Introduction
Mwatsoka, YBOP iyenera kutsutsa kwathunthu nkhani ina yofalitsa nkhani ya Men's Health yotsutsa zovuta zogonana zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula. Nkhaniyi ikufanana ndi nkhani ina yosokeretsa yomwe YBOP idatsutsa miyezi ingapo yapitayo: Kutsutsa "Kodi muyenera kuda nkhawa ndi vuto la kugonana lomwe limayambitsa zolaula?" - lolembedwa ndi Claire Downs wa The Daily Dot. (2018).
Ndisanalankhule mfundo zinazake, nazi maphunziro omwe Gavin Evans :
- Nkhani zina za 3,000 za anthu oyambirira zochotsa zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana (Kubwezeretsanso ma akaunti 1, Kubwezeretsanso ma akaunti 2, Kubwezeretsanso mauthenga 3, Nkhani Zokonzanso za PIED).
- Zolaula ndi zogonana? Mndandandawu uli ndi zofufuza zoposa 35 zomwe zimagwirizanitsa zolaula / zolaula ku mavuto a kugonana ndi kuchepetsa chilakolako chogonana. The Zotsatira za 7 zoyambirira mumndandanda ukuwonetsa zovuta, pamene ophunzira adasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiza matenda opatsirana pogonana.
- Zotsatira za zovuta pazoyanjana? Kufufuza kwa 75 kumalumikiza zolaula kumachepetsa kugonana komanso kukhutira ndi ubale. Monga momwe ife tikudziwira onse Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna adanena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zambiri zogwirizana osauka kugonana kapena kukondana.
- Zolemba zopitilira 140 ndi mafunso omwe akugwira akatswiri ambiri (urology aphunzitsi, a urologists, a mafupa a maganizo, a psychologists, a sexologists, a MDs) omwe amavomereza ndipo achita bwino kupembedza zolaula-anachititsa ED ndi zolaula-zomwe zinachititsa kuti asayambe kugonana.
- Kugonana ndi kugonana / kugonana? Tsambali likulemba Zotsatira za 50 za sayansi (MRI, fMRI, EEG, matenda opatsirana pogonana, mahomoni). Amapereka chithandizo cholimba cha mtundu wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo pamene zofukufuku zawo zimagwirizanitsa zochitika za m'maganizo zomwe zimafotokozedwa mu maphunziro osokoneza bongo.
- Malingaliro enieni a akatswiri okhudzana ndi zolaula / kugonana? Mndandanda uwu uli Ndemanga za 25 zaposachedwa & ndemanga ndi ena mwa apamwamba a sayansi ya sayansi padziko lapansi. Zonse zothandizira mtundu wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
- Zizindikiro za kuledzera ndi kuchuluka kwa zinthu zoopsa kwambiri? Zofufuza za 45 zofukufuku zomwe zikupezeka zikugwirizana ndi kukula kwa zolaula (kulekerera), chizoloŵezi choonera zolaula, komanso ngakhale kusiya (zizindikiro zonse ndi zizindikiro zosokoneza bongo).
- Kodi munthu amadziwa bwanji? Mankhwala omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri padziko lonse, Mayiko Akumayiko Onse a Matenda (ICD-11), ali ndi matenda atsopano woyenera kuchita zachiwerewere: "Kugonana Kwachiwerewere. "
Zolakwika ndi zosiyidwa
The Amuna Amtundu Nkhani zatchulidwa Dr. Nicole Prause, wosaphunzira yemwe ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi debunking PIED, atagwira ntchito Nkhondo ya zaka 3 pa pepala ili la maphunziro, uku ndikuzunza pamodzi ndi anyamata omwe achira zomwe zapangitsa kuti achite zachiwerewere. Onani zolembedwa: Gabe Deem #1, Gabe Deem #2, Alexander Rhodes #1, Alexander Rhodes #2, Alexander Rhodes #3, Mpingo wa Nowa, Alexander Rhodes #4, Alexander Rhodes #5, Alexander Rhodes #6, Alexander Rhodes #7, Alexander Rhodes #8, Alexander Rhodes #9, Alexander Rhodes # 10, Alex Rhodes # 11, Gabe Deem & Alex Rhodes pamodzi # 12, Alexander Rhodes # 13, Alexander Rhodes #14, Gabe Deem # 4, Alexander Rhodes #15.
Prause wakhala akusonkhanitsa mbiri yakale yovutitsa olemba, ofufuza, akatswiri azachipatala, atolankhani ndi ena omwe amayesa kunena umboni wa zoopsa zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti. Akuwoneka kuti ali bwino kwambiri ndi makampani opanga zolaula , monga momwe zikuonekera pachithunzichi cha iye (kumanja) pa kapeti wofiira wa mwambo wopereka mphoto wa X-Rated Critics Organisation (XRCO) . (Malinga ndi Wikipedia, Mphoto za XRCO zimaperekedwa ndi American X-Rated Critics Organisation chaka chilichonse kwa anthu ogwira ntchito zosangalatsa za akuluakulu ndipo ndi chiwonetsero chokhacho cha mphoto zamakampani akuluakulu chomwe chimasungidwa kwa mamembala amakampani okha. [1] ). Zikuonekanso kuti Prause mwina adapeza ochita zolaula ngati anthu kudzera mu gulu lina lochita chidwi ndi makampani opanga zolaula, Free Speech Coalition. Anthu omwe adasankhidwa ndi FSC akuti adagwiritsidwa ntchito mu kafukufuku wake wolembedwa mfuti pa ndondomeko ya "Orgasmic Meditation" yodetsedwa kwambiri komanso yogulitsa kwambiri . Prause waperekanso zonena zosatsimikizika za zotsatira za maphunziro ake ndi njira zake zophunzirira . Kuti mudziwe zambiri, onani: Kodi Nicole Prause Akukhudzidwa ndi Makampani Opanga Zolaula?
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi mndandanda wazambiri zabodza ndi zonama:
Amuna ambiri amawonera zolaula, choncho maganizo oti asayambe kugonana chifukwa chakuti mumayang'ana mavidiyo ochuluka kwambiri a X, ndizomveka, ndiwopseza kwambiri. Tinkakayikira kugwiritsira ntchito zochitika za amuna awiri okha kuti tipeze zochitika zokhudzana ndi anthu oonera zolaula, choncho tinalankhula ndi akatswiri ochepa ogonana ndi Ph.Ds kuti tipeze tsatanetsatane wa momwe chizoloŵezi chanu chingayambitse mavuto ndi moyo wanu wa kugonana.
Chigamulochi? Palibe umboni uliwonse wasayansi womwe umagwirizana ndi lingaliro loti "kuwonongeka kwa erectile komwe kumapangitsa zolaula."
"Pali maphunziro atatu a labotale omwe asonyeza kuti kuonera mafilimu ogonana sikukugwirizana ndi kugwira ntchito kwa erectile," adatero Nicole Prause, Ph.D., yemwe anayambitsa Liberos, kampani yofufuza za kugonana ndi biotechnology ku Los Angeles. (Mutha kupeza maphunziro amenewo apa , apa , ndi apa .)
"Palibe kafukufuku amene adalumikiza awiriwa," akutero. "Madokotalawa akupanga lingaliro loti izi ndizolumikizidwa ndi odwala awo."
Um…ndi zabodza kunena kuti palibe kafukufuku amene wagwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana. Zoona zake n'zakuti, tsopano pali maphunziro pafupifupi 40 omwe amagwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula/chizolowezi chogonana ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kuchepetsa chilakolako chogonana . Sikuti maphunziro ogwirizana okha ndi omwe akuwonetsa chifukwa chake , popeza ophunzirawo adachotsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiritsa mavuto osatha okhudzana ndi kugonana. Mwachidule, mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe amabwera chifukwa cha zolaula alipo chifukwa akatswiri azachipatala adapempha anyamata kuti asamachite zolaula - ndipo adachiritsa mavuto osatha okhudzana ndi kugonana (ED, Anorgasmia, kuchedwa kutulutsa umuna, chilakolako chochepa chogonana). Onani zoona zake?
Nanga bwanji zonena za Prause zokhudzana ndi maphunziro a 3 omwe adawatchula:
"Pali maphunziro atatu a labotale omwe asonyeza kuti kuonera mafilimu ogonana sikukugwirizana ndi kugwira ntchito kwa erectile." (Mutha kupeza maphunziro amenewo apa , apa , ndi apa .)
Choyamba, palibe kafukufuku aliyense amene anali "maphunziro a labotale", choncho musanyalanyaze zomwe akunena. Kafukufuku woyamba amene watchulidwa akuchirikiza lingaliro lakuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumayambitsa mavuto a kugonana chifukwa 71% ya ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri mu kafukufukuyu anali ndi mavuto aakulu a kugonana! Ichi ndi chitsanzo china cha mtolankhani amene akulephera kufufuza zoona zake, monga momwe atolankhani amalembera nkhani zokhudza zolaula nthawi zambiri amalephera kuchita . Mapepala achiwiri ndi achitatu (limodzi silinali kafukufuku) omwe ali pamndandandawu adatsutsidwa kwambiri m'mabuku owunikidwa ndi anzawo, ndipo ambiri amakayikira zomwe zapezeka komanso njira zomwe zagwiritsidwa ntchito. Pansipa tikuyang'ana mapepala atatuwa padera:
PAPER #1: Sutton et al., 2015:
Makhalidwe a Odwala Malinga ndi Mtundu wa Kutumiza kwa Hypersexual: Kuwunikanso Tchati Chochuluka cha Milandu 115 Yotsatizana ya Amuna (2015) - Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna (azaka zapakati pa 41.5) omwe ali ndi matenda a hypersexual, monga paraphilias, kuseweretsa maliseche kosatha kapena chigololo. Amuna 27 adatchulidwa kuti ndi "odziteteza podziseweretsa maliseche," zomwe zikutanthauza kuti adaseweretsa maliseche (nthawi zambiri pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula) ola limodzi kapena angapo patsiku, kapena maola opitilira 7 pa sabata. 71% ya amuna omwe adaseweretsa maliseche nthawi zonse adanena kuti ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo 33% adanenanso kuti adachedwa kutulutsa umuna (nthawi zambiri zomwe zimayambitsa ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula).
Kodi amuna otsala 38% ali ndi vuto lotani lokhudza kugonana? Kafukufukuyu sakunena, ndipo olembawo anyalanyaza zopempha zobwerezabwereza kuti apeze zambiri. Zosankha ziwiri zazikulu za vuto la kugonana kwa amuna ndi 'kusowa mphamvu kwa erectile' ndi 'kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana'. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti amunawo sanafunsidwe za momwe amagwirira ntchito popanda zolaula. Izi, ngati zochita zawo zonse zogonana zikuphatikiza kuseweretsa maliseche, osati kugonana ndi mnzawo, ambiri sangadziwe kuti anali ndi vuto la erectile. (Pazifukwa zomwe iye yekha amadziwa, Prause nthawi zonse amatchula pepalali ngati lotsutsa kukhalapo kwa vuto la kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula.)
PAPER #2: Pembedzero & Pfaus, 2015.
Ndimapereka ndemanga za Richard Isenberg, MD komanso kutsutsa kwakukulu, ndikutsatira ndemanga zanga komanso zolemba zomwe zidalembedwa ndi madokotala a US Navy:
- M'magazini yomweyi monga pepala: Kalata kwa mkonzi wa Richard A. Isenberg MD (2015)
- Zambiri zowunika: Palibe Chinanso Chimene Chikuwonjezera pa Kuphunzira Kwachibwana: Achinyamata Achinyamata 'ED Otsala Osadziwika (2015)
Chowonadi cha Prause & Pfaus 2015: Uwu sunali kafukufuku wokhudza amuna omwe ali ndi ED. Sunali kafukufuku konse. M'malo mwake, Prause adati adasonkhanitsa deta kuchokera ku maphunziro anayi omwe adaphunzira kale, omwe palibe omwe adakambirana za vuto la erectile dysfunction. N'zosadabwitsa kuti pepala ili lolembedwa ndi Nicole Prause ndi Jim Pfaus lidapambana ndemanga ya anzawo chifukwa deta yomwe ili mu pepala lawo sinagwirizane ndi deta yomwe ili mu maphunziro anayi omwe pepalalo lidati idachokera. Kusiyana kumeneku si mipata yaying'ono, koma mabowo otseguka omwe sangatsegulidwe. Kuphatikiza apo, pepalalo lidapereka zifukwa zingapo zomwe zinali zabodza kapena zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi deta yawo.
Timayamba ndi mabodza omwe Nicole Prause ndi Jim Pfaus adanena. Nkhani zambiri za atolankhani zokhudza kafukufukuyu zinati kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunapangitsa kuti munthu azitha kukhwima bwino , koma si zomwe pepalalo linapeza. Mu kuyankhulana komwe kunalembedwa, Nicole Prause ndi Jim Pfaus adanama kuti adayesa kukhwima bwino mu labu, ndipo amuna omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula anali ndi kukhwima bwino. Mu kuyankhulana kwa pa TV kwa Jim Pfaus, Pfaus anati:
"Tidawona kulumikizana kwa kuthekera kwawo kuti akonzekeretsere labu."
"Tapeza kulumikizana kwapafupi ndi kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe amaziwona kunyumba, ndipo zotulukapo zomwe amalandira erection ndizothamanga."
Mu kuyankhulana kwa wailesiyi, Nicole Prause adati kukhwima kwa chiberekero kumayesedwa mu labu. Mawu enieni ochokera mu pulogalamuyo:
"Anthu ambiri akamayang'ana zochitika panyumba amakhala ndi mayankho olimba pakati pa labu, osachepetsedwa."
Komabe pepalali silinayang'ane ubwino wa kukhwima kwa kugonana mu labu kapena "liwiro la kukhwima kwa kugonana." Pepalali linangonena kuti linapempha anyamata kuti ayese "kukondana" kwawo atangoonera zolaula mwachidule (ndipo sizikudziwika bwino kuchokera m'mapepala omwe ali pansi pake kuti lipoti losavuta ili linafunsidwa kwa anthu onse). Mulimonsemo, chigawo china kuchokera mu pepalalo chinavomereza kuti:
"Palibe chidziwitso chokhudzana ndi maliseche chomwe chidaphatikizidwa kuti chithandizire zomwe amuna adanenapo."
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, palibe zowonongeka kwenikweni zomwe zinayesedwa kapena kuyesedwa mu labu!
Mu umboni wachiwiri wosatsimikiziridwa, wolemba wamkulu Nicole Prause adalemba pa Twitter kangapo za kafukufukuyu, kudziwitsa dziko lonse kuti anthu 280 anali nawo, ndipo "analibe mavuto kunyumba." Komabe, maphunziro anayi ofunikira anali ndi amuna 234 okha, kotero "280" ndi yosiyana kwambiri.
Mfundo yachitatu yosachirikizidwa: Kalata ya Dr. Isenberg kwa Mkonzi (yolumikizidwa pamwambapa), yomwe idadzutsa nkhawa zambiri zomwe zikuwonetsa zolakwika mu pepala la Prause & Pfaus, idadzifunsa momwe zingathekere kuti Prause & Pfaus 2015 iyerekezere kuchuluka kwa chidwi cha anthu osiyanasiyana pomwe mitundu itatu yosiyana ya zolimbikitsa kugonana idagwiritsidwa ntchito mu maphunziro anayi oyambira. Maphunziro awiri adagwiritsa ntchito filimu ya mphindi zitatu, kafukufuku wina adagwiritsa ntchito filimu ya masekondi 20, ndipo kafukufuku wina adagwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zosakhazikika. Zatsimikizika bwino kuti mafilimu ndi okopa kwambiri kuposa zithunzi , kotero palibe gulu lofufuza lovomerezeka lomwe lingagwirizanitse mitu iyi kuti inene za mayankho awo. Chodabwitsa ndichakuti mu pepala lawo Prause & Pfaus amanena mosakayikira kuti maphunziro onse anayi adagwiritsa ntchito mafilimu ogonana:
"VSS yomwe inapezeka mu maphunzirowo inali mafilimu onse."
Mawu awa ndi abodza, monga akuwonekera bwino pamaphunziro a Prause omwe. Ichi ndi chifukwa choyamba chomwe Prause & Pfaus sanganene kuti pepala lawo lidayesedwa "lodzutsa." Muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zolimbikitsira zomwezo pamutu uliwonse kufananizira maphunziro onse.
Chiganizo chachinayi chosachirikizidwa: Dr. Isenberg adafunsanso momwe Prause & Pfaus 2015 ingayerekezere kuchuluka kwa chidwi cha anthu osiyanasiyana pomwe 1 yokha mwa maphunziro anayi oyambira idagwiritsa ntchito sikelo ya 1 mpaka 9. Limodzi lidagwiritsa ntchito sikelo ya 0 mpaka 7, lina lidagwiritsa ntchito sikelo ya 1 mpaka 7, ndipo kafukufuku wina sananene kuti chilakolako chogonana chikukula. Apanso Prause & Pfaus amanena mosamveka kuti:
"Amuna adafunsidwa kuti asonyeze kuchuluka kwawo kwa" kugonana "kuchokera ku 1" osati konse "ku 9" kwambiri. "
Mawu awa, nawonso, ndi abodza, monga momwe zikuluzikulu zikusonyezera. Ichi ndi chifukwa chachiwiri chomwe Prause & Pfaus sanganene kuti pepala lawo limayesa kuwerengera "kodzutsa" mwa amuna. Kafukufuku ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito muyeso wofanana pamutu uliwonse kuyerekezera zomwe aphunzira. Mwachidule, mitu yonse yopangidwa ndi Pemphero yokhudzana ndi zolaula imathandizira kukonza kapena kudzutsa, kapena china chilichonse, sizoyenera.
Prause & Pfaus 2015 adatinso kuti sanapeze ubale uliwonse pakati pa ziwerengero zogwirira ntchito za erectile ndi kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zawonedwa mwezi watha. Monga momwe Dr. Isenberg adanenera:
Chododometsa kwambiri ndi kulephera kwathunthu kwa chiwerengero cha zotsatira za erectile ntchito zotsatira measure. Palibe zotsatira zowerengetsera zomwe zilipo. M'malo mwake olemba amafunsa owerenga kuti akhulupirire mawu awo osatsutsika kuti panalibe kugwirizana pakati pa maola olaula omwe amawoneka ndi erectile. Chifukwa cha zomwe olemba amatsutsana nazo kuti erectile amagwira ntchito ndi wokondedwa akhoza makamaka kupindula mwa kuyang'ana zolaula kuti kusawerengedwa kwa chiŵerengero ndizovuta kwambiri.
Mu yankho la Prause & Pfaus ku ndemanga ya Dr. Isenberg, olembawo adalepheranso kupereka deta iliyonse yothandizira "mawu awo osatsimikizika." Monga momwe kusanthula uku kumanenera , yankho la Prause & Pfaus silimangopewa nkhawa zenizeni za Dr. Isenberg, lili ndi malingaliro atsopano angapo olakwika komanso mawu angapo abodza. Pomaliza, ndemanga ya mabuku omwe ndidalemba ndi madokotala 7 a Navy idapereka ndemanga pa Prause & Pfaus 2015:
Ndemanga yathu inaphatikizanso mapepala awiri a 2015 omwe amanena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti sikukugwirizana ndi mavuto ochulukirapo okhudzana ndi kugonana mwa anyamata. Komabe, zonena zotere zikuwoneka kuti sizinachitike msanga pofufuza mosamala mapepalawa ndi kutsutsa kovomerezeka. Pepala loyamba lili ndi chidziwitso chothandiza chokhudza momwe kugonana kungakhudzire achinyamata [ 50 ]. Komabe, bukuli latsutsidwa chifukwa cha kusiyana kosiyanasiyana, zosiyidwa, ndi zolakwika za njira. Mwachitsanzo, silipereka zotsatira za ziwerengero za muyeso wa zotsatira za ntchito ya erectile poyerekeza ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti. Kuphatikiza apo, monga momwe dokotala wofufuza adanenera mu ndemanga yovomerezeka ya pepalalo, olemba pepalalo, "sanapatse owerenga chidziwitso chokwanira chokhudza anthu omwe adaphunzira kapena kusanthula kwa ziwerengero kuti atsimikizire zomwe atsimikiza" [ 51 ]. Kuphatikiza apo, ofufuzawo adafufuza maola ochepa okha ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti mwezi watha. Komabe kafukufuku wokhudza chizolowezi cha zolaula pa intaneti wapeza kuti kusinthasintha kwa maola ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti kokha sikukugwirizana kwambiri ndi "mavuto a moyo watsiku ndi tsiku", zigoli pa SAST-R (Sexual Addiction Screening Test), ndi zigoli pa IATsex (chida chomwe chimayesa chizolowezi chogonana pa intaneti) [ 52 , 53 , 54 , 55 , 56 ]. Chodziwikiratu bwino ndi ziwerengero zodzionetsera pakugonana poonera zolaula pa intaneti (cue reactivity), chomwe chikugwirizana ndi khalidwe loledzera m'zoledzeretsa zonse [ 52 , 53 , 54 ]. Palinso umboni wowonjezereka wakuti nthawi yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito pamasewera apakanema pa intaneti sikutanthauza khalidwe loledzera. "Chizolowezi chingayesedwe bwino ngati zolinga, zotsatira zake, ndi makhalidwe a khalidweli ndi gawo la kuwunikanso" [ 57 ]. Magulu ena atatu ofufuza, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana za "hypersexuality" (kupatula maola ogwiritsira ntchito), agwirizanitsa kwambiri ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana [ 15 , 30 , 31 ]. Pofufuza pamodzi, kafukufukuyu akusonyeza kuti m'malo mongokhala "maola ogwiritsira ntchito", mitundu yosiyanasiyana ndi yofunika kwambiri poyesa chizolowezi cha zolaula/chiwerewere, ndipo mwina ndi yofunikira kwambiri poyesa zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana zokhudzana ndi zolaula.
Kuwunikiraku kunanenanso za kufooka pakulumikiza "maola omwe tikugwiritsa ntchito" okhawo kuneneratu zovuta zoyambitsa zolaula. Kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zimawonedwa pano ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zambiri zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndikupanga zolaula za ED. Izi zingaphatikizepo:
- Kugonana kwa maliseche ndi zolaula popanda zolaula
- Kugonana kwa munthu ndi maliseche ku zolaula
- Ziphuphu m'magulu amtundu wina (pamene munthu amadalira zolaula)
- Namwali kapena ayi
- Maola ambiri ogwiritsiridwa ntchito
- Zaka za ntchito
- Age anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mwadzidzidzi
- Kuchuluka kwa mitundu yatsopano
- Kukula kwa zolaula zopangidwa ndi zolaula (kuyambira pakufika ku zolaula zatsopano)
- Makhalidwe atsopano pa gawo (ie mavidiyo osonkhanitsa, ma tebulo ambiri)
- Ubongo wokhudzana ndi mowa umasintha kapena ayi
- Kukhalapo kwa chiwerewere / zolaula
Njira yabwino yofufuzira izi, ndikuchotsa kusintha kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ndikuwona zotsatira zake, zomwe zidachitika m'maphunziro omwe amuna adachotsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ndikuchira. Kafukufuku woterewu akuwonetsa zomwe zimayambitsa m'malo mwa ubale wosamveka bwino womwe umatseguka kumasulira kotsutsana. Tsamba langa lalemba za amuna zikwi zingapo omwe adachotsa zolaula ndikuchira ku zovuta zogonana.
PAPER #3: Landripet & Štulhofer, 2015.
Landripet & Štulhofer, 2015 idasankhidwa kukhala "kulankhulana kwachidule" ndi magazini yomwe idasindikiza, ndipo olemba awiriwa adasankha deta ina kuti agawane, pomwe adasiya deta ina yofunikira (mtsogolo). Monga momwe zilili ndi Prause & Pfaus , magaziniyo pambuyo pake idasindikiza ndemanga ya Landripet & Štulhofer : Ndemanga pa: Kodi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zolaula Kumagwirizana ndi Mavuto Ogonana ndi Mavuto Okhudzana ndi Amuna Achichepere Ogonana Ndi Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha ? lolembedwa ndi Gert Martin Hald, PhD
Ponena za zomwe Landripet & Štulhofer , 2015 adanena, sizinapeze ubale pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana. Izi sizowona, monga momwe zalembedwera mu ndemanga iyi ya YBOP komanso ndemanga iyi ya mabuku . Kuphatikiza apo, pepala la Landripet & Štulhofer silinatchule maubwenzi atatu ofunikira omwe adapereka pamsonkhano waku Europe (onani pansipa). Tiyeni tiyambe ndi ndime yoyamba mwa zitatu kuchokera mu pepala lathu lomwe lidalankhula za Landripet & Štulhofer , 2015:
Pepala lachiwiri linanena za mgwirizano wochepa pakati pa kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti chaka chatha ndi kuchuluka kwa ED mwa amuna ogonana ochokera ku Norway, Portugal ndi Croatia [ 6 ]. Olemba awa, mosiyana ndi omwe adalembedwa kale, akuvomereza kufalikira kwakukulu kwa ED mwa amuna azaka 40 ndi pansi, ndipo adapeza kuti ED ndi kuchuluka kwa chilakolako chogonana komwe kunachitika mu 2004 ndi m'modzi mwa olemba a pepalalo adanena kuti kuchuluka kwa ED ndi 5.8% yokha mwa amuna azaka 35-39 [58 ] . Komabe, kutengera kufananiza kwa ziwerengero, olembawo akuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti sikukuwoneka ngati chinthu chachikulu chomwe chimayambitsa ED mwa achinyamata. Izi zikuwoneka ngati zotsimikizika kwambiri, popeza amuna aku Portugal omwe adawafufuza adanenanso kuti anali ndi kuchuluka kochepa kwambiri kwa ED poyerekeza ndi aku Norway ndi aku Croatia, ndipo 40% yokha ya aku Portugal adanenanso kuti amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti "kuyambira kangapo pa sabata mpaka tsiku lililonse", poyerekeza ndi aku Norway, 57%, ndi aku Croatia, 59%. Pepala ili latsutsidwa mwalamulo chifukwa cholephera kugwiritsa ntchito zitsanzo zambiri zomwe zimatha kuphatikiza ubale wolunjika komanso wosalunjika pakati pa zinthu zomwe zimadziwika kapena zomwe zimaganiziridwa kuti zili kuntchito [ 59 ]. Mwanjira ina, mu pepala lofananalo lonena za chilakolako chochepa cha kugonana chomwe chimakhudza ambiri mwa omwe adachita nawo kafukufukuyu ochokera ku Portugal, Croatia ndi Norway, amunawa adafunsidwa kuti ndi zinthu ziti zomwe amakhulupirira kuti zidathandizira kuti asakhale ndi chidwi chogonana. Pakati pa zinthu zina, pafupifupi 11%–22% adasankha "Ndimagwiritsa ntchito zolaula zambiri" ndipo 16%–26% adasankha "Ndimadziseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi" [ 60 ]
Monga momwe ine ndi olemba anzanga, madokotala a Navy, tinafotokozera, pepalali linapeza mgwirizano wofunika kwambiri: 40% yokha ya amuna aku Portugal ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula "kawirikawiri," pomwe 60% ya aku Norway ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula "kawirikawiri." Amuna aku Portugal anali ndi vuto lochepa kwambiri la kugonana kuposa aku Norway. Ponena za anthu aku Croatia, Landripet & Štulhofer , 2015 amavomereza mgwirizano wofunikira pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi ndi ED, koma amati kukula kwa zotsatira zake kunali kochepa. Komabe, izi zitha kukhala zosokeretsa malinga ndi MD yemwe ndi katswiri wa ziwerengero waluso ndipo walemba maphunziro ambiri:
Kusanthula njira ina (Chi squared),… kugwiritsa ntchito pang'ono (vs. kugwiritsa ntchito pafupipafupi) kudawonjezera zovuta (kuthekera) kokhala ndi ED pafupifupi 50% mwa anthu aku Croatia. Izi zikuwoneka zomveka kwa ine, ngakhale zili zochititsa chidwi kuti zomwe adapeza zimangopezeka pakati pa anthu aku Croatia.
Kuphatikiza apo, Landripet & Štulhofer 2015 sanatchule maubwenzi atatu ofunikira, omwe m'modzi mwa olembawo adapereka pamsonkhano wa ku Europe . Adanenanso za ubale wofunikira pakati pa kusokonekera kwa erectile ndi "kukonda mitundu ina ya zolaula":
Kufotokoza zomwe amakonda pa mitundu ina ya zolaula [sic] kunagwirizana kwambiri ndi vuto la kugonana kwa amuna (koma osati lokhudzana ndi umuna kapena chilakolako).
N'zoonekeratu kuti Landripet ndi Štulhofer adasankha kuchotsa mgwirizano waukulu pakati pa kusokonekera kwa kugonana ndi zomwe amakonda pa mitundu ina ya zolaula m'manyuzipepala awo. Ndizofala kwambiri kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula achuluke kukhala mitundu (kapena fetish) yomwe sikugwirizana ndi zomwe amakonda poyamba, ndikuvutika ndi ED pamene zomwe amakonda pa zolaula sizikugwirizana ndi zochitika zenizeni zogonana. Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuwunika mitundu yosiyanasiyana yokhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula - osati maola okha pamwezi watha kapena kuchuluka kwa chaka chatha.
Chinthu chachiwiri chofunika chomwe Landripet & Štulhofer 2015 sichinapezeke chinali chokhudza akazi omwe adachita nawo kafukufukuyu:
Kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunali kogwirizana pang'ono koma kwakukulu ndi kuchepa kwa chidwi chofuna kugonana ndi anthu okwatirana komanso kusowa kwa kugonana komwe kulipo pakati pa akazi.
Kugwirizana kwakukulu pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri ndi kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana komanso kusagwira bwino ntchito zogonana kumawoneka kofunikira kwambiri. Nchifukwa chiyani Landripet & Štulhofer 2015 sananene kuti adapeza mgwirizano wofunikira pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi kusagwira bwino ntchito zogonana mwa akazi, komanso amuna ochepa? Ndipo nchifukwa chiyani izi sizinanenedwe mu kafukufuku uliwonse wa Štulhofer wochokera ku deta yomweyi? Magulu ake akuwoneka kuti akufalitsa mwachangu deta yomwe amati imatsutsa ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula, koma mochedwa kwambiri kudziwitsa ogwiritsa ntchito za zotsatira zoyipa zogonana zomwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula.
Pomaliza, ndemanga zotsutsa za Gert Martin Hald, wofufuza za zolaula ku Denmark , zinanenanso kufunika koyesa zinthu zambiri (oyimira pakati, oyang'anira) osati kuchuluka kwa zinthu zomwe zimachitika pa sabata m'miyezi 12 yapitayi:
Phunziroli silinena za otsogolera omwe angakhale oyenerera kapena omwe akukhala nawo pakati pawo. Kafukufuku owonjezereka pa zolaula, amapatsidwa chidwi pa zinthu zomwe zingakhudze kukula kapena kutsogolera kwa maubwenzi omwe amaphunzira (mwachitsanzo, oyang'anira) komanso njira zomwe zingapangitse kuti zisonkhezero zoterezi zichitike. Kafukufuku wamtsogolo pa zolaula zogwiritsira ntchito komanso zovuta zogonana zingathandizenso ndi kuikapo mbali pazinthu zoterezi.
Mfundo yofunika: Matenda onse ovuta amakhala ndi zinthu zingapo, zomwe ziyenera kuthetsedwa bwino asanayambe kulengeza nkhani zazikulu m'manyuzipepala. Mawu a Landripet & Štulhofer akuti, " Zithunzi zolaula sizikuwoneka ngati chinthu chachikulu chomwe chimayambitsa chilakolako cha amuna achichepere, mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana, kapena kutopa " amapitirira muyeso, chifukwa amanyalanyaza zinthu zina zonse zokhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zingayambitse mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana mwa ogwiritsa ntchito, kuphatikizapo kukwera kwa mitundu inayake, zomwe adapeza, koma sizinatchulidwe mu "Kulankhulana Kwachidule." Ndime 2 & 3 mu zokambirana zathu za Landripet & Štulhofer , 2015 :
Apanso, maphunziro otsogolera angakhale othandiza kwambiri. Komabe, pokhudzana ndi maphunziro a mgwirizanowu, zikutheka kuti pali zovuta zosiyanasiyana zofufuzidwa kuti zithetsere zifukwa zomwe zimawopsyeza kuntchito m'masautso osagwirizana ndi achinyamata. Choyamba, mwina chilakolako chogonana, zovuta zolimbana ndi zibwenzi ndi erectile mavuto ndi zofanana ndi zolaula zokhudzana ndi zolaula, ndi kuti mavuto onsewa ayenera kuphatikizidwa pofufuzira zokhudzana zowunikira ndi zithunzi zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito.
Chachiwiri, ngakhale kuti sizikudziwika bwinobwino kuti ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zingathe kuchititsa mavutowa, zowonjezera kuti ziwonetsedwe pamodzi ndi mafupipafupi owonetsa zithunzi zolaula zimagwiritsa ntchito (1) zaka zolaula-zothandizira kuonera zolaula; (2) chiŵerengero cha ejaculations ndi wokondedwa ku ejaculations ndi Internet zolaula; (3) kukhalapo kwa mafilimu owonetsa zolaula / chiwerewere; (4) chiwerengero cha zaka zolaula zolaula pa Intaneti zikugwiritsidwa ntchito; (5) pa nthawi yomwe zakale zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula za pa Intaneti zinayamba ndi ngati zinayambira usanafike msinkhu; (6) chizolowezi chowonetsa zolaula pa Intaneti chikugwiritsidwa ntchito; (7) kupita ku mitundu yoopsa kwambiri ya zolaula za pa Intaneti, ndi zina zotero.
Kuwonjezeka kwa 500% - 1000% mu ED yachichepere kuyambira 2010 sikungathe kufotokozedwa ndi zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse
Kafukufuku wofufuza kugonana kwa amuna achichepere kuyambira mu 2010 akuwonetsa kuchuluka kwa zovuta zogonana m'mbiri komanso kuchuluka kwa mliri watsopano: libido yochepa (yogonana ndi okwatirana). Zalembedwa munkhaniyi komanso mu ndemanga yathu Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Ndemanga ndi Malipoti a Zachipatala (2016).
Asanayambe kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zaulere (2006), maphunziro osiyanasiyana komanso kusanthula kwa meta nthawi zonse kunanena kuti kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la erectile dysfunction ndi 2-5% mwa amuna osakwana zaka 40. Kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la erectile dysfunction m'maphunziro 10 omwe adasindikizidwa kuyambira 2010 kumayambira pa 14% mpaka 35%, pomwe kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lochepa la libido (hypo-sexuality) kumayambira pa 16% mpaka 37%. Kafukufuku wina amakhudza achinyamata ndi amuna azaka 25 ndi pansi, pomwe maphunziro ena amakhudza amuna azaka 40 ndi pansi. Chimodzi mwa zitsanzo zodabwitsa kwambiri zaposachedwa (2018) ndi kafukufuku wa ED mwa ochita zolaula. Omwe ali ndi zaka zosakwana 30 anali ndi vuto la ED kawiri kuposa achikulire (omwe kugonana kwawo kunayamba popanda kupeza zolaula pa intaneti mwachangu panthawi ya unyamata). Onani Kulephera kwa Erectile Pakati pa Osangalatsa Amuna Achikulire: Kafukufuku.
Mwachidule, pakhala kuwonjezeka kwa 500%-1000% kwa achinyamata omwe ali ndi vuto la ED m'zaka 10 zapitazi. Ndi kusintha kotani komwe kwasintha m'zaka 15 zapitazi komwe kungayambitse kukwera kwakukulu kumeneku? Asananene motsimikiza kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula masiku ano alibe chodetsa nkhawa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti, ofufuza akufunikabe kufotokoza za kukwera kwakukulu kwa achinyamata omwe ali ndi vuto la ED komanso chilakolako chochepa chogonana , maphunziro ambiri omwe akugwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi vuto la kugonana , malipoti ambirimbiri omwe amadziona okha komanso malipoti azachipatala a amuna omwe amachiritsa ED pochotsa kusintha kumodzi: zolaula.
Amuna Amtundu ndemanga za Ian Kerner, koma m'mbuyomu Kerner ananena kuti zolaula zimayambitsa mavuto a kugonana!
Mu nkhani ya Men's Health , Kerner (yemwe ndi wolankhulira AASECT) akusintha kuti apewe kuimba mlandu zolaula, ponena kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumayambitsa matenda a ED kwa anyamata achichepere:
Ngakhale sipangakhale kulumikizana kwachindunji pakati pa kuyang'ana zolaula ndi kuwonongeka kwa erectile, pali chonchi mwachindunji kuti nthawi zina maliseche angayambitse nkhani zowonongeka. "Pazochitika zanga zomwe sindinapezepo kuti zithunzi zolaula zimayambitsa [matenda a erectile, kuthamanga msanga, komanso kuchedwa kuthamangitsidwa]" akutero Ian Kerner, Ph.D. ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi wothandizira kugonana.
Dziwani kuti Kerner sanatchulepo chilichonse, chifukwa palibe katswiri wa urologist amene angavomereze zomwe akunena kuti maliseche amachititsa ED yosatha mwa anyamata. Kerner, Prause, ndi David Ley onse apanga njira yosocheretsa anthu kuti asamaone zolaula ngati chifukwa chenicheni. YBOP adalemba za njira iyi yosuta ndi magalasi apa: Akatswiri a zachiwerewere amakana ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula ponena kuti maliseche ndiye vuto (2016).
Ian Kerner asanakhale tcheyamani wa ubale wa anthu onse wa AASECT, anali ndi maganizo osiyana pa mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe amabwera chifukwa cha zolaula. Onani nkhani yotsatira ya 2013 yolembedwa ndi Kerner, yomwe imalepheretsa 2018 Kerner (Mwina mwa kukhala wolankhulira wa AASECT, adamva kuti akukakamizidwa kutsatira mzere wa kampani .):
Zovuta Kwambiri pa Intaneti: Zotsatira za SADD
Ndi Ian Kerner
Kupeza zovuta zolaula pa intaneti komanso zachikhalidwe zambiri zomwe zilipo zakhudza anthu ambiri omwe sangakhale ndi vuto.
Monga katswiri wothandiza anthu pa nkhani ya kugonana komanso woyambitsa Good in Bed , ndaona kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa amuna omwe ali ndi matenda atsopano omwe ndawatcha kuti "Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder," kapena SADD. Ndipo gwero la vutoli ndi kungodina pang'ono - zolaula zambiri pa intaneti.
Monga momwe anthu omwe ali ndi ADD amasokonezedwa mosavuta, anyamata omwe ali ndi SADD azolowera kwambiri zinthu zatsopano komanso zolimbikitsa zomwe zimachokera ku zolaula za pa intaneti kotero kuti sangathe kuyang'ana kwambiri kugonana kwenikweni ndi mkazi weniweni. Zotsatira zake, anyamata omwe ali ndi SADD nthawi zambiri amavutika kusunga mbewa panthawi yogonana, kapena amakumana ndi vuto lochedwa kutulutsa umuna ndipo amatha kutha pokhapokha ngati akulimbikitsidwa ndi manja kapena pakamwa.
Kulimbitsa thupi?
Amuna omwe ali ndi SADD nthawi zambiri amavutika kapena kuleza mtima akamagonana. Angakhale ndi chilakolako cha thupi komanso kudzuka, koma samakhala ndi chilakolako cha maganizo. Amuna omwe ali ndi SADD nawonso sakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana chifukwa chakuti atopa ndi maliseche . Sakuthamanga mokwanira, mwakuthupi kapena m'maganizo.
Ndikukhulupirira kapena ayi, ndinayamba kuzindikira za SADD kudzera pa zodandaula za amayi omwe ankadabwa chifukwa chake anyamata awo sakanatha kutero (ndipo nthawi zambiri ankangowonongeka) kapena omwe anawona kuti anzawo akuoneka kuti atayika kapena osakhudzidwa panthawi yogonana. Pamene ndinakumba pang'ono, kapena ndinkalankhula ndi anyamata okha, ndinazindikira kuti amunawa amakhala ndi maliseche kuposa nthawi zambiri chifukwa chosowa zolaula pa intaneti. Nthawi zina, iwo anali ndi maliseche mofanana ndi nthawi zonse, koma sanadziwe kuti nthawi yawo yowonongeka - nthawi yowonongeka pakati pa zolaula - ikukula pamene ali okalamba.
Musandiyese cholakwika, ndine wotchuka kwambiri wotsutsa maliseche. Zimathandiza mnyamata kumenyana ndi nthunzi ndipo ali ngati tsiku la 30-spa tsiku. Koma zovuta zolaula pa intaneti ndi zachikhalidwe zambiri zomwe zilipo zakhudza anthu ambiri omwe sangakhale ndi vuto. Chifukwa cha ichi, amunawa adabweretsanso ubongo wawo pofuna kukhutira panthawi yomweyo zolaula zowononga zolaula. Izi zikutanthauza kuti akukulitsa zomwe akuzitcha kuti chikhalidwe chodziwika bwino: Amadzizoloŵera ku mtundu wolimbikitsana womwe sungaganizidwe pa nthawi yogonana. Chikhalidwe chawo chokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa abwenzi awo ndi otsika, ndipo amafunika kuganiza mozama pa nthawi yogonana kuti apitirize kukwanira.
Mukuganiza kuti mukudwala SADD? Nazi zomwe muyenera kuchita…
Kodi mwamuna ndi SADD ayenera kuchita chiyani?
Choyamba, dzipatseni nthawi yopumula yodziseweretsa maliseche . Sungani mojo yanu kwa mnzanu. Ngati simuli pabanja, chepetsani kuchuluka kwa maliseche omwe mumachita. Mukachita maliseche, yesani kugwiritsa ntchito dzanja lanu losalamulira. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndinu wamanja, dzikhudzeni ndi dzanja lanu lamanzere. Simungathe kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zofanana ndi zomwe mungathe ndi dzanja lanu lolamulira, kotero simudzakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri ndi zomwe zimachitika pogonana.
Chachiwiri, siyani zolaula . Mukaseweretsa maliseche, gwiritsani ntchito nzeru zanu kupanga zithunzizo ndikuyesera kukumbukira zochitika za kugonana. Ganizirani izi ngati kusiyana pakati pa kuwerenga ndi kuonera TV. Gwiritsani ntchito mwayi uwu kuti mulumikizanenso ndi mbiri yanu yokhudza kugonana komanso mndandanda wanu wa zokumbukira zosangalatsa.
Wonjezerani luso lanu la maganizo ndi mnzanu: Gawani maloto ndikuyesera kuchita sewero. Musanagonane, pitani pamalo pomwe muli pachiwopsezo chachikulu chakuthupi ndi m'maganizo. SADD sikuyenera kukhala wachisoni chifukwa cha inu kapena mnzanu. Chokani pa kompyuta yanu kupita kuchipinda chanu chogona, ndipo mutha kuyika chidwi chanu kumbuyo komwe kuli koyenera - pa moyo wanu weniweni wa kugonana.
Gavin Evans angafune kusintha nkhani yake mu Men's Health ... koma sindingathe kupuma mokwanira.