Kuti muthawe zolaula ndizofunikira kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amvetsetse chifukwa chomwe angapeze zolaula kuposa wokondedwa weniweni.
MAFUNSO:
- Kuti mudziwe zambiri onani Gawo la Porn & ED.
- Phunziro la 75 lomwe limagwirizanitsa zolaula limagwiritsira ntchito kugonana kosachepera komanso kugonana.
- Zofufuza za 40 zimagwirizanitsa zolaula / kugwiritsa ntchito kugonana kwa mavuto a kugonana komanso kuchepetsa kugonana kugonana. The zoyambirira za 7 mu mndandanda wawonetsera zovuta, pamene ophunzira adasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiza matenda opatsirana pogonana.
- Pa maphunziro a 55 Kufotokozera zomwe zapezeka zikugwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa zolaula (kulolerana), chizolowezi zolaula, komanso zisonyezo zakusiya.
- Kuwonjezera pa maphunziro apamwambawa, Tsamba ili lili ndi nkhani ndi mavidiyo ndi akatswiri a 150 (urology aphunzitsi, a urologists, a mafupa a maganizo, a psychologists, a sexologists, a MDs) omwe amavomereza ndipo achita bwino kupembedza zolaula-anachititsa ED ndi zolaula-zomwe zinachititsa kuti asayambe kugonana.
- Mapepala ofotokozedwa ndi anzawo ndi madokotala a ku US Navy - Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Kubwereza ndi Zipatala zapadera (2016) - Kuwongolera kwakukulu kwa zolemba zokhudzana ndi zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana. Kuwongolera kumapereka mauthenga atsopano omwe amasonyeza kukula kwakukulu kwa mavuto aunyamata achinyamata. Papepalali limaphunziranso za ubongo zokhudzana ndi zolaula ndi kugonana. Madokotala amapereka ndondomeko zachipatala za 3 za amuna omwe adayambitsa zolaula-zowononga zovuta zogonana.
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NKHANI: Sayansi ya zaumulungu imasonyeza mmene mafilimu a pa Intaneti angayimbire kugonana kwenikweni
Zimakhala zovuta kupeza zovuta pamene ndikuyesera [kugonana]. Zimatenga pafupifupi mphindi 20 kapena kuti zizimuke. Zochititsa manyazi kwenikweni. Koma ndikakhala ndikungoonera zolaula zanga, zimangokhala ngati zili pomwepo. — Wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula wazaka za m'ma 20
Kodi ndinu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula omwe, panthawi yopanga chikondi, simungathe kupanga / kukonza erection kapena kulowa mu bwenzi lenileni, kumva kutengeka, kapena pachimake (popanda zovuta)? Ngati dokotala wanena kuti mavuto anu akukumana ndi mavuto omwe akukumana nawo, atha kukupatsani pulogalamu yoyeserera ya Viagra ndikukutumizirani kukulangizani za "nkhani zogonana". Lingaliro lachipatala ndiloti nkhani yanu ndi yamaganizidwe (kuda nkhawa) m'malo mokhudzana ndi thupi. Kupatula apo, ngati mungathe kupeza zolaula, thanzi lanu la penile ndilabwino.
Umboni wokulirapo ukusonyeza kuti vutoli lili m'mutu mwanu, osati mbolo yanu, koma kuti kwenikweni ndi lakuthupi . Makamaka, kusangalala kwambiri kwabweretsa kusintha kwa pulasitiki muubongo wanu, zomwe zimakupangitsani kuti musayankhe kwambiri zosangalatsa—komanso kuti musayankhe kwambiri zolaula za pa intaneti. Kusintha kumeneku kokhudzana ndi chizolowezi kumatchedwa desensitization ndi sensitization, motsatana. Pamodzi, amafotokoza chifukwa chake zolaula zimagwira ntchito ndipo khanda lanu lokongola siligwira ntchito.
Musanachite mantha, dziwani kuti kusintha kwa ubongo kumeneku kumawoneka ngati kosinthika—kosavuta kwa anyamata omwe adalumikizana ndi kugonana kwenikweni intaneti isanafike . Anyamata omwe amasiya kuseweretsa maliseche nthawi zambiri amabwereranso ku chilakolako chawo panthawi yogonana mkati mwa miyezi 2-8 (nthawi zambiri akasiya kugonana komanso osachitapo kanthu kwakanthawi ):
(Zaka 30, miyezi 4) Kuchokera poyambiranso, ndikuchita zodabwitsa! Nthawi iliyonse ine ndi bwenzi langa tikamacheza, kusisitana ndi ena, ndimakhala wolimba kwambiri ndipo zimatha. Sindikudandaula za ntchito ya penile.
Ngati mavuto a magwiridwe antchito akukuvutitsani, yesani mayeso osavuta awa . Kodi mavuto anu akuwoneka kuti akugwirizana ndi zolaula? Pitirizani kuwerenga kuti mudziwe zambiri za kusintha komwe kukuchitika muubongo wanu. Kupanda kutero, mungaganize molakwika kuti ngati mungathe kufika pachimake pa zolaula, mulibe vuto, ndipo vuto lili mu kumwa kwanu mowa kapena khalidwe kapena mawonekedwe a mnzanu, kapena mu malingaliro anu okha. Mutha kuwononga ndalama zambiri pa upangiri, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala okwera mtengo, komanso osagwira ntchito kwambiri, owonjezera kugonana - koma mukutsalabe ndi vuto lanu:
Sindinakhalepo ndi vuto lovuta kuonera zolaula, koma pakakhala chinthu chenicheni, ndinayamba kutenga Cialis. Patapita nthawi, ndinatenga zambiri, ndipo ngakhale nthawi zina nthawi zina zimangogwira ntchito. WANTHAWI? Komabe ndimathabe kuonera zolaula.
Nchifukwa chiyani Bambo Happy akunyalanyaza zotentha?
Ndi zolaula za pa intaneti n'zosavuta kukulitsa ubongo wanu kuti mupeze zolaula zosangalatsa kwambiri. Kusaka kulikonse, chithunzi chilichonse chatsopano, zithunzi zodabwitsa, mtundu uliwonse watsopano, ndi chilakolako chogonana zokha zonse zimatulutsa dopamine m'magawo anu opezera mphotho . Dopamine ndi mpweya womwe umalimbitsa magawo opezera mphotho ndipo umafanana ndi chilakolako, kuyembekezera, zilakolako, ndi kufuna china chake makamaka.
Mwatsoka, kusonkhezera kwambiri kumapangitsa ubongo wina kudziteteza mwa kuchepetsa mphamvu yawo yomvera dopamine, motero ku chisangalalo, kwa kanthawi. Mwachionekere, ngati ubongo wanu umachita izi ndipo mukugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi komanso mopitirira muyeso, ubongo wanu sungakhale ndi mwayi wobwerera ku mphamvu yabwinobwino. Mungadzipeze mukudina zinthu zoopsa kwambiri kuti mudzutse malo anu osangalalira opanda kanthu.
Pakapita nthawi, ubongo wanu umazolowera izi ndi kuchepa koyezeka kwa dopamine. Mukufuna zambiri , koma mumapeza kukhutitsidwa kochepa. Iyi ndi njira yoledzera yotchedwa desensitization. (Onani Makhalidwe Oledzera: 300 Vaginas = Dopamine Yambiri .) Kafukufuku waposachedwa akutsimikizira kuti zimachitika m'makhalidwe oledzera monga kutchova juga , chakudya , masewera apakanema , ndi chizolowezi cha pa intaneti (chomwe chimaphatikizapo chizolowezi cha cyber erotica ). Mukapanda kumverera, mumakumana ndi yankho losamveka ku "mphotho zachilengedwe" zonse zomwe zimatchedwa "mphotho zachilengedwe" - kuphatikizapo kugonana ndi anthu okonda kugonana.
Dongosolo lanu la mphotho ndilo barometer ya “Kodi izi n’zosangalatsa bwanji?” kotero ngati dopamine signaling (chilakolako) ili yochepa, erection imachepa. Kugonana kumachitika kokha pamene dopamine signaling ikuyenda kuchokera ku dongosolo la mphotho kupita ku hypothalamus.
Nchifukwa chiyani Bambo Happy amakonda zithunzi zolaula?
Ngati nkhani yonse inali yokhudza kuletsa chilakolako cha kugonana, kukanatha kugonana kukanakhala kofooka kaya chilimbikitsocho chinali cha mtsikana, malingaliro anu, kapena zolaula. Koma mwachionekere si nkhani yonse, chifukwa zolaula zimagwirabe ntchito. Ndipotu, pamene mukuyesera kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, zotsatira za zolaula zimawonjezeka kwakanthawi . Apa ndi pomwe njira zodziwikiratu za mitsempha zimayambira.
Dziwani: Mawu oti chizolowezi choledzera ndi osokoneza. Kuchepetsa chilakolako chofuna kuchita zinthu zinazake kumatanthauza kuchepetsa kuyankha kwanu ku chisangalalo chonse… kusintha koyambira. Kuzindikira kumatanthauza kuchita zinthu mwachidwi/chisangalalo—koma kokha poyankha zizindikiro zomwe ubongo wanu umagwirizanitsa ndi chizolowezi chanu.
Ngati kusinthaku kwa mitsempha iwiri kunganenedwe, desensitization ingakhale kudandaula, "Sindingathe kupeza chikhutiro chilichonse" (kuchepa kwa dopamine), pomwe sensitization ingakhale ikukugwirani m'mbali ndikunena kuti, "Hei bwanawe, ndapeza zomwe mukufuna"... zomwe zimachitika kuti ndi zomwe zidayambitsa desensitization. Pakapita nthawi, njira iyi yokhala ndi mbali ziwiri imapangitsa kuti mayendedwe anu a mphotho azimveka ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, koma osachita chidwi kwambiri akamawonetsedwa ndi zenizeni.
Ndabwereranso ku zolaula kamodzi, ndipo ngakhale sindinathe kuyimilira bwino, sindinakhulupirire kukula kwa kuthamanga komwe ndidakumana nako ndikadina patsamba! Kutengeka kwamphamvu kwambiri - kumva kulasalasa, mkamwa mouma, komanso ngakhale kunjenjemera. Sindinamvepo kuthamangira koteroko kuyambira pomwe ndinali kutha msinkhu ndipo ndinayang'ana mosayembekezera siketi ya atsikana!
Ubongo wanu wapamwamba umapanga ndemanga yowonongeka
Ndiye kodi kukhudzidwa kwa ubongo kumayamba bwanji? Mwachidule, kukhudzidwa kwa ubongo kumaphatikizapo njira ziwiri za ubongo zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mopitirira muyeso: kukhazikika kwa nthawi yayitali (LTP), komwe ndi kulimbitsa ma synapses , ndi kupsinjika kwa nthawi yayitali (LTD), komwe ndi kufooka kwa ma synapses.
Mphamvu ya nthawi yayitali (LTP) ndiyo maziko a kuphunzira ndi kukumbukira . Ikhoza kufotokozedwa mwachidule ngati " maselo amitsempha omwe amalumikizana pamodzi, amalumikizana. " Kukumbukira kumachitika m'magawo awiri. Choyamba, mayendedwe anu a mphotho amasonyeza kuti chochitika ndi chofunikira potumiza dopamine ku prefrontal cortex yanu (PFC). Pamene dopamine ikukula, ubongo wanu umaika kufunika kwa chochitikacho pachomwe chikuchitika.
Chachiwiri, PFC ikuyankha "Izi ndizofunikira!" chizindikiritso cha (1) kulumikizana pamodzi chilichonse chokhudzana ndi mphothoyo, ndi (2) kupanga mphindikati ya mayankho obwereza kubwerera kumayendedwe amphatso. Pambuyo pake, malingaliro aliwonse, kukumbukira, kapena lingaliro lomwe limalumikizidwa ndi mphotho inayake limathandizira njira, ndikukhazikitsa oyendetsa mphotho yanu a buzzin '. Zingakhale fungo logwirizana ndi cholowa chanu cha burger chomwe mumakonda. Kwa tomcat itha kukhala bowo mpanda womwe unatsogolera wamkazi kutentha. Kwa mbalame kungakhale kuwona mnyamata yemwe amadzaza chakudya cha mbalame. Cholinga cha chisinthiko ndikuthandizani kukumbukira kuti ndani, chiani, kuti, liti komanso motani za kugonana, chakudya ndi rock 'n' roll.
Chofunika kwambiri, njira yolumikizirana maganizo siigwira ntchito pa dopamine. Imagwira ntchito pa glutamate . Mankhwala onse a muubongo ali ndi mphamvu yoyambitsa zizindikiro zakuti “Pitani mukatenge!” mu njira yanu yolumikizirana maganizo. Kulimbikitsa kwa Glutamate ndi chifukwa chake zolaula zimathabe kumveka ngakhale njira yanu yolumikizirana maganizo yasiya kuyankha ku dopamine ndi ogwirizana nawo enieni. Njira yolumikizirana maganizo ( dopamine ) → PFC (mabungwe opangidwa) → njira yolumikizirana maganizo ( glutamate ) kuti mulandire mphoto.
Kuyanjanitsa: chilengedwe cha kukumbukira kwambiri
Pakadali pano, njirayi ndi bizinesi monga kale. Chisoni, komabe, chimasintha PFC iyi → njira yolankhulirana yotsogola kupita kumalo obwereza kukumbukira kukhala kosavuta kukumbukira m'njira zitatu:
- Ndi malingaliro, malingaliro owonekera (monga zowona ndi zochitika) amasintha kukhala zizolowezi, zomwe zimadziwika kuti mwatsatanetsatane kukumbukira. Chitsanzo: kudziwa momwe mungakwerere njinga popanda kuganiza. Zomwe zimakumbukira zosavuta ali ngati mawonekedwe a Pavlovian pa steroids-ovuta kwambiri kunyalanyaza. Munthu yemwe amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa posachedwa pomwa mowa, phokoso lonse la kuseka komanso fungo la mowa wambiri limatha kukokeretsa madera oterewa mopupuluma, kuyambitsa zilakolako zamphamvu ... ndipo mwina kuthetsa malingaliro onse.
- LTP imalimbitsa mayankho poti squirt pang'ono ya glutamate ndiyomwe mukufunikira kuti muwotche maselo amitsempha omwe akuti, "Tazindikira izi tsopano! ” Njira zotsogola ndi a osati njira ya dopamine poyambitsa ma neuron oyendetsa mphotho-amabwera ku gehena kapena madzi apamwamba. Mbali yosocheretsa iyi ikuwoneka ngati pachimake pazowonjezera zonse. Kupanikizika kwamagalimoto pamsewu waukulu wa dopamine kukulepheretsani kusangalala ndi kugonana kwenikweni? Palibe vuto. Muli ndi njira ina yobwerera kunyumba, koma ndikungolola mtundu umodzi wamagalimoto (kukondoweza): PORN.
- Kupitiliza kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa chizoloŵezi chanu cha mankhwala osokoneza bongo a Chachitatu Njira yothandizira: kukhumudwa kwakanthawi (LTD). Makina oyendetsera makina oyandikira (GABA) imafooketsa, ndikupititsa patsogolo "Pitanibe!" Zizindikiro za glutamate. M'malo mochita ubongo wabwinobwino, womwe umafanana kwambiri ndi kuyendetsa mzinda komwe mumayang'ana komwe kukubwera magalimoto pamphambano iliyonse, njira yanu yolimbikitsira zolaula ndiyo Autobahn. Palibe magetsi a magalimoto ndipo zithunzi zolaula ndi BMW M-5 yokhayokha pamsewu.
Nkhani yokhudza autopilo t ndi yodziwika bwino kwa ine. Zili ngati kugwidwa ndi chiwanda chokonda zolaula, kenako ukamaliza, umunthu wako weniweni umabwerera ndikudabwa kuti chachitika ndi chiyani komanso chifukwa chake unangowononga nthawi yonseyi ukuonera makanema onyansa.
Mbuye yemweyo amasinthana kugonana / chakudya monga mankhwala osokoneza bongo
Kusintha kwakukulu komwe kumayambitsa kusintha kumeneku kokhudzana ndi chizolowezi ndi puloteni ya DeltaFosB . Kuchuluka kwa kudya mphotho zachilengedwe ( kugonana , shuga , mafuta ambiri ) kapena kupereka mankhwala osokoneza bongo nthawi zonse kumapangitsa DeltaFosB (chomwe chimapangitsa kuti munthu azitha kulembera) kudziunjikira m'malo operekera mphotho, zomwe zimakhudza mawonekedwe a majini.
Dziwani kuti mankhwala osokoneza bongo amangoyambitsa chizolowezi chifukwa amakulitsa kapena kuletsa njira zomwe zilipo kale kuti zipeze mphotho zachilengedwe . Ichi ndichifukwa chake bungwe la American Society of Addiction Medicine limanena mosapita m'mbali kuti chizolowezi cha chakudya ndi kugonana ndi chizolowezi chenicheni.
Cholinga cha DeltaFosB chosintha zinthu ndi kutilimbikitsa kuti "tizigwiritse ntchito pamene tikupeza bwino!" Ndi njira yodyera komanso kubereka , yomwe idagwira ntchito bwino nthawi zina. Masiku ano zimapangitsa kuti zizolowezi zodya zakudya zopanda pake komanso zolaula pa intaneti zikhale zosavuta monga 1-2-3.
Sikuti amangoyamba kuledzera, koma amathandizanso kuti azikhala ndi nthawi yaitali. Ndipotu, imakhala pamtunda kwa mwezi umodzi kapena awiri mutasiya kugwiritsa ntchito, kupanganso kubwereza. Komanso, njira zowonongeka zimayambitsa nthawi kwa nthawi yosawerengeka. Mwachidule, zolemba zolaula zingakusokonezeni kwa nthawi yaitali.
Kusokonezeka kwa ubongo chifukwa cha chizolowezi kungafotokozedwe mwachidule motere: kupitiriza kumwa → DeltaFosB → kuyambitsa majini → kusintha kwa ma synapses → kuzindikira ndi kuchepetsa mphamvu ya ubongo . (Onani Ubongo Woledzera kuti mudziwe zambiri.) Zikuwoneka kuti kuchepetsa mphamvu ya ubongo pamapeto pake kumabweretsa kutayika kwa ulamuliro wa akuluakulu (chinyengo), chinthu china chachikulu cha chizolowezi.
Njira zotsogola ndi kusiya ... ugh
Tiyerekeze kuti mwasankha kupereka nsembe yaikulu ndikusiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Mwina mudzamva ngati mwavunda kwa kanthawi. Kumbukirani, poyamba ubongo wanu unkawona kugwiritsa ntchito kwanu zolaula ngati njira yabwino kwambiri yopezera chibadwa. Unkaganiza kuti mukupanga ana nthawi iliyonse yogonana. Unkaika zikumbukiro zabwino kwambiri kuti musasiye kukongola kwanu (kapena chilichonse chomwe munkafika pachimake).
Tsopano, pamene mukutsutsa ubongo wanu mwa kupewa, dopamine yanu yotsika kale imachepa kwambiri. Komanso, mahomoni oletsa chilakolako cha kugonana a CRF ndi norepinephrine amawonjezeka. Kutaya mtima kwanu kumakhala kochulukirachulukira, kotero mnzanu weniweni sangakhale ndi mwayi. Nzosadabwitsa kuti anyamata ambiri amakumana ndi zizindikiro zazikulu zosiya kugonana . Akumva kusangalala kochepa kuposa kale lonse chifukwa cha zinthu zabwinobwino, akumva kuda nkhawa kwambiri , ndikuyesera kusiya chinthu chimodzi chomwe chingawonongebe mphotho zawo. Pali zifukwa zomveka zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zizolowezi zikhale zovuta kwambiri kuzigonjetsa.
Choyipa kwambiri, panthawi yodziletsa, njira zodzionetsera zimakula kwambiri . Zili ngati malo anu osangalalira akufuula kuti akulimbikitseni ... koma chizolowezi chokhacho ndi chomwe chingamve kuyitanako. Nthambi (dendrites) pa maselo amitsempha zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro za mphotho zimakhala "zolimba kwambiri." Kukula kwakukulu kwa tinthu tating'onoting'ono kumeneku kumalola kulumikizana kwambiri kwa synaptic ndi chisangalalo chachikulu. Zili ngati kukulitsa makutu anayi owonjezera pamene mukukhala pa konsati ya "Spinal Tap". Zizindikiro kapena malingaliro (glutamate) akamagunda dera lanu la mphotho, sikelo ya chilakolako imafika khumi ndi chimodzi.
Ndikupeza kuti zithunzi zongopeka pazotsatsa ndi zinthu zikuyamba kulakalaka. Ngakhale atakhala ovala bwino, ndikufunitsitsa kuti ndigonjere.
Pa nthawi yochira, n'zosavuta kusokoneza njira yodziwikiratu kuti ndi chilakolako chenicheni cha kugonana. Izi ndi zoona makamaka ngati mukukumana ndi kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana nthawi ina mukuchira. Pa nthawi imeneyi ya "flatline", zithunzi zolaula zingakupangitseni kukhala ndi chilakolako cha kugonana, komanso kuyambitsa chilakolako chogonana chodabwitsa. Izi zingakupusitseni kuganiza kuti zolaula ndiye mankhwala a chilakolako chanu chofooka. Mankhwala enieni ndikuyembekezera moleza mtima kuti ubongo wanu ugwirizane ndi njira yanu yatsopano. Pakadali pano, zinthu zina zonse, kuphatikizapo mnzanu, sizikusangalatsani kwambiri.
Miyezi iwiri nditachira ndidawona bulu wosavuta wopanda bulu pa kanema wachikulire. Wokhulupirika kwa mulungu, ndimamva ngati ndalandira jakisoni wamtundu winawake. Ndinali ndi chilimbikitso chachikulu mu mbolo yanga ndi malingaliro anga, kuti ndibwezere. Ndinathamangira m'chipinda cham'mwamba ndikusamba mano. Ndikadakhala pansi, ndikadabweranso 100%. Ndimamva ngati gawo langa likupita, "KODI MUNTHU WABWINO NDANI? BWERANI PANSI PANO !!!!!!!!! ”. Ndinali kunjenjemera ndikupuma. Pambuyo pa 8 min yotsuka mano osayima, ndidabwerera mwakale.
Kubwezeretsa kumatembenuza njira zowonongeka mumagulu a mapepala
Ngakhale kuti ali ndi mphamvu zazikulu, njira zowonongeka zimatha kutaya mtima ngati ubongo wanu umabwerera kuzinthu zachizolowezi komanso zosangalatsa za tsiku ndi tsiku zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri. Kuyang'ana pa ma pixelisi amayamba kulembetsa ngati zosachita zopanda pake, ndipo pamapeto pake ubongo umapereka njira zowonongeka kuti zifooketse panthawi yomweyo zimalimbitsa njira zokhudzana ndi madalitso ena omwe angakhale nawo (monga enieni).
Pano, anyamata akulongosola zomwe kusinthaku kumamva. Kumbukirani kuti ambiri a iwo akhala akudutsa nthawi yovuta komanso mwezi (kapena miyezi ingapo) yopewa zolaula / maliseche.
- M'mbuyomu ndimalakalaka kwambiri zogonana kuti ndiziwona zolaula zowoneka bwino kwambiri. Koma tsopano zilakolako zamtunduwu zikuchepa. Sindikumenyananso kuti ndikachezere tsamba lolaula - koma ndikufuna kuti ndiwone mkazi wodabwitsa, wamatani, wotentha… ngakhale atavala zovala. Zili ngati ndikubwerera kudziko ndisanakhale wolimba - pomwe zachiwerewere zimatha kundisangalatsa. Izi ndizabwino komanso zosangalatsa! Ndimakumbukira ndikamamwa zakumwa zotsekemera zaka zapitazo - ndimamwa zakumwa zisanu kapena zingapo patsiku. Sindinkaganiza kuti ndasochera koma nditawasiya ndimafuna kokosi pachakudya chilichonse. Kungokhala ndi madzi kumamveka kwachilendo. Koma nditamamatira nayo kwa miyezi iwiri ndatha. Ngakhale zolakalaka zilizonse. Poyamba ndinali ndi coke kuyambira pamenepo, ndipo sindinakonde - ndinapeza kuti ndimakonda madzi.
- Pazovuta zanga zolaula, sindinayembekezere zambiri: ndinkachita mantha kupita kuntchito, ndipo sindinawonepo kucheza ndi abwenzi komanso abale monga zabwino kwambiri, makamaka poyerekeza ndi zikhalidwe zanga zolaula, zomwe zidandipatsa chisangalalo komanso chilimbikitso kuposa china chilichonse. Ndikumangokhalira kumwa mowa, zinthu zazing'ono zimandipangitsa kukhala wosangalala. Ndimadzipeza ndikuseka pafupipafupi, ndikumwetulira popanda chifukwa chenicheni, ndikungokhala m'malo abwino. Ndimaganiza kuti sindimataya chiyembekezo, koma kwenikweni ndimangokhala osokoneza bongo. Masiku ano, kukonzekera kwadzidzidzi kunatha mphindi 25. Sindinamvepo chilakolako chodziseweretsa maliseche. Ndinkangogona pamenepo ndikusangalala ndikumverera, ndikuganiza za momwe ndingafikire.
- Ndapeza pamene ndikupita patsogolo, maloto anga amakhala okonda zogonana komanso opitilira muyeso, m'malo mongodziwona ndikumenya monkey patsogolo pa kompyuta yanga. Komanso, ndimamva ngati ndikuseweretsa maliseche ndikawona msungwana wokongola ndikakhala kunja-m'malo momangokhala ngati ndikuyang'ana zolaula. M'mbuyomu, sindinamvepo ngati "kungoseweretsa maliseche." Nthawi zonse ndimafuna zolaula.
- Ndikupezabe zolaula: nyenyezi zolaula kapena zochitika zina. Kumayambiriro koyambiranso, milungu ingapo yoyambirira, zovuta izi zimandipangitsa kuti ndiganizire kwambiri maliseche kapena kuyang'ana zolaula. Tsopano, ndikazipeza, sindimafuna kwenikweni kuchita zinthu zimenezo. Ndimathamangira kuwona zithunzizi m'mutu mwanga, koma ndizomwezo. Ndimatha kuwagwedeza mwachangu popanda chotulukapo. Mphamvu zawo zikuchepa.
- Zithunzi ndi kukumbukira zimafalikira: Ndawona zolemba zambiri kuchokera kwa anthu akunena kuti sangathe kuiwala zina mwazowona. Ine ndikhoza kunena izo kuchokera ku zondichitikira, inde, zina mwa izo sizidzatha konse. Koma ambiri adzakhala. Ndinkakhala ndi stash ya 300GB ndipo nthawi zonse ndinkakhala ndi masewero omwe ndimatsitsa osatsegula pafupi ndi batani ndikuwona uthenga wakuti "Muli ndi matamu a 130 otseguka. Kodi mukutsimikiza kuti mukufuna kutseka zenera? ". Sindikukumbukira 95% ya zomwe ndaziwona. Koma, ndikukumbukira 5% ndipo izi zingakhale zambiri kwa inu. Apa pali chinthucho, izo ziribe kanthu tsopano. Ndikhoza kukumbukira zinthu zina, ndikuzichotsa. Zithunzi zimenezo sizikundigwirabe monga momwe ndatsiriza manyazi, kuponderezana ndi kugonana, kusokoneza maganizo komwe kunandichititsa kuti ndibwererenso.
- M'mbuyomu ndidazindikira kukongola, inde, koma sindinafune KUKHALA ndi mtsikana. Ndinkayendetsa zolaula zanga zonse. Chilichonse chogonana kwa ine CHINALI zolaula. Sindingaganize za ine, munthu uyu yemwe ali ndi d * ck, wogonana kwenikweni ndi mtsikana weniweni. Tsopano, ndimamva ngati kugonana ndichinthu chachilengedwe kwambiri kuchita. “Hell eya ndizotheka kuti ndigonane. Gahena, inde, kuli atsikana ambiri kunja uko akufuna kukhala ndi ine! ” Mwadzidzidzi, malingaliro odziwononga okha amawoneka opusa komanso otaya nthawi. Pamapeto pake ndimamva momwe amuna ambiri amamvera. Ndipo ndizodabwitsa.
- Pambuyo pake ndidaganiza zodziseweretsa zolaula. Chinthu chimodzi chinali chachilendo: Sindinkawoneka kuti ndikusangalala ndi zolaula zomwe ndimakumbukira. Ngakhale kupeza zochitika zomwe mumazikonda sizikuwoneka bwino. Zolaula zinali zosasangalatsa mwanjira ina. Ngakhale sizinali "zabwino" momwe ndimakumbukirira, ndidakopeka nazo. Popeza kuti zolaula sizinali zazikulu monga momwe ndinakumbukira, kubwerera sikungakhale kosavuta.
- Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinayambiranso kuseweretsa maliseche, ndinamva kuti ubongo wanga ukufuna zolaula. Izi zidzakhala zovuta kufotokoza ... panali malo muubongo wanga komwe zolaula zimapita (zokumbukira, zolakalaka, ndi zina zambiri). Nditakana zolaula, ndimangomva kugwa kapena kumverera kopanda tanthauzo m'mbali yamubongo wanga. Monga sizinakhaleko ndipo ubongo wanga udazindikira. Zinali ngati mukawomba m'manja. Ubongo wanga unkayembekezera china chake pakati pa manja, koma kenako udazindikira kuti palibenso china pakati kupatula mpweya.
- Kotero ndili pano, masiku 75 ndikuyambiranso ndikumva bwino. Zikuwoneka ngati zachilengedwe, tsopano, kuti musafune zolaula kapena maliseche. Ndili pa sitolo yogulitsa mankhwala ndidagula magazini yonena zothamanga, momwe zidalili mzaka za m'ma 60 ndi 70. Panali nkhani yonena za wothamangitsa ndipo inali ndi zithunzi zazikulu za bwenzi lake lotanganidwa. Ndikukumbukira ndikuwona zithunzi zomwezo pomwe adatulutsidwa koyamba, koyambirira kwama 70s. Kalelo anali akung'ung'uza zakuthupi, usikuuno sindimamva chisangalalo chilichonse. Ndikuganiza kuti pamapeto pake ndaphunzira kuyang'ana mkazi osamusokoneza ndikulola malingaliro anga kupita kumtunda. Iye anali mkazi wokongola, mosakayikira za izo, koma iye ali chabe membala wina wa banja laumunthu.
- Zimakhala kuti ndimamverera pang'ono zoyipa ndikaganiza zakuwona zolaula zimabwera m'maganizo mwanga. Zinali ngati ndikubera china chake. . . Ndikutsimikiza kuti anali chisangalalo chomwe chidayamba ndi twinge ija. Imeneyi inali kanthawi kochepa ka zikhumbo zanga. Mulimonsemo, twinge ija ikuwoneka kuti yatha. Kungodziwa kunena zomwe zimandipangitsa kumva bwino. Sindinatuluke kuthengo, koma ndili bwino kuposa momwe ndakhalira m'moyo wanga, ndichimwemwe.
- Nthawi zochepa zomwe ndakhala ndikuziwonera kuzipangizo zomwe zinali pafupi-zolaula, pa miyezi yotsiriza ya 18, ndinkakonda kuchita (poyamba). Ndikuganiza kuti mwina ndi chinthu chotetezera, mofanana ndi munthu amene amamwa moledzeretsa yemwe amangomwalira ndikumwa mowa komanso amamuyitana munthu kuti amwe ngakhale atakhala kuti alibe vuto. Zomwe ndikuchita ku zinthu zoterezi zikukhala zachilendo pa nthawiyi. Ndinali kufunafuna chinachake kuchokera ku zolaula ndipo sindikuchitanso. IME, pamene tikhumba kugonana ndizolumikizana komwe timafuna. Ndikuganiza kuti izi zikulongosola, BTW, chifukwa nyama zimapita kukasaka kofunafuna wokwatirana naye m'malo modzilimbikitsira. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ngakhale m'malo a nyama pamakhala zinthu zina zofunikira kukhwima, ngakhale zili zovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe zimakhalira kwa anthu.
- Chinsinsi chimodzi chondimvetsetsa za vutoli ndi pomwe ndinazindikira kuti sindikufuna kugonana kopanda tanthauzo. [Munthu yemweyo patapita chaka chimodzi] Ndimadabwitsika kwambiri momwe izi zachitikira. Sindinatumize kumafamu posachedwa ndipo ndimamva ngati ndapitiliza ndi moyo wanga tsopano. Sindikunena kuti ndili ndi chitetezo chamthupi, sichingakhale chinthu chopusa kumaliza, koma ndafika poti sindimva yesero lodziseweretsa maliseche komanso kukopeka ndi zolaula kulinso. Icho chikhoza kukhala chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri, zolaula zikuwoneka kuti zatha mphamvu pa ine. Moyo wanga wonse, mpaka zaka ziwiri zapitazo, zolaula zitha kundikhudza kwambiri. Kungoganiza zakuwona zolaula kungandipangitse kusintha. Ilibenso mphamvu imeneyo. Ndikusintha kwazambiri zomwe ndimapeza zodabwitsa.
- Zili ngati ine ndimasiyana nazo. Sizisangalatsa ine, sindikuziwona ngati zofunika, chiyembekezo chakuwona zolaula chikuwoneka chosafunikira kwenikweni. Zili chonchi; kwa moyo wanga wonse ndimayang'ana zolaula ndipo sizinali zokwanira. Tsopano sindimayang'ana zolaula konse ndipo ndizokwanira. Chilichonse chomwe ndimafuna pa zolaula sindikufunanso.
Mwachidule, zizindikiro zingakupangitseni kukhala ndi chiyembekezo champhamvu . Komabe pamene mukuyamba kulabadira zosangalatsa zenizeni, kudziseweretsa maliseche ku ma pixels kumawoneka ngati kopanda phindu komanso kosakhutiritsa. Inde, ngati mubwerera ku kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zokha, mumayambitsanso njira yodziwitsira. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kubwezeretsa mphamvu zogonana sikukutetezani ku zinthu zopitirira muyeso mtsogolo.
Kodi mwakhala mukuphunzitsidwa liti?
Mwatsoka, anyamata achichepere omwe amafika patsamba lathu ali ndi vuto la kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri yolumikiza ubongo wawo (onani - Ogwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zachipongwe Achinyamata Amafunika Nthawi Yaitali Kuti Abwezere Moyo Wawo ). Nayi nkhani yanthawi zonse:
Pamene ndinataya namwali sindinkaona kuti ndibwino. Ndinkatopa kwambiri. Ndataya makonzedwe atangotha mwina khumi. Iye ankafuna kugonana kwina, koma ine ndatha. Nthawi yotsatira yomwe ndinayesera kugonana ndi mkazi kunali tsoka. Ine ndinali ndi kumangoyamba poyamba, koma ine ndinatayika iyo ndisanayambe ndalowapo. Kugwiritsira ntchito kondomu kunali kunja kwa funso-osati kovuta kokwanira.
Kawirikawiri anyamata ngati iye anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ali ndi zaka 11 kapena kuposerapo, ndipo sanayese kugonana ndi mnzawo kwa zaka khumi. Agwiritsa ntchito mafuta ambiri a octane mu mawonekedwe a zolaula zatsopano pa intaneti, ndipo n'zotheka kuti ubongo wawo unachepetsa zina mwa njira zawo zosagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino "zogonana" pamene anakula.
Kwa kanthawi atasinthana ndi anzawo enieni (mafuta wamba), amangokhalira kucheza ndipo nthawi zina amasiya kucheza. Ena amafunika kuyesetsa kuti azikhala ndi anzawo enieni, komanso kukhala oleza mtima pamene ubongo wawo ukubwerera m'mbuyo. Nthawi zina amafunika miyezi inayi kapena kuposerapo kuti ayankhe bwino kwa anzawo omwe angakhale nawo. Mnzawo womukumbatira amathandiza.
Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, anyamata omwe adalumikizana ndi anzawo enieni asanafike pa intaneti yothamanga kwambiri amakhalabe ndi "njira zenizeni zogwirira ntchito". Ambiri sanazindikire mavuto a magwiridwe antchito mpaka atadzaza ubongo wawo ndi zolimbikitsa zopangidwa kudzera pa intaneti. Akasiya kuonera zolaula, njira zawo zopezera mphotho zimabwereranso. Okwatirana omwe angakhale nawo amayamba kuwoneka okongola. Ambiri amafunika miyezi iwiri, koma wazaka 50 posachedwapa adanena kuti, atatha zaka zitatu akulephera kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula, adafunikira masiku 8 okha opanda zolaula kuti abwererenso m'malo mwake.
Ngati zolaula ndiye njira yokhayo yomwe mungafikire pachimake, zikutanthauza kuti mwalumikiza ubongo wanu ku cholinga cholakwika. Sikuti kuseka kwenikweni sikukusangalatsani. Ndikoyenera. Koma ngakhale kuti njira zanu zopezera mphotho sizikusangalatsani ndi zosangalatsa wamba, yankho lanu la m'mimba (kwenikweni, la muubongo) kwa anzanu enieni ndi… meh . Chifukwa chokhacho chomwe zizindikiro za zolaula zimagwirabe ntchito ndichakuti mwapanga nyundo yamphamvu yokwanira kuti muwonjezere mphamvu zanu zopezera mphotho—osachepera pamene mukuonera zolaula.
Kugonana kwenikweni ndiko kukopa, kugwira, kukhudzidwa, kununkhira, pheromones, kulumikizana ndi kuyanjana ndi munthu. Kuonera zolaula pa Intaneti ndi 2D voyeurism, podutsa kamphindi, kufufuza, masabata ambiri, kudzipatula, chikhalidwe chokhazikika, chikhalidwe, ndi kuyankhulana ndi dzanja lanu.
Kuti mugwiritse ntchito kufananitsa masewera, ndi zochitika ziti zomwe ubongo wanu wakhala mukuphunzitsira? Ngati mukufuna kuwombera ziboda ngati pro, simuchepetsa nthawi yanu mukusewerera gofu. Kodi zaka zolaula za pa intaneti zakhala zikugwirizana pakati pa zomwe ubongo wanu umayembekezera ndi zomwe zimachitika mukamakwatirana? Nthawi yoti rewire.
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- Kodi Porn Zimathandiza ED? ndi Tyger Latham, Psy.D. mu Therapy Matters
- Dokotala wa Middleburry College akuwona kukwera kwa ED - akuimba zolaula
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PHUNZIRO: Udindo wa Dopamine mu Kuzindikira Kutengera Mtengo (2016) Kafukufukuyu akuwonetsa kuti zizindikiro zomwe kale zinkagwirizanitsidwa ndi "mphoto" zimapitilizabe kugwira chidwi cha ubongo kuposa zinthu zomwe sizikudziwika - ngakhale "popanda mphotho." Ofufuzawo adawonjezera kuti, "Zomwe zapezekazi zikuwonetsanso maziko a mitsempha ya munthu aliyense omwe amatha kugwidwa ndi chidwi chochokera ku phindu, chomwe chimadziwika kuti chimagwira ntchito mu chizolowezi."
CHATSOPANO: Ubongo wa Achinyamata Ukumana ndi Zolaula Zapaintaneti Zothamanga Kwambiri (kuonetsa kwa theka la ola pa nkhani yokhudza kugonana ndi ubongo wa achinyamata)
Ndemanga pamsonkhano wina
Ife timamva izi mochuluka
Kuwonetsetsa kumawoneka kuti ukudzipatula wokha kuyambira kumakonda komwe mwangotenga kumene, monga membala wa gululi adalemba kuti:
Ndemanga yochokera ku Psychology Today
Wosadziwika ananenapo za: "Kumwamba Sikugwa"
ndemanga yochokera ku Reddit yomwe ikufotokozera kulongosola
Ulusi - Zovuta Zowonongeka.
Kuchokera ku reddit.com
Pmo / ed yanga inali yoipa kwambiri ndipo ndimaganiza kuti ndimadera zaka zambiri
Ndikamadya pang'ono, sindikufuna kugonana
Zinthu zachilendo zikuchitika
kuchokera reddit nofap -
Aliyense akupeza P ya PMO
Ndine 30 motero ndili mgulu lakale
Tsiku 28 - Tsiku labwino
mphuno yanyamulidwa.
Ndinayesera kukula popanda zolaula ... zokhumudwitsa modabwitsa. zoyambitsa,
Chikhalidwe chachinsinsi cha kugonana kwenikweni ndi chimene chimandibwezeretsa nthawi zonse
Kugonana kwenikweni sikunakwaniritse zomwe ndakumana nazo monga munthu wolaula
Sindingasangalale ndi kugonana ndi mkazi wanga chifukwa malingaliro anga amasefukira
Kuyambanso Ndi Kutaya
kufotokozedwa bwino kolimbikitsa
Zoipa kwambiri za inu
Chizoloŵezi chachizolowezi sichoncho chokwanira?
Ndikuganiza kuti ndi gawo la chithunzi chachikulu cha m'badwo wathu.
Ndine wamwamuna wazaka 24 yemwe
Chomwechonso kuno
Ndikumvetsetsa vuto lanu, ndipo likuwoneka ngati lofanana ndi langa… Ndikukufunirani zabwino zonse!
Ndikufuna kukukumbutsani za moyo wanga kuti ndiyambe kukonzanso
GUY 2)
Simungamalize kugonana ndi ine, ayenera kufa
Simungamalize kugonana ndi ine, ayenera kufa
Fapism
Za ED.
Mkazi wodalirika akusowa zothandiza popusitsa mwamuna wake wapamtima wa phobic
Ndili ndi chibwenzi cha zaka ziwiri chomwe chimasuta komanso chanzeru
dinani kutali ndi zozizwitsa zanu zowopsya kwambiri.
chifukwa ndalowetsa ubongo wanga kuti ndizikonda zolaula kuposa kugonana kwenikweni
Kodi gehena onse adakongola bwanji?
wina aliyense apeze kuti ali ndi kugonana kwapamwamba kwambiri
Osakondwera ndi kugonana naye
Mlungu umodzi, ndikukhulupirira zambiri kuposa zonse zomwe ndiri nazo.
Ubongo wanga umakonda PMO kugonana kwenikweni. | Ndimakonda zolaula.
ndibwino kuti fap ndiye kugonana, wopenga koma zoona
Zoipa ndi zoipa: chitsanzo chochepa chabe cha momwe zolaula zimakhazikika
Panopa ndimatha kugonana ndi amayi (palibe ed de kapena pe)
Wosadziwika wapereka ndemanga pa:
Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zolaula m'badwo uno kumandiopsa.
Kukulitsa nkhaŵa ndikuzindikira kuledzeretsa
KODI mumakonda kucheza ndi anyamata achichepere?
Porn zasokoneza malingaliro anga a akazi enieni
spurspack masiku 81
Ndikukupemphani kuti mupite maulendo
ndikufunsa mafunso amenewo - yang'anani pansi pa tabu yothandizira ma foramu omwe achita.
Kugonana ndi zolaula kumakhala koopsa kwambiri
momwe PMO wa bf wanga adandikankhira kumalo amdima… ndipo bwanji
zochitika zina za Pavlovian?
Mnyamata akulongosola mmene zimakhalira pamene kulimbikitsidwa kumatha:
Zolakolako zimachokera ku chikumbumtima changa: Komabe kwambiri pang'onopang'ono. Ndimakumbukirabe zomwe ndimakonda kwambiri, koma sindiganiza za iwo pafupipafupi. Mphamvu yawo yamphamvu pa ine yatsika. Zithunzi za akazi enieni omwe ndimafuna atenga malo azithunzi izi (osati mwa "zolaula", koma mwachilengedwe komanso mokongola). Zili ngati liwu lofika kutali.
Zaka 26 - ED zatsala pang'ono kutha, ndine munthu wokondwa kwambiri komanso wotsimikiza
Kodi kugonana kwenikweni kumakhala kosavuta kuposa zolaula?
Wina aliyense akuzindikira kuti awo
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2pxkna/anyone_else/
Porn zimakupangitsani kuona ubwenzi wapamtima ngati chinthu chomwe mumachiwona, osati
Porn zimakupangitsani kuona ubwenzi wapamtima ngati chinthu chomwe mumawonera, osati chinthu chomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito.
Porn kwenikweni imakhala ndi ntchito yabwino kukudodometsani kuti mumakhala ovuta