Achinyamata Amagwiritsa Ntchito Zambiri Kuti Apeze Mojo wawo

Kodi kusuntha zolaula, kutumizidwa kudzera mumawebusayiti, kuyambiranso kugonana kwa achinyamata?

Padziko lonse 2006-07, pamene anyamata adawonekera pa webusaiti yathu zovuta zogonana zokhudzana ndi kugonana, nthawi zambiri amachira pambuyo pa miyezi iwiri yopanda zolaula, maliseche kapena zolaula, komanso zolaula zochepa. Ambiri anali asing'anga amakompyuta omwe anali atapeza zolaula zapaintaneti kwambiri patsogolo pa gululo-ndipo kenako anayamba mavuto osagwira ntchito panthawi yogonana kwenikweni. Tidzawatcha "Akale."

Pasanapite nthawi tinayamba kuona zochitika ziwiri zosayembekezereka:

  1. Chigumula cha anyamata achichepere (zaka makumi awiri zoyambirira ndi zaka khumi ndi ziwiri) adayamba ndi yemweyo mavuto a erectile-disfection function. Mwamsanga, iwo anali alendo ambiri ku ulusi komanso masamba ambiri pomwe amuna anali kudandaula za zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso
  2. Achinyamata achichepere ("Obwera kumene") nthawi zambiri amatenga nthawi yayitali (nthawi zina miyezi yambiri) kuti abwezeretse ku mavuto awo. Ndipotu, ena ankafuna kucheza ndi wokondedwa weniweni-zomwe zimabweretsa vuto "nkhuku ndi dzira" mdziko lapansi lokhala ndi zibwenzi.

Oldtimers ochiritsira:

[Zaka 51] Ndili ndi masiku 65 opanda zolaula tsopano ndikuwona zotsatira. Ndakhala ndi ED kuyambira 2007. Zinali zikuipiraipira mpaka Viagra sizinathandize. Ndinayamba kukhumudwa komanso kutaya mtima. Ndakhala ndikufuna mankhwala a ED kwa miyezi ingapo. Ndayesera zonse: kusiya caffeine, DHEA, mavitamini ndi michere, kuonda, kuwonjezera minofu, kuwonjezera mafuta m'thupi, zitsamba. Ndinayamba kuganiza kuti ndiyenera kukhala nawo, kuti linali gawo lokalamba. Ndinasiya kuzizira pa zolaula ndipo sindinaphonyepo pang'ono. Ngati zolaula zimandibera kugonana kwenikweni ndiye kuti sikofunika.

Kuchira kwanga kwakhala kukukwereranso. Koma zosankha zanga m'mawa zakhala zosasinthasintha masabata angapo apitawa ndipo nthawi ziwiri zapitazi ndakhala ndikugonana ndidapeza miyala yolimba yomwe sindinakhale nayo zaka zambiri ndipo ndimayisunga nthawi yonseyi. Ndipo kutulutsa umuna kumabwera mosavuta ndikumverera bwino kwambiri. Kutengeka kwa kugonana kukubwereranso. Pamaso pomwe ndimatha kukhala ndi vuto lokwanira zogonana ndimamva ngati kuti mbolo yanga yatsala pang'ono kufa. Tsopano ndikumva kuti nyini ikutsika pamwamba pa mbolo yanga ndipo imamva Zodabwitsa.

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Wanga ED wapita 90%. Vuto langa laCHIYAMBIRI silinalipo, mwinamwake ndikubwera mofulumira kwambiri kwa iye, koma kugonana ndibwino kwambiri. Ndimadzuka ndikukwera kwambiri m'mawa kwambiri komanso popanda malingaliro kapena kukhudzidwa, imatha kufika ku 20-30 maminiti. Ndili ndi zaka 49 zowonongeka. Ndani akanaganiza kuti boner wanga wachinyamatayo abwereranso! Ubwenzi wanga wapabanja ndi wabwino kwambiri chifukwa chakuti ubale wanga ndi wabwino.

Watsopano Watsopano:

Ndili pa Tsiku 141 lokhala ndi maliseche zolaula. Sindinakhalepo ndi mavuto a ED, koma ndinachedwetsa mavuto okomoka, zovuta zochepa, komanso kudalira / kusowa kwa zinthu zofunika kuzilingalira. Pakadali pano, ndimamva 85-90% ngakhale nditakhala pafupi miyezi 5. Ndidagonana bwino sabata yatha ndipo zinali zosangalatsa. Ndikumva ngati ndikufunikiranso kuyambiranso (ndikuganiza kuti mwina ndikufuna mnzake wokhazikika), koma ndikumva kuti ndachiritsidwa. Kugonana kunabwera usiku kwambiri ndipo patatha tsiku lalitali lakumwa. Ndinali wovuta kwambiri, koma nthawi yanga yochira inali yabwino ndipo zinali zabwino kwa onse awiri.

Nchifukwa chiyani chikhalidwe ichi cha ED?

Ndizotheka zovuta izi ndi zotsatira za chilengedwe cha ubongo wachinyamata wosayenerera Kuthamanga ndi highspeed (mwachitsanzo, kupondereza) zolaula. Kafukufuku waposachedwapa, akuwulula momwe asayansi angagwiritsire ntchito kugonana kwa amayi ndi chiopsezo chapaderadera wa ubongo waunyamata, amachirikiza lingaliro ili. (Zowonjezera pansipa).

Mukuona, a Oldtimers anayamba kuseweretsa maliseche paunyamata popanda liwilo lalikulu. Kutengera zaka zawo komanso momwe adakhalira adayamba ntchito yawo yogonana amuna okhaokha ndi mndandanda, magazini, kanema, zolaula za pa TV, kapena modabwitsa (kwa anyamata amakono), malingaliro awo. Amakhalanso nawo ena kugonana, kapena osakwatirana, ndi wokondedwa weniweni asanagwidwe ndi zolaula zapamwamba ndikuyamba zizindikiro zowonongeka.

Mwachidule, a Oldtimers adaphunzitsa ubongo wawo wachinyamata mosiyana ndi Obwera kumene masiku ano-omwe nthawi zambiri amagonana pogonana pogwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zolaula (zaka zambiri za 10), ndipo osasiya kuzigwiritsa ntchito.

Mwa kulankhula kwina, zaka ndi osati kusintha kwakukulu kwachirendo chachikulu. Kuwonetsedwa kwa enieni enieni asanafike pamwamba ndi. Ananena zaka za 22:

Ndimagonana zaka zambiri ndisanayang'ane zolaula pa intaneti kapena ED. Ndinangoseweretsa maliseche pa intaneti kwa zaka 2.5 ndisanakhale ndi ED ndili ndi zaka 22. Kuyambira pamenepo ndakhala ndikupita milungu ingapo ya 8 yopanda zolaula kapena maliseche. Sindikudziwa ngati ndabwereranso ku 100%, koma ngati sichoncho kwinakwake mu 90th percentile. Ndadutsa zonsezi nyengo yakuda ndi chilichonse. Nthawi yonseyi ndimagonana pafupifupi katatu. Nthawi ya 3 kukhala itatha sabata la 1. Ndine wokondwa kuti ndadutsa zonsezi. Tsopano ndimakonda mbolo yanga ngati munthu, mwina koposa. Sekani!!!!

Nayi Oldtimer:

Ndakhala ndikuyang'ana zolaula kuyambira ndili 13 kapena kuposa (ndili ndi 47 tsopano). Sizinakhale zovuta kwa ine mpaka nditakhala ndi intaneti yothamanga mu 2000. Ndinayamba kuzindikira mavuto akukhala ovuta komanso oyipa akuchedwa kutulutsa. Mpaka nthawiyo ndimakhala ndikutha kutulutsa lamulo. Komabe, nditatha zolaula zambiri ndinali ndi mwayi ndikachoka pa 40% ya nthawiyo. Kugonana ndi mkazi wanga panthawiyo kunayamba kuchepa.

Dziko latsopano lachiwerewere lolimba mtima

Mwachidule, zinthu zasintha. Kuyambira kutha msinkhu (kapena kale), anyamata tsopano amachita maliseche awo onse zolaula pa intaneti. Ena sangalingalire kuti adzafika pachimake popanda izo.

Zikhalidwe zakugonana zotere ndizapadera pakusintha kwaumunthu, koma tisanalongosole zambiri zakukonzanso kwa, ndi sayansi kumbuyo, chikhalidwechi tiyeni tiwone chifukwa chake ubongo wachinyamata ndi wosasamala kwambiri.

Zatsimikizika kuti zathu zikumbukiro zamphamvu kwambiri zimachitika paunyamata. Apa ndiye pamene ubongo wathu umapsa kwambiri kuti tiphunzire zatsopano-makamaka zokhudza kukwatira.

Mphamvu ya wachinyamata wongolerani zatsopano zogonana bowa kuzungulira 11 kapena 12 pamene mabiliyoni atsopano a neural (synapses) amapanga mwayi wopanda malire. Komabe, pokhala wamkulu ubongo wake uyenera kukonzera maulendo ake oyendayenda a neural kumusiya iye ndi zosamalidwa bwino zosankha. Pa zaka makumi awiri, iye sangakhale kwenikweni anatsamira ndi zogonana zomwe zimagwera pa nthawi ya unyamata, koma zimatha kukhala ngati zovuta zakuya mu ubongo wake-osati mosavuta kunyalanyaza kapena kugwirizananso.

Kodi kugonana kwenikweni kumaphatikizapoUbongo wa munthu umadutsa mu magawo awiri a kukula kwakukulu kwa nthenda: imodzi mu utero ndi miyezi ingapo yoyambirira ya moyo, wina pakati pa zaka za 10 ndi 13 - pomwe anyamata ambiri (ndipo tsopano, asungwana ambiri) ayamba kuwona zolaula pa intaneti. Momwemo, panthawiyi nthawi yovuta kwambiri, anthufe timakhala ndi khalidwe labwino la kugonana. Timaphunzira kukonda masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikugwirizanitsa ndi anthu omwe angakhale nawo.

Ichi chachiwiri chokhalira kubwezeretsa chimaphatikizapo kuchulukitsa, ndiyeno kuchotsa ya, neural connections. Pamodzi, majini ndi chilengedwe chosema cha dothi la ubongo wachinyamata. Pamene kugwiritsira ntchito-kapena-kutaya-kumapitirira, ubongo umakonza kachiwiri ndi nyimbo zabwino zokha:

Kalotex imadula maulendo ang'onoang'ono omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito, ngakhale kulimbikitsanso bwino njira zowongoka. Mitsempha ya mitsempha yamakono mu njira zovomerezeka imakhala yosungunuka bwino ndi myelin, kuwonjezereka msanga wa zofuna za mitsempha. Nthambi zing'onozing'ono zomwe zimalandira mauthenga (otchedwa otupa) zimakula ngati mipesa kuti imve bwino chizindikiro cholowera. Kugwirizana pakati pa axons ndi dendrite (synapses) kumawonjezeka pa maulendo amphamvu ndipo imatuluka pa ofooka. Pomaliza pake muli ndi malingaliro, luso, zizoloŵezi, zokonda ndi njira zothetsera zomwe zimayesedwa nthawi. (Dobbs, kugogomezedwa kwina)

M'mawu ochepa, monga achinyamata, timalephera kusankha zosankha zathu-osazindikira momwe zosankha zathu zilili zovuta pa nthawi yathu yotsiriza, ya pubescent, neuronal kukula. Malingana ndi wofufuza Jay Giedd,

Ngati wachinyamata akuchita nyimbo kapena masewera kapena ophunzira, amenewo ndi ma cell ndi kulumikizana komwe sikungakhale kolimba. Ngati akugona pakama kapena akusewera masewera apakanema kapena MTV [kapena zolaula pa intaneti], amenewo ndi ma cell ndi maulumikizidwe omwe apulumuke.

Kodi ndizovuta kuti anyamata omwe ayamba kumayambiriro a mapepala apamwamba akuona zochitika za kugonana pamene akuyandikira / kufika pokhala achikulire? Mwinamwake ayi. Ntchito ya Dopamine, yomwe Zosankha zamagetsi, pamwamba pa achinyamata oyambirira ndipo amatsikira ku kufika pamagulu akuluakulu pofika zaka makumi awiri zoyambirira. Ndipamene anyamatawa amayamba kuzindikira zosatsimikizika.

Zogonana zitha kukhazikitsidwa ... ngakhale mpaka kununkhiza kwa imfa

Ngati mukuganiza kuti inuyo, kapena munthu amene mumamukonda, mwadzidzidzi munayamba kugona chiwerewere, kugwiriridwa ndi zigawenga, zolaula zogonana amuna kapena akazi kapena china chilichonse chomwe chimadzutsa, musadabwe. Mu labotale, wofufuza Jim Pfaus wagwiritsanso ntchito bwino mphotho ya ochita zachiwerewere ku mimba yazing'ono zinyama kukonda cadaverine (kununkhira kwa thupi lotha).

Nthawi zambiri makoswe amapewa kuwola. Ndi chibadwidwe; si khalidwe lophunziridwa. Adzaika mabwenzi apamtima kapena chopondera chamatabwa choviikidwa mu cadaverine. Pfaus anapopera akazi olandila ndi cadaverine, ndikuwayika m'makola ndi ana, anyamata akuyang'ana kutaya makadi awo a V. Zachidziwikire, amunawo adakwatirana ndikutuluka umuna kangapo. Patatha masiku angapo makoswe ang'onoang'ono adayikidwa mu khola lalikulu lokhala ndi akazi onunkhira bwino komanso akazi atanunkhira ngati imfa. Makoswe omwe amakhala ndi cadaverine osakanikirana ndi mitundu yonse ya akazi. Amuna achikulire abwinobwino samayandikira akazi omwe amanunkhira ngati imfa - ngakhale atakhala owopsa bwanji.

Komanso, patangopita masiku ochepa, amunawa adalandira chitoliro cha matabwa chodzaza ndi cadaverine. Iwo ankasewera nawo, ndipo ambiri ankang'amba pa izo, momwe iwo akanachitira ngati chinsalucho chikanakhala cholowetsedwa ndi chinachake chimene iwo amachikonda kwenikweni, monga chokoleti kapena zobisika za m'mimba.

Nanga nchiyani chomwe chikupatsa mwayi alendo obwera kumene lero? Osati anzawo enieni, koma zolaula. Monga momwe makoswe ndi anthu samakondera fungo la mnofu wowola, ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano sakonda kwenikweni iwo akula mpaka. "Ndizovuta."

Dopamine yowonjezera ndi kusintha kwa kukonda kugonana

Pano pali umboni wina wosonyeza kuti zokonda zakugonana zitha kukhazikitsidwanso: Khoswe wamwamuna atha kukhala akukonzekera kuti azikonda mnzanuyo pomenya dopamine. Ndipo sizitenga nthawi yayitali. Ochita kafukufuku adalowetsa makoswe amphongo ndi dopamine agonist (mankhwala omwe amatsanzira dopamine), kenako adamuyika mu khola ndi wamwamuna wina. Makoswe awiriwo amangocheza limodzi tsiku limodzi. (Dopamine agonist watuluka mu kachitidwe pafupifupi tsiku limodzi.) Ofufuzawo adabwereza izi kawiri, masiku anayi kutalikirana.

Patangopita masiku angapo, mwamuna wobwezeretsedwa anayesedwa. Alibe dopamine agonist m'dongosolo lake, adayikidwa mu khola limodzi ndi mwamuna wake wamwamuna ndi mkazi wamwamuna wokonda kugonana (kumbukirani kuti dopamine anali kunja kwa dongosolo lake). Mukuganiza kuti ndondomekoyi inamupangitsa kwambiri? Anayankha mochulukira kwambiri kwa amunawa: zofuna zambiri, kufufuza za chiwerewere, komanso zofuna za akazi-kusiyana ndi khalidwe labwino la amuna.

Phunziro? Mlingo waukulu wa dopamine ukhoza kugwiritsanso ntchito ubongo ndikusintha zokonda zakugonana. Ofufuzawo adanenetsa kuti makoswe amphongo sanali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, popeza sanayese kukweza khoswe winayo. Komabe anali atasinthadi. Momwemonso, kupitiliza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sangathe Sinthani kugonana kwanu, koma zingasinthe mtundu wa zolaula zomwe zimakusangalatsani.

Matenda oyambirira ndi ovuta kuti achotse

Nayi chowopsa chowopsa kwa Obwera kumene: Zoyipa zakugonana koyambirira zimatha kumamatira. Ubongo wachinyamata umakhala pachimake pachimake cha (1) kuzindikira kwa chizindikiro cha dopamine ndi (2) chiopsezo cha kuledzera. Novel, yodabwitsa, yolimbikitsa imatha kugwedeza dziko lawo m'njira yomwe silingakhale ubongo wachikulire. Izi zokhudzana ndi ubongo zimathandizira ubongo wachinyamata. Amaphunzira kutanthauzira zogonana molingana ndi chilichonse chomwe chimapereka mphekesera zazikulu zogonana. Phunziro ili ndi lamphamvu, monga tingawonere kuchokera ku makoswe omwe amasangalala ndimadontho onunkhira a cadaverine.

Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, chiwerewere chimakhala chotsika kwambiri ngati chikuchitika pambuyo Mapangidwe oyenera omwe amatha kukhazikitsidwa. Mwachitsanzo, asayansi adayambitsa mkazi wokondweretsa mwamuna ndipo kenaka, patapita mphindi pang'ono, adamuchotsa kunja. Izi zinamukakamiza kuti apite mofulumira kwambiri kuposa momwe amachitira. Ngati amunawa adaphunzira chitsanzo ichi pazochitika zawo zoyamba zogonana, iwo adagwirizana nawo-ngakhale pamene patapita nthawi analoledwa kupeza mosavuta kwa amayi.

Kuti awone kusiyana kwake, ofufuzawo adaphunzitsanso amuna odziwa zambiri (omwe adaphunzira zogonana munthawi zonse) kuti atuluke msanga, ndikutsitsa akazi patadutsa mphindi. Komabe, mosiyana ndi makoswe omwe machitidwe awo ogonana adakhazikika kuyambira pachiyambi - makoswe odziwa zambiri adabwereranso pamakhalidwe oyenera akaloledwa kufikira mosasokonezedwa ndi akazi.

Kufufuza uku kumagwirizana ndi zomwe timamva kuchokera kwa anyamata omwe akuchokera ku ED. Anyamata omwe adayamba kugonana kwawo pamaso iwo ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti amafuna kokha miyezi ingapo kuti ayambirenso kuchokera ku ED. Anyamata amene adayamba kuseweretsa maliseche kumayambiriro a zolaula amatha kukhala ndi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kapena yotalikira kuti akhale ndi kugonana kosangalatsa.

Achinyamata amasiku ano amaphunzitsa maluso awo akulumikiza ma pixels m'malo mochita nawo zibwenzi. Maphunziro awo sawakonzekeretsa kuti azisangalala nthawi yogonana (kapena ngakhale kugonana mkamwa) ndi wokondedwa weniweni. Zili ngati kumenya mipira ya tenisi kuti musinthe. Anyamata akuphunzitsira masewera olakwika, ndiye (ngati?) Asinthana ndi anzawo enieni ayenera kuphunzira masewera atsopano.

Kukhala zaka zambiri musanapsompsone koyamba pazenera ndi ma tabu 10 otseguka, kudziwa maluso okayikitsa owonera zachiwerewere abambo anu sanamvepo, ndikuphunzira kuseweretsa maliseche ndi dzanja lanu lamanzere sikumakonzekeretsani njira yoyambira, lolani zokha zokhutiritsa kupanga. M'malo mwake, achichepere masiku ano atha kukhala kuti akusowa chizindikirocho mosazindikira, malinga ndi maluso a chibwenzi ndi kuphunzira zakugonana:

(Zaka 22) Kotero, ndimatenga msungwana wotentha kwambiri kubwerera kumalo anga. Ankasuta fodya, koma sindinathe kuyanjana naye. Ndinati ndamwa. Chaka chotsatira ndidalumikizana ndi mtsikana wina wotentha. Ndinali ndi galasi la vinyo lokha koma sindinathe kutero. Zinandipweteka. Ndi atsikanawo zimangomveka zachilendo komanso zopanda chilengedwe. Ndinkakonda kuwagwira ndikukhala nawo, koma panali chisangalalo chokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa ine, zomwe sizowoneka bwino. Ndazolowera kuzolowera zolaula zakale. Ndikudabwa kuti izi zitenga nthawi yayitali bwanji, ndipo ngati zingatheke. Ndikudandaula kuti mwina ndizolimba kwambiri muubongo wanga….

Kodi zikhalidwe zogonana zitha kufotokoza chifukwa chake Obwera kumene masiku ano omwe amachita maliseche okha ndi mapikseli ndi mikangano yovuta amakhala ndi vuto lobwezera kugonana kwawo kwa anzawo enieni komanso atagonana ngakhale atasiya zolaula? Pfaus awunikiranso zakugonana Who, What, Where, When (and Maybe Why)? Momwe Makhalidwe Ogonana Amakhudzira Kugonana, Kukonda, ndi Kuchita akuwonetsa kuti yankho ndi "inde."

Dilbert - DigisexualKufufuza kafukufuku wokhudza kugonana kumatanthauzanso chifukwa chake Oldtimers amene sanayambe kuchita zolaula / kupha anthu, komanso amene anali ndi kugonana kwenikweni pamaso iwo adapanga ED, mofulumira kubwerera kuchitetezo chabwino cha kugonana-ngakhale ali achikulire ndipo mosakayikira alibe kusowa kwa mahomoni ogonana ndi dopamine?

Nkhani ya Seputembara 2015 TEDx ya wachinyamata yemwe amafunikira nthawi yochulukirapo ndikuwunika / kubwereranso kuti athetse zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa ED ndi anorgasmia -

Kuledzera kungapangitse zizindikiro zosayembekezereka

Kukhazikika koyambirira si chiopsezo chokha kwa anyamata omwe amayamba kuthamanga kwambiri. Amuna ambiri omwe ali ndi zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa ED pamapeto pake amafotokoza makhalidwe ndi zizindikiro zomwe zimafala kwa anthu ambiri omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo, monga: kulephera kuyendetsa ntchito, zilakolako, kupitiliza kugwiritsira ntchito ngakhale zotsatira zoipa (kuphatikizapo ED), kuchuluka kwa zizindikiro, ndi zizindikiro zosiya kubwerera. Zizindikiro izi ndi zotsatira za kusintha kwa pulasitiki mu ubongo wawo. Monga taonera, ubongo wa anyamata ndi pulasitiki kwambiri kuposa ubongo wachikulire-kusiya tzimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti zikhale zovuta.

Zowonjezera ziwiri zokhudzana ndi zoledzeretsa akutchedwa deensitization ndi kulimbikitsa, motero. Kusintha amatanthawuza kuyimba kwakanthawi kovomerezera kuzosangalatsa zonse… kusintha koyambira. Ndi kumbuyo kwa malingaliro, "Sindingathe kukhala okwanira". Kusintha amatanthauza hyper-reactivity / chisangalalo-koma kokha poyankha kuzinthu zinazake zomwe ubongo umalumikiza ndi chizolowezi. Ndikumakumbukira kosangalatsa, komwe kumapangitsa chidwi chonyalanyaza.

Pamodzi, kusintha uku Fotokozani chifukwa chake zolaula zimagwira ntchito ndipo mwana wotentha satero. Anyamata ena amafunika miyezi yambiri kuti awonenso ubongo wawo kwa enieni enieni.

Bwanji anyamata zindikirani Kodi zithunzi zolaula zikuwongolera kugonana kwawo?

  1. Zachilendo zapa zolaula zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse zimapangidwa ndi mphamvu, koma yachibadwa, ya aphrodisiac, kotero ogwiritsa ntchitowa akhoza nthawizonse pitani ku zolaula ngati akuyang'ana mokwanira, kapena mopitirira malire, zakuthupi.
  2. Kuwonongeka kwa mphamvu ya erection kumachitika pang'onopang'ono pamene ubongo umachepa kutengera anthu omwe angakhale zibwenzi zawo komanso kugonana. Pakadali pano, saganiza zoyesa kuseweretsa maliseche popanda zolaula, kotero kuwonongeka kwaphimbidwa.
  3. Nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Intaneti kwa zaka zambiri asanayambe kugonana ndi mnzake.
  4. Pakadali pano, ena moona mtima samadziwa kuti amuna amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha-chifukwa atsekeredwa mu zolaula kuyambira atha msinkhu, monganso anzawo onse.
  5. Akakhala kuti satha kuchita zogonana zenizeni, amatha kudziimba mlandu pa chinthu china: mowa, udzu, tsitsi lolakwika kapena khungu la mnzake, kusowa kwa kugonana kumatako, zilizonse.
  6. Upangiri wanthawi zambiri masiku ano molakwika umalimbikitsa kuti zokonda zakugonana sizingasinthe, zolaula zilibe vuto, komanso mavuto a erectile patadutsa zaka makumi awiri bwinobwino komanso zosagwirizana ndi zolaula. (Huh?)

Zimatengera nthawi yaitali bwanji kuti mutengereni anthu enieni?

Nthawi yayitali imakhala yovuta kwambiri, komanso digiri ya ubongo plastiki. Ubongo ndi wosiyana ndipo amachira mofulumira.

Taganizirani za zotsatira zowonongeka mowa gululi la anyani. (Chidziwitso: asayansi anali kuyesa kukhumudwa ndikusintha kwake.)

Mu atatu [nyamayi] omwe amawoneka kuti ali ndi cocaine okha sabata imodzi, [chizoloŵezi chodziwika bwino cha dopamine] chinabwerera kuyambirira, ma ARV mkati mwa masabata atatu.

Nkhani zisanu zomwe cocaine imadzipangira miyezi khumi ndi iwiri anaphunzira panthawi ya kukana kocaine. Nkhani zitatu mwa zisanuzizi zinasonyeza kuti akuchira bwinobwino [chizindikiro chachibadwa cha dopamine] mkati mwa miyezi itatu yodziletsa, pamene winayo nkhani ziwiri sizinafike pakatha chaka chimodzi chodziletsa. Mlingo wa mankhwalawa sunali wogwirizana ndi kudya kwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo pa miyezi khumi ndi iwiri ya cocaine.

Timaganiza kuti Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ndi "yosinthika" kuposa kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo a cocaine, koma palibe yemwe akudziwabe. Panopa timamva kuchokera kwa amuna omwe kugonana kwawo / ntchito yawo sagwirizananso pakatha chaka.

Osati ochenjeza, koma kafukufuku wonse omwe atengedwa pamodzi akusonyeza kuti achinyamata omwe tsiku lina akuyembekeza kusangalala ndi kugonana ndi enieni ayenera kudziwa kuti

  1. zitha kukhala zowopsa kukopa chidwi cha kugonana pazomwe zili zosiyana kwambiri ndi kugonana kwenikweni, ndipo
  2. pamene chiopsezo choledzera sichiri chonse, ndi chenicheni, ndipo zokhudzana ndi zoledzeretsa mu ubongo zingakhale zovuta kuti zisinthe.

Nazi zomwe machiritso amawoneka ngati akuchira amuna

(Zindikirani kuti ngakhale munthu atachira mokwanira kuti azigonana bwinobwino, amatha kuona kusintha kwa miyezi ingapo.)

Munthu woyamba - (Zaka 18) Ndinasiya kuonera zolaula komanso kuseweretsa maliseche (ndinalibe vuto lililonse masiku pafupifupi 124 mpaka nditagonana). Nditangogonana koyamba, zomwe ndidasankha zidabwerera, koma ndinali nditachedwa kutulutsa umuna ndipo ndimangokhala ndi vuto lokhala ndi dzanja mukamachita zogonana. Ndimagonana ngati kuti ndikuseweretsa maliseche. Sindinkaganizira kwambiri za kutengeka. Pakadali pano, ndimamasuka kwathunthu ndikuyang'ana pa mbolo yanga komanso kutengeka. Zinayenda bwino. Ndizatsopano kwa ine ndipo ndinali ndi chiwonetsero chabwino. Zomwe zimafunikira ndikuphunzira momwe mungasangalalire ndi nyini. Ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi maliseche.

Pafupifupi 3 kwa masiku 4 tsopano, ndisanagonepo, ndinadula mbolo yanga pang'onopang'ono, ndikungoyendetsa zala pakhomo. Ndinkangoganizira zakumverera pamene ndikuchita zimenezo. Ndikuganiza kuti zinandithandiza kuphunzira momwe ndingaganizire pa mbolo yanga komanso kumverera. Zinthu zofunika kuti tisiye kuchepetsa kuchepa:

-Kuthandizani: Thupi lanu lonse liyenera kumasuka. Minofu iliyonse, makamaka mbolo yanu. Inu muyenera kuchita izo mozindikira.

-Focus pa chisokonezo: Tsekani maso ngati muyenera. Dziwani zakumverera ndikumverera.

-Chepetsani: Osadzikakamiza kuti muchite masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kutulutsa umuna. Sangalalani ndi sekondi iliyonse pachilichonse. Kukakamiza kumatanthauza kuti simumasuka komanso simukuyang'ana chidwi, koma mukufika pachimake. Ganizirani zaulendo, osati komwe mukupita. Mudzafika kumeneko pamapeto pake.

-Pitilizani: Ngati mukumvabe ngati kuti simuli pachimake, simukuyang'ana. Pumulani, yang'anani, chepetsani, pitilizani ndikubwereza.

Ndakwaniritsa zolinga zanga. Nthawi yoyang'ana ku yunivesite tsopano.

Mwamuna wachiwiri - Ndakhala ndikuseweretsa maliseche pa 1/3 pachaka (osabwereranso kwambiri, ndipo palibe hardcore). Kutengeka kwanga ndi chisangalalo kukukulira. Chitsanzo kuchokera m'moyo weniweni: Nthawi zonse ndimakonda zinthu wamba monga kumvera nyimbo za piyano, kudya mapichesi kapena kumwa tiyi wobiriwira. Koma m'miyezi yaposachedwa chisangalalo chakula kwambiri. Lero kudya yamapichesi m'munda mwathu kunali 'ngati orgasm' (mwachidziwikire sikolimba), koma kwanthawi yayitali. Sizinali zokondeka chabe, koma zosangalatsa kwambiri komanso zokhutiritsa. IMHO ichi ndi chifukwa chake kuletsa maliseche kulipira.

Munthu wachitatu: Mwinanso ndakhala ndikulandila nthawi yayitali kuchokera ku ED yokhudzana ndi zolaula, zomwe zimandivutitsa, ndikukhulupirira kuti tsopano nditha kukhala wolimbikitsira iwo omwe akhumudwitsidwa ndikusowa zotsatira. Choyamba, kupeza mnzake wosagwirizana ndi zomwe zidandichitira. Chisanachitike chisokonezo chonse chomwe ndidachiwona. Kuyambira mwezi wa 7 nditayambiranso ndimakhala ndi wina woti ndizicheza naye, kugona naye, kukumbatirana naye, ndikupsompsona modekha musanachite zogonana. Izi pang'onopang'ono zinandipititsanso. Poyamba ndimangolimba kwakanthawi kochepa ndipo ndimayenera "kuthamangira" kuti ndilowemo, koma nthawi iliyonse ndimayimitsidwa. Komanso kutulutsa umuna msanga msanga kwatsika chifukwa nthawi yayamba-kuchita kumakhala koyenera.

Ndinangogonana katatu usiku umodzi ndi vuto la zero. Sindingakhulupirire kuti ndachokera kutali bwanji ndikuyamba ulendo uno. Panopa ndikuvutika kwambiri ndikupsompsona wokondedwa wanga mosalekeza ndipo ndilibe vuto ndi khalidwe la erection. Ndili ndi zero zokhala ndi maliseche. Ndikutsimikiza kuti libido yanga idzapitirizabe kusintha, komanso zanga zomwe sizinali zofunikira pachiyambi (koma pang'onopang'ono zakhala zikuyenda bwino). Ndi chirichonse chomwe chimatenga nthawi yaitali kwa ine, ine ndikhoza kulingalira kusintha kwa chaka kuchokera pano. Miyezi ya 9 ndipo ine ndasintha kale munthu. Pezani wokondedwa weniweni. Tengani nthawi yolumikizana ndi winawake (osati kungogonana). Ndichidziwitso champhamvu kwambiri chofotokoza. Ndikuyembekeza kuti palibe wina amene amayenera kupyola zomwe ndinachita.

Mnyamata wachinayi: (Oldtimer) Ndinagwira zaka 40 ... ku… .porn !! Ndipo sindinakhalepo ndi vuto la ED mpaka zaka 3.5 zapitazi. Zolaula zomwe zimachitika pa chubu zimabweretsa mavuto akulu, koma sindimadziwa. Ndimaganiza kuti ndi msinkhu, kapena kuti sindili bwino, kapena kunyong'onyeka kapena chilichonse… kufikira nditaphunzira Internet zolaula zimadula ubongo wathu ndipo zimatipangitsa kukhala osamvera kwa atsikana enieni komanso kugonana nawo.

Tsopano, sindinakhalepo ndi chinyengo chilichonse chifukwa choti ndakhala miyezi isanu ndi umodzi opanda ZINA zolaula zomwe tsopano ndikutha kubwerera ku zolaula zomwe sizili pa intaneti. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndaswa kachitidwe kotheratu. Chifukwa chake sindingayang'anenso zolaula zilizonse kuposa kusuta ndudu popeza onse amandibwezera kumalo osuta fodya. Apa pali woponya. Kwa zaka 40 ZONSE ndidasweka m'njira zosakhala za ED.

  • Ndinkayembekezera kuti azimayi onse azichita zonse ndipo samasamala ngati sangakhale omasuka… polira mokweza, atsikana zikwizikwi amachita
  • Ndinkaganiza kuti kugonana kulikonse kumakhala ngati zolaula (zomwe zimapanga zinthu kuchokera kwa akazi ndipo zimachita zochepa kwambiri kuti ziwapatse chikondi, ulemu, ulemu, kukoma mtima, ndi zina zotero)
  • SINDINALI wokhutitsidwa ndi kugonana ndi mkazi aliyense… ziribe kanthu zomwe amachita, kangati amazichita, ndi zina zambiri sizinali zokwanira
  • Ndinawononga maubwenzi ambiri pazimenezi
  • Sindinasangalale ndi moyo wanga wa kugonana
  • Sindinkakhala wosangalala m'mabwenzi chifukwa sindinkawagwiritsa ntchito… sindinkafunika kutero ngati atakwiyitsidwa kapena chilichonse, ndinali ndi zolaula zanga kuti ndikwaniritse zosowa zanga zogonana
  • Kugonana sikunamveke bwino ngati ndili mwana nditangotaya unamwali wanga ... ndikutanthauza, zinali zabwino kwambiri, koma osati zozizwitsa modabwitsa kotero kuti ndimamverera khungu lililonse mkati mwake lomwe limakhudza khungu lililonse pa ine ndi onse ma cell omwe akuwombera magesi osangalatsa omwe amaphulika ponseponse ine… tsopano amatikanso…
  • zinthu zonse zokondweretsa pamoyo (mitundu, nyimbo, kugwira, kukambirana, kusewera, kuthandiza ena, kukhala okoma mtima, kuchitira chifundo kuchokera kwa ena, ndi zina zotero) tsopano ndi zokondweretsa kwambiri kumene kwa zaka zambiri, zinthuzo zakhala zosasangalatsa.

Ndizodabwitsa…

Mnyamata wachisanu: Ku koleji, ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti ndikupanga ED. Poyamba, sindinathe kukhala ndi erection nthawi iliyonse ndikamagwiritsa ntchito kondomu, koma ndimanena kuti makamaka ndimakhala ndi nkhawa komanso / kapena kuledzera. Lingaliro loti PMO ndi ED anali pachibale silinapezeke, ngakhale zili zowonekeratu tsopano. M'kupita kwa nthawi ndinapitiliza kupita kwa PMO kukachita zinthu zowononga. ED idakulirakulira. Sindingathenso kukhala ndi kondomu, wosasamala, komanso ndi bwenzi labwino. Pakadali pano ndidalandira mankhwala anga oyamba ku Viagra. Tangoganizirani momwe ndimamvera ndikutuluka muofesi ya dokotala ndili ndi zaka 24! Zachidziwikire zimangobisa chizindikiro chavutoli, koma zidandilola kuti ndigonanenso. Ichi chinali chiyambi cha nyengo ya 3-4 yomwe imawonetsa zovuta kwambiri m'moyo wanga. Ngakhale ndimakhoza bwino pamaphunziro ndipo pambuyo pake, pantchito, ndinali wokhumudwa komanso wamanyazi. Matenda a ED ali wamng'ono kwambiri anali kundilekanitsa, ndipo ndinalibe zolaula za IDEA zomwe zinali vuto. [Onani positi yake chotsatira chosangalatsa.]

Mnyamata wachisanu ndi chimodzi: Ndakhala ndi ma scans osiyanasiyana (monga MRI), kusanthula kwa cerebro-spinal fluid, kusanthula kwa endocrine, maphunziro owongolera mitsempha (electromyograms), ndidafunsira kwa urologist, katswiri wazakugonana komanso wama psychologist za ED yanga. Palibe m'modzi yemwe adandifunsa za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula. Koma ndinayesa kusiya zolaula. Ndinapewanso kukodzera kapena kuseweretsa maliseche kwa masabata a 7. Ndinakumana ndi munthu sabata 7 ndipo nthawi yachitatu yomwe tidakumana tidangogona pabedi limodzi, tikulankhula ndikukhala pafupi, ndipo ndinali ndi erection yolimba yomwe imatenga ola la 1 ndi mphindi 20 osayima. Zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri osachita chinthu chodziwikiratu koma kungomuseka nthawi ndi nthawi m'malo mwake. Mmawa wotsatira tinakondana ndipo pamapeto pake ndinadutsa m'mphepete ndikukhala ndi gawo langa loyamba m'masiku pafupifupi 50. Zinali zodabwitsa kwambiri, koma ndinatsitsimuka nditazindikira kuti sizinali zopweteka ngakhale ndimamva kuti ndasiyana kwambiri m'maola angapo otsatira (osakhumudwa koma zotere, monga kusungunuka). Ndinasangalalanso kuti zochitikazo zidapitilira masiku angapo otsatira ndikumukonda kwambiri, ndikutulutsa nthawi 3 usiku womwewo pomwe ndidamuwonanso patatha sabata. Ndikuganiza kuti nditha kunena kuti ndachiritsidwa! 

Tikukhulupirira kuti asayansi posachedwapa ayamba kufufuza mwatsatanetsatane za zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu azichita zachiwerewere, komanso chiopsezo chapadera cha ubongo wa achinyamata. Pakadali pano, ndi labotale yanu. Pangani zoyeserera zanu.

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