Ngati munakulira pa intaneti mukuonera zolaula zamitundu yonse ndikukonda kugonana pa intaneti , simungayankhe kwambiri kugonana ndi munthu weniweni. Izi zingayambitse chisokonezo chachikulu. Chochititsa chidwi n'chakuti, anthu omwe amasiya zolaula pa intaneti nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi zokopa zawo zachizolowezi, kaya zikhale zotani. Mwachidule, musaganize kuti ndinu "osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" mpaka mutasiya zolaula kwa miyezi ingapo. Zolaula za masiku ano ndi zamphamvu kwambiri moti zikuyambitsa chilakolako chochepa cha kugonana ndi anthu ogonana nawo (Kafukufuku Woyenera: Kungoganizira Zogonana ndi Kudziseweretsa Maliseche Pakati pa Anthu Osagonana Ndi Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha: Kufufuza Kwambiri, 2017 ).
Chithandizo champhamvu kapena zolaula zomwe zimakhudza kugonana?
Pofika mu 2020, pali maphunziro opitilira 110 omwe amagwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena chizolowezi chogonana ndi zovuta zogonana, kuchepa kwa mphamvu ya ubongo ndi zolimbikitsa kugonana, komanso kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa ndi kugonana ndi ubale . Kuphatikiza pa maphunzirowa, tsamba lino lili ndi nkhani ndi zoyankhulana zokhudzana ndi akatswiri opitilira 150 (aphunzitsi a urology, akatswiri a urology, akatswiri amisala, akatswiri a zamaganizo, akatswiri a zachiwerewere, akatswiri a zachiwerewere, akatswiri a MD) omwe amavomereza ndipo apambana pochiza ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula komanso kutaya chilakolako chogonana komwe kumayambitsa zolaula.
Kuphatikiza apo, maphunziro ofufuza kugonana kwa anyamata achichepere kuyambira 2010 akuwonetsa kuchuluka kwa zovuta zogonana m'mbiri, komanso kuchuluka kodabwitsa kwa mliri watsopano: kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana. Zalembedwa m'nkhaniyi komanso mu pepala lowunikidwa ndi anzawo lokhudza madokotala 7 a US Navy - Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Ndemanga ndi Malipoti a Zachipatala (2016)
Chiwerengero cha ED m'mbiri: Kulephera kugwira ntchito bwino kwa erectile kunayesedwa koyamba mu 1940s pamene lipoti la Kinsey linatsimikiza kuti kufalikira kwa ED kunali kochepera 1% mwa amuna osakwana zaka 30, ochepera 3% mwa amuna azaka 30-45. Ngakhale kuti maphunziro a ED pa anyamata ndi ochepa, kusanthula kwa 2002 kwa maphunziro 6 apamwamba a ED kunanena kuti 5 mwa 6 adanena kuti kuchuluka kwa ED kwa amuna osakwana zaka 40 ndi pafupifupi 2%. Kafukufuku wachisanu ndi chimodzi adanenanso kuti ziwerengero za 7-9%, koma funso lomwe linagwiritsidwa ntchito silingafanane ndi maphunziro ena asanu, ndipo silinayang'ane vuto la erectile losatha : " Kodi munali ndi vuto losunga kapena kukwaniritsa kukhazikika nthawi iliyonse chaka chatha ?".
Kumapeto kwa chaka cha 2006, mawebusayiti aulere owonera zolaula adapezeka pa intaneti ndipo adatchuka nthawi yomweyo. Izi zidasintha kwambiri momwe anthu amaonera zolaula . Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'mbiri, owonera amatha kukwera mosavuta panthawi yogonana popanda kudikira.
Maphunziro khumi omwe adasindikizidwa kuyambira 2010 akuwonetsa kukwera kwakukulu kwa zovuta zogonana. Mu maphunziro 10, kuchuluka kwa zovuta zogonana kwa amuna osakwana zaka 40 kunali pakati pa 14% mpaka 37%, pomwe kuchuluka kwa chilakolako chochepa cha kugonana kunali pakati pa 16% mpaka 37%. Kupatula kubwera kwa zolaula zowonera (2006) palibe kusintha kokhudzana ndi ED ya achinyamata komwe kwasintha kwambiri m'zaka 10-20 zapitazi (kusuta kwatsika, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kuli kokhazikika, kuchuluka kwa kunenepa kwambiri mwa amuna azaka zapakati pa 20-40 kwakwera ndi 4% yokha kuyambira 1999 - onani ndemanga iyi ya mabuku ). Kukwera kwaposachedwa kwa mavuto ogonana kukugwirizana ndi kufalitsidwa kwa maphunziro ambiri ogwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi "chizolowezi chogonana" ndi mavuto ogonana komanso kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana ndi zolimbikitsa zogonana.
Nawa malipoti angapo:
Ndisanayambe nofap, ndimakumbukira nthawi zonse ndikuyang'ana atsikana omwe ali pafupi ndi ine ndikusachita chidwi. Ngakhale anthu otentha kwambiri omwe ankakhala nawo pamsonkhanowu anali ndi zolakwa zomwe zimandikhudza, ndipo ndinali kufika pamalo pomwe panalibe wina amene angandigwire kapena kundiganizira. Ndinayamba kuganiza kuti ndine wogwirizana ndi anthu komanso sindinakopeka ndi aliyense.
Kenako nofap inachitika, ndipo ndinazindikira kuti pazaka zambiri ndikuyang'ana zithunzi ndi makanema ambirimbiri a akazi okongola komanso okongola kwambiri, ndinali kudzipatula ku kukongola kwawo ndi kukongola kwawo. Patatha milungu iwiri ndili pa nofap Zili ngati mtsikanayo ali pafupi nane mwadzidzidzi anayamba kutenthedwa kwambiri. Koma ineyo ndasintha. Sikoyenera kuonera zithunzi, anyamata. Akazi enieni si nyenyezi zolaula, ndipo sadzatero. Musalole kuti anthu enieni aziona ngati anthu enieni. Ndi okhawo omwe angakukondeninso. Ndinkaganiza kuti ndinali wosagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo.
Masiku ano ndimapeza akazi ambiri okongola. Sindikusamala za kupanda ungwiro. Zodabwitsa zake.
Pamaso pa nofap ine ndinkatemberera tsogolo langa / Karma yomwe ndimayendayenda ndi amayi osayenerera, ndinali kuwamvetsetsa, ndimadzifunsanso ndekha. NoFap inasintha moyo wanga m'njira zambiri.
Lero ndakumana ndi mtsikana yemwe kale ankaonedwa kuti ndi wokongola kwambiri koma ndi wokongola, ndimakonda maso ake chifukwa ndi munthu wabwino kwambiri. Sindikufunanso ziwalo za thupi, umunthu wanga ndi wofunika kwambiri masiku ano! Permalink
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Sindingakumbukire nthawi yomaliza yomwe ndinadana ndi mkazi mmoyo weniweni. Ndipeza akazi ena okongola, koma sichidutsa kuposa zimenezo.
Ndasiya kukondana, ndipo sindikusamala za kugonana kwenikweni. Ndidakali namwali, ndipo sizikundivutitsa ngakhale. Ndataya chilakolako cha ubwenzi wapamtima.
Sindinapweteke kapena ndimakonda chidwi pazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi.
Sindikusamala ngati atsikana, kapena anthu ena onse, andipeza wokongola. Tsopano ndimawombera chilichonse chomwe ndikufuna kuchita chifukwa chidwi cha anyamata kapena atsikana sichimandisangalatsa.
Mbali yoyipa ndi ine ndakhala ndikuyimira izi. Uku ndi moyo wanga basi, ndipo ngati palibe kusintha, ndiye chomwe chiri. Zolaula zasokoneza ubongo wanga.
Kudya kwandichititsa ine kumalo osokonezeka
Ndikutsimikiza kuti anzanga ayenera kuganiza kuti ndine gay chifukwa ndimangopewa kugonana ndi azimayi chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti sangandikhutitse, kuli bwanji kundipatsa boner. Zolaula za ku gehena sizimanditembenuza, ndiyenera kulingalira zamisala yopenga kuti ndikonzekere masiku ano. Kodi mukuganiza kuti kusaphuka kumandichiritsa? Kodi mwawona kuti kuwonjezeka kwa kusintha kwa libido ndikutha kubwerera ku vanila kugonana?
Guy 4 [masiku 230]:
Ndakhala ndikuonera zolaula kwanthawi yayitali kwambiri moti zidanditengera kugonana. Popanda izo ndinali wokhudzana ndi kugonana. Ndinkafuna kudzimana chilakolako chololeza "kuyambiranso"… Ndinkafuna kukhala ndi malingaliro atsopano ogonana, omwe amakhala mozungulira azimayi enieni komanso othawa zolaula.
Zinathandiza! Chikoka changa kwa akazi enieni chakula mpaka pamiyeso yomwe sichinafikepo kale. Ndikuyamikira kukongola kwa, ndipo ndimakopeka nawo, azimayi ochulukirapo kuposa kale. Kuphatikiza apo, ndikaganiza kapena ndikulakalaka kumasulidwa tsopano, ndi akazi enieni omwe ndimaganizira, osakhala pakompyuta ndikuyang'ana pazenera.
Ndinalibe chidwi ndi munthu aliyense kapena transgender mpaka nditayamba kulowa PMO. Ndinali ndi lingaliro langa loyamba "logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" mozungulira 18-19 ndipo pofika nthawi imeneyo ndakhala ndikulowerera zaka 7 .. Kenako ndimaganiza kuti ndimagonana ndimagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso 100% gay kwa masabata angapo, helo, ndimaganiza kuti anali akadali bwino mpaka miyezi ingapo yapitayo! HOCD ndi yeniyeni ndipo izi zonse PMO zimasokoneza ubongo wanu. Limbanani nawo. Zitha kutenga miyezi kapena zaka kuti tichiritse, koma ndiyofunika.
Ndikumva ngati ndikugonana kachiwiri
Ndizodabwitsa, koma ndizodabwitsa kuti zolaula zandichititsa bwanji chilakolako changa chogonana kapena kukhudzidwa ndi chiwerewere. Ndimakondweretsabe maliseche, koma zimamveka ngati zolimbitsa thupi zenizeni pofufuza chilakolako ndikudziwana thupi langa m'malo modabwitsa. Tsiku lina panali AMA wolemba zolaula pawebusayiti ndipo ngati wopusa ndidadina ulalo womwe adapereka. Koma nditafika kumeneko zoyeserera zoyambirira zidasinthiratu kuti 'osathokoza zikomo!'
Zinthu zakhala zikuyenda bwino, sindinakhumudwitsidwenso yemwe ndine wokondwa kwambiri komanso wonyada. Kukhumudwa ndichinthu chovuta kwambiri m'moyo wanga ndipo ndizomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kuganiza kuti zimayambitsidwa ndi maliseche. Popeza kupsinjika kwanga kwatha ndikupeza kudzidalira tsiku lililonse, ndimamva kuti mapazi anga ayima pansi.
Popeza kuvutika maganizo kwatha, ndilibe mavuto aakulu m'moyo wanga panonso, koma ndikusowa kwambiri. Zimabwera m'mafunde. Nthawi zina sindimakhala ndi mantha ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndine olekanitsa, koma ndikubwera ngati tsunami ndikuwombera malingaliro anga onse ndikusunga ine ndikuganiza za amai. Zonsezi zimabweretsa maloto omwe ndi oipa kwambiri: Ndimangokhalira kulota zokhudzana ndi zolaula ndipo nthawi zina maloto anga amaona kuti ndi zoona. Ndikamadzuka ndikuvutika maganizo tsiku lotsatira, ndimadziimba mlandu kuti ndinabwereranso, ngakhale ndikudziwa kuti ndi maloto chabe.
Izi zati, maloto anga ndiye chinthu chokhacho chosakhazikika m'moyo wanga. Maganizo anga ali m'manja, zofuna zanga zikuwongolera. Ndikufuna kuthokoza fapstronaut m'modzi yemwe adalimbikitsa njira yabwino yolimbana ndi zolimbikitsazi. Dzina lake linali chiyani? Njira ya Chibuda? Sindikudziwanso, koma ndimangolongosolera mukakhala ndi chilakolako cha china chake, zilibe kanthu - ndi zolaula, maliseche kapena zakudya zopanda thanzi kapena chokoleti, ganizirani zosiyana ndi izi. Kotero mwachitsanzo mukamaganiza za zolaula zimapangitsa malingaliro anu kukhala ndi mtsikana, kukwatirana, kukonda ...
Pmo / ed yanga inali yoyipa kwambiri ndimaganiza kuti ndimagonana kwa zaka zingapo. Sindinakopeke ndi akazi m'moyo weniweni chifukwa ndinali ndi zovuta zonse zomwe ndimafuna kuti adzichepetse pa intaneti. Popeza sindinakopeke ndi akazi enieni ndinali mumtundu wina wa purigatoriyo, pomwe ine kukhala wamasamba ndizomwe zinali zomveka. Kenako china chake chidachitika ndipo ndidadzuka tsiku lina ndikunena kuti NO iyenera kusintha, NDIKUFUNA wokondedwa m'moyo wanga, ndikufuna mkazi wokondedwa ndikukondedwa, ndikufuna kukhala munthu wapadera kwa wina, ndi iye kwa ine. Kuyambira pamenepo ndakumana ndi SO yanga ndipo ndine wokondwa kuposa kale lonse.
Ndinayamba kuganiza kuti ndikhoza kugonana
Koma usiku watha, chifukwa cha NoFap, ndinali ndi chidwi chachikulu chokhala ndi mnzanga. Ndi msungwana wokongola koma womveka. Ngakhale zili choncho, gawo lokhala ndimaganizo okhala ndi mphamvu yakugonana yomwe idapangika idandipangitsa - kamodzi koyamba m'moyo wanga - NDIKUFUNA wina m'chipinda chimodzi. Sikuti ndimangokhala ngati horny, ndimafuna kudziwa thupi lake ndikumusangalatsa. Porn zinandiphunzitsa kukopeka ndi mawonekedwe azakugonana, koma tsopano ndikudziwa momwe zimamvera kulakalaka kukhudzana ndi kuyandikira. Ndikufuna kwambiri kuti kumverera kumeneku kupitilira, chifukwa chake sindiyenera kusiya. Ndani ali ndi ine?!
Ndinafika pakuyamba kukopeka ndi atsikana kwenikweni!
Ndakhala ndikugonana kwa nthawi yayitali momwe ndikukumbukira. Ndipo sindinakopeke ndi atsikana mwanjira zachikhalidwe ndipo kuzindikira maliseche kunandithandizira kufotokoza zomwe zimandisangalatsa chifukwa cha mfundo zosatheka.
Nthawi zonse ndimakonda mawonekedwe a mkazi wamkazi (mwa ogonana mopitilira muyeso, matembenuzidwe abwino kwambiri operekedwa kudzera mu media) koma zinthu zosiyanasiyana zomwe anthu amawoneka okongola sizinandisangalatsepo. Chifukwa chake sindinathe kudziona kuti ndione zithunzi za chilichonse chovundidwa ndi zovala zamkati. Zonse ndizopanda pake.
Sindinayambe ndakopekapo, kapena ndakhala ndikuphwanyika, aliyense. Nthaŵi zonse zakhala zojambula za DeviantArt ndi zotsatira za Google Image. Palibe aliyense weniweni. Musakhale munthu weniweni, pawindo kapena ayi.
Tsopano ndili ndi vuto langa loyamba lodziwika bwino, Pihla Viitala. Ndiyamba kusangalala ndi malingaliro ang'onoang'ono okhudzana ndi amayi ndipo ine ndayamba kuganiza mozama za malingaliro a kumpsompsona wina pamilomo ndi kuwagwira iwo pafupi.
Ndi zachilendo kwa ine. Izi ndi zinthu zomwe sindikanaziganizirapo kale, koma tsopano popeza ndafika pafupifupi masiku 90, zili ngati ndikuzindikira mwadzidzidzi momwe zinthu zilili muubwenzi, kugonana ndi ukwati. Mwadzidzidzi ndayamba kusangalala ndi zinthu zomwe ena amaona mwa anthu. Ndi chizindikiro cha kuchira, ndipo ndikusangalala kuona zikuchitika.
Kwa inu amene ati, "Hade, eya! Sungani! "Ndikukonzekera kupitilira tsiku la 90 pa October 15th ndikudutsa tsiku la 180 pa January 13th. Chifukwa chiyani gehena ndikufuna kuti ndibwerere?
Zaka 31 - PIED / asexual: Ulendo udayamba zaka 3 zapitazo. Tsopano ali ndi banja losangalala
Kodi ndife asexual? Kodi tingakhale achikali?
Kodi anyamata mumamverera? Ndili m'bwato lomwelo ndipo ndakhala zaka zambiri. Ndimaganiza ndipo ndimaganizirabe kuti atsikana omwe ali pafupi nane sangafanane ndi miyezo yanga, chifukwa chake izi zimalungamitsa kusakwatiwa kwanga ndikupatsanso atsikana zomwe zimangokopa amuna ena omwe ndimacheza nawo pafupipafupi. Mafunso ochepa. Kodi anali masiku khumi ndi anayi enieni pomwe maso anu "achilengedwe" adatsegulidwa kapena kutsegulidwanso ku kukongola kowona kwachilengedwe, kwenikweni, tsiku lililonse kukuzungulirani? Kodi mkhalidwe wanu wapano uli wabwinobwino?
Patha masiku 7 kwa ine (baji yanga ndi tsiku lopuma). Ndili ndi nkhawa kuti tsopano ndikhoza kukweza kukongola kwa azimayi omwe ali pafupi nane kupitilirako chifukwa ndine wonyansa komanso wofunitsitsa kudziwa zolaula pa intaneti ndipo nditha kupereka malingaliro anga. Choyipa chachikulu ndichakuti atsikana azolaula si zojambula kapena makanema ojambula pa 3D. Atsikana achiwerewere ndi atsikana enieni sichoncho? Sitingakumanepo nawo, koma ndi tsamba lawebusayiti ndi matekinoloje ena, ndizovuta kwambiri kukhulupirira kuti azimayi enieni si nyenyezi zolaula kapena zolaula sizikhala akazi enieni.
Chotsatira changa cha NoFap sichinali choti atenge atsikana. Anali kufuna kwenikweni atsikana.
Kotero nthawi yonse yomwe ndinali PMOing ndinkachita mantha kwambiri ndi atsikana. Sindinkafuna ngakhale kuyandikira pafupi ndi mtsikana. Ndinkaona kuti ndili ndekha kwambiri. Kupeza mtsikana sichinali cholinga chachikulu. Koma nditangopita ku NoFap, ndinayamba kuona atsikana ambiri omwe sindinawakondepo kale.
Ine dunno, makamaka izo zinangosintha kwambiri zolinga zanga ndi chidaliro.
Kukopa kwa akazi "enieni" akuyamba kubwerera.
Nditabwerako kanthawi, ndidafunsa kuti zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji "kuyambiranso" kugwiritsa ntchito Anime / Hentai.
https://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/bac0kc/rantconfession_i_feel_like_animehentai_might_have/
Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunandipangitsa kukhala wamantha komanso wakufa kwa akazi enieni. Ndakhala woyera kwa masiku 46, ndipo tsopano chodabwitsa chachitika. Lero, ndinawona mkazi wokongola atavala zovala, ndipo ndinakopeka naye. Tangoganizirani izi. Zikuwoneka ngati ndayamba kuyambiranso.
Ngati muli ndi vuto ndi Anime kapena Hentai, musataye chiyembekezo. Pitirizani kukhala PornFree, ndipo ubongo wanu udzawona momwe mkazi weniweni angawoneke wokongola.
Kodi munthu amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena amangosokonezeka maganizo?
Chifukwa chake, ndine watsopano pamsonkhanowu ndipo ndikumva kuti ndikudwala pafupifupi zizindikiro zonse za ED zomwe zimafotokozedwa pa yourbrainonporn.com. Ndine wazaka 19 ndipo ndimatha kuvutikira pazenera. Sindinayambe ndagonapo ndipo ndakhala ndikuonera zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 12 kapena 13. Mwezi wa april / mwina ndidayamba kukhala ndi mavuto ndi ma ED, ndipo monga ndidanenera kuti nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndikumakhala ndi chophimba.
Komabe, ndisanayambe kukhala ndi mavuto anga a ED, ndimatha kukondana ndi atsikana kapena kuwapeza okongola. Sanapite kulikonse, koma ndimatha kuwamvera. Nthawi zonse ndakhala ndikugawana m'maganizo mwanga pakati pa chikondi ndi kugonana, ndipo ndimadzifunsa ngati zingatheke kuti ndikusintha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (ngakhale sindinakhalepo ndi amuna kapena akazi anzanga) kapena chifukwa china chakuthupi ngati kusowa testosterone kapena china chake.
Nditamva za "kunyengerera" ndidakhala womasuka, chifukwa ndi momwe ndimamvera pakadali pano (sindinayang'ane zolaula sabata limodzi ndipo zimamveka ngati ndikufa pogonana), komabe sindine wotsimikiza Ndikuyang'ana munthu amene akumana ndi zotere.
Kodi ndikungoyamba kugonana kapena chinachake?
Re: Kodi munthu amakhala ndi vuto lotere kapena amangosokonezeka maganizo?
Hei mzanga. Ndine wachiwerewere ndipo ndimazidziwa kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 5. Sindikuganiza kuti 'mukukhala gay' pa zaka 19. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti muli pa Kinsey vuto lanu pompano ndi PIED komanso zolaula. Chifukwa chake, muli pamalo oyenera-olandilidwa. Zolaula ndi bizinesi yoyipa ndipo kwa ena a ife popita nthawi tiyenera kupeza zinthu zina zosazolowereka kuti titsike. Mwinamwake mwakhala mukuyamba zolaula - ndinayamba zolaula kwa kanthawi. Koma sindiwo komwe tidayenera kukhalira - ingoikani kuyambiranso kwa hardmode ndi rewire ndipo mudzabwereranso komwe muli. Zikumveka ngati muli ndi vuto lalikulu choncho pitani pa 100%. Mudayamba molawirira choncho phunzirani zonse zomwe mungathe ndikuleza mtima. Zabwino zonse. Phunzirani pa yourbrainonporn.com
Sindikudziwa ngati ndimangokhala achiwerewere kapena ngati ndimakonda zolaula
Ndikuganiza kuti ndimagonana, ndipo sindikufuna kukhala, chifukwa ngakhale nditayamba chibwenzi kapena mtsikana uti, andisiya chifukwa sindikufuna kugonana. Popeza tsiku lomwe Dick wanga adakwera, ndinayamba kuseweretsa maliseche. Zithunzi zolaula, nazonso. Palibe nthawi imodzi yomwe ndidadzipatsa mwayi woti ndilingalire za ine momwe ziriri. Sindikuganiza kuti ndikufuna, kwenikweni. Ngakhale mmbuyomo, Nenani miyezi 4 nditayamba zolaula mpaka ola limodzi kapena apo ndikufufuza zachiwerewere, ndikuganiza kuti ndadandaula.
Ndinkakopeka ndi mtsikana, koma ndinapeza zolaula nthawi yomweyo. Ndipo ngakhale ndili ndi boromantic, zimandivutitsa kuti sizinali zofanana. Tsopano patatha zaka zochepa ndikuwonera zolaula chifukwa zimandipangitsa kukhala wosangalala, sindikudziwa momwe ndimamvera ndi anthu enieni. Sindinakhalepo wokhumudwa KUCHOKA mtsikanayo nthawi imeneyo, ndipo sindimamva kapena kumvetsetsa chilichonse anzanga akuwoneka kuti akuyang'ana kwambiri mtsikana. Nthawi zosowa kwambiri ndimakopeka ndi munthu amene ndimamuwona, nthawi zonse wamwamuna, koma sichimangokhala. Ndichifukwa chiyani inenso ndiyenera kuyang'ana osawadziwa ngati amenewo. Koma ndikuwona kuti kusowa kwanga kogonana ndi anthu enieni kumawopsa, chifukwa ndikuwoneka kuti ndili ndi vuto lowonera zolaula ngati sindichita masiku angapo.
Kodi ndayamba kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa? Sindikudziwa ngati izi ndichifukwa choti ndili Ace kapena chifukwa choti ndayamba kusuta. Chonde musalole kuti ndikhale Ace, dziko lapansi. Kodi ndimachita chiyani pankhaniyi? Dick wanga amangopita ku zolaula! Palibe chenicheni ngakhale chomwe chimapangitsa kusokonekera! Ndilibe ngakhale zopondereza pa anthu enieni, koma ndikudziwa kuti ndine wokhoza! Kodi ndimazindikira bwanji izi? Kodi ndiyenera kusiya kudzilimbitsa ndekha ndi chilichonse kwanthawizonse? Ndipo koposa zonse, kodi ndili ndi zolaula kapena ndimangokhala ndi zolaula? NDIKUFUNA KUTI NDIKHALE WABWINO NDIKUFUNA KUGONANA NDI ANTHU OONA NGATI ALIYENSE!
Zinthu zofananazo zidachitika ndi ine. Nditakumana ndi vuto langa loyamba la ED ndikusiyana ndi bwenzi langa loyamba, ndidayamba kuganiza kuti ndine wamwamuna kapena wamkazi. Ndimakumbukira, sindinadziwe chomwe chalakwika ndi ine, ndimakhala wopanda chiyembekezo, ndimakhala ndikulira kamodzi chifukwa cha izi. Ndinkangomva ngati wopanda pake, zomwe zinkamveka zachilendo kwambiri.
Ndiye, pamene ndinkapitiriza kufunafuna zambiri zokhudzana ndi vuto langa, ndinaphunzira za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi NoFap. Ndinalibe mwayi winanso, choncho ndinasiya kuonera zolaula komanso kuseweretsa maliseche. Ndiye, pamene ndinali ndi mantha, ndinapanga HOCD, zomwe ndikuopa kuti ndikhale ndi zosiyana zogonana. Ndinkaopa kwambiri kuti ndikhoza kukhala wamasiye; Sindinayankhule ndi amuna ena, yang'anani maso. Zinali zoopsa, choncho nthawi zina ndimayang'ana zolaula kuti ndiwone ngati ndakopeka ndi akazi kapena ayi. Unali bwalo losatha chifukwa cha HOCD, ndiyeno ndinaphunzira kuti ngati iwe umanyalanyaza manthawo, amatha.
Kotero ndinali ngati, sindikusamala, ngati ndikukopeka ndi amuna, zikhale choncho, sindidzachita nawo chilichonse chogonana. Chifukwa chake ndimangopitilira kunyalanyaza mantha anga, kenako ndikuphwanya zozungulira.
Mofulumira zaka 2 ndinakumana ndi mtsikana, tinagwidwa m'chikondi, tinapanga zambiri, tinamva kuti tadzuka nthawi zonse, tinali ndi libido yaikulu ndipo tinali ndi mphamvu zolimba komanso zosatha. Zisanachitike, ndinasiya zolaula ndi kuseweretsa maliseche kwa miyezi yonse.
Chifukwa chake zidatembenuka kuti ndine munthu wamba wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Tsoka ilo ndabwereranso m'miyezi yapitayi ya 3, koma ndikudziwa ndidzakhala bwino pambuyo pake. Ndinasiya zolaula kwamuyaya.
Ndikukulangizani chimodzimodzi, ingojambulani, musangokhala miyezi ngati 3 ndipo musayang'ane zolaula. Musakhulupirire malingaliro anu; ngati mukuwopa kukhala ogonana, mwina simukutero. Zolemba zenizeni ndizabwino ndi zomwe amakonda.
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Hmmm… .ngakhale sindikumva kukhudzika monga momwe ndimamverera posachedwa posachedwa, koma ndikulongosola kwathunthu zakusokonezeka pakati pa atsikana ndi anyamata. Momwemonso ndinayambira pa zongopeka zachiwerewere komanso zolaula, kwa ine ndimangokopeka ndi atsikana m'moyo weniweni, komabe, ndikutembenuza mutu wanu ndimakopeka ndi akazi m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Ndidapezanso zolaula pambuyo pake ndikuzindikira kuti kunali kovuta pakati pa atsikana ndi anyamata komanso omwe amafunafuna atsikana m'moyo weniweni.
Ngakhale kutsegulidwa kwambiri ndi atsikana ts nthawi yoyamba Ndidalumikizidwa ndimomwe sindimatha kuzimva, zimawoneka zachilendo koma zikuchitika. Mitsempha ndikuganiza, koma pambuyo pake ndinakhala bwino ndipo zinthu zinayamba kugwira ntchito. Pambuyo pake ndinalibe malingaliro enieni omwe adandichotsa, zomwe ndimadziwa zinali zolaula zomwe ndimaziwona .. .ndipo nditayamba kugonana m'moyo ndimatha kulingalira zakugonana kwakale kapena kuwona akazi pagulu ndipo kenako amaganiza za iwo.
Ndikuganiza kuti zokumana nazo ndichinthu chachikulu, ngati simunakhalepo ndi zogonana zenizeni zingakhale zomveka kuti mukhale komwe muli ... koma ndikuganiza kuti mutayamba zolaula muli ndi mwayi woti musakhale ogonana nawo. Nthawi zonse ndimaganiza kuti kugonana ndi abambo kumatanthauza kuti simukukonda zolaula.
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Ndakhala ndi vuto lomwelo. Sindinawerenge mayankho onse, koma ndikuloleni ndikuuzeni zondichitikira.
Zaka zitatu kapena zitatu ndi theka zabwino zapitazo, ndidaphunzira za zovuta zomwe zimadza chifukwa chakuwona zolaula (zochuluka kwambiri). Panthawiyo, ndinalinso ndi mavuto a HOCD, monga wankhondo0306 amafotokozera. Ndinali wosatetezeka kwambiri zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwanga, chifukwa sindinadziwe kuti kugonana kwanga kunali kotani. Sindinakhalepo ndi chilichonse chotsutsana ndi kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma kuphunzira kuvomereza kuti ndikhoza kukhala gay pambuyo patatha zaka zambiri ndikumva zolunjika ndikuganiza (ndikudziwa) kuti ndinali wolunjika, zinali zowopsa kukhala wosatsimikiza.
Komabe, ndakhala ndikuyesetsa kusiya zolaula kuyambira nthawi imeneyo ndipo ndakhala ndikupambana kwambiri pakapita nthawi. Ndakhala ndikuonera zolaula kwa masiku angapo kwazaka zana ndipo monga mukuwonera, ndikuyandikira miyezi itatu.
Munthawi imeneyi, ndidathetsa nkhawa zanga zokhudzana ndi kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena ayi. Chomaliza changa ndikuti sindine amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sindimakhala wotsimikiza nthawi zonse ngati ndili wowongoka kapena wamwamuna.
Chidwi changa chogonana nthawi zonse chimayang'ana kwambiri azimayi. Kwa masiku anga ambiri owonera zolaula, sindinakonde ngakhale kuwonera zolaula amuna mwa iwo chifukwa ndimangofuna kuyang'ana azimayi. Chidwi changa mwa akazi enieni chakhala chikuzimitsa masiku anga owonera zolaula, mwina chifukwa ndimaonera zolaula ndikuchita maliseche tsiku lililonse.
Komabe, kuyambira ndikugwira ntchito yoti ndichiritse, pakhala nthawi zina pomwe chidwi changa mwa akazi ndi zogonana chakhala chachikulu, pomwe ndimaganiza kuti ndimakopeka kwambiri ndi akazi. Koma palinso nthawi zomwe ndimamverera kuti ndizosiyana ndikudzimva kuti sindinkagonana kapena ayi. Sindikudziwa bwinobwino, koma malingaliro anga apano akuti ndilolunjika komanso ndimagonana.
Pophunzira zamasamba, ndapeza kuti pali zilembo pafupifupi khumi ndi ziwiri zomwe zikugwirizana ndi asipeni. Pali maexexourse, imvi-zogonana, zogonana, komanso zogonana. Pali anthu omwe ali okondana, okondana, okonda amuna okhaokha, okondana komanso osakondana. Ndipo ndikunyalanyaza anthu omwe ali ndi mawonekedwe achimuna ndi akazi, chifukwa sindikudziwa kwenikweni za dera lachiwerewere ndi zikhalidwe za amuna ndi akazi.
Pepani chifukwa cha nkhani yayitali iyi , koma cholinga chake ndi ichi. Sitingathe kukuuzani za kugonana kwanu. Munthu yekhayo amene angaphunzire za izi ndi inuyo. Koma nkhani ngati zanga ndi zina zingakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa khalidwe lanu ndi momwe mumaganizira, kuti mupeze yankho lolondola kwa inu nokha.
Mwina ndinu ogonana, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mwinamwake ndinu okonda kugonana, koma ndinu ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (yang'anani ngati simukudziwa kuti ndi chiyani). Ndipo mwina simukufuna kugonana, koma monga kuyerekezera. Mwina simukufuna kugonana, koma mukufuna kukondana (ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna).
Mulimonsemo, kusiya zolaula ndi kuchepetsa kudziseweretsa maliseche ndiye chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite kuti muchiritse ubongo wanu ndikuphunzira zambiri zokhudza kugonana kwanu kwenikweni . Zingatenge nthawi kuti mupeze mayankho, koma yesani kuvomereza momwe zinthu zilili ndikusintha kuchokera pano.
Moyo ukhoza kukhala wokongola monga mumalola. Simukusowa kugonana, mnzanu (kapena ndalama zambiri pazofunika) kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino. Muyenera kuchita zinthu zomwe mumakonda.
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Yang'anani malipoti ambirimbiri odzipulumutsa kuti mudziwe zomwe anthu omwe achira ku mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe adakumana nawo: Kubwezeretsanso Akaunti Tsamba 1 , Kubwezeretsanso Akaunti Tsamba 2 ndi Kubwezeretsanso Akaunti Tsamba 3. Kuphatikiza apo, masamba asanu ndi atatu otsatirawa ali ndi nkhani zazifupi zomwe zikufotokoza za kuchira ku mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe adayambitsidwa ndi zolaula: 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 , 6 , 7 , 8.