David Ley Akuukira Mtsinje wa NoFap (May, 2015)

Ndemanga za YBOP: Izi zinalembedwa poyankha nkhani ya David Ley yokhudza nofap. Ili ndi cholinga chachikulu: 1) kuwonetsa kuti sayansi yotsutsana ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndi utsi ndi magalasi, ndipo 2) mapepala omwe amanena kuti amatsutsa chizolowezi chogonana amachokera kwa anthu awiri omwe nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito limodzi - Nicole Prause & David Ley. Zosintha, 2019 : David Ley tsopano akulipidwa ndi kampani yayikulu yogulitsa zolaula xHamster kuti akweze mawebusayiti ake ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti chizolowezi chogonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndi nthano!

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nkhani

Nkhani ya David Ley pa blog ya The NoFap Phenomenon ili ndi anthu ambiri okonda zinthu, mawu olakwika komanso mabodza. Dziwani kuti nkhani ya Ley ilibe maumboni otsimikizira zomwe akunena. Dziwaninso kuti Ley watseka ndemanga, zomwe sizachilendo kwambiri pa nkhani za blog ya Psychology Today . Mwachidule, nkhani ya Ley ili ndi nkhani yonyoza popanda kuthandizira zomwe akunena kapena zomwe akunena.

Ley ndi mlembi wa buku lakuti The Myth of Sex Addiction . Walemba zolemba pafupifupi 30 pa blog zomwe zikutsutsa ndi kutsutsa NoFap, chizolowezi chogonana, chizolowezi chogonana komanso ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Nthawi zambiri David Ley wagwirizana ndi mnzake wapamtima Nicole Prause kuti azunze ndi kunyoza woyambitsa NoFap Alexander Rhodes ( ndi ena) . Apa tikupereka zitsanzo zingapo (maulalo omwe atengedwa ndi magawo a masamba ambiri omwe amafotokoza za nkhanza za Prause ndi kunyoza anthu ambiri ndi magulu). Magawo otsatirawa akuwulula umunthu weniweni wa Prause ndi Ley:

Kuphatikiza apo, a David Ley amangonena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kulibe vuto lililonse ndipo ngati wina akukumana ndi mavuto chifukwa anali ndi "zovuta zina". Makanema apa TV, magazini, masamba awebusayiti nthawi zambiri amapita kwa Ley ngati "mphamvu" pa zolaula komanso zotsatira za zolaula chifukwa ofufuza zamankhwala - omwe angapereke chithunzi cholondola chazofufuza pa intaneti - nthawi zambiri samayang'ana zolaula pa intaneti makamaka . Komanso sapezeka mosavuta ngati Dr. Ley wofunitsitsa. Chifukwa chake amayambitsa mkangano pazofalitsa nkhani ngakhale kuti sanaphunzire kwambiri zamankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso zakugonana, ndipo sanasindikizepo kafukufuku wapachiyambi.

Monga tanenera, David Ley ali ndi mbiri yotsutsa Nofap, reddit/Pornfree, RebootNation, ndi zina zotero m'ma blog ndi pa Twitter. Ngakhale kuti mawu ake oipa awonjezeka, salolanso kutsutsa. Ley amatseka ndemanga pa zolemba zambiri zokhudzana ndi zolaula (kapena ngati atsegula ndemanga amachotsa zomwe zimatsutsa zomwe akunena). Wachita izi chifukwa ndemanga pa positi yake yoti ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula ndi nthano sizinamuyendere bwino. Makamaka, ndemanga zotsatirazi pansi pa positi imeneyo, zopangidwa ndi akatswiri awiri omwe adamudzudzula, zidapangitsa kuti aletsedwe kupereka ndemanga.

Dzifunseni kuti: Kodi katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi wotani kuukira magulu odzithandiza okha monga Nofap? Ngati ali ndi vuto ndi lingaliro la chizolowezi cha zolaula pa intaneti, kodi sayenera kuukira asayansi omwe akuchita kafukufukuyu m'malo mwa anthu omwe akuvutika kuti achire? Kodi mungaganize chiyani za "wasayansi" yemwe sankakhulupirira khansa, koma m'malo mofunafuna madokotala a khansa, adafunafuna odwala khansa omwe akuvutika kuti apezenso thanzi lawo?

Ndipo kodi ndi bwino bwanji kunyoza maguluwa ndikusiya zolaula ndikugawana zomwe akumana nazo - koma osawalola kuti achitepo kanthu chifukwa mwatseka ndemanga? Nditha kuwerenga zonse zomwe Ley adalemba, koma nazi zitsanzo zingapo za zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi zomwe adalemba potsutsa Nofap:

"Chosangalatsa ndichakuti palibe amene ali mgulu la r / NoFap alidi wasayansi yemwe amafufuza za matenda amitsempha ndi magwiridwe antchito."

Ley akunena kuti amadziwa ntchito za mamembala onse opitilira 400,000 a Nofap. Zoona? Ndipotu, Nofap ikuphatikizapo asayansi a mitsempha, akatswiri a zamaganizo, ndi madokotala angapo omwe amadziwika kuti ndi otero. Nawa madokotala angapo omwe adachira (PIED). Nayi dokotala wachinyamata wamisala , yemwe anali ndi PIED, yemwe ndidamufunsa mafunso pa pulogalamu yanga ya pa wailesi. Ley sakuganiza chilichonse chopanga zinthu zopanda pake zomwe zikugwirizana ndi tsankho lake pankhaniyi:

"M'malo mwake, ndi akatswiri ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, omwe aphunzira zokwanira za sayansi yaubongo kukhala zowopsa, chifukwa amawona zomwe akuyembekeza kuwona, ndikumasulira sayansi yaubongo kuti igwirizane ndi malingaliro awo."

Zachidziwikire kuti sapereka zitsanzo, osagwidwa mawu, zoneneza zosamveka. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti Ley alibe chidziwitso cha neurobiology. Izi ndizofanananso ndi zomwe a Ley adalemba pazokhudzana ndi zolaula. Koma zoona zake ndi ziti?

zenizeni

Choyamba, pali maphunziro 41 a ubongo, ndi ndemanga 21 za mabuku/ndemanga zomwe zafalitsidwa pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula: Popanda kupatulapo kafukufuku aliyense ndi ndemanga zimapereka chithandizo cha chitsanzo cha chizolowezi cha zolaula. Onani tsamba ili Maphunziro a Ubongo pa Ogwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula kuti mupeze mndandanda waposachedwa. Awa si "okonda kukonda zolaula" kapena "YBOP chabe" ponena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumayambitsa kusintha kwa ubongo komwe kumakhudzana ndi chizolowezi. (Ndi zomwe Ley amauza atolankhani omwe amalankhula naye.) Akatswiri apamwamba a ubongo ku Cambridge University, Yale University, ndi Max Planck Institute ku Germany akunena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kungasinthe ubongo.

Apanso, ndi 100% ya maphunziro ofalitsidwa. Maphunziro a ubongo awa ayeneranso kuganiziridwa m'njira yokulirapo. M'zaka zingapo zapitazi, maphunziro a ubongo opitilira 330 okhudzana ndi chizolowezi cha intaneti afika, onse akuwonetsa kusintha kofanana kwa ubongo monga momwe kumawonedwera mu chizolowezi cha mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Maphunziro ambiri okhudzana ndi chizolowezi cha intaneti amaphatikizapo ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, ndipo onse akusonyeza kuthekera kwa zoyambitsa zochokera pa intaneti kuyambitsa kuphunzira kwa matenda (pankhaniyi, chizolowezi).

Maphunziro okhudza kuledzera pa intaneti ayenera kuganiziridwa potengera zaka zambiri za sayansi ya ubongo yokhudza kuledzera, zomwe zimatiuza kuti kuledzera konse kumakhala ndi kusintha kofanana kwa ubongo ndi njira zomwezo. Mogwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa umboni, The American Society of Addiction Medicine inafalitsa " tanthauzo latsopano la kuledzera " mu 2011. ASAM inanena kuti kuledzera kwa khalidwe kulipo, kuphatikizapo kuledzera kwa khalidwe logonana, ndipo ndi zenizeni monga kuledzera kwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo.

Madokotala 3000 a ASAM ndi akatswiri enieni a chizolowezi chogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, osati Ley kapena akatswiri ena olankhula za kugonana omwe amanena kuti zolaula pa intaneti sizikhudza ubongo wa munthu kuposa ziboliboli zomata zomwe zili pamakoma a mapanga. Mamembala a ASAM akuphatikizapo akatswiri ambiri a sayansi ya ubongo padziko lonse lapansi. Werengani zolemba za Ley mosamala. Satchula katswiri m'modzi wa sayansi ya ubongo wogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Ndi "sayansi" iti yomwe Ley amagwiritsa ntchito kuchirikiza zomwe akunena? Makamaka mapepala ofufuza omwe iye ndi mnzake Nicole Prause amapanga, osindikizidwa ndi anzawo a sexology. Mapepala awa sangavomerezedwe ndi akatswiri a sayansi ya ubongo wogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.

Pomaliza, kuyambira mu 2018 tili ndi matenda ovomerezeka. Buku lothandizira matenda padziko lonse lapansi, The International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), lili ndi matenda atsopano oyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula: "Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder ."

Kodi umboni wa Ley uli kuti?

Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, "sayansi" yambiri ya Ley imadalira anthu awiri okha, iyemwini ndi Nicole Prause , ndi mapepala awiri awa:

  • Pepala loyamba: "Chilakolako cha kugonana, osati chiwerewere, chimakhudzana ndi mayankho okhudza ubongo" (2013). Nicole Prause anali mlembi wamkulu
  • Pepala lachiwiri: “Emperor Alibe Zovala: Kuwunikiranso za mtundu wa 'Zolaula' (2014). David Ley & Chithunzi cha Nicole anali olemba aakulu.

Ley & Prause sanangogwirizana kuti alembe pepala nambala 2, komanso anagwirizana kuti alembe positi ya blog ya Psychology Today yokhudza pepala nambala 1. Positi ya blogyi inaonekera miyezi 5 pepala la Prause lisanasindikizidwe mwalamulo (kotero palibe amene akanatha kutsutsa). Mwina munawonapo positi ya blog ya Ley yokhala ndi mutu wokopa kwambiri: Ubongo Wanu pa Zolaula - Sizowonjezera . Mwachidule, phokoso lalikulu limachokera kwa anthu awiri omwe anagwirizana kuti alembe ndikufalitsa mapepala awiri. Palibe pepala lomwe likunena kuti ndi lofanana ndi limenelo, kapena mitu ya nkhani ikutanthauza.

Pepala loyamba - Phunziro la Nicole Prause EEG (Steele et al., 2013)

Phunziro la Nicole Prause EEG limathandiziradi zolaula (yoyamba pamapepala awiri omwe takambiranawa). Pomwe Pembedzero lidapanga zifukwa zingapo zopanda maziko, zotsutsana pamafunso ake atolankhani za izi, kafukufuku wake adanenanso za kuwerengedwa kwapamwamba kwa EEG pomwe ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula adadziwika. Izi ndizomwe zimachitika anthu omwe ali ndi chizolowezi choledzera amadziwika ndi zomwe amakonda. Chifukwa chake, zotsatira za Prause zidapeza umboni wogwirizana ndi zolaula - monga momwe ananenera zosiyana. Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufukuyu adanenanso za zolaula zomwe zimakhudzana ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana. Mwachidule: Kafukufukuyu adapeza kuti ubongo umalimbikitsa kwambiri zolaula komanso chilakolako chogonana (koma osati chilakolako chogonana).

Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, wolankhulira kafukufukuyu Nicole Prause adati ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula anali ndi "chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana," koma zotsatira za kafukufukuyu zikunena zosiyana kwambiri (chilakolako cha anthu ofuna kugonana ndi okwatirana chinali kuchepa poyerekeza ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo zolaula). Zonsezi pamodzi Steele et al. zomwe zapezeka zikuwonetsa kuti ubongo umagwira ntchito kwambiri pa zizindikiro (zithunzi zolaula), koma kuyankha kochepa ku mphotho zachilengedwe (kugonana ndi munthu). Kuzindikira ndi kuletsa kukhudzidwa ndi kugonana, zomwe ndi zizindikiro za chizolowezi.

Chonde werengani kuyankhulana uku kwa Psychology Today Prause kokhudza kafukufuku wake wa EEG. Kenako werengani ndemanga ziwiri pansi pa kuyankhulana kwa Prause ndi pulofesa wa Psychology John A. Johnson:

"Maganizo anga akadali odabwitsa ponena kuti ubongo wa anthu omwe amamutsatira sunayankhe zithunzi zogonana monga momwe ubongo wa anthu omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo umayankhira mankhwala awo, popeza iye amanena kuti zithunzi zogonana zimawerengedwa kwambiri ndi P300. Mofanana ndi anthu omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo omwe amasonyeza kuchuluka kwa P300 akapatsidwa mankhwala omwe amawakonda. Kodi angaganize bwanji mosiyana ndi zotsatira zenizeni? Ndikuganiza kuti mwina chifukwa cha malingaliro ake - zomwe amayembekezera kupeza."

Kenako werengani ndemanga iyi - John Johnson akupitiriza.

Muthanso kuwerenga zowunikiridwa za 8 zowunikiridwa ndi anzawo za Prause's 2013 EEG Study. Zonse zothandizira Johnson akuti kafukufuku wa Prause akugwirizana ndi "chizolowezi chomwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo" (kuti iye ndi Ley adanyoza mosasamala).

  1. 'High Desire', kapena 'Mwachisa' Chizolowezi Choledzeretsa? Yankho kwa Steele et al. (2014), lolembedwa ndi Donald L. Hilton, Jr., MD
  2. Phunziro loyamba la Cambridge - Valerie Voon, Thomas B. Mole, Paula Banca, Laura Porter, Laurel Morris, Simon Mitchell, Tatyana R. Lapa, Judy Karr, Neil A., Neural Correlates of Receptive Reactivity Kwa Anthu Omwe Ali ndi Zomwe Amachita Zachiwerewere (2014) Harrison, Marc N. Potenza, ndi Michael Irvine. Dziwani kuti 11 asayansi omwe ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo amakambirana za kafukufuku wa EEG wa Prause kuyambira ndi chiganizo ichi:Zomwe tapeza zikusonyeza kuti ntchito ya DACC imasonyeza mbali ya chilakolako cha kugonana, zomwe zingakhale zofanana ndi phunziro pa P300 mu CSB maphunziro okhudzana ndi chikhumbo [25].”Mwanjira ina, anali kuuza a Prause mwaulemu kuti samamvetsetsa zotsatira zake, zomwe zinali zogwirizana ndi kusuta.
  3. Neuroscience of Internet Pornography Addiction: A Review and Update (2015), wolemba Todd Love, Christian Laier, Matthias Brand, Linda Hatch & Raju Hajela
  4. Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Kubwereza ndi Zipatala zapakhomo (2016), ndi Brian Y. Park, Gary Wilson, Jonathan Berger, Matthew Christman, Bryn Reina, Frank Bishop, Warren P. Klam ndi Andrew P. Doan
  5. Njira Zozindikira ndi Zopanda Kumvetsetsa: Kodi Zimathetsa Nthawi Zambiri Zolaula Gwiritsani Ntchito? (2017) ndi Sajeev Kunaharan, Sean Halpin, Thiagarajan Sitharthan, Shannon Bosshard, ndi Peter Walla
  6. Njira zokhudzana ndi kugonana (2018), Ewelina Kowalewska, Joshua B. Grubbs, Marc N. Potenza, Mateusz Gola, Małgorzata Draps, ndi Shane W.Kraus.
  7. Kulimbana ndi Uliwonse pa Intaneti: Zimene Timadziwa ndi Zimene Sitili-Kufufuza Kwambiri (2019), Rubén de Alarcón, Javier I. de la Iglesia, Nerea M. Casado ndi Angel L. Montejo.
  8. Kusanthula kawiri kawiri: "Kuyambika ndi Kukula kwa Kugonana kwa Kugonana kwa Edzi: Kusokonezeka Kwaumunthu, Kulimbitsa Mchitidwe ndi Neural Mechanism" (2019)

Mukhozanso kuwerenga ndemanga yonseyi , kulemba zomwe kafukufuku wa Prause EEG adapeza, komanso momwe zomwe zanenedwa m'manyuzipepala sizikugwirizana ndi zomwe zapezeka. Ndikupangira kuti muwerenge buku lalifupili.

Pepala lachiwiri - "Ley & Prause" kuwunika "komwe sikunali kuwunika (Ley et al., 2014)

Pepala lachiwiri si phunziro konse. M'malo mwake, limati ndi "kuwunikanso mabuku" okhudza chizolowezi cha zolaula ndi zotsatira za zolaula. Palibe chomwe chingakhale chosiyana ndi chowonadi. Chotsatirachi ndi kusanthula kwakutali kwambiri, komwe kumayenda mzere ndi mzere, kuwonetsa zinthu zonse zomwe Ley & Prause adachita - The Emperor Has No Clothes: A Fractured Fairytale Posing As A Review. Imachotsa kwathunthu zomwe zimatchedwa ndemanga, ndipo imalemba zolakwika zambiri za kafukufuku yemwe adatchula.

Mbali yodabwitsa kwambiri ya ndemanga ya Ley ndi yakuti sinapeze maphunziro ONSE omwe adapeza zotsatira zoyipa/umboni wa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Inde, mwawerenga bwino. Ngakhale akunena kuti alemba ndemanga "yolinga", akatswiri awiriwa a zachiwerewere adavomereza kuti asapeze maphunzirowa chifukwa chakuti awa anali maphunziro okhudzana ndi ubale. Mukuganiza chiyani? Maphunziro onse pa zolaula ndi okhudzana ndi ubale. Pali, ndipo pafupifupi adzakhala, maphunziro okhudzana ndi ubale, chifukwa ofufuza alibe njira yopezera "anamwali olaula" kapena kuletsa anthu kuti asawone zolaula kwa nthawi yayitali kuti ayerekeze zotsatira zake. (Anyamata zikwizikwi akusiya zolaula mwaufulu pamabwalo osiyanasiyana, komabe, ndipo zotsatira zawo zikusonyeza kuti zolaula pa intaneti ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pazizindikiro zawo ndi kuchira kwawo.)

Zitsanzo zochepa za zomwe Ley & Prause adakoka:

  1. Monga tafotokozera, sanalole maphunziro aliwonse omwe amawonetsa zovuta chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula chifukwa chakuti ndi "chabe" ogwirizana, kenako natchulanso monga chithandizo cha malingaliro awo osiyanasiyana maphunziro othandizira.
  2. Adasankha mizere yosokeretsa, yopusitsa kuchokera mkati mwa maphunziro, polephera kunena zenizeni za ochita kafukufukuwo kutsutsa ziganizo.
  3. Iwo ankanena ngati zowonjezera maphunziro ochulukirapo omwe sali othandizira kwathunthu kulemba ndi zomwe zinanenedwa.
  4. Iwo adatetezera kuti achotsedwa ku khalidwe labwino chifukwa cha maphunziro omwe ali ndi zaka za 25, osanyalanyaza maphunziro atsopano, ochulukirapo, otsutsana, omwe amatsutsana ndi akatswiri omwe akutsutsana nawo.
  5. Iwo sanazindikire (kapena kusanthula) maphunziro ochuluka a ubongo pa ovuta pa intaneti.
  6. Iwo ananyalanyaza zofalitsa ziwiri zomwe zafalitsidwa ndi ubongo zomwe zinachitidwa pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ku Cambridge University ndi Max Planck, zomwe zimachotsa ziganizo za Ley / Prause.

Mwa njira, olemba awo okonda zolaula Michael Perelman, Charles Moser ndi Peggy Kleinplatz adayambitsanso magazini yokhudza kugonana yotchedwa Current Sexual Health Reports (yomwe sinafalitsidwe kwa zaka zambiri) kuti alepheretse "ndemanga" iyi kwa anthu osadziwa zambiri! Ndikuganiza kuti Ley adalemba mbiri: iyi ikhoza kukhala nthawi yoyamba kuti ndemanga ya mabuku ilembedwe ndi munthu amene 1) sanafalikirepo kale 2) alibe luso pankhaniyi (kuledzera).

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri: Mukawona chingwe chogwirizana ndi nkhani yomwe imanena kuti kuwononga zolaula kwathyoledwa, tsatirani chitsimezo. Ndikukhoza kutsimikiziranso kuti mutha kupeza chimodzi mwa izi 2 zosamveka mosavuta, ndi mapepala osatsutsika kumbuyo kwake.

Nanga bwanji za Porn-Indedi ED?

Ley & Prause amati PIED ndi nthano chabe. Mauthenga ena okopa. Choyamba, tsamba lino limalumikizana ndi akatswiri pafupifupi 120, kuphatikiza aphunzitsi angapo a urology, omwe amazindikira ndikuchiza PIED - Porn-Induced ED mu Media: Akatswiri omwe amazindikira PIED . (Zosintha - Porn-induced ED yoperekedwa ku Msonkhano wa American Urologic Association, Meyi 6-10, 2016: Gawo 1, Gawo 2, Gawo 3

Chachiwiri, maphunziro ofufuza kugonana kwa anyamata achichepere kuyambira mu 2010 akufotokoza kuchuluka kwa zovuta zogonana m'mbiri, komanso kuchuluka kodabwitsa kwa mliri watsopano: libido yochepa. Zalembedwa m'nkhaniyi komanso mu pepala lowunikidwa ndi anzawo lokhudza madokotala 7 a US Navy - Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Ndemanga ndi Malipoti a Zachipatala (2016)

Chiwerengero cha ED m'mbiri: Kulephera kugwira ntchito bwino kwa erectile kunayesedwa koyamba mu 1940s pamene lipoti la Kinsey linatsimikiza kuti kufalikira kwa ED kunali kochepera 1% mwa amuna osakwana zaka 30, ochepera 3% mwa amuna azaka 30-45. Ngakhale kuti maphunziro a ED pa anyamata ndi ochepa, kusanthula kwa 2002 kwa maphunziro 6 apamwamba a ED kunanena kuti 5 mwa 6 adanena kuti kuchuluka kwa ED kwa amuna osakwana zaka 40 ndi pafupifupi 2%. Kafukufuku wachisanu ndi chimodzi adanenanso kuti ziwerengero za 7-9%, koma funso lomwe linagwiritsidwa ntchito silingafanane ndi maphunziro ena asanu, ndipo silinayang'ane vuto la erectile losatha : " Kodi munali ndi vuto losunga kapena kukwaniritsa kukhazikika nthawi iliyonse chaka chatha ?".

Kumapeto kwa chaka cha 2006, mawebusayiti aulere owonera zolaula adapezeka pa intaneti ndipo adatchuka nthawi yomweyo. Izi zidasintha kwambiri momwe anthu amaonera zolaula . Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'mbiri, owonera amatha kukwera mosavuta panthawi yogonana popanda kudikira.

Maphunziro khumi kuyambira 2010: Maphunziro khumi omwe adasindikizidwa kuyambira 2010 akuwonetsa kukwera kwakukulu kwa zovuta zogonana. Mu maphunziro 10, kuchuluka kwa zovuta zogonana kwa amuna osakwana zaka 40 kunali kuyambira 14% mpaka 37%, pomwe kuchuluka kwa chilakolako chochepa cha kugonana kunali kuyambira 16% mpaka 37%. Kupatula kubwera kwa zolaula zowonera (2006) palibe chosinthika chokhudzana ndi ED ya achinyamata chomwe chasintha kwambiri m'zaka 10-20 zapitazi (chiwerengero cha kusuta chatsika, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndikokhazikika, kuchuluka kwa kunenepa kwambiri mwa amuna azaka 20-40 kwakwera ndi 4% yokha kuyambira 1999 - onani ndemanga iyi ya mabuku ). Kukwera kwaposachedwa kwa mavuto ogonana kukugwirizana ndi kufalitsidwa kwa maphunziro ambiri ogwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi "chizolowezi chogonana" ndi mavuto ogonana komanso kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana ndi zolimbikitsa zogonana.

Mpaka pomwe munthu atha kufotokozera posachedwa 500% -1000% ikudumpha mumitengo ya ED ya amuna ochepera zaka 40, ndibwino kuganiza kuti akatswiri omwe atchulidwawa atha kukhala olondola za PIED, ndikuti akatswiri azakugonana omwe ali ndi zolinga mwina sangakhale odalirika.

Chachitatu, tsopano pali maphunziro 40 ogwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena chizolowezi cha zolaula ndi zovuta zogonana komanso kutsekeka kwa ubongo ndi zolimbikitsa kugonana. Kuphatikiza apo, maphunziro opitilira 75 amagwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana komanso ubale . Monga momwe tikudziwira, maphunziro onse okhudza amuna anena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zambiri kumalumikizidwa ndi kusakhutitsidwa kwa kugonana kapena ubale.

Pomaliza tili ndi nkhani zambirimbiri zochiritsira zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kafukufuku amene ali pamwambapa zomwe zikupezeka patsamba lino:

pomwe: Wolemba mnzake wa Ley komanso mnzake Chithunzi cha Nicole wakhala akudandaula kwambiri ndi maulamuliro a debunking-amachititsa ED, atachita Nkhondo yopanda chilungamo ya 4 pa pepala ili la maphunziro, pomwe nthawi yomweyo amazunza komanso kupeputsa anyamata omwe achira ku zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula. Pomaliza, ndikofunikira kuzindikira wolemba ameneyo Chithunzi cha Nicole ali maubale oyandikana ndi zolaula ndipo wamangika chifukwa cha PIED yolemetsa, atapumira a Nkhondo ya zaka 3 pa pepala ili la maphunziro, pomwe nthawi yomweyo amazunza komanso kupusitsa anyamata omwe achira ku zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula. Onani zolemba: Gabe Deem #1, Gabe Deem #2, Alexander Rhodes #1, Alexander Rhodes #2, Alexander Rhodes #3, Mpingo wa Nowa, Alexander Rhodes #4, Alexander Rhodes #5, Alexander Rhodes #6, Alexander Rhodes #7, Alexander Rhodes #8, Alexander Rhodes #9, Alexander Rhodes #10,  Alex Rhodes # 11, Gabe Deem & Alex Rhode pamodzi # 12, Alexander Rhodes #13, Alexander Rhodes #14, Gabe Deem #4, Alexander Rhodes #15. Titha kungoganiza kuti ndichifukwa chiyani Pembedzero limachita izi komanso zosokoneza. Pali zambiri pankhaniyi - Kodi Nicole Anagwiritsira Ntchito Pulogalamu Yolimbikitsa Zogulitsa Zojambulajambula?).

David Ley kusamvana pazachuma (COI)

COI #1 : Pa mkangano wowonekeratu wazachuma, David Ley akulipidwa ndi kampani yayikulu yamalonda a zolaula ya X-hamster kuti akweze mawebusayiti awo ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti chizolowezi cha zolaula ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndi nthano! Makamaka, David Ley ndi Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) yomwe yangopangidwa kumene agwirizana ndi tsamba la X-Hamster (Strip-Chat). Onani "Stripchat ikugwirizana ndi Sexual Health Alliance kuti igwire ubongo wanu wodera nkhawa womwe umayang'ana kwambiri zolaula ":

Bungwe lolangiza la Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) lomwe likuyamba kumene likuphatikizapo David Ley ndi "akatswiri" ena awiri a RealYourBrainOnPorn.com (Justin Lehmiller ndi Chris Donahue). RealYBOP ndi gulu la "akatswiri" odzitcha okha omwe amachirikiza zolaula , omwe amatsogozedwa ndi Nicole Prause . Gululi pakadali pano likuchita zinthu zosaloledwa zophwanya malamulo a malonda ndi kugwirira anthu m'nyumba zawo zomwe zikuyang'ana ku YBOP yovomerezeka. Mwachidule, omwe akuyesera kuletsa YBOP akulipidwanso ndi makampani opanga zolaula kuti akweze mabizinesi awo, ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti mawebusayiti a zolaula ndi makamera sayambitsa mavuto (dziwani: Nicole Prause ali ndi ubale wapagulu ndi makampani opanga zolaula monga momwe zalembedwera patsamba lino ).

Munkhaniyi , Ley akutsutsa kutsatsa kwake kolipira makampani opanga zolaula :

N’zoona kuti akatswiri azaumoyo wogonana omwe amagwira ntchito limodzi ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amakumana ndi mavuto ena, makamaka kwa iwo omwe akufuna kudzionetsa ngati osakondera. “Ndimayembekezera kuti [olimbikitsa zolaula] onse azifuula kuti, ‘O, taonani, onani, David Ley akugwira ntchito yokhudza zolaula,’” akutero Ley, yemwe dzina lake limatchulidwa kawirikawiri m’madera oletsa kugonana monga NoFap.

Koma ngakhale ntchito yake ndi Stripchat mosakayikira imamupatsa chakudya kwa wina aliyense wofunitsitsa kuti amulembe ngati wakondera kapena mthumba la malo oonera zolaula, a Ley, malonda amenewo ndi oyenera. "Ngati tikufuna kuthandiza [oonera zolaula], tiyenera kupita kwa iwo," akutero. "Umu ndi momwe timachitira izi."

Kodi wasankha? Ley akutikumbutsa za madokotala otchuka a fodya , ndi Sexual health Alliance, Tobacco Institute.

COI #2 David Ley akulipidwa kuti achotse zolaula ndi chizolowezi chogonana. Kumapeto kwa positi iyi ya blog ya Psychology Today, Ley akuti:

Kuulura: David Ley wapereka umboni pamilandu yokhudza milandu yomwe imakhudzana ndi zachiwerewere. "

Mu 2019 tsamba latsopano la David Ley linapereka ntchito zake zabwino zoti "zitsutse" :

David J. Ley, Ph.D., ndi katswiri wazamisala komanso woyang'anira wotsimikizika wa AASECT wokhudza zachiwerewere, ku Albuquerque, NM. Wapereka umboni waukatswiri komanso umboni wazamalamulo milandu ingapo kuzungulira United States. A Dr. Ley amadziwika kuti ndi akatswiri pazachinyengo zabodza zokhudzana ndi chiwerewere, ndipo adatsimikizika ngati mboni waluso pamutuwu. Iye wachitira umboni m'makhothi aboma ndi feduro.

Lumikizanani naye kuti mupeze ndandanda wa zolipiritsa ndikukonzekera nthawi yoti mudzakambirane za chidwi chanu.

Nicole Prause amapindulanso chifukwa chokana kugonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana. Kuchokera patsamba lake la Liberos (tsamba lachotsedwa, ndipo Prause analichotsa pa Internet WayBack Machine):

"Kugonjetsa kugonana" akugwiritsidwa ntchito mobwerezabwereza ngati chitetezo pamilandu, koma sayansi yake ndi yosauka. Tapereka umboni wa luso lofotokozera momwe dzikoli likuyendera ndikupanga alangizi a malamulo kuti athandize magulu kumvetsetsa momwe zasayansi akuchitira panopa kuti awonetsere chithandizo chawo.

Uphungu ndi umboni wa anthu wamba nthawi zambiri zimalipidwa pa mtengo wa ola limodzi.

Chodabwitsa kwambiri n'chakuti, Prause & Ley amachita zinthu zozunza anthu, kunyoza anthu, komanso kutsata anthu pa intaneti. Onani tsamba ili lomwe linapangidwa kuti lithetse kuzunza anthu komwe kukuchitika komanso mabodza omwe Nicole Prause, yemwe kale anali wofufuza wa ku UCLA, adachita ngati gawo la kampeni yopitilira ya "astroturf" yokakamiza anthu kuti aliyense amene sagwirizana ndi zomwe watsimikiza ayenera kunyozedwa.

COI #3: Ley amapeza ndalama pogulitsa mabuku awiri omwe amakana kugonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana (“ The Myth of Sex Addiction ,” 2012 ndi “ Ethical Porn for Dicks, ” 2016). Pornhub (yomwe ndi ya kampani yayikulu ya zolaula ya MindGeek) ndi imodzi mwa mabuku asanu olembedwa kumbuyo kwa buku la Ley la 2016 lonena za zolaula:

Chidziwitso: PornHub inali akaunti yachiwiri ya Twitter kubwereza tweet yoyamba ya RealYBOP yolengeza tsamba lake la "akatswiri", zomwe zikusonyeza kuti PornHub ndi akatswiri a RealYBOP agwirizana . Zodabwitsa!

COI #4: Pomaliza, David Ley amapeza ndalama kudzera mu masemina a CEU , komwe amalimbikitsa malingaliro a anthu okana kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo omwe afotokozedwa m'mabuku ake awiri (omwe mosasamala amanyalanyaza maphunziro ambiri ndi kufunika kwa matenda atsopano a Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder mu buku lothandizira la World Health Organization). Ley walipidwa chifukwa cha zokambirana zake zambiri zomwe zikuwonetsa malingaliro ake olakwika pa zolaula. Mu chiwonetserochi cha 2019, Ley akuwoneka kuti akuchirikiza ndikulimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa achinyamata: Kupanga Kugonana Kwabwino ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula Mwanzeru mwa Achinyamata.

Zomwe zili pamwambapa ndi nsonga chabe ya Ice ndi Ley.

Kuti mutsutse mwachangu za sayansi yabodza ya anthu otsutsa, onani kanema wa Gabe Deem: MFUNDO ZA POLATI – Chowonadi Chachikulu cha Kuledzera Ndi Mavuto Okhudzana ndi Kugonana.