Vibrators ndi Zosangalatsa Zina: Pamene Kudziletsa Kulephera (2011)

Ndimakonda tee-sheti yamasewera[Onaninso Ma Vibrator ndi "Dead Vagina Syndrome" (kafukufuku ndi atolankhani ambiri)]

Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito zoseweretsa zachiwerewere kapena zolaula pa intaneti pang'ono? Yankho lagona mu ubongo wanu — osati m'malangizo aliwonse akunja, nzeru kapena chiphunzitso. Zimatengera momwe dera lanu limalandirira mphotho, momwe ubongo wanu umakhudzidwira ndi njala.

Zedi, ubongo wanu mulole kukhala pachiwopsezo chotengeka kwambiri chifukwa cha kapangidwe kabwinobwino kapenanso zoopsa zakale. Komabe zimafunikiranso mtundu wanji wazisangalalo zomwe mumakhomerera ubongo wanu. Taganizirani zomwe mkaziyu anakumana nazo:

Kugwiritsa ntchito ma Vibrator kumatha kukhumudwitsa kwambiri mkazi. Ndinayamba kugwiritsa ntchito imodzi ku koleji, ndikuganiza kuti ndine mayi wamakono, wopatsidwa mphamvu zogonana, ndipo sindinakhulupirire kuti ntchitoyi idakwaniritsidwa bwanji. Inagwira ntchito TOO bwino. Pasanathe mwezi, sindinathenso kukhala pachibwenzi ndi chibwenzi changa, ndipo miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake, sindinathe kuzichita ndi dzanja langa. Vibratoryo adapita mu zinyalala ndipo kuyankha kwanga kudabweranso patatha milungu ingapo. Ngakhale pano, zaka khumi pambuyo pake, nthawi zina ndimasowa chidwi. Komabe, sindiphonya kukhala ndi chidwi chokhudzana ndi kugonana thanthwe.

Ndakhala kutali ndi zolaula pa intaneti pachifukwa chomwecho. Ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri, ndipo ndikudziwa ndikachedwa. Ndinayesera kuseweretsa maliseche kamodzi. Ndidabwera mphindi zosakwana mphindi imodzi (osati ngati moyo weniweni!) Chifukwa kukondoweza kunali kwakukulu. Kugonana kwenikweni sikungakwaniritse izi. Mwina sindine wotsalira, koma ndikudziwa bwino. Ndikayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti, ndikadakhala ngati m'modzi mwa anthu omwe sangathenso kuyambiranso popanda izi. Ayi zikomo. Ndisunga zamoyo zanga zogonana.

Magulu pogwiritsa ntchito njira zachilengedwe (kuganiza zala ndi kulingalira) sizingakhale zovuta. Zimakhalanso zomveka kuti ubongo wanu unayamba kusintha osamvetsetseka. Kapena nthawi zina kumangokhalira kukondweretsa chinachake chokwanira kuti chitha kuchepetsa kugonana kwanu.

Komabe, mochuluka kukondweretsa kwakukulu zingakhale zovuta mosavuta-ena mwa ife. Ikhoza kuchepetsa kuchepa kwa ubongo, ndipo motero amakhutira.

Ndinali ndi chibwenzi chomwe chinandiuza kuti pali nthawi ya moyo wake komwe amayamba kugwiritsira ntchito movutikira. Koma adapeza kuti sangakwanitse kugonana ndi abwenzi ake chifukwa anali atakhumudwa kwambiri. Anasiya vibrator, ndipo ine ndikuganiza iye akuti zimamutengera iye miyezi 6 kuti abwererenso ku chizolowezi.

Pafupi theka la ophunzirawo phunziro limodzi adanena kuti ali ndi nkhawa yodalira kukondweretsako kopanda mphamvu kwa vibrator.

'Supernormal' amatanthauza chotsitsimutsa chomwe chimatulutsa mitundu yambiri yamankhwala am'magazi am'magawo amubwino aubongo. Izi zimachitika ubongo wathu ukasankha china chake chokopa kuposa china chilichonse chomwe makolo athu amakumana nacho. Kuwonjezeka kwa ma neurochemical wallop kotereku kumatipusitsa kuti tilembetse zolimbikitsa zathu monga Zofunika Kwambiri. Ndipamene timatha kusuta mosavuta. (Kuti mumve zambiri, onani Zizolowezi zoledzeretsa.)

Kuti mumvetsetse momwe zimakhalira zokakamiza, lingalirani izi: Asayansi atapanga "akazi" agulugufe ndi mawu okokomeza (mwachitsanzo, zizindikilo zomwe amuna amagwiritsa ntchito poyesa kukondera kwa okwatirana),

Gulugufe wamphongo wosamba ndi siliva adakopeka kwambiri ndi kachilomboka kakang'ono kozungulira kamene kali ndi mikwingwirima yopingasa kuposa ... ndimkazi weniweni, wamoyo wamtundu wake.

Si amuna okha omwe amapusitsidwa ndi zokokomeza. Mbalame zazimayi zimakonda kukhala pamiyala yayikulu, yowala bwino, yabodza mazira, ndi kunyalanyaza zawo. Zachilendo zosaneneka wolemba Deirdre Barrett limafotokoza zinthu monga “kutsanzira komwe kumakopa chibadwa choyambirira ndipo, mwachilendo, chimakopa kwambiri kuposa zinthu zenizeni.”

Tsopano, ganizirani za zokondweretsa zomwe zimapangitsa ubongo wathu lero: masewera akuluakulu a masewero, makasitini owala, kunyengerera zakudya zopanda pake, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe amachititsa kuti azichita mauthenga amtundu uliwonse, cam2cam.

Intaneti yomweyi imamverera ngati kukokomeza ... kusaka ma tabu ambiri otseguka / kuchita zinthu zambiri, kutseketsa zinthu zosangalatsa kuchokera paukonde. Zili ngati ubongo wanga nthawi zonse umafuna kusangalatsidwa ndi china chake tsopano. Kuwerenga mabuku sikundikwanira.

Izi ndizokopa zomwe makolo anu sakanatha kuchita nawo mosavuta. Zitha kubweretsa kusintha kwamaubongo komwe kumakhala kovuta kusintha. Mwachitsanzo, kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti kwalumikizidwa kuchepetsa kwa imvi nkhani mu ubongo wa achinyamata. Kutchova njuga ndi kudya kwambiri awonetsedwa kuti asinthe ubongo ntchito, nayenso.

Titha kulimbitsa ubongo wathu m'njira zambiri, koma chakudya ndi kugonana ndizosangalatsa kwambiri. Mosiyana ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, onse awiri adalembedwera kale mu mphotho zamaubongo athu monga Zofunikira Pakukhalapo (zofunika kwambiri). Ichi ndichifukwa chake ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri amatha, ndipo amatha, kukopeka ndi zakudya komanso zogonana ngakhale alibe mavuto ndi zokopa zina. Masabata makumi asanu ndi awiri mphambu asanu ndi anayi Achimerika tsopano akuposa kunenepa, ndipo theka yambiri. Mwa nkhani zina, theka la atumiki a ku America adanena kuti ali ndi mavuto zawo zolaula zimagwiritsira ntchito 2001.

Mfundo ndiyakuti kusangalala kwakukulu "kwachilengedwe" kumatha kukhala chizolowezi chowopsa zanu (kapena wokondedwa wanu)-ngakhale zimawoneka ngati zopanda vuto nthawi ina m'mbuyomu, kapena zikuwoneka kuti sizikuyambitsa mavuto kwa anzanu. Kusintha uku kumachitika mosalakwa m'malo okhala ndi zokopa. Ma Eskimos amadya mafuta osungunuka tsiku lonse ndikumwetulira, koma ana ambiri aku America akulira ngati sakusangalala ndi Chakudya Chosangalatsa cha MacDonald.

Azimayi makumi asanu ndi awiri ndi awiri aliwonse amagwiritsa ntchito vibrators molingana ndi a phunziro 2009. Makumi makumi atatu ndi mmodzi peresenti a atsikana akugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Mnyamata wina yemwe anamenya nkhondo yayikulu kuti abwerere ku zolaula, ndikuzindikira kuti ubongo wake unasintha kwambiri, anati:

Amayi amodzi (1) mwa akazi atatu azaka zanga amaonera zolaula. Ndimakumbukira kuti ndimaganiza kuti ndizabwino ngati mtsikana wokongola amaonera zolaula. Koma mozama, izi ndizoyipa kwenikweni - sizabwino - kwa ine komanso kwa anthu wamba. Sindikufuna kuti ubongo wa mkazi wanga wamtsogolo uwonongedwe ndi zolaula, kotero kuti moyo wake komanso luso langa lopanga zachikondi limawoneka ngati lotopetsa komanso losasangalatsa. Jeez izi ndizowopsa. Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuwona momwe ukadaulo woyipa wasokonekera ndi ubongo wathu chifukwa cha zolaula pa intaneti.

Pakafukufuku wa 2011 omwe adatchulidwa pamwambapa azimayi ambiri adanenanso zakukhumudwitsidwa kuti kugwiritsa ntchito vibrator kumakhudza ubale wawo kuposa momwe kumathandizira kuti ubale wawo ulimbe. Kodi inu ndi mnzanuyo mukufunika kale kujowina magawo atatu kuti mugonane bwino (ndiye kuti, inu nonse kuphatikiza zoseweretsa zomwe mumakonda komanso zowonera pamakompyuta ndi zolaula zomwe mumakonda)? Ngati zolimbikitsa zakugonana sizikuchitirani inu, ubongo wanu mwina wasintha. Chifukwa chake, funso nlakuti, kodi mukufuna kuchotsa unyinji ndi "kuyambiranso" kuti musangalale ndi kugonana?

“Kodi sindingochepetsa?”

Zedi. Koma tiyerekeze kuti mumakupeza sangathe Kuchepetsa osakumana ndi zizindikilo zobwerera m'mbuyo? Izi zingaphatikizepo: "kusowa" kwakukulu kwa chiwonetsero (ngakhale mutakhala nacho chimodzi, "chaser effect"), Kumangokhalira kumva kusamvera panthawi yogonana, kukopeka kwambiri ndi omwe timacheza nawo, kulingalira zakukondoweza, kulakalaka zogonana kapena zopweteka kwambiri, kukhumudwitsa ena popanda kanthu, kapena kudzimva kuti alibe kanthu, kuda nkhawa, kusakhutira kapena kuchitiridwa zinthu zopanda chilungamo (" osowa ”).

Izi nthawi zina zimatha kukhala zizindikilo zakusuta pakamwa. Kumbukirani, gawo loyambirira laubongo limazindikira zinthu ndi zochitika zomwe zimatulutsa dopamine yolimbikitsa muubongo ngati Yopindulitsa Kwambiri. Zimadziyimira zokha kuti zisamawayang'anire. Nthawi iliyonse mukafika pafupi ndi imodzi, mphotho yanu yaubongo imadumphira mmwamba ndi pansi ngati wopenga wa Jack Russell terrier. Izi zimadziwika kuti kulimbikitsa. Mukamayendetsa njira yothandizira, imatulutsa kuphulika kwakukulu kwa dopamine kusiyana ndi nthawi zonse, kutaya zikhumbo zofuna.

Komabe, alipo kukula umboni kutsimikiza kumeneku kumabweretsa deensitization-Kuyankha modzidzimutsa pachisangalalo. Zotsatira zake zitha kukhala kufunikira kwakumwa mozama posaka kukhutira, ndikuchepetsa kuyankha kwakugonana. Mwachitsanzo, amuna achikulire omwe amamatira ku "vanila," zithunzi zolaula sizikuwoneka kuti zimakhala ndi vuto la erectile lomwe amuna ena, omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala achichepere, omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri. Kuti mumve zambiri za momwe ma superstimuli amatha kubera ubongo penyani izi mavidiyo.

Zodabwitsa, zingakhale zophweka perekani superstimulus kwathunthu kuposa kuyesa kuchigwiritsa ntchito pang'ono. (Poyamba, nthawi zambiri osasangalatsa kwambiri, komabe.) Chifukwa chake nthawi yodziletsa ikhoza kupambana pamene kuchepetsa kusokoneza bodza mu dopamine yowonjezera ya ubongo yomwe imatulutsidwa ubongo chifukwa cha zifukwa zomwe zimapangidwira. Mu ubongo umene wasintha ndipo sunabwererenso mwachizoloŵezi, kudziyeretsa kumapangitsanso njira yovomerezeka yotenga madzi ndi zilakolako zobwereza mmalo mwa kukhutira.

Mwachidule, "Chilichonse pang'ono" chimangogwira ntchito kwa anthu ena, pokhudzana ndi zoyambitsa zina, nthawi zina. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, ngati mumapewa chidwi chomwe chimakulimbikitsani kwanthawi yayitali, ubongo wamphokosowo umafooka pang'onopang'ono, ndipo njala yanu imayambiranso kukhala yanzeru. Kusagwirizana kumalipira. A Mark Hyman, MD apanga mfundoyi ponena za kulakalaka superstimulus ina, shuga:

Chotsani zotsekemera ndi zotsekemera zopanga ndipo zokhumba zanu zidzatha: Pitani kuzizira. … Muyenera kuyimitsa kuti ubongo wanu ukhazikitsenso. Chotsani shuga woyengedwa bwino, masodasi, timadziti ta zipatso, ndi zotsekemera zopangira zakudya zanu. Awa onse ndi mankhwala omwe amalimbikitsa kulakalaka.

N'chimodzimodzinso ndi chidole cha kugonana ndi ntchito yogwiritsira ntchito. Zingakhale zophweka kupyola vuto lochotsera kuchoka komanso Bweretsani ubongo wanu kuposa kulimbana ndi zolakalaka mobwerezabwereza kuti azigwiritsa ntchito moyenera.

"Mukamafuna kutuluka mdzenje…"

Ngati mukuganiza kuti mungagwiritse ntchito ntchito yosokoneza kapena osokoneza, yesetsani kuyima kwa mwezi umodzi kapena awiri. Kodi mungadzimvere nokha kuti mukhale ndi nkhawa (kapena kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu zowonjezera)? Kodi madzulo amakukondani kwambiri kuposa madzulo ali ndi vibonthozi? Ngati mutayambiranso msanga, kodi mumawona zolakalaka pambuyo pake? Pamene mukupanga zovuta zanu, zimakula mosavuta kuti mupange zotsatira zomwe mukufuna.

Mungathe ngakhale kupeza zosayembekezereka zomwe ubongo wanu umabwerera. Mayi wina ananena kuti pamene anasiya matsenga ake (atapita ku chipinda chodzidzimutsa ndi ovary oonongeka, ndi chidziwitso chochokera kwa dokotala yemwe akupezekapo), amatha kusiya kusuta ndikuwongolera zakudya zake mosavuta .

Ziri zovuta kuti aliyense wa ife avomereze kuti chisangalalo choyipa kamodzi chakhala chitasokonekera mwachisawawa. Komabe kaya zosangalatsa zasintha (mwachitsanzo, zolaula pa intaneti m'malo mwa zojambula zachikondi), ubongo wathu ukhoza, ndipo nthawi zambiri umasintha. Kukangana ngati chinyengo china ndi "choyipa" kapena "chabwino," "chamakhalidwe abwino" kapena "chachiwerewere," ndi pambali pake. Zotsatira zake pa inu ndizofunika, ndipo mileage yanu idzakhala yosiyana malingana ndi ubwino wa ubongo wanu, kaya zasintha, kuchuluka kwa zokonda zanu zapita patsogolo, ndi zina zotero.

Zimapindulitsa kuti muzidziyang'anira mosamala kuti musazengereze mosazindikira kuyankha kwanu kosangalatsa ndi zinthu zamakono zopanga zinthu. Nawa malingaliro ena oyamba ochokera kwa amayi ndi abambo:

Porn sizovuta ndi amuna okha. Ndimadzipezera ndekha, ndikamasewera maliseche ndimataya timadziti tanga tonse tomwe timayenda ... ndiye AKAKONZEKera kuti ndikhale nawo, INE SINDILI! Ayenera kukoka pa LUBE ngati wopenga ndipo ndiyenera kuyimitsabe kuti ndigwiritse ntchito lube ndipo amakhumudwa nane. Ngakhale ndimafuta onse akunja, zimakhala zosasangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa kwenikweni chifukwa ndili ndi malingaliro oti ndingakonde kuyang'ana zolaula m'malo mouma ndikugonana ... ndimadziwa nthawi zonse kuti **** yake ikakhala yolimba kapena anali wopunduka, chifukwa cha zolaula. Ndipo nthawi zonse ankadziwa kuti ndikakhala ndikuseweretsa maliseche chifukwa ndikadauma.

Ngati ndinu munthu amene angayambe zolaula pa intaneti pang'ono, chabwino, chabwino. Mphamvu zambiri kwa inu. Koma ngati simuli - ndipo mukudziwa ngati simuli - ndiye kuti muyenera kusiya kaye. Ndinayesa lonjezo "kamodzi pa sabata"; sichinagwire konse. Ndinayenera kusiya kwathunthu.

Nditasiya zolaula kwakanthawi, ndikuwona kuti kungoyang'ana atsikana achigololo (okhala ndi zovala) kumakhala kosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa pomwe ndimakonda kwambiri zolaula. Ndikuganiza kuti ichi ndi chisonyezo chakuti ubongo wanga ukubwezeretsanso-kuti wabwezeretsanso chidwi cha zinthu zowoneka bwino.

Mwachidule, "Mukamafuna kutuluka mdzenje, choyamba siyani kukumba." Kwathunthu. Patsani ubongo nthawi yanu kuti mubwerere moyenera. Potsirizira pake, zisangalalo zobisalira zidzalembetsanso kukhala zokoma. Ngati ubongo wanu wasintha kwambiri, izi zingatenge miyezi ndipo musakhale omasuka. Koma ndizofunika

ZINDIKIRANI: YBOP sakunena kuti maliseche ndi olakwika kwa inu. Kungotchula mfundo yakuti zambiri zomwe zimatchedwa ubwino wa thanzi ankadzinenera kugwirizana ndi chilakolako kapena kugonana kwenikweni kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi kugwirizana kwambiri ndi munthu wina, osati kugonana / maliseche. Zowonjezereka, kugwirizana pakati pa zizindikiro zochepa zaumoyo wathanzi ndi orgasm (ngati zowona) mwina zimangokhala mgwirizano wochokera kwa anthu omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino omwe mwachizoloŵezi amachita zogonana ndi kugonana. Sizowona. Maphunziro Otsogolera:

Malingaliro Amaganizo Amtundu Wathanzi Amagulu Osiyanasiyana (2010) anapeza kuti kugonana kunagwirizana ndi zotsatira, pomwe kugonana sikunali. Nthaŵi zina maliseche anali okhudzana ndi ubwino wa thanzi - kutanthauza kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumagwirizana ndi zizindikiro za umoyo wathanzi. Mapeto a ndemanga:

"Mogwirizana ndi njira zambiri, zitsanzo, ndi zochitika, zomwe zimafukufuku zikugwirizana kwambiri powonetsa kuti kugonana komweku (Penile-Vaginal kugonana ndi yankho labwino) kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi, ndipo nthawi zina, zimayambitsa njira zogwirizana ndi ntchito yabwino ya maganizo ndi thupi. "

"Njira zina zogonana (kuphatikizapo pamene Penile-Vaginal Sex isokonezeka, monga momwe zilili ndi kondomu kapena kusokonezeka kutali ndi penile-kumverera kwazimayi) sizimasokonezedwa, kapena nthawi zina (monga kugonana ndi kugonana ndi kugonana) zimagwirizanitsa ndi ntchito yabwino yokhudza maganizo ndi thupi . "

"Mankhwala opatsirana pogonana, maphunziro a kugonana, mankhwala opatsirana pogonana, komanso kufufuza za kugonana ayenera kufotokozera zambiri zokhudza ubwino wa thanzi la Penile-Vaginal, komanso kumawunika kwambiri momwe angayankhire."

Onaninso zowonongeka zazifupi zokhudzana ndi maliseche ndi zizindikiro za umoyo: Kuchita maliseche kumakhudzana ndi matenda a m'maganizo ndi kuwonongeka kwa prostate: Ndemanga pa Quinsey (2012)

Ndizovuta kugwirizanitsa malingaliro akuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumapangitsa chidwi ndi zomwe amuna ndi akazi apeza kuti pafupipafupi kuseweretsa maliseche kumalumikizidwa ndi zizindikilo zowopsya (Cyranowski et al., 2004; Frohlich & Meston, 2002; Husted & Edwards, 1976), osasangalala pang'ono (Das , 2007), ndi zisonyezo zina zingapo za thanzi lakuthupi ndi lamisala, zomwe zimaphatikizapo kuphatikana ndi nkhawa (Costa & Brody, 2011), njira zosatetezera zamaganizidwe, kuthamanga kwa magazi kukakakamizika kupsinjika, komanso kusakhutira ndi thanzi lam'mutu ndi moyo wathunthu ( kuti muwone, onani Brody, 2010). Zimakhalanso zovuta kuwona momwe kuseweretsa maliseche kumakhalira ndi chilakolako chogonana, pomwe kuseweretsa maliseche nthawi zambiri kumalumikizidwa ndi vuto logonana mwa amuna (Brody & Costa, 2009; Das, Parish, & Laumann, 2009; Gerressu, Mercer, Graham, Wellings, & Johnson, 2008; Lau, Wang, Cheng, & Yang, 2005; Nutter & Condron, 1985) ndi akazi (Brody & Costa, 2009; Das et al., 2009; Gerressu et al., 2008; Lau, Cheng, Wang, & Yang, 2006; Shaeer, Shaeer, & Shaeer, 2012; Weiss & Brody, 2009). Nthawi zambiri kuseweretsa maliseche kumalumikizidwanso ndi kusakhutira ndi maubwenzi komanso kukonda ocheperako (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009). Mosiyana ndi izi, PVI imagwirizana kwambiri ndi thanzi labwino (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Costa & Brody, 2011, 2012), magwiridwe antchito ogonana (Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Nutter & Condron, 1983, 1985; Weiss & Brody, 2009), komanso ubale wabwino kwambiri (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011).

Komanso, ngakhale kuti kansalu yochepa ya kansa ya prostate imayenderana ndi ma ejaculations ambiri (popanda chithunzi cha kugonana) (Giles et al., 2003) [Taonani umboni wotsutsana, komabe:Khansara ya prostate ingagwirizane ndi mahomoni ogonana: Amuna omwe amachita zachiwerewere mu 20s awo ndi 30s akhoza kuyambitsa chiopsezo chachikulu cha kansa ya prostate, kafukufuku akusonyeza. "], Ndi mafupipafupi a PVI omwe amathandizidwa makamaka ndi kuchepa kwa chiopsezo, pomwe kuseweretsa maliseche nthawi zambiri kumakhudzana ndi chiwopsezo chowonjezeka (kuti muwunikenso pamutuwu, onani Brody, 2010). Pachifukwa ichi, ndizosangalatsa kudziwa kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumalumikizidwanso ndi mavuto ena a prostate (ma prostate apamwamba kwambiri a antigen ndi kutupa kapena prostate) ndipo, poyerekeza ndi ejaculate yomwe imapezeka kuchokera ku PVI, umuna womwe umapezeka kuchokera ku maliseche umakhala ndi zizindikiro za ntchito yovutikira ya prostatic ndikuthana pang'ono ndi zinyalala (Brody, 2010). Khalidwe lokhalo logonana lomwe limagwirizana nthawi zonse ndi thanzi lam'mutu ndi thanzi ndi PVI. Mosiyana ndi izi, kuseweretsa maliseche nthawi zambiri kumalumikizidwa ndi ziwonetsero za thanzi losauka (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Costa & Brody, 2011, 2012). Pali njira zingapo zamaganizidwe ndi matupi, zomwe mwina ndizotsatira zakusankha kwachilengedwe komwe kumakhudza njira zaumoyo monga chifukwa ndi / kapena mphamvu yolimbikitsira kufunafuna, komanso kuthekera kopeza ndikusangalala, PVI. Mosiyana ndi izi, kusankha njira zama psychobiological zopindulitsa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu azichita maliseche sizokayikitsa chifukwa chazovuta zolimbitsa thupi zomwe zingachitike ngati zingalepheretse wina kuchokera ku PVI pozipangitsa kukhala zosafunikira paumoyo wabwino (Brody, 2010). Makamaka, kuseweretsa maliseche kumayimira kulephera kwa njira zogonana komanso ubale wapamtima, ngakhale ndizofala kwambiri, ndipo ngakhale zitakhala zosazolowereka zimakhalapo ndi mwayi wa PVI. Poterepa, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti pafupipafupi kuseweretsa maliseche kumalumikizidwa ndi kusakhutira ndi zinthu zingapo m'moyo mosadalira PVI pafupipafupi (Brody & Costa, 2009) ndipo zikuwoneka kuti zikuchepetsa maubwino ena a PVI (Brody, 2010).

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"Ndiye, ndi odala bwanji omwe akuyankha omwe amasewera maliseche posachedwa poyerekeza ndi omwe sanachite? Chithunzi 5 chikuwulula kuti mwa omwe anafunsidwa omwe akuti ndi "osasangalala kwambiri" ndi moyo wawo masiku ano, azimayi 68 pa 84 alionse ndi amuna XNUMX% adati adachita maliseche sabata yatha. Kuyanjana modzichepetsa ndi chisangalalo kumawonekera bwino pakati pa amuna, koma osati akazi. Cholinga chathu sikutanthauza kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumapangitsa anthu kusasangalala. Zitha kutero, koma mawonekedwe owerengera mosiyanasiyana satilola kuti tiwunikenso izi. Komabe, ndizolondola kunena kuti amuna omwe amati ndi achimwemwe sangayerekeze kuchita maliseche posachedwa kuposa amuna osasangalala. ”

“Kuchita maliseche kumalumikizananso ndi malipoti a kudziona ngati osakwanira kapena mantha m'mabwenzi komanso zovuta pakuyenda bwino ndi anthu ena. Oseweretsa maliseche am'masiku apitawa komanso apitawa amakhala ndi ziwonetsero zazikulu kwambiri kuposa zomwe amafunsidwa omwe sananene maliseche tsiku lapitalo kapena sabata yapitayi. Ochita maliseche am'masiku apitawa komanso apitawa amakhala ndi nkhawa zambiri poyerekeza ndi omwe adayankha omwe sananene maliseche posachedwa kapena sabata lapitalo. ”

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  1. Ndemanga yolembedwa patsamba la "Psychology Today"
    Mzimayi analemba (poyankha wina yemwe adati nkhani yathu ikuyesera "kuwapangitsa azimayi mantha pakugonana"):

    Zomwe zimandivuta pazokambirana zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndikuti ikufuna kukana kuti kugwedera kwambiri kumatha kukhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa mthupi. Chifukwa chiyani titha kuvomereza kuti kuvulala m'manja kumatha kuyambitsidwa ndi, oh ine dunno, ndinena nyundo ya jack, koma tikufuna kukana mwamphamvu kuti izi zitha kuchitika ku clitoris? Kunena kuti, kugwedera kotentha kwambiri kumamveka bwino, koma kunandisiya ndili ndi dzanzi lopweteka lomwe linapangitsa kuti kukhale kosatheka kusangalala ndi kukhudza pang'ono pakapita nthawi-zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndinayenera kuzisiya kwathunthu kuti ndikhale ndi chidwi.

    Kuvomerezeka monga kwanga komanso zolemba ngati izi sizomwe zili pachiwopsezo. Zili m'manja mwa anthu omwe akufuna kutipangitsa kuchita manyazi pofufuza za kugonana kwathu, omwe amatsutsa zidziwitso komanso omwe amaletsa zokambirana. Pomwe timakhala otseguka kwambiri pazokhudza kugonana tidzakhala bwino.

  2. Mzimayi adaika izi pa Yahoo

    Ndine mkazi ndipo ndikutsimikiza kuti ndadzichitira ulemu kwa amuna komanso chilakolako chogonana poyang'ana zolaula zambiri. Sindikuganiza kuti ndi zochitika zomwe zimakhudza amuna; azimayi ambiri amakhudzidwa ndi izi kuposa momwe angavomerezenso, ngakhale sitikuvutika ndi vuto la erectile. Ndili ndi vuto lalikulu mu libido chifukwa cha zenizeni, ndipo ndimayesa zambiri kuti ndiziwonera zolaula zambiri. Kuwona maliseche amunthu m'moyo weniweni sikungakhale kosangalatsa chifukwa ndimawawona nthawi zonse zolaula. Palibe zokopa chabe chifukwa chowona amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali maliseche. Zili chimodzimodzi kwa ine tsopano monga kuwonera nkhani zausiku.

  3. Mzimayi adaika izi pa Psychology Today
    pansi pa nkhani yokhudzana ndi zolaula zowononga kugonana:

    Ndili ndi vuto lenileni kupatula ndilibe mbolo.

    Nditawerenga izi zidandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti ndizomwe ndakhala ndikukumana nazo. Sindinadziwe kuti Porn ndi vuto langa. Ndakhala ndikuyang'ana zolaula, ndikuzolowera kuyambira ndili mwana kwambiri. Ndili ndi zaka 24 zokha ndipo moyo wanga wachikondi ndiwovuta kwambiri. Mwamuna wanga amamvetsetsa pang'ono koma sindinathe kumuuza zomwe zimachokera, chifukwa sindinamuuze zakumwa kwanga. Zanga zinayamba bwino, pomwe chidwi changa chokhudza kukhudza chinachepa kwambiri, kuyambira pomwe ndinayamba kuyang'ana zolaula. Komanso monga momwe nyuzipepalayi inanenera, zolaula zomwe ndimawona zidakulanso "mwamwano". Poyamba ndinkangotembenuka maliseche ndipo tsopano ndili pamalo pomwe ndimada nkhawa ndimisala yanga.

    Ndili ndi zovuta kuti ndikwaniritse mtundu uliwonse wa zisokonezo popanda kusonkhezerana ndikugwiritsidwa ntchito mozama. Ndikusowa kuti ndikugonana ndipo ndimamva bwino popanda khama.

    Sindinayang'ane zolaula kwanthawi yayitali, ndipo ndangoyambiranso, ndipo nthawi yomwe ndadutsa sinakulitse libido yanga koma nditha kufotokoza chifukwa chomwe ndinalibe libido. Poyamba ndinali ndi libido yovuta kwambiri ndipo ndimatha kuilamulira, tsopano sindimakondanso kukhudzidwa.

    Ndimaganiza kuti, kusiya zolaula ndi zowona zingakhale zovuta komanso ulendo wautali. Ndili ndikumverera mwina zikanakhala zaka zisanachitike kuti zokhudzidwa zanga zibwerere, ngati izo. Pano pali chiyembekezo! Zikomo chifukwa cholemba izi ndikubweretsa izi osati zowonjezereka koma ena ambiri!

    Ndikukhulupirira kuti olembawo amvetsetsa kuti azimayi, pamodzi ndi amuna, amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti nawonso azichita maliseche. Mwachinsinsi ndimayesa kuti akazi ali pafupi kwambiri ndi kuchuluka ndi kuuma komwe amuna amagwiritsa ntchito ndipo mwina ndichifukwa chake azimayi ambiri amafunikira zolimbikitsira kuchita chilichonse. Ma Vibrator ndi mdierekezi ndipo ndikhala ndikuchotsa zanga, zowonadi.

  4. Mkazi wina akusowa chilakolako
    Zaperekedwa ndi membala wa gulu:

    Ndili ndi bwenzi lachikazi lomwe ziphuphu zawo zakhala choncho. Wakhala akusuta zitsamba kwazaka zambiri ndipo akuti sangakhale ndi vuto labwino pokhapokha atasuta udzu pokhapokha ataganizira zogwiritsa ntchito. Amachitanso zolaula kwambiri ndipo safuna kusiya.

  5. Mtsikana wa Reddit

    Zikuwoneka kuti palibe galimoto, koma penyani zolaula ndi mastibate nthawi zambiri. Njira iliyonse yosinthira izi? Namwali wa 19yo ndi positi yoyamba, wokongola kwambiri kwa izo zonse.

    Ndakhala ndikugonana (heh) kuyambira ndili ndi 16, koma ndimatuluka nthawi ya 11th nthawi iliyonse. Maubwenzi atatu omwe ndakhala nawo anali ochepa kwambiri (miyezi ingapo, nsonga) chifukwa ndinkapulumuka nditangokakamizidwa kugonana.

    Zonsezi zinali zokongola kwambiri, koma zitangotuluka kuuma humping (zomwe sindinalowemo) kupita kumalo osungira dzanja kapena kupitirira ine ndinasokonezeka ndipo nthawi yomweyo sindinkakopeka ndi mnyamatayo.

    Pakadali pano, ndakhala ndikuseweretsa maliseche popeza ndimatha kukumbukira (mwina kamodzi tsiku lililonse) ndikuwonera zolaula (pafupifupi katatu pa sabata) kwa zaka zingapo zapitazi. Chifukwa chiyani sindingatsegulidwe ndi mnyamata yemwe alidi Apo ndi wofunitsitsa kundikondweretsa?

    Kodi pali wina aliyense yemwe ali ndi zofanana ndizo pamene amasangalala ndi zolaula ndi kuseweretsa maliseche koposa kugonana?

  6. Mkazi wa ku Reddit
    analemba kuti:

    Wanga wakale wakale ndipo tinali pachibwenzi chapatali, ndipo ndipamene ndidayamba kuchita maliseche komanso zolaula. Nthawi zina sitimatha kuonana kwa miyezi ingapo panthawi, kotero ndimasewera maliseche ndikuwonera zolaula pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kwa zaka 3. M'chaka choyamba cha ubale wathu, ndidapeza kuti kugonana komwe tinali nako kunali kosasangalatsa ndipo sindinathe kuchoka pachigololo. Kotero akangomaliza, ndimapita kukamaliza kuti ndiziwonera zolaula zolaula kwambiri. Zolaula zinakula kwambiri patapita zaka, ndipo kugonana komwe ndimakhala nako ndi SO kunakula kwambiri.

    Ndili ndi SO yatsopano, takhala tikuwonana kwa chaka chimodzi. Kumayambiriro kwaubwenzi wathu, adandiuza kuti tikamagonana, zimawoneka ngati malingaliro anga anali kwina ndipo sindikulumikizana naye konse. Nthawi zina pakati pa kugonana, ndimatha kuganiza za zomwe ndaziwona kapena kuziwerenga posachedwa, m'malo mwa IYE. Nditasankha kutenga vutoli ndikuwerenga pang'ono pa r / kareeza .. zinthu zili bwino pakati pathu. Ndikumva kulumikizana kwamphamvu, ndipo malingaliro anga satengeka konse. Kugonana kumamveka bwino, kukhala ndi SO yanga ndibwinoko, ndipo ndimatha kukhala wosangalatsa kwambiri tsopano ndikugonana ndekha. Kuphatikiza apo, ziphuphu zimakhala zabwino kuposa PVO.

     

  7. Kuchokera ku Psychology Today

    Kim ananenapo za: "Kugonana Chifukwa Chogonana Ndi Vuto Limene Likukula"

    Mutu: Izi sizikugwira ntchito kwa amuna okha!

    Ndizosamveka kunena kuti amayi samamvetsetsa kufunikira kodziseweretsa maliseche. Kafukufuku waposachedwa kwambiri akuwonetsa kuti azimayi ochuluka kwambiri amadziseweretsa maliseche, komanso pafupipafupi! Chifukwa chiyani zoseweretsa zachikazi zogonana zimakhalapo ngati palibe amene amazigula?

    Ponena za nkhaniyi, ndikulimbana ndi vutoli, ndipo ndine mkazi waubwenzi wanthawi yayitali. Nthawi zambiri ndimakonda kuseweretsa maliseche masiku angapo, ndipo ndimayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula chifukwa zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta komanso kuti zifike msanga. Komabe, nthawi iliyonse zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kufika pachimake, ndipo kwa zaka zambiri zolaula zomwe ndimaziwona zakhala zowopsa / zachilendo kuti ndikhale ndi chisangalalo chimodzimodzi. Sindingatheretu pachimake ndi chibwenzi changa. Ndizowona kuti zolaula zimakukhumudwitsani, koma mukangokhala osavomerezeka popanda izi, ndizovuta kusiya.

     

  8. Mkazi pa reddit
    adalemba izi:

    Ndimangobwera ndikadziseweretsa maliseche a kinky (makamaka gangbang). ZONSE zanga sizili choncho, ndipo ndikudandaula kuti kugonana nthawi zonse sikudzandichititsa kuti ndibwere. Ndiyenera kukhala ndi nkhawa? Kodi ndingadziletse bwanji pa izi?

  9. Wokondwa kuti sindinadziwe zambiri ndi ma Vibrator
    Ndine mayi wazaka 40, ndipo ndili ndi mbiri yambiri pankhani yokhudza maliseche. Powerenga nkhaniyi, ndine wokondwa kuti zomwe ndimakumana nazo zoseweretsa zachiwerewere sizinali zoyipa. Pafupifupi zaka zitatu zapitazo, ndidagula vibrator (chifukwa kukopa kwa digito kwa chimbudzi changa, kupindika kwa mapilo, ndi zina zambiri sizinandikhutitsenso), koma mbolo yapulasitiki iyi idakhala yayikulu kwambiri kumaliseche kwanga, motero sichimafuna kulowa - ndipo sindimadziwa momwe ndingagwiritsire ntchito chipangizocho. Patapita kanthawi, chikumbumtima changa choyipa chidandigwiranso ndipo ndidachiyesa. Pambuyo pake, ndidamva za kachipangizo kakang'ono, ndipo ndidakopeka kuti ndipeze, koma mwamwayi sindinatero! Komabe, nditha kungolemba zomwe zanenedwa m'nkhaniyi:

    "Titha kulimbitsa ubongo wathu m'njira zambiri, koma chakudya ndi zogonana ndizosangalatsa kwambiri."

    Zowonadi, nthawi zambiri yakhala imodzi mwazomwe ndimakonda kusiya zomwe ndakhala ndikulowererapo m'mbuyomu. Nthawi zonse chakudya sichinali vuto langa, zinali zoseweretsa (nthawi zina ngakhale zonse ziwiri) - kuphatikiza kuyerekezera, komanso kuwerenga kosayenera komwe kumandipangitsa (nthawi zina zolaula zolaula). Ndipo ndadzilimbitsa ndekha m'njira zambiri. Tsoka ilo, ndine wosakwatiwa, ndipo kugonana kwanga komaliza kwachitika zaka zambiri zapitazo. Koma ine ndine Mkhristu ndipo sindimakhulupirira zogonana musanalowe m'banja, chifukwa chake sindingachite china koma kudikirira!

  10. Zolaula zamkazi
    KukhalapoPosachedwamasiku 7 Zithunzi za 21 maola a 2 apitaOh, ndikukhulupirira ine, amayi ena samafunikira fap.

    Ndinkakonda kuonera zolaula kuposa amuna ambiri omwe ndimadziwa. Ndimalimbikitsidwa, kenako ndimakhala kulikonse kuyambira mphindi zisanu mpaka ola kufunafuna kanema wabwino kwambiri kuti ndipite chifukwa ndadzitopetsa ndi zinthu zakale zomwezo. Ndinayamba ndi zinthu zofewa ndili wachinyamata ndipo zidasandulika zinthu zomwe sindinapeze. Ndinali ndi chikwatu mumtundu wa GB pa PC yanga. Ndinaika mafayilo pafoni yanga ndi mp3 / kanema wosewera kuti ndipeze mosavuta ndikakhala kuti sindikhala pafupi ndi kompyuta. Ndili ndi akaunti yoyeserera patsamba lolaula chifukwa ndidawona mphatso yomwe idandipindulira kwambiri kotero ndimangodziwa kuti mtsikanayo anali ndani.

    Gawo lotsatirali ndikulongosola momveka bwino komanso momwe zimasinthira (kusintha) malingaliro anga pa zakugonana, chifukwa chake ndikupita patsogolo ndi NSFW kuti ikhale yotetezeka. Izi zolaula zomwe zasintha moyo wanga m'njira zambiri. Lingaliro loti tichite chikondi pang'onopang'ono limawoneka ngati losasangalatsa kwa ine. Ndimangogonana ndi PIV ndi mnyamata m'modzi ndipo ndimayamwa chifukwa ali ndi ED chifukwa cha PMO ndipo akuyesera kuti akonze. Komabe, ndachita zinthu zina ndi anyamata ena. Nthawi zonse ndimafuna kuti ndiwaphulitse ndipo ndapeza kuti zanditembenukira kuposa kungopeza kwa iwo. M'malo mwake, sindinkafuna kuti aliyense andipondereze, ngakhale mtsikana amene adadzipereka ndikadzamupeza. Anyamata sakanakhoza kundigwira ine molimba mokwanira; Chilichonse chimayenera kukhala chovuta kwa ine. Ndidafuna kutchedwa hule komanso hule. Ndidafunsa kuti andimenye ndipo anyamata ambiri samakhoza. Kugonana kunali chilichonse koma kundikonda; Zomwe zimasowa pamoyo wanga wogonana ndimakamera ndi zolipira. Ndinkadziona kuti ndine wokonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sindinathe kudziwona ndekha ndili pachibwenzi ndi mkazi. Kwenikweni zonse zomwe ndimafuna kuchita ndi azimayi ndikudya nawo ndikuwakwapula ndi zingwe. Chifukwa chake sikuti ndimangodziwonetsera ndekha, koma nawonso ndinali kuwawona. Kugonana ndi ena kumamveka bwino, koma sizinandichitire ine zambiri. Ndinganame za momwe zimamverera bwino ndipo ndimapanga zabodza kuti zithe. Zinkawoneka zolakwika, zauve, ndipo ndimangofuna kuti ndisiye ndekha. Ndi zolaula? Ndimakhala ndi ziphuphu zamphamvu kwambiri ndipo ndimazichita kulikonse kuyambira kamodzi mpaka kasanu patsiku.

    Palibe amene anadziwapo chifukwa ndine wolimba kwambiri kumeneko ndipo mavuto anga a PMO sanawonetsepo momwe amachitira ndi amuna ena ndi ED. Komabe, kuwonongeka komwe kwandipangitsa ine mwamaganizidwe okhudzana ndi kugonana, kudzidalira, komanso maubale ndizowoneka bwino kwambiri. Komanso, zidandipangitsa kufuna kukopa amuna kwambiri. “N’chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kulankhula ndi mnyamata wokongola uja? Sadzandichititsa kumva kuti ndikufuna zogonana monga momwe ndimadzionera ndekha. ” Ndimalankhula ndi mnyamata pa intaneti, ndipo ndimangodzuka ndikuchoka pa PC kuti ndikachite maliseche. Ndikachedwa kufika mkalasi kapena kukagwira ntchito chifukwa ndimangofunika kulowa nawo gawo limodzi la quickie PMO. Zinali zomvetsa chisoni ndipo ndinkafuna kusintha. Sizinali mpaka posachedwa pomwe ndinayamba kuzindikira njira zonse zomwe ndasinthira kuchoka pa izi. Ndakhala wopanda PMO kwa masiku asanu ndi awiri ndipo ndili ndi nkhawa kumunsi komweko, zithunzi zolaula zimawonekera m'mutu mwanga nthawi zina ndipo, kuti ndikhale wotsimikiza, nthawi zina ndimamva ngati ndikungofuna kutenga munthu woyamba yemwe amayenda pafupi ndi nyumba yanga ingothamangitsani ubongo wake.

    Eya, amayi amakhudzidwa ndi zonsezi.

    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/17xrb8/i_want_to_hear_from_the_women_on_this_site/c89v2u6

  11. Kuchokera pa tsamba lina
    Mtsikana wina analemba kuti:

    izi ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri kuwerenga. Ndine msungwana wazaka 20 ndipo ndine wokongola ili ndi vuto langa. Sindinapezepo akazi ena aliwonse omwe akunena kuti ali ndi vutoli. Zikuwoneka kuti samangoyang'ana zolaula, heh. ndinali mega wosokonezeka pomwe sindinakhalepo ndi aliyense kwa chaka chimodzi ndipo sindinathe ngakhale kudzutsa chibwenzi changa chatsopano chomwe ndimadziwa kuti ndimakopeka ndi momwe ndingakhalire ndi aliyense. Ndimaganiza kuti ndikungodziwa ndekha (ngakhale kuti ndinalibe nkhawa) kapena ma hormone anga anali osokonezeka.

    Sikunali kuwonjezera koma, ndili ngati kuwala kowala pakati pa anzanga omwe ndimagonana kwambiri. Ngati pali chilichonse chomwe masewera anga akuyenera kuti akuphulitsa testosterone yanga ndikundipatsa malire.

    Lero ndinazindikira kuti sindingathe kuchoka pa zolaula ndipo Os wanga sanakhale wofanana nthawi zingapo zapitazi. Ndikudabwitsidwa kuti bwenzi langa limakwanitsa kutero. Komabe, ndazindikira izi lero. ngakhale zambiri zomwe ndapeza ndizokhudza amuna pali zofanana zambiri. sindingathe kutuluka kapena kudzutsidwa popanda P, osadzutsidwa kale pamaso pa M, kuwonera P mopitilira muyeso wopangidwa ndi zinthu zomwe sizinali zogwirizana kwenikweni ndi ziwalo zanga zamoyo, etc.

    Ndine wokondwa kuti ndithetse muzu wamavuto anga. Kubwezeretsanso kuyenera kukhala kwachangu komanso kosavuta poganizira kuti sindinakhalepo * osokoneza (ndangotopetsa) ndipo sindinakhalepo ndikuchita zodzikakamiza kwa chaka chimodzi kapena pafupipafupi monga ena. Zotsatira zanu zimandipangitsa kukhala ndi chiyembekezo. moni! ^ _ ^ =

  12. Wokondwa kuti sindinadziwe zambiri ndi ma Vibrator
    Yatumizidwa pa YBOP

    Ndine mayi wazaka 40, ndipo ndili ndi mbiri yambiri pankhani yokhudza maliseche. Powerenga nkhaniyi, ndine wokondwa kuti zomwe ndimakumana nazo zoseweretsa zachiwerewere sizinali zoyipa. Pafupifupi zaka zitatu zapitazo, ndidagula vibrator (chifukwa kukopa kwa digito kwa chimbudzi changa, kupindika kwa mapilo, ndi zina zambiri sizinandikhutitsenso), koma mbolo yapulasitiki iyi idakhala yayikulu kwambiri kumaliseche kwanga, motero sichimafuna kulowa - ndipo sindimadziwa momwe ndingagwiritsire ntchito chipangizocho. Patapita kanthawi, chikumbumtima changa choyipa chidandigwiranso ndipo ndidachiyesa. Pambuyo pake, ndidamva za kachipangizo kakang'ono, ndipo ndidakopeka kuti ndipeze, koma mwamwayi sindinatero! Komabe, nditha kungolemba zomwe zanenedwa m'nkhaniyi:

    "Titha kulimbitsa ubongo wathu m'njira zambiri, koma chakudya ndi zogonana ndizosangalatsa kwambiri."

    Zowonadi, nthawi zambiri yakhala imodzi mwazomwe ndimakonda kusiya zomwe ndakhala ndikulowererapo m'mbuyomu. Nthawi zonse chakudya sichinali vuto langa, zinali zoseweretsa (nthawi zina ngakhale zonse ziwiri) - kuphatikiza kuyerekezera, komanso kuwerenga kosayenera komwe kumandipangitsa (nthawi zina zolaula zolaula). Ndipo ndadzilimbitsa ndekha m'njira zambiri. Tsoka ilo, ndine wosakwatiwa, ndipo kugonana kwanga komaliza kwachitika zaka zambiri zapitazo. Koma ine ndine Mkhristu ndipo sindimakhulupirira zogonana musanalowe m'banja, chifukwa chake sindingachite china koma kudikirira!

  13. Ndatayika chidwi changa mu clitoris yanga kuchokera pa vibrator yanga
    Ndatayika chidwi changa mu clitoris yanga kuchokera pa vibrator yanga

    Moni NoFap, ndakhala ndikubisalira kwakanthawi tsopano ndipo ndakhala ndikutsutsana ngati ndiyambire pulogalamu ya NoFap. Ndimawerenga hentai pang'ono ndikuchita maliseche pafupifupi tsiku lililonse. Ndikumvetsetsa kuti ndiyenera kusiya ntchito: Ndasiya kutaya chidwi changa pachakudya changa, ndimadzimvera chisoni anzanga achimuna, ndipo ndimataya nthawi yochuluka yomwe ndiyenera kugwiritsira ntchito.

    Komabe, ndimaopa kuti ndikasiya ntchito, ndikhoza kukhala ndi chidaliro kuti Fapstronauts ambiri adakumana nawo / kapena atha kukopeka kwambiri ndi abwenzi anzanga. Ndili ndi mnzanga paubwenzi wapakati, ndipo sindikufuna kukopana mwangozi kapena kupereka zizindikilo zoti ndili ndi chidwi pomwe sindili. Kulongosola, ndikudziwikiratu pamakhalidwe anga kuti ndili pachibwenzi chosangalatsa ndipo sindisangalatsidwa ndi wina aliyense, koma sindikufuna kukhala ndi machitidwe osalankhula omwe sanena.

  14. Mwezi umodzi palibe zolaula, maliseche kapena vibrators
    Mwezi umodzi palibe zolaula, maliseche kapena vibrators

    Ndine wamkazi wa zaka 26. Ndinali paubwenzi wokhala ndi nthawi yaitali wopanda phindu pomwe ndimatha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti ndizitha kunyamula. Pambuyo pa chibwenzi, ndinkangowonjezera zolaula zanga tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndinakumana ndi mkazi wanga tsopano ndipo timagonana nthawi zonse. Komabe, nditakhala kunja kwa miyezi ingapo, ndimakhala ndi maliseche kangapo patsiku. Pa nthawi yomwe abwera kunyumba, sindinkaganiza kuti kugonana kapena kugonana sikunali bwino.

    Ndinabwerera kuntchito koma ndinali ndi maliseche ndikuwonera zolaula osachepera 2-3x patsiku. Ndinazindikira kuti nthawi zambiri amatha kunditulutsa pakamwa (ankakonda nthawi zonse) ndipo sankakhoza ndi manja ake.

    Patha milungu inayi osachita maliseche, zolaula kapena zotulutsa mawonekedwe ndipo ndimamva ngati mkazi wosintha !!! Kugonana kwathu pamodzi kwakhala kopindulitsa kwambiri komanso kulumikizana. Ndilibe zithunzi zolaula zomwe zimadutsa pamutu panga. Amatha kundichotsa mosavuta tsopano ndi m'kamwa ndi m'manja ndipo ndimamva ngati wakwaniritsidwa kwambiri. Ndikulakalaka ndikulakalaka zolaula. Ndikulimbikitsidwabe koma ndimakwanitsa komanso ndikudzilamulira ndekha.

  15. Mkazi - wosakhoza kukhala wamaliseche ndi amuna, yekhayo: nkhani yopambana

    Moni!

    Ndikungogwera ndikugawana zomwe ndikupita patsogolo pano.

    Ndinayamba nofap mu Januware, masiku 247 apitawo kukhala achindunji. Chifukwa chokhala ndimatha kudzichotsa momwe ndimakondera koma sindinathe kuchita nawo zachiwerewere ndi mnzanga (mnzake), zilizonse zomwe adachita kapena ngakhale atayesetsa kwambiri.

    Kubwerera pomwe ndinali 19 ndinali ndisanagonepo maliseche m'moyo wanga, ndipo ndimakonda kuchita zachiwerewere kuchokera kwa ine-pamwamba PIV kugonana (zomwe ndikuzindikira kuti ndizosowa, chifukwa azimayi ambiri amafunikira kukondoweza, koma sindinatero). Pofika zaka 20 ndinali ndikumva kukoma kwamisala, ndipo pomwe wosakwatiwa adadzipezera kalulu wofalikira - cholakwika chachikulu, PIV O sanawonanenso, kapena mtundu wina uliwonse wa O ndi aliyense. Pazaka zotsatira za 14 ndimatha O kokha kuchokera kwa kalulu, ndikulingalira (kapena kuwonera zolaula). Zaka 6 zapitazo ndinaseka kalulu ndipo pamapeto pake ndinaphunzira momwe ndingagwiritsire ntchito dzanja langa, komabe ndimayenera kulingalira kapena kuonera zolaula kwa O. Ndinkangokhala ndi vuto lokhala ndi zibwenzi, ngati ndikanakhala ndekha mwa njira yofananira yogonana ndi woganiza, kotero sindinapezekepo. Sindingathe kudzutsidwa ndi mnzanga. Ngakhale ndinali chifukwa takhala limodzi pafupifupi zaka khumi ndipo mphamvu zake zinali zitatha - koma kwenikweni chifukwa malingaliro anga anangodziwa dzanja langa lokha komanso malingaliro osatheka kukhala gwero lachisangalalo chosangalatsa.

    Chifukwa chake, nditatopa ndikungodzikwanitsa ndikumva kuti ndasweka pamenepo, ndidaganiza zoyesa nofap. Ndinasiya zolaula ndipo sindinayang'anepo kamodzi kuyambira pomwe ndinasiya, zomwe sizinali zovuta chifukwa ndimangoyang'ana kangapo pamwezi ndipo sindinayambe ndazolowera. Ndinali wofunitsitsa kutero, ngakhale kungowonera kangapo pamwezi. Ndinayesanso kusiya MO, yomwe ndakhala ndikupambana nayo, ndikukhala ndi mizere yayitali, koma ndikadakhala ndi sabata yosamvetseka yobwereranso apa ndi apo. Chofunika koposa, ndidaganiza zosiya kuyerekeza zinthu zosatheka kapena zolaula. Malingaliro awa anali atatsagana ndi kukondweretsedwa kwanga ndi chilakolako kwa zaka 14, ndipo ndizo malingaliro awa omwe anali akusokoneza kwenikweni kugonana kwanga.

    Panali nkhani za 2 zomwe zimafuna kutuluka;

    • Mwathupi - ndinali ndi lingaliro lachikazi lakufa. Ndikadangodalira O ngati ndikapukuta clit yanga ndi kuthamanga, kuwongolera komanso kuthamanga. Chifukwa chake ndinali nditasunthika kwathunthu kumtundu wina uliwonse wokhudzidwa ndi ine ndekha, osatinso za munthu wina.
    • Mwamaganizidwe - Ndinali ndimitundu yonse ya PIED ndi DE. Ndikanangokhalira kudzuka kapena kufikira O ngati ndinkakhala ndi malo osangalatsa kapena kuonera zolaula. Palibe kapena china chomwe chinachitika m'moyo weniweni chinachititsa kuti ndikhale ndi thupi labwino, ngakhale nditakhala kuti ndikuchita zachiwerewere. Choncho, O ndi mnzanuyo sizingatheke.

    Umu ndi momwe zapita patali;

    Tsiku 20 + nkhani zodzutsa zinayamba kusintha
    Tsiku 40 + kugonana ndi kukhudzana kumayamba kumva kwambiri zosangalatsa zambiri
    Tsiku 47; ndinali ndi O woyamba kugonana kuchokera m'kamwa - pamalo owongoka pamaso (amafunikirabe kuti azilamulira) - apitilizabe kukhala nazo kuyambira pamenepo
    Tsiku 70 + panthawi yobwerezabwereza, amatha ku MO osaganizira nthawi yoyamba, kuchokera kukhudza yekha. Ndipo amatha O kuchitidwa ndi misala ndi mowongoka mmalo mopweteka kwambiri.
    Tsiku 200 + panthawi ina yobwereza kachilomboka, amatha kupititsa kumalo osakwatirana popanda chilolezo cholumikizira kwa nthawi yoyamba, kuyesa kugonana. Zovuta kuchulukitsa kondomu panthawi yogonana - nthawi zina mpaka kuchuluka kwa gushy
    Tsiku 246 (dzulo!); Ndinali ndi O woyamba kugonana ndi mkamwa ndikugona - Chofunika kwambiri, ichi ndi chiwonetsero choyamba chomwe ndakhala nacho m'moyo wanga komwe sindinali wowongoka / pamwamba, chifukwa chake sindimayang'anira mayendedwe. Chifukwa chake, ndi nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga kuti ndikwanitse kugona ndikumapumula pomwe wina andibweretsera ziwonetsero, osandipatsa chilichonse

    Kumene ndayika 'nthawi yoyamba' pamwambapa, ndikutanthauza nthawi yoyamba, m'moyo wanga wonse.

    Chifukwa chake zanditengera miyezi 8 kuti ndifike pano. Sindingakwanitse O kuchokera ku kugonana kwa PIV monga momwe ndinkakhalira ndisanayambe kuseweretsa maliseche, koma ndikukhulupirira kuti zidzakhala zotheka ngati ndikupitirizabe kuchita izi, monga momwe ndikutha ku MO kumaliseche tsopano. Mphamvu zakuthupi zilipo (zomwe sizinali kale, sindinali wokhoza kuthupi pomwe ndinali PMO'ing komanso zozizwitsa MO'ing nthawi zonse), ndi mbali chabe yamaganizidwe obwezera ku chiwerewere chenichenicho kunja tsopano.

    Chodabwitsa kuti MO'ing sinachepetseko kugonana kwanga kapena kukopa kwa anzanga, kapena kuthekera kwanga kukhala pachibwenzi. Ndinakhalabe wokonda kugonana nthawi zonse zanga za MO. Sindikugwiranso ntchito moyenera. Ndipo ngati munthu wokonda zachiwerewere, izi zimandikwiyitsa kwambiri.

    Ndikoyenera kutchula kuti imfa, PIED ndi DE zonse zimawoneka kwa mwamuna, ndi ziwalo zogonana kunja ndi zoonekeratu. Koma ya mkazi, pomwe zonse ndi zaukhondo komanso zamkati, simungadziwe. Simudziwa kuti pali vuto kwa nthawi yayitali, chifukwa simukuliwona. Ndipo pomwe mwamuna zosoŵa kudzutsidwa kuti ugonane, mkazi satero. Ndimasangalala ndikumva kwa lube, koma ndidakhala zaka 14 ndikudalira chifukwa thupi langa silimayankha. Ndikadakhala bambo, ndikutsimikiza ndikadakhala kuti ndikadasankha izi ma bits anga atasiya kugwira bwino ntchito, m'malo mwa zaka 14 kutsika. Tsopano ndili mu 30 yanga, ndipo ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito 20 yanga yonse ndi chizolowezi cha MO ndikungoyankha ndekha. Nthawi yonseyi samadziwa kuti vutoli linali chiyani.

    Komabe, malangizo anga ndi awa. Ngati zolaula kapena maliseche zimakhudza chilakolako chanu chogonana, kuyankha kwanu kwa munthu wina, kugonana kwanu kapena kuthekera kwanu, tsopano ndi nthawi yoyamba kuchitapo kanthu. Zitha kutenga nthawi yayitali, zitha kutenga nthawi yayitali, kudziletsa kumakhala kosapiririka nthawi zina, ndipo nthawi zina mumayambiranso. Nthawi zina mumamva ngati zilibe phindu, kuti sizikugwira ntchito. Koma izo nditero khalani akugwira ntchito. Mukayesa, ndikudzifumbi nokha ndikubwezeretsanso mutagwa, pang'onopang'ono koma mosakayikira, malingaliro anu azikongoleranso kumbuyo, chidwi chanu komanso kuyankha kwanu kuyambanso kubwerera. Kwa ine, kubwezeretsanso zinthu kunali kofunikira kwambiri pakadali pano, osati kungodziletsa. Ngati ndinalibe wina woti ndisewere naye, yemwe amadziwa mavuto anga komanso wofunitsitsa kuleza mtima nane ndikundithandiza kuti ndiwaphunzitsenso, sindingathe kuchita izi, zomwe ndimagonana ndizokwera kwambiri kuti ndingopita osagonana. Mnzanga, yemwe akuchira PA iyemwini, wandipatsa milomo yabwino kwa miyezi, sabata iliyonse, ndikudziwa bwino kuti sipangakhale chilichonse, koma wofunitsitsa kutero, chifukwa chimandisangalatsa komanso amathandiza malingaliro anga kuphunziranso. Ndimasewera amtunduwu komanso kumvetsetsa komwe kumafunikira.

    Osapachikidwa kwambiri pazinthu zamasiku 90. Sindinakhalepo wokonda zolaula ndipo zanditengera nthawi yayitali kuposa kuti ndikafike komwe ndili pano, ndipo sindinafikire komwe ndikufuna. Ganizirani ngati njira yatsopano yamoyo yomwe ikupitilira, ndipo ingokhalani oleza mtima nayo :)

    Ndikukhulupirira ndibweranso nthawi ina kudzanena kuti ma PIV orgasms anga abwerera :Dkoma mosasamala kanthu, ndikhala ndikupitiriza, chifukwa kugona kumbuyo ndikulandira chisangalalo ndi O pa abwenzi anga nkhope ndizopambana! :)

    LINK - Mkazi - wosakhoza kuchita chiwerewere ndi amuna, yekha - nkhani yopambana mpaka pano!

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