono), malingaliro awo. Nthawi zambiri ankagonana , kapena chibwenzi, ndi mnzawo weniweni asanakopeke ndi zolaula zachangu kwambiri ndikuyamba kukhala ndi zizindikiro zoledzera kwambiri.

Mwachidule, Oldtimers anaphunzitsa ubongo wawo wa achinyamata mosiyana ndi Newcomers a masiku ano — omwe nthawi zambiri amapeza kugonana okhaokha pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zothamanga kwambiri (ambiri azaka zapakati pa 10), ndipo sasiya kuzigwiritsa ntchito.

Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ukalamba si chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuti munthu abwerere mwakale. Kukumana ndi anthu enieni asanayambe kuthamanga kwambiri ndi chinthu chofunikira. Mtsikana wina wazaka 22 anati:

Ndinali kuchita zogonana zaka zambiri ndisanawonere zolaula pa intaneti kapena nditayamba ED. Ndinangodziseweretsa maliseche pa intaneti kwa zaka 2.5 ndisanayambe ED ndili ndi zaka 22. Kuyambira pamenepo ndakhala ndikuchita maliseche kwa milungu 8 motsatizana popanda zolaula kapena maliseche. Sindikudziwa ngati ndabwerera ku 100%, koma ngati sichoncho ndi penapake pa 90th percentile. Ndinadutsa mu nthawi yonse ya dead-dick ndi zina zonse. Panthawiyi ndinagonana pafupifupi katatu. Nthawi yoyamba inali pambuyo pa sabata lachinayi. Ndine wokondwa kuti ndadutsamo zonsezi. Tsopano ndimakonda mbolo yanga ngati kuti inali munthu, mwina kuposa pamenepo. lol!!!!

Nayi Oldtimer:

Ndakhala ndikuyang'ana zolaula kuyambira ndili 13 kapena kuposa (ndili ndi 47 tsopano). Sizinakhale zovuta kwa ine mpaka nditakhala ndi intaneti yothamanga mu 2000. Ndinayamba kuzindikira mavuto akukhala ovuta komanso oyipa akuchedwa kutulutsa. Mpaka nthawiyo ndimakhala ndikutha kutulutsa lamulo. Komabe, nditatha zolaula zambiri ndinali ndi mwayi ndikachoka pa 40% ya nthawiyo. Kugonana ndi mkazi wanga panthawiyo kunayamba kuchepa.

Dziko latsopano lachiwerewere lolimba mtima

Mwachidule, zinthu zasintha. Kuyambira kutha msinkhu (kapena kale), anyamata tsopano amachita maliseche awo onse zolaula pa intaneti. Ena sangalingalire kuti adzafika pachimake popanda izo.

Kugonana kotereku ndi kwapadera pakusintha kwa anthu, koma tisanafotokoze zambiri za zotsatira zake, komanso sayansi yomwe ili kumbuyo, tiyeni tiwone chifukwa chake ubongo wa achinyamata umasinthasintha kwambiri.

Zatsimikizika bwino kuti zokumbukira zathu zamphamvu kwambiri zimachitika tidakali achinyamata. Apa ndi pamene ubongo wathu umakhala wokonzeka kuphunzira zambiri zatsopano—makamaka zokhudza kukwatirana.

Mphamvu ya wachinyamata yolumikiza bowa watsopano wokhudzana ndi kugonana pafupifupi 11 kapena 12 pamene maulumikizidwe atsopano a mitsempha (synapses) mabiliyoni ambiri amapanga mwayi wosatha. Komabe, akakula ubongo wake uyenera kudula mitsempha yake kuti umupatse zosankha zosiyanasiyana. Pofika zaka makumi awiri, sangagwirizane ndi machitidwe ogonana omwe amagweramo ali wachinyamata, koma amatha kukhala ngati zinyalala zakuya muubongo wake—zosavuta kunyalanyaza kapena kusintha mawonekedwe ake.

Kodi kugonana kwenikweni kumaphatikizapoUbongo wa munthu umadutsa mu magawo awiri a kukula kwakukulu kwa nthenda: imodzi mu utero ndi miyezi ingapo yoyambirira ya moyo, wina pakati pa zaka za 10 ndi 13 - pomwe anyamata ambiri (ndipo tsopano, asungwana ambiri) ayamba kuwona zolaula pa intaneti. Momwemo, panthawiyi nthawi yovuta kwambiri, anthufe timakhala ndi khalidwe labwino la kugonana. Timaphunzira kukonda masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikugwirizanitsa ndi anthu omwe angakhale nawo.

Kusinthasintha kwachiwiri kumeneku kumaphatikizapo kuchulukitsa, kenako kuchotsa , kulumikizana kwa mitsempha. Pamodzi, majini ndi chilengedwe zimaumba dongo la ubongo wa wachinyamata . Pamene likugwiritsidwa ntchito kapena kutayika, ubongo umakonzanso ndikudzikonza wokha:

Kortex imadula ma circuits ang'onoang'ono omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito, pomwe imalimbitsa njira zama neural zomwe zawonongeka bwino. Ma axon a mitsempha m'njira zomwe amakonda amatetezedwa bwino ndi myelin, zomwe zimawonjezera liwiro la mitsempha. Nthambi zazing'ono zomwe zimalandira mauthenga (otchedwa dendrites) zimakula ngati mipesa kuti zimve bwino chizindikiro chobwera. Kulumikizana pakati pa axons ndi dendrite (synapses) kumachulukirachulukira pa ma circuits amphamvu ndikuzimiririka pa ofooka. Pamapeto pake mumakhala ndi zokumbukira, luso, zizolowezi, zomwe mumakonda komanso njira zothanirana zomwe zimapirira nthawi yayitali . ( Dobbs , kutsindika kwowonjezedwa)

Mwachidule, pamene tili achinyamata, timaletsa zosankha zathu—popanda kuzindikira momwe zisankho zathu zilili zofunika kwambiri panthawi yomaliza ya kukula kwa mitsempha. Malinga ndi wofufuza Jay Giedd ,

Ngati wachinyamata akuchita nyimbo kapena masewera kapena ophunzira, amenewo ndi ma cell ndi kulumikizana komwe sikungakhale kolimba. Ngati akugona pakama kapena akusewera masewera apakanema kapena MTV [kapena zolaula pa intaneti], amenewo ndi ma cell ndi maulumikizidwe omwe apulumuke.

Kodi ndi mwangozi kuti anyamata omwe amayamba msanga kujambula zithunzi zolaula mwachangu amazindikira mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana akamayandikira/kufika pauchikulire? Mwina ayi. Ntchito ya dopamine, yomwe imalimbikitsa kugonana , imafika pachimake m'zaka zoyambirira zaunyamata ndipo imachepa kufika pamlingo wa akuluakulu pofika zaka zoyambirira za m'ma 20. Pamenepo anyamatawa nthawi zambiri amazindikira zizindikiro zosatsutsika.

Zogonana zitha kukhazikitsidwa ... ngakhale mpaka kununkhiza kwa imfa

Ngati mukudabwa momwe inu, kapena munthu amene mumamukonda, mwadzidzidzi munapezera kugonana ndi nyama, kugwiriridwa ndi gulu, zolaula zosinthira kugonana kapena china chilichonse chomwe chikukusangalatsani, musadabwenso. Mu labotale, wofufuza Jim Pfaus wagwiritsa ntchito bwino mphotho ya ma jollies ogonana kuti akonze nyama zazing'ono kuti zikonde cadaverine (fungo la thupi lomwe likuwola).

Kawirikawiri makoswe amapewa kuwola kwa mnofu. Ndi chibadwa chawo; si khalidwe lophunziridwa. Amaika maliro abwenzi awo akufa kapena chitoliro chamatabwa choviikidwa mu cadaverine. Pfaus anathira cadaverine ya akazi olandira, ndipo anawaika m'makola ndi anyamata aang'ono, omwe anali namwali omwe akufuna kutaya makadi awo a V. Ndithudi, amunawo anagonana ndi kutulutsa umuna kangapo. Patapita masiku angapo makoswe aang'onowo anaikidwa m'khola lalikulu ndi akazi onunkhira bwino ndi akazi onunkha ngati imfa. Makoswewo anazolowera cadaverine ndi akazi amitundu yonse iwiri. Amuna achikulire abwinobwino sankayandikira akazi omwe amanunkha ngati imfa—ngakhale atakhala ndi nkhanza bwanji.

Komanso, patangopita masiku ochepa, amunawa adalandira chitoliro cha matabwa chodzaza ndi cadaverine. Iwo ankasewera nawo, ndipo ambiri ankang'amba pa izo, momwe iwo akanachitira ngati chinsalucho chikanakhala cholowetsedwa ndi chinachake chimene iwo amachikonda kwenikweni, monga chokoleti kapena zobisika za m'mimba.

Ndiye n’chiyani chimapatsa anthu atsopano masiku ano chilakolako chachikulu chogonana? Si anzawo enieni, koma zolaula. Monga momwe makoswe ndi anthu sakondera fungo la mnofu wowola, ambiri mwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano sakondera zomwe afika nazo . “Ndizovuta.”

Dopamine yowonjezera ndi kusintha kwa kukonda kugonana

Nayi umboni wina wosonyeza kuti zokonda zogonana zimatha kusinthidwa kwambiri: Khoswe wamwamuna akhoza kuphunzitsidwa kuti azikonda chibwenzi cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mwa kukweza dopamine yake. Ndipo sizitenga nthawi yayitali. Ofufuza adabaya khoswe wamwamuna ndi dopamine agonist (mankhwala omwe amafanana ndi dopamine), kenako adamuyika m'khola ndi mwamuna wina. Makoswe awiriwa adangokhala limodzi kwa tsiku limodzi. (Dopamine agonist watuluka m'thupi pafupifupi tsiku limodzi.) Ofufuza adabwereza izi kawiri, masiku anayi osiyana.

Patangopita masiku angapo, mwamuna wobwezeretsedwa anayesedwa. Alibe dopamine agonist m'dongosolo lake, adayikidwa mu khola limodzi ndi mwamuna wake wamwamuna ndi mkazi wamwamuna wokonda kugonana (kumbukirani kuti dopamine anali kunja kwa dongosolo lake). Mukuganiza kuti ndondomekoyi inamupangitsa kwambiri? Anayankha mochulukira kwambiri kwa amunawa: zofuna zambiri, kufufuza za chiwerewere, komanso zofuna za akazi-kusiyana ndi khalidwe labwino la amuna.

Phunziro? Kuchuluka kwa dopamine kumatha kusintha ubongo ndikusintha zomwe mumakonda pankhani yogonana. Ofufuzawo adagogomezera kuti khoswe wamwamuna sanali wachiwerewere, chifukwa sanayese kukwera khoswe winayo. Komabe adasinthadi. Mofananamo, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mobwerezabwereza sikungasinthe zomwe mumakonda, koma kungasinthe mtundu wa zolaula zomwe zimakusangalatsani.

Matenda oyambirira ndi ovuta kuti achotse

Nayi nkhani yoopsa kwambiri kwa atsopano: Kugonana msanga kumatha kukhalapo. Ubongo wa achinyamata uli pamlingo wapamwamba kwambiri (1) kukhudzidwa ndi dopamine signaling ndi (2) kufooka kwa chizolowezi . Zinthu zatsopano, zodabwitsa, komanso zodzutsa chidwi zimatha kugwedeza dziko lawo m'njira yomwe sizingakhudze ubongo wa akuluakulu. Chowonadi cha mitsempha ichi chimathandiza ubongo wachinyamata. Amaphunzira kufotokoza kugonana malinga ndi zomwe zimapangitsa kuti azilankhula kwambiri za kugonana. Phunziroli ndi lamphamvu, monga momwe tingawonere kuchokera kwa makoswe omwe ankakonda ma dowels onunkhira ngati cadaverine.

Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, kugonana kumakhala kolimba kwambiri ngati kumachitika pambuyo poti njira zabwino zogonana zakhazikika. Mwachitsanzo, asayansi anabweretsa yaikazi yolandira kwa yaimuna kenako, patatha mphindi imodzi, anaitulutsa m'khola mwake. Izi zinamulimbikitsa kutulutsa umuna mwachangu kwambiri kuposa mwachizolowezi. Ngati amuna anaphunzira izi panthawi yoyamba yogonana, zinawakhalirabe—ngakhale pambuyo pake ataloledwa kulowa ndi yaikazi mosalekeza.

Kuti awone kusiyana kwake, ofufuzawo adaphunzitsanso amuna odziwa zambiri (omwe adaphunzira zogonana munthawi zonse) kuti atuluke msanga, ndikutsitsa akazi patadutsa mphindi. Komabe, mosiyana ndi makoswe omwe machitidwe awo ogonana adakhazikika kuyambira pachiyambi - makoswe odziwa zambiri adabwereranso pamakhalidwe oyenera akaloledwa kufikira mosasokonezedwa ndi akazi.

Kafukufukuyu akugwirizana ndi zomwe timamva kuchokera kwa anyamata omwe akuchira ku ED. Anyamata omwe adayamba kugonana asanagwiritse ntchito zolaula pa intaneti amangofunika miyezi ingapo kuti achire ku ED. Anyamata omwe adayamba kuseweretsa maliseche pa intaneti asanayambe kugonana nthawi zambiri amafunika mpaka miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kapena kuposerapo kuti achite zogonana zokhutiritsa.

Achinyamata amasiku ano amaphunzitsa maluso awo akulumikiza ma pixels m'malo mochita nawo zibwenzi. Maphunziro awo sawakonzekeretsa kuti azisangalala nthawi yogonana (kapena ngakhale kugonana mkamwa) ndi wokondedwa weniweni. Zili ngati kumenya mipira ya tenisi kuti musinthe. Anyamata akuphunzitsira masewera olakwika, ndiye (ngati?) Asinthana ndi anzawo enieni ayenera kuphunzira masewera atsopano.

Kukhala zaka zambiri musanapsompsone koyamba pazenera ndi ma tabu 10 otseguka, kudziwa maluso okayikitsa owonera zachiwerewere abambo anu sanamvepo, ndikuphunzira kuseweretsa maliseche ndi dzanja lanu lamanzere sikumakonzekeretsani njira yoyambira, lolani zokha zokhutiritsa kupanga. M'malo mwake, achichepere masiku ano atha kukhala kuti akusowa chizindikirocho mosazindikira, malinga ndi maluso a chibwenzi ndi kuphunzira zakugonana:

(Zaka 22) Kotero, ndimatenga msungwana wotentha kwambiri kubwerera kumalo anga. Ankasuta fodya, koma sindinathe kuyanjana naye. Ndinati ndamwa. Chaka chotsatira ndidalumikizana ndi mtsikana wina wotentha. Ndinali ndi galasi la vinyo lokha koma sindinathe kutero. Zinandipweteka. Ndi atsikanawo zimangomveka zachilendo komanso zopanda chilengedwe. Ndinkakonda kuwagwira ndikukhala nawo, koma panali chisangalalo chokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa ine, zomwe sizowoneka bwino. Ndazolowera kuzolowera zolaula zakale. Ndikudabwa kuti izi zitenga nthawi yayitali bwanji, ndipo ngati zingatheke. Ndikudandaula kuti mwina ndizolimba kwambiri muubongo wanga….

Kodi kugonana koyenera kungafotokoze chifukwa chake anthu atsopano masiku ano omwe amangodziseweretsa maliseche okha ndi kupsinjika maganizo kumakhala kovuta kusintha momwe amayankhira kugonana ndi anthu enieni komanso kugonana kwachikhalidwe ngakhale atasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula? Ndemanga ya Pfaus yokhudza kugonana kwa ndani, chiyani, kuti, liti (ndipo mwina chifukwa chiyani)? Momwe Chidziwitso cha Mphotho Yogonana Chimalumikizira Chilakolako Chogonana, Zokonda, ndi Kuchita Zinthu Zikusonyeza kuti yankho ndi "inde."

Dilbert - DigisexualKufufuza kafukufuku wokhudza kugonana kumatanthauzanso chifukwa chake Oldtimers amene sanayambe kuchita zolaula / kupha anthu, komanso amene anali ndi kugonana kwenikweni pamaso iwo adapanga ED, mofulumira kubwerera kuchitetezo chabwino cha kugonana-ngakhale ali achikulire ndipo mosakayikira alibe kusowa kwa mahomoni ogonana ndi dopamine?

Nkhani ya Seputembara 2015 TEDx ya wachinyamata yemwe amafunikira nthawi yochulukirapo ndikuwunika / kubwereranso kuti athetse zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa ED ndi anorgasmia -

Kuledzera kungapangitse zizindikiro zosayembekezereka

Kuchira msanga si vuto lokhalo lomwe limakhalapo kwa anyamata omwe amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala othamanga kwambiri. Anyamata ambiri omwe ali ndi vuto la ED loyambitsidwa ndi zolaula pamapeto pake amanena za machitidwe ndi zizindikiro zomwe zimawachitikira anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi vutoli , monga: kulephera kulamulira kugwiritsa ntchito, chilakolako, kupitiriza kugwiritsa ntchito ngakhale zotsatirapo zoyipa (kuphatikizapo ED), kuwonjezeka kwa chilakolako, ndi zizindikiro zosiya kugwiritsa ntchito akasiya. Zizindikirozi ndi zotsatira za kusintha kwa pulasitiki mu ubongo wawo. Monga taonera, ubongo wa achinyamata ndi wopepuka kwambiri kuposa ubongo wa akuluakulu—zomwe zimapangitsa achinyamata kukhala pachiwopsezo chachikulu chotenga chizolowezi.

Kusintha kwakukulu kuwiri komwe kumabwera chifukwa cha chizolowezi kumatchedwa desensitization ndi sensitization, motsatana. Desensitization imatanthauza kuchepetsa kuyankha kwa chisangalalo chonse…kusintha koyambira. Ndi kumbuyo kwa malingaliro akuti, “Sindingathe kukwanira”. Sensitization imatanthauza hyper-reactivity/chisangalalo—koma kokha poyankha zizindikiro zomwe ubongo umagwirizanitsa ndi chizolowezi. Ndi kukumbukira kwakukulu kwa chisangalalo, komwe kumalimbitsa zilakolako zovuta kunyalanyaza.

Pamodzi, kusintha kumeneku kukufotokoza chifukwa chake zolaula zimagwira ntchito ndipo chifukwa chake mwana wotentha sagwira ntchito . Anyamata ena amafunika miyezi yambiri kuti agwirizanenso ndi anzawo enieni.

Bwanji anyamata zindikirani Kodi zithunzi zolaula zikuwongolera kugonana kwawo?

  1. Zachilendo zapa zolaula zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse zimapangidwa ndi mphamvu, koma yachibadwa, ya aphrodisiac, kotero ogwiritsa ntchitowa akhoza nthawizonse pitani ku zolaula ngati akuyang'ana mokwanira, kapena mopitirira malire, zakuthupi.
  2. Kuwonongeka kwa mphamvu ya erection kumachitika pang'onopang'ono pamene ubongo umachepa kutengera anthu omwe angakhale zibwenzi zawo komanso kugonana. Pakadali pano, saganiza zoyesa kuseweretsa maliseche popanda zolaula, kotero kuwonongeka kwaphimbidwa.
  3. Nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Intaneti kwa zaka zambiri asanayambe kugonana ndi mnzake.
  4. Pakadali pano, ena moona mtima samadziwa kuti amuna amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha-chifukwa atsekeredwa mu zolaula kuyambira atha msinkhu, monganso anzawo onse.
  5. Akakhala kuti satha kuchita zogonana zenizeni, amatha kudziimba mlandu pa chinthu china: mowa, udzu, tsitsi lolakwika kapena khungu la mnzake, kusowa kwa kugonana kumatako, zilizonse.
  6. Upangiri wanthawi zambiri masiku ano molakwika umalimbikitsa kuti zokonda zakugonana sizingasinthe, zolaula zilibe vuto, komanso mavuto a erectile patadutsa zaka makumi awiri bwinobwino komanso zosagwirizana ndi zolaula. (Huh?)

Zimatengera nthawi yaitali bwanji kuti mutengereni anthu enieni?

Nthawi yayitali imakhala yovuta kwambiri, komanso digiri ya ubongo plastiki. Ubongo ndi wosiyana ndipo amachira mofulumira.

Taganizirani zotsatira za kuchira kwa chizolowezi cha gulu la anyaniwa. (Dziwani: asayansi anali kuyeza kuchepa kwa chidziwitso ndi kusinthika kwake.)

Mu [anyani] atatu omwe adakumana ndi cocaine kwa sabata imodzi yokha , [zizindikiro za dopamine zabwinobwino] zidabwerera ku milingo yoyambira, milingo isanayambe kugwiritsidwa ntchito mankhwala mkati mwa milungu itatu.

Anthu asanu omwe adadzipatsa okha cocaine kwa miyezi khumi ndi iwiri adaphunziridwa panthawi yosiya kugwiritsa ntchito cocaine. Anthu atatu mwa asanu omwe adagwiritsa ntchito cocaine adachira kwathunthu mkati mwa miyezi itatu atasiya kugwiritsa ntchito cocaine , pomwe ena awiri sanachira atatha chaka chimodzi atasiya kugwiritsa ntchito cocaine. Kuchuluka kwa kuchira sikunali kogwirizana ndi kumwa mankhwala onse m'miyezi khumi ndi iwiri yomwe adadzipatsa okha cocaine.

Timaganiza kuti chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula pa intaneti ndi "chosinthika" kuposa chizolowezi cha cocaine, koma palibe amene akudziwa . Tamva kale kuchokera kwa amuna omwe mphamvu zawo zogonana sizikuchira mokwanira patatha chaka chimodzi.

Osati ochenjeza, koma kafukufuku wonse omwe atengedwa pamodzi akusonyeza kuti achinyamata omwe tsiku lina akuyembekeza kusangalala ndi kugonana ndi enieni ayenera kudziwa kuti

  1. zitha kukhala zowopsa kukopa chidwi cha kugonana pazomwe zili zosiyana kwambiri ndi kugonana kwenikweni, ndipo
  2. pamene chiopsezo choledzera sichiri chonse, ndi chenicheni, ndipo zokhudzana ndi zoledzeretsa mu ubongo zingakhale zovuta kuti zisinthe.

Nazi zomwe machiritso amawoneka ngati akuchira amuna

(Zindikirani kuti ngakhale munthu atachira mokwanira kuti azigonana bwinobwino, amatha kuona kusintha kwa miyezi ingapo.)

Munthu woyamba – (Zaka 18) Ndinasiya kuonera zolaula ndi kudziseweretsa maliseche (sindinafike pachimake kwa masiku pafupifupi 124 mpaka nditagonana). Pamene ndinayamba kugonana, kukhwima kwanga kunabwerera, koma ndinachedwa kutulutsa umuna ndipo ndinkangofika pachimake ndi dzanja pambuyo pogonana . Ndinkachita zogonana ngati kuti ndikudziseweretsa maliseche. Sindinkaganizira kwambiri za momwe ndikumvera. Koma nthawi ino, ndinapumula kwathunthu ndikuyang'ana kwambiri mbolo yanga ndi momwe ndikumvera. Zinagwira ntchito bwino. Ndi chinthu chatsopano kwa ine ndipo ndinali ndi kutopa kwabwino. Chomwe chimafunika ndikuphunzira momwe mungasangalalire ndi kugonana ndi nyini. N'zosiyana kwambiri ndi kudziseweretsa maliseche.

Pafupifupi 3 kwa masiku 4 tsopano, ndisanagonepo, ndinadula mbolo yanga pang'onopang'ono, ndikungoyendetsa zala pakhomo. Ndinkangoganizira zakumverera pamene ndikuchita zimenezo. Ndikuganiza kuti zinandithandiza kuphunzira momwe ndingaganizire pa mbolo yanga komanso kumverera. Zinthu zofunika kuti tisiye kuchepetsa kuchepa:

-Kuthandizani: Thupi lanu lonse liyenera kumasuka. Minofu iliyonse, makamaka mbolo yanu. Inu muyenera kuchita izo mozindikira.

-Focus pa chisokonezo: Tsekani maso ngati muyenera. Dziwani zakumverera ndikumverera.

-Chepetsani: Osadzikakamiza kuti muchite masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kutulutsa umuna. Sangalalani ndi sekondi iliyonse pachilichonse. Kukakamiza kumatanthauza kuti simumasuka komanso simukuyang'ana chidwi, koma mukufika pachimake. Ganizirani zaulendo, osati komwe mukupita. Mudzafika kumeneko pamapeto pake.

-Pitilizani: Ngati mukumvabe ngati kuti simuli pachimake, simukuyang'ana. Pumulani, yang'anani, chepetsani, pitilizani ndikubwereza.

Ndakwaniritsa zolinga zanga. Nthawi yoyang'ana ku yunivesite tsopano.

Munthu wachiwiri – Ndasiya kudziseweretsa maliseche kwa theka la chaka (ndipo sindinabwererenso kwambiri, komanso sindinachite zinthu zovuta). Chidwi changa pa zosangalatsa chikuwonjezeka. Chitsanzo cha moyo weniweni: Nthawi zonse ndimakonda zinthu wamba monga kumvetsera nyimbo za piyano, kudya mapichesi kapena kumwa tiyi wobiriwira. Koma m'miyezi ingapo yapitayi chisangalalo chakhala chikukulirakulira. Masiku ano kudya mapichesi m'munda mwathu kunali 'kofanana ndi orgasm' (mwachionekere sikunali kolimba), koma kwa nthawi yayitali. Sikunali kokoma kokha, komanso kosangalatsa komanso kokhutiritsa kwambiri. M'MOYO wanga ichi ndi chifukwa chake kusiya kudziseweretsa maliseche kumapindulitsadi.

Munthu wachitatu: Mwina ndakhala ndikuchira kwa nthawi yayitali kuchokera ku zolaula zokhudzana ndi ED, zomwe zinkandivutitsa, kotero ndikukhulupirira kuti tsopano nditha kukhala chilimbikitso kwa iwo omwe adakhumudwa chifukwa chosowa zotsatira. Choyamba, kupeza mnzanu wokhazikika ndiko komwe kunandithandiza. Ndisanayambe kukhumudwa kumeneko ndiye zomwe ndidawona. Kuyambira mwezi wa 7 nditayambiranso kugonana, ndinkakhala ndi munthu woti ndizisewera naye, kugona naye, kukumbatirana naye, ndikupsompsonana pang'onopang'ono ndisanayambe kugonana. Izi zinandipangitsa kuti ndiyambenso kugonana pang'onopang'ono. Poyamba ndinkangokhalira kuvutika kwa kanthawi kochepa ndipo ndimayenera "kuthamangira" kuti ndilowe, koma nthawi iliyonse ndikamaliza kugonana kwanga, ndinayamba kulimba. Komanso kuchuluka kwa umuna msanga kwachepa pakapita nthawi - kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumandithandiza kwambiri.

Ndinangogonana katatu usiku umodzi ndi vuto la zero. Sindingakhulupirire kuti ndachokera kutali bwanji ndikuyamba ulendo uno. Panopa ndikuvutika kwambiri ndikupsompsona wokondedwa wanga mosalekeza ndipo ndilibe vuto ndi khalidwe la erection. Ndili ndi zero zokhala ndi maliseche. Ndikutsimikiza kuti libido yanga idzapitirizabe kusintha, komanso zanga zomwe sizinali zofunikira pachiyambi (koma pang'onopang'ono zakhala zikuyenda bwino). Ndi chirichonse chomwe chimatenga nthawi yaitali kwa ine, ine ndikhoza kulingalira kusintha kwa chaka kuchokera pano. Miyezi ya 9 ndipo ine ndasintha kale munthu. Pezani wokondedwa weniweni. Tengani nthawi yolumikizana ndi winawake (osati kungogonana). Ndichidziwitso champhamvu kwambiri chofotokoza. Ndikuyembekeza kuti palibe wina amene amayenera kupyola zomwe ndinachita.

Munthu wachinayi: (Oldtimer) Ndakhala ndikusewera zolaula kwa zaka 40...ku...zolaula!! Ndipo sindinakhalepo ndi vuto la ED mpaka zaka 3.5 zapitazi. Zolaula zomwe zimayambitsidwa ndi tube-site zinkayambitsa mavuto AKULUAKULU, koma sindinkadziwa. Ndinkaganiza kuti ndi zaka, kapena kuti ndine wosakhazikika, kapena kutopa kapena china chilichonse... mpaka nditaphunzira momwe zolaula za pa intaneti zimakhudzira ubongo wathu ndikupangitsa kuti tisayankhe atsikana enieni ndikugonana nawo.

Tsopano, sindikuganiza kuti chifukwa chakuti ndakhala miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ndilibe zolaula ZILIZONSE , tsopano ndikutha kubwerera ku zolaula zomwe sizili pa intaneti. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndaswa dongosolo limenelo kwamuyaya. Chifukwa chake sindingayang'anenso zolaula ZILIZONSE kuposa kusuta ndudu chifukwa zonse ziwiri zingandibwezeretsenso kudziko losuta fodya/kusuta fodya. Nayi mfundo yofunika kwambiri. Kwa zaka 40 ZONSE ndinali wosweka m'njira zosiyanasiyana zomwe sizili za ED.

  • Ndinkayembekezera kuti azimayi onse azichita zonse ndipo samasamala ngati sangakhale omasuka… polira mokweza, atsikana zikwizikwi amachita
  • Ndinkaganiza kuti kugonana kulikonse kumakhala ngati zolaula (zomwe zimapanga zinthu kuchokera kwa akazi ndipo zimachita zochepa kwambiri kuti ziwapatse chikondi, ulemu, ulemu, kukoma mtima, ndi zina zotero)
  • SINDINALI wokhutitsidwa ndi kugonana ndi mkazi aliyense… ziribe kanthu zomwe amachita, kangati amazichita, ndi zina zambiri sizinali zokwanira
  • Ndinawononga maubwenzi ambiri pazimenezi
  • Sindinasangalale ndi moyo wanga wa kugonana
  • Sindinkakhala wosangalala m'mabwenzi chifukwa sindinkawagwiritsa ntchito… sindinkafunika kutero ngati atakwiyitsidwa kapena chilichonse, ndinali ndi zolaula zanga kuti ndikwaniritse zosowa zanga zogonana
  • Kugonana sikunamveke bwino ngati ndili mwana nditangotaya unamwali wanga ... ndikutanthauza, zinali zabwino kwambiri, koma osati zozizwitsa modabwitsa kotero kuti ndimamverera khungu lililonse mkati mwake lomwe limakhudza khungu lililonse pa ine ndi onse ma cell omwe akuwombera magesi osangalatsa omwe amaphulika ponseponse ine… tsopano amatikanso…
  • zinthu zonse zokondweretsa pamoyo (mitundu, nyimbo, kugwira, kukambirana, kusewera, kuthandiza ena, kukhala okoma mtima, kuchitira chifundo kuchokera kwa ena, ndi zina zotero) tsopano ndi zokondweretsa kwambiri kumene kwa zaka zambiri, zinthuzo zakhala zosasangalatsa.

Ndizodabwitsa…

Munthu wachisanu: Ku koleji, ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti ndinali ndi vuto la ED. Poyamba, sindinkatha kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana nthawi iliyonse ndikagwiritsa ntchito kondomu, koma ndinkaganiza kuti zimenezi zimachitika chifukwa cha nkhawa yokhudza momwe zinthu zilili komanso/kapena kuledzera. Lingaliro lakuti PMO ndi ED zinali pachibale silinalipo, ngakhale kuti tsopano zikuonekeratu movutikira. Pakapita nthawi ndinapitiriza kuchita zinthu zovuta za PMO. ED inayamba kuipa kwambiri. Sindinkathanso kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana popanda kondomu, osamwa mowa, komanso ndi chibwenzi chomasuka. Panthawiyi ndinalandira mankhwala anga oyamba a Viagra. Tangoganizirani momwe ndinamvera ndikutuluka mu ofesi ya dokotala ndili ndi zaka 24! Zachidziwikire kuti zinkangobisa chizindikiro cha vutoli, koma zinandilola kugonana kachiwiri. Uku kunali kuyamba kwa zaka 3-4 zomwe zinali zoyipa kwambiri m'moyo wanga. Ngakhale kuti ndinkapambana pamaphunziro ndipo pambuyo pake, pantchito, ndinali ndi nkhawa komanso manyazi. ED yosatha ndili wamng'ono kwambiri inali kundisokoneza, ndipo sindinali ndi lingaliro lakuti zolaula ndiye vuto. [Onani positi yake kuti mupeze zotsatira zabwino .]

Munthu wachisanu ndi chimodzi: Ndakhala ndikujambula zinthu zosiyanasiyana (monga MRI), kusanthula madzi a m'mitsempha, kusanthula kwa endocrine, maphunziro okhudza mitsempha (electromyograms), kukaonana ndi dokotala wa urologist, katswiri wa zachiwerewere, komanso katswiri wa zamaganizo za vuto langa la ED. Palibe amene wandifunsapo za kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Koma kenako ndinayesa kusiya zolaula. Ndinapewanso mtundu uliwonse wa umuna kapena maliseche kwa milungu 7. Ndinakumana ndi munthu pa sabata lachisanu ndi chiwiri ndipo nthawi yachitatu yomwe tinakumana tinali kungocheza pabedi limodzi, tikukambirana komanso kukhala pafupi, ndipo ndinakhala ndi umuna wolimba kwambiri womwe unatenga ola limodzi ndi mphindi 20 mosalekeza. Zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri kusachita zinthu zodziwikiratu koma kungoseka nthawi zina. M'mawa wotsatira tinapanga chibwenzi ndipo pamapeto pake ndinadutsa malire ndipo ndinafika pachimake pa kugonana kwanga koyamba patatha masiku pafupifupi 50. Zinali zodabwitsa, koma ndinasangalala kupeza kuti sizinali zopweteka ngakhale kuti ndimamva kukhala ndi nthawi yayitali kwambiri m'maola angapo otsatira (osati kupsinjika maganizo koma chinthu chofanana, monga chisoni). Ndinasangalalanso kuti ndinapitirizabe kukhwima kwa thupi kwa masiku angapo otsatira ndipo ndinamukonda kwambiri, ndinatulutsa umuna katatu usiku womwewo pamene ndinamuonanso patatha sabata imodzi. Ndikuganiza kuti ndinganene kuti ndachira!

Tikukhulupirira kuti asayansi posachedwapa ayamba kufufuza mwatsatanetsatane za zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu azichita zachiwerewere, komanso chiopsezo chapadera cha ubongo wa achinyamata. Pakadali pano, ndi labotale yanu. Pangani zoyeserera zanu.

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