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Imithombo yeendaba yanamhlanje ilinganisa "isini esivumayo" kunye nokuzondelela i-orgasm. Ngokwale fomyula, okungakumbi ii-orgasms esizifunayo, ukuhambisa okanye ukuthengwa, kokukhona "sinesondo". Oku kwenza i-Intanethi yamanyala kunye nezinto zokudlala ngesondo, ezinokubanakho ukongamela inkanuko yesini esiqhelekileyo ukuze sikwazi ukuba ne-orgasm xa kungenjalo singenako ngenxa yokuhlutha, ezona zinto zininzi "zesini-ezakhayo" kuyo yonke imbali yoluntu. Okanye ngaba kunjalo?
Le nkcazo "yokwabelana ngesondo" ixhomekeke ekungaqondisisini ngendlela yokuvuselela ngamandla Yimpendulo yovuyo Ingqondo yomntu. Iyaphulukana nezipho zotshintshiselwano ngefowuni, kunye nokuchukumisa komntu ukutshintshiselana kunye neqabane elithembekileyo. Ngenxa yokuba uchuku olunothando kunye nolwalamano oluhlala luhleli ngokuqinisekileyo lunxulunyaniswa nokwanda kwempilo entle, oku kushiyekileyo kulusizi ngokukodwa.
Ngenxa yezizathu ezile Intliziyo yendaleko, Ubuchopho bethu buphendula ngokugqithiseleyo kwiinguqulelo zokutya kunye nezesondo ezinamhlanje, ezifana nokutya okungenamsoco kunye ne-intanethi ye-intanethi. Hayi, Kaninzi ayiyo bhetele kuba ezinye iingqondo; yona zibenza babathande. Yiyo loo nto uninzi lwethu lutyebile kwaye / okanye ngokucoca iifreyimu zethu-ukanti siziva singonelisekanga kunanini na. Ukubuyisela kwakhona abasebenzisi benkonzo yamanyala abachazayo ngamava abo ngokuzithoba:
Khawufane ucinge ukuba ubuku-rollercoaster egqithileyo iminyaka eli-10 ngqo. Emva koko wehla kwi-rollercoaster kwaye kufuneka wenze ngokujikeleza kwindawo yokudlala yabantwana. Emva kweminyaka eli-10 yokukhwela kwi-rollercoaster, awuzukukwazi ukufumana naluphi na uhlobo lwe-buzz kulwakhiwo olulula. Uye waziva ungenantlonelo. Iphonografi yonakalise uxabiso lwam kunye nokuphendula kwizenzo zesondo eziqhelekileyo, kunye nokuhambisa amalungu esini kwi-porn kuye konakalisa ubuntununtunu bam lobudoda ukuze ukubethwa kothandiweyo kungabonakali. Yayiqhele ukutywatyushwa ngesando sentsimbi kangangokuba xa kwakufikwa ukukhatywa ngosiba, andizange ndiqaphele. Ngaphandle kokuba ndive into enzima kwaye inzima, ayibhalisanga.
Ukuziva ndikhathazekile ngokweemvakalelo kuyo yonke intombazana endikhe ndathandana nayo kwandenza ndazithandabuza. Oku kwakhokelela ekubeni ndikrokre ukuba ndiyintombazana. Andiyo. Emva kokuba ingqondo yam iqalile ukuphilisa, ndaba nomdla ngakumbi kuwo onke amantombazana.
Ibhayoloji hayi isimilo
Kwakude kudala ngaphambi kwe-Intanethi, utata wesayensi yanamhlanje walumkisa ngokuqhawuka komtshato. UAlfred C. Kinsey walumkisa wakhe Umfoti uClarence Tripp ukuba, "Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba sikufote ngefesini yonke imihla kwaye ujonge isondo ekunene, ekhohlo nakwiziko, kungekudala akukho nto iya kukujikela, akukho nto kuloo ndawo, akukho nto iya kukujikela. Ngenxa yokuba uya kuphulukana nayo yonke le mvakalelo. ”
Ngesizathu esinye, uKinsey ucebise abasebenzi bakhe ukuba “Yilumkele i-sadomasochism kuba umzimba womntu uhambelana ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ke amanqanaba eentlungu anokunyuka ngokukhawuleza. ” [UJames H. Jones, Alfred C. Kinsey, WW Norton & Company (1997): 610] Ngelishwa, uninzi lweengcali zanamhlanje zilibele izilumkiso zikaKinsey, ezazisekwe kumava akhe. Bafundisa kuphela, "Ukuba uziva ulungile, yenze ngakumbi."
Enyanisweni, nangona kunjalo, ukungafuneki kwezinto kunempembelelo enkulu namhlanje. Okukhona abanye abantu bethembele kwi-cyber erotica, kokukhona beziva ngathi banesidingo sokufikelela kuvuthondaba, kunye nezinto ezibaxekileyo abafuna ukuzenza umsebenzi. Kwabaninzi, amaqunube nawo aya esiba buthathaka. Ukunyuka nokunyuka kokungasebenzi kakuhle kolutsha ziimpawu zokubonisa ukuba umntu uphazama ngengqondo engaqondanga ukuba uzonwabisa ngokufihlakeleyo.
Ndathengisa i-porn kwi-Intanethi ngaphezulu kweminyaka ye-10. Ukonakalisa ubudlelwane kunye nokundikhokelela kwindlela emnyama yokusebenzisa kakhulu. Ndaphelelwa lithemba. Ndikhumbula xa ezinye izinto zazingahambelani okanye ubuncinci. Ezi zenzo ngoku ziyinxalenye yeyona mveliso iphambili.
Ukwahlulwa komgangatho yinkqubo yokulutha ehambelana nokuhla kokuziva uziva dopamine. Nora Volkow MD, UMlawuli we-NIDA, ucacisa:
Xa ubuchopho buye buthi cwaka kwi-dopamine, buye buye buthathaka ngakumbi kwizinto ezikhuthaza indalo ezifana 'nokuzonwabisa ukubona umhlobo, ukubukela imovie, okanye ukuthanda ukwazi okuqhubela phambili. "
Ngelishwa, iziyolo ezingonwabisiyo ngoku zihlala zibandakanya iimvakalelo ezinomvuzo zokuchukunyiswa komntu kunye nokusondelana, kunye nokuthembana. Le yindlela ukukhuthala okugqithisileyo okunokuphazamisa ngokungathanga ngqo kwizimo zethu zangaphakathi zesibini sokuthandana-kubangele ukungoneliseki kwimanyano.
Ukungazinzi kubudlelwane bakho ngenxa yokusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-porn ayisosiphene somlinganiswa. Kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba kukhuthazwa kakhulu ngokomzimba Utshintsho kwingqondo yakho. Oku kunokuba yinto kancinci kancinci, kodwa kwabanye, ukumiliselwa kwe-pornspeed ye-porn yinto yokujika kwesigqibo sokuguqula ngokupheleleyo:
Iphonografi ephezulu yatshintsha yonke into. Ndaqala ukuhlaziya i-masturbating ngaphezu kweyodwa ngosuku. Ukuba andiziva ngathi ndifuna ukuphulula amalungu esini, kodwa ndifuna ukukhulula uxinzelelo okanye ukulala, iphonografi yandinceda ndavuka. Ndazibona ndijonga iphonografi ngaphambi kokuba ndilale nomfazi wam ngenxa yokuba ebengenakukwazi ukundenzela yona kwakhona. Ukuchithwa kwexesha elidlulileyo kwakuyinkathazo enkulu: andisayi kuphinda ndenze i-orgasm kwisini somlomo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndibe nobunzima nge-orgasm kwisini. Ndiyidlwengula emva kokulala ngesondo nomfazi wam ngenxa yokuba andinakukwazi ukuphuma ngenye indlela, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukukhwabanisa akuzange kusebenze. Nje ukuba ndiphelise iphonografi kwi-equation (ebingakhange ibe lula), ukuphindaphindana kwam i-masturbation kuye kwehla kwaye ubomi bam besini baphucuka.
Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba abo babekade bengabasebenzisi banokuyibuyisela umva le nto yokungafuneki. Banika ubuchopho babo ukuphumla ekuvuseleleni ngokwesondo rhoqo (ubumnandi bezesondo, ukuphulula amalungu esini, i-orgasm) kunye nokubaleka ukubukela iphonografi. Inzima. Uninzi lwamava eeveki zokungonwabi, okwethutyana iimpawu zokuhoxiswa, ezinje ngokutshintsha kweemeko zangaphakathi (ukungakhathali, ukuxhalaba, ukuphelelwa lithemba, ukungakhathali, ukulala ubuthongo, ukudinwa, ukuchama rhoqo, ukuthanda kakhulu okanye intsholongwane yeflat, njl. I charted his ups and Downs.
Ngokonwaba, ukubuyisela abasebenzisi kwakhona kuhlala kuphendula ngakumbi kulonwabo nokuba kungekabikho zimpawu zokurhoxa kwaye hypersensitivity kwimifanekiso engamanyala yeka:
Emva kweentsuku ezingama-34 ndazivavanya. Ndiyakwazi ukuhlambalaza i-orgasm ngaphandle kokucinga malunga nantoni na okokuqala ebomini bam. Kwaye ukulungiswa kwenyuka rhoqo kwaye kunamandla. Kwangelo xesha bendisazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba inkqubo ayikagqitywa okwangoku.
Yintoni elele kwelinye icala lokungahambi kakuhle? Nantsi into exelwe ngamadoda njengoko ubuchopho babo babuyela kuvakalelo oluqhelekileyo kulonwabo:
[Umntu ongatshatanga kwiminyaka yakhe yama-30] Njengoko umzimba wam uchacha, isondo sele liziva liphindwe kabini kunangaphambili. Iyahlekisa into yokuba ukwehla kuye kwahamba kancinci kangangokuba khange ndiqaphele ukuba isini siphulukene nayo yonke "I-WTF YENZEKE NJE?" imvakalelo. Ibuyile.
Ndihambile nomhla izolo nenenekazi endithandana nalo, xa ndalibonayo andinayo enye ingcinga ngaphandle kwa ”WOW! Lo mfazi yeyona nto intle endakha ndayibona ”bendinomdla wokwenene kuye, ebenganxibanga nempahla yokunxiba okanye ebonisa ubuqaqawuli, kodwa ebemhle njalo.
Akakhangeleki njengabafazi obabonayo kwiimagazini okanye kwiindawo ezingamanyala, kwiinyanga ezili-12 ezidlulileyo andicingi ukuba ngendimfumene enomtsalane. Ukuzilahla kunye nobunyulu kuyakutshintsha kwaye kukuvumela ukuba ubone umtsalane wokwenyani kubo bonke abantu basetyhini Wayemhle
Oku kuphuma kubo bonke nina fapstronauts kubudlelwane okanye emtshatweni. Into efanelekileyo ongayenza ukwenza umfazi wakho ukuba azive enqwenelekayo kuwe, kukungabikho emgodini omnyama ongapheliyo we-intanethi. Ukuhlala kude ne-masturbating kwaye umbone ukuba uyintoni.
Akasayi kulwa kwiligi yokhuphiswano olungenakwenzeka. Inoveli engapheliyo kunye nazo zonke iikink kunye nokujija. Uyakhuphisana kwihlabathi lokwenyani kwakhona. Awusayi kuphinda ubalekele kumhlaba omnandi. Kuya kufuneka uyisebenzele. Mbonise indlela omxabisa ngayo. Menze azive ethandwa. Kwaye uya kuyenza. Kuba uya kujongeka emangalisa ngandlela zonke. Intombazana yam ishushu
[Nditshatile, ndineminyaka engama-50] Andizange ndicinge ukuba ndine-ED… ndakwazi ukulala ngesondo nomfazi wam. Mfana, ngaba ndiphosakele! Ukususela ekubuyiseni kwam, ukulungiswa kwam yindlela enkulu, igcwele kwaye ide kwaye intloko ivulekile. Umfazi wam uphendula sihlandlo ngasinye. Ndiphinde ndihlale nkqo nasemva kwe-orgasm, kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndingayigcina ixesha le-loooong. Umthi wam wakusasa ukhulu kwaye ugcwele. Ndivele ndihlikihle kwaye ndihleke ntsasa nganye, ngoku ukuba ndiyaqonda ukuba bendinayo i-ED kwaye ndibanjwe kumlutha wam ukuba ndiyifumane. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ndingu-50, nangona ndikwimo entle yobudala bam kunye nokuphila okucocekileyo. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba uyakufumana uvakalelo lobudoda bakho luphucula konke kukodwa. Ndolukile (ndinqwenela ukuba andinguye). Ubuntununtunu bungcono kakhulu kunokuba ndikhumbula njalo. Ukuchukumisa okulula kakhulu ngumfazi wam uziva womelele kakhulu! Ngoku, emva kweentsuku ezingama-68 zokungahambisani nokuhlambalaza iifoto zam zifana nabaselula!
[Ukujonga ukutshintshwa kwezinto ziqhelekile kakhulu.] Ndandidla ukutya kunye nabahlobo bam kwaye ndafumanisa ukuba ividiyo yintombazana endiyifunayo kwiyunivesithi kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo yathunyelwa kwi-site enkulu ye-porn (i-3 ephezulu, kodwa akukho mfuneko yecandelo elithile ). Sasisondele kodwa ndadibana naye amaxesha ambalwa. Ibikukuba abe neentlobano zesini nomntu athandana naye owayengayichazanga kodwa akukho ndlela yakhe yokwazi ukuba ngubani owenze loo nto.
Ubomi bakhe bonakele. Wonke umntu uyazi malunga nevidiyo kwaye unemibono engaphezulu kwezigidi. Le yila magunya alezi ziza ezonakalisayo. Khawufane ucinge bonke abantu beyi-jerking kule vidiyo yentombazana iyazolala ilale ubusuku ngabunye ngenxa yobukho bayo.
Endala, iguqulwe, mhlawumbi ndiza ku-PMO kuyo, kungekhona nokuba ndilale. Kodwa kule Veki ye-3 yeveki, nje loo nto iyandicaphukisa. Ukucinga ukuba akukho nto angayenza malunga nokuziphulaphulwa ngokupheleleyo kungengomntu oyilayishileyo, kodwa yonke ihlabathi le-fucking.
I-NoFap ingaphezulu kokuzinceda, amandla amakhulu, ukunyanga umlutha, kunye nokuzimisela. Umbutho awudingi i-pornography. Sinceda ekupheliseni ukusetyenziswa kakubi nokuxhatshazwa kwabantu kula mavidiyo angcolileyo kufuneka abhekane (nokuba ngokuzithandela okanye ngokungafunekiyo). Kwixesha elizayo xa ucinga ngokubuyela kwiimvakalelo, cinga ngendlela le ntombazana urhalela ngayo ukuba ungafuna ukuzibulala ngenxa yeyona vidiyo uyisebenzisayo yemizuzu ye-10 yolonwabo. Into enqabileyo yenzekile namhlanje.
[Ubudala 26] Ngobusuku bokugqibela ndalala ngesondo kunye neqabane lam kabini ndaza ndafikelela kuvuthondaba ngawo omabini la maxesha! Ndiye ndaye ndaxhamla ngokwenene ukususela ngomhla we-28 [kungekho noononophala / i-masturbation]. Emva kokuba siqale ukumanga kunye nokuphathana, andizange ndibambe umnqweno wokungena kuye. Yaziva yendalo. Ubuntununtunu kwilungu lobudoda bam buyele ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye ndiyabona ukuba kuninzi okuzayo.
[Ubudala 21] Ndiyakwazi ngokunyanisekileyo ngoku ukuba i-porn iyona ngxaki kubudlelwane kule mihla. Ukwabelana ngesondo nentombi yam kwathatha ngaphezulu kwenyanga, kodwa ixesha lahamba ngokukhawuleza kuba ndandonwabela ukuxhoma nje. Ukubamba nje intombazana akuzange kunqamleze ingqondo yam njengokonwaba ngaphambili. Xa uphulula amalungu esini yonke imihla, kunye okanye ngaphandle kwe-porn, uyalahla amandla akho okuzalwa ukuze unxibelelane nabantu besini esahlukileyo. Ndiqinisekile nge-100% ngoku. Ngaphambi kokuba ndihambe kwiintsuku ze-100 ndandinokungabaza malunga neenzuzo zokuyeka i-porn, kodwa ngoku ayide iwele engqondweni yam njengomsebenzi obalulekileyo.
Ukuya kuthi ga ekulalaneni ngesondo, bendibuza ukuba kufuneka ndilale naye okanye ndilinde kancinci. Emva koko ndafumanisa ukuba naye ufuna ukulinda kuba undikhathalele. Ngokwendalo ndiyithathe kancinci, kwaye besibambene ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba sithathe isigqibo sokwenza. Ndinqwenela ukuba wonke umntu olapha angabinakho ukuphumelela ngokwesini kuphela, kodwa notshintshiselwano olunomdla phakathi kwabantu ababini abakhathalelanayo. Saye saqhubeka nokuqunjelwa emva kokuba sigqibile (omabini la maxesha). Khange ndikwazi ukonwaba malunga nexesha lam lokuqala.
[Umtshato, i-52] Ndinamashumi eminyaka ye-porn iphantsi kwebhanti yam (ukuya kuthetha). Khange ndijonge nakuphi na ukubuka iphonografi okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini phantse iiveki ze-4, kwaye yonke into endinokuyithetha kukuba utshintsho luyinto enkulu. Ngale ntsasa, ndivuke ngenye ye-erections ebaluleke kakhulu endakha ndanayo. Umfazi wam waphawula, kwaye wayenomdla ngokwaneleyo ukuba aninike iBJ enhle, yonke phambi kwe7 AM! Ngaphambi koku, andinakukhumbula ukuvuka nje ngale ndlela, ngaphandle kokuba ndandiselula. Ngaphezu koko, lo mvakalelo wawunzulu kakhulu, ungcono kakhulu kunalo naluphi na ukhululo lwe-porn endikukhumbulayo. Ngelixa ndandifumana esi sipho simangalisayo, akubangakho mfanekiso mbi ubonakalayo phambi kwam!
Ndandijolise ngokungqongqo kuye, kwaye yayilelinye lamava amyoli endakha ndawifumana ethubeni. Nditshonile! Oku kuqinisa inkolelo yam yokuba andinakuze ndiphinde ndijonge iphonografi. Ekugqibeleni, ingxaki yam ye-ED iya kuba yimemori. Kwezinye iinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-4, andikwazi nokucinga ukuba ndiyakuba phi, kodwa iya kuba yindawo engcono kakhulu kune "Pornoland."
Ndineminyaka engama-30 ubudala kwaye eli lixesha lokuqala ndithandana. Ndilwa ne-pmo phantse unyaka i-streaks yam ilungile ekugqibeleni ndiqala ukwenza sth ngobomi bam. belele othandweni ngethuba lokuqala ebomini bam abadala.
Ngokuphathelele kwiziphumo, umbono wam ngabafazi uphuculwe kakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuba ndingaze ndijonge / ndisebenzisane nomfazi okhangayo ngaphandle kokucinga ngesondo sakhe, phantse rhoqo. Rhoqo ndinokuthi kamva ndihlaziye nabo engqondweni, ndibaqinise aba 'bafazi njengezinto zesini' ingxaki. Ngoku kulula kakhulu ukucinga ngabo njengabantu abaqhelekileyo.
Ixesha elide nangona ndingacaphuka kakhulu yiyo nayiphi na imithombo yeendaba nangaluphi na uhlobo lokuthanjiswa. Izibhengezo, imiboniso bhanyabhanya ekwifilimu nakumabonwakude, nditsho nemidlalo yevidiyo enabantu ababhinqileyo abelana ngesondo kakhulu. Kwaye nabafazi abanxibe ngokunyanisekileyo ebomini bokwenyani bangandicaphukisa. Ndikuthiyile ukuziva ngathi ndiyaphathwa, ndinyanzelwa ukuba ndizive ngento ethile ngaphandle kolawulo lwam okanye imvume. Kuya kufuneka ndijike okanye ndivale ukuze ndingacaphuki kakhulu. Ngokuthe ngcembe umsindo waphela, kwaye ngoku ndiyakonwabela ubuhle obuncinci okanye ukuthamba kancinci ngaphandle kokuwela kwiqela leemfesane zesini eziphazamisayo kwaye ndiyonwabele nje ukuba iyintoni, into enomdla ukuyijonga. ikhonkco
[Ubudala 24] Malunga neeveki ezintlanu emva kokuyeka iphonografi / ukuphulula amalungu esini, ndalala nomhlobo wamabhinqa; ukuma kotywala ngobusuku obunye. Nangona ndibethelwa ngesando, ndaziva ndihluke ngokupheleleyo ngesondo. Ndandinomdla kakhulu. Yaziva ingcono; Kwaye ndavulwa ngakumbi kwaye andinaxhala malunga nokusebenza, okwakusoloko kuyinkxalabo enkulu. Bendizonwabela nje. Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa ndiza kufaka ikhondom, ndiyaphuma ndize ndihambe, kodwa oku kwakungeyona ngxaki ngeli xesha.
khangela Ubomi bezocansi ngcono.
[Utshatile, 42] Ukungakwazi ukuthemba umzimba wakho ukukuxhasa xa ufuna ukuzibonakalisa kwiqabane lakho kuyingozi engqondweni. Ukuphinda uve umzimba wakho uphendula ngaphandle komzamo ususa intetho yakho kunye nokuthandabuza kwaye kukukhulule ukuba ugxile kulowo umthandayo. Kum, olo nxibelelwano lunentsingiselo lwenza ukuba isondo neqabane lakho lidlule nje ekuphulula amalungu esini. Ulusu lwam luyondondla kakhulu kwigalelo lomfazi wam kunokuba kudala. Ii-Orgasms zomelele ngakumbi. Baziva bhetele. Ukwabelana ngesondo kubeka kwakhona indlela esempilweni, yesiqhelo kunye neyokonwaba yendalo eyayilahlekile kum kwiminyaka yam yamanyala. Okukhona ndiphumelela kwaye ndigcina ulwakhiwo ngokucinezela nje kunye nokubamba umfazi wam, umntu otyhafileyo ilizwi lokuthandabuza malunga nokusebenza ngokwesondo, kwaye kwangoko nangakumbi kwaye kuyamangalisa impendulo yomzimba wam.
[Umyeni, 37] Umvuzo weenyanga ezi-4 ezingekho kwi-porn kuye kwaba bubomi obuphuculweyo ngokwesondo kunye nomfazi wam, kwaye emva kweminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu sikunye, lowo ngumvuzo omkhulu. Ukubetha ngesondo "se-vanilla". Kubonakala ngathi ndiziva ndingaphezulu kunangaphambili. Ndiva imvakalelo engakumbi ngokwasemzimbeni evela kwilungu lobufazi okanye emlonyeni wakhe. Ngaphambili, kunqabile ukuba ndivele kwi-BJ. Ukulibazisa ukubambezeleka ayisiyongxaki kwakhona. Kwaye i-ejaculation ngaphambi kwexesha ayikhange ithathe indawo, ngombulelo. Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndilawula ukuvusa kunye ne-orgasm ngoku, kunokuba ndenzayo xa ndihlupheka nge-libido ephantsi kunye nezinye izifo zesondo. Ixhala lakudala liqala ukubonwa kukuhlala usenza ukuthanda uthando kunye nomfazi wam.
Xa ndifake lonke ixesha kukukhutshwa nje ngenxa yokuba ii-orgasms zifunxa. I-orgasms endandinayo [ngelixa ndandingakwazi ukuphulula amalungu esini kwaye ngelixa besabelana ngesondo lokwenyani zazingakholeleki. Ndilibale ukuba ungaziva njani ngesondo lokwenyani.
(Usuku 125) Ndibudlelwane obude, kwaye ndiyakwazi ukufakazela ukuba ukuyeka ukunceda ubomi bethu bobulili. Kakhulu. Senze hayi ndine-ED okanye i-PE okanye naluphi na olunye uhlobo lweengxaki ezinxulumene nezesini ukuqala ngazo, kodwa xa kuthelekiswa nezinto esinazo ngoku, ubomi bethu bezesondo ngelixa ndandifota ... ngca. Ngoku akukho nto iphosakeleyo, kwaye sobabini kunye ne-gf yam sinee-libidos ezinamandla ngoku kunangaphambili. Andiqinisekanga ncam ukuba - okanye ukuba - ukuyeka kwam kuchaphazele njani apha libido, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo unomdla ngakumbi kwisondo ngoku :).
[Ubudala 50] Kule minyaka idlulileyo, ndacebisa umfazi wam imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo ngokuthe ngqo kumabali amanyala. Wayelungile kwezinye zazo, kodwa zange yaneliseke kwaphela. Nangona sasinempilo efanelekileyo yesondo xa kuthelekiswa nabantu abaninzi abakwiminyaka yethu, bendisoloko ndithelekisa iimeko ezingamanyala nobomi bam bokwenyani kunye nomfazi wokwenyani kwaye ndiziva ndingonelisekanga. Ngoku, izinto ziyatshintsha. Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo izolo ebusuku, ndaziva ngesiquphe ndisondele kakhulu, phantse ndithandana kakhulu, ndinxibelelana ngokunzulu endingazange ndibone ngaphambili. Ndeva ngathi kuyothusa kum. Kwakumangalisa ngendlela endingenakuyichaza, kodwa ndikwimo yokoyika phezu kwayo. Iziva yoyikekayo.
Abo bangenababambisene nabo bayaqaphela inzuzo kwakhona:
[Ubudala beminyaka engama-20] -Ndingu kuyintoukuba nemvakalelo yokwenene yomnqweno kunye nomdla kubafazi kwakhona. Okwethutyana bendibuza imibuzo ngesini sam. Ayikuko ukuba bendinomdla emadodeni, kodwa bendingenawo tu umdla kubafazi. Ndibona izinto ezithandekayo zabasetyhini ngakumbi nangakumbi. Nditsho ndanomnqweno wokubancamisa. Intsha kakhulu loo nto kum. Andizange ndive ngayo iminyaka. Ndathetha ngokufutshane nomnye umfundi kwaye ndabona ukuba unamehlo amnandi. Andizange ndiqaphele ezo zinto ngelixa ndisebenzisa iphonografi. Kwakhona, andisacingi malunga nemiboniso engamanyala "eneenkwenkwezi" ezinokuba ngamaqabane okanye abafazi endibaziyo. Ndizama ukungacabangi, kodwa xa umntu engena, ngoku ngumntu wokuqala, umntu ngamnye, kwaye akukho nto ikinky okanye engaqhelekanga. Ukuhlaziya.
[Ubudala be-19, isitabane] Xa kufikwa kubudlelwane, andibathandi abantu rhoqo, kwaye bambalwa kakhulu abantu abanokugcina umdla wam ngaphezulu kweeveki ezi-3, ubuninzi. Oku kunokubonakala kungathandeki, kodwa nangona ndibukele iphonografi… andikaze ndibenomdla wesini. Ngapha koko, kukho ABABINI abafana abaye bakwazi ukuthatha umdla wam kunye nokuwugcina. Nangona kunjalo, ndicinga ukuba i-porn / i-masturbation yayicinezela umnqweno wam wokuba kunye nabo. Ngobusuku bokugqibela, ngequbuliso ndafumanisa ukuba ndiyabathanda abo babini, kwaye ndazibona ndonwabile ngokupheleleyo kubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo nokuba kubini. Ngesiquphe yangathi… intliziyo yam ibifikelela. Idk, kwakungaqhelekanga. Endaweni yokuphupha, umzimba wam wawunje, "Masihambe siyenze le nto ebomini." Andiyiqondi ncam, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba yinto elungileyo. Ndiyazi nje ukuba ngequbuliso ndaziva ukuba eli gagasi likhulu lokutsala okothusayo-uhlobo lwamandla lonyuka ngaphezulu kwam. [Wakhawuleza waqalisa ubudlelwane nomnye wabo.]
[Ubudala be-20, usuku lwe-67 akukho noononophala] Ndihlala ndihlobo lohlobo oludinga intombazana rhoqo kwaye kodwa engazange ifune enye. Kodwa ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isizathu namhlanje ndiziva ngokwahlukileyo. Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndingaze ndihlale ndizibophelele kumfazi ngokupheleleyo, kodwa andikwazi ukunceda kodwa ndiziva isidingo sokudibana kunye ... Nokuba oko akuthethi ukuba uyathandana nentombazana kodwa ubuncinci usondele kuye … Ukudlala, ukumanga, ukuqhekeka iziqhulo, ukuncuma, ukujonga nzulu emehlweni akhe, ukusebeza ezindlebeni zakhe, ukudlala ngentamo yakhe, njl njl.... Akufuneki ukuba kukhokelele kwi-f * cking kodwa ndiyazikhumbula ezo mvakalelo. Andizange ndicinge ukuba iphonografi inokundenza ndide ndibeke umnqweno wokuba ndingasanqweneli ezo mvakalelo zisondeleyo kude kube ngoku.
(Usuku lwe-31) Andizange ndive ndithandwa ngakumbi kumfazi wam kwaye kungekhona nje ngesondo kodwa nangokomzwelo. Andikwazi nje ukufumana ukuhlala naye, ndiyamkhumbula xa engekho apha - utshintsho olukhulu ekuzonwabiseni ukungabikho kwakhe kuba oko kwakuthetha ukuba ndikwazi ukukhululeka nge-PMO - kwaye ngelo xesha andiyiva imfuneko ukwamkelwa kwakhe kwakhona: kunzima ukuyicacisa le nto kodwa ngokusisiseko andikaze ndizive ngathi ndingazenzela izigqibo zam kwaye andikaze ndizive ngathi ndingazenzela izinto, ndiya kuhlala ndicinga ukuba 'ndiza kuyenza le nto kuba uNksk. NMRN ufuna yenziwe 'okanye' andizukuyenza le nto kuba iya kufumanisa. ' Ngoku ndiyazenzela izinto. Ndizimele ngakumbi kwaye ndithembekile, nangona engakhange akhankanye, ndinokumxelela ukuba uyathanda kuba sihamba ngcono kakhulu.
(Ubudala 17) Ndaqala ukuhlaziya i-masturbating xa ndandineminyaka eyi-13 ubudala kwaye andizange ndibuke emva. Ndiza kuthi ndifake ubuncinci kanye ngemini kule minyaka ingama-4 idlulileyo. Undiphange ndaziva uthando, umonde, ulonwabo, kunye nokubulawa kweemvakalelo. Ngoku ndiyakwazi ukuthetha namantombazana ngokulula kwaye ndixhalabele abafazi ngokubanzi. Ekugqibeleni iyavakala ukuba yonke into enxulumene nolwalamano isebenza njani ukuba andikaze ndibenomnqweno wokuba ne-SO.
Nditsho nje, akukho PMO wenza izimanga kubudlelwane. Ndiye ndaxhuma yonke imihla ukususela kwi-gf yam kunye kunye kunye (malunga neminyaka eyi-1.5) kwaye ekubeni ndiqalise i-nofap, ukuxhamla kwethu kwimoya akuzange kube ngcono. Ndiyamqonda njengokuba ndingazange ndibekho ngaphambili kwaye ndinendlela yokuzithemba ngakumbi. Ungene ngaphakathi kum kwaye ebethandana kakhulu kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ngokubanzi, ndiziva ngathi uyathandeka ngakumbi kum kuba ndinokuzithemba ngakumbi, ukuziqonda kunye nobuntu ngakumbi. I-Nofap nentombi eshushu (uSuku lwe-50)
[Ubudala 30] Ukuqalisa kwakhona ngokuqinisekileyo kwandilethela ekhaya ukuba thina bantu singabantu bezentlalo. Iidemon zingakukhohlisa ekubeni ukholelwe ukuba unelisekile ngokuhlala wedwa wedwa, kodwa kuyimfundiso. Xa i-pornography ingekho emfanekisweni, ngokukodwa xa uhamba ungabi nantoni, uya kutshutshiswa ukuze udibanise nabasetyhini bokwenene.
Ibali lam: I-Porn-Love, Secrets and Self Hatred
Ndisafuna ukulala ngesintombazana kunye nangaphambi kokuba ndiqale i-nofap - ngaphezu koko, nokuba kunjalo. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, lo mnqweno uye waba yinxalenye encinci yazo zonke izinto endizifunayo kubudlelwane. Indlela endibona ngayo ngoku, ukubona amantombazana njengezinto zesini kuthetha ukuba ufuna okuncinci. Kude nokubuza kakhulu kubo ngokuzalisekisa iminqweno yakho, ubuza kancinci. Ubomi bukhulu kakhulu kunokwabelana ngesondo, kwaye amantombazana anokukunika ngakumbi ngakumbi kunelungu labo lobufazi. Ukufuna isondo kuphela kubonakala ngathi uyazikhohlisa ngokwamava obomi anokunika.
Ke phezolo ndibhale ngeposi ebusuku malunga nesilingo sokuthetha nam. Nokuba ndilele ndingakhange ndinikezele. Hayi ukuba ndingene kwiinkcukacha ezininzi, kodwa ezinzulwini zobusuku umfazi wam uyangqiyama kwaye aqale ukundiphuza… Kukhokelela kumava amangalisayo asondeleyo. Ndaziva ndimthanda kakhulu kangangokuba andizange ndizive ngaphambili… ndandingamthandi HER not some idea of what is sex is like, just her. Emva koko, endaweni yokuziva ndingonwabanga okanye ngathi kufuneka ndicoce (umkhwa we-fap) siye salala apho saza sathetha. Kwakuhlala kunzima kumfazi wam ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo emva kwesondo okanye ngokwenene. Kodwa phezolo ndiye ndamazi ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Hayi ibingenguye umntu ophambene kwindawo ezininzi, iiyure-ubude zeF * festive ibingenasono kwaye iyanelisa! Ke nina nitshatile abafana kunye namantombazana: izinto ziya kuba ngcono ke qhubekani. Kwabodwa okanye ukuthandana, mhlawumbi thatha isondo lesiseko kwaye ixabiso lazo linokunyuka engqondweni nasemzimbeni wakho. Okokugqibela kuye wonke umntu: amandla emfihlo yimfihlo; nje ukuba lubhenceke, alusenamandla… abafileyo balo. Isenokuba buhlungu, kodwa ujongana nokubulawa kolu tshaba lwakho. Nonke nibahle abantu nokuba aniyiboni loo nto. Ukulala ngesondo somtshato wam
Ubudala be-30 + okwangoku kubudlelwane…. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, isondo sasingenayo imvakalelo, kwinqanaba elithile kwakunjengokuba kwakungekho mntu apho ngenxa yokuba wawusekhanda lakho lonke ixesha ngesizathu esinye okanye esinye (ukucinga, imiba ye-DE, njl.). Amantombazana amantombazana phakathi kwe-20 ukuya kwi-30 yokuqala ayivusanga naphi na kufutshane ne-porn-speed enikezelwayo, nokuba ijongeka kanjani ilungile. Andiziboni ezi zinto ngelo xesha, kodwa okoko ndiqale olu hambo ndibulela i-YBOP, kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo ze-4, ndingatsho ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ndiyothuka ukuba isini esilungileyo sinokuba njani nentombi yakho xa ususa rhoqo, Umzekelo ozinzileyo we-PMO. Akuthathanga xesha lide xa ndenza ipateni yokutshintsha yonke into. Andikho entlokweni yam ngelixa ndabelana ngesondo, ndingagxila kwintombazana endithandana nayo kunye nayo yonke into emenza abenomtsalane… .naye inkwenkwe yintoni umahluko! Ndithumela le yeyabafana abancinci phaya… .Ukuba bendinenzuzo yokwazi oku xa bendikwiminyaka yama-20, ngubani owaziyo ukuba yintoni enokwahluka ngoku?
Andisenasazela. Akukho nto ndifuna ukuyifihla kwakhona kwaye oku kuziva kulungile. Ndiziva ndikhululekile, xa ndichitha ixesha nentombi yam. Ndifumana kwakhona ibhoner kwakhona ngelixa ndimphuza. Kuyamangalisa oko, kuba khange yenzeke oko sasihlangene kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo. Ndivakalelwa kukuba, ekugqibeleni ndingamthanda ngendlela efanele ukuthandwa ngayo.
(Iintsuku ze-200) ngoku ndine-sex drive engenakuphikwa. Ndifuna umfazi wam kunakuqala. Ukuba ixesha elide lidlula ngaphandle kwesondo, ndiziva le nto ibizwa ngokuba 'kukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo' ekubonakala ukuba yinto yokwenyani!
Kumava am nge-nofap, ndide ndafika kwinyanga enye (okwesibini), kwaye bendijongene nemiceli mngeni. Ndalala ngesondo lokwenyani, ndinomfazi wokwenene (kwaye mhle kakhulu) kule veki iphelileyo. Oku kwavusa umnqweno wesini ngaphakathi kwam, ndaza ndaqala ukujonga iphonografi kwakhona; akukho fapping, kodwa iphonografi. Into endandiqala ukubethwa kuyo yayikukungxama, imvakalelo yokunqwenela ngamandla kunye nomnqweno wenyama. Ndaphinda ndabethwa neli chiza. Khange ndifake. Ndavala ikhompyutha yam, ndaza ndalala. Ndivukile kusasa namhlanje, ndaphinda ndenza le nto yenzekileyo: ngelixa phezolo, xa bendisiva ukukhawuleza, kwaye ndonwabile ngokwasenyameni, bendingavukanga kangako ngale ntsasa. Ndathi xa ndiyicima, ndaza ndenza indlela yam yesiqhelo yasekuseni, ndaqaphela into: Ndaziva ngathi ndifile ngaphakathi kwakhona. Ukuhamba ngemini yam, bendiziva nditsaleleka kakhulu kubafazi abandijikelezileyo (bekushushu kakhulu mva nje kwaye amantombazana ebenxibe iziketi, iitanki, kunye nelokhwe), KODWA ndiye ndabona uhlobo lomgangatho ongaqhelekanga nolungenguye Emva koko wandibetha, nantsi umahluko: xa ndalala nomfazi oyinyani, emva kweentsuku ezingama-29 zokungajongi iphonografi okanye ukufota, ndavuswa ngokunyanisekileyo, nangaye. Ngoku, emva kokumiswa kumlilo wamanyala, ndavuswa nje, kwaye aba bafazi kwenzeka ukuba babekufutshane nam. Ukutshiswa ngaphandle kwe-dopamine, iimvakalelo eziqhelekileyo zonxibelelwano ezaziza kuza kumphezulu xa ndijonga emehlweni omfazi, xa wajonga emva kwam wayehambile. Ukuzingela kwam kukuba abantu basetyhini banokuyiva le nto, kwaye ndicinga ukuba le yeyona nto "iyothusayo" abantu basetyhini abathetha ngayo ngamanye amaxesha baziva ngathi yindoda, nkqu nezo zibonakala ngathi zilungile. Into ethile icinyiwe, kwaye abanako ukubeka umnwe kuyo (nangona ndiqinisekile ukuba abanye bayakwazi). Xa abantu ababini abaziva benomnqweno okanye benomdla omnye komnye befumana ukudubula okufanayo kwehomoni, kubangelwa lulindelo kunye nokudubula kwee-neurons zesipili, ngoku musa umlilo kumntu omnye. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba yimfama, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ndiyazibuza ukuba mangaphi amaxesha ndijonga umfazi onokuthi afumane umtsalane kum, kodwa ngubani oziva into engathandekiyo ibuya kum, ingekuko ukungaziphathi kakuhle kuphela, kodwa engaziphathi kakuhle kwaye enokuba nochuku . Andikwazi ukucinga nantoni na enqabileyo kunale. Iposi yangaphambili
Izolo ndihamba nomhla wokuqala nale ntombazana bendincokola nayo kwi-Intanethi. Sasinokufana okuninzi, sahleka itoni, sabaliselana amabali ahlekisayo, kwaye ndalahla ngokupheleleyo umkhondo wexesha. Sigqibe ukufumana iziselo ezimbalwa emva koko sahamba saya epakini ukubukela ukutshona kwelanga ebhentshini. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ndiye ndambeka ngengalo yam ngelixesha sincokolayo wandinyonyobela. Emva kwemizuzu embalwa ndiye ndamjonga, ndancuma ndamncamisa. Ukukhawuleza okukhulu kwe-dopamine kwandibetha kanye emathunjini azive esempilweni, kwaye umhlobo wam ebhlukeni lam naye wavuka kwi-23 day nap yakhe. Emva kokumshiya ndiye ndaqonda ukuba andinakulinda ndiphinde ndimbone kuba bendonwabile ndichitha ixesha naye.
Ukuhamba ekhaya ndabona ukuba ngenxa ye-NoFap ndifuna ngokwenene ukumazi kakuhle kwaye ndichitha ixesha kunye naye ngaphandle kokulindela ngesondo okanye i-orgasm ekupheleni kwam.
Ndingacinga ukuba umzimba wam uye waxhatshazwa kwi-dopamine ekubeni ndiqalise ukuhamba esikolweni esiphakathi kwaye kungenxa yokuba andizange ndive ngale ndlela ngaphambi komntu. Yinto enjengomsindo wam engqondweni yam ukuba le yintsingiselo evamile abantu abaninzi baye bafumana ngaphambili, kodwa andizange ndiyenze. Hayi kwakhona! Oku kuqonda ngam ngokwenza ndive ngathi lo.
Ndisebudlelwaneni obuzinzile kulo lonke ixesha kwaye ndibone inguqu enkulu kwindlela endisondela ngayo ixesha lethu elisondeleyo. Ngelo xesha, kum, laliqhelekile ngezinto ezilodwa: ukukhangela kwam amatye. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwakumnandi, kodwa kwakungekho umahluko phakathi kwendlela eza kucinga ngayo ukuba ndikunye naye okanye ukuba ndenza oko ngokwam. Kwakungekho nje ngeemvakalelo zeekhemikhali eziza kunye nokukhululwa. Kalokunje, kuba nguye umgca wam kuphela wesenzo socansi, utshintshe yonke into. Ukubandakanyeka kuloo mava kuye kwaba ngakumbi ngaye kwaye ndichitha ixesha kunye. Ukwenza into kuphela yena kunye nathi esinokuyenza. Kuye kwinto eninzi engokwenyama, eninzi kakhulu, kunye nokuzonwabisa ngakumbi.
(Usuku 90) Ubuhle kubasetyhini -Izinto zokuqala endazibonayo xa ndiqala umceli mngeni wam we-nofap, yayikukuba umkhwa wam ombi wokubona ubuhle kuphela kwabasetyhini buye batshintsha ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba bamkele kwaye bavulekele phantse kuwo nawuphi na umfazi endikhe ndadibana naye. Okwangoku ndifuna ukuphuma ndiye KUFUMANA iqabane kum. Umnqweno wam wesini awukaze uphakame, kwaye ndiye ndaqala ukuba neliso elibukhali kwabafazi abanokuba ziintombi ezilungileyo kwaye ekugqibeleni babe ngoomama abalungileyo. Ayisiyiyo kwaphela ngobuhle bayo kwakhona.
Ndihlala ndimthanda umfazi wam kodwa ndine-PMO'ed kuyo yonke iminyaka eyi-8 yokuba kunye. Ulwalamano lwethu lomelele kakhulu, lomelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba lusinde kule nto kodwa ngoku izinto ziyamangalisa kakhulu phakathi kwethu. Yonke into ikwi-steroids. http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2e7u17/you_know_whats_nice_about_abstaining_from_pmo/cjwvs5b
Ukuyeka kukwenza "uqonde ukuba ayizizo zonke izinto ebomini ezilula". Ngapha koko, ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini zinzima kakhulu, kodwa ukuba uyakwazi ukuzibamba, unokuqiniseka ukuba ungazenza nezinye izinto.
Ngaphambi kokuba ndiqonde ukuba i-porn yayiyingxaki, ndandicinga ukuba ndifuna ukufumana iminqweno esempilweni. Ngoku, phantse iinyanga ze-8 emva kokuyeka iphonografi, ndifumanisa ukuba iminqweno endandikade ndinayo ingabheneli kum kwakhona… kwaphela. Ngokwenyani ndizifumana ndiziva ndigxadazeliswa ngumbono wazo. Kuvela ukuba, andiyifuni iminqweno esempilweni, bendifuna ukuyeka iphonografi. Siphila kwinkcubeko esikhuthaza ukuba sibe nemibono, sabelane ngayo ne-SO yethu kwaye siyenze kunye. Kodwa into endiyifumeneyo kukuba mna nomfazi wam sinandipha isondo ngakumbi xa kungekho nto imnandi ibandakanyekayo; sisobabini nje ngalo mzuzu. Ngoku ndiyakwazi ukwenza uthando kuye ngaphandle kwemicimbi ye-erectile, ubuso ngobuso ngokuqhagamshelwa kwamehlo. Undixelela ukuba ukonwaba kwakhe ngesondo kunye nam kubhetele kakhulu kunakuqala; Ewe kunjalo sifunda ukuba kunye kwi "Karezza Way", kwaye oko kuyanceda kakhulu. Le yayiyinto endandicinga ukuba andinakuze ndiyiphumeze, kodwa ndiyenzile. Konke okuthathayo yayikukunika ingqondo yam ikhefu kuko konke oko kukhuthazeka; ukuyikhusela… ukugcina impendulo yam yenkanuko kuphela kumfazi wam. Kufanelekile.
Ndihambile nomhla izolo nenenekazi endithandana nalo, xa ndalibonayo andinayo enye ingcinga ngaphandle kwa ”WOW! Lo mfazi yeyona nto intle endakha ndayibona ”bendinomdla wokwenene kuye, ebenganxibanga nempahla yokunxiba okanye ebonisa ubuqaqawuli, kodwa ebemhle njalo.
Akakhangeleki njengabafazi obabonayo kwiimagazini okanye kwiindawo ezingamanyala, kwiinyanga ezili-12 ezidlulileyo andicingi ukuba ngendimfumene enomtsalane. Ukuzilahla kunye nokusulungeka kukutshintsha kwaye kukuvumela ukuba ubone umtsalane wokwenyani kubo bonke abantu basetyhini
Ibhonasi ngaphandle kwazo zonke izibonelelo ozibonayo apha rhoqo kukuba amantombazana owabona rhoqo anomdla ngakumbi kwaye mhle. Ngelixa ndandijonga iphonografi intombazana eqhelekileyo endiyibonileyo (kubandakanya imifanekiso / iividiyo / kunye nobomi bokwenyani) yayishushu ngakumbi kunamantombazana amaninzi endandiza kuwabona emini. Ke umlinganiso wam wento eyi-1-10 yayinzima kakhulu xa kuthelekiswa noko ngoku. Andisekho ukubamba amantombazana kwimigangatho engakhange ifezekiswe ziinkwenkwezi ezingamanyala. Ngoku ndinemigangatho eyiyo ngakumbi. Ukufumana amantombazana rhoqo kunomtsalane kuye kwenza ukuba inani lamantombazana amahle endinxibelelana nawo mihla le lenyuke. Oku kundinike ukuzithemba okungakumbi.Ukwanakho nokukhulisa umbono obanzi ngakumbi nowokwenyani wento oyifumana intle kumantombazana. Ngelixa ujonge iphonografi uyakwazi ukufumana kanye le nto uyikhangelayo xa uchwetheza into kwindawo yokukhangela. Kodwa le ihlala iyinto enye iphindaphindwe kuba yile nto ucinga ukuba uyayithanda. Oku kuqinisa uluhlu olunqamle kakhulu lokuthandwayo kwabasetyhini. Ndiqalisile ukufumana izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo malunga nabasetyhini abahle ngaphandle kweedonki ezinkulu kunye neets. Ulusu oluthambileyo, inani elincinci, izinto ezininzi. TL; DR: Abafazi bokwenene baba bahle ngakumbi.
(Iintsuku ezingama-30) Ukufumana uninzi lwabafazi abanomtsalane kunye nokuchitha ixesha elincinci kugxila ngengqondo kumalungu abo omzimba. Endaweni yoko, ndizifumana ndizibuza ukuba lithini ibali labo… bathanda ntoni / bathini ntoni… kwaye bafuna ukubazi. Ukungazichaphazeli kwi-bat kunye nokubeka isondo kwi-backburner. Kwixesha elidlulileyo bendiya kuthathela ingqalelo uninzi lwabasetyhini kwi-par-par kwaye ndigxile kwiimpazamo zabo, kodwa kwezi ntsuku ndiyaqonda ukuba ndinazo iziphene kwaye ke nabo bayakwazi ukuzibona.
Ndifikelele kumhla we-7 we-nofap, owona mde endakhe ndawenza, i-horny njenge-piss kunye nomnye wabahlobo bam abade baphelile. Siqala ukulala ngesondo kwaye mna nje. Andifuni tu. Andizazi ukuba ndingubani njengomntu okanye ndifuna ntoni, kodwa ndifunda into endingayifuniyo nendingeyiyo. Sisiqalo.
Umntu otshatileyo apha. Ndigqibezele iintsuku ezingama-30- KUNYE NOKUTHANDA iziphumo ...
Okokuqala, imvelaphi ethile. Ndiye ndibe ngumntu othe tye xa ndikhumbula. Xa ndatshata iminyaka emine edlulileyo, ndathemba ukuba imfuno yam yoononophala ayayi kuba khona. Kodwa akukho. Ibiyi. Ndandixelele ukuba imifanekiso engamanyala ayizange ibuhlungu umtshato wam. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, ndayeka ukwenza ininzi yeentlobano zesini kunye nomfazi wam. Kwaye amaxesha athile engazange ayenze, wayebonakala engathandekiyo. Ngoko ke, kunyaka odluleyo, ndiza kuthi ngomyinge sasilala ngesondo nje ngeeyure eziyi-2. Kwaye ndalungile. Iidemon zazingcima. Emva kokukhubeka kwi-r / nofap, ukubukela iividiyo ze-youtube, nokufunda amaqashiso kunye namanqaku akho amaninzi, ndagqiba ekubeni ndinike le nto kwaye ndibone oko kwenzeka.
Ngoku indlela endicinga ngayo ngamantombazana yahluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye ekubeni ndicinga ngamantombazana i-180 ngokwahlukileyo kwaye ngendlela esempilweni nothando ngoku, iphonografi yahlukile ngoku. Iphonografi ayisenzi nto kum. I-Porn iyamangalisa ngoku. Ngenxa yokuba andicingi ngesondo ngaloo ndlela ngoku. Indlela endiyicinga ngayo kwaye ndicinga ngayo ngamantombazana ngoku i-TON eyahlukileyo kunendlela yokubuyela emva. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba oku kuncede ngokumangalisayo iziyobisi zam. Ukujonga nje ngesondo ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Iziphumo zize zine-BLOWN AWAY yonke into endiyilindeleyo. Ngomhla we7, ndazibona ezinye iinguqu ezinkulu.
- Amanqanaba endlu yam umfazi wenyuka waya kuphahleni.
- Ulusu lwam luye lwacaca kunokuba luke lwaba khona. Iphantse ikhanya. Kwinqanaba apho abahlobo bandincome khona kwesikhumba (okwakubonakala ngathi sibuhlungu)
- Ndaqala ukufumana amandla amaninzi kwaye ndingazivumi njengento elukhuni emini.
- Ndabona ukunyuka komkhiqizo emsebenzini
- Ukusebenza kwam kubonwa ngcono kwaye ndaqala ukuvakalelwa kukuba ndenza ukuphumelela okukhulu emzimbeni.
Nangona ezi zinzuzo ziqhubeka, phakathi kweentsuku ze-20-28, ndaqala ukuziva ndinomnqweno onzulu wokubukela iphonografi kwakhona. Ndaqala ukuvakalelwa ngathi mhlawumbi "ndifumene phezu kwayo" ngoko kuya kulungile ukujonga kwakhona. Damn ubuchopho. Into eyangenza ndingaphinde ndibuye ndibuye ndibe nethemba lokufikelela kwi-Day 30 kwaye ndithumela malunga nale ndawo. Yaye ndiyinto endiyithandayo ukuba ndiyenze.
Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa zezinto eziphambili zokufikelela kwi-Day 30:
- Ngobusuku bokugqibela, ndandidla ngesondo esithandanayo nomfazi wam ndiye ndawafumana. Andikwazi ukugcina izandla zam kuye ngoku. Ndabuya ekhaya ndisuka emsebenzini kwaye ndamthabatha ngokoqobo ndaza ndamphonsa embhedeni wethu kwaye ndinobuqhetseba, ngesondo esichukumisayo. Ubundlobongela bam obutsha obuthatywayo bubuyisela njengento ephosa!
- Kwakhona, uqhubeka echaza indlela emangalisayo kunye nomzimba wam okhangelekayo ngoku. Kwiminyaka emine yomtshato, akazange athethe le nto kum. Nangona ndenza into efana nayo ngaphambili, ukususela ekubeni ndiqalise r / nofap, ndiye ndichithela umsila kunye nesakhiwo sokwakha njengomshini. Oku kukuhle kum umzimba wam uzivelele ebomini bam bonke.
- Ndiye ndikhululekile kakhulu kunye nam kwaye ubuninzi bexhala lentlalo endandisoloko ndayinayo. Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndivele ndenze i-aura yokuzithemba nokubonakala ngoku. Yaye ivakale.
Ngoko, unayo! Ndiyazi ukuba akuyi kuba lula ukuqhubeka le streak kwaye ukuba isilingo sokuphinda sibuyele kwakhona siya kuba khona, kodwa ngoku ndiqhutywe yintoni impembelelo emihle engenziyo ebomini bam, kwaye ndivuya ukuze uqhubeke! Ndiyabulela wonke umntu kulommandla, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba le post iyakhuthaza abanye abatshatileyo abatshatileyo ngaphandle!
TL / DR: Utshatile kodwa u-PMO'ing. Ukugqitywa kweentsuku ze-30 ze-nofap. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nomfazi ngoku ucinga ngengqondo.
Isilumkiso - Ukusika i-porn kunokuba yindlela enye, njengoko le ndoda yafumanisa xa iphinde yazama iphonografi kwakhona:
Ukuzinkcinkca ngotywala bekungonwabisi njengoko bendilindele. Ngethuba lokuqala, ukuba kwimeko yombono ndiziva ndiphosakele kwaye ndihlobo lokugula. Kwakuhlala ndiziva kuyinto eqhelekileyo kum kuba ndingumsebenzisi wexesha elide. Ngeli xesha, ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphandle komxholo / uqhagamshelo waziva ungaqhelekanga kwaye kugqwethiwe. Ngoku andinakucinga ukwenza loo nto ebomini bokwenyani, ukuba nje nomfazi ahlala apho ngaphandle kwemvakalelo evula imingxunya yakhe phambi kwam. Ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona ndaziva nditsaleleke ngakumbi kubafazi xa bebonke. Ngoku, ndinokuzicingela ndikhangele kwiso lomfazi kwi-orgasm kunokuba ndigxile kwimingxunya yakhe eyoluliweyo ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Ukubuyisela ubudlelwane obuvumelanayo
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ngexesha lokulutha kwezesondo, akunakwenzeka ukuxhuma ngokuthandana. Uvele nje uyingxenye yakho kwaye uyitshise. Mna Ngeveki ezintandathu zokuqalisa kwam kwakhona, kwaye okokuqala kwiminyaka eyi-5 okanye eyi-6 ndiziva ndiziva ngathi ndinxibelelana nomntu obhinqileyo xa ndithetha naye buqu. Ndiyaqaphela zonke izinto endandiqhele ukuzibona xa ndandisemncinci, kwaye ngaphakathi ndiziva ndinomdla onje ngoku wokusondela kuye, ujonge nzulu emehlweni akhe, uncume njl.njlkhe andinakukwazi ukujonga umfazi emehlweni ukuba ixesha elide, ungaze uncume! Ilunge kakhulu.
Uwusebenzisa njani umnqweno wethu wesondo ubonakala ngathi unefuthe elinamandla kwindlela esiwuva ngokukhwaza ngayo inkqubo yethu yokubopha. Ngokungafaniyo nathi, ookhokho bethu bebengaqhutywa ngokungapheliyo, inoveli yokubonwa kwezinto ezingamanyala ukuya kufikelela kuvuthondaba oluqhelekileyo. Babenethuba lokuvumela ubuchopho kunye nemizimba yabo ukuba iphumle kwaye izihlaziye.
Ukubuyela kwengqondo kwi-homeostasis phakathi kwe-bout ye-passion kungaphenduka ibe sempilweni kakhulu kwabo bafuna ubudlelwane. Okukhona ubukrakra bengqondo kukonwaba, kokukhona sinomvuzo ngakumbi xa siqonda ubudlelwane bethu obusondeleyo.
Ndamjonga phezulu amehlo ethu atshixiwe, emva koko wancuma ngokufudumeleyo, kwaye * BOOM *, ndaye ndalufumana olu thando lwamakhemikhali ndanyusa umqolo wam nasemva kwentloko yam. Ndabuya ndancuma, kunjalo. Uvakalelo lwalusemzimbeni, lubambekile, kangangokuba luyandimangalisa. Kwangoko yandenza ndaziva ndonwabile kwaye ndinethemba. Andikhumbuli ndichatshazelwa luncumo okanye ukulujonga. Kuyamangalisa nje. Ukuhamba ekubeni ndindisholo, apho kuphela imifanekiso yezesondo eyoyikisayo neyothusayo ebangele impendulo kum, ukufumana imvakalelo elungileyo kuloncumo olulula kunye nentlanganiso yamehlo ... yiyo loo nto yenza ukuba yonke le nkqubo ikufanele. Ukuphilisa i-ED okanye ezinye iingxaki ezinjalo yibhonasi eyongeziweyo. Ukuziva uphila kwakhona kulapho ikhoyo ngoku!
Ukuba kaninzi kakhulu i-orgasm iguqula uvakalelo yobuchopho okwethutyana (kwaye kubonakala ngathi iyakwenza oku kwezinye iingqondo), ke iyavakala ukuba xa siyigqithile, iqabane lethu alikhangeleki lishushu-de ingqondo ibuyele kwi-homeostasis. Ingxaki kukuba, enkosi kwi-hype yanamhlanje yokuba "okungcono kungcono," umsebenzisi we-porn osindayo ongenakulindeleka akanakukuqonda ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni ade abethe udonga. Oku kunokukhokelela kulwalamano olungenamsebenzi kulwalamano olusenyongweni.
Njengoko amadoda acatshulwe ngasentla ayeke ukuvuselela i-intanethi ye-intanethi, ukuzonwabisa kokusondela ngokuthe ngcembe kukhula ngakumbi kwaye kuyanelisa. Kubo, "ukulala ngesondo" ngoku kunentsingiselo entsha, kwaye kukhokelele ekubonakaliseni okunengqiqo. Omnye wabo uthumele le ndinyana ilandelayo ivela kuViktor Frankl “Ukukhangela komntu kwiNtsingiselo":
Ngaphezulu umntu uzama ukubonakalisa ubulili bakhe besini okanye umfazi wakhe amandla okufumana i-orgasm, ngaphantsi koko bayakwazi ukuphumelela. Intswelo kukuba, kwaye kufuneka ihlale, i-side-effect okanye i-product-product, ize ibhujiswe kwaye ichithwe kwinqanaba elenziwe ngayo injongo.
Ngaba uFrankl angaba ulungile? Ngaba ukusebenzisa kwethu ubundlongondlongo kwezixhobo zesondo kungonakalisa ulonwabo lwethu? Ukuba kunjalo, uthini malunga nokuphinda uchaze "isini esivumayo" ngokwemiqathango yolonwabo novelwano kunokuba ubuninzi nje?
- Imifanekiso engamanyala nje encinci ingenza umahluko omkhulu. Funda I-Fructose ephezulu yeSiraphu yeSonka, ngo-Athol Kay
- uhlaziyo: UDkt. Oz Ubonisa i-erectile i-dysfunction ye-porno eyenziwa ngo-Januwari 31, i-2013
Ukulingana:
Umdlalo ushintshile, kwaye unomdla ofanayo ngoku.
Ngobulumko
isilumkiso: esi sithuba sihle kakhulu, kodwa ndilapha. Ndiyathemba ukungoneliseki kwam kunye nokuqiqa kwam kuya kuvuselela kwaye kukhuthaze utshintsho kwinqanaba elikhulu.
Ndicinga ukuba indibaniselwano yezinto, kodwa inkcubeko yethu itshintshile ngokubhekisele kwezesondo, ukuthandana, kunye nokuba umntu unokufumana ntoni. Ukuba awuqapheli, uninzi lwesini lwenzeka ngaphandle komxholo wobudlelwane; yinto eqhelekileyo. Oko kuthetha ukuba amantombazana anabafana abafuna ukulala nabo ngaphandle komtshato, ngalo lonke ixesha. Kunzima kakhulu ukubamba intombazana, kwaye ukuze uyenze, kuya kufuneka wenze umzamo omkhulu wokukhuphisana nezinye i-alphas. Nokuba ungumntu osemgangathweni ophethe izinto ezininzi eziya kuye, kulula ukukhohliswa, kwaye unokuqonda ukuba amantombazana akazinikelanga. Enye indlela yokubeka kukuba abafana abafunwa kwakhona. Kuya kufuneka bajike babe ngoomatshini bokhuphiswano olungenanjongo ukuze bakholise intombazana konke konke. Bafuna ukutshutshiswa, kwaye abayiniki nto ngawe ukuba awukho, ngalo mzuzu, unika loo nto. (ngethemba siza kufumanisa ukuba kutheni ngomzuzu)
Ndiyindoda ekhangeleka kakhulu-kwinqanaba eliphezulu, nkqu. Ndinqwenela iintsuku apho umntu okrelekrele kwaye mhle akhangeleka esenza umsebenzi onesidima, inethiwekhi yokuncokola, kunye nentombazana esemgangathweni apho kukho ukusondelelana nothando. Umdlalo wokuthandana nokuba ngokwenene intlalo iphelile; konke akusekho kukuleqa umsila kunye nokuziphatha okuchasene nentlalontle. Kufana nokuzithoba kunye noononophala kunye nokuziphatha kakubi ngokokude siphumelele.
Siya kuba ngcono ngakumbi xa samkela amaxabiso enkcubeko kufutshane nezinto ezikhoyo kumazwe athandanayo anjenge-Italiya, njl njl. Banesini eshushu kodwa ayibobulwanyana. Inkanuko kwaye isondele. Ungathetha ngokwenyani ukuba intombazana ofuna ukulala nayo, kwaye uyayithanda! Nangona inyaniso ingaba ishintshile ibe yindawo engamaMelika.
Kananjalo ndiyaqonda ukuba uninzi lwabantu luwela ngaphandle kwale migaqo. I-Reddit inexabiso elingaphezulu kwe-non-duschy-wanna-be-alphas. Kodwa i-reddit ikwahlala ikhutshelwa ngokwesondo (ngaphandle kweGone Wild, kodwa la mantombazana ubukhulu becala ngekhe awubambe umndilili ophakathi).
Mhlawumbi into yokuba amantombazana afuna Mka yingxaki kwasekuqaleni. Iphonografi yile ikhuphe eli rhamncwa, ukuba uyandibuza, kwaye akuyi kuba lula ukuyibuyisela engxoweni, ukuba ikho. Wenza njani iphonografi uyabona ukuba amantombazana afumana ukubonwa ngesondo. Amadoda azuza ukuxabiseka ngokwazi kwawo. Siyazuza ntembelo ngokuziphatha ngokwesini, kodwa kungabi nantlonelo. Ungaqapheli ukuba i-monogamy rhoqo isiko esinegunya lomntu? Amadoda agxininisa umtshato wodwa ngenxa yokuba bazixabisa ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangahambi emanqeni onke kunye nokuphonsa ukuxabiseka kwamadoda okwenyani, kwaye ngoko amandla abo kunye nokuqonda kwabo kubalulekile njengamadoda.
Ngaba kufuneka sibuyele kwi-patriarchal society monogamous? Fuck no. Kodwa i-IMO ihlabathi iya kuba ngcono kakhulu xa wonke ukuyeka ukugqithisa, nokunyamekela into engaphezu kwefucking. Abafana yibo abafuna ukukhokela oku, kunye nabo bafumana into enokuyifumana ngokwenza njalo.
TL; DR : uninzi lwamantombazana ikakhulu bajonge ukuba bathathwe. Ngelixa ukwabelana ngesondo kumnandi (yiyo loo nto ukubanomdla we-porn) abafana bafumana ukuzithemba kwabo ngaphezulu kwesondo, kwaye banento abanokuyizuza ngokuhlakulela amaxabiso, kunye nokuziva ngokwakho, ngaphaya kokuleqa i-fuck. Ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesini kuphakamisa ixabiso labasetyhini, ukuba neqabane elinye, ixabiso lendoda. Wakhe waqaphela ukuba amadoda ayengabakhuseli beli ziko? Akukho mfuneko yokuba siphinde sibuyisele umfazi ongatshatanga, kodwa into ekufutshane nayo ingalunga kuthi madoda.
- Intetho kaSeptemba 2015 ye-TEDx yindoda encinci efuna ixesha elongezelelekileyo kunye nokufumana kwakhona / ukubuyela umva ukoyisa i-ED kunye ne-anorgasmia- Intetho yeTEDX malunga ne-porn-eyanyanzeliswa ngu-ED kunye nokubuyisa isini sakho: "Ungaba njani nguThixo wesondo" nguGregor Schmidinger
- Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-40 zokubika iziphumo zihambelane nokukhula kwezilwanyana (ukunyamezela), ukuhlala kwimiba yezononophelo, kunye nokukhutshwa kweempawu (zonke iimpawu kunye neempawu ezinxulumene nomlutha).
- Iiduna kunye neengxaki zesondo? Olu luhlu luqulethe iikhompyutheni ze-40 ezidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo / ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo kwiingxaki zesondo kunye nokwenyuka kwe-sexually stimulus. The Izifundo zokuqala ze-7 kuluhlu lubonisa bangela, njengabathathi-nxaxheba baqhelise ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye nokuphulukisa izifo ezingasinikiyo zesondo.
- Imiphumo yeSigxina kwimibutho? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-75 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn ukuya kwisini esincinci kunye nolwaneliseko lobuhlobo. Ngokuba sifuna zonke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zaxela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo olunxulumene nalo zihlwempu zesini okanye ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano.
Nantsi iposti yeforum efanelekileyo apha:
I-blogger ebhale oku
Esinye isithuba somdla
Ukutshintsha kwePerception
ixelwe ngomnye umfana:
Omnye umntu
Ukufumana isondo kwakhona kunye nesithandwa sakhe:
Ukusuka kwi-reddit - NoFap - iintsuku ezingama-90
Ukusuka reddit-NoFap
Kulungile abafana abatsha, nantsi into eyenzekayo: mamela, yenyani indoda kwaye uyeke isikroba
Isibini sonyango vs. NoFap? Akukho mpikiswano! Ndivumele ndicacisa.
I-YRON: ubudlelwane bakho kwiNoFap
Ingxelo evela kulungu lebhunga
LINK
Ndiyiminyaka embalwa ubudala kwaye ndifakwe ~ kanye ngeveki
Enye inzuzo: iingcamango zokucoca
Ingxelo ye-Reddit-day 27
Izimvo zikaGuy kwiforum
[Usuku lwe-30 NoFap / Usuku lwe-300 NoPorn] -Ingxelo yenkqubela phambili
Ukwehla kokuzala kubandakanya ukungabinamdla kwintombi yam…
Imiphumo ebuchosheni bokuphinga (ngokugqithiseleyo kunye noonobumba)
Omnye umntu wachaza iimvavanyo zakhe:
Ukufumana okungakumbi ngezibonelelo zesondo ngokuphinga, jonga oku incwadi yephepha, exoxa ngophando oluninzi.
Isithandwa sam siseSuku 2 se-PMO. Yonke into entsha kum, kuthi
Isithandwa sam siseSuku 2 se-PMO. Le nto yintsha kum, kuthi kwaye ndifuna ukumnceda ukuba aphumelele oku. Naliphi na icebiso kum?
Iingxoxo zeForam
Kutheni ndiyeka iphonografi kunye nendlela ebuphucula ngayo ubudlelwane bam.
Ngaba uziva ngakumbi "uthando" kwiimvakalelo zakho kwi-SO yakho xa u
I-LINK-Ngaba uziva uziva ngakumbi "nothando" ngokubhekisele kwi-SO yakho xa ubukade ulikho ixesha elibalulekileyo?
Usuku 90: ingxelo
Abasetyhini bokwenene bajonga ukushisa
Amagqabantshintshi abantu ababhinqileyo- I-porno ihlala indenza ndonwabe
Ndandiyincinci engenazintliziyo ezincinci kumantombazana ngaphambili
Ndandithanda ukuwela othandweni njengesilwanyana esisilumko
Ngoku ndilikhoboka lendoda
Kule mihla, ndivuswe nje bubomi bokwenyani kune-porn
NoFap, wena uliqhawe lam.
iintsuku 150
Kusuka kwenye iforum
Kusuka kwenye iforum
Iingxelo zamadoda:
Ukusuka kwenye iforum-Ex-autosexual ubhala:
U-autosxual ubhala:
Kusuka kwenye iforum
Ubonisa ukutshintsha kwengqondo njengoko ukungalingani kwengqondo:
Indoda ibika
yakhe izigqibo kwiSuku 91:
Ukuba ndiyayenza, ngokuqinisekileyo ndibeka izikhokelo
Nofap kunye noporn watshintsha indlela ndilalana ngayo ngesondo.
Usuku 78. Ndicebise yam intombi.
Kusuka kwenye iforum
Umntu wabhala:
Icandelo esililibaleyo
Ndandisoloko ndicinga ukuba ndine-low sex drive kude ndide ndiqalise i-nofap
Iintsuku ze-40, nokubala ..
ukusebenzisana ngokwesondo kwi-6 iminyaka, kodwa andizange ndibe nomthando kuze kube ngoku.
Kusuka kwenye intambo
Enye yezinto ezintle endizifundileyo ngenxa ye-nofap yayikukuba, kude kube kutshanje, bendiyi-misogynist. Ndizigwebe ngokufanelekileyo i-gils esekwe nokuba andicinga ukuba ziyathandeka na. Ngeliphandle, ndineentloni ngam ngenxa yale nto. Kwakukho apho ndandimkhathalele umntu owayezama ukuba ngumhlobo olungileyo kum ixesha elide kuba ndandingamthandi. Ungandivi kakubi, bendichubekile, kodwa bendingamniki ixesha okanye imbeko emfaneleyo. Olu ibilutshintsho oluhle kakhulu ebomini bam. Ngoku, ndibaphatha abantu basetyhini njengabantu kunamathuba esini. Nokuba awucacanga, ndicinga ukuba bayayazi le nto. Into enkulu kum.
Ewe, ndiyakwazi ukusho ngokuphepha kule nyanga yokugqibela itshintshile
Impumelelo ivuliwe.
Izidalwa Zithatha Ngaphezulu; Uvule i-Unkown Tenderness
Izidalwa Zithatha Ngaphezulu; Uvule i-Unkown Tenderness
I-porn ayisijiki kwakhona.
Ngaba imifanekiso yomfazi wakho ibonwa ngophaya koonwabo?
Kusuka kwenye iforum
Unyaka omnye wokumisa kunye nokuqala-usafumana izibonelelo ezininzi
Kuqala ukufumana amandla
Kusuka kwenye iforum
GUY 1) Yimangalisa indlela u-pornography usenze ngayo. Ukuxhatshazwa kwamanyala angcolileyo kwaqala nge-19. Kodwa phakathi kwexesha le-14-19, ndisebenzisa ukusebenzisa ama-erections malunga naluphi uhlobo lwabasetyhini, lukhuni, lukhuni, luphakathi. Heck, kanye xa utitshala wam esikolweni xa ndibe ngu 17 wabonisa ukucoca kwaye ndafumana ukulungiswa kweeyure ze-2 kwaye ngamanye amaxesha amaxesha amantombazana awangitshintsha. Andizange ndivuyiswe ngumfazi onobomi boqobo ukususela kwi-19 kwaye ngoku ndiyi23. Ndiyathemba ukuba ndingayivakalelwa kwakhona, LINK
GUY 2) Nalapha kunjalo. Ukuqhayisa kwayo izinto endandidla ngazo. Umyinge ukhangela i-40 ubudala abaneminyaka engama-nipples abonisa ngekhati, umzekelo.
Ngoku, ndinokuba nohlobo lwam endiluthandayo lwentombazana-ehamba ze lundichukumisa kwaye ndingavulwa. Kuyinto engenangqondo konke onokukwenza kukuhleka.
GUY 3) Oku. Akukho mbono wezonxepheko awunciphisi imigangatho, kodwa indlela eyahlukileyo. Ukubukela (ubuninzi) ubuninzi bobugqwetha buphakamisa umgangatho wakho kunye neziphumo ukuba akukho mfazi oqhelekileyo uyakulungele ukuba uhambe.
GUY 4) Ngaphambi kokuqalisa kwakhona, umntu obhinqileyo angatshisa kodwa inye into engafezekanga iya kwanela ukuba umgxothe athi "akashushu". Ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona, ndifumanisa ukuba umfazi unokuba nesici esingafezekanga kodwa iesile elungileyo / umzimba / i-rack / uncumo / ubuso / ubuntu / njl. kwanele ukucima ukungafezeki ngaphandle.
Ngokuqinisekileyo yinxalenye yam endiyithandayo yokuqalisa kwakhona ukuphuma kwaye malunga nokuqonda ukuba abafazi banomdla ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Kuyahlekisa ukuba ungazikhupheli ngaphandle iibhola zakho ubeka umaleko wohlobo olungaziwayo lobuso babafazi obenza bukhanye.
GUY 5) Ukungazibukeli iidemon kukubuyisela ekunyanisweni. Akukho namnye kuthi uphelele kwaye sonke sineziphene zomzimba. Ukuhamba ngaphandle kweentloni kusenza samukele ngakumbi konke ukungapheleli kunye nomxholo ongakumbi njengabantu kunokugxotha ingqibelelo engekho ehlabathini lenene.
GUY 6) Ke ... ibe ngamava am ukuba ixesha elide ndihamba ndingenazo iphonografi, kokukhona ndizifumana ndiqaphela abafazi endandingazukucinga ngaphambili.
Kusuka kwenye iforum
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/15tg0z/ed_gone_after_12_days_girlfriend_is_real_again/
Kusuka kwenye iforum
http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=2743.msg42141#msg42141
Uqeqesho lomkhosi = Eyona ndlela yam inde yeNoFap… Kutheni?
Hayi, inzuzo inzuzo inzuzo
Akukho fap kwiinyanga ze-6 kwaye yibhombu
Ukuthobela iingcebiso kubaFapstronauts kunye nabatshatileyo.
Ndineziphumo ezingalindelekanga (ezilungileyo).
Ngaba ulwalamano kwaye u-NoFap uyithintele?
Ngaba ulwalamano kwaye iNoFap ichaphazele? Upapasho olukhulu lwesizwe lungathanda ukuxoxa nawe ngebali abalenzayo kwiNoFap. Abantu ekwenziwa udliwano-ndlebe nabo banokungaziwa.
kk87
Ingqungquthela
Ukuqonda ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lokujonga iifoto (ngokwakho.NoFap)
Ngaba ubulili obuhle ebomini bam bubulela kuNoFap
izithuba ngabasemagqabini abasetyhini bathi babona abafazi njengabantu
Ndiyancuma rhoqo kwaye ndimnandi kunesiqhelo…
ukukhawuleza ndifumana kwiifostile akusekho.
Ukuqhuma; Arousal kwaye uqaphela abafazi.
KUFUNDA
Omnye umntu
Iintsuku ze-11 kuyo, ubulili obukhulu kunye
kucace ngakumbi kwintloko yam kunye nokuthanda ngakumbi kwi-SO yam.
Enkosi, iNoFap - Ngokunyanisekileyo, intombi eyonelisekileyo
I-Porn isondola ngesondo
Ngomhla wama-39, “Amandla aMandla” okuqala
iziphumo ezintle ngenxa yokuthanda uthando nomfazi wam.
ayingoba amantombazana engonelanga ngokwaneleyo. Ngumba wam lowo
Ndifuna umfazi wam kunanini ngaphambili. Ngoku ndinesondo esingenakukhunjulwa
GUY 2
GUY 3
GUY 4
Ukuncinci kwalo
"Bendihenyuza nomntu"
Ukubona abafazi njengabantu ngabanye
Abasetyhini abasazenzi izinto zesondo- isondo likhululekile
I-Porn iyakucamba ubulili bakho.
I-Porn iyakucamba ubulili bakho.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1gor2k/porn_will_rob_you_of_your_sexuality/
Inzondelelo engapheliyo yoBomi
Ukuphatha abafazi ngokwahlukileyo
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1gp5oj/88_day_report/
Awunakho ukwanela ngumfazi wam
.. yinto endiyibonayo ngoku:
1) Umfazi wam ohluphekileyo. Andikwazi ukufumana okwaneleyo kuye! Umfazi wam wayeza kuqalisa ngesondo kwaye ndiza kumala ngokwenza izizathu zobudenge kuphela ukuze ndigqibe kuthi gqi kamva. Ukusukela ngeNoFap, kwaukucinga nje ngokuqengqeleka emashidini kuye kuye kwalungela ukuya kwimizuzwana. Ngale ntsasa, undijikile ngoba ebephelile. Ngokwesiqhelo ayisiyonto intle ukujikwa kwisini kodwa, kule meko, yinto yokuqhayisa.
2) I-boob esecaleni yi-boob esecaleni kwaye oh-intle kakhulu! Kwakuqhele ukuba ngelo xesha xa ndibona intshontsho elitshisayo kwisitrato ndandikhawuleza ndimkhulule entlokweni yam ndimbeke kwindawo engamanyala ye-porn esenza ukungcola okungathandekiyo. Ngoku, ndihleli emva kwaye ndiyayithanda nje i-boob esecaleni ukuba iyintoni. Iesile elihle li-esile elilungileyo. I-rack enkulu yindawo entle yokuntywila. Amantombazana angaqhelekanga kwisitalato awasekho ziinkwenkwezi zamanyala ezesondo ezingama-30.
I-3) Ndifungela i-wind elula iyanzima kum ngoku. Ndandidinga ukukhangela iigig kunye neigigs zoononophala ukuze nifumane ukuhamba. Ngoku, ingcamango nje yecala le-boob (khangela inombolo ye-2) yinto yonke efunekayo ukuze ijoni lam ligxininise.
4) Ndijonge phambili kwisini kwakhona. Uyakhumbula ukuba uneminyaka eli-18 kwaye ujonge phambili ukuyenza kwindlu yakho ye-gf ngaphambi kokuba abazali bakhe bafike ekhaya? Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ndichithe amawaka eedola ukukhwela iiteksi ndade ndafumana imoto yam kuba ukulinda ibhasi ebindayo ngekhe kuyenze. Ewe kunjalo kum kwakhona. Andikwazi kulinda ukugqiba umsebenzi nje ukuba ndifike ekhaya kwaye ndihluthe iimpahla zomfazi wam. Andizange ndisebenzise isantya. Andikwazi kuhlala ngaphantsi kwe-100Km / H kwakhona, uqoqosho lwam lwamafutha luya ezantsi ngenxa yokuba ndijonge ukuphinda ndibekwe!
Ndiyabonga NoFap. Undisindise kwimigqaliselo yeViagra kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndilondoloze umtshato wam kwixesha elide.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1gpp1j/success_story_after_nearly_40_days_of_nofap/
Ingxelo yeenyanga ye-4
Ngomso ndiza kubetha iinyanga ezine. Nazi iinguqu ezintsha endizibonileyo kum kutshanje.
Nofap… iyasebenza nje. http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1h6lu5/4_months_3_new_developments/
Yaye yathi yayiyindoda engcono kunazo zonke esazange sibe nayo.
I-NoFap yenza abafazi behle kakhulu!
I-NoFap yenza abafazi behle kakhulu! Kodwa. . .
… Intle ngentsingiselo enzulu ngakumbi. Ndibona ngokucacileyo ukuba ngoobani abafazi. Zintle kakhulu ukuba ucinga ngazo ngaphezulu kwento nje ofuna ukulala nayo. Jonga ubuso babo kunye nendlela emangalisayo abanxibelelana ngayo nawe ngeendlela ezininzi ezingathethiyo. Abasetyhini bakhanyisa zonke iingqondo zam. Baziingcali kwezonxibelelwano endikhe ndazifumana kubomi bam obunentloni kunye noxinzelelo. Iphonografi iyagqwetha ngakumbi malunga nendlela abahle ngayo nabasetyhini abahle.
Jonga abafazi abahle, uthethe kwaye uhleke nabo, uziqonde ukuba bangobani. Xa usazi ukuba zintle kangakanani, uya kufumana enye ongenakuhlala ngaphandle kwayo. Xa unayo yakho, mtshate, kwaye ungaze umyeke ahambe. Mxelele ukuba umthanda kangakanani yonke imihla.
Ndinayo eyam, kwaye senze ezintathu, iintombi ezintle endinethemba lokufumana amadoda azithandayo ngenxa yento ayiyo. Abafazi bahle ngakumbi kwezi ntsuku kum, kodwa umfazi wam ngowona mhle amabhinqa endakha ndawabona. Ukhanyisa ubomi bam ngeendlela ezininzi, kwaye andinakulinda ukufika ekhaya ukuze ndimbone. I-porn iyadanisa kuphela, ngelixa umfazi wam eyandisa iminqweno yam kumanqanaba endandingazi ukuba ndinayo kwinyanga ephelileyo. Hayi kuphela ngokwesondo, kodwa iminqweno ngezinye iindlela andinakukuchaza ngamagama.
Ndiyindoda enomyeni wam!
Ndiyindoda enomyeni wam!
ngu kellzbellz555
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Ndenze umfazi wam wakhala
Ndenze umfazi wam wakhala
I-porn iyonakalisile uxabiso lwam ngobuhle babasetyhini rhoqo - kodwa
Imilinganiselo engqiqo-
Ngenxa yokuthobeka, ndiza kuthi ndingumntu okhangeleka ngaphezulu. Phambi kweYBOP, imigangatho yam yayimbi. Ndiza kulahla i-2-3 yabasetyhini abazimiseleyo nabanomdla ngeveki kuba bengahambelani neendlela zam ze-pornstar. Okokugqibela, ekuphela kwabasetyhini endandilele nabo yayingabadanisi, abahluthi, kunye nee-nymphos ezinee-tits ezinkulu, iesile kunye nemicimbi katata. Nangona kunjalo, ndiza kufuna iipilisi ukugcina ulwakhiwo. Ngoku, ndihlakulela ubudlelwane bokwenyani nabasetyhini andinakucinga ngokuzisa umama notata ekhaya.
Ubudala 25 - ED yonyango. Akukho kuphazamiseka, ukuxhalaba, ukunyaniseka. Ukugxila ngakumbi kunye nokuqhuba
Umnqweno wam ngoku ke owenziwe ngabasetyhini be-REAL ne-REAL ngokwesini.
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Mens-Health/Too-much-porn-masturbation-cause-ED/show/183203?camp=watch_list
Ulwabelana ngesini kunye noonwabo
Ke intombazana yomFrentshi ibihlala nosapho lwam e-US, kwaye ngeli xesha sazana kakuhle. Besilele kunye kwezi busuku zimbalwa zidlulileyo nto leyo indenze ndabona nto ithile. Zininzi izizathu zokuba iphonografi igqwethe isondo kuthi, kodwa umahluko omkhulu kukuthandana. Akukho busondele kakhulu kwi-porn, kodwa ngokwenyani, ngokunyaniseka kwisini sokulunga, kuninzi kunokubeka ipenisi yakho kwilungu lobufazi lentombazana nokuza kwayo. Ndakuqonda oku emva kokulala naye ebhedini ubusuku bonke, ze, singathethi, kodwa sibambene. Yile nto bendisilele ukuyiqonda yonke le minyaka.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1j2xde/real_sex_vs_porn/
I-NoFap iyamkela ukuziphatha ngokwesini
Amava okuqala-isandla ngobunetyhefu boononophelo
Ubunini boqobo benza i-3x ingcono. Ndiyabulela akukho fap
Ubomi bobulili buye buphucula ngokwenene ukususela ekuqaleni kwe-nofap. Ndibhala t
Gqabaza kwi post post
Utshintshiselwano olunomdla
Andizange ndijonge nayiphi na i-porn ngokukhawuleza. Ke xa intombi yam yayingekho, ndenza njalo. Andifanelanga ukuba nayo, kodwa ndiyenzile. Xa ebuyayo, ndaphawula ukwehla ngokucacileyo kwiimvakalelo zam ngaye. Kwakuphazamisa kwaye kungalungisi. Ndiyifumanisa ukuba yi-pornography, njengoko kwenzekile ngaphambili. Izinto ziya kubuya emva kweentsuku ezininzi ekusebenziseni i-porn.
Ngumhle kakhulu ngendlela echaphazela ngayo imbono yam njengaye.
https://web.archive.org/web/20210419085231/http://www.reuniting.info/comment/90429
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Ukuphendula kwelinye ilungu lebhunga:
Iimvakalelo zakho zangaphambili ziya kubuya. Kodwa imiphumo emibi ingapheli ixesha elininzi. Ndicinga ngokukodwa kuba zikhumbuza ingqondo yakho kwaye ezi nkumbulo zijongwa ngokugqithiseleyo njengemifudlana enzulu endleleni apho wonke umntu ehamba phakathi kwaye umendo uya kugxininisa nje phakathi.
Kulungile ukuba ungayibona kwaye uyiqaphele le nto kuba leyo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo-ke unokuyiphepha.
Akunjalo xa ubona amantombazana amahle edolophini okanye elunxwemeni. Ayifani kwaphela. Ndingasela ngobuhle bento encinci ebhikini kwaye ndiziva ndivusa inkosikazi yam.
Kungenxa yoko le nto nditsho ukuba zezamanyala okanye ezithandekayo ezona zilungileyo ukunqanda, endaweni yokuphepha ukujonga amantombazana amnandi (okwenyani).
I-NoFap esitshatileyo, ingxelo ye-1 yonyaka
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1mi916/married_nofap_1_year_report_a_few_days_early/
itshintshe kakhulu indlela endijonga ngayo abantu basetyhini.
Xa uhamba ixesha elide, xa uqonda ngakumbi ukuba iyimfama kangakanani.
Umbono wam omtsha ngesini, kunye namantombazana
Ngomhla wama-30 njengomntu onomdla ongengomlutha-oku kwenza umahluko
Amava amahle kunye nemilingo nomfazi wam
Ingxelo kwiforum
Ibhinqa: Umxholo wamadoda amabini
Igama lokukhuthaza umntu obhinqileyo, kunye nokufuna iingcebiso kubudlelwane.
Molweni bantu,
Ndiphinde ndakhangela "ngaba bonke abantu babukela iphonografi" kwaye bayifumana le sub. Inyani yile yokuba besele ndiyazi impendulo yalo mbuzo kodwa bendinethemba lokufumana indawo enje, kuba ndiziva ngathi andinamntu ebomini bam endinokuthetha naye ngoku malunga noku.
Isizathu sokuba sendisele ndiyazi impendulo yalo mbuzo kukuba bendikhe ndadibana nomfana ongakhange abukele iphonografi. Ewe, wayebukele iphonografi enqabileyo, mhlawumbi amaxesha ambalwa ngonyaka. (Xa ndibalisa eli bali, abantu badla ngokundixelela ukuba uyaxoka. Kodwa thina (ngokuhlangeneyo) sasihlala kunye, sichitha i-98% yeentsuku nobusuku kwenye yeendawo zethu, kangangexesha le-3. Ungacinga ukuba ndingaphawula.)
Ngaphambi kokuba ndithandane naye, ndandibukela iphonografi. Ndandi 'horny' rhoqo. Ndandibawela ukukhululwa. Kodwa lo mfo ungaphantsi kwe-porn wayenayo le ndlela yahluke ngokupheleleyo yokwenza uthando… ngamanye amaxesha wayemisa embindini ayibize ngobusuku kuba wayenokuthi intloko yam 'ikwenye indawo' - kwaye wayelungile. Kodwa bendicinga ukuba iminqweno engcolileyo ibingaqhelekanga nje kuphela, kodwa uhlobo lwendlela endaziyo ngayo ukuba ndingena njani kuyo. Yile ndlela ingqondo yam yaqeqeshwa ngayo.
Phambi kokuba ndithandane naye, ndandingaqondi ukuba ukwenza uthando- kwaye ndithetha ukwenza uthando, ndingabelani ngesondo- kunokuba njalo… obusondeleyo kwaye isipho. Ndithetha inyani.
Ukususela ngoko ndafumana i-pornography, ngokwemvelo. Emva kokubona enye indlela yobomi, olu hlobo lolwalamano ndinokuba nalo kunye ne-libido yam kunye nesithandwa sam, ndi nje… ndacinywa kuso. Iminyaka bekusafuneka ndicinge ngeemeko endizikhethileyo 'ezimbi' ukuze ndiphume, kwaye ndinyaniseke ngamanye amaxesha ndisenza njalo. Kodwa ifunyenwe inqabile kwaye inqabile. Ndinikela kuphela izihlandlo ezimbalwa ngonyaka ngoku, njengesihlobo sam esithandekayo. Kwaye xa ndenza njalo, ndiziva nje… kakhulu. Andikho nenkolo okanye nantoni na. Ukwazi nje enye indlela ukuvusa kunokuba, ndiziva ngathi ndiyazikhohlisa xa ndiphindela kulaa mngxuma.
Kodwa nantsi into: ndingumfazi kwaye uninzi lwenu alukho, ke ndicinga ukuba amabali ethu ahamba ngokwahlukileyo. (Nangona olo thando lunomdla 'kwi-porn' kwibar esecaleni apha ibanga ukuba uphando lwamva nje luye lwavuma ukuba amadoda aziphethe kakubi kunabasetyhini.) Kodwa eyam inqaku yile, andizami ukuthi, “Heyi nantsi into ekufuneka uyenzile.”
Into endizama ukuyithetha yile, ngamava am njengowasetyhini, kwaye ndiyawuva ngokwenene umahluko phakathi kwezi ntlobo zimbini zesini… ke abo kuni banenkxalabo malunga 'nokwenza', iya khona. (Nangona kunjalo, ndiyathandabuza ukusebenzisa elo gama kuba ndiziva ngathi olohlobo lukhethekileyo, olusondeleyo lokwenza uthando alufanelanga loo vibe- imalunga nokwamkelwa.)
Ndiyathemba ukuba eli bali linomoya omde likhuthaze umntu! Ngethamsanqa nina bafo! Kufanelekile ekugqibeleni.
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(ukhohlokhohlo) Ngoku, ukuba kukho umntu okhathalayo ukunika ingcebiso, andizukukhathazeka… Ndiyazi ukuba kukho iingcebiso kubudlelwane kodwa ndiyalithemba eli qela labantu… kodwa nceda ungaziva unyanzelekile ukuba ufunde olu donga lulandelayo lwesicatshulwa, inqaku leposti yam yile ibingasentla.
Isizathu sokuba ndikhangele "ngaba bonke abantu babukela iphonografi" kungenxa yokuba ngoku, ngokungaqhelekanga, ndithandana nomfana onomlutha wobugqwetha obunokulinganisela. Nam ngokwenyani, ndiyamthanda. Njengokuba, okokuqala, ndicinga nzulu ngegama m.
Ndidwengulwe ngulo mfo. Kuyo yonke indawo ngaphandle kwesondo, ngulo mfana ugqibeleleyo-ongumhlobo, kunye nomhlobo wam osenyongweni. Ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala sabelana ngokusondelelana okungathethekiyo.
Kodwa engxoweni… ngesiqhelo ndiziva ngathi uzama ukwehla. Ngokwesiqhelo ndiziva ngathi, njengoko kuchaziwe ex yam, 'kwenye indawo.' Ukwanjalo nakwimveku yakhe ... kwaye kudala ndizama iminyaka emi-3 kodwa andikwazi kungena kwisinxibo kunye nakwimigca kunye nokungenelela elishicilelwe kwixesha le-sexy, endilibambe njengohlobo olungcwele.
Ke into eyenzekileyo ngokuhamba kwexesha… ibonakala inokwenzeka xa ubuya umva… i-libido yam yehle. Umnqweno awuqhelekanga ngoku. Yeyiphi ebuhlungu yakhe iimvakalelo. Kwaye ngoku uthi yena Unayo ukubandakanya kwi-porno ukuze uhambe ngenxa yokuba akanakukwazi ukundiba nam.
… .Ngoko…. nicinga ntoni ngale meko? Owu, ewe ndithethile naye ngayo yonke le nto. Njengoko benditshilo, sikufutshane. Kodwa andiqinisekanga ukuba kuya kuba ngcono. Mhlawumbi kunjalo. Ngobusuku bokugqibela uye wazikhupha exesheni lethu lokuphuma ukuya kubukela iphonografi kwaye ayifakele. Kodwa wathetha kwangaphambili, ngokungathi uyandicenga, ukuba khange ayenze njengeveki. Endicinga ukuba yinto enkulu kuye. Oko ndicinga ukuba kuthetha ukuba uyandizama.
Ndiyaqikelela.
(Into yile… mhlawumbi andifuni ukuba ayenzele mna. Mhlawumbi ndinqwenela ukuba ayibone ngendlela endibona ngayo, ngoku. Njengoluhlobo olubi kakhulu. Ukuba uyandishiya, intle kakhulu , kwaye ulisoka elinobubele kakhulu, kwaye ndiyayixabisa… ndiyaqikelela. Kodwa ayizisombululi ingxaki zam ezingcambu.)
Kodwa nangoku, xa ezivalele kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ndivele .. Andikwazi. Ndiye ndalila. Kanye njengokuba ndilila ngoku, kuba inyani yeyokuba nangona sixakekile kwaye sinoxinzelelo kwaye sicinezele ixesha kwaye sidiniwe, ngendimgezile phezolo okanye nangobuphi na ubusuku ukuba nje angathatha ixesha lokundikhohlisa indlela yangoku. Yenza nje ukuba ndizive ngathi andikufanelanga.
Ingaba ucinga ntoni?
(Isikhanyeli esisinyanzelo: Amaxesha amaninzi abantu babhala iimpendulo malunga nendlela 'ekufuneka uthethe naye' kunye ne-umm ... Ndizama nje ukungachithi xesha lomntu… ewe ndithetha naye ngayo yonke le nto. andazi. Ndikhangela uluvo lwakho malunga nemeko, i-intanethi ongamaziyo, hayi ingcebiso malunga nokuba lubaluleke kangakanani unxibelelwano kubudlelwane. 😉)
Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndivuya kwaye ndiziva ndiziva ngaye iminyaka emininzi edlulileyo
I-Porn yenza ukuba ndibone amantombazana ngendlela endandicinga ngayo
Yothuke malunga nento elele ngaphaya kwesikhuselo seenkanuko
Ulwalamano oluqinileyo
Ulwalamano oluqinileyo
Imextanka
Ndaphakamisela kule ntsasa ukuze ndifumane ileta kumfazi wam
Umfazi wam akazi kwanto ngesiyobisi sam. Ngokukodwa kuba unembali yesondo ekhohlakeleyo kwaye andifuni kumnika uxinzelelo ngakumbi kulo mbandela, kodwa enyanisweni andimxelelanga kuba ndinetyala kwaye ndineentloni. Ndikumhla we-10 kwinjongo yam yokuphelisa i-PMO. Andikaze ndigqithe ngaphezulu kweentsuku ze-2 ngaphambili kwaye bendilikhoboka le-12 iminyaka. Kwezi ntsuku zimbalwa zidlulileyo ndiye ndafikelwa ziinkumbulo ze-PMO, ndiye ndanomnqweno omkhulu, kwaye ndinamaza oxinzelelo. Ndifuna ukuyeka kuwo onke amabakala.
Ndaphakamisela kwincwadi enkulu ebhaliwe ngesandla kwimeko yam ye-violin kumfazi wam. Ngaloo ndlela uchaza ukuba wayemangaliswe kangakanani ukuba ndibancedisa kangakanani indlu, kodwa ngokubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ndamxhasa njani le ndlu iveki edlulileyo. (Khumbula ukuba akazi ukuba ndenza oku) Waqala ngoMvulo waza wabhala ngokuthe ngqo malunga nomhla ngamnye ngosuku ukuba wayeziva ethandwa ngam izenzo zam. Ukhankanyile ukuba okokuqala ngethuba ixesha elide wayencedwa yindoda yakhe.
Ndihlala ndimthanda umfazi kwaye ndifuna ukwenza oku ukuqinisekisa ukuba yonke imzuzu ndiyichitha kunye naye iphile kakuhle. Ukuba ndibe ndifuna u bungqina bokuba i-nofap yayingenakuphumelela le ncwadi. Kwakhona akaqondi ukuba ndenza oku. Ummandla weNofap awunangqiqo. Ngenxa yenu ndivakalelwa kukuba nditshintsha ibe yinguqulelo engcono yam.
Ukuba ungathandabuzeki ukuba iziphumo zingekho phantsi kwaye undiphulaphule xa ndithi ungaboni kodwa abo bajikelezayo baya.
Ndikweleta nina bantu ubhiya.
zithunyelwe ngeeyure ze-15 ezedlule wildviolinistiintsuku 10
Nditsho namantombazana angaqwalaselwa 'eshushu' ndijongile ndibone b
Into ebaluleke kakhulu yenzeke emtshatweni wam
I-NoFap ibe negalelo eliphambili kwengqondo kum
Iifoto zoonografi ziphazamisa indlela ubheka ngayo ngesondo, uthando kunye nabasetyhini. Kwakhona kukukwenza ube wimp.
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Iifoto zoonografi ziphazamisa indlela ubheka ngayo ngesondo, uthando kunye nabasetyhini. it
Ngale ntsasa, inkosikazi yam indixelele: “Kubekho into enye elungileyo
Ndiyayithanda into yokuba ndinqwenela ukuba unkosikazi wam, naye enze njalo.
Kukho iintlobo ze3 ze-SEX.
Umnqweno omhle
ngcamango encinane
Izimvo kwiforum
Intombi yam kunye nam sasifunda kunye, sithatha ikhefu elincinci ukuze sibambelele kufutshane kwaye siphumle iyure nganye okanye njalo. Ngexesha elinye lale khefu, wabuza ukuba uhambo lwam lweNoFap luhamba njani. Ndamxelela malunga nokwenza iintsuku ezingama-90 ezidlulileyo kwaye emva koko ndaqhekeza iintsuku ezili-16 ezidlulileyo, ke wayesele eyazi into eyenzekayo. Ndagqiba ukumxelela ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle kwaye ukuba ubude bexesha elide ekubeni ndihlala kumkhwa wokutsala kwandinika enye yezona zibonelelo ezinkulu kunabo bonke: ngoku akunakwenzeka ukuba ndicinge ngesondo okanye nantoni na yolo hlobo. Ubeke ubuso bakhe phantsi esifubeni sam imizuzwana embalwa kwaye xa ejonga phezulu uneenyembezi emehlweni akhe. Ndimbuzile ukuba yintoni ingxaki, wavele wathi, “Ndonwabile ukuba uyakwazi ukuthanda kwakhona.”
Abafana, izibonelelo zalo mngeni zininzi. Uyakwazi ukulawula ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakho, kwaye ngokuhamba kwexesha umzimba wakho uphendula ngendlela ephantse ifuna ukuba uyenze. Xa uqala ukuphalaza iimbophelelo zale ndlela yokuphila yesiqhelo, ye-PMO yesiqhelo, uqala ukuqonda ukuba ubuyimfama kangakanani. Kwaye, njengoko unokuxelela ngaphezulu, amantombazana athambekele ekukhetheni abafana abafuna ukubathanda endaweni yokurhalela amanenekazi abo.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1xw9fa/her_reaction/
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1xwhap/a_girl_who_stumbled_upon_this/
Ukufota kundenze ukuba ndijonge kumfazi njengeqhekeza lenyama
I-porn iye yandichaphazela njani njengebhinqa elineminyaka eli-19.
I-porn iye yandichaphazela njani njengebhinqa elineminyaka eli-19
Iphepha elichazayo ukuba awusasebenzi Ungaze ube nayo. Olu luhlobo olwahlukileyo lwebali.
Okokuqala off, le sub yinto emangalisayo! Ndiyakuthanda ukufunda la mabali kwaye bangaphi kuni abaqalayo ukubona iimpembelelo zokwenyani ze-porn. Kuyandothusa ukuba bangaphi bakho abalapho. 🙂
Ngapha koko, ndingumntu ophakathi kweminyaka eyi-19 ubudala, unyaka wokuqala wekholeji, ndiyawuthanda umdlalo. Ndiyi-5'9 ″ kunye ne-140lbs. (kufanelekile, thembisa!) Andizizo ii-fat / chubby / overweight. Mncinci, ndingacinga.
Ewe, ndaqala ukuthandana nenkwenkwe malunga nonyaka odlulileyo, ukuphela kwesikolo esiphakamileyo, ndandinomdla kuye unyaka wonke. Wayedlala, ethanda ukufunda, intanda-bulumko, umbhali omkhulu… wayebonakala egqibelele ngokupheleleyo.
Icala elisezantsi: Nangona engakhange aphulula amaphambili okanye atye konke ukubukela iphonografi, isenokuba nefuthe elibi ngendlela andijonge ngayo. Ukuqala kwethu ukuthandana, wayedla ngokundixelela indlela endimthanda ngayo ngaphezu kokundithanda, okanye andizalise kubudlelwane bakhe nabanye abantu basetyhini (andizange ndibuze, kwaye ezi zinto zazibandakanya ukuba lukhulu kangakanani ulwalamano lwabo, ngesondo…). Wayencwina amanqatha esiswini sam aze andixelele ukuba “akayithandi loo nto.” Wayeza kubonisa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ulusu ngemitya yebhanti yam luya kuthi gqi. Wayedla ngokundixelela ukuba ufuna ndisebenze kangakanani kwaye ndiza kuba mhle kangakanani ukuba ndimncinci. Wayenengxaki yokugqiba.
Ndayeka ukutya.
Ndilahle iiponti ezilishumi. Ndinomtsalane ngoku. Kodwa ngokwenene, akukho mahluko. Ndandisele ndibhityile, kwaye oku akuzange kube nefuthe kumzimba wam kwaphela.
Ngenxa yobufutshane, xa wayeka ukusebenzisa iphonografi ngokupheleleyo, konke oku kwatshintsha. (Kwanabo bangasebenzisi iphonografi “ngokufuthi” baphantsi koku.) Uye waba "ngumlutha," oko kukuthi, kubantu abangamanyala abangamanyala, kwaye watsaleleka kum. Intlonipho yakhe ngokubanzi kum njengomntu ikhulile. Uyekile ukundiphatha ngokungathi andinalwazi kwaye ndifuna ukukhokelwa.
Ndingomnye wabambalwa abaye bayikhupha, kwaye yahlawulwa. Nangona ndiziva ndinesidingo sokuba nditsho ukuba olu tshintsho lwenzekile kwisithuba sonyaka, khange lukhawuleze nangayiphi na indlela, kwaye oku kuyangqina ukuba olu tshintsho lulungile.
Ke enkosi, / r / i-pornfree, kukho iziphumo zokwenyani zokuyeka i-porn (kwaye ziya kufikelela ekuphuculeni ubomi bakho). 🙂
http://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/1zhlts/how_porn_has_affected_me_as_a_19yearold_female/
walala nomfazi wam-ngaphandle kwelahleko ekwakheni nantoni na
Phinda ufumanise i-SEX ngeNofap (andikholwanga kumandla amakhulu de
Isibonelelo sam esikhulu kuNoFap: Amantombazana amnandi kakhulu
Ubudala be-50-ED bonyango: kufana neentsuku ezindala kunye nomfazi wam
Ngaphambi kokuba i-nofap ndibe ne-PIED-eso sizathu esikhulu sokuba ndiqalise i-nofap ngoDisemba 15 kwaye bendikade ndikwimo enzima ukusukela ngoko. Malunga neentsuku ezingama-60 mna nomfazi wam sabelana ngesondo amaxesha ambalwa (uSuku lweValentine nayo yonke loo nto)…
Inzuzo enkulu yosuku lwe-92-isondo esikhulu kwaye akukho PIED!
by nofap490
Ubudala 22 - Kufana nenqanaba elitsha lesini
… Xa ndijonga emva kwindlela ebendinayo, kufana nokujonga emva komnye umntu. Bendihlala ndinoloyiko malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kunye nentombi yam kuba bendisoloko ndisoyika i-ED isiza phezu kwam. Ndandisoloko ndichasene nokuqhubela phambili kwakhe kwaye ndenze izizathu zokuba kutheni singenakulala ngesondo ngenxa yokuba ndandisele ndihlaziye ngaloo mini kwaye ndandingenayo imvakalelo, okanye ngenxa yokuba ndandisoyika ngenxa yokungakwazi ukwenza kwaye kufuneka ndihlupheke ihlazo, iintloni, kunye nehlazo le-ED.
Konke kutshintshile. Ndivakalelwa kukuba umfana kufuneka kwakhona; Ndiphinde ndabuya uthando lwam ngesondo kwaye ingcinga yokuba i-ED enokubakho ayide iwele engqondweni yam. Ngaphambi kokuba ndiyeke, ndandikhathazeka nge-ED rhoqo xa silala ngesondo. Ngoku, akukho nto. Kukhululekile ukukhululeka engqondweni yam. Ndiziva ngathi ndiyindoda entsha.
Kufana nokufumana ngesiquphe inqanaba elitsha lesini. Njengawe bendihlala ndibukela iphonografi kwaye ndisithi kum oko kundenza horny kwaye ndifuna ukulala ngesithandwa sam. Kodwa xa uyekile ukubukela iphonografi ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ujolise kuphela kumntu omnye ukoneliseka ngokwesondo uyaqonda ukuba ulahlekelwa kangakanani.
Kum isini saba namandla ngakumbi. Andizange nje ndilale ngesondo ngenxa yokuba ndandixhamla kwaye ndikhangele ukuphela kwam, ndandidla ngesondo ngenxa yobudlelwane phakathi kwam kunye nalo mntu othile kunye nendlela abavuselele ngayo kunye nendlela ababendenza ngayo ndive.
Andazi ukuba ndingayichaza njani. Kufana nokuba ubukele uMntu ngokuchasene nokutya okanye umboniso wokupheka kumabonwakude kwaye ubona esona sidlo sihle okhe wasibona. Uyanyinyitheka phezu kwayo kwaye uphuphe ukuyitya, emva koko ugqibe ukutya okulungeleyo kwifriji yakho. Ewe, ujongile nendlala yakho, kodwa ayifani ncam.
Ukuyeka i-porn ngokupheleleyo, nangona kunjalo, kufana nokulungiselela ukutya kwakho. Uthenga izithako, uyazilungisa, uzichukumise kwaye uzive. Kunzima umsebenzi ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa ufumana ulwaneliseko lokupheka. Ufumana ulwaneliseko lokujoja ezo zithako, ubabukele behlangana, kwaye ekugqibeleni unesitya esihle osenzileyo. Ayisiyo isidlo osibonileyo kwenye indawo kwaye awuzukutya ngokwenyani nanini na kungekudala. Isitya sakho, ekhitshini lakho, olwenzileyo. Yonelisa nje….
Ubudala be-22 - ED yonyango: Ndiziva ngathi umfana kufuneka aphinde
Utshintsho kubomi bam besondo.
Ukususela kwi-20 yobudala - bendingenguye
ukusuka Ubudala 20 - Bendingazithembanga, ndingenazakhono zentlalontle, ndiyazi kakuhle Yonke loo nto itshintshile.
Okokuqala, ndiza kuxoxa malunga nale nto yenzelwe ubuntununtunu bam, ukuqhuba ngesondo, kunye neepateni zokuvuselela.
Ndiyaziwa njengendoda "engenakufikeleleka kwimigangatho ephezulu-yamantshontsho"
Izimvo ezivela kwenye iforum
Into endiyifumeneyo mna nomfazi wam kunyaka ophelileyo kukuba ngexesha lokwenza uthando siziva ngathi sibafanela abanye abantu isithixo / isithixokazi! Kuyavakala kusisiyatha ukuthetha ngayo, kodwa ngalo mzuzu kuvakala oko kwaye sixelelana.
Ndandixhonywa kwi-porn iminyaka ye-35 kunye nama-orgasms anamava xa ndijonga kwaye ndibona malunga namawaka amaninzi emodeli yabasetyhini abafezekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo iphumelele indlela endibufumene ubuhle benkosikazi yam, kuba kuyindalo ukuthelekisa oko. Okoko ndafumanisa umxholo we Karezza, Ndifumene ukuba ndilahlekelwe ngumdla wam kwi-porn. (Nditsho kakhulu kuba inxenye yam isenomdla ngayo, kodwa ayonelanga ukuyilandela). Ngoku xa ndithandana nenkosikazi yam ndizifumana ndinomdla kuyo yonke i-intshi yesikwere se-43 yeminyaka ubudala, umama womzimba we-3! Izinto ekuthiwa kukungafezeki ziba ziimpawu zomlinganiswa, kwaye lonke isiphako nemibimbi kuyonwabisa, kwaye oku kwamkelwa ngokunyanisekileyo komzimba wakhe kunika amandla amangalisayo esimbozwe kuwo.
Ukungavumeli i-orgasm rhoqo ukuba ichaphazele ukuthanda kwam kunye naye ivumele ingqondo yam ukuba iphinde ichaze ukuba yintoni na umzimba ogqibeleleyo. Ingcaciso yam yokugqibelela zizinto ezizodwa kuye, kubandakanya zonke izinto ezibizwa ngokuba "zeziphene". Ezo zinto zizinto ezilungileyo! Nasi isicatshulwa esivela kumdlalo bhanyabhanya oLungileyo uza kuzingela:
Inyaniso yokuba isithandwa sakho asihambelani nefomula yaseHollywood emiselweyo yento entle engeyomfuneko xa useThandweni.
Ubudala be-22 - ED bonyango, ngakumbi ukuhambelana neemvakalelo kunye nokonwaba ngakumbi
Ubudala be-22 - ED bonyango, ngakumbi ukuhambelana neemvakalelo kunye nokonwaba ngakumbi
Iintsuku ze-180-umlutha wam usandikhathaza kunye nobomi bam ngokwesini
Ukuphuma apho ukuya kwi-180, kwaye okwangoku, ikhoboka lam lisandikhathaza kunye nobomi bam bezesondo. Mka kuyo zihlobo. Ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo yindlela ende.
“Andiyi koyika nembono yokuba ngumntu wedwa”
Ukulahla u-O ngokupheleleyo (indlela enzima ndiyakholelwa) yayingeyiyo indlela efanelekileyo, ndidibana namantombazana amaninzi kuwo omabini umsebenzi wam kunye nesangqa sentlalontle, nangona kunjalo ukushiya i-P, okokuqala kwiminyaka eyi umdla kula mantombazana ngaphaya kwemizimba yawo, enyanisweni andoyiki nembono yokuba yedwa kunye nomnye umntu. Ngoku andisayi kujonga eyona ntombazana intle kwigumbi, kodwa eyona inomdla, eyona inomdla, ndicothwa kancinci kwigobolondo lam elingacacanga.
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/age-22-proactive-social-energetic-confident-all-my-friends-co-workers-have-noticed
Ubona amantombazana ngokwahlukileyo
Kutshanje ndiye ndafumana intombi kwaye ngaphambili ndandikrokrela onke amagunya amakhulu, imvula ebandayo, ukucamngca, "amandla nabafazi," intetho yePUA kunye nezinye izinto zale sub-reddit engakhange ibhenele kum. Ndacinga ukuba kuninzi ukuqhayisa okufihlakeleyo okuqhubekayo kwaye akuzange kungene kwi-nofap kunye nomcimbi wentombi engqondweni. Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndiza kubonakalisa utshintsho njengokuzithemba okwandayo okanye nantoni na eyahlukileyo kodwa umbono wam utshintshile ukusuka ekuziphatheni ngokwesondo ubudlelwane bam nabasetyhini ukuze ndibabone njengolwalamano oluchanekileyo (jonga ngasentla). Oko kunokuvakala ngathi ndiqhwalela kunye noGqr.Phil-esque kodwa kuyamangalisa xa uthanda intombazana ngenxa yendlela oziva ngayo xa umjikelezile kunokuba ucinga ukuba uza kujongeka kanjani ngaphandle kwempahla. Utshintsho olufihlakeleyo kodwa lungcono kunayo nayiphi na "amandla amakhulu" eza nokuzithemba okwandayo kuluvo lwam.
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Ndiziva ndingenaxhala kakhulu ngoku –inxalenye yayo inokuba kungenxa yokuba isikolo sigqityiwe kodwa andiziva kangangendlela endisichaze ngayo ngasentla. Ngaphambi kokuba ndizive ndililolo kwaye ngathi bendilahlekile kwinto ethile kodwa ngoku imeko yolwaneliseko lwam itshintshile. I-PMO ihlala ikusukela ngokukhawuleza okukhulu - intombazana entle, imeko engcono, into eyahlukileyo kunaleyo uyibonileyo ngaphambili. Ubomi bam abufezekanga ngoku kodwa andiziva ngathi ndibambelela kwinto endingenakufikelela kuyo kwakhona. Kunzima ukuyichaza kodwa ndiziva ngathi i-PMO ayinayo umda kwinto oyisukelayo. Ngoku ndiziva ngathi ndisaleqa iinjongo zam, kodwa ndiyavuya ukuba ndinokwenza konke okusemandleni ukuba ndisondele kubo kangangoko ndinako. Ndisenokungakwazi ukufikelela kubo kodwa ndiziva ngathi kukho into eyonwabisayo yokwenyani yokufikelela oko kwakungekho ngaphambili.
Iintsuku ze90! Amanqaku amaninzi
Ukuphucuka okumandla kubomi besondo emva kokuyeka iphonografi
[Iingcali ezibanga ukuba iphonografi azinakubangela iingxaki] ziyacaphukisa ngakumbi kuthi kuthi esele sinePIED kwaye siyibuyisile ngokumisa i-PMO. Okwangoku kulindeleke ukuba silinde isifundo esithile sobunzululwazi ngaphambi kokuba sivunyelwe ukuba sisebenzise ukuqonda kwaye siqonde ukuba iphonografi ibangelwe yingxaki yethu yokwakha.
Amava am aqinisekisa ukuba ukulahla ingxaki yamanyala kunokuwunceda umtshato wakho. Mna nomfazi wam sinesondo esona silungileyo esakha sanaso oko ndayeka i-PMO. Umahluko omkhulu, kwaye andidingi ngcebiso ngengqondo okanye ndithethe kakhulu malunga nengxaki. Kwafuneka nje ndiyeke umlutha wobudenge kumanyala.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/29tqz5/i_got_to_talk_about_my_porn_induced_ed_on_tv_then/cioumc7
Ubudala 25 - Oku kuye kwabuphucula ubomi bam ngokwesondo kunokuba bendisazi ukuba kunokwenzeka
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/age-25-has-improved-my-sex-life-more-i-knew-was-even-possible
Abafazi babonakala bekhangayo
Abafazi babonakala bekhangayo
Ukuqalisa ngokutsha kukhulisa umnqweno weqhina
"Enye yezo khemikhali ndivakalelwa kukuba ziyenziwa yiyo yonke le nto ayisiyiyo i-dopamine okanye i-serotonin, kodwa i-oxytocin ibonakala ngathi iyeza esiqhelweni .. okhoyo ngoku kunakuqala .. okanye kuba ndandisemncinci kakhulu. ”
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2h8dfq/152_days_hardmode/
Wayedla ngokucinga nge-porn ukuze adibane nomfazi
Ndihlala ndabelana ngesondo rhoqo kuwo wonke umtshato wam (iminyaka eyi-6 ngoku), kodwa bendisoloko ndifumanisa ukuba ngaphandle kokuba isini silunge kakhulu kufuneka ndicinge ngo-P ukuze O kumfazi wam, ndafumanisa ukuba malunga ne-5% yexesha Khange ndikwazi ukugqiba tu. Ngoku nangona ndingacingi ngale nto konke konke, konwaba nje ixesha kunye naye. Kuphantse kufana nokuqala ngaphezulu kunye nokufunda ngesondo kwakhona, kunokuba ngokwahlukileyo ngengqondo ecacileyo engafakwanga nguP.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2j4ih6/first_post_here_but_long_time_benefactor_of_this/
Andisafuni foun yakhe
Andisafuni foun yakhe
Ndiziva nditsaleleka ngakumbi kwimizimba yabasetyhini yokwenyani.
Umtsalane wesini uyatshintsha…
Kwinyanga enye akukho porn
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2kr4pa/sexual_attraction_is_changing/
26days = ezinye zezesondo ezilungileyo!
Ukutsaleleka kwi-v ** ina okokuqala ebomini bam!
Ndingu 26 kwaye ndandinzulu ngokunzulu kula mabele angaqhelekanga ukusukela kudala ukuba ndingaze ndibone i-av * gina njengento enomtsalane. Khange ndikwazi ukuzikhotha ukuba ndikhe ndikhothe abo bakhe, nditsho nokubamba, ngaphandle kokuba bendinxile kakhulu okanye enye into. Ngokwemvelo, andizange ndilale ngesondo, okanye ndivulwe ngezinto nje ze-vanilla. Khawufane ucinge ukuba iqabane lam beliya kuziva njani xa lisondele.
Ngokukhawuleza ngoku. Ndabona umfanekiso we-v-gina ngandlela thile, kwaye ndayifumana intle kwaye inomtsalane. Andikwazi ukuzigcina ndingajonganga eminye imifanekiso. Andikakholelwa ukuba yenzekile, kwaye SO f * cking ndonwabile ngoku.
Owu, ezincinci izinto zintle! Intle nje! Bendiphi yonke le minyaka? iinyembezi zovuyo
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/age-26-porn-induced-ed-healed-i-did-not-need-any-fantasies-or-imagination-keep-it
Iinyanga ze-4 emva kokuyeka i-porn
Ukwabelana ngesondo nomfazi wam kuye kwangummangaliso. rhoqo rhoqo, kunye nokusondelana ngakumbi kum malunga nokufuna i-cum.kodwa kunokuba sisondele kuye.
http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=25793.msg430620#msg430620
Ungabuya kwakhona (uqhawule umtshato ngenxa ye-porn)
Imbono yam ngabafazi
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/porn-induced-sexual-dysfunctions/what-experts-tell-guys-suffering-from-pied-the-good-the-bad/
Ingxelo kwiforum
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2pxadn/day_31_my_benefits_and_experiences/
Uhlaziyo lwePIED:
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2q3o6r/pied_update_so_i_think_you_were_finally_able_to/
Iziphumo ze-porn kwi-libido kunye neqabane
Ikholejini sophomore
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2tmlwn/havent_fapped_in_over_a_month_now_heres_what_ive/
Usuku 130 kwaye isenza inkqubela phambili
Usuku 130 kwaye isenza inkqubela phambili.
Ekugqibeleni indlela ebuyela ekubeni yindoda
U-tran tran ufumana inkululeko ebusweni
Intombazana inokubonisa njani ukuba akukho zimpawu zokutsala ngokwesondo kwiminyaka ye-2
"I-NoFap ayisiyonto yam kuphela"
“Ndandibathiya Abafazi Ndithanda Namanyala”
Ukwabelana ngesondo okokuqala emva kokuba kwi-NoFap kunye nesihogo kwakumangalisa!
Ukwabelana ngesondo okokuqala emva kokuba kwi-NoFap kunye nesihogo kwakumangalisa !!!
Umyeni osindileyo uyathetha
Ndingumfazi owayengumlutha we-porn. Ubanga ukuba i-ED yakhe "yayiyimeko yonyango". Eli libali lam, AMA
Hee, ndandiwonwabile ngokwesondo okokuqala!
Hee, ndandiwonwabile ngokwesondo okokuqala!
Imibono etshintsha ithoni
Amaphupha afumene ukuthoba kunye nothando
Indoda isindisa usuku
Uninzi lwamantombazana ajongeka ngendlela entle
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Turks
Umntu
kunamafu
Uninzi lwamantombazana ajongeka ngendlela entle
Inzuzo entsha eyoyikekayo !!
Uninzi lwezenzo ze-porn azonwabisi kubomi bokwenyani.
Uninzi lwezinto ezingamanyala azonwabisi kubomi bokwenyani. Ukuzama ukucima ifuthe le-porn kwisini sokwenene.
Ngaba omnye umntu uqaphela ukuba onke amantombazana ashushu
Ngaba ukhona omnye umntu uqaphela ukuba onke amantombazana ashushu / ekubukeni ngamehlo ngakumbi nge-NoFap?
Ndiyaqonda ukuthandana ngoku.
Ndiyaqonda ukuthandana ngoku.
Ekugqibeleni ndifana nesondo sangempela kunokuba ndiyithande iphosi.
Umfazi omncinci ucacisa ngemiphumela yokusebenzisa iphonografi kwisithandwa sakhe
LINK - enkosi!
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IIMPENDULO ngamanye amalungu eforum aphantsi kwakhe:
I-NoFap iguqule indlela endibajonga ngayo njengabafazi
I-NoFap iguqule indlela endibajonga ngayo njengabafazi
Nabani na kuni ongahluthi uyitshintsha indlela ozijonga ngayo ngokwesini
Ngaba kukho nabani na kuni onokuthi atshintshe isimo sakhe sengqondo malunga nesini esithandanayo emva kokuhamba ende?
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Umfazi wam mhle kakhulu
Umfazi wam mhle kakhulu
Umfazi wam mhle kakhulu
Bendihleli izolo nonkosikazi wam, ebesosula iinwele zakhe emva kokuhlamba kwaye bendimjongile kwaye bendimangalisiwe NGOKUHLE ngobuhle bakhe. Kwaye andithethi ngobuhle bakhe, ndithetha oku kukhanya kobubele, ubumsulwa kunye nolonwabo. Ndamxelela 'usana, umhle kakhulu' kwaye wayefana 'ulinde umzuzwana, andiboni nasiphi na isivunguvungu ngaphandle, ke kwenzeka njani ukuba ubethwe sisandi sendudumo?' :))
Ndiyazibuza ukuba kungangcono kangakanani ukuba umhlaba ubuya kuba ngcono, ukuba iphonografi ngekhe ibekho konke konke. Mingaphi imitshato enokuthintelwa? Hayi indlela esivuya ngayo, njengoluntu.
Sisenokungaze siyifumane kodwa into endinokukuqinisekisa yona, unokuzifumana ngokwakho. Qhubeka usilwa, kufanelekile oko. Umfazi wam mhle kakhulu
Emva kweeveki ze-4 ndingafumana into enomdla malunga nayo nayiphi na i-g
Emva kweeveki ze-4 ndingafumana into enomdla malunga nayo nayiphi na intombazana
Oko ngekhe kube njalo
Iveki yeSiganeko soMgqibelo kunye nomfazi wam: amaxesha amathathu kwiiyure ze-24
Namhlanje ndiye ndayiqonda inyani elula yokuba abantu basetyhini ngabantu
Ndikwilali yokuzivocavoca namhlanje ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndidlale uluhlu lokudlala oludala kakhulu lweengoma endinazo kususela kwiminyaka ebuyayo. Kwafika iingoma ezinamandla ezimbalwa phakathi kweeseti zam njengoko ndandimi apho ndiphumle, ndijonga ngaphandle kwefestile. Ndiqale ukucinga ngomhlobo osenyongweni othathe obakhe ubomi kwangoko kulo nyaka kunye nentombazana eyayi-Ex yandithuthuzela ngayo. Ndandiqala ukulila phakathi kwigumbi lokuzivocavoca. Khange ndikhale kuphela ngenxa yomhlobo wam osemva kwexesha, kodwa nendlela endikhathalele ngayo u-Ex wam kum ngexesha lokudinga.
Nguye laa Ex wandicaphukisayo ixesha elide kangaka ngemeko endiyenzileyo.
KwaEx enye, ngamanye amaxesha, bendijonga njengento yokulala naye ukuzalisekisa iminqweno yam egulayo.
Nguye laa Ex bendikunqwenela ukubona abanye abantu emva kokuba sigqibile.
Le Ex enye ndizamile ukubuyisa kunye xa ndikhangela isperm sam esilandelayo.
Namhlanje ndiyifumene inyani elula yokuba abantu basetyhini banamaphupha afanayo, iinkolelo, kunye neemvakalelo njengathi. Baziva iintlungu. Baziva besentlungwini. Bazisola. Bayabulala abantu.
Ndicinga ukuba ndithathe inyathelo lam lokuqala ukuyikhulula ingqondo yam egulayo, ejijekileyo. Le ndlela yokuphila ngaphandle kwe-PMO indenza ndiziva. Ndingatsho ngokuzithemba okukhulu ukuba andinqweneli kwanto kodwa ikamva elilungileyo lentombi yam yangaphambili, nokuba ikamva libandakanya mna okanye hayi. Kukhona into eyenzekileyo kwindawo yokwenza umthambo namhlanje…
Abafazi bahle kakhulu
Abafazi bahle kakhulu
Ukulala ngesondo kuyitshintshe njani imbono yam
Ukulala ngesondo kuyitshintshe njani imbono yam
Amagqabantshintshi avela kwi-r / Nofap kwi-make-up
Ngaba omnye umntu uqala ukubona ubuhle kumantombazana ngaphandle kokwenza izimonyo? Ndivakalelwa kukuba ikhupha ngakumbi ubunyani babo kwaye kukho ubunyani kunye nobunyani kubo, smth ukuba uqala ukufuna ngakumbi nangakumbi kolu hambo, hayi kumantombazana kuphela kodwa nakubomi ngokubanzi.
Ngaba omnye umntu uqala ukubona ubuhle kumantombazana ngaphandle kokwenza izimonyo?
Ukujonga ngamehlo akhe.
Ukujonga ngamehlo akhe.
Ndivakalelwa kukuba ukuyeka ukufota kuluphucula ngokwenene ulwalamano lwethu
I-Sex ingcono kakhulu ne-gf
I-porn ayisijiki kwakhona
I-porn ayisijiki kwakhona
Ukutshintsha kwiimpawu ezinqwenela ukuthanda abantu?
Ukutshintsha kwiimpawu ezinqwenela ukuthanda abantu?
I-orgasm yam yokuqala engcolileyo!
I-orgasm yam yokuqala engcolileyo!
I-42 yeentsuku NOFAP
Ndibukele iphonografi ukusukela kwiminyaka yam yokufikisa xa ndandineminyaka eyi-17 kwaye ngoku ndineminyaka eyi-26 ndiyekile ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokuhambisa amalungu esini, kuyamangalisa ngokwenene, ndingatshatanga kwaye ndiyayithanda imvakalelo yokhuni lwakusasa, andizimiselanga ukubukela kwaye ndibukele iphonografi unyaka opheleleyo ndifuna ukutshata, ndicinga ukuba ndihlupheka ngu-ED ndacela ugqirha nogqirha wathi kufuneka ndiyeke ukubukela iphonografi kunye ne-masturbation de ndibuyele esiqhelweni. I-FUFCk ye-porn eyonakalise ubomi bethu. .. ixesha lethu elixabisekileyo ukuthanda kwethu imfundo yethu yokuzihlonipha njlnjl .. ndithandazeleni bhuti .. Ndimele ndiyeke iminyaka emibini ...
Ndalala nomfazi wam (ibali lempumelelo)
Ndalala nomfazi wam (ibali lempumelelo)
Uluvo lwabantu ababhinqileyo kwiPonografi
Uluvo lwabantu ababhinqileyo kwiPonografi
Amandla am amakhulu ukubona umntu obhinqileyo
Amandla am amakhulu ukubona umntu obhinqileyo
Ndiyayithanda indlela ukungavumi ikuvumela ukuba ubuxabise ubuhle obuqhelekileyo
Ndiyayithanda indlela ukungavumi ikuvumela ukuba ubuxabise ubuhle obuqhelekileyo kunye nomnqweno wabantu, hayi imizimba. Ndilibambe ibali lam lesifuba.
Olona tshintsho lubalaseleyo endilubonileyo sisimo sam sengqondo ngalo
Iintsuku ze-90, ukusuka phi apha? Zive ukhululekile kwi-AMA
Ubudlelwane phakathi komfazi wam buye baphucuka kakhulu.
I-Thx ngokwenza la madoda .. <3 Amantombazana ngokuchasene ne-porn
I-Thx ngokwenza la madoda .. <3 Amantombazana ngokuchasene ne-porn
Ukungakwazi ukuwela KUTHANDO ngenxa yeminyaka ye-PMO! Ndiyathemba uNoFap yena
Ukungakwazi ukuwela KUTHANDO ngenxa yeminyaka ye-PMO! Ndiyathemba ukuba i-NoFap iyanceda!
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GUY 3)
Andifuni ukucinga ngabafazi njengezinto…
Kwanele malunga nee-OP kunye namabali abo. Uluntu lwaseNoFap, lithini ibali lakho?
Ndifikelela kwimibandela yokuba i-PMO iGarlic epheleleyo.
Ndisondelelene nentombazana yam ende. Le yingxelo yam.
Ngaba i-NoFap iyayitshintsha imbono yakho ngamantombazana kunye nolwalamano?
Ngaba i-NoFap iyayitshintsha imbono yakho ngamantombazana kunye nolwalamano?
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i-stoenr
LP83
i-stoenr
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I-Zeta_Metroid
ILouis_DM1
nofetebutwhatwemake
I-NoFap Ukutshintsha kobomi bam
Isini esandenza ukuba ndibone nge-porn
Ukwahlula ukuba ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kukuchaphazela njani ukulala ngesondo sakho.
Phambi kokuba nabani na ayikhombe, ewe… Ndiyazi ukuba abanye abantu banesondo eliqhuba ngokwendalo kwaye abanye abantu bane drive esezantsi ngokwendalo. Kodwa ubudlelwane bam noononophala bandenza ukuba ndenze izigqibo malunga nokuhamba kwam ngesondo.
Ukwahluka okungapheliyo kunye nenxalenye yento entsha ebonisa ukuba iphonografi yasimahla kwi-intanethi ibonelela ukuba ayinakuphikiswa kum. Ndasebenzisa i-masturbate kwi-pornography phantse yonke imihla kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngamaxesha amaninzi ngaloo mini. Kuba bendiyenza yonke imihla, ndiye ndaqala ukuthethelela ukusetyenziswa kwam ngokuzixelela ukuba, mhlawumbi, ndinesondo esiphakamileyo. Esi sizathu sokuzithethelela senza izinto zibe mandundu ngakumbi kwaye sikhokelele ekusetyenzisweni okungakumbi. Iqela lam lezemidlalo lilahlekile? - masibukele iphonografi, iimviwo zam zemfundo azange zihambe kakuhle ngendlela ebendizithanda ngayo? - masibukele iphonografi, kukho into endenze ndanomsindo? - masibukele iphonografi. Ke, nangona ubudlelwane baqala ngenxa yokuthanda kwam malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo ezinikezelwa ngoononophala, ayizange ibe yinto ngaphandle kwendlela yokujamelana nobomi bam bokwenyani kunye nokudana (yiyo loo nto ndinengxaki nabantu abalingana ne-porn ngesondo kuba isini kufuneka sibe malunga nokuzithemba ngelixa uninzi lwababukeli be-porn besebenzisa ukujongana nokungakhathali), kodwa khange ndiyiqonde ngelo xesha njengoko bendicinga ukuba oku kungenxa yokuqhuba kwam ngesondo okuphezulu.
Ngoku ukuba ndichithe malunga neenyanga ze-5 (andigcini umkhondo wenani leentsuku) ngaphandle koononophala (ndaphinda ndabuya nzima kabini kwiiveki ze-2 kwimizamo emibini yangaphambili yokuya kwi-pornfree), ndiye ndabona ukuba oku Uluvo lokuba bendinayo malunga nokuqhuba ngesondo okuphezulu yayiyinkunkuma nje. Yiloo nto ukusebenzisa kwam i-porn kwandenza ndacinga. Iiveki zokuqala ze-2-3 zinzima, kodwa nje ukuba uhambe inyanga okanye ezimbini ngaphandle koononophala, ezo zibongozo ziqala ukulungelelanisa kwaye ziqheleke (ubuncinci ngamava am). Andisacingi rhoqo malunga ne-orgasm elandelayo endiya kuba nayo okanye ividiyo elandelayo ye-porn endizoyibukela. Nokuba ndidibana nomfanekiso kwenye indawo okanye enye into enokuba ibingunobangela, ayisenampembelelo kum. Ngoku andikabi yi-asexual. Ndihlala ndihlaziya i-masturbate (ngaphandle koononophala) ngamanye amaxesha (kanye ngeveki okanye kanye kwiiveki ze-2) kwaye njengendoda eqondileyo, ndiyakwazi ukuvuma xa ndifumana ukutsalwa ngokwesondo kumfazi, kodwa andinayo ingqondo endiyenayo ukusoloko ndicima umnqweno wam wesondo nanini na ndiziva ndisebenzisa enye into engamanyala ngendlela endandisenza ngayo ndisebenzisa umbono wokuqhuba ngesondo okuphezulu njengesizathu.
Ngoko kunye neengxaki ezininzi ezinjenge-PIED, iintsholongwane ezibhubhisa, ukuphelelwa kwenkwenkwezi yenkwenkwezi yexesha elixabisekileyo, ukujonga abafazi njengezinto zesini, njl.
Ukwabelana ngesondo izolo
Ukwabelana ngesondo phezolo-Icandelo II
I-NoFap iyitshintshe nyhani into yam yengqondo
Thumela - Umyeni wam uneziyobisi ezingamanyala okanye ezesondo kwaye andazi ukuba ndingamnceda njani. Ndiziva ndilahlekile koku kwaye ndingenathemba.
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Ukutshintsha iinkolelo zakho malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kunokunceda ekuvuseleleni.
Ndilikhoboka le-porn ubuncinci iminyaka eyi-20. Ndenze iinzame ezininzi zokuyeka unyaka ophelileyo okanye njalo. Le streak ndikuyo ngoku iziva yahlukile, iziva ilula kancinci, kwaye ndiyakholelwa ukuba kungenxa yokuba ndineenkolelo zobuxoki malunga nokwabelana ngesondo endiye ndaqala ukuzitshintsha. Nazi ke:
Ingxaki kwezi nkolelo kukuba zibangela ukuba ndiphakamise isondo ngaphaya kwale nto likuyo. Benze nzima nokuyeka iphonografi. Kwixesha elidlulileyo ndiza kuyeka ukubukela iphonografi iintsuku ezimbalwa, kodwa bendizakucinga, kwaye ukucinga kwam kuya kuba njengemifanekiso engamanyala. Kuzo ndisebenzisa omnye umntu amalungu omzimba ukuze ndizonwabise. Akuzukuthatha thuba lide ngaphambi kokuba iminqweno ibe yindinisa, kwaye ndiza kubuyela ekujongeni iphonografi.
Ngeli xesha, ndisebenza ekuchazeni ngokutsha ukuba yeyiphi into eyabelana ngesondo. Ngoku ndichaza isondo njengenxalenye yobudlelwane obuzinikeleyo. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kobudlelwane kugqityiwe kwelona xesha lilungileyo kunye nolwaphulo mthetho lwezifo okanye lwangokuhlwa.
Ke ngoku isondo yinto endiyenzayo nomfazi wam. Andijongi iphonografi, andicingi malunga nabanye abantu basetyhini, andizilandeli iimodeli ze-Instagram, andivumeli amehlo am ahlale phezu kwabafazi abathandekayo endibabonayo ebomini bokwenyani, khange ndibenayo ne-masturbating . Ngenxa yokuba akukho nenye yesini. Ukwabelana ngesondo kuthetha ukuba kunye nomfazi wam.
Olu tshintsho lwengqondo lube luncedo ngokwenene. Umfazi wam kunye nam siyekile ukulala ngesondo, ikakhulu kuba khange ndiyiqalise. Xa senze njalo, iya kuba yintlekele. Ndiza kuwavala amehlo kwaye ndicinge ukuba ngomnye umntu kwaye sasikumanyala. Ndingafumana i-erection, kodwa ekugqibeleni iya kuhamba ithambile kwaye ngekhe ndikwazi ukwenza i-orgasm. Umfazi wam wayekhathazeka kwaye ndiziva ndimbi kwaye ndineentloni.
Sibe nesondo ngakumbi kwi-2019 emva kwayo yonke i-2018. Andikwazi ukugcina izandla zam kuye. Uyayithanda indlela endimnika yona, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba iyamenza azive emhle kwaye enqwenela. Kwakhona xa sisabelana ngesondo, andicingi nganto. Ndikulo mzuzu ndiyonwabele. Ukugqiba akukho ngxaki kwakhona. Ngapha koko kuye kwafuneka ndizenzele isantya amaxesha ambalwa. Kwaye ii-orgasms zinamandla ngakumbi kunayo nayiphi na i-PMO endakha ndanayo. Ndiziva ndizalisekile kwaye ndonelisekile.
Andikho inyanga, ngoko andiyi kuzikhohlisa ngokucinga ukuba ndifumene, kodwa ukutshintsha iinkolelo zam ngesondo kuye kwenza izinto zibe lula kunemizamo yangaphambili. Ndingacebisa ukuba uvavanye iinkolelo zakho malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kwaye ubone ukuba ukutshintsha nayiphi na into kunokunceda.
tl; dr - ndibambe iinkolelo ezingekho mpilweni malunga nokwabelana ngesondo okuthintele ukuzama ukubuyela kwimeko yangaphambili. Ukuchaza kwakhona ukuba kuthetha ntoni ngesondo kuye kwandinceda ndayeka ukubukela iphonografi, kwaye bendincedisa umtshato wam.
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Iintsuku ze-50 zokungaboni ubulili kunye nobudlelwane obuphuculweyo
Ukuphuculwa kobukhuthala ngokwasemzimbeni nomyeni wam osaphilayo emva kweveki enye kuphela
I-NoFap iyandenza ndinqwenele ukusondelelana kwabasetyhini