Gary Wilson, mmodzi mwa mawu ogwira mtima kwambiri otsutsa zolaula za pa intaneti, adatsutsa malingaliro onse
Mlangizi wa sayansi Gary Wilson anali wosakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu ndipo poyamba sanali wofunitsitsa kutenga nawo mbali mu gulu lotsutsa zolaula. Iye anakokedwa mmenemo ndi ntchito ya mkazi wake.
Mkazi wa Wilson anali loya komanso wolemba yemwe adafufuza sayansi ya ubale wapawiri komanso kugonana. Pafupifupi nthawi yomwe kutsatsa zolaula kudayamba kupezeka, abambo adayamba kusiya ndemanga patsamba lake. Ankadandaula chifukwa chosakhutira ndi anzawo, kusakopeka ndi anthu enieni komanso kukwera kwa zokonda zachilendo zomwe adazipeza kukhala zosakhazikika. Ambiri mwa amunawa adamva bwino pamalo ake chifukwa adangoyang'ana pa sayansi ya kugonana.
Pofuna kuthandiza amuna amenewa, mkazi wa Wilson anafotokoza zimene ankaphunzira kwa mwamuna wake zokhudza kupangidwa kwa ubongo. Awiriwo anayamba kudabwa kuti, kodi ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amaphunzitsa ubongo wawo kuti azikonda kwambiri zokopa zogonana powononga maubwenzi enieni?
Ena mwa amunawa adayamba kuyesa kuchotsa zolaula pa intaneti. Iwo anadabwa kwambiri ndipo anayamba kuchira. Sikuti mavuto awo okhudzana ndi kugonana anatha, koma adapeza mapindu ena osayembekezereka. Ambiri adanenanso kuti kukhazikika kwabwino, kukhazikika komanso kudzidalira kowonjezereka. Anazindikiranso kukopeka kwachikondi ndi kugonana kwa okondedwa awo, komanso kusagwirizana ndi akazi komanso ulemu waukulu. Zizolowezi zoonera zolaula kwambiri zinayambanso kuzimiririka.
Ndi zotsatira zabwino zotere, anthu ankafunsabe chifukwa chake panali kukambirana kochepa pagulu za zotsatirapo zoyipa za zolaula pa intaneti, pomwe zinali zoonekeratu kuti amuna awa anali amuna ochepa padziko lonse lapansi. Mu 2010, Wilson adayambitsa tsamba lawebusayiti, YourBrainOnPorn.com , lomwe lili ndi kafukufuku waposachedwa wokhudza kusinthasintha kwa ubongo ndi chizolowezi cha khalidwe. Patatha zaka ziwiri, adapereka nkhani ya TEDx , "The Great Porn Experiment," yomwe yawonedwa nthawi zoposa 15 miliyoni.
Panthawiyi, zinali kuonekeratu kuti zolaula sizinali vuto la anyamata - ndipo atsikana omwe amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa anayamba kunena za ubwino womwewo pamene adadziwitsidwa ku kafukufuku womwewo. Kulimbana kwawo ndi kunyong'onyeka panthawi yogonana, kutengeka maganizo, kugwiritsa ntchito chidole chogonana mopambanitsa ndi malingaliro ogonana kapena okondana mopambanitsa, m'malo mwake amabwerera ku zilakolako zachibadwa kuchokera mkati, m'malo momangokhalira kukopeka kuchokera kunja. Nthawi zina zinkatenga milungu kapena miyezi kuti izi zitheke. kusintha, koma amayi ndi abambo nthawi zambiri amafotokoza kusintha kwa masiku angapo atasiya zolaula.
Patapita zaka zingapo, Wilson analemba buku lakuti “ Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction, ” lomwe lamasuliridwa m'Chijeremani, Chijapani, Chidatchi, Chirasha, Chiarabu ndi Chihangare. Ndalama zomwe zagulidwa 125,000 zaperekedwa ku bungwe lothandiza anthu lochokera ku UK, ngakhale kuti pakhala pali mabuku ambiri otsitsidwa kuchokera ku makope obisika (buku la Chiarabu lokha latsitsidwa nthawi 150,000). Bukuli lakhala lothandiza kwambiri kwa iwo omwe akufuna thandizo padziko lonse lapansi, komanso akatswiri azaumoyo omwe amafunitsitsa kumvetsetsa ndi kuchiza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso.
Kodi n’chiyani chikufotokoza kutchuka kwa uthenga wake? Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi momwe adafotokozera momveka bwino kusinthasintha kodabwitsa kwa kuchuluka kwa kafukufuku wa sayansi pankhani ya momwe zolaula zimakhudzira.
Izo zikhoza kukhala nkhani kwa inu. Mutha kukhala m'modzi mwa ambiri omwe adamva kuti kafukufuku wokhudza zolaula "ndizosokoneza" kapena "zotsutsana" kapena "zosakhazikika." Ngati izi zikufotokozerani, zingakusangalatseni kuti muwunikenso mwachidule mwachidule za Wilson. Mwachitsanzo:
- Zoposa 85 maphunziro gwirizanitsani kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ku thanzi labwino lamalingaliro komanso kusazindikira bwino.
- Zoposa 80 maphunziro kugwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti zisakhutitsidwe pang'ono pogonana komanso ubale - ndi maphunziro ena a 40 akugwirizanitsa ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kuchepetsa chilakolako chogonana.
- Zoposa 40 maphunziro kugwirizana zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito "zosagwirizana" ndi akazi komanso malingaliro ogonana.
- Mwa maphunziro a 55 a neuroscience a ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi omwe amagonana nawo, onse kupatula mmodzi amapereka umboni chizolowezi choonera zolaula. Enanso 60 Kafukufuku akuwonetsa zisonyezo za kuledzera, kuphatikiza zizindikiro za kukwera kwa zolaula, komanso kulolerana kogwirizana, chizolowezi ndi zizindikiro zosiya.
Ngakhale zonsezi, anthu akadali ofala kumva mauthenga ngati awa, “Zolaula sizowopsa kwenikweni — sizoledzeretsa … zimawongolera maubwenzi ndi malingaliro a amuna ndi akazi … Kodi simukudziwa kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumachepetsa kuchuluka kwa kugwiriridwa? … Anthu achipembedzo okha ndi omwe amada nkhawa ndi chizolowezi chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula … Kodi simukudziwa kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ali ndi chilakolako chachikulu chogonana?”
Palibe chilichonse mwa izi chomwe chili chowona. Chilichonse chomwe Wilson adalemba chatsutsidwa mu kafukufuku yemwe adasonkhanitsa. Chifukwa cha kumveka bwino kumeneku, achinyamata ndi akuluakulu ambiri padziko lonse lapansi alimbikitsidwa kuti ayambe kupeza ufulu wochotsa zolaula. Ndipo chidziwitso chikukula chokhudza ozunzidwa ambiri ndi makampani awa. Dzulo lokha, woweruza adagamula kuti Visa ikhoza kuimbidwa mlandu wokonza malipiro a tsamba lalikulu la zolaula lomwe lawululidwa kuti likupindula ndi makanema a ana mu lipoti lodziwika bwino la 2020 lolembedwa ndi mtolankhani wa New York Times Nicholas Kristof.
Ngakhale pakati pa kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula panthawi ya mliri wa COVID-19, anthu otchuka monga Terry Crews ndi Billie Eilish nawonso posachedwapa alankhula za momwe chizolowezichi chimakhudzira miyoyo yawo komanso ubwino wopeza malo kuchokera pamenepo. Ngati pali kukayikira kulikonse pa tanthauzo la ufulu wamtengo wapataliwu m'miyoyo yeniyeni, tengani nthawi yowunikira nkhani zoposa 5,000 za anthu omwe akupita patsogolo pakuchira kwawo.
Ntchito ya Wilson makamaka imatsutsana ndi nthano yofala yakuti ndi chikhalidwe chokha kapena chipembedzo chomwe chimachititsa kuti anthu asamasangalale ndi zolaula, komanso kuti kwa iwo omwe asiya chikhulupiriro, zolaula siziyenera kukhala zodetsa nkhawa kwambiri.
Gary Wilson, mu chithunzi chosawerengeka choperekedwa ndi banja lake.
Anayandikira nkhaniyi mwasayansi, ndikufunsa zomwe umboniwo ukunena. Ndipo iye ankakhulupirira moyenerera kuti maphunziro ndi kuyesera kuthetsa zolaula zidzatsimikizira mfundo zake. Komabe, adakhala m'malo mwa anthu okonda zolaula pa intaneti, ndipo kuvutitsidwa tsiku ndi tsiku komanso kuvutitsidwa pa intaneti pang'onopang'ono kunawononga thanzi lake lamalingaliro ndikuwonjezera ululu wake wamthupi wokhudzana ndi matenda a Lyme. Izi zidathandizira kumwalira kwake kopitilira chaka chapitacho, pa Meyi 20, 2021.
Awo amene amakweza mawu awo kuchirikiza chowonadi chosakondweretsa, ndithudi, nthaŵi zonse amatsutsidwa ngakhalenso kuzunzidwa. Monga momwe Albert Einstein ananenera, “Mizimu ikuluikulu nthaŵi zonse yakumana ndi chitsutso chachiwawa chochokera m’malingaliro ang’onoang’ono.”
Komabe ambiri amene amatsata utumwi wapamwamba wogawana chowonadi amatero chifukwa chokhulupirira chifuniro chapamwamba kapena dongosolo laumulungu. Gary Wilson anachita zonsezi popanda kukhudzika konseko. Tangoganizani kulimba mtima kodabwitsa, mphamvu ndi chikondi chomwe chingatenge.
Inde, pali munthu wina wosakhulupirira Mulungu kumwamba tsopano. Zikomo Gary, chifukwa cha zonse zomwe mwachitira anthu ambiri, kuphatikizapo ine. Munatsegula njira yoti ambiri apeze ufulu wochotsa zolaula - ndipo munatsogolera ena ambiri kulankhula zoona momveka bwino komanso molimba mtima.
Jacob Hess ndi mkonzi wa Public Square Magazine ndipo adatumikirapo pagulu la National Coalition of Dialogue and Deliberation. Wakhala akugwira ntchito yolimbikitsa kumvetsetsa kwaufulu kuyambira pomwe adasindikizidwa "Simupenga Monga Ndinaganizira (Koma Mukulakwitsabe)" ndi Phil Neisser. Ndi Carrie Skarda, Kyle Anderson ndi Ty Mansfield, Hess adalembanso "Mphamvu ya Kukhala chete: Kukhala Mwanzeru kwa Otsatira Amasiku Otsiriza."