YBOP NTCHITO: Tsambali lili ndi malipoti ambiri omwe anthu (ena mwa iwo ndi olondola pankhani zandale kuposa ena), omwe adazindikira kuti zolaula zawo zidakhudza zomwe amakonda atasiya zolaula ndikuwona kuti zomwe amakonda sizikubweranso. Malipotiwa amachokera ku malo ochezera zolaula. YBOP imawamasulira bwino monga momwe aliri, ndipo malingaliro / kutaya mtima kwa olemba awo sizikuwonetsa zomwe zili patsamba lino. Ngati mukuwona kuti chidwi chanu chogonana ndi achikondi kwa anthu opitilira muyeso ndichabwino, kuti ndinu okhutitsidwa ndi zokonda zanu zogonana, kapena kuti zokonda zanu zakugonana zakhazikitsidwa, musapite patali. Tsambali ndi la anthu omwe amakhulupirira kuti kuchuluka kwawo kokhudzana ndi zolaula kumitundu yatsopano kumatha kubisa zomwe amakonda kale kapena zachiwerewere.
Onani gawo la ndemanga pansipa pazithunzi ndi ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pofotokoza kuchulukitsa kwa mitundu zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi zofuna zoyambirira kapena zochitika. Onaninso:
- LIPOTI: Zofufuza za 40 zofukufuku zomwe zikupezeka zikugwirizana ndi kukula kwa zolaula (kulekerera), chizoloŵezi choonera zolaula, komanso ngakhale kusiya
- PHUNZIRO: Ndani amakopeka ndi 'shemales?' - Amuna a gynandromorphophilic ndi ndani? Kuzindikira amuna omwe ali ndi chidwi chogonana ndi akazi opitilira muyeso (2015) [Phunziroli linali lotchedwa ndi olemba a kafukufukuyu.]
- Kudziwa bwino momwe munthu amapezera mwana wamwamuna wautali wautali pogwiritsa ntchito njira yopanda manyazi, yobwereza ubongo.
- Kodi Zogonana Zosatheka?
- Thandizo Labwino kwa HOCD? HOCD yokhudzana ndi zolaula ikhoza kuyitanitsa njira yake yothandizira
- Kugonana, kuwonjezeka, kulekerera ndi zokonda zachiwerewere (radio show #16)
- Kugonana, kugonana ndi ubongo wa achinyamata (mawonedwe a wailesi #17)
- Ubongo Wachikulire Umagwiritsa Ntchito Intaneti Yopambana (2013) (theka la ora la YouTube pazochitika zogonana ndi ubongo wa achinyamata)
NKHANI: Kodi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimapangitsa Kuti Akazi Azigonana Pulasitiki?
Kamodzi pa nthawi, amuna amatha kudalira penise yawo kuti awauze zonse zomwe akufunikira kudziwa zokhudza zofuna zawo zogonana. Ngakhale posachedwapa, katswiri wa zamaganizo Paul Vasey molimba mtima anafotokoza kuti,
“Umaganiziranso za kugonana ukamasewera maliseche.”
Zoonadi? Bwanji ngati zolaula zomwe munayamba mwazisangalala nazo palibe ntchitoyi? Kodi ichi ndichifukwa chake owona omwe sangawononge ena akuwona zolaula zachiwawa? N'chifukwa chiyani anthu oonera zolaula amavutika maganizo ndi zofuna zawo zolaula zolaula kapena zolaula? N'chifukwa chiyani anthu owongoka mtima amadabwa ndi zofuna zawo zolaula kapena zolaula?
Psychiatrist Norman Doidge anafotokozera Ubongo Womwe Umasintha:
Zomwe zilipo [odwala] zomwe zinawoneka zosangalatsa zinkasintha pamene Mawebusaiti adayambitsa malemba ndi malemba omwe anasintha ubongo wawo popanda kuzindikira. Chifukwa chakuti pulasitiki ndi yopikisana, ubongo umapangidwira zithunzi zatsopano, zosangalatsa zinawonjezeka chifukwa cha zomwe zinkakopeka kale. (p.109)
Kodi zolaula zaposachedwa kwambiri za owonera zimawonetsa "zolakalaka zake zazikulu komanso malingaliro ake osavomerezeka," monga Ogas ndi Gaddam Funsani? Kodi kugonana kwake kumasintha mogwirizana ndi zomwe amawona? Kapena kodi cyberporn imapanga zokonda zapamwamba, nthawi zina zosagwirizana ndi kugonana? Ambiri mwina, yotsirizira.
Porn zasintha… kwambiri
Mawu, zithunzi, zomvetsera ndi makanema sizachilendo. Chifukwa chiyani anthu amadandaula kuti "azolowera" kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti, imelo, Facebook, kusewera makanema, ma-foni, kapena zolaula pa intaneti? Chifukwa zochitika zamasiku anozi mwamphamvu kwambiri, zitha kukhala zosokoneza. Kusaka ukondewo, makamaka zolaula, kumaphatikizapo zochitika zonse zomwe zimapangitsa dopamine ndikupangitsa kuti mphotho ziziyenda bwino: kufunafuna ndi kusaka, zinthu zosangalatsa, kuyembekezera tsamba lililonse, zachilendo pakufuna, komanso zowoneka zodabwitsa komanso zowopsa.
Mwachionekere, kamodzi-mwezi Playboy, kapena tepi ya 80 V VHS sangathe kufanizitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zowonera ziwiri zotanthauzira, ndi mawindo 6 otseguka, kuti mufufuze mpaka mutapeza chithunzi choyenera chobwererera kwanu. Mukapumira pang'ono mutha kusaka pa Google pazinthu zomwe simunawonepo, kuti mutha kuzimanganso. Mosiyana ndi zolaula zam'mbuyomu, zolaula za pa intaneti masiku ano ndizolimbikitsa kotero kuti, mu ubongo wina, zimatha pang'onopang'ono kubweretsa kusintha komwe kumakhudzana ndi vutoli.
Nzosadabwitsa kuti ubongo wamwamuna umatha kufooka ndikusiya kuyankha pazochitika zachiwerewere. Pomwe zolaula za vanila sizimugwiranso, zokonda zake zimatha kukhala zamadzimadzi modabwitsa. Pamene mtundu wake wapano wa cyberporn sukumukweza, amaganiza kuti, "O, ichi ndi chizindikiro kuti ubongo wanga umafunikira nthawi kuti ubwerere kuzolowera, ndiye bwanji osasiya zolaula?"
Ayi. Iye amaganiza kuti amachita chinthu chimene palibe aliyense wa makolo ake amene akanatha kuchita (koma akanachitanso). Kutuluka ndi akale ndi atsopano-chifukwa zachilendo zimayambitsa kukula kwa dopamine iye akuyenera kuti awukitsidwe. Amagwedeza mozungulira Webusaiti mpaka atagunda chinachake chomwe chimayambitsa mbolo yake. Zojambula zolaula zingakhale zokwanira, koma mwinamwake pambuyo pa gawo lachinayi la tsikulo, amafunika kuwonjezera mantha kapena nkhawa goose wake dopamine ndi kuyatsa moto pansi paubwino wa mphwayi waubongo woyang'anira.
Ndabwerera ku zolaula zachiwerewere tsopano, Ndinapeza zolaula [transgender] poyamba, koma sikuti ndimayikiranso tiyi. Nditaima ndikuopa zomwe anthu angaganize, kutaya kumeneku kunandipatsa ndipo kunasangalatsa.
Nditayamba kupeza zolaula za [transgender] zinali zatsopano komanso zosangalatsa, koma tsopano ndimangokonda mkazi. Mantha ndi omwe adakopa chidwi changa kwa [opanga ma transgender], koma manthawo atatha kukopa kunatha. Siziwoneka bwino kuwona mkazi yemwe ali ndi Dick. Sizonyansa koma sizabwino.
Gawo la ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano lipoti akukwera mpaka kuzinthu zakuthupi omwe poyamba sanali osangalatsa. Kwa ena ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, kuganiza kolakwika kumeneku kungakhale ndi zotsatirazi kapena zotsatirazi zotsatirazi:
1. Mphoto: Wogwiritsa ntchito mosakonzekera amajambula njira zatsopano zodzutsira mthupi lake. Monga wofufuza Jim Pfaus akunenera, "ndi ubongo wamakono ndi wokonzeka. ” Sikuti imangokhala yolumikizana ndi waya, koma imangosintha ndikulonjeza zachiwerewere. Izi ndi zoona makamaka paunyamata, pamene ubongo umapangidwira kukwaniritsa zogonana.
Tithokoze chifukwa cha chisinthiko, umuna ndi womwe umatsogola muubongo, kotero - ngakhale munthu wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula angafune kuiwala zomwe adangowona - ubongo wake umalumikiza mayanjano onse omwe adamupangitsa kuti akhale pachimake. Ikufuna kuti adzathe "kuthirira" cholingachi mtsogolo. Pogwiritsa ntchito mwachidwi, njira yatsopano yamaubongo imatha kukhala 'njira yosankhira,' osaganizira zomwe zili zofunikira. Mwachidule, ma cell aminyewa omwe amayatsa moto pamodzi - makamaka ngati atulutsa mphukira yayikulu.
2. Kusalongosoka: "Maola awiri akukonzekera zolaula? Izi ndi zomwe Google ndi. ” “Kutulutsa umuna kumodzi kuyambira pachakudya? Ndiloleni ndiwotche laputopu yanga yakale kuti ndiwonenso mawindo ena. ” Mosiyana ndi nyama zina, nyama imatha kunyalanyaza malire ake pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zachilendo.
Popita nthawi, ubongo wa wogwiritsa ntchito umatha kusintha. Zizindikiro za kusintha kwakukulu kwa ubongo (mosiyana ndi chizolowezi chanthawi yayitali) chitha kuphatikizira: kuwongolera kusokonekera kwanthawi yayitali, kulakalaka ma spikes poyankha zomwe amagwirizana ndi zolaula, ndikuchepetsa chidwi chokhudzana ndi kugonana. Iye salinso kulembetsa zosangalatsa mwachizolowezi; ubongo wake wosakhudzidwa uli chokhumba kwambiri cha dopamine kugunda kuchokera ku kukondoweza. Pofika pachimake, iye zosoŵa kuyang'anira nthawi yayitali kapena kusamukira ku mitundu yatsopano ya zolaula.
Izi siziri zongopeka chabe. Kafukufuku waposachedwapa wa zinyama amasonyeza kuti dopamine yapamwamba (yomwe imayambitsidwa kudzera mu mankhwala otchedwa dopamine D2 agonist mankhwala) ingathe kusintha zosankha za kugonana mu amuna. Ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula omwe atayidwa amafunafuna chilichonse chomwe chingayambitse dopamine yawo yotsalira. Akachipeza, dopamine imakwera, ndipo njira yokonzanso momwe amathandizira pakugonana yayamba. Ngati apitiliza kuseweretsa maliseche amtundu watsopanowu, dopamine imabwezeretsanso zochitika zawo zogonana, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zisasokonezeke, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zowopsa, kusintha zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta, kapena zosatheka, kuzimitsa zomwe amakonda kale. Nzosadabwitsa kuti, pamene ogwiritsa ntchito amazembera pazithunzi zolaula kufunafuna "O" wamkulu wotsatira, amatha kumafika pachimake pazowonera zomwe zimawopseza kapena zosaloledwa.
Anthony: Ndinayamba kuyang'ana zolaula, pafupipafupi, pafupifupi zaka zisanu zapitazo. Poyamba panali azimayi okongola, kenako zolaula zolimba, kenako zolowetsa zachilendo, kenako [ochita zachiwerewere], kenako otsutsa, kenako ma hermaphrodites, kenako zolaula za achinyamata, kenako zitsanzo zazing'ono ndipo tsopano ndende (posachedwa apita). Zaka zitadutsa ndinkayamba kukonda kuchita maliseche komanso chidwi chofufuza "zachilendo". Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, sindikuwona momwe ndinalephera kuzindikira kuti ndinali ndi vuto.
Mwamuna wina pa zojambula zolaula:
Sindikudziwa ngati mumayang'ana pafupipafupi reddit, 'kabati yopanda kanthu' ndi zina zambiri ... masamba awebusayiti osokoneza / malingaliro, koma pali ulusi masauzande ambirimbiri omwe anthu amatuluka chifukwa chake akufuna kuyamwa tambala kapena kuwonera zinthu zachilendo mutagwiritsa ntchito zolaula.
Ngakhale bwaloli 'lopanda kanthu' ladzaza ndi anthu, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha / owongoka omwe atayika kwathunthu ndikusokonezeka pazomwe amakonda, ndipo ONSE adatchulapo zolaula zawo.
Zikuwoneka kuti mbadwo wothamanga kwambiri wa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula tsopano ukupita pa intaneti ndikufunsa mayankho. Pamisonkhano yaku France, ndizofanana. Ambiri sakudziwa chifukwa chake adayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mbolo kapena chizolowezi chachikazi… pali anthu zikwizikwi omwe amawerenga zolemba zawo ndipo zomwe anthu ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito ndi intaneti (zolaula, macheza, malo ochezera).
Kugonana pogwirizana ndi zokonda zachiwerewere
Mwachiwonekere, wogwiritsa ntchito amene akukwera sitima ya pa Intaneti ya pa Intaneti angathe kuthawa pazitsulo zomwe poyamba zinali zosatheka. Mwina ambiri ododometsa ndilo, "Thandizo! Mbolo yanga imangoyankha kutulutsa zolaula ndimayanjana ndi winawake zina kugonana. ”
Ryan: Ndinkaganiza kuti ndikusintha chiwerewere. Maganizo anga okonda za nkhaniyi anali olimba kwambiri kotero kuti ndimaganiza zonyamula malo okwera kwambiri. Ndinkavutika maganizo kwambiri. Ndinkadziwa kuti ndimakonda atsikana ndipo sindingakonde bwenzi lina, koma bwanji ndinali ndi ED? Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani tsopano ndimafunikira zinthu za transgenderl / gay kuti ndichoke? Zili ngati ndinalakwitsa zomwe sindingathe kuzikonzanso. Ndikufuna kubwerera masiku anga akale pomwe ndidangoyatsidwa ndi thupi lachikazi.
Mnyamata wina amene amadzifotokoza yekha ngati bi:
Ndikadali wachinyamata sindinkakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena zolaula pomwe amuna anali kuyang'ana chifukwa ndimaopa kuti ndidzatulutsidwa ndi mbiri yanga ya pa intaneti kenako ndikakanidwa ndi abale. Sindinagwiritsepo ntchito kufotokoza gawo lachiwerewere. Sindingathe kugonana nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinagonana (yomwe inali ndi mnyamata). Ngakhale chidwi changa chogonana amuna chimatengera momwe amadziwonetsera achikazi chifukwa ndaphunzitsidwa kuti zachikazi ndizofanana ndi kugonana. Mutu wanga wasokonezeka kwambiri. Izi zonse zasokonezeka.
Gay guy: (Gay) Kusiya zolaula kwatulutsa zofuna zanga zogonana
Mnyamata wina wachiwerewere:
Mnyamata watsopano pano, 26 wochokera ku UK ndipo posachedwapa adazindikira kuti ndikuvutika ndi zolaula zidapangitsa ED patatha chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri akuvutika kuti azigwirizana ndi anzawo.
Ndapezanso kuti zolaula zanga ndizosiyana ndimakhalidwe anga ogonana - Ndine mnyamata wokonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo ndimakopeka ndi amuna koma sindikuwoneka ngati ndikusiya kuonera zolaula ndikutsegulidwa kwambiri ndi chinthu chonsecho mpaka zolaula zokhazokha zomwe ndimatha kuziwona. Sindikufuna kukwatitsa mkazi, kuwona mkazi wamaliseche kapena ngakhale kuyandikira pafupi ndi pussy m'moyo weniweni koma sindingachitire mwina koma kukopeka ndi zolaula zamtunduwu.
Ndikuganiza kuti zolaula zandichititsa manyazi, ndimatha kuchotsa nthawi zina 5 pa zolaula ndipo ndimatha kukhala ndi zolaula koma sindingakwanitse kuchita khama komanso kuti ndikhale wolimba kwambiri.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti padzakhala kuwala kumapeto kwa ngalande koma ili likhala tsiku loyamba kwa ine. Zingakhale zabwino kumva kuchokera kwa anthu omwe akukumana ndi zomwezi kwa ine pakadali pano momwe zolaula sizinangowonongera kuthekera kwanga kuchita komanso zasintha malingaliro anga pazinthu zomwe ndakhala ndikuwonera! Ndimaganiziradi kuti mwina ndimakhala ndikuonera zolaula zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi zokhumba zanga zilizonse. Zolaula Zimakhudzidwa ED ndikusintha zilakolako za kugonana
Ubongo wokhumba chifukwa chakumverera kungapezeke zolemetsa zopatsa nkhaŵa makamaka kuwukweza. Mtima wotere umamasula dopamine (ndi norepinephrine) m'bongo. Mulimonse, iwo ali Kuyankha kuchitenga ngozi.
Ena mwa ogwiritsa ntchito ma cyberporn amakono amakhala ndi zizolowezi zolaula pazinthu zolaula. Mwachitsanzo, wogwiritsa ntchito amatha kupitiliza kuyesa kuti awone ngati mtundu wina wazolaula umadzutsa-chifukwa amapeza kuti chiyembekezo chimenecho ndichowopsa (komanso chosangalatsa). Kenako amadziseweretsa maliseche kuti athetse nkhawa zomwe zimapangidwa. Amakhala ngati munthu amene samatha kuyang'anitsitsa kuti aone ngati chitofu chazimitsidwa. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, kusuta ndi OCD kumatulutsa zofanana zolakwika m'malo ozungulira mphotho. Kukhutira kumakhala kovuta kwambiri, kuyendetsa ntchito zopitilira zosafunikira.
Anati wina wazaka 21 ali ndi chibwenzi, yemwe nkhawa yake idayamba miyezi itatu m'mbuyomu pomwe adayamba kuwonera mbolo yamwamuna mu kanema:
Tsopano, ndimangowona kuti ndikufunika kupitiliza kuyang'ana zolaula kuti nditsimikizire kuti sindili wolunjika. Ndimagwiritsa ntchito mphindi iliyonse kwa PMO kwa akazi, nthawi zina ngakhale m'chipinda chimodzi ndi bwenzi langa pamene akugona! Khalidwe ili limandikwiyitsa koma ndimawona kuti sindingathe kuzithandiza. Amapereka chitonthozo kwa mphindi 10 kukayika kukayambiranso.
Anthu opanga zolaula amadziwa momwe zingakhalire zovuta, ndipo amaona zolaula za transgender ngati "zolaula zowongoka." Mukafunsidwa, wogwiritsa ntchito malo oonera zolaula angapo anati, "Omvera anga akulu, komanso owonera zolaula [za transgender] ambiri, ndi owongoka. Ndi momwe zakhalira. Ndizinena choncho alendo onse opita kumalo opatsirana pogonana ali olunjika. ” (kutsindika kuwonjezedwa)
“Ndine ndani ine?”
Ngati wowonera amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ayamba kufika pamapeto pake zolaula, kapena mosiyana, kodi akupeza kuti ndi "wokonda kugonana kwenikweni?" Mwina ayi. Koma maubongo ndi apulasitiki ndipo, ogwiritsa ntchito mosazindikira amatha kugwiritsa ntchito zida zatsopano mosasunthika, monganso momwe agalu a Pavlov adaphunzirira kulira ndi belu. M'mikhalidwe yonseyi, kuyambitsa kwa dopamine (kuyembekezera) kumapangitsa kuti pakhale zovuta pakumtunda. Omwe amayang'anira mphotho zoyambirira samadziwa kuti belu si chakudya, kapena kuti zolaula "zatsopano" si zolaula zanga. Mawu ake ndi akuti, "Dopamine zabwino. "
Mwamwayi Ryan akhoza, ndi chipiriro ndi kudziletsa, kachiwiri unwaya magulu ake osakondedwa. (Mphindi zambiri.) Panthawiyi, angafunikire kusamala ndi anthu omwe amayesetsa kumudziwitsa kusintha kwake kumawunikira mfundo zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Mwinamwake iwo amachita; mwinamwake iwo ali opanda chopindulitsa monga katoto yosatheka kuwoneka ngati mwana. Wina wa zaka 22:
Ndili kusekondale komanso kusekondale ndimayang'ana zolaula kwa maola ambiri. Nditamaliza maphunziro a kusekondale ndidakhala pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana yemwe ndimamukonda kwambiri, koma sindimamva ngati momwe ndinkamvera ndikamaonera zolaula. Ku koleji ndinasokonezeka pankhani zachiwerewere chifukwa sindimakopeka ndi anthu ena. Ndinayambanso kuyang'anitsitsa zolaula ndikuganiza kuti mwina ndimagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chaka changa chomaliza ndidapita kukalandira upangiri pankhani zakugonana komanso gulu lomwe likutuluka kotala kotala. Sanandibweretse pafupi kwambiri kuti ndimvetsetse zakugonana kapena kukopa. Inde, ndinayambitsidwa ndi zolaula zolaula, koma sindinakopeke, kapena kuganiza za anyamata. Amuna achiwerewere omwe ndidakumana nawo amawoneka kuti ali otsimikiza kwambiri pazomwe amakonda. Patapita kanthawi sindinadziwe kuti ndinali komweko. Ndayamba kukopeka kwambiri ndi azimayi tsopano popeza ndasiya zolaula komanso maliseche.
Kapena lingaliraninso Ryan. Atayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, zomwe amangoganiza za atsikana. Amayang'ana zolaula chifukwa sanafune kuwona amuna akugonana. Pambuyo pazaka zolaula zomwe zidapitilira zaka zambiri adayamba kukayikira zomwe amakonda. Kubwezeretsa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pamsonkhano wathu nthawi zambiri lipoti likukula, ndikutaya "zokonda" zingapo pamene zizolowezi zawo zimaipiraipira. Zikuwonekeratu kuti zokonda zomwe sizingachitike, zomwe sizingachitike kwa nthawi yayitali sizingafanane ndi zikhalidwe zakugonana - ngati zilidi choncho aliyense a iwo amachita.
Mwachitsanzo, kukoma kwa "zolaula za transgender" kumatha kuwonetsa bwanji kugonana lathu? Kuwonekera kwa okonda abwenzi kungakhale kusinthika kwa chisinthiko, kotero chisinthiko sichikanatha kusankha icho. Kodi izi zitha kukhala zosangalatsa ngati chimanga cha chilakolako chogonana (mabere, kuimitsa mbolo, kuchitapo kanthu), kuŵerengeka ndi dopamine yowonjezera kwa amene amawona kuti ndi yosasangalatsa kapena yodetsa nkhaŵa?
Kusintha kwakukulu kwa zolaula kungakhale chizindikiro chochepa chokhudzidwa mtima kwa ubongo. Mwanjira ina, Ryan sangakhale wotsimikiza zazambiri mpaka atasiya kukula mpaka pazosafunikira ndikubwezeretsa ubongo wake kuzindikire bwino. Izi zitha kutenga miyezi.
Zokonda za kugonana zikhoza kukhazikitsidwa
Chizoloŵezi choopsa cha zolaula pa intaneti chikuwoneka kuti chikugwira ntchito mosagonana. Komabe, nthano yoti "kugonana kwanga kumatsimikiziridwa ndi zomwe ndikuchita maliseche" ndi yamphamvu kwambiri kotero kuti ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano sazindikira kuti zokonda zawo ndizomwe zimapangitsa kuti azilekerera, motero amasinthidwa. Apanso, kafukufuku wayamba kutsimikizira izi ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano akukwera kuzinthu zomwe poyamba zinalibe chidwi.
Mwachidziwikire, asayansi akhoza kuika mkota wamphongo kondani mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzanu pomenya dopamine. Ndipo sizitenga nthawi yayitali. Ochita kafukufuku adalowetsa makoswe amphongo ndi dopamine agonist (mankhwala omwe amatsanzira dopamine), kenako adamuyika mu khola ndi wamwamuna wina. Makoswe awiriwo amangocheza limodzi tsiku limodzi. (Dopamine agonist watuluka mu kachitidwe pafupifupi tsiku limodzi.) Ofufuzawo adabwereza izi kawiri, masiku anayi kutalikirana.
Patangopita masiku angapo, mwamuna wobwezeretsedwa anayesedwa. Alibe dopamine agonist m'dongosolo lake, adayikidwa mu khola limodzi ndi mwamuna wake wamwamuna ndi mkazi wamwamuna wokonda kugonana (kumbukirani kuti dopamine anali kunja kwa dongosolo lake). Mukuganiza kuti ndondomekoyi inamupangitsa kwambiri? Anayankha mochuluka kwambiri kwa abambo: zofuna zambiri, kufufuza za chiwerewere, komanso zofuna za akazi - kusiyana ndi khalidwe labwino la amuna.
Phunziro? Mlingo waukulu wa dopamine ukhoza kugwiritsanso ntchito ubongo ndikusintha zokonda zakugonana. Ofufuzawo adanenetsa kuti makoswe amphongo sanali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, popeza sanayese kukweza khoswe winayo. Komabe anali atasinthadi. Momwemonso, kupitiliza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sikungasinthe malingaliro anu ogonana, koma kungasinthe mtundu wanji wa zolaula zomwe zimakusangalatsani. Ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula omwe sanasinthe (otsika a D2 receptors) amafufuza chilichonse chomwe chingapangitse dopamine yawo yotsalira.
Asayansi akuphunziranso kuti kuneneratu za kugonana koyambirira sikophweka monga momwe amalingalira. Monga Kutentha kwa kugonana wolemba Lisa Diamond akuti, "Kugonana ... ndi chinthu chimodzi chokha wokhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kudziwika kuti ndiwe ndani. ” Ndemanga yodziwika bwino yopanga TV pansi pano zolemba za UK Zojambula pa Ubongo:
Zaka zitatu zapitazo ine ndinali gulu la akatswiri a pa TV omwe ankayang'ana pa nkhani zambiri zokhudzana ndi zolaula za pa intaneti pa pulogalamu yomwe siinatulukepo. Wopanga wamkulu anali ndi umboni wa sayansi womwe umagwiritsidwa ntchito (womwe umayenera kukhala wamsana wa pulogalamuyo) unalibe mphamvu mokwanira.
Pa kafukufuku amene ndayankhula ndi anthu angapo omwe ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi zolaula, amawerengera zikwi zikwi za ndemanga zochokera kwa amuna omwe amatsutsa zolaula ndikuyankhula ndi asayansi. Kafukufuku wochuluka wa sayansi ali akadakali wamng'ono koma palibe kukayika m'maganizo anga kuti kupitiriza kuonera zolaula kungakhudze kwambiri akulu ndi ana ena.
Chinthu chokhudzidwa kwambiri chomwe ndidakumana nacho chinali amuna achikulire & achichepere omwe adayamba kuwonera zolaula (ngati zilipo) pafupipafupi ndipo kwa zaka zingapo adayamba kupita kuzithunzi zowopsa kwambiri pomwe adayamba kukhumudwa ndi zolaula zomwe ndinayang'ana 'kukonza' kwatsopano.
Anthu omwe amaoneka ngati abwinobwino amakhala ndi nkhawa kuti akhoza kukanganidwa ndi zolaula, sanakhalenso ndi chilakolako chofuna kukhala ndi chiyanjano choyenera ndi mkazi monga zolaula zomwe zidakhala m'malo mwawo, amuna omwe adagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe adakanidwa kwambiri zolaula zogonana amuna ndi akazi omwe adzipeza okha akuwona zolaula za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna omwe amadera nkhawa za momwe amamvera chifukwa cha ana chifukwa mzere pakati pa zomwe adazipeza zokongola kapena zomwe amapeza zamasewera zikuyamba kusokonezeka.
99% ya anthu awa anali akulu ndipo anali ndi nthawi yopanga chikhalidwe chogonana choyenera ndi maubwenzi asanayambe nkhani zawo. Izi zikutanthawuza, monga momwe katswiri wina wa sayansi ya ubongo amathandizira, ndi chithandizo choyenera ubongo wawo ukhoza kubwezeretsedwa ku chikhalidwe chawo chogonana, ngakhale zithunzi zomwe adaziwona silingaiwale konse.
Kwa mwana wazaka 10-14, wopanda chidziwitso chakugonana, palibe batani lokonzanso. Titha kukhala ndi mibadwo yamtsogolo ya anyamata omwe amatsata akazi ndipo amakhala ndi malingaliro osagwirizana kwenikweni pankhani zogonana ndipo nthawi zina amuna omwe ubongo wawo ungalumikizidwe ndi mafano owopsa mpaka kutha kukhala chiopsezo kwa azimayi ndi ana owazungulira. . Sitiyenera kuyika mitu yathu mumchenga ndikudikirira umboni wowona wasayansi. Tiyenera kuchitapo kanthu tsopano.
Kodi uwu ndi mayesero abwino (kuposa machitidwe) okhudzana ndi kugonana?
Chifukwa chake ngati 'zowoneka + erection' zitha kusocheretsa, umazindikira bwanji zomwe umakonda? Zachidziwikire, zilizonse zomwe mudafika pachimake pomwe mudayamba kuseweretsa maliseche ndizothandiza (poganiza zochitika zaunyamata sindinasokoneze izi.)
Kubwereranso ku ubongo kumakufotokozerani za momwe mumakhalira, komabe panthawiyi, anyamata akupeza kuti ndikofunika kuyesa kugonana (kapena kusokoneza): Kodi mukufuna kupsompsona ndi ndani?
Kukopa ndi kunyansidwa kumawonetsedwa mwamphamvu pakukopa kwa (kapena kukana) kuchita zachiwerewere zomwe zimakhudza kukhudza, kukongoletsa thupi, ndi madzi amthupi monga malovu, madzi amkazi kapena ejaculate. Amuna nthawi zambiri "amatsegulidwa" ndikununkhira, kukongola, ndi madzi amtundu wina kuposa wina.
M'malo mwake, katswiri wina yemwe tidamufunsa adati amuna amatha kudana kwambiri ndi mikhalidwe imeneyi ya amuna kapena akazi-ngakhale mpaka kunyansidwa ndi kusanza (mwina pambuyo pa chisangalalo cha "choletsedwa" kapena zakumwa zoledzeretsa zidatha). Anati Ryan,
NTHAWI zonse sindikufuna kumpsompsona mnyamata. Pazifukwa zina, malovu amnyamata angawoneke kukhala oyipa kwambiri, ndipo atsikana ndiabwino kwambiri. Kwa ine, lingaliro la malovu amnyamata ndi… zonyansa, zimawoneka ngati zodzaza ndi nyongolosi. Malovu a gal amawoneka ngati okoma kwa ine.
Chenjerani, komabe. Ngati OCD yagwidwa bwino ubongo wanu, ikhoza kupeza njira yotembenukira aliyense yesetsani ku vuto latsopano, lopanda phindu, lopanda pake:
Ndimapitilizabe kuganizira za kuyesa kupsompsona, ndipo ndimangoganizabe za izo 24/7. M'mbuyomu, ndimanyansidwa kwathunthu ndi lingaliro la kupsompsona mwamuna, koma ndikudzifunsa ndikudzifunsa ndekha mobwerezabwereza, pang'onopang'ono sindinanyansidwe kapena kudzutsidwa. Tsopano, ndadzutsidwa ndikuganiza zompsompsona mwamuna. Sindikudzutsidwa kwambiri ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, chifukwa ndaziletsa m'maganizo mwanga, koma bwanji kumpsompsona munthu kumandidzutsa ine tsopano? Sindikufuna kuzichita m'moyo weniweni. Chifukwa m'moyo weniweni sizingakhale zosangalatsa. Mu moyo weniweni ndimangofuna kupsompsona atsikana, koma ndikaganiza za izi m'maganizo mwanga, zimadzutsa. Sizimveka. Sikuti ndimakopeka. Kuusa moyo.
Kusintha kwa pulasitiki kosasunthika
Momwe chizolowezi cha wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula chimakulirakulira, zizolowezi zodziseweretsa maliseche zimatha kumuuza zochepa zazomwe amachita. Komabe, anyamata pamsonkhano wathu apeza kuti ngati (1) apatsa ubongo wawo kupumula ku zolaula, zongopeka zolaula (komanso maliseche kapena maliseche), ndipo (2) asinthe zizolowezi zawo zakale ndimacheza, masewera olimbitsa thupi, kusinkhasinkha ndi zina zotonthoza , atha kuyamba kuwona zosintha zakukonda kwawo mwachangu modabwitsa. Nayi lipoti la Ryan patangotha mwezi umodzi wokha:
Ndinatha chaka chatha sukulu ya sekondale ndikukwera pa zolaula za pa Intaneti ndikunyengerera, ndipo ndinayamba kukumana ndi zolaula zaka zingapo zapitazo. Ndinapeza zosokoneza kuyang'ana; izo zinayambitsa OCD yanga ndi kusokonezeka kwotsatira.
Tsopano ndikumverera ngati munthu watsopano. Ndakhala ndikudutsa pafupifupi milungu inayi ya gehena, ndipo ndinayenera kusintha antidepressants anga. Ndakhala ndikupalasa njinga tsiku lililonse ndikuyanjana ndi ena ku koleji. Koma sindimadzukanso zolaula. Zili ngati ndachotsa madera amenewo. Lingaliro lachiwerewere limayambitsanso. Ndimayambanso kubweza libido yanga pang'onopang'ono. Sizinathebe, koma ndagonjetsa gawo lina.
Ndakhaladi pamabwalo okhala ndi masamba masauzande ambiri a anthu omwe anali kuthana ndi kukhumudwa komanso kuchuluka kwa zinthu zachilendo. Sindikusangalala kwambiri anthu akauza ena kuti zomwe amachita maliseche ndi "momwe aliri." Mwina zinali zowona zaka 20-30 zapitazo, koma sizili choncho.
Kodi ubongo wake ulibe mphamvu kapena ukuwonetsa kusintha kwake (kubwezeretsa deensitization), kapena onse awiri? Zikuwoneka kuti pamene ogwiritsa ntchito amatsutsa zovuta za mtundu wina wa zolaula, kuganizira za izo, kuganizira za izo ndi kudera nkhaŵa za izo, njira zamaganizo zokhudzana ndi ubongo zimafooketsa kuti zisagwiritsidwe ntchito. Monga asayansi asayansi amati, pamene maselo a mitsempha amawotcha maferesi osachoka.
Pamene njira yosiyidwa imasiya kulemba phindu la dopamine, ubongo-umakhala wokonzeka kuchita zinthu zomwe zimabweretsa zokolola-kutentha ndi kuyaka maulendo oyambirira a ubongo. Inde, ngati chizoloŵezi choledzera chafika patsogolo pomwe munthu sangathe kupuma popanda zolaula zoopsa, kusiya sizingakhale zophweka. Adzafunika thandizo lalikulu. Zovuta zizindikiro za kuchotsa ndizofala, koma ndizofunika kwa ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri:
Mike: Kubwereranso tsiku la 23. Nditha kuona kuti ndikasiya chizolowezi ichi, ndidzatha kugona bwino ndi akazi. Pamodzi ndi kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa kunabwera chovala chasiliva: Nthawi zingapo zoyambirira kuseweretsa maliseche zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo zinali zolaula zolaula kwambiri. Zolakalaka zanga zogonana zidayamba kuzolowereka. Zolimbikitsa kwambiri. Zinthu za vanila izi sizikanakhala blip pa radar yanga masabata anayi apitawo, koma tsopano zidandiyendetsa. Inde, pamene kumwa mowa mopitirira muyeso ndinapitirizabe kupita kuzinthu zoopsa kwambiri, ndikuwonetsanso momveka bwino momwe chizoloŵezi choledzeretsa chimakhudzira zokonda zanga. Ndinafunika kupitilira pazinthu zoopsa kwambiri kuti ndithamangire chimodzimodzi.
Shawn: Ndizovuta kukhulupirira kuti chaka chapitacho, chinthu chachikulu chomwe chidandichotsa pa zolaula ndi [transgender]. Kudzutsa akazi [cis] kwakula kufika pamlingo womwe ndayiwalika pazaka zolaula. Tsopano ndikuwona momwe ndilili wovuta kukhala wopanda maliseche zolaula. Zomwe ndimapanga zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, ndipo zimakhala zosangalatsa. Ndimakonda kuti ngakhale kukhudza pang'ono kwa bwenzi langa kumandipangitsa kuyankha ngati wopenga!
Anthufe titha kufuna kuti tiziwona patali ndikusankha zomwe timagonana nazo. Mwachiwonekere gawo lachikale, losazindikira, komanso lokopa kwambiri, silisamala kwenikweni.
- Phunziro: Nkhawa imachulukitsa kukakamiza kugonana (1983)
- Phunziro: Kuda nkhawa ndi kugonana ndi kukakamiza akazi kugonana: kuyerekezera kudzuka pamene mukuda nkhawa ndi kugonana komanso zosangalatsa za kugonana (1987)
- Phunziro: Zotsatira za kukhumudwa m'maganizo pa zotsatira zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa amuna (1980)
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Nthawi zonse ndimakonda atsikana kuyambira ndili mwana, ngakhale ndidakali wamng'ono ndimazindikira njira zodziseweretsa maliseche ndisanadziwe konse kuti ndi chiani kapena kugonana. Nthawi yokha yomwe ndimaganiza kuti ndimakondera amuna ndikudutsa pazenera. Kuyambira pamenepo ndakhala ndikuseweretsa maliseche pamaso pa kompyuta ... nthawi zina zimakhala kamodzi patsiku, zina kangapo ndipo tsopano pafupifupi 5-10 nthawi patsiku. Ndikukula, ndikuganiza kuti ndakhala ndikufanana ndi zomwe mnzake wina yemwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo adalemba kuti ali ndi 'fetish' ya atsikana. Izi zisanachitike, ndimakhala ndi malingaliro ofanana azakugonana, palibe chomwe ndimaganizirapo. Koma tsopano, malingaliro awa ndi makanema anga azowonera nthawi zambiri amakhala akuzipotoza. Sindikudziwa ngati mungawerenge izi ngati mathero, koma pazifukwa zina, ndakopeka ndi kulemera kwa thupi lamwamuna (AKA), Bears. Lingaliro lachiwerewere la mtundu wina uliwonse wa thupi limanyansidwa, koma pazifukwa zina ine ndatembenukiradi ndi izi. Lingaliro loti ndizilamulidwa ndipo mwina ndigwiriridwa (ngakhale sindinawonepo zolaula zonga kugwiriridwa) limadzutsa. Sindikudziwa ngati ichi ndi chifukwa chochepetsera chidwi changa mwa atsikana, koma ndawopa kuti ndayamba kuchita zachiwerewere, ndimaganiza kuti ndili ndi zisonyezo za HOCD ndi OCD chifukwa cha dopamine yanga yocheperako popeza ndimangokhalira kukangana ndekha mutu wanga ukuyesera kuti ndikhale chete. Ngati ndimangoyang'ana, ndinali wodekha ndipo sindinavomereze kuwopa kwanga kuti ndisadzutse, ndinadzutsidwa ndi malingaliro azakugonana a akazi. Koma nthawi iliyonse ndikakhala ndi nkhawa kapena kuda nkhawa, kudzuka kumeneku sikungachitike. Ndazindikira ndi kuyesa kwa PMO kwamasiku 12, kuti ndimadzutsidwa mosavuta ndi atsikana. Koma izi zakhala zikuchitika kwanthawi yayitali ndipo ndatopa komanso kufooka kotero kuti sindikudziwa ndichiyani chomwe ndichonso…
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ndinali atayamba kudziyika ndekha ngati msungwana mu mavidiyo ambiri komanso
Kuwonetsa zolaula ndizolaula zolaula zomwe zafala
HOCD - Ndikufuna kulemba blog ndikuyambiranso
Tks Onse
Anagwidwa ndi zolaula zolaula ndipo amachedwa kuchepa
Ndi angati a inu omwe mumagwidwa ndi zolaula / zolaula?
HOCD adayamba nkhuku Ndinazindikira kuti ndimakonda kwambiri bwenzi langa
Kumenya HOCD
LINK ku thread
Mwamuna wanga wamwamuna amakonda kuwona zolaula! Kodi ichi ndi chizolowezi chofala
Mwamuna wanga wamwamuna amakonda kuwona zolaula zamphongo! Kodi ichi ndi chibwana chofala cha amuna? - ulusi
GUY 1) Zikuwoneka kuti tili nawo
nkhaniyi ndi yeniyeni
Malo otsika kwambiri? Zitatu kwenikweni
(LINK ku thread)
Sindingathe kutulutsa zolaula pokhapokha titaonera zolaula za kinky…
Porn Zikhoza kusintha zomwe munthu amakonda pogonana.
Ndikubwera masabata 6 opanda PMO, (HOCD)
KULUMIKIZANA / / r / nofap zomwe ndi zanu
Wodwala ndi Zogonana Zogonana. Aliyense Amene Ali Ndi Moyo Wautali Kwambiri ndi NoF
Wodwala ndi Zogonana Zogonana. Aliyense Amene Ali Ndi Moyo Wautali Kwambiri ndi NoFap ndi Fetishes?
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Kodi ndi zachilendo kwa "ife zambiri" kutero
Ndinayamba ndi zolaula "zachilendo" kenako ndinayamba kuchita zinthu ngati
Kodi NoFap amatha kuchiritsa anawo?
Kodi NoFap amatha kuchiritsa anawo?
Pansi pathanthwe. Sindikudziwanso kuti ndine ndani. HOCD
Ndinali nditagwira mwakachetechete wanga wovuta kwambiri pa 2 kwa ena
ndiye nchiyani chakukankhira iwe m'mphepete ndikupangitsa kunena kuti "osatinso"?
Ndinayang'ana zolaula zambiri moti ndinayang'ana kuonera zolaula
Ndinayankha ngati ndakhala wolunjika kapena ayi,
Zisangalalo zambiri zomwe ndimayang'ana, ndizowonjezera ndikuzidziwa.
Zaka 17 - HOCD & zolaula-zopangitsa ED, masiku 100 +
Kubwezeretsanso nkhani: Zaka 17 - HOCD & zolaula-zopangitsa ED, masiku 100 +
Amuna okhaokha omwe ali ndi "HOCD yowongoka"
Kodi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amangochita zolaula? Mukusowa uphungu?
Ndikumva kuti mabere anga akale amafa
Ndikumva kuti mabere anga akale amafa
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Pedophile - onani kuchepa kwa zolimbikitsa ndi kusintha kwina
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Lero, zaka zambiri pambuyo pake, kusagonana kwanga kumadziwa zochepa.
Kutsiriza kumalowa mu zinthu zina zododometsa za kinky
Kodi mumaswa bwanji 'ulalo' ndi mitundu ina ya zolaula?
KUYANKHA:
Zaka za 12 za PMO zikukulirakulira ku zolaula zoopsa / zachiwerewere
Zosintha zowopsa ngati izi… kodi izi ndizofala?
Zosintha zowopsa ngati izi… kodi izi ndizofala?
Koma sindinatengeke, ndinakondwera nazo mwanjira inayake
kuti zokonda zanga P zinasintha mobwerezabwereza.
Ndi angati a inu omwe mumadziwongola ngati owongoka, kulowetsamo
Ndi angati a inu amene mumadziwika kuti ndinu owongoka, ophatikizidwa mu zolaula / masewera?
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Azimayi enieni aliwonse amawakhudza nambala zingapo pa zokongola
Chinthucho ndi, ine ndakhala wovuta. Izi zinasokoneza ine kwambiri, chifukwa
Msungwana wanga anadutsanso nthawi yofanana
Ndine mtsikana amene amawonera zolaula zachilendo
Chinthu chokhacho ndikuti ndikusowa zolaula za crazier tsopano ndipo zimakhumudwitsa m
Ndimaona kuti zithunzi zolaula zimandilimbikitsa
ED monga Chotsatira cha Kukula kwa Porn?
ED monga Chotsatira cha Kukula kwa Porn?
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Ndimadziona ngati wowongoka - zolaula ndikuwononga zikuwononga ine
Ndikufa kwenikweni chifukwa cha manyazi
Pa Ogasiti 16, ndidagwa pansi pa dzenje la kalulu. Ndimasanthula ma tag osiyanasiyana pa xvideos.com. Ndimaganiza kuti ndawona chilichonse patsambali kotero sindinachite mantha. Ndinaganiza zowonera ma tag am'modzi. Ndamva za kanema wa Octomons kuti ndifufuze kuti ndiwone zomwe zilipo. Kenako ndinachita chidwi. Ndinaganiza zoyang'ana pa tag ya soloboy kuti ndiwone zomwe anyamata ena akuchita. Ndili wolunjika koma ndinali ndi chidwi chofuna kuwona zomwe zinali pamenepo. Sindinaganizire zomwe ndimachita chifukwa ndinali nditaledzera. Sindinadziwe kuti ndinali ndi OCD. Komabe, ndidagunda posaka. Zomwe ndidakoka zimawoneka zosaloledwa kwa ine. Ndinatuluka. Ndinatseka osatsegulayo koma OCD wanga adalowa m'malo opitilira muyeso. "Kodi zinali zoletsedwa, milungu ya pa intaneti imatha kuwona zomwe ndidayang'ana, anthu angaganize chiyani, ndachita chiyani?" Zinali zoyipa kwambiri ndipo ndimafuna kuwona. Komabe, ndidawononga kompyuta yanga. Tsiku lotsatira ndinayamba kuuza anzanga zomwe ndachita. Ndinkaopa kuti andimanga. Chifukwa chomwe ndidachitira izi, sindikudziwa koma ndidatero. Ndinaimbira mnzanga m'boma lina kuti anditenge kuti ndiwone ngati zinali zosaloledwa. Adatsimikiza kuti sikunali koletsedwa ndipo adati akhazikike. Ndidamufunsa ngati ndinali gay chifukwa ndidayang'ana. Adaseka ndipo adati munthu aliyense wawona chinthu chachiwerewere. Anatinso mwina mukadaphunzira zina zatsopano! Ndinali wofunitsitsa kuwona zomwe anyamata ena amayika pa intaneti. Ine ndikutsutsana ndi anthu ngakhale kujambula chithunzi changa ndipo sindingathe kulimba mtima kuti anthu ayenera kudziwonetsa okha amaliseche pa intaneti. Komabe, nditacheza ndi mnzake m'modzi, ndinali ndi wina woti nditsimikizire. Anali ngati, O mai-soloboy! Sindingathe kuzithandiza. Zinali ngati zochitika kunja kwa thupi la OCD. Kuyambira pamenepo ndakhala ndikuuza aliyense zomwe ndachita munthawi yachiwiri iyi kuchokera pamaganizidwe mpaka kusaka. Ndimamva kukhala wodabwitsa komanso ndimaopa zomwe ena angaganize za ine. Ndinayamba kuwona wothandizira ndipo anandiuza kuti anali OCD. Saganizira kuti ndi HOCD chifukwa sizili ngati ndidawonera kanema kapena chilichonse ndipo adati munthu aliyense adadina china chake akufufuza. Ndinafufuza mwaufulu chikalatacho chifukwa ndimafuna kuwona. Ndikumva kuti kuvomereza ndi gawo limodzi la OCD. Kuyang'ana ena omwe mwina adachitanso chimodzimodzi kale. Ndikudziwa kuti ndiyenera kuiwala koma ndikufunika thandizo ndikakhala kunsi kwa dzenje la akalulu. Kufuna kwambiri kukwera kubwerera komwe ndinali. Ndithandizeni! Ndangoyang'ana zolaula molunjika kale pokhapokha pakhala chithunzi chazithunzi chophatikizidwa ndi enawo. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi momwe amakukhudzirani pazomwe mukuwona. Sindingathe kupita kukagula zotere koma popeza zinali zaulere komanso pa intaneti ndimaganiza kuti ndiyang'ana. Nkhani zoseketsa zimayamikiridwa chifukwa zomwe zandichitikira zikundipha.
Mufuna wina woti muyankhule naye
Ndikambiranani ndi ine ngati mungathe kufotokoza zochitika zomwezo.
HI
Sizingatheke kuti aliyense adzakuyankhani patsamba lino. Ndikukulimbikitsani kuti mupite kumsonkhano uno - http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/ - mutha kukhala ndi bulogu, ndipo anyamata angapo patsamba lino adakumana ndi zovuta zofananira, kuphatikiza HOCD.
Chilichonse chomwe tikudziwa chili pa FAQ iyi - Ndine wolunjika, koma ndimakopeka ndi zachiwerewere kapena zolaula. Kwagwanji?
Zabwino zonse
Kuchokera ku gawo lina la YBOP
Ndikufuna kubwezeretsanso, kusiya kulemba zakuthupi
Kulamulira kwa akazi ndipo kunayamba kuwonetsa zolaula.
Patangopita kanthawi, anasiya kundikweza, ndipo ndinadziyandikira
Ine ndikubwerera kumbuyo kwanga
Ine ndikubwerera kumbuyo kwanga
ndi maybelunaroxmasiku 22
fnordsnordmasiku 3
Limbikitsani kuchita pa HOCD
Limbikitsani kuchita pa HOCD
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Pansi pa nkhani - "Kodi zolaula zidandilimbana mpaka kalekale?"
Kuyang'ana zolaula kwa zaka 10 tsopano, iv adawona zinthu zambiri
Ndemanga zochepa pamutu wakuti "Kodi zolaula zidandilakwira mpaka kalekale? (Salon.com) ”
Kodi zolaula zinandigonjetsa kwamuyaya? (Salon.com)
Ndemanga yowoneka kuchokera kwa mwana wosadziwa mwana wosadziwa:
Yankho limodzi kwa iye:
Mayankho anzeru kwambiri amayankha mwachizolowezi "oh izi ndi zachilendo"
M'badwo wamasiku ano ukunena kuti:
zolaula zingakulowetseni muzinthu zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi kugonana kwanu kwenikweni
Zimatithandiza kuti tizilombo toyambitsa matenda tizilombo toyambitsa matenda
Mwachidule, zolaula zonse ndi chinyengo. Zonse ndi bullshit.
Zakale za Fapstronauts, kodi fetasi zako zinachoka?
Zakale za Fapstronauts, kodi fetasi zako zinachoka?
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ankafuna kufunsa ngati wina aliyense wasintha zomwe amakonda
Watsopano kuno, amafuna kufunsa ngati wina aliyense wasintha zomwe amakonda
Kupyolera mu zolaula ndikuwona ntchito, ndakhala ndikusafuna.
Akusowa malangizo kuchokera kwa inu, okakamizidwa pa zolaula ndi zolaula
Ndinaona kuti chilakolako changa chogonana chimasintha.
momwe kumenyera hocd ndi zolaula
Mnyamata wochokera ku msonkhano wina
"Fetishes" akuyamba kulamulira
Nsomba zanga zimakhudza chirichonse chomwe chiri amayi owononga.
NoFap Kuthetsa HOCD yanga
Ndinali ndi choipa chodabwitsa kwambiri
kuseweretsa maliseche kwambiri kuti ndatopa ndi zinthu zambiri
Kuonera zolaula kwa zaka zambiri kwasintha
MAYANKHO A GAYI:
zaka 3 zapitazo, mtundu wa zolaula zomwe ndakhala ndikuziwona ndizo
Kuwononga kwandichititsa moyo wanga, maganizo anga ndi kugonana zimasokonezeka.
Kuyesera Kulimbana ndi Kugonana ndi Zolaula Pochita Zosangalatsa (She
Kuyesera Kulimbana ndi Kugonana ndi Zolaula Pochita Zosangalatsa
Ndakhala ndikugonana ndi zolaula kwazaka zopitilira khumi. Ndinayang'ana zolaula kwa zaka zingapo, ndikupita patsogolo kuti ndikhale zovuta kwambiri, kenako ndinayamba zolaula. Ndidayesetsa kangapo kuti ndisiye kuonera zolaula ndipo ndidachita bwino. Nditakhala milungu ingapo, chidwi changa kwa akazi chinali champhamvu kuposa kale, lingaliro la ma shemales silinakhale losangalatsa, ndipo ndimamva bwino. Koma, nthawi zonse ndinkangobwereranso. Patadutsa milungu ingapo, zolaula nthawi zina sizinanditembenuzire ndipo ndimatha kuwonera zolaula zachikazi. Koma, pazifukwa zina, ndimamva ngati ndiyenera kupitiliza kuyang'ana zolaula. Pambuyo pake, ndikanabweranso mwamphamvu kuposa kale.
Izi zikuchitika mobwerezabwereza ndikudandaula kukhala gehena zaka zingapo zapitazo. Popeza zikuwoneka kuti pali anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi zilakolako zolaula ndipo palibe amene amatha kupititsa nthawi yaitali poyesera kuthetsa zofunazo, ndinaganiza zochita zokhumba zenizeni ndikuwona ngati ndingasangalale kukhala ndi nthawi yaitali.
Ndinakumana ndi msungwana wa transgender yemwe ankachita, kuwomba, ndikuwoneka ngati wamkazi wokongola kwambiri. Tinapita kumakanema ndipo ndinadzutsidwa ndi lingaliro loti anali ndi mbolo yomwe palibe wina aliyense amadziwa. Tidamaliza kugonana ndipo sizinali zosangalatsa kwenikweni. Ndimatha kudzutsidwa, koma sizinandichititse chimodzimodzi momwe zolaula zimachitikira. Sindinamve bwino pambuyo pake monga ndimagonana ndi mkazi wokongola. Ndinachoka ndili ndi nkhawa, koma ndinaganiza zokumananso kanthawi kena. Zachilendo zake panthawiyi zidasowa poyerekeza ndi kale. Nthawi yogonana, ndimamva ngati ndikuthamangitsidwa ndi maliseche amphongo ndikuyamba kulakalaka zogonana ndi mkazi wabwinobwino komanso momwe mawonekedwe amkazi amakhalira okongola.
Chifukwa chake, ndikuganiza zikuwonekeratu kuti zolaula zimapanga chinyengo chomwe sichingafike kapena mwina sichingakhale chosangalatsa kwenikweni. Sindikudziwa ngati kukumana kumeneku kudzandithandiza kuzindikira momwe zolaula zasokonezera zokonda zanga kapena ngati zingowonjezera chisokonezo changa.
ED, HOCD ndi Nkhawa
Adzatenga / Kinks Ine ndikuwoneka kuti ndapambana ndikuchoka?
Kodi zolaula zingapangitse Ed kupanga iwe kugonana?
Kodi zolaula zingapangitse Ed kupanga iwe kugonana?
GUY 2
GUY 2
Moyo Wanga Asanakhalepo Pambuyo Pambuyo: PI-ED, kusowa kwathunthu kwa Libido, Es
Kodi mukuganiza kuti boma likuyesera kutipanga Gay?
Kodi mukuganiza kuti boma likuyesera kutipanga Gay?
Ndangobwereza mongoza ku chinachake choipa.
Mnyamata Wachikulire, Amene Angangowonjezera Mfundo Yake Yochepa Kwambiri
Zoona Zolakwika
Ndikukhulupirira kuti zolaula zasokoneza zenizeni zanga. Zimandipangitsa kukhala ngati "zinthu" zomwe sindinakondepo ndisanalumikizidwe. Magulu awiri makamaka: ma trannies ndi bbws. Ndisanayambe zolaula, ndinkakhala ndi akazi abwino kwambiri opanda ma dick kapena mafuta ambiri. Sindinakhalepo ndi vuto lakulimba ngakhale kuti ndimakonda kwambiri.
Komabe, ndikufuna kugawana momwe ndimakhulupirira kuti zolaula zasokoneza zenizeni zanga, ndipo izi ziyenera kuthana ndi bbws. Monga ndanenera kale, nthawi zonse ndimakonda mawere akulu komanso makulidwe pang'ono, koma osakhala mafuta. Komabe, ndidayamba kuyang'ana zolaula za bbw chifukwa atsikana ambiri anali ndi mawere akulu. Musanazindikire, ndinali nditasokonekera! Pambuyo pazaka zambiri ndikuwona zolaula za bbw, ndidayamba kucheza ndi atsikana akulu omwe ndidakumana nawo pa intaneti. Pambuyo pokumana nawo, zenizeni zinandimenya kumaso. Zinali zazikulu kwambiri kwa ine ndipo zinali zosasangalatsa! Ndizoseketsa chifukwa ndawona azimayi okulirapo kwambiri kuposa omwe ndakhala ndikuwonera zolaula ndipo zimanditembenukira, koma m'moyo weniweni, zimakhala zosemphana ndendende! Ndizowopsa izi zoyipa! Sindinayesepo kuchita chibwenzi, ndipo sindikufuna kutero. Koma mayeso a bbw anali okwanira kuti ndidziwe kuti zolaula zimasokoneza zenizeni zanu ndipo zitha kukhala zowopsa kwambiri. Tsopano ndikuyambiranso kachiwiri. Ndidachira kamodzi, koma ndidadzipezanso ndikutuluka chaka chatha. Tikukhulupirira kuti nthawi ino ndidzachira kwathunthu ndipo ndikhoza kubwerera ku zokonda zanga mwa akazi.
Kwa anthu omwe "apeza" zokonda zatsopano pamene akuwonera zolaula, musazikhulupirire. Lekani kuonera zolaula, ndikubwezeretsani zokonda zanu zachilengedwe.
Ndataya pafupifupi chidwi chonse cha feteleza zanga ndipo sindiyesa kuchita izi
Kuzungulira kwa PMO kudala ndi kuvutika maganizo kumabweretsa
Gay guy yemwe anangoonera zolaula
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1h664m/straight_men_gay_fantasies/car8nt6
Zolaula zanga zikuchulukirachulukira ndipo ma fetus anga satero
Miyezi ya 18 idadutsa ndipo HOCD yanga ikadalipo koma chisoni changa chiri
Zovuta zolaula (self.pornfree)
Zolaula zoopsa komanso zoopsa
HjerterEss
jtallday
elpis1
Misterml
SewerCow
mphutsi-goblin
mwinahrenrai
les13
samueltanders
Kodi mukufuna kapena muyenera kusiya zolaula?
Zochitika za anyamata achichepere ndi zokonda zakugonana
http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=8419.msg213389#msg213389
Nkhani ya chisokonezo cha kugonana
Kusintha kwa Kukonda Kugonana (kapena Kutembenuza) kuchokera ku NoFap - 1 mwezi
Zolaula zakhala zikukulirakulira ndipo momwemonso ndimakonda zogonana
Ndinkakonda kukonda zolaula, zomwe sizili zosiyana ndi akazi
kuchokera ulusi uwu - Kodi pali wina wokhoza kuthetseratu zonse za FEMDOM fetishes?
Pamene ndinayamba kubwezeretsa, chikhalidwe changa chinayamba kubwera
kuchokera ulusi uwu - Kodi pali wina wokhoza kuthetseratu zonse za FEMDOM fetishes?
Momwe ndidawonongera zogonana ... komanso momwe ndikufunira kuti ndibwezeretse.
Mafunso okhudza kukula kwa zolaula
Mafunso okhudza kukula kwa zolaula
September 23, 2013
Frye
AlexP11
sidney1990
aristotle
mxsurfer
kupenga
Mnyamata wolunjika, 24 yo namwali, masiku 33 mkati, komabe akufuna kugonana
Mnyamata wolondola, 24 yo namwali, 33 masiku, koma akufunabe kugonana
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wanywowowownownmemasiku 64
BowDown2Bale
HunterOfHunters
silentSmooth
Anasiya msungwana weniweni ndipo adasankha zolaula .. ..
Tsopano ine ndikudziwa zomwe inu mukuganiza zonse; iye ndi wolondola mwamuna?
Zimandinyansa, koma ndimakondwera nazo chifukwa cha zifukwa zina.
Kulimbana ndi 'fetish' ndipo zikuwononga moyo wanga:
Kulimbana ndi 'fetish' ndipo zikuwononga moyo wanga: Kodi pali amene adakumana ndi zoterezi?
MrChingChingmasiku 315
BlackhawkU9masiku 13
Zachitika_Zomwe_Zomwe_zimenezo
knewlife
kwathunthu
ItsJustNate
stangamla
kmprove
sindimakonda zolaula "zanthawi zonse". Ndimakonda kwambiri odwala komanso dis
Ndawona zolaula zonse pa intaneti kwenikweni, kotero ndikhoza
pomalizira pake anafika pochita zolaula zoopsa kwambiri
Aliyense ali ndi chidziwitso cha nofap atatha kusokonezeka
Aliyense ali ndi chidziwitso cha nofap atatha kupha nsomba zovuta?
imredjohn
WinRommel
fnordsnord
Steelcrate
Ndege ya Ufulu
Chamoyo Chamoyo
Ak_Float_Flyer
chifuwa
Ponfarrfap
MuhNugga
McLauritsen
Wouziridwa_Buddha
Docderp
Ponena za zithunzithunzi, zowona kuti ndi amuna okha owongoka kapena amodzi
Kulawa kwanga kwayamba kukhala kopenga… (Kukambirana kwa Srs)
Kodi pamapeto pake ndidzasiya kukonda zolaula '?
Kodi pamapeto pake ndidzasiya kukonda zolaula '?
kufa_ku_be_vain
Ka-Kui
Sheehan7
ivanstan
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eahcimyrrah
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the_lonely_monk
SolitaryPath
F92
MyPetPickle
kupitiliza
yambidwa20
fapstronaut0
Steelcrate
thewied
Maganizo anga okhudza zolaula komanso kugonana
Ndinkakonda kwambiri zolaula koma sindinganene kuti ndimaganizirapo
Kulawa kwa akazi kunasintha pambuyo pa zaka zolaula
PMO inakonzanso ubongo wanga ndipo inachititsa kuti zilakolako zanga zogonana zitheke
PMO inakonzanso ubongo wanga ndipo inachititsa kuti zilakolako zanga zogonana zitheke
Anapeza TS Porn ali ndi zaka 18
Ndikuganiza kuti Porn zasintha khalidwe langa. (Pakuti tsopano osachepera)
Ndikuganiza kuti Porn zasintha khalidwe langa. (Pakuti tsopano osachepera)
130210
evrydamnday
AndTheSonsofDisaster
flaming_douchebag
AndTheSonsofDisaster
akulephera
AndTheSonsofDisaster
ThisEndsNow1
Element-A
Hawkeye5
wosamvera
KUKHALA NDI WONSE WODZI NDI HOCD kapena KUSANKHA KWAKWANJA!
"Ndimagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, Kenako zolaula zidabwera ndikusokoneza chilichonse
Zinali zolaula zomwe zinandipangitsa kufunafuna kinkier
Idakali pazatsopano. Izi ndizovuta kwambiri. Palibe chomwecho
Kupitiliza paulendo wopanda zolaula mutatha kumangidwa
Ndinalibe chidwi ndi munthu aliyense kapena munthu wina aliyense mpaka nditayamba
Zofuna za Fetish H-OCD. Ndili bwino koma thupi langa limafuna odwala ru
Zinthu zomwe ndidachita zidatulukira m'mutu mwanga ndipo m'malo modzidzimutsa
Autobigraphy Yanga: Zoyipa Zotenga Nthawi Zambiri Zimakhudza Maganizo &
Anandichititsa kuti ndikhale ndi chiyanjano ndi amuna achiwerewere
Ndapeza vuto langa, koma kodi lingakonzedwe?
Kodi pali aliyense amene wakula kupita ku zolaula za "Kukhala mtsikana"?
pa noPMO yanga yomalizira ikusokoneza fetus ngakhale kuti siinadzutse ine
Zovuta? Kodi MO ndi PMO zimakhaladi zenizeni zosiyana ndi zomwe zimakuukitsani? (Kumverera mwachiyembekezo)
Ndagunda zolaula zomwe zidandipangitsa kuganiza kuti ndimagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Sindine
Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndimakonda zolaula za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha:
Ndimakopeka ndi azimayi, koma kuwonera zolaula kwandipweteketsa….
Kodi pali mahule a "No-Fap / No-solic 'pamndandanda wa craig & backpage" kwa amuna omwe zikhumbo zawo zasokonekera kuposa kuzindikira b / c za zolaula?
Ndili ndi zaka 17 ndipo zolaula zimandipangitsa kuti ndikhale mwana wogona.
Ndili ndi zaka 17 ndipo zolaula zimandipangitsa kuti ndikhale mwana wogona.
Ndinayamba kuyang'ana zolaula zovuta kwambiri mpaka kufika poti
Momwe amaonera zolaula zinandipha ine
Momwe amaonera zolaula zinandipha ine
Ndimatsatira zosangalatsa ngakhale zitakhala zoopsa
Ndimatenga ma polygraph chaka chilichonse kuti ndiwonetsetse kuti sindinagwiritsepo zolaula - ndipo ndimadutsa, ngakhale ndimazemba nthawi zina.
Ndikupezeka kuti ndine wokonda kugonana kwambiri
Ndikupezeka kuti ndine wokonda kugonana kwambiri
NoFap + Kugonana = Kuwonongeka Kwambiri Kugonana Kwachilendo
[Masiku a 30 nofap] ED oopsa kuyambira 17 ndi kusokonezeka pa kugonana kwanga
[Masiku a 30 nofap] ED oopsa kuyambira 17 ndipo akusokonezeka pokhudzana ndi kugonana kwanga
Samalani zomwe mumayamba kuchita maliseche (ndevu)
Fap yaulere 2yrs 2months! Kufuna kudziwa za fetish kwaulere
Izi ndizoopsa kwambiri: kuvomerezedwa kosavomerezeka
Ndimaganiza kuti ndimakonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kwakanthawi,
Ndikuganiza kuti NoFap ikundipangitsa kuzindikira kuti ndine gay ndipo zimandiwopsa.
Ndikuganiza kuti NoFap ikundipangitsa kuzindikira kuti ndine gay ndipo zimandiwopsa.
Chifukwa cha zizoloŵezi zanga zolaula, kugonana kwanga kunasokonezedwa kwathunthu
Amuna achiwerewere kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akuchita NoFap?
Amuna achiwerewere kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akuchita NoFap?
mnzanga yemwe ndimakhala naye "gay" adayesa NoFap ndipo tsopano walunjika.
Ndinaganiza kuti ndine bi koma nofap wandiphunzitsa kuti ndimapezadi
KULUMIKIZANA
Poyamba sindinkamva kanthu kwa mkazi, ndiye nofap kwa nthawi yaitali
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/3fhhwe/gay_or_bisexual_men_doing_nofap/ctoo90z
Nditangoyamba kufotokozera zachitsulo changa choyamba kwa amuna chinali champhamvu
KULUMIKIZANA
Panthawi ya 120 + ndimakopeka kwambiri ndi akazi
KULUMIKIZANA
Kodi nofap imathandiza ndi nkhawa, ocd, ndi zina zotero?
Kodi nofap imathandiza ndi nkhawa, ocd, ndi zina zotero?
zenmike
Klodion
mrmacfarlane
Ndemanga ya blog
Kodi kuyang'ana mbolo ya amuna ena m'mavidiyo azolaula kumakhudza bwanji gi
[Kusiya kuthandizidwa kumamvetsetsa zochitika zogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha]
Masabata a 9 - Matenda okhumudwa amakula bwino, Zithunzi zolaula zimandiwononga pakufuna kwanga
Ndine wachiwerewere, koma ndakhala ndikuwonera makanema owongoka.
Ndine wachiwerewere, koma ndakhala ndikuwonera makanema owongoka.
Crusty_Dick [ulalo sunagwire]
bigballsomar
stalematewins
Kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
Kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
mrnatoo
MNK925
GolanSnyder
fappersam
UfuluManOfGlory
randomdewd99
Traumtropfen
GamerWithin
gab_astr95 [wogwiritsa ntchitoyu adachotsa akaunti yawo mu June 2021]
mfuti3199
tryhardagain
Tesla4sure
Kusiemsk
atifhere
KeepGoingSon
Ndine wokonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amaganiza kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
kulumikizana kuyankha
Kugunda kwa nyenyezi, kugonana ndi ts hooker
Kugunda kwa nyenyezi, kugonana ndi ts hooker
Porn zinkandichititsa kuganiza kuti ndine wamasiye
Porn zinkandichititsa kuganiza kuti ndine wamasiye
Ndikamachita NoFap, ndimayamba kuwongoka kwambiri…?
Ndikamachita NoFap, ndimayamba kuwongoka kwambiri…?
Pisces21
Kugonana kwanga kosokoneza bongo kwabweretsa kusintha kwa kugonana
Kugonana kwanga kosokoneza bongo kwabweretsa kusintha kwa kugonana
Kodi wina adafunsanso kugonana kwawo atayang'ananso
Kodi pali wina amene adafunsanso kugonana kwawo atayang'ana zolaula zambiri? Ngati ndi choncho, kodi mutha kusintha kusintha kwanu kapena mwatha kukhalabe ofanana mutatha?
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Ndi zolaula yo. Ndine ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha….
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Kodi zolaula zimatha kumakupatsani malingaliro achimuna? - mwa throwaway09856893929
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