UDavid Ley Uhlasela i-NoFap Movement (Meyi, 2015)

YBOP Iingxelo: Oku kubhalelwe ukuphendula iposti yebhlog kaDavid Ley ehlasela i-nofap. Isebenza ngenjongo enkulu: 1) ukuveza ukuba isayensi ekuchasayo ukuba likhoboka lemifanekiso engamanyala ngumsi kunye nezibuko, kunye ne-2) amaphepha athi aphikise ukuba likhoboka lemifanekiso engamanyala avela kubantu ababini abadla ngokudibana- UNicole Prause Kunye noDavid Ley. Uhlaziyo, i-2019: UDavid Ley ngoku ubuyekezwa ngumzi mveliso we-porn xHamster ukukhuthaza iiwebhusayithi zakhe kunye nokwazisa abasebenzisi ukuba iziyobisi ze-porn kunye nezesini ziintsomi!

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Iposti yebhlog kaDavid Ley I-NoFap Phenomenon Ipakishwe igcwele iindiza zamadoda, ukungachazwa kakuhle kunye nobuxoki. Qaphela ukuba iposti kaLey ayiqulathanga kubhekiswa ekubuyiseni amabango akhe. Qaphela ukuba u-Ley uvale izimvo, nto leyo engaqhelekanga kakhulu Psychology Namhlanje izithuba zeblogi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, iposti kaLey kwimingcele engekho nkxaso kwizityholo zakhe okanye amabango.

Ley nguye umbhali Inkolelo yeTyala loSondo. Ubhale i-30 okanye ukubhalwa kweblogi kwi-blog kunye nokugxotha i-NoFap, umlutha wobulili, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kunye no-ED. Ngezihlandlo ezininzi uDavid Ley uye wabambisana kunye no-Nicole Prause ukuba ahlukumeze aze amchaze uMsunguli weNoFap u-Alexander Rhodes (nabanye). Apha sibonelela ngemizekelo embalwa (amakhonkco athathiweyo ngamacandelo amaphepha abanzi abalisa ngokuhlukunyezwa kukaPrause kunye nokunyeliswa kwabantu abaninzi kunye namaqela). La macandelo alandelayo abonisa ubunyani bohlobo lukaPrause noLey:

Ukongeza, uDavid Ley uhlala eqinisekisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn akunabungozi kwaye ukuba umntu uba neengxaki kungenxa yokuba "beneminye imicimbi". Iinkqubo zeTV, iimagazini, iiwebhusayithi zihlala zibhenela kuLey "njengegunya" kwikhobokisa iphonografi kunye neziphumo ze-porn kuba abaphandi bezonyango- abanokunika umfanekiso ochanekileyo wombuso wophando ngeziyobisi kwi-intanethi- ngokubanzi abajolisanga kwi-intanethi ngokukodwa . Kwaye azifumaneki ngokulula njengoGqirha Ley. Ke ngoko uyayilungisa impikiswano kwimithombo yeendaba ngaphandle kokungabikho ngokupheleleyo kwemfundo kwi-neuroscience yokulutha kunye nemeko yesondo, kwaye engazange apapashe naluphi na uphando lwantlandlolo.

Njengoko kuchaziwe, uDavid Ley unembali yokuhlasela uNofap, reddit / Pornfree, RebootNation, njl. Kwizithuba zeblogi nakwi-Twitter. Nangona i-vitriol ye-rhetoric iye yanda, akayi kuvumela ukuxhaswa. U-Ley uvala izimvo kwizithuba ezininzi zeblogi ezihlobene neefoshe (okanye xa evula izimvo, uyazisusa ezo zinzima kumabango akhe). Wenze njalo ngenxa yezimvo zakhe iposi ebizwa ngokuba ngu-ED-induced myth Khange ahambe ngendlela yakhe. Ngokukodwa, la magqabantshintshi alandelayo phantsi kweso sithuba, ziingcali ezimbini ezamthatha zakhokelela kwimpazamo.

Zibuze: Iimpawu zenzululwazi yenzululwazi yengqondo ukuhlasela amaqela okuncedisa okufana noNofap? Ukuba unengxaki ngombono we-intanethi, ngaba akafanele ahlasele oososayensi abenza uphando kunabantu abasokola ukufumana kwakhona? Ucinga ntoni "ngusosayensi" ongakholelwayo kumhlaza, kodwa endaweni yokulandela i-oncologists, walandela abaguli abanomhlaza besokola ukubuyisa impilo yabo?

Kwaye kukuziphatha njani ukungazichazi kakuhle izinto kunye nokuhlambalaza la maqela eyeka iphonografi kunye nokwabelana ngamava awo-kodwa ungabavumeli ukuba baphinde bakushiye ngenxa yokuvala izimvo? Ndingahamba ngomgca-ngomgca ngeposi kaLey, kodwa nantsi imizekelo embalwa yamabango angaxhaswanga kwisithuba sakhe esihlasela uNofap:

"Inqaku elinomdla kukuba akukho namnye kule ntshukumo ye-r / NoFap enyanisweni osisazinzulu owenza uphando nge-neurophysiology kunye nokusebenza."

Ley ibanga ukuba iyayazi imisebenzi yawo onke amalungu angama-400,000 + eNofap. Ngokwenene? Ngokwenyani, iNofap ibandakanya i-neuroscientists, psychologists, kunye nee-MD ezininzi ezichonga njalo. Nazi i bambalwa ii-MD abaye bachacha (PIED). Nantsi omdala wengqondo, oye waba ne-PIED, endithe ndabuza udliwano-ndlebe kwirediyo yam. Ley ayicingi into yokwenza i-crap ehambelana nokuxhatshazwa kwalo mbandela:

"Endaweni yoko, bangabadlali abanomdla, abafunde ngokwaneleyo malunga nenzululwazi yobuchopho ukuba babe yingozi, njengoko bebona oko balindele ukukubona, nokutolika inzululwazi yobuchopho ukuxhasa iingcinga zabo."

Ewe akaniki mizekelo, akukho zicatshulwa, izityholo nje ezingacacanga. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba uLey akanamvelaphi kwaphela kwi-neurobiology. Eli libango elifanayo elenziwe kuninzi lwezinye izithuba ezinxulumene nezamanyala. Kodwa yinyani?

inyaniso

Okokuqala, kukho Izifundo ze-41 zemithambo-luvo, kunye novavanyo lwe-21 loncwadi / kumagqabantshintshi apapashwe kubasebenzisi be-porn: Ngaphandle kwako konke ukufundisisa kunye nokuphononongwa kunika inkxaso kwimodeli yokulutha kweziyobisi. Bona eli phepha Izifundo zeBongo kwiBoncessers uluhlu oluhlaziyiweyo. Oku akuyiyo "i-amateurs enomdla" okanye "yi-YBOP nje" esithi ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kubangela utshintsho olunxulumene nomlutha. (Yiloo nto uLey axelela iintatheli ezinxibelelana naye.) Oososayensi abaphezulu kwiYunivesithi yaseCambridge, iYunivesithi yaseYale, kunye ne-Max Planck Institute yaseJamani bathi ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kungabuguqula ubuchopho.

Kwakhona, yi-100% yezifundo ezipapashiweyo. Ezi zifundo zobuchopho kufuneka ziqwalaselwe kwimeko enkulu ngokunjalo. Kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo 330 umlutha we-intanethi izifundo zobuchopho fikile, zonke ibonisa utshintsho olufanayo olusisiseko njengoko kubonwe kwikhoboka leziyobisi. Uninzi lwezifundo ze-intanethi zibandakanya abasebenzisi bamanyala, kwaye onke amanqaku abonisa amandla e-intanethi asisiseko okubangela ukufunda ngezifo (kule meko, ukuba likhoboka).

Izifundo ze-intanethi zokulutha kufuneka ziqwalaselwe kwimeko yamashumi eminyaka yokulutha kwe-neuroscience, esazisa ukuba zonke iziyobisi zabelana ngokutshintsha kwengqondo kunye neendlela ezisisiseko. Ngokuhambelana nokuhamba phambili kobungqina, iAmerican Society of Addiction Medicine yapapasha “inkcazelo entsha yokulutha”Ngo-2011. I-ASAM yathi kukho iindlela zokuziphatha, kuquka nokuziphatha ngokwesondo, kwaye ziyinyani njengeziyobisi.

Oogqirha bezonyango abangama-3000 be-ASAM yile yenene Iingcali zeziyobisi, hayi i-Ley okanye ezinye i-vocal sexologists abathi i-intanethi ayinafuthe kwingqondo yomntu kunokubambelela kumanani eendonga zomqolomba. Amalungu e-ASAM aquka uninzi lwezona zizwe zihamba phambili kweziyobisi. Funda iibhlog zikaLey ngononophelo. Akakhankanyi nesinye isazinzulu seziyobisi. Yeyiphi "isayensi" ayisebenzisayo ukuxhasa amabango akhe? Ngokusisiseko amaphepha ophando yena kunye no-Nicole Prause wakhe u-Nicole Prause avelise, enesitampu serabha ngoonontlalontle babo besini. La maphepha ngekhe adlulise uphononongo loontanga ngoochwephesha bezobuchwephesha be-neuroscience.

Ekugqibeleni, njenge-2018 sinokuxilongwa ngokusemthethweni. Incwadi yokusetyenziswa kwezifo zonyango ngokubanzi, Ulwahlulo lwaMazwe ngamazwe (ICD-11), iqulethe uvavanyo olutsha ezifanele ukuxhatshazwa koonwabo: "Ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo ngokunyanisekileyo. "

Buphi ubungqina bukaLey?

Okumangalisayo kukuba uninzi lweenzululwazi zikaLey zixhomekeke kubantu ababini kuphela, ngokwakhe UNicole Prause, kwaye la maphepha amabini:

  • Iphepha lokuqala: "Umnqweno wesini, hayi ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, inxulumene neempendulo ze-neurophysiological ezenziwe yimifanekiso yesondo" (2013). UNicole Prause wayengumbhali oyintloko
  • Iphepha lesibini: “Umlawuli akanazo iingubo: uphononongo lomfuziselo 'woTywala ngeMifanekiso engamanyala' (2014). UDavid Ley UNicole Prause ngababhali abakhulu.

I-Ley kunye nePrause ayisebenzisanga kuphela ukuba babhale iphepha # 2, kodwa bakwasebenza kunye ukubhala i Psychology Namhlanje Iposi leposi ngephepha #1. Iposi lebhokisi yabonisa iinyanga ze-5 phambi kokuba Iphepha le-Prause lapapashwa ngokusesikweni (ke akukho mntu unokuliphikisa). Usenokuba uyibonile iposti yebhlog kaLey ngesihloko se-oh-so-catchy: Ubuchopho Bakho kwi-Porn - AYIKHULI. Kulula nje, ininzi yengxolo evela kubantu ababini abadibanisa ukubhala nokupapasha amaphepha amabini. Ayikho iphepha elikuthi liyiyo, nokuba yiyiphi inqaku elithethayo.

Iphepha lokuqala - Isifundo se-EEG sikaNicole Prause (Steele et al., 2013)

Olu pho nonongo lwe-EEG lokufunda nge-EEG luxhasa iziyobisi ezingamanyala (amaphepha amabini okuqala ukuxoxwa). Ngelixa uPrause wenza amabango amaninzi angenasiseko, aphikisanayo nodliwanondlebe naye malunga noku, isifundo sakhe eneneni saxela ukufundwa okuphezulu kwe-EEG xa abasebenzisi be-porn babonakalisiwe. Yiyo kanye le yenzekayo xa iziyobisi ziveliswa kwimikhwa enxulumene nokulutha kwabo. Ke, iziphumo zikaPrause zifumene ubungqina obuhambelana nomlutha we-porn-nanjengoko ebesitsho ngokuchaseneyo. Ukongeza, uphononongo luchaze ukubonwa kwakhona kwe-porn kunxibelwano oluncinci nomnqweno wesini esahlukileyo. Kulula ngokulula: Isifundo sifumene ukusebenza kwengqondo okungakumbi kunonopopayi kunye nomnqweno omncinci wesini (kodwa hayi ngaphantsi komnqweno wokuphulula amalungu esini).

Ukumangalisa, isithethi sokufunda UNicole Prause Batsho ukuba abasebenzisi bezononono bebanokuthi "babe ne-libido ephezulu," kodwa iziphumo zolu cwaningo zithi ngokuchasene ngqo (umxholo wesifundo sobunikazi obudibeneyo behla ngokubhekiselele ekusebenziseni kwabo ubulili). Hlanganisa ezi zibini Steele et al. Iziphumo zibonisa ubungakanani bengqondo enkulu kwimifanekiso (imifanekiso engamanyala), kodwa kuncinci ekusebenzeni kwakhona kwimivuzo yendalo (isondo nomntu). Oko kukhuthazwa kunye nokungafuneki, zinto ezo ezizimpawu zomlutha.

Nceda ufunde oku Psychology Namhlanje Udliwano ndlebe malunga nokufundwa kwe-EEG. Emva koko funda izimvo ze-2 phantsi kwendlebe nodliwano-ndlebe Unjingalwazi wezengqondo uJohn A. Johnson:

Ingqondo yam iqhubekile kwi-Prause ibango lokuba ubuchopho bezifundo zakhe abazange baphendule kwimifanekiso yesondo ezifana nobuchopho bezilwelisi baphendule kwiziyobisi zabo, ngenxa yokuba ixela ukufundwa kweP300 ephezulu kwimifanekiso yesondo. Kanye nje nabagqwetha abonisa iip300 spikes xa beboniswa iziyobisi zabo ezikhethiweyo. Wayenokufikelela njani kwisigqibo esichasene neziphumo ezikhoyo? Ndicinga ukuba inokubangelwa kukuqonda kwakhe oko ebekulindele.

Emva koko funda la magqabantshintshi- John Johnson uyaqhubeka.

Unokuzifunda ezi 8 uhlalutyo olwenziwe ngontanga lwePrause's 2013 EEG. Zonke inkxaso zebango likaJohnson lokuba isifundo sikaPrause sihambelana "nemodeli yokulutha" (ukuba yena noLey baziphathe ngokungenankathalo).

  1. 'Isifiso esiphakamileyo', okanye 'ngokukhawuleza' Isiyobisi? Impendulo Steele et al. (2014), nguDonald L. Hilton, Jr., MD
  2. Isifundo sokuqala seCambridge- I-Neural Correlates ye-Sexual Cue Reactivity kubantu ngabanye kunye nabangenayo i-2014, ngo-Valerie Voon, uThomas B. Mole, uPaul Banca, uLaura Porter, uLaurel Morris, uSimon Mitchell, uTatyana R. Lapa, uJudy Karr, uNeil A. Harrison, uMarc N. Potenza, noMichael Irvine. Qaphela ukuba i-11 yokulutha kwezazinzulu zixoxa ngesifundo se-EEG sikaPrause ukuqala kwesi sigwebo: “Iziphumo zethu zibonisa ukuba umsebenzi we-DACC ubonisa indima yesifiso sesini, esinokufana nokufunda kwi-P300 kwizifundo ze-CSB ezihambelanayo nomnqweno [25].”Ngamanye amagama, babemchazela ngembeko uPrause ukuba akazazi iziphumo zakhe, ezihambelana nokufumana iziyobisi.
  3. I-Neuroscience ye-Intanethi yezoTyhila: Ukuhlaziywa kunye nokuhlaziywa (2015), nguTodd Uthando, uChristian Laier, uMatthias Brand, uLinda Hatch noRaju Hajela
  4. Ngaba iinthombe zoononopasho ze-intanethi zibangelwa izidakamizwa zesondo? Ukuhlaziywa ngeeNgxelo zeKliniki (2016), nguBrian Y. Park, uGary Wilson, uJonathan Berger, uMateyu Christman, uBryn Reina, uFrank Bishop, uWarren P. Klam no-Andrew P. Doan
  5. Imilinganiselo yokuCamngca kunye neNgengqiqo yoxinzelelo: Ngaba bayayikhathaza ngokuphindaphindiweyo kweeNografi? (2017) ngo-Sajeev Kunaharan, uSean Halpin, uTeagarajan Sitharthan, uShannon Bosshard kunye noPeter Walla
  6. Iindlela ezingenayo i-neurocognitive in-disorder of behavior behavior disorder (2018), uEwelina Kowalewska, uJoshua B. Grubbs, uMarc N. Potenza, Mateusz Gola, Małgorzata, kunye neShane W.Kraus.
  7. I-Sexual Addiction Online: Into esiyayaziyo kunye neyonto esiyiyiyo-Ukuhlolwa kweNkqubo (2019), uRubén de Alarcón, uJavier I. de la Iglesia, uNerea M. Casado no-Angel L. Montejo.
  8. Uhlalutyo olwenziwe ngabahlobo: "Ukuqaliswa noPhuhliso lwe-Cyber ​​Sex Addiction: Ukuxhatshazwa kwabantu ngabanye, ukuPhakamisa iMichanism kunye neNewural Mechanism" (2019)

Ungafunda kwakhona lo kuhlaziywa ngokupheleleyo, uxwebhu olufundwayo lwe-Prause EEG, kwaye ukuba amabango kumaphephandaba awahambelani neziphumo ezikhoyo. Ndincoma ukufunda ingcaciso emfutshane.

Iphepha lesibini- I-Ley & Prause "uphononongo" olungelilo uphononongo (Ley et al., 2014)

Iphepha lesibini ayisosifundo konke konke. Endaweni yoko, ibanga ukuba "luphononongo loncwadi" malunga neziyobisi ezingamanyala kunye neziphumo ze-porn. Akukho nto inokuya kude nenyaniso. Oku kulandelayo luhlalutyo olude kakhulu, oluhamba ngomgca ngomgca, lubonisa zonke i-shenanigans Ley & Prause ezikhutshiweyo- Umlawuli akanalo iingubo: iFairytale echithweyo ibeka iNgxelo  Iphelisa ngokupheleleyo into ebizwa ngokuba yi-review, kunye namaxwebhu amaninzi okuchaneka kophando abalukhankanyileyo.

Eyona nto yothusayo kuphononongo lukaLey kukuba ishiye ZONKE izifundo ezifumene iziphumo ezibi / ubungqina bokusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Ewe ufunda ilungelo. Ngelixa babebhala ukubhala uphononongo "olunenjongo", aba babini bezesondo bazithethelele ngokungazishiyi ezi zifundo ngenxa yokuba ezi yayizizifundo ezinxulumene noko. Qikelela ukuba? Zonke izifundo zoononophala zihambelana. Kukho, kwaye kuninzi kakhulu kuya kubakho, kuphela izifundo zokuhambelana, kuba abaphandi abanakho indlela yokufumana "iintombi ezingamanyala" okanye ukugcina izifundo ezingamanyala ixesha elide ukuze uthelekise iziphumo. (Amawakawaka abantu ayayeka ukubukela iphonografi ngokuzithandela kwiifom ezahlukileyo, nangona kunjalo, kunye neziphumo zabo zibonisa ukuba i-intanethi yeyona ntlupheko ebalulekileyo kwimpawu zabo kunye nokubuyiswa kwazo.)

Imizekelo embalwa yento uLey & Prause ayitsalile:

  1. Njengoko bekutshiwo, khange bavumele naziphi na izifundo ezibonisa iziphumo ezibi ekusebenziseni iphonografi kuba besithi "zilungile" ngokudibeneyo, emva koko bacaphula njengenkxaso yeenkolelo zabo zezilwanyana ezahlukeneyo zifundo.
  2. Bakhethise i-cherry ngokungacwangciswanga, imigca elahlekisayo evela kwizifundo, ukusilela ukunika ingxelo yabaphandi phikisa izigqibo.
  3. Bathetha njengenkxaso yezifundo ezininzi ezingabalulekanga nakwiicatshulwa kunye nezibango ezenziwe.
  4. Bazikhusela ukuxothwa kwabo kokuziphatha kakubi ngesiseko seengxelo ezinokuthi zineminyaka eyi-25 ubudala, zingayinakuziphulaphula izifundo ezithandabuleyo, eziphandle kakhulu, eziphikisanayo kunye nokuhlaziywa okubonisa ukuvumelwaniswa kweengcali ezikhoyo.
  5. Abazange bavume (okanye bahlaziye) ezininzi izifundo zeengqondo kwiimvumi ze-intanethi.
  6. Abazange bawahoye iiprogram ezipapashiweyo zengqondo-esicatshulwa kubasebenzisi bezentlekisa kwiYunivesithi yaseCambridge kunye noMax Planck, oqhekeza iinqununu zeLey / Prause.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, abahleli babo bezononophelo uMichael Perelman, uCharles Moser kunye noPeggy Kleinplatz babuye baphinda bahlaziya ibhuku le-sexological Iingxelo zezeMpilo zoLuntu (ebingazange ipapashe kwiminyaka emininzi) ukuze kuthintelwe olu “hlaziyo” kuluntu olungalindelwanga! Ndikrokrela ukuba uLey wenza imbali: eli inokuba lixesha lokuqala ukuba uphononongo loncwadi lubhalwe ngumntu ongu-1) ongazange apapashe ngaphambi kwe-2) akanabungcali ebaleni (umlutha).

Eyona nto: Xa ubona isiqhagamshelana nesicatshulwa esichaza ukutshabalalisa i-porn, sele silandela umthombo. Ndiyakukuqinisekisa ukuba uya kufumana enye ye-2 ngokukhawuleza, kunye namaphepha angenakuxanduva kumabango.

Kuthiwani nge-Porn-E-ED?

I-Ley & Prause ibango i-PIED yintsomi. Ubuxoki obungakumbi. Okokuqala, eli phepha linxibelelana malunga neengcali ze-120, kubandakanya oonjingalwazi abaninzi be-urology, abamkela kwaye baphathe i-PIED- I-Porn-Yenza i-ED kwiMedia: Iingcali eziqaphela i-PIED. (Uhlaziyo-i-ED eyenziwe ngoonobumba evezwe kwiNgqungquthela ye-American Urologic Association, ngoMeyi 6-10, 2016: Icandelo 1, Icandelo 2, Icandelo 3

Okwesibini, uphando oluhlola ubuncinane besilisa ngokwesini kwi-2010 ingxelo yezinga elidlulileyo lezesondo zesifo, kunye neerhafu eziphazamisayo zesifo esitsha: i-libido ephantsi. Ikhutshwe kule nqaku kwaye kwiphepha elihlaziywe ngontanga elibandakanya oogqirha be-7 US Navy - Ngaba iinthombe zoononopasho ze-intanethi zibangelwa izidakamizwa zesondo? Ukuphononongwa ngeeNgxelo zeKlinikhi (2016)

Iingxelo ze-ED ze-Historical: I-Erectile dysfunction yahlolwa kuqala kwi-1940 xa Ingxelo yeKinsey iphelile ukuba ukusasazeka kwe-ED kwakungaphantsi kwe-1% kumadoda amancinane kuneminyaka eyi-30, ngaphantsi kwe-3% kulezo 30-45. Nangona uphando lwe-ED kumadoda amancinci lucacile, le 2002 uhlalutyo lweemeta lwe-6 uphando oluphezulu lwe-ED ingxelo yokuba i-5 ye-6 ibike ama-ED Amanani kubantu abaphantsi kwe-40 malunga ne-2%. 6th Uvavanyo olulinganisiweyo lwe-7-9%, kodwa umbuzo osetyenziswayo awunakufaniswa nezinye izifundo ze-5, kwaye akazange ahlole engapheliyo i-erectile disysction: "Ngaba unenkathazo yokugcina okanye ukufezekiswa naliphi na ixesha kunyaka odlulileyo? ".

Ekupheleni kwe-2006 mahala, indawo ye-tube ye-tube ye-porn ehambayo yafika kwaye yafumana ukuthandwa ngokukhawuleza. Oku utshintshe uhlobo lokusetyenziswa koononophelo olukhulu. Ngethuba lokuqala kwimbali, ababukeli bangakwazi ukukhula ngokulula ngexesha leseshoni yokugcoba ngaphandle kokulinda.

Izifundo ezilishumi ukusuka kwi-2010: Izifundo ezilishumi ezipapashwe kwi-2010 ibonakalisa ukunyuka okukhulu kwiimpawu zokungasebenzi kwe-erectile. Kwizifundo ze-10, amazinga e-erectile ukungasebenzi kwamaqela phantsi kwe-40 avela kwi-14% ukuya ku-37%, ngelixa amaxabiso e-libido aphantsi aphuma kwi-16% ukuya ku-37%. Ngaphandle kokufika iPorn ungqamanisa (2006) akukho mahluko ezinxulumene ED zobutsha iye kulungise kwatshintsha kule minyaka 10-20 yokugqibela (ehlile amanani ukutshaya, ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kukuthi, amazinga ukutyeba ngokuthe kumadoda 20-40 up% 4 kuphela ukususela 1999 - yibona ukuhlaziywa kweencwadi). Ukuxhuma kwangoku kwiingxaki zesondo kuhambelana nokupapashwa kwezifundo ezininzi ezinxulumene nokusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye "nokuxhatshazwa koonwabo" kwiingxaki zesini kunye nokunyusa ukuhlaselwa kwesini.

Kuze kube yilapho umntu echaza i-500% -1000% yakutshanje kwiirhafu ze-ED zamadoda phantsi kwe-40, kuqiqa ukuba iingcali ezingentla zilungile malunga ne-PIED, kwaye iingcali zezesondo ezine-ajenda zinokungathembeki.

Okwesithathu, kukho ngoku Izifundo ze-40 ukudibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo okanye ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo kwiintsholongwane zesondo kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo ephantsi kwisistim sezesondo. Ukwengeza, Izifundo ze-75 zidibanisa ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kwisini esincinci kunye nokwaneliseka kobudlelwano. Ngokuba sifuna zonke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zaxela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo olunxulumene nalo zihlwempu zesini okanye ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano.

Ekugqibeleni sinamawaka amabali okubuyisela ukuhambelana nophando olungentla apha lunokufumaneka kula maphepha:

uhlaziyo: Umbhali kunye nomlingane kaLey UNicole Prause uye wagxininisa kakhulu nge-debunking i-porn-eyabangela i-ED, ukuba ibenze Imfazwe engekho emthethweni ye-4 kulephepha lezemfundo, ngelixa ngaxeshanye behlukumeza kwaye bekhulula abafana abachachile kwi-porn-indased dysfunctions. Okokugqibela, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele loo mbhali UNicole Prause Unayo ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nomzi mveliso we-porn kwaye iphazamisekile kwi-PIED etyhafisayo, ikulindile Imfazwe ye-3 yeminyaka kulephepha lezemfundo, ngelixa ngaxeshanye behlukumeza kwaye bekhulula abafana abachachile kwi-porn-indased dysfunctions. Bona amaxwebhu: Gabe Deem #1, Gabe Deem #2, Alexander Rhodes #1, Alexander Rhodes #2, Alexander Rhodes #3, Icawa kaNowa, Alexander Rhodes #4, Alexander Rhodes #5, Alexander Rhodes #6, Alexander Rhodes #7, Alexander Rhodes #8, Alexander Rhodes #9, Alexander Rhodes #10,  UAlex Rhode # 11, UGabe Deem kunye no-Alex Rhode kunye # 12, Alexander Rhodes #13, Alexander Rhodes #14, Gabe Deem #4, Alexander Rhodes #15. Umntu unokuqikelela ukuba kutheni uPrause ezibandakanya kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha zigqithisileyo neziphazamisayo. Kuninzi kakhulu kweli bali - Ngaba uNicole Prause Uchithezelwa yiShishini lezono?).

UDavid Ley wengxabano yemali yomdla (COI)

COI #1: Kwimpikiswano yemali ebonakalayo yomdla, UDavid Ley ukhona ukubuyekezwa ngumzi mveliso we-porn giant X-hamster ukukhuthaza iiwebhusayithi zabo kunye nokwazisa abasebenzisi ukuba iziyobisi ezingamanyala kunye neziyobisi ziintsomi! Ngokukodwa, uDavid Ley kunye nosandula ukusekwa I-Alliance Health Alliance (SHA) babe Isebenzisana neX-Hamster iwebhusayithi (I-Strip-Chat). Bona "Stripchat ulungelelwaniso ne-Health Health Alliance ukuze ubethwe ngengqondo yakho ye-porn-centric ekhathazayo":

Umanyano lwempilo yezesondo olusandula ukwenzeka (i-SHA) ibhodi yengcebiso kubandakanya uDavid Ley kunye nabanye ababini I-RealYourBrainOnPorn.com "iingcali" (UJustin Lehmiller kunye noChris Donahue). I-RealYBOP liqela le I-pro-porn evakalayo, “iingcali” ezizimeleyo ezikhokelwa ngu UNicole Prause. Eli qela ngoku ulwaphulo-mthetho lokuthengisa ngokungekho mthethweni kunye nokuphambanisa ngqo kwi-YBOP esemthethweni. Beka ngokulula, abo bazama ukuthulisa i-YBOP bahlawulwa kwakhona ngumzi we-porn ukukhuthaza amashishini abo, kunye nokuqinisekisa abasebenzisi ukuba iisayithi ze-porn kunye ne-cam azinangxaki (Qaphela: uNicole Prause unobuhlobo, noluntu ngokubanzi kumashishini we-porn njengoko ibhalwe ngokucacileyo kweli phepha).

In eli nqakuU-Ley ugxotha inyhweba yakhe yokunyusa ishishini le-porn:

Kuyavunywa, iingcali zempilo yezesondo ezibambisene ngqo namaqonga ezentengiso ezamanyala zijongana nezinto ezinokwehla, ngakumbi abo bathanda ukuzenza njengabangenabuntu ngokupheleleyo. “Ndilindele [abameli be-anti-porn] ukuba bakhwaze bonke, 'Owu jonga, yabona, uDavid Ley usebenzela iphonografi,' utsho uLey, igama likhankanywa rhoqo lihlazo kuluntu oluhlwayayo lokuphulula amalungu esini njengeNoFap.

Kodwa nokuba umsebenzi wakhe kunye neStripchat ngokungathandabuzekiyo uya kubonelela ngokutya kuye nakubani na onomdla wokumrhalela ngaphandle kocalucalulo okanye epokothweni ye-porn lobby, kaLey, loo ntengiso ifanelekile. “Ukuba sifuna ukunceda [abathengi abangamanyala porn], kufuneka siye kubo,” utshilo. Nantsi indlela esenza ngayo.

Ngaba ucaphukile? ULee usikhumbuza oogqirha abatshayayo abatshayayo, kunye noManyano lwempilo yezesondo IZiko lecuba.

COI #2 UDavid Ley ngu kuhlawulwa Ukudakumba porn kunye nokwabelana ngesondo. Ekupheleni kwe lo Psychology Namhlanje ngeposi blog Ley uthi:

Ukutyhilwa: UDavid Ley unike ubungqina kumatyala asemthethweni abandakanya amabango eziyobisi. ”

Kwiwebhusayithi entsha ye-2019 uDavid Ley wanikezela eyakhe iinkonzo ezihlawulelwe kakuhle:

UDavid J. Ley, Ph.D., yingcali yezengqondo kunye nesuphavayiza eqinisekisiweyo ye-AASECT yonyango ngesondo, ese-Albuquerque, NM. Unike ubungqina bobuchwephesha kunye nobungqina bobuchwephesha kumatyala aliqela eMelika. UGqirha Ley uthathwa njengengcali yamatyala e-debunking esiyobisi, kwaye uqinisekisiwe njengengqina lobuchwephesha kwesi sihloko. Uye wangqina kwinkundla zikarhulumente nezomdibaniso.

Nxibelelana naye ukuze ufumane ishedyuli yomrhumo wakhe kwaye wenze amalungiselelo okuqeshwa ukuze uxoxe ngomdla wakho.

UNicole Prause naye wenza inzuzo ngokukhanyela isini kunye neziyobisi ezingamanyala. Ukusuka kuye ILiberos iwebhusayithi (iphepha ukusukela oko lisusiwe, kwaye iPrause yalisusa kwi-Intanethi yeWayBack Machine):

"Ukuxhatshazwa kwezesondo" kuya kuqhubeka isetyenziselwa ukukhusela kwiinkqubo zomthetho, kodwa imeko yayo yesayensi iyimpofu. Sinike ubungqina bobugcisa bokuchaza imeko yangoku yesayensi kwaye senza njengabacebisi bezomthetho ukukunceda amaqela ukuba aqonde imeko yangoku yesayensi kule ndawo ukumela ngempumelelo umxhasi wabo.

LUkubonisana okubonakalayo kunye nobungqina ngokubanzi zihlawulwa [sic] ngexabiso leeyure.

Okothusayo kukuba uPrause kunye noLey bayazibandakanya ekuhlukumezeni ekujoliswe kuko, ukungcolisa igama kunye nokukhangela kwi-cyber. Yabona eli phepha oko kwenzelwa ukulwa ukungcungcuthekiswa okuqhubekayo kunye namabango obuxoki enziwa ngulowo wenza uphando e-UCLA uNicole Prause njengenxalenye yomkhankaso oqhubekayo we "astroturf" wokukholisa abantu ukuba nabani na ongavumelani nezigqibo zakhe ufanele ukuthukwa.

COI #3: U-Ley wenza imali athengise iincwadi ezimbini ezingabamkeliyo abantu ababelana ngesondo kunye neziyobisi ze-porn.Inkolelo yeTyala loSondo, "2012 kunye"I-Porn Porn eDicks,"2016). I-Pornhub (eyeye-porn enkulu i-MindGeek) yenye yeendawo ezintlanu ezingasemva ezingaphezulu ezidweliswe kwincwadi ka-Ley ye2016 malunga ne-porn:

Qaphela: I-PornHub yayingu i-akhawunti yesibini ye-Twitter ukuphinda ungene kwi-tweet yokuqala ye-RealYBOP ukubhengeza iwebhusayithi yayo “yeengcali”, iphakamisa inzame ezihlanganisiweyo phakathi kwe-PornHub kunye Iingcali ze-RealYBOP. Wowu!

COI #4:Ekugqibeleni, uDavid Ley wenza imali nge Iisemina zeECU, apho akhuthaza khona ingcinga-yokuba ngabachasi-mthetho ebekwe kwiincwadi zakhe ezimbini (ngokungakhathali Utyeshela amakhulu ezifundo nokubaluleka kokutsha Ukuchongwa kwesifo sokuziphatha ngokwesondo okunyanzelekileyo Kwincwadi yesikhokelo yokuxilongwa koMbutho wezeMpilo kwiHlabathi liphela). U-Ley uhlawulelwe kwiincoko zakhe ezininzi ezibandakanya umbono wakhe we-porn. Kule ntetho ye-2019 u-Ley ubonakala exhasa kwaye ekhuthaza ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kolutsha: Ukuphuhliswa kwesondo elifanelekileyo kunye nokuThintelwa kweSondo eliSebenzayo kuLutsha.

Oku kulapha ngasentla yincam yePrause kunye neLey iceberg.

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