Wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amafotokoza zovuta zakulongosola zowopsa zenizeni za zolaula
Popeza kuti zovuta, kuzizira kwazomwe zimachitika pa intaneti zimakhudza owonera ambiri, ndipo amalimbana ndi zovuta zakuchoka, akufunsa chifukwa chomwe makina ndi zoopsa zakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti sizikuwonekera bwino pamaupangiri ambiri. Pansipa, ndimatulutsanso zidziwitso za m'modzi wowonera. Mawu ake aKuphatikizidwa pa tsamba lotchedwa www.yourbrainrebalanced.com.
Kwa iwo omwe sangachedwetse pantchito yofufuza zamankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso kufunika kwake kwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti, ndakupatsani chidule mwachidule ndi maulalo ambiri pansipa.
Kodi tingatani kuti tibweretse vuto la chizoloŵezi chogonana pazovuta?
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Zizolowezi zolaula ndizovuta, ndipo amuna ambiri omwe ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo samadziwa. Iwo sakudziwa nkomwe pamenepo is chinthu choterocho. Ndinayamba kulingalira pazifukwa zakusadziwa kumeneku nditawerenga ndemanga iyi mu ulusi wina:
Ndikuganiza kuti njira zowonongeka zimayenera kutengedwa kuti anthu asamawononge zolaula. Iwo amafunikira kwambiri kukhazikitsa malamulo ena omwe opanga zolaula amatsata kuti asunge zolaula kuchokera kwa ana akuwona!
Ngakhale ndimamvetsetsa izi, sindimagwirizana nazo. Ndikuganiza choncho ndale lamulo limenelo likanakhala lovuta kuti lidutse, ndipo pafupifupi zingakhale zovuta kukakamiza. Zithunzi zolaula zimayenera kufotokozedwa mwanjira ina (zosatheka - zolaula za munthu m'modzi ndi vidiyo yosangalatsa ya mayi wina wovala zovala zachiwerewere akusuta ndudu). Ndiyeno dongosolo liyenera kupangidwa kuti lizisunga ana koma osati ena kuti apeze zolaula. Ndi njira yolamulirira boma pa intaneti, komanso khomo lotseguka loletsa mitundu yonse. Ayi zikomo.
Ndikuganiza Ubongo Wanu Pa Zithunzi kutsindika maphunziro zimapangitsa kumveka kwambiri. Ganizirani za angati anyamata omwe amapezeka pamsewu wopita kuchipatala pokhapokha atapeza kukhalako a PMO osokoneza bongo. Ndipo anyamata ambiri amati, "Ndikadakhala kuti ndikadadziwa, sibwenzi nditazilola kuti ndigwedezeke." Amawonetsa izi kuti ndi zoona pogwira ntchito molimbika kuti asatengeredwe.
Koma maphunziro amafuna kuti anthu amvetsere. Ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri kuti anthu amve nkhani yotsutsana ndi zovuta zokhudzana ndi zolaula.
Pakalipano sitimayang'ana zolaula pa intaneti m'njira yoyenera. Timanyansidwa nawo kapena kutisangalatsa, ndipo palibe mbali iliyonse yomwe imakhala ndi lingaliro loti zolaula pa intaneti ndizosuta ngati ndudu kapena madzi a shuga. Zolankhula zambiri zimachotsedwa mbali ndi mbali imodzi ikufuula "Sokoneza!" ndi mbali inayo kufuula "Prude!" Onse awiriwa sadziwa zomwe zikuchitika ku ubongo wa achinyamata athu pomwe amaphunzira kuti kugonana = zolaula pa intaneti.
Kutsatsa kwa YBOP Cholinga chimakhala chotsutsana ndi gulu lililonse:
Ma Liberals amakonda kukhala kumbali ya sayansi, koma machitidwe a mawondo kwa aliyense amene akunena za kuopsa kwa mawonekedwe amtundu uliwonse amalowetsa owolowa manja pamachitidwe owukira. Amagwiritsa ntchito anthu odana ndi zolaula kukhala achipembedzo omwe amayesa kupanga malamulo ochokera m'Baibulo kuti nthawi zambiri (mosalakwa) amalakwitsa Gary Wilson chifukwa cha m'modzi mwa anthuwa poyang'ana koyamba. A Liberals amafunika kuti zolaula zisakhale zowopsa kotero kuti zikhale zowona kuti palibe chomwe chimatetezedwa pansi pa Lamulo Loyamba chimavulaza. Ndizovuta kuthana ndi zovuta zenizeni kuti mtundu wina wamawu ungakhale woyenera kutetezedwa komanso womwe ungavulaze ubongo. Ndikosavuta kukhulupirira kuti palibe vuto lomwe likufunika kulumikizidwa.
Anthu a ku Libertarians amakonda kukhala anzeru komanso asayansi. Komabe, kuti asunge malingaliro awo, libertarians amafunika chirichonse kuti zonse zivomerezeke ndi zopanda vuto. Mankhwala onse akuyenera kukhala ovomerezeka - chifukwa chake nkhawa zilizonse zokhudzana ndi omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo mumsewu ayenera kuchotsedwa m'malo mongokhala owopsa. Zakudya zonse ziyenera kukhala zololedwa - chifukwa chake ma libertari amalanda aliyense ngakhale akulankhula za kuopsa kwakumwa kwa chakudya chathu chamakono monga "dziko lamankhwala" limalimbikitsa olakalaka kuti atilande ufulu wathu. Ndipo kwa aliyense amene akunena kuti zolaula zitha kukhala ndi zinthu zomwe amuna anzeru ayenera kuganiziratu asanagwiritse ntchito ndi chiwerewere chokha. Anthu aku Libertari ali ndi fyuluta yolimba kwambiri yomwe siyimitsa mkangano uliwonse, ngakhale utamveka bwanji, womwe ungapangitse munthu wololera kuganiza zoletsa ufulu uliwonse.
Odziletsa akuwoneka ngati othandizira mwachilengedwe polimbikitsa zoopsa za zolaula. Koma ndichifukwa choti amakonda kuwona kugonana ngati chinthu chowopsa komanso chosowa ulamuliro wankhanza. Ndipo opembedza asayansi amayandikira kutsutsanaku motsutsana kwambiri ndi sayansi. Mikangano yochokera pa biology ya chisinthiko - zifukwa zokha zomwe muyenera kupanga, mwanjira ina - sizoyenera. Mgwirizano wachinyengo pakati pa alaliki ndi chakuti chiphunzitso chakuti zamoyo zinachita kusanduka kuchokera ku zinthu zina ndi chakuti zabodza ndipo amatsogolera anthu kutali ndi Mulungu. Chisinthiko chimatsutsana kwambiri kuposa zolaula. Odzitchinjiriza atha kukhala "otsutsana" ndi zolaula, koma zifukwa zawo, makamaka kufunitsitsa kwawo kugwiritsa ntchito lamuloli kuti asinthe machitidwe awo kukhala malamulo, zimawapangitsa kukhala othandizira poizoni omwe angangopatsa anthu oyenera chifukwa china chotsitsira zifukwa zonse "zotsutsana ndi zolaula" monga chidziwitso chazipembedzo.
Akazi, gawo lofunikira laufulu, zimawonekeranso ngati ogwirizana mwachilengedwe. Amuna achikulirewa sanawonetsedwe bwino kuposa zolaula. Atsikana omwe amasewera pa zolaula nthawi zambiri amakhumudwa ndi zomwe akumana nazo. Ndipo azimayi ambiri, kuphatikiza azimayi, omwe amangofuna kugonana kwabwino ndi amuna awo akukanidwa izi zomwe amuna amakhala ndi vuto lodana ndi PMO. Koma okonda zachikazi ali ndi zifukwa zitatu zosafunira kulowa nawo mkanganowu. Choyamba, okonda zachikazi "okonda zogonana" apangitsa kuti kudzudzula kwa wina aliyense kukhala kopikisana pakati pa ukazi - chilichonse chomwe chimawoneka ngati chodzudzula kusankha kwaulere kwa omwe amagonana kumawawona ngati odana ndi akazi. Chachiwiri, psychology yosinthika imakanidwa ndi pafupifupi onse otchuka achikazi; amawawona ngati malongosoledwe a "choncho basi" ndi chowiringula kuti amuna achite chilichonse chomwe akufuna kuchita. Malingaliro onse amatsutsana ndi sayansi yosokoneza, ndipo ukazi wachikazi ndiwonso. Chachitatu, kuzindikira molondola vutoli pano ngati "chizolowezi" kumatenga udindo wina kutali ndi mwamunayo komanso kumufunira chifundo. Chikazi sichimakonda chilichonse cha izi.
Ogwiritsa ntchito zithunzi za Porn, omwe ali ndi mwayi wopindula kwambiri pa zokambiranazi, akhoza kukhala Kwambiri kugonjetsedwa ndi lingaliro. Sizitenga nthawi yayitali ad hominem kuwukira kuti akhale chitetezo choyamba chochitidwa ndi wodwala zolaula pamene akukumana ndi chizoloŵezi chake, ngakhale mwachinsinsi. Owerenga achikulire olaula akumva za achinyamata omwe akuvutika ED ali otsimikiza zina mwazinthu monga zakudya ziyenera kukhala zikugwira ntchito, ngakhale zikawonekeratu kuti anyamata omwe akhudzidwa amatha kuzipeza zolaula koma osati azimayi achichepere otentha. Zili ngati ubongo wam'mbuyo uli ndi gulu lodzipereka la ma cell am'magazi omwe amalamula kuti aliyense yemwe akuwopseza awukire mwachangu, mopanda nzeru zolaula zamtengo wapatali. Monga momwe zimakhalira ndi chizolowezi choledzera, wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zambiri amayenera "kugwa pansi" ndi ED kapena kukhumudwa koopsa asanafike poti angaganize kuti kuthera nthawi yayitali tsiku lililonse zolaula zolaula pa intaneti zitha kuyimira zovuta.
Mwachidule, pafupifupi palibe ali ndi chidwi chofuna kukambirana zenizeni, zothandizidwa ndi sayansi zokhudzana ndi zolaula ku ubongo wa munthu. Ndipo kotero sitikukambirana.
Mukuganiza bwanji za chikhalidwe / zofalitsa zomwe ndimakhala nazo zotsutsana?
Malingaliro aliwonse ogwira ntchito kuzungulira zopinga ndikukakamiza kuthetsa vuto la zolaula muzokambirana yayikulu?
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Zotsatira za kafukufuku wovuta:
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- Kodi munthu amadziwa bwanji? Mankhwala omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri padziko lonse, Mayiko Akumayiko Onse a Matenda (ICD-11), ali ndi matenda atsopano woyenera kuchita zachiwerewere: "Kugonana Kwachiwerewere. ”(2018)
- Kugonana ndi kugonana / kugonana? Tsambali likulemba Zotsatira za 39 za sayansi (MRI, fMRI, EEG, matenda opatsirana pogonana, mahomoni). Amapereka chithandizo cholimba cha mtundu wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo pamene zofukufuku zawo zimagwirizanitsa zochitika za m'maganizo zomwe zimafotokozedwa mu maphunziro osokoneza bongo.
- Malingaliro enieni a akatswiri okhudzana ndi zolaula / kugonana? Mndandanda uwu uli Ndemanga za 16 zaposachedwa & ndemanga ndi ena mwa apamwamba a sayansi ya sayansi padziko lapansi. Zonse zothandizira mtundu wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
- Zizindikiro za kuledzera ndi kuchuluka kwa zinthu zoopsa kwambiri? Kupitilira maphunziro a 30 omwe amafotokoza zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa zolaula (kulolerana), chizolowezi choonera zolaula, komanso zisonyezo zosiya (zizindikiro zonse ndi zizindikiro zosokoneza bongo).
- Kulingalira mfundo yosalimbikitsidwa yolankhulidwa yakuti "chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana" akufotokozera zolaula kapena chizolowezi chogonana: Kafukufuku wa 25 amapusitsa kunena kuti kugonana & zolaula "amangokhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kugonana"
- Zolaula ndi zogonana? Mndandandawu uli ndi maphunziro a 26 omwe akugwirizanitsa ntchito zolaula / zolaula ku mavuto a kugonana ndi kuchepetsa chilakolako chogonana. FZosintha za 5 zilibe mndandanda zovuta, pamene ophunzira adasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiza matenda opatsirana pogonana.
- Zotsatira za zovuta pazoyanjana? Zofufuza pafupifupi 60 zimagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsa ntchito kugonana kosachepera komanso kukhutira ndi chibwenzi. (Monga momwe ife tikudziwira onse Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna adanena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zambiri zogwirizana osauka kugonana kapena kukondana.)
- Kodi kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi kumakhudza bwanji maganizo ndi maganizo? Pazofufuza za 55 zomwe zimagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi thanzi lakuthupi lamaganizidwe & zotsatira zazidziwitso zosauka.
- Kodi kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi kumakhudza bwanji zikhulupiliro, malingaliro ndi makhalidwe? Onani maphunziro aumwini - Phunziro la 25 limagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsira ntchito "maganizo osagwirizana" kwa amayi ndi malingaliro ogonana - kapena chidule cha mndandanda wa 2016: Media ndi Sexualization: Boma la Kafukufuku Wofufuza, 1995-2015. Chidule:
Cholinga cha ndemangayi chinali kupanga zofufuza zoyenera za zotsatira zoyezetsa zolaula. Cholinga chake chinali pa kafukufuku wofalitsidwa m'mabuku a chinenero cha Chingerezi pakati pa 1995 ndi 2015. Zonse za 109 zolemba zomwe zili ndi maphunziro a 135 zinayankhidwa. Zomwe anapezazi zinapereka umboni wosatsutsika wakuti ma laboratory komanso maulendo onse, zomwe zimachitika tsiku ndi tsiku, zimakhudzana ndi zotsatira zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo kuchuluka kwa kusakhutira thupi, kudzikonda kwambiri, kuthandizidwa kwambiri ndi zikhulupiliro za kugonana komanso zikhulupiliro zokhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso Kulekerera kwambiri chiwawa chogonana kwa amayi. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kufotokozera mwachidziwitso ku zinthu izi kumapangitsa amayi ndi abambo kukhala ndi lingaliro lochepa la luso la amai, chikhalidwe, ndi umunthu.
- Nanga bwanji za chiwerewere ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula? Kufufuza kwina: Meta-Kuonongeka kwa Kuonera Zolaula Ntchito ndi Zoona Zochitika Zachiwerewere mu Zophunzira Zambiri za Anthu (2015). Chidule:
Maphunziro a 22 ochokera ku mayiko osiyanasiyana a 7 adasanthuledwa. Kugwiritsa ntchito kunagwirizanitsidwa ndi chiwawa cha kugonana ku United States ndi padziko lonse, pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, komanso m'maphunziro osiyana siyana. Mabungwe anali amphamvu kwambiri pa mawu kuposa kugonana kwachiwerewere, ngakhale onse awiri anali ofunika. Zotsatira zake zimasonyeza kuti zachiwawa zingakhale zovuta kwambiri.
- Bwanji za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi achinyamata? Onani mndandanda wazinthu Zotsatira za achinyamata a 200, kapena 2012 kafukufuku wa kafukufuku - Zotsatira za Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti pa Achinyamata: Kupenda kafukufuku (2012). Kuchokera pamapeto pake:
Kuwonjezeka kwa intaneti kwa achinyamata kumapanga mwayi wapadera wa maphunziro a kugonana, kuphunzira, ndi kukula. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, zoopsa zomwe zimachitika m'mabukuzi zachititsa akatswiri kufufuza achinyamata kuti aziona zolaula pa Intaneti kuti athetse ubale umenewu. Pamodzi, maphunzirowa akusonyeza kuti wachinyamata amene amadya zolaula angakhale ndi zikhulupiliro zosagwirizana ndi kugonana. Zina mwazofukufuku, machitidwe apamwamba a chilolezo chogonana, kugonana, ndi kuyesedwa koyambirira kwa kugonana zakhala zikugwirizana ndi zolaula zambiri zomwe zimachitika .... Komabe, kufufuza kosasintha kwakhala kukugwirizana ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zithunzi zolaula zomwe achinyamata akuwonetsa zachiwawa ndi ziŵerengero zambiri za khalidwe lachiwerewere. Mabukuwa amasonyeza kusagwirizana pakati pa achinyamata ndi zozizwitsa. Atsikana amanena kuti amadziona kuti ndi otsika kwambiri kwa amayi omwe amawawona pa zolaula, pamene anyamata amawopa kuti sangakhale ngati olimba kapena okhoza kuchita monga amuna omwe akuwonetsedwa. Achinyamata amakhalanso akunena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunachepetsedwa chifukwa cha kudzidalira kwawo komanso chitukuko chawo. Kuwonjezera apo, kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti achinyamata omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, makamaka zomwe zimapezeka pa intaneti, amakhala ndi mgwirizano wocheperapo, kuwonjezeka kwa makhalidwe, makhalidwe apamwamba a chiwerewere, zizindikiro zachisoni, komanso kuchepetsa kugwirizana ndi osowa.
- Kuti mumvetse bwino mfundo iliyonse yomwe mungayankhe komanso chidwi chofufuza chitumbuwa, onani mfundo yaikuluyi: Debunking "N'chifukwa Chiyani Timakayikirabe za Kuonera Zolaula?? ", Ndi Marty Klein, Taylor Kohut, ndi Nicole Prause (2018). Momwe mungazindikire nkhani zotsutsana: Iwo amatchula Prause et al., 2015 (amanamizira kuti imayambitsa zolaula), pamene asiya maphunziro oposa khumi ndi awiri a 3 akuthandizira kuwononga zolaula.
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