Mu Porn Kenako ndi Tsopano: Takulandilani Ku Maphunziro a Bongo Ndimayang'ana momwe zolaula ndi zolaula kuchokera pa intaneti ndizokakamira, zovuta kwambiri kuti ndisiye kuwonera.
Onani ndemanga zambiri pansipa.
"Kodi ndife m'badwo woyamba kuseweretsa maliseche kumanzere?"
Chojambula cha Reddit posachedwapa anafunsidwa, "Kodi ndife m'badwo woyamba kuseweretsa maliseche kumanzere chifukwa manja athu akumanja akusakatula zolaula?" Inde, m'badwo wonse ukukhala "ambi-wackstrous" monga momwe gulu linanenera.
Kalekale, kuseweretsa maliseche kumafuna malingaliro ambiri. Zinali zoyeserera zenizeni: "Choyamba ndichita izi ... kenako…." Osatinso.
“Ndine m'badwo womaliza kuyamba kuseweretsa maliseche asanakhale ndi intaneti. Sindingathe kukhala ndi mwayi wowonera zofananira zilizonse zomwe zingachitike musanakhale ndi chidwi chofuna kuzisokoneza. Ndili mwana, tonse tinkafunitsitsa kuti tione ma boobs, koma mwayi umangobwera kamodzi kapena kawiri nthawi zopambana pachaka [kudzera m'ndandanda]. Ndimadzifunsa mozama momwe matipi-tap amakhudza mibadwo yamtsogolo. ”
Kusintha uku kumatanthauza chiyani? Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Intaneti zofanana kwambiri zogonana kwambiri kuposa kugonana kwenikweni. Zimaphatikiza chibadwa chanu cha No. 1 choyambirira-komanso mphotho yayikulu kwambiri (kugonana) ndi con con
Kusintha kwakanthawi, kutulutsa kwatsopano komanso kodabwitsa kwa "World of Warcraft." Dzanja lanu lamanzere likupanikiza kwambiri komanso kuthamanga kuposa kugonana. Dzanja lanu lamanja likudina mu "njira zosakira," pomwe maso anu amayang'ana kuchokera pazenera kupita kwinanso ndikulira m'makutu anu. Palibe nyimbo zongoyerekeza zomwe zikufunika.
Zolaula, ndi momwe amaperekera muubongo wathu, zasintha. Tsoka, ubongo wathu sunasinthe, ndipo izi zitha kubweretsa mavuto osayembekezereka:
“Ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwazaka zambiri. Ndimangokonda kuwonera anthu akugonana. Vuto langa lidakulirakulira pafupifupi miyezi 18 yapitayo pomwe ndidakhala ndi intaneti yothamanga kwambiri. Mwadzidzidzi, ndinangoonera zithunzi pa intaneti, ndikuwonera makanema ndi makanema pa intaneti nthawi yomweyo. Sindinaganizirepo kwenikweni, koma nditayang'ana pafupifupi tsiku ndi tsiku — nthawi zina ngakhale ndikuluma kwa maola ochuluka ndikuwonera makanema olaula - ndinayamba kuzindikira kusintha kwa moyo wanga wogonana ndi mkazi wanga. Ndinali ndisanakhalepo ndi mavuto a ED konse. Koma tsopano, nthawi zonse ine ndi mkazi wanga tikayamba kugonana, sindingathe kukonzekera. Nthawi zina ndimapeza imodzi, koma imayamba kufewa msanga. Kugonana sikungakhaleko konse kwa ife. ”
Ah, masiku abwino akale:
M'masiku anga akusukulu, mumakhala ndi mwayi wowonera zolaula pa VHS kanema kamodzi kanthawi ndipo amakhala opanda pake. Mukangotopetsa msanga, munayambanso kuganizira za msungwana wamkulu woyandikana naye. Ana amafunika kutetezedwa ku intaneti.
Mnyamata wina:
“Pali kusiyana pakati pa zolaula zapaintaneti lero ndi zomwe zidachitika zaka makumi angapo zapitazo. Tsopano, mutha kupita kumawebusayiti osiyanasiyana ndikupeza zolaula zambiri zaulere kuposa momwe mungawonere ngati mutasiya ntchito ndikudzipereka kwa inu-zonse ndi mitundu yamoyo. Muthanso kusankha fetish yemwe mumakonda, chilichonse chomwe mungakonde kwambiri, ndipo ingowonerani kanema pambuyo pake. Ngati kulimba kwache kwa masekondi ochepa, kapena mungatopetsedwe ndikuwonanso matupi omwewo kwa mphindi ziwiri molunjika, mutha kudumphira pagulu latsopano ndikupanga zinthu zatsopano. Ikhoza kuwononga kwambiri kuyamika kwanu chinthu chenicheni kuposa kale lonse. ”
Ndendende. Kuonera zolaula pa Intaneti kumagwiritsa ntchito zambiri osati kungofuna kugonana. Icho chimatsogolera ogwiritsa ntchito kupitirira libido yawo yachilengedwe: Ogwiritsa ntchito amatha kuwonera zolaula m'mawindo angapo, amafufuza mosalekeza, amawoneka achilendo, akuthamangira kuzinthu zomwe zimawotcha kwambiri, amasinthana kuti azicheza, atenthe magalasi awo ndi makanema kapena cam-2-cam, kapena kukulira pamitundu yoipa kwambiri komanso zinthu zopangira nkhawa. Zonse ndi zaulere, zopezeka mosavuta, zimapezeka mkati mwamasekondi, maola 24 patsiku, masiku 7 pa sabata, ndipo zimatha kuwonedwa pama foni aliwonse. Posakhalitsa, ipititsidwa patsogolo ndi zoseweretsa zakugonana zomwe zimafanana ndi kukhudzana.
Sungani mu ubongo
Nchiyani chimayambitsa chisokonezo chachilendo ichi? Dopamine. Ndiwo mankhwala oyambira am'magazi omwe amachititsa kusaka-mphotho. Mulingo wa Dopamine ndiye barometer yomwe timasankha (ndikukumbukira) kufunikira kwa chidziwitso chilichonse. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti zoyambitsa zogonana zimakweza dopamine kuposa mphotho zina zachilengedwe.
Anthu ambiri amaganiza za dopamine ngati "buzz," "shuga wokwera," kapena kuyendetsa kumaliseche. M'malo mwake, imadumpha poyankha zokopa zomwe zimakhudzana ndi zosowa zakupulumuka. Ndi zolimbikitsa. Limatiuza zoyenera kuyandikira kapena kupeŵa ndi malo oti tiike chidwi chathu. Komanso, amatiuza zomwe muyenera kukumbukira, pothandiza kuthandizira ubongo wathu.
Zolaula za pa Intaneti zimangochitika zokha zokhala ndi dopamine onse za "zopatsa chidwi" zomwe tidasintha kuti tiziyembekezera:
- Mantha: kudabwa, mantha, kunyansidwa, nkhawa
- Chilendo: chakudya chatsopano, zowonongeka, okwatirana atsopano
- kufunafuna ndikufufuza: kufufuza madera, zakudya kapena mwayi wokhala nawo
- chirichonse zomwe zimaphwanya ziyembekezo: bonanzas osadziwika kapena kuopsa
Mawu, mafilimu ndi mavidiyo okondweretsa akhalapo nthawi yaitali. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi Kuthamanga kwa khunyu kumachokera kwa omvera okwatirana. Komabe zachilendo za kamodzi-mwezi Playboy imatuluka mwamsanga mutangotembenuza masambawo. Kodi wina angayitane Playboy kapena makanema oseketsa "ochititsa mantha" kapena "opanga nkhawa?" Kodi zitha kuphwanya ziyembekezo za mwana wodziwa kuwerenga makompyuta wazaka zopitilira 12? Sichiyerekeza ndi "kusaka ndi kufunafuna" kwamitundu ingapo ya Google prowl. Kafukufuku akutsimikizira chiyembekezero cha mphotho ndi zachilendo zimakondana kuti ziwonjezere chisangalalo ndi kubwereza ubongo wa limbic. (onani ulusi wofiirawu: Ndimathera nthawi yambiri ndikuyang'ana kanema yolaula yomwe ndimayesetsa).

Mawu oti "Zosiyanasiyana ndi zonunkhira za moyo" amachokera mu ndakatulo ya William Cowper (1785) yonena za mnyamata yemwe adakwatirana ndi mtsikana wina sabata iliyonse. Koma intaneti imapangitsa kutsika kwa msuzi wa Tabasco wosatha mwa mawonekedwe a matepi a dopamine. Kusaka kwanga kwa "zolaula" pa Google kungopeza pafupifupi 1.3 biliyoni masamba (omwe ali ndi "Zolaula kwa Akhungu" mgulu langa khumi). Kukondoweza nthawi zonse kumatha kusokoneza momwe ife tikuganizira, ngakhale popanda zithunzi zolaula. M'malo mwake, kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti (mavidiyo) kumapangitsa ubongo wokhudzana ndi mowa umasintha.
“Kunali kuyipa kwambiri. Ndinkatenga mwana wankhuku kunyumba ndipo nthawi zina sindinkatha kukweza d * ck yanga chifukwa zolaula zinali zitasinthiratu ubongo wanga ndikuti zikhale ndi atsikana a 5-6 nthawi imodzi. Mtsikana wina, ngakhale anali pamasom'pamaso, sanali kuchita zachinyengozo. ”
Nchifukwa chiyani nthawi zonse kulimbikitsidwa kwa dopamine kumakhala kovuta? Monga katswiri wa sayansi David Linden akufotokozera, ogwiritsa ntchito osuta ochulukirapo kuposa heroin, ngakhale heroin imaphulitsa kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Ndi funso lakuphunzitsidwa ubongo. Kusuta kulikonse pa ndudu 20 pa paketi iliyonse kumaphunzitsa omwe amasuta kuti ndudu zimapindulitsa. Mosiyana ndi izi, kangati pomwe wina angawombere? Kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa ndi "maphunziro ovuta. "
Pankhani ya zolaula pa intaneti, taganizirani za zachizoloŵezi zachilendo, zithunzi zochititsa mantha kapena zopanikizika, ndi kuwongolera pofufuza kuwombera kwangwiro monga kunjenjemera, ndi ziphuphu monga chinachake champhamvu. Onse awiri kuphunzitsa ubongo. Komabe, timamva kuchokera kwa anyamata nthawi zonse ndi ED, omwe amachititsa kuti azichita zolaula. Iwo mwachidziwitso amadziwa kumene dopamine akudontha ndi:
"Ndimaganiza kuti zolaula ndizomwe zimayambitsa matenda osokoneza bongo, osati maliseche. Chodabwitsa chomwe ndikupeza pazoyesera zanga ndikuti popanda zolaula pa intaneti, sindimamva ngati kuseweretsa maliseche. Ngakhale ndimayesa, sindimadzutsidwa mokwanira kuti ndizichita maliseche. Maganizo anga saganiziranso, ngati kale pamene ndinali mwana ndisanapite pa Intaneti. ”
Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwamasiku ano kuli kokhudza kugunda kwa dopamine kuposa pachimake
Dopamine imayambitsa zonse kukondweretsa, koma kusinthika kosasinthika kowonongeka ndi chizoloŵezi chokhalira ndi mphamvu yophunzitsa malingaliro kwambiri kuposa momwe amachitira mchitidwe wodzitama nthawi zina. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake kusuta pa Intaneti kumayambitsa zowononga kwambiri mu ubongo wina.
Zachisoni, kuchuluka kwa dopamine sikokwanira. Uthengawu umakhala kuti, "Kukhutira kuli pafupi pomwepo, ndiye pitiliranibe! ” Kafukufuku wamakhalidwe pazakudya, kutchova juga komanso makanema apaintaneti akuwonetsa kuti dopamine yochuluka kwambiri sungani yankho la chisangalalo za ubongo. Izi zikuwonetsa kuti zizolowezi zosokoneza bongo zikulowerera. Ubongo wofooka umatsogolera kukulakalaka zambiri; ngakhale kuwombera koyenera sikungakhutiritse. Zolaula zamasiku ano sizimakwaniritsa zosowa zanu zokha; zimawasokoneza.
Za ine, Kuledzera kwanga kufunafuna Zithunzi zolaula pa intaneti zimawoneka ngati zosokoneza bongo. Ndimapeza zithunzi zambiri pa intaneti zosasangalatsa kapena zonyansa. Ndi ochepa okha omwe amanditembenuzira, koma pali zithunzi za "jackpot" zomwe zimakankhira mabatani anga onse ndikupanga nthawi yakusaka "kulipira". Chifukwa chake nthawi iliyonse ndikapita pa intaneti, ndimakhala ndikutchova juga kuti ndipeza kena kake kodzutsa, ndipo ndimagunda jackpot nthawi zambiri mokwanira kuti ndizisaka, ngakhale ndikudziwa kuti nyumba ikupambana ndipo ndikutaya nthawi yayitali.
Kuwona dzuwa likamalowa, kudula mphaka, ndi kuyang'ana timu imene mumaikonda si zosiyana ndi zosangalatsa zambiri. Ndi zokondweretsa, mumalandira chizindikiro cha dopamine ndipo ubongo wanu umabwerera kunyumbaostasis. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, ntchito zina zimatha kuchepetsa dopamine nthawi yaitali.
Ndipotu madokotala a American Society of Addiction Medicine posachedwapa adalemba pofotokoza zakugonana, chakudya ndi kutchova juga ngati zinthu zomwe zingakhale zosokoneza bongo. Amasiya kukayikira kuti zizolowezi zonse-kaya ndi mowa, heroin kapena kugonana-ndizofanana. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Philip Zimbardo, nayenso, wanena za kuopsa kwa "kuledzera". (Nkhani ya TED Kodi Kudandaula kwa Anyamata?)
Ngakhale anyamata amachenjezana za zolaula pa intaneti. Ulusi wolimbitsa:Ulusi wa NO FAP kuti umalize ulusi uliwonse ” ; Reddit ulusi: “Funsani mnyamata amene asiya zolaula kwa miyezi 2 tsopano. ” Akuzindikiranso kuti zolaula zimayambitsa kukula ndikupanga zolaula zonyansa:
"Zithunzi zolaula kwa maola 4-6 masiku angapo apitawa. Mbali yabwino, zinawonekeratu kuti zolaula zomwe zimachitika amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sizigwirizana ndi kugonana kwanga. Pambuyo poyang'ana maola 30+ m'masiku 5 apitawa, zolaula zomwe zimachitika amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zimayamba kukhala zosasangalatsa! Ndinayamba kufunafuna zinthu zina, zonyansa kwambiri komanso zodabwitsa. ”
Zithunzi zolaula pa Intaneti zimakhudza ubongo m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Kuphatikiza pakulimbikitsa nthawi zonse, palibenso malire obwera chifukwa chomwa mowa mosiyana ndi kudya kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kuchulukana kumatheka nthawi zonse chifukwa njira zachilengedwe zokhutitsira ubongo sizimangopita pokhapokha chimodzimodzi - chomwe sichingakhale kwa maola ambiri. Ngakhale apo, ogwiritsa ntchito amatha kudina china chowopsa kuti adzutsenso. Komanso zolaula pa intaneti sizingayambitse ubongo kuti usokonezeke ("Sindingalolere kuluma / kumwa / kufinya!"). Ndani sangapirire kuyang'ana chithunzi china cholaula? Kubereka ndizofunikira kwambiri pamtundu wathu.
ZOCHITA: Zolaula Zoona Zenizeni
Wogwiritsa ntchito amalemba kuti:
Ndidapeza [zolaula zenizeni zenizeni] ndizovuta ndipo zidandipangitsa kuti ndidziwe, zidandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti Virtual Reality ikhala yabwinoko ndipo ma studio a Porn azikhala bwino pakupanga zolaula za VR momwemo ndibwino ndituluke tsopano.
Ndinali woyamba kulandira VR (Oculus DK2 kumbuyo mu Chilimwe 2014) kotero ndinali ndi zaka pafupifupi 1 ndi theka za zolaula za VR pansi pa lamba wanga ndipo mu 2015 ma studio ena adakwera ndipo zinthu zidayamba kunyamuka koma momwemonso chizolowezi changa chifukwa. Ndipo ndinadzipeza ndekha ndikulipira masamba kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga wonse ndikulipira zolaula m'malo mongodzizunza! Chifukwa sindinkafuna kudikirira kuti mitsinje ipezeke!
Dziwani zizindikiro za kuchuluka
Chikhulupiriro chakuti "kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula sikungapweteke" kunayamba m'nyengo ya mwezi uliwonse Playboy. Ngati mumakonda kapena ayi, zolaula pa intaneti ndizosiyana ndi zochitika zakale monga "Super Mario" ndizochokera ku tic-tac-toe. Research ndipo malipoti anu amawonetsa izi. M'malo mokhala "zolaula," zolaula pa intaneti ndichinthu chatsopano, chomwe chisinthiko sichinakonzekeretse ubongo wambiri. (Anyamata omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ali achinyamata amafuna nthawi yayitali kuti akhalenso ndi thanzi labwino, onani - Achinyamata Amagwiritsa Ntchito Zambiri Kuti Apeze Mojo wawo. Nkhani yokhudzana ndi kugonana kudzera pa zolaula pa intaneti: Nkhani ya Seputembara ya 2015 ya TEDx ndi wachinyamata yemwe amafunika nthawi yochulukirapo ndikuwunikiranso / kubwereranso kuti athetse zolaula zomwe zidapangitsa ED ndi anorgasmia -
Makolo anu analibe intaneti kapena zokumbukira zolaula zopeka. Ngati achita maliseche, libido yabwinobwino ndi malingaliro awo atenga ntchitoyo. Ngati kugonana kwanu kumachepa, kapena mukufuna zolaula mpaka pachimake, ndiye kuti muli, kuthana ndi njira zomwe ubongo wanu umalakalaka kudya, ndi kuika mowa mwauchidakwa. Dikirani mpaka ubongo wanu ubwerere chidziwitso chachibadwa. Kutaya kungakhale kovuta, koma malangizo ndi chithandizo alipo.
Ubongo wanu sunasinthe kuti mukwaniritse zochitika za lero. Sikuti amangowona makanema; chimazindikira Mipata yosatha ya umuna, ndipo idzagwiritsa ntchito “chikwapu” chake cha dopamine kutsimikizira kuti mukuthira manyowa ochuluka momwe zingathere — mulimonse momwe zingakulipirireni. M'malo mopitilira ndi kupitiriza ndi moyo, owonera masiku ano nthawi zambiri amapitilizabe malinga ngati atha kukhala tcheru — osadziwa kuti atha kukhala pachiwopsezo cha kuledzera kapena mavuto ntchito. Monga Eliezer Yudkowsky analemba kale,
"Ngati anthu ali ndi ufulu kuyesedwa - ndipo ndiye ufulu wakudzisankhira, msika udzayankha mwa kupereka mayesero omwe angagulitsidwe. Kulimbikitsana pamsika sikungapitirire pomwe chimfine chimayamba kuwononga ndalama kwa wogula. ”
Phunzirani zizindikiro zomwe zikuwonetsa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kwambiri. (Werengani malipoti a ena.) Simungathe kutsatira zomwe anzanu akuchita, kapena ngakhale ndiupangiri a akatswiri azakugonana kapena madotolo. Pitani ndi chiyani inu zindikirani.
"Kubwerera tsiku loyimba, ndimatha kutsitsa zithunzi zina (zolaula zosavutikira) chifukwa cha intaneti yoyipa / yocheperako komanso osadziwa komwe ndingapeze zibwibwi. Koma tsopano ndikuthamanga kwambiri, ngakhale mafoni am'manja, zandipangitsa kuti ndizipitiliza kuwonera zochulukirapo komanso zowoneka bwino. Nthawi zina zimangokhala tsiku lathunthu kufunafuna wangwiro kuti amalize. Sichimakhutitsa konse. "Kusowa zambiri" ubongo umanena nthawi zonse… bodza lotere. "
Tumizani pa r / NoFap - Chisinthiko cha Porn
Chiwonetsero cha kugonana chinalipo musanakhale ngakhale kanema kamene kanatengedwa kuchokera mu buku la zaka za zana lachitatu la Kama Sutra ku zojambula mu mzinda wa Pompeii.
Koma zakhala ziri zaka makumi asanu ndi limodzi zapitazo kapena zolaula zayamba kufalikira ngati moto wamoto. Yoyamba inali magazini ya Playboy yomwe inayamba kufotokoza akazi achilendo kudzera m'maganizo amatsenga kumbuyo kwa chaka cha 1953. Kumbukirani kuti panthawiyo zinali zolakwa kuti ngakhale kufalitsa nkhani ngati mmene zilili ndi Woweruza Samuel Roth.
Pokhapokha Lasse Braun ndi mnzake wochita naye bizinesi, Reuben Sturman adayamba ziwonetsero zazing'ono ndi malupu a kanema pomwe vuto lenileni lidayamba. Sturman adayamba kukhazikitsa ziwonetsero zoposa 60,000 zomwe zidakhazikitsidwa ndi malo amodzi osonyeza zolaula ndipo anali ndi mabokosi azinyalala. Amadziwika kuti misasa "yolipira ndi kutsitsi". Koma makanema anali asanafike ponseponse chifukwa cha chigamulo cha khothi komanso kulephera kuwonera mwamseri.
Zonsezi zinasintha pamene VHS inabweretsedwa ndi mlandu wa milandu ya Miller. Chotsatiracho chinali chodabwitsa, kuzungulira 75% ya matepi a VHC ogulitsidwa ku US mu 1978 anali zolaula.
Kupititsa patsogolo kwa 1991 ndi webusaiti yonse ya padziko lapansi adayambitsidwa. Zithunzi zowonjezereka zitha kubweretsedwera pazomwe mumawonetsa pang'onopang'ono popanda kupita ku imodzi mwawonetsero za peep. Patatha zaka zingapo ndipo intaneti inapitiriza kufalikira ndikukula mofulumira. Zimenezi zimachititsa kuti zolaula ziwonjezeke komanso kukula kwa mitundu yonse. Mwadzidzidzi, kanali kupezeka, patokha ndipo palibe ndalama zomwe wogwiritsa ntchito ankafunikira.
Njira zonse zomwe zidasokoneza bongo zidakwaniritsidwa. Koma sizinali zokha zomwe kukula kwapawerewere kunabweretsa, zidakhudzanso atolankhani ndikusokoneza malingaliro a anthu pazomwe zimawonedwa ngati zolaula.
Kubwerera mzaka za 1960, azimayi ovala top top kapena owonetsa khungu lina amaonedwa kuti ndi zolaula. Yang'anani pozungulira inu ndipo makamaka pazomwe mumaonera. Kudyetsa kwanu pa facebook kuchokera kwa abwenzi mpaka kutsatsa kwakhala zolaula zolaula m'ma 1960. Mawuwa apitilizabe kufalikira ndipo posakhalitsa zolaula zitha kukhala zachilendo m'mibadwo ikubwerayi. China chomwe muyenera kuganizira ndi zitsanzo za masiku ano kuchokera kwa kim kardashian kupita kwa miley cyrus.
Ngakhale kanema wanyimbo masiku ano sungakhale wotchuka pokhapokha ngati pali khungu linalake kapena azimayi omwe ali ndi zovala zowulula zomwe akuchita zonyansa. Mtumiki wanu nthawi zina amaphedwa ndi zolemba kuti agule zithunzi zolaula kwa atsikana. Anthu ayenera kudzuka pamavuto owopsawa ndikuchitapo kanthu. Tikapitiliza kuyenda munjira yosinthayi, chilombocho chidzangopitilira kukula ndipo ine motsimikiza sinditero mibadwo yathu yamtsogolo.
Mfundo zina zofunika kuziganizira pa zolaula:
Pogwiritsa ntchito 2012, Xvideos anali malo aakulu kwambiri owonetsa zolaula pa intaneti ndi ma 4.4 mabiliyoni ma tsamba pamwezi. Mavidiyowa anali katatu kukula kwa CNN kapena ESPN, ndipo kawiri kukula kwa Reddit. Zilibe malo osungirako malo ndipo amakhala pafupi ndi google pogwiritsa ntchito kusungirako. Masiku ano, Xvideos ndi webusaiti yotchuka kwambiri ya 43rd padziko lapansi.
Choncho kuti ndiwononge, zolaula zikukula ndikusintha mafunde (monga Virtual Reality), komabe zipangizo zamakono zingagwiritsidwe ntchito kuonjezera chidziwitso chathu ndikutilimbikitsa kusiya makhalidwe otero.
Tumizani pa r / NoFap - Ndizopusa momwe kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula sikuli konse pa radar ya makolo athu ambiri
Ndakhala ndikudetsa maliseche kuyambira ndili mwana. Sindinawone zolaula zambiri kusukulu yasekondale chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito kompyuta yabanja koma ndidawona gawo langa labwino, kukhala wopusa komanso kuzaza pambuyo pake zithunzizo zidatenthedwa m'mutu mwanga. Koma nditatuluka kusukulu yasekondale ndikukhala ndi laputopu yanga ndinapita mtedza. Maola ndi maola olaula tsiku lililonse ndipo kawiri kawiri patsiku chizolowezi choseweretsa maliseche chimaphulika kasanu patsiku. Ndinasankha kukhala ndekha ndikuseweretsa maliseche ndikusuta maudzu momwe ndingathere. Zachidziwikire kuti thanzi langa lamaganizidwe lidasokonekera kwambiri.
Pambuyo pake ndinabwereranso kunyumba kwa makolo anga koma sanalole kuti izi zindilepheretse kukhala pa laputopu yanga zolaula momwe ndingathere. Makolo anga anali kwa ine nthawi zonse chifukwa chosabereka. Koma amaganiza kuti ndimangogona pakama panga ndikuwonera makanema pa YouTube ndi zina zotero. Porn sizinali pa radar yawo konse.
Popeza ndidazindikira nofap ndasiya kuseweretsa maliseche komanso zolaula ndikumva bwino kwambiri kuti ndauza pafupifupi aliyense amene ndimamudziwa za maliseche azolakwika komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso momwe ndazimalizira. Kuphatikiza makolo anga. Nthawi zonse ndimaganiza kuti akudziwa kuti ndimakonda zolaula ndipo sindimafuna kuvomereza. Koma zimapezeka kuti analibe lingaliro! Zili ngati samamvetsetsa chizolowezi zolaula chifukwa amakulira opanda zolaula. Sankagwirizanitsapo timadontho ndipo amangoganiza kuti ndine waulesi. Sindinali waulesi, ndinali wokonda kumwa bongo ndipo ubongo wanga udali wosasangalatsa.
Popeza ndinasiya zolaula ndi MO, ndili ndi chidwi chongogona ngati momwe ndinkakhalira. Sindikadachita izi zikadapanda kuti ndikhale ndi zolaula. Mayi anga amalankhula za mwana wamnzanga yemwe ali ndi zaka 29 ndipo sanachite chilichonse ndi moyo wake, amakhalabe kunyumba ndipo amakhala usiku wonse pakompyuta. Apanso, makolo ake sanalumikizane ndi zolaula, amangoganiza kuti ndiulesi komanso amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito kompyuta. Ndinali ngati "moni ?! Ndi zolaula !!!! ” ndipo amayi anga anali ngati "kwenikweni? Mukuyesa?"
Mwachidule, ambiri m'badwo wachikulire alibe lingaliro lililonse la zolaula / zosokoneza bongo. Ana awo adazolowera ndipo makolo sadziwa chifukwa sangathe kukulunga mitu yawo mozungulira zolaula zonsezi. Iwo sali okana, iwo samangoganiza konse za izo. Okhawo omwe amamvetsetsa ndi omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndipo ndizosowa m'badwo wakale. Atha kukhala kuti adagula khungu losamvetseka masana koma sizomwezo poyerekeza ndi gulu la zolaula zomwe ana awo amaonera, mwina tsiku lililonse. Ndizomvetsa chisoni chifukwa pali makolo ambiri okhumudwitsidwa kunja uko omwe amangododometsedwa ndi ana awo osabereka. Ngati amvetsetsa momwe chizolowezi cha zolaula chimakhalira chingapulumutse mabanja ambiri pachisoni chachikulu.
Ntchito yabwino - Zowonera zolaula zimayamba kukhala zonyansa (kapena chifukwa chomwe ndikusiya kupulumutsa malingaliro anga ndipo inunso muyenera)
(Pogwiritsa ntchito akaunti yolekerera chifukwa chaumwini, funsani izi ndizowerengedwa kwa nthawi yayitali)
CW: kukambirana za PMO, kugwiririra, kugonana, kugonana kwa ana, feteleza zosiyanasiyana
Wina aliyense wazindikira izi? Ndakhala ndikulowerera kwa PMO kwazaka zambiri, zokwanira kuti ndizidziwa zolaula kuposa momwe ndimakhalira nazo. Ngakhale zili choncho, sindinayambe ndawonapo zolaula, vanila, zolaula / mwamuna / mkazi ndikupewa zinthu zowoneka bwino. Mwamwayi sindinakhale ndi feteleza zoyipa kapena zachilendo ndipo ndakhala ndikudzimva kuti ndikunyansidwa kwambiri nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndakhala ndikudziwitsidwa pang'ono ndi china chilichonse chachilendo. Ndimavutikanso ndi malingaliro osokoneza bongo ndipo ndayesetsa kupewa chilichonse chomwe chingayambitse malingaliro ozunzawa.
Pornhub wakhala tsamba langa losankhika kwanthawi yayitali tsopano, ndipo pang'onopang'ono ndazindikira kutembenukira kwakuthwa kuzinthu zakuda kwambiri m'mavidiyo ambiri opangidwa ndi makampani akuluakulu ndi makanema omwe atumizidwa ku FrontPage (makamaka mu "otchuka kwambiri"). gawo).
Ndayang'ana pamwamba pa tsamba loyambirira la zolaula nthawi zokwanira komanso kwakanthawi kwakanthawi kotero kuti ndaziwona zikuchitika koyamba: pomwe kale panali makanema achimuna ndi azimayi owongoka, mwadzidzidzi makanema omwe ali ndi Malingaliro achikazi komanso zaluso zachikazi monga chibale, kuponderezana kapena kugwiriridwa ndi zina mwamavidiyo odziwika komanso odziwika omwe amapezeka kutsogolo kwa tsamba lino. Kupewa zinthu zamtunduwu ndi ntchito yovuta, ngakhale zikhadabo zikuwoneka kuti zikugogomezera zakusowa kwamavidiyo awa.
Zotsatsa zomwe zili patsamba lino ndizomwe zimakhala zoyipa kwambiri zomwe zimakhala ndi zithunzi za fetish komanso zithunzi zogonana za anthu ojambula zithunzi ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosatheka kupewa izi chifukwa cha zotsatsa zomwe zimaseweredwa pambali pa makanema ndipo zimatuluka nthawi iliyonse mukayimitsa kanemayo. (M'malo mwake, zotsatsa ndizomwe zimakhala zoyipa kwambiri, zopangidwa kuti ziwonetsere malotowa mwachidwi komanso molimba mtima kuti akope chidwi cha ogwiritsa ntchito ndikudzutsa ziboda zobisika zomwe wogwiritsa ntchito sangakhale mpaka pano).
Ndaonanso zomwe zikuchitika pakati pa makampani odziwika zolaula omwe nyenyezi zatsopano zikuwoneka ngati zikuwoneka ngati achinyamata. tsopano, izi zitha kukhala zotsatira zakukula kwanga (Ndidayamba PMO ndili mwana ndipo ndidapitilizabe mpaka zaka zapakati pa 20s) koma ndikukhulupiriradi kuti pali zoyesayesa zomwe makampani opanga zolaula akufuna kuti athe kulanda wachichepere- kuyang'ana, azimayi achichepere kwambiri kuti apemphere kwa mwana yemwe ali ndi ephebophilia ndipo ngati akuzindikira kapena ayi ndikukhulupirira izi zithandizira ambiri kupita kumdima komanso njira yosawomboledwa yokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa achinyamata / achinyamata monga pedophilia / hebephilia.
Nditatopa ndi zolaula (kapena masamba ena aliwonse ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula) ndimaganiza kuti ndiyambiranso mphatso. reddit imawoneka ngati malo olamulidwa kwambiri koma sindingathe kuwerengera kangapo tsopano pomwe ndadina mphatso yakuwoneka ngati vanila pokhapokha kuti ndithamangire batani lakumbuyo nditawona watermark yamakampani omwe amachita Zolemba zamtunduwu ndikuzindikira kuti ndangowona kopanira kuchokera kumodzi mwa makanema ogonana kapena olamulira. Kapenanso choyipa kwambiri, mphatsoyo imayamba mwachizolowezi koma posachedwa imawulula gwero lake ngati kanema wolamulira ndikuwonetsa mayi akuchitiridwa nkhanza mochititsa mantha.
Tsopano, zowonadi, sindikukhulupirira kuti chifukwa chake ndi mtundu wina wamalingaliro okonzedwa kuti asokoneze zikhalidwe zogonana za m'badwo wonse wamwamuna (kapena mwina ndi ndani, ndani akudziwa?) Koma ndikofunikira kukumbukira makampani azolaula awa ndi mabizinesi ndipo bizinesi yawo siyabwino. Pofuna kuti kudina ndikulowa nawo mamembala komanso ndalama zizibwera, akuyenera kudzilimbitsa okha ndikusunga ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula kutengera zomwe ali nazo. Kwa iwo izi zimaphatikizapo kutsikira kuzilomboti zakuda kwambiri pomwe nthawi yomweyo kumayendera njira yabwino yovomerezeka pagulu (m'njira zambiri zimawonetsa kutsika kwa ogwiritsa ntchito PMO ambiri kuti akwaniritse chilakolako chawo chosalamulirika, kutsikira m'matumba osowa kwambiri) .
Zimandipweteka kwambiri. Zikuwoneka kuti mtundu uwu wazinthu nthawi ina udasinthidwa ndikumakona amdima a intaneti komanso intaneti yayikulu ndipo tsopano ikukula pang'onopang'ono pamawebusayiti omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri. Zithunzi zolaula zomwe ndimakumana nazo ndili wachinyamata zimawoneka ngati zosayerekezeka poyerekeza ndi zomwe achinyamata adakali otha msinkhu akuwululidwa tsopano. Ndikaganiza zakusokonekera kwazomwe zandichitikira pa moyo wanga, ndimada nkhawa za momwe zimakhudzira achinyamata ambiri, amuna omwe akutukuka (komanso akazi). Ndidawerenganso nkhani kwakanthawi kokhudza mwana wachichepere yemwe adagwirira mlongo wake atapitilizabe kuwona zolaula / bambo ake opondereza ndipo ndidachita mantha osakhulupilira, kwa ine izi ndi zotheka zomwe zitha kuchitika chifukwa cha chiwerewere cholakwika chomwe izi zimapanga achinyamata.
Chifukwa cha chizolowezi changa (ndipo ndichizolowezi chomwa mowa mwauchidakwa) komanso kuti ndimavutika ndi malingaliro, ndayesetsa mobwerezabwereza kupanga njira zatsopano zopewera kupewa zinthu zosazolowereka izi, koma nthawi zonse zimawoneka ngati nyongolotsi mu psyche yanga ndipo ndikuzindikira kuti zikhalidwe zanga zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi zolaula (ndipo ichi ndi chinthu chabwino chomwe ndimaganiza).
Kwa zaka zambiri ndakhala ndikudziyimira pawokha momwe ndimagwiritsira ntchito zolaula makamaka chifukwa zomwe ndimayang'ana sizinali "zoyipa kwambiri", kapena ndikudzitsimikizira kuti "aliyense wazaka zanga akuwonera chifukwa chake sindiyenera?" koma tsopano ndazindikira kuti zolaula zimachitanso chimodzimodzi ndi "mankhwala olowera pachipata", zolaula zokha ndiye njira yolowera pakuwonongeka ndikuwonongeka kwa malingaliro ndi moyo.
Mukamaonera zolaula, chilichonse chimatha, ndipo chilichonse chimasanduka chiwerewere ndipo izi zimatsegulira njira yopanda chinyengo ndi zowawa. Zithunzi zonse zomwe mumakonda mudali mwana ndipo mumazitengera phindu ndikutanthauzira tsopano zagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati mafuta okudzutsani kopanda kanthu. Mkazi aliyense amene mumakumana naye kapena mumadutsa mumsewu ndi hule lomwe lingatheke. Ngakhale okondedwa anu amatha kuchepetsedwa kukhala zinthu zogonana zomwe zimayatsidwa ndi choletsa choletsedwa. sindingathe kuyang'ananso kumapazi a munthu wina osadzimva kunyansidwa, kudzizunza komanso kudzimva wopunduka kuti mwina nditha kudzutsidwa nawo, kuti ndikakhale nditapita kale kuti ndagwa pachabe chiwerewere.
Nthawi iliyonse ndikakumana ndi china chake chonchi, chifukwa chamalingaliro olakwika, ndimamva ngati ndagwiriridwa mwanjira ina (ndipo ndikudziwa kuti izi ndizopanda ulemu ndipo mwina sizofanizira moyenera kotero ndikupepesa kwambiri ngati wina ali ndinakhumudwa koma sindinathe kuganiza za liwu lomwe limafotokoza kupanda pake komanso kudzidalira mokwanira) Ndimadwala ndikumverera ngati wotsutsana ndi nkhani yayifupi ya Lovecraft nthawi iliyonse ndikamaliza kuseweretsa maliseche, ngati kuti ndimakumana ndi zosamveka zoopsa (ndipo zambiri zake sizikudziwika, mungafotokozere bwanji zovuta izi, zogonana kopitilira muyeso kwa kholo kapena katswiri wazamisala yemwe alibe chidziwitso pa intaneti, mwachitsanzo?)
Mwamwayi, ndakhala ndikulephera kupezeka pazinthu zonyansa izi, koma ndikudziwa kuti mwina alipo omwe sanatero. Ndikufuna kukudziwitsani kuti simuchedwa kwambiri. kuvomereza kuti vuto ndiye gawo loyamba ndipo kuchokera pamenepo mutha kugwira ntchito yokonzanso kuwonongeka kwamalingaliro komwe kudapangitsa ndikupanga mayendedwe akukhala moyo wokhutiritsa komanso wachimwemwe.
Ndikuganiza kuti anthu ambiri omwe amakhala abwenzi a PMO amafuna kukhala ndi chikondi chenicheni, cha chikondi ndi chikondi, koma zinthu zosiyanasiyana zimatipangitsa kuti tisatayike, ndikusiya zosaoneka ndipo tikuyesera kuzidzaza ndi zolaula kapena zinthu zina zomwe timaganiza kuti zigwira ntchito. Sichichita koma sitingathe kuthandizira, pali njira yotulukira.
tbh, ndimangofuna kuti ndiyambe kunena za vuto lomwe lawononge ine kwambiri ndipo, ndikukhulupirira ndilo lovulaza ena ambiri.
ngati mwawerenga zonsezi, zikomo, ndikhulupilira kuti mwapeza china chake chamtengo wapatali.
tl; dr: Ndikukhulupirira kuti zolaula zikuyenda mumdima wonyenga ndikukoka ena ambiri.

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- Kugonana ndi kugonana / kugonana? Tsambali likulemba Zotsatira za 40 za sayansi (MRI, fMRI, EEG, matenda opatsirana pogonana, mahomoni). Amapereka chithandizo cholimba cha mtundu wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo pamene zofukufuku zawo zimagwirizanitsa zochitika za m'maganizo zomwe zimafotokozedwa mu maphunziro osokoneza bongo.
- Malingaliro enieni a akatswiri okhudzana ndi zolaula / kugonana? Mndandanda uwu uli Ndemanga za 18 zaposachedwa & ndemanga ndi ena mwa apamwamba a sayansi ya sayansi padziko lapansi. Zonse zothandizira mtundu wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
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- Kodi munthu amadziwa bwanji? Mankhwala omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri padziko lonse, Mayiko Akumayiko Onse a Matenda (ICD-11), ali ndi matenda atsopano woyenera kuchita zachiwerewere: "Kusokoneza Magwiridwe Ogonana. "
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- Zotsatira za zovuta pazoyanjana? Zofufuza pafupifupi 60 zimagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsa ntchito kugonana kosachepera komanso kukhutira ndi chibwenzi. (Monga momwe ife tikudziwira onse Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna adanena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zambiri zogwirizana osauka kugonana kapena kukondana.)
- Kodi kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi kumakhudza bwanji maganizo ndi maganizo? Pazofufuza za 55 zomwe zimagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsa ntchito thanzi lawo lamaganizidwe am'maganizo & zotsatira zosazindikira zamavuto.
- Kodi kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi kumakhudza bwanji zikhulupiliro, malingaliro ndi makhalidwe? Onani maphunziro aumwini - Phunziro la 25 limagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsira ntchito "maganizo osagwirizana" kwa amayi ndi malingaliro ogonana - kapena chidule cha mndandanda wa 2016: Media ndi Sexualization: Boma la Kafukufuku Wofufuza, 1995-2015. Chidule:
Cholinga cha ndemangayi chinali kupanga zofufuza zoyenera za zotsatira zoyezetsa zolaula. Cholinga chake chinali pa kafukufuku wofalitsidwa m'mabuku a chinenero cha Chingerezi pakati pa 1995 ndi 2015. Zonse za 109 zolemba zomwe zili ndi maphunziro a 135 zinayankhidwa. Zomwe anapezazi zinapereka umboni wosatsutsika wakuti ma laboratory komanso maulendo onse, zomwe zimachitika tsiku ndi tsiku, zimakhudzana ndi zotsatira zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo kuchuluka kwa kusakhutira thupi, kudzikonda kwambiri, kuthandizidwa kwambiri ndi zikhulupiliro za kugonana komanso zikhulupiliro zokhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso Kulekerera kwambiri chiwawa chogonana kwa amayi. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kufotokozera mwachidziwitso ku zinthu izi kumapangitsa amayi ndi abambo kukhala ndi lingaliro lochepa la luso la amai, chikhalidwe, ndi umunthu.
- Nanga bwanji za chiwerewere ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula? Kufufuza kwina: Meta-Kuonongeka kwa Kuonera Zolaula Ntchito ndi Zoona Zochitika Zachiwerewere mu Zophunzira Zambiri za Anthu (2015). Chidule:
Maphunziro a 22 ochokera ku mayiko osiyanasiyana a 7 adasanthuledwa. Kugwiritsa ntchito kunagwirizanitsidwa ndi chiwawa cha kugonana ku United States ndi padziko lonse, pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, komanso m'maphunziro osiyana siyana. Mabungwe anali amphamvu kwambiri pa mawu kuposa kugonana kwachiwerewere, ngakhale onse awiri anali ofunika. Zotsatira zake zimasonyeza kuti zachiwawa zingakhale zovuta kwambiri.
- Bwanji za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi achinyamata? Onani mndandanda wa pa maphunziro a achinyamata a 200, kapena kupenda kwa 2012 kafukufuku - Zotsatira za Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti pa Achinyamata: Kupenda kafukufuku (2012). Kuchokera pamapeto pake:
Kuchulukirapo kwa intaneti ndi achinyamata kukupanga mwayi wophunzirapo kanthu pa zakugonana, kuphunzira, ndi kukula. Komanso, chiopsezo chowopsa chomwe chimawonekera m'mabukuwo chapangitsa ofufuza kuti apeze kafukufuku wokhudzana ndi zolaula za pa intaneti kuti athandizire kulumikizana. Kafukufukuyu akuwonetsa kuti achinyamata omwe amamuonera zolaula atha kukhala ndi zikhulupiriro komanso zikhulupiriro zosatheka. Mwa zomwe zapezedwa, kuchuluka kwakazolowera zogonana, chidwi chogonana, komanso kuyeserera zakugonana zakhala zikugwirizana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi…. Komabe, zopeza zosasintha zalumikizana ndikugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa achinyamata zomwe zikuwonetsera zachiwawa ndi milingo yowonjezereka ya mchitidwe wogonana.
Zolemba zimasonyezanso ubale wina pakati pa achinyamata omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Atsikana akuti amadziona kuti ndi otsika poyerekeza ndi azimayi omwe amawaona pazolaula, pomwe anyamata amawopa kuti mwina sangakhale ovutitsidwa kapena otha kuchita ngati abambo pazosezi. Achinyamata amanenanso kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunachepa pamene kudzidalira kwawo komanso chitukuko cha anthu zikuchulukirachulukira. Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti achinyamata omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, makamaka omwe amapezeka pa intaneti, ali ndi magawo ocheperako ogwirizanitsidwa ndi anzawo, amawonjezeka pamavuto azikhalidwe, machitidwe apamwamba onyenga, kuchuluka kwa zisonyezo zokhumudwitsa, ndikuchepetsa mgwirizano wogwirizana ndi omwe akuwasamalira.
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Chibwenzi changa sanatchule
Porn monga Hyper-Reality
Aliyense anazindikira momwe dziko linasinthira muzaka makumi angapo zapitazo
GUY 2)
kuchokera reddit nofap -
Kusungidwa monga barometer- kuchokera ku reddit
tsopano tazindikira momwe mafilimu ndi zolaula zasokonekera
Zolaula Sizachilengedwe
Kuwongolera mkati mwa mkazi, tsopano akuwoneka ngati mwana wamasiye wapadera
Wogwira naye ntchito ANANGopeza zolaula ali ndi zaka 37… moyo wake ukugwedezeka
Wogwira naye ntchito ANANGopeza zolaula ali ndi zaka 37… moyo wake ukugwera pamaso pake. Kuchita maliseche m'galimoto yamakampani mukamayendetsa.
Ambiri aife timachita izi
Ndinganene kuti zolaula "ndizoyipa" kuposa kukula
Bwenzi langa limadzetsa maliseche monga nthawi 10-15 patsiku.
Kodi akukuladi vuto kapena ndi zolaula?
Sindinayambe ndakhala ndi vuto kufikira nditafika pa intaneti yanga yoyamba yapamwamba
Ndi kulumikizana kolakwika
Ndayesera zonse ndikubwera
Zili zoipa kwambiri, ndipo ndikuganiza
O, anyamata atsopano
Ewe anyamata, membala watsopano ku masewera apa.
GUY 2)
OP)
GUY 3)
GUY 4)
Zoopsa mwina ndi izi
iyi ndi mbadwo woyamba umene umayambira pa intaneti
Ndiyamba ndikunena kuti ine
Kodi Pali? Ayi, ndi chiyambi chabe.
Pornfree zovuta kwambiri kuposa nofap
sangathe kuwonera masekondi opitilira 30 a aliyense kopanira
Kodi mwakhala ndi angati angati?
Momwe zikufalikira kuwononga moyo wazaka zazaka za 16
Ndinawerenga zolemba zokhudzana ndi kukhala ndi zilonda pa dick yanu komanso kwenikweni
Ndiyani winanso amene akumva kuti alibe nkhawa chifukwa cha zolaula?
zolaula zapangitsa kuti kugonana kuli kofunika kwambiri pa maonekedwe
Kugonana kwenikweni sikunakwaniritse zomwe ndakumana nazo monga munthu wolaula
NoFap imandichititsa kuganiza kuti ndikumva chisoni bwanji masiku ano.
Anakwaniritsa moyo wapamwamba ndipo
Ndimasiya masewera achiwerewere a 2 apitawo ndikukhala okondwa.
Lipoti la Tsiku la 75: My Porn Addiction
Kwa ovuta (monga ine) P-opanda
Ndakhala ndikuganizira za nkhaniyi (chitukuko cha sayansi
Mwini wa 'porn cartel' wakhala akugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuyambira zaka 10. Wakale 19
Masewera olimbitsa thupi akukweza kwambiri kuposa zochitika zogonana
PORN: Kodi kupereka kwanga kwasintha bwanji moyo wanga (Blog)
ZATSITSITSA …….
Chikhumbo changa chochita maliseche ndicho champhamvu kwambiri kuposa chikhumbo changa choyang'ana por
Ndimaona kuti maliseche ndi yokhayokha.
Zolaula Zimasokoneza Ndi Kusokoneza Maganizo Anu pa "Zabwino"
Kubwerera ku dziko lamakono zaka zingapo zapitazo kunali kozizwitsa
Maganizo atsopano pa Porn
Kuwonjezeka kwa Anthu
makamaka ngati sikuti ndimayambiranso mobwerezabwereza chifukwa chofuna “kufuna
Sindinkaganiza Kuti Ndimagwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula…
Kufufuza kwa facebook kwa zaka zina zodabwitsa
Sindimadziwa kuti ndinali ndi vuto mpaka nditafuna kuyimitsa….
Atsikana anayi adavomereza kuti ambiri mwazochitika zawo zogonana
taganizirani zaka za 5-10 anthu ayamba kuzindikira kuti zolaula ha
Zaka 50, zachikazi - zokakamizidwa atadziwitsidwa pa intaneti
(Porn Now) Ndimagwiritsa ntchito masamba omwe ali ndi makanema ambiri osankhidwa ...
GUY 2)
Palibe chilakolako cha fap popanda zolaula.
by Nyimbo Zachimalawi
Kuyerekezera anthu omwe amagonana nawo pazinthu zolaula ndizofanana
Sindinauzepo aliyense zomwe ndikufuna kukuuzani. Chonde tcherani
ngati zolaula zanu zikukulirakulira kwambiri
pitirizani nthawi zina maola ndisanapeze chithunzi chabwino kuti musinthe
Ndikufuna kufufuza ndi kufufuza ndi kufufuza nthawi iliyonse kuti ndipeze
moyo wanga wokhutira ndi mbiri ya zolaula.
ndinaseka ubongo usiku watha chifukwa unandipatsa chifukwa chosadziwika
Mafunso kwa anthu omwe anasintha kuchokera kuNoFap kupita ku PornFree
GUY 2)
Ine ndikuganiza moona mtima kuti PMO ndi imodzi mwa zovuta kwambiri
Chilichonse chimene ndinkadana nacho pankhani ya kuonera zolaula
Ichi ndi chimene chimandidetsa nkhawa za anthu omwe amawonera zinthu monga Henta
Zithunzi za 17 za zolaula mu browser yanga.
Sindingapulumutsidwe kukula ndi broadband / google / fac
Ndikufuna kufunsa funso lokhudza mavidiyo ngati FullHD
Kwa achinyamata onse kuchokera kwa okalamba
Ndemanga za Guy pamsonkhano
Ndine wocheperako kuposa iwe, ndipo
mwina OP komanso. Ndine wokalamba mokwanira kuti ndiyambe PMO ndi
Magazini a softcore kenako VHS ndi magazini ovuta. Zoipa monga izo
anali (ndipo iwo anali oopsya), palibe chokonzekera ine chifukwa cha kusweka
cocaine wa intaneti opanda waya, laputopu ndi malo osungira maulasi. Instant
Kupeza zithunzi zolaula zosapindulitsa sizothandiza aliyense koma ndizoipa kwambiri kwa anthu omwe ali kale ndi chizoloŵezi cha zolaula / umunthu wambiri.
Ndili ndi phukusi langa loyamba pafupi zaka 6 zapitazo. Zipangizo zamakono zamtundu wa Porn zinali zatsopano
malingaliro apo. Ndakhala ndikumasula P2P kwa zaka zambiri (kuyambira 1999
kapena, kugwiritsa ntchito ukadaulo kwatsopano ndi zolaula). Apanso, zoyipa monga choncho
anali, adakali mbatata yaying'ono poyerekeza ndi zida zolaula. Zotsatira
tengani nthawi yokulandila, ndipo mafayilo ndi aakulu. Nthawi yomweyo
kukondweretsa ndi zosakhalitsa zachiwerewere za malo osungira mafilimu zinawonongera kwambiri
zogonana zanga m'zaka 5-6 kuposa zolaula zonse zomwe zakhala zitachitika
kale 20.
Ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi zolaula zanga kwazaka zambiri. Ndinasiya kuzizira
kumayambiriro kwa 2012 ndi kuchotsa zolaula za 400 + GB. Ndinataya mulu waukulu wa
anatentha ma CD ndi ma DVD. Ndinapita masiku a 90 + opanda PMO, koma kenako ndinagwa
kuchoka pa ngoloyo.
Ndayesapo kangapo kuti "ndikhale" woyera, koma ndalephera
kapena nthawi ina iliyonse. Moyenera, ndikubwerera kwa PMO kamodzi kokha
tsiku, nthawi zambiri asanagone (koma nthawi zina nthawi zina.)
Nthawi yaposachedwa kwambiri yakhala yosiyana. Choyamba, ndikuchita molimbika
mawonekedwe. Ndizolimba kwambiri, mphindi mpaka mphindi. Zachilendo, ndizosavuta
onse. Ndili ndi malingaliro amphamvu kuti ndione zolaula ndi / kapena
kuseweretsa maliseche, zomwe ndizolimba kwambiri kuposa china chilichonse chomwe ndili nacho
anamva kale. Komabe, ntchitoyi yakhala, chabwino, ayi
zosavuta, koma ndimamva kuwongolera kwamphamvu. Ndili ndi zambiri
anamanga kugonana, I ndi kuti aziwatsogolera kwinakwake
china. Ndayambanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Izi ndi zabwino kwa gulu la
zifukwa. Ndakhala wonenepa kwambiri m'zaka zanga zapitazi komanso
Endorphins zolimbitsa thupi zimapereka kuthandizira kuthana ndi kufunika kwa PMO.
Panali malo apa kuno mwezi kapena kuposerapo, akunena kuti No Fap si
zothetsa zonse-zonse ziyankhe, ndipo izo zakhudza chingwe ndi ine.
Kusiya PMO ndi njira yoyamba yothetsera mavuto ambiri. Onani izo monga
kubwerera ku malo amodzi, koma kuchokera kumeneko mukhoza kuyamba potsiriza
pita patsogolo.
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1k0x7y/to_all_the_younger_members_from_an_older_dude/cbkgwq6
"Makina A Makina: Apa Ndi Pomwe Mungapite Simungayime
Ngati Facebook ndi mapulogalamu ena ali osokoneza bongo, lingalirani momwe zolaula za The Machine Zone Internet zingakunyamulireni….
Makina A Makina: Apa Ndi Kumene Mungapite Pamene Simungaleke Kuyang'ana Zithunzi pa Facebook - Atlantic Mobile
“Anthu amakonda Facebook. Amazikondadi, ” Biz Stone analemba kale mwezi uno. "Apongozi anga amawoneka achinyengo atasankha kuyika nthawi yapa Facebook."
Siye yekhayo. ComScore akuwonetsa Facebook imadya peresenti ya 11
nthawi zonse zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa intaneti ku United States. Ogwiritsa ntchito ake akhala
odziwika kuti amathera Ambiri a miyezi 400 pamwezi pamalowa.
Ndikudziwa kutsirikidwa, monga ndikudziwa inunso. Mumayamba kudina
zithunzi za anzanu a abwenzi ndi chinthu chotsatira chimene mukudziwa kuti ola liri nawo
wapita. Ndizotonthoza modabwitsa, koma osakhutiritsa. Nthawi ina
wosweka, ndimamva ngati ndangotaya nthawi yambiri. Koma akadali
zikuchitika, ndimagwidwa mkati mwa makina, GIF yamunthu: I. Basi.
Sangathe. Imani.
Kapena mwina zidzachitika ndikamadutsa ma tweets usiku wapitawo
kama. Sindikungodina maulalo kapena kuyankha kwa anthu. Ndine wolungama
kupukuta pansi, kapena kuposerapo, kugwedeza ndi chanza changa chachikulu, kukonzanso,
Kuwonjezeretsanso.
Kapena nthawi zina, ndimakopeka ndi mpukutu wopanda malire wa Tumblr.
Kodi zochitika izi, monga Mwala zikanakhala nazo, chikondi? Dziko lamakono
Kawirikawiri amayesa momwe mumakonda ntchito ndi nthawi yochuluka bwanji
gwiritsani ntchito. Kotero nthawi yambiri ikufanana ndi chikondi.
Kulingalira kwanga ndikuti ichi si chikondi. Ndichinthu chodziwika bwino kwambiri paukadaulo kuti MIT anthropologist Natasha Schüll imayimbira “makina a makina. "
“Sikuti Ndikupambana, Koma Ndikulowa M'dera”
Schüll anakhala zaka zoposa khumi akupita ku Las Vegas ndikukambirana naye
otchova njuga ndi ogwira ntchito za casino za makina opanga, omwe aphulika
mu phindu pa nthawi ya digito monga opanga masewera adakonza bwino
kuti asunge anthu kusewera.
Chimene iye anachipeza ndi chomwecho
anthu akusewera makina kulibe kuti apange ndalama. Iwo amadziwa
sakugunda jackpot ndikupita kwawo. Monga Roma Mars ananenera
in chochitika chaposachedwa cha podcast yake yochititsa mantha, 99% Zosawoneka, pa kafukufuku wa Schüll: "Sikuti ndikupambana; tikufuna kulowa m'derali. ”
Chani
kodi makina amayendera? Ndi nyimbo. Ndiyankho lokonzedwa bwino
ndemanga yoyankha. Ndikusokoneza kwamphamvu kwakanthawi kanthawi. Mumagunda batani.
Chinachake chikuchitika. Inu mumagunda kachiwiri. Zofanana, koma osati ndendende
zomwezo zimachitika. Mwina mumapambana, mwina simupambana. Bwerezani. Bwerezani.
Bwerezani. Bwerezani. Bwerezani. Ndizosangalatsa kubwereza, chitetezo cha
chikoka.
"Zina zonse zimagwera pansi," akutero Schüll kwa Mars. "Kukhala ndi ndalama
kufunika, nthawi, danga, ngakhale kudzidzimva kwachokha kumawonongedwa mopitirira muyeso
mawonekedwe amalo omwe mulowa. ”
M'buku la Schüll, Chizoloŵezi cha Chilengedwe, wotchova juga wotchedwa Lola amuuza kuti: “Ndatsala pang'ono kutengeka pokhala makina amenewo. Zili ngati kusewera wekha: Ndinu makina; makinawo ndi inuyo. ”
Pali liwu lomwelo: kutengeka, monga agogo a Stone. Ambiri
otchova juga amagwiritsa ntchito kusiyanasiyana kwamawuwo. "Kuyika chigawochi m'mawu,"
Schüll akulemba kuti, "otchova njuga omwe ndidayankhula nawo amaphatikiza zosowa,
zolemba za m'ma 1800 za hypnosis ndi magnetism
mavesi apakati pa zaka makumi awiri ndi makumi awiri akuwonerera TV, makompyuta
kukonza, kuyendetsa galimoto. ”
Amanena zinthu monga, "Iwe uli m'tulo, uli pawekha. Chigawo ndi
ngati maginito, imangokukokerani mkati ndikusungikani pamenepo. ”
Chifukwa chiyani mawu awa, mafanizo awa? Sitikudziwa mozindikira
momwe timagwera - timangomva kutigwira kwake - momwe tidachitiramu
madera ophatikizana ndi opanda moyo. Ndiwe makina; makina ndiwe.
Ndipo zimamveka ... mawu alephera. M'malo mwake, zimamveka ngati mawu alephera
chifukwa ndi pamphepete mwa chidziwitso cha umunthu, kutuluka mwazi
malo a cybernetic omwe amafotokozedwa bwino mu data ndi code.
Makina oyendera makina ndi mbali yakuda ya "Kutuluka"
chikhalidwe cha maganizo chomwe chinaperekedwa ndi Mihály Csíkszentmihályi. Mukuyenda
boma, pali cholinga, malamulo ofikira ku cholinga, ndi ndemanga
zikuyenda bwanji. Chofunika, ntchitoyi iyenera kufanana ndi luso lanu, chifukwa chake
kumverera kwa "kulamulira munthawi yomweyo ndikutsutsa."
Kuyankhulana kwapakati pa 1996,
Csíkszentmihályi adalongosola boma motere: “Kukhala kwathunthu
kulowerera mu ntchito yokha. Chiwombankhanga chimagwa. Nthawi
ntchentche. Ntchito iliyonse, kayendetsedwe, ndi malingaliro amatsata mosavuta kuchokera ku
m'mbuyomu, ndimakonda kusewera jazi. ”
Schüll akuwona kupotoza pa izi
chodabwitsa pamaso pa makina atsopano a Vegas, omwe amaphatikizapo
mikanda ing'onoing'ono yowoneka ngati yolamulira kuti iwononge malingaliro awo. Koma
mmalo mwa kudzikhutiritsa ndi chimwemwe chomwe Csíkszentmihályi
akulongosola, ambiri otchova njuga amadzimva kuti alibe chitetezo ndi chisoni chifukwa cha nthawi yawo
zolowera.
Masewerawa amagwiritsira ntchito chilakolako chaumunthu cha kuyenda, koma popanda
tanthawuzo kapena ntchito yowunikira boma. Makina opangira makina ndikuti
malingaliro amapita pamene thupi limatayika lokha pantchitoyi. “Mutha kufufuta
zonse pamakina, "wotchova juga amauza Schüll. “Mutha ngakhale kufufuta
wekha. ”
Mutha kuchoka pa zonse mumakina makina, koma pokhapokha mutakhala pamenepo.
The Zone Zone
Pamene tikulumikizidwa mu ntchito yobwerezabwereza pa makompyuta athu, ndikuganiza ife
imatha kulowa m'malo ochepera makina. Mwachidziwikire, ngati
mukuchita zankhanza ndi anzanu kapena kutumizira amayi anu mameseji pa Facebook,
simuli m'dera limenelo. Ngati mukuwerenga mwachangu ndikulemba ndakatulo
pa Twitter, simuli m'derali. Ngati mukupanga zaluso pa Tumblr,
simuli m'dera limenelo. Makina opangira makinawa ndi odana ndi mayanjano, ndipo ndi
odziwika ndi kusowa kwa kugwirizana kwaumunthu. Mwinamwake mukuyang'ana
anthu pamene mumayang'ana kupyolera mu zithunzi, koma mumayanjana nawo
Ma digital digences ndi mawotchi, kubwereza, ndi kulimbikitsidwa ndi
mauthenga a makompyuta.
Sindikunena kuti anthu "ali osokoneza" pa Facebook. Zina mwa
otchova juga omwe atchulidwa mu kafukufuku wa Schüll alidi ndi mavuto akulu.
Koma ndikugwiritsa ntchito nkhani zawo monga Schüll anachitira - monga magwero a ukadaulo
woyendera nthambi, osanena kuti zomwe akumana nazo ndi makina opangira ndi chimodzimodzi
monga nthawi yanu wamba pa Facebook.
Ndikulongosola izi chifukwa pali chizoloŵezi chozungulira ponseponse lingaliro la
chizolowezi cha matekinoloje osiyanasiyana ngati sichinthu chachikulu. Koma ndi.
Zonsezi kunena: Sindikutsutsana za kuchuluka kwa
misonkhano monga Facebook. Izi ndi kutsutsa zovuta za makhalidwe abwino
zomwe zikhoza kuchitika mwa iwo.
Chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri chazowonjezereka m'makina a makina ndikusindikiza
kudzera muma Albamu azithunzi pa Facebook. Palibe chopindulitsa kwambiri
kapena zosangalatsa za izo. Ndipo, ndiwonetseni wogwiritsa ntchito Facebook yemwe sanatero
amathera maola ndi maola akuchita zomwezo. Chifukwa chiyani? Mukhoza kupeza malo.
Dinani. Chithunzi. Dinani. Chithunzi. Dinani. Chithunzi. Ndipo mwinamwake, kwinakwake mkati
pamenepo, mumapeza china chabwino ("Mnzanga amadziwa msuwani wanga.") kapena wokongola
("Mphaka."). Zabwino. Jackpot! Dinani. Chithunzi. Dinani. Chithunzi. Dinani. Chithunzi.
Facebook ndi ntchito imodzi yokha yogawa chithunzi padziko lonse. Mu 2008, pamene malowa anali ndi zithunzi za 10 biliyoni, ojambula adatulutsa Zithunzi za 15 biliyoni tsiku. Ntchitoyi ikuchitika 300,000 pamphindi. Dinani. Chithunzi. Dinani.
Mu 2010, Facebook idasindikiza zithunzi za 65 biliyoni, ndipo zinatumizidwa chiwerengero cha 1 miliyoni pamphindi. Mwa 2012, ogwiritsa ntchito Facebook anali akutsitsa Zithunzi za 300 miliyoni patsiku. Ndipo kumayambiriro chaka chino, Facebook adalengeza ogwiritsa ntchito adawapatsa Zithunzi za 240 biliyoni.
Ngati tiganiza kuti chiŵerengero cha zithunzi chojambulidwa ku zithunzi chomwe chimawoneka sichinafike mofulumira, ogwiritsa ntchito mwina akukoka mabiliyoni a Facebook zithunzi patsiku pa mlingo wa mamiliyoni pamphindi. Dinani. Chithunzi. Dinani.
Zonsezi zimaphatikizapo nthawi yambiri yogwiritsidwa ntchito. Malingana ndi a
Lipoti la 2011 ComScore, ogwiritsa ntchito peresenti ya 17 ya nthawi yawo pa tsamba
zithunzi zokhazokha (zomwe monga mkati mwa Facebook ndondomeko, sichiphatikiza "nthawi yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito powerenga nkhani zodyetsa nkhani ndi zidziwitso zopangidwa ndi kujambula zithunzi").
Kuyika manambala moyenera, ComScore's 2013 Digital Focus
lipoti linapeza kuti Facebook inatenga 83 peresenti ya nthawi yomwe inagwiritsidwa ntchito pa *
malo ochezera pa intaneti. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mwa nthawi yonse yomwe yatha
Malo ochezera a anthu, gawo la 14 la izo likupezeka mkati mwa khalidwe limodzili
kuzungulira. Ndizoposa nthawi yonse yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito pa Tumblr, Pinterest, Twitter,
ndi LinkedIn pamodzi!
If
zojambula zonse zaukadaulo zili ndi "zolemba" zina mkati
iwo, ngati okonza angathe kulemba zolinga muzinthu zomwe amamanga, monga momwe amagwirira ntchito zamaganizidwe a Bruno Latour, ndiye tikhoza kunena kuti njira zina zogwirira ntchito zimakhala zovomerezeka kuposa ena.
Chani
Facebook ndi makina ogwiritsidwa ntchito ndizokhoza kupereka mwamsanga
ndemanga kwa zosavuta; iwo amapereka mphoto yaying'ono pa opanda ungwiro
ndandanda wa "kulipira" wodalirika. Awa ndi malupu okakamiza, opotoza
zirizonse zomwe cholinga choyambirira cha wosuta chinali. Yomwe idayamba ngati "Onani a
chithunzi cha munthu X ”chimakhala“ chikuwonabe zithunzi zambiri. ” Njirayi
palokha limakhala mfundo.
Okonzekera masewero, chifukwa cha gawo lawo, adayenera kugonjetsa ndi
nkhani zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe zomwe zinayambitsidwa pogwiritsa ntchito makina. Ndipo izo zimagwedeza
sanakhale wokongola.
Schüll amakamba za mlengi wina, Randy Adams. Poyamba, amamuuza
kuti ndi "wamakhalidwe" otsutsana ndi kukhala makina omwe amathandizira kukakamiza
Khalidwe, lomwe ndi kuvomereza kuti ndizotheka kutero. “Koma
panthawiyi Adams sanasinthe, ”akulemba. “[Adams] adayamba
kupeza chizolowezi mwa munthuyo, kunena kuti 'anthu ena sangathe
sungani gawo lomwe limapangitsa kuti zisangokhala zosangalatsa kukhala zosokoneza bongo. ' Mukakakamizidwa kuti
tchulani 'gawo lomwe limapangitsa kuti zizisangalatsa kukhala zosokoneza bongo,' adayankha.
'Ndi kapangidwe ka masewerawa, "kenako adaonjeza kuti khalidweli
za kapangidwe kake "sizinali mwadala kwa ife, monga momwe zidachitikira
kusintha. '”
Kodi zingatanthauzanji pa polojekiti ya mafilimu ngati tikumvetsetsa
Kodi zimapangitsa kuti maganizo omwewo athandize kutchova njuga?
Kodi antchito a Silicon Valley akanamenyana ndi mankhwala awo njirayo
Okonza makina opanga ma slot amachita? Ndikudziwa ma coder ambiri ndi anthu omwe adatero
adagwira ntchito m'makampani osiyanasiyana; iwo sadziona okha
monga kukhala mu bizinesi yofanana monga casino. Ambiri a iwo amaganiza
iwo ndikuchita zabwino pochita zabwino. "
Monga momwe mukuyesera, ganizirani kuti panali umboni wosatsutsika
kuti mapangidwe ena amtundu wa webusaiti amachititsa anthu kulowetsa makina
Chigawo, nthawi yokwanira yayiyiyi pa siteti kwa osagwiritsa ntchito. Kodi angapange
kusokoneza ntchito zawo kapena kodi onsewo adzagwiritsa ntchito njira zawo
zoyambira?
Zinthu zikhoza kukhala zosiyana. Webusaiti ikhoza kulimbikitsa a
njira zosiyana zogwiritsira ntchito. Kukhala wosasamala pang'ono: Bwanji osatumizira
kusaina wina atayang'ana zithunzi 100 zomwe zikuti, "Bwanji
kulembera mnzako kapena wachibale m'malo mwake? ”
Kodi izi siziyenera kukhala gawo lazomwe makampani amawebusayiti amaganiza? Ayi
kumalimbikitsa owerenga kuti azidya zambiri, koma kuwathandiza kuima.
Vuto La "Kupatsa Anthu Zomwe Akufuna"
Mungatsutse kuti opanga zinthu ali chabe kupereka anthu zomwe akufuna. Deta imati anthu amathera nthawi yochuluka akuyang'ana zithunzi; kotero, Facebook imatumikira pa zithunzi. Zosavuta monga choncho.
Kuchita mgwirizano nthawi zambiri ndi ndalama za malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Kuchokera
ndizovuta kwambiri kudziwa ngati wina akusangalatsidwa
chidziwitso kusiyana ndi kuyeza nambala ya maminiti omwe amatha
Kuchita izo, chiyanjano chimayesedwa ndi nthawi. Ndipo kotero, Silicon
Valley yasankha mlandu wawo (ndi kwa ogwiritsira ntchito mapulogalamu ake)
kuti tikuvota ndi zolemba zathu.
Koma pali vuto. Kutanthauzira kwa "zomwe anthu amafuna" kunazembetsedwa
ndi ndi deta. Tsatanetsatane imayambira molondola: Anthu amapita ku malo
iwo amakonda. Komano zimakhala zowopsya. Iwo amati nthawi yochulukirapo inu
gwiritsani ntchito pa intaneti kapena gawo la malo, pamene mumakonda kwambiri. Inde, izo
amaletsa kwambiri ntchito yomwe kampaniyo inasewera pakupanga wosuta
khalidwe kuti liwonjezere kumwa. Ndipo izo zimanyalanyaza kuti anthu nthawizina
(pafupipafupi?) amadzichitira okha zomwe sakonda. Ndani "amakonda"
kuthera maola akuzungulila njira - komabe chakhala gawo lalikulu la
Chidziwitso chaku America kwa zaka zambiri.
Bwanji ngati maminiti 400 pamwezi anthu amathera pa Facebook ambiri
(kapena ngakhale mbali) amagwiritsidwa ntchito pamakina osungirako, osokonezeka, akudziwika
zojambula kwa kampani?
Nayi mkangano wanga: Kuganizira za
makina opangira makina ndi malupu opanikizika omwe amayambitsa izo ndi zabwino
mphamvu zofotokozera. Ikulongosola za "nthawi yotayika" yomwe ndakhala nayo
malo osiyanasiyana ochezera, komanso zomwe ndakhala ndikumva anthu ena akukambirana. Icho
akufotokoza momwe Facebook yowonjezera yakhazikitsira ntchito zake, anthu ambiri
akuwoneka kuti sakonda zomwe akumana nazo, ngakhale samasiya
iwo. Zimathandiza kufotokoza chifukwa chake anthu amabwerera ku misonkhano yomwe imayamwa
iwo mkati, ngakhale atanena kuti sakufuna.
Zimandithandiza kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake mafilimu, omwe anayamba ndi zabwino
Cholinga chogwirizanitsa anthu, chakhala nkhani yotere. Pakati pawo
luso laukadaulo, zimawoneka ngati kulimba mtima kunena kuti, "Ndimakonda Facebook. "
chifukwa
okonza mapulani ndi opanga amatanthauzira kukulitsa "nthawi patsamba,"
“Kukakamira,” “kuchita,” monga kupatsa anthu zomwe amafuna, iwo
anamanga dongosolo lomwe limapangitsa kuti anthu ayankhe molakwika
kenako amadandaula.
Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, chodabwitsa cha makina a makina ayenera kukhala
mbali ya momwe timayankhulira za zosangalatsa za intaneti. Mwina,
m'kupita kwanthawi, mavutowa adzadzikonza okha. Sindikutsimikiza,
Komabe: Mavuto azachuma omwe ali pamtima pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti
makamaka amafunika kuchulukitsa nthawi yomwe anthu amathera pa siteti,
Kupanga malonda a malonda.
Zimangokhala kuti wogwiritsa ntchito
zizolowezi zamakhalidwe zomwe zimapindulitsa kwambiri pa Facebook ndi zina
malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi njira zomwe adamasulira
kutanthauza kuti anthu amawakonda. Ziri ngati kuti atsimikiza zomwe zingachitike
kukhala opindulitsa kwambiri ndikuwonetseratu momwe mungakwaniritsire kuti kutumikira
zosowa za osuta.
Koma ine sindimakhulupirira zimenezo. Mutha kunena ambiri
zinthu zokhudzana ndi amalonda, okonza mapulani, ndi ma coders omwe amapanga chikhalidwe
makampani ochezera, koma amakhulupirira zomwe amachita. Ndiochulukirapo
mwinamwake kukhala malingaliro oposa katatu a zachuma. Ndipo iwo
titha tsiku lonse pa Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, ndi Pinterest,
nawonso. Ndikuganiza kuti amadziwa makina oyendetsera makina, nawonso. Ndipo ndichifukwa chake ndili ndi chiyembekezo
akhoza kusiya kulemba misampha.
Mulimonsemo, kumenya nkhondo
Zomwe zilibe phindu pamtima za zipsinjo izi ziyenera kukhala chimodzi mwazo
zolinga za kupanga teknoloji, kugwiritsa ntchito, ndi kutsutsa.
M'miyambo yayikulu m'chigwachi, tipanga t-sheti: Ingonena Kuti Ayi Kumalo Amakina.
amateu zinthu zokha ndipo sindingathe kulimbana ndi zolaula
Re: kuwonongeka kwa mitundu yosiyana ya zolaula?
chinachake chimene ine ndikufuna kunena pa zolaula
ZOTHANDIZA ZOTHANDIZA. Akusowa Thandizo.
Porn sizojambula.
Ponena za kukhumudwa. (pang'ono pamutu)
zolaula zimasokoneza malingaliro anu. Ndikudziwa chifukwa ndili komweko. Ndimaona kuti ndili ndekha
katswiri wathu wokhudzana ndi kugonana ndikuuza achinyamata onse achinyamata
Kutha kwa ED, ndikudziwa kale kuti sindidzabwereranso
Malo awa adzakhala aakulu kuposa inu
nayi kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa zolaula zosindikizidwa
Gawo limodzi (33%) la amuna pakati pa zaka za 18 ndi 30 mwina amaganiza kuti ali oledzera kapena sakudziwa ngati akulowerera ku zolaula
Kusintha kwakukulu koonera zithunzi zolaula kuchokera ku 1980es mpaka pakali pano.
Kusintha kwakukulu koonera zithunzi zolaula kuchokera ku 1980es mpaka pakali pano.
anagonana ndi nyenyezi zolaula ndipo sakanatha kuzikweza
anagonana ndi nyenyezi zolaula ndipo sakanatha kuzikweza
Ine ndikusowa ngakhale kufuna kuti ndiyambe kugwira ntchito, ine ndikungofuna kuti ma tebulo awutse,
Zaka zoposa 30 ndikudyetsa ubongo wanga ndi P.
Izi ndizigawo zomwe ndadutsamo m'zaka zapitazi za 30. (April, 2015)
PHASE 1 - Makamaka Zopeka
Bweretsani ku 1981. Zonsezi zinayamba zokongola. Ndinapeza zithunzi zowonongeka apa ndi apo ndili ndi zaka za 11. Pamene ndinali kunyumba ndekha ndinali wokwanira kuti ndizisangalala ndekha. Kuwona masewera ena achilendo nthawi ndi nthawi pa TV, zokwanira zochitika kuti zikhalepo kwa nthawi ndithu 🙂
GAWO 2 - Magazini
Panthawi imene mumakhala ngati pussy ngati mulibe magazini angapo a Playboy. Ndinaikapo zida zina pakhoma langa ndipo bambo anga amavomereza, kundiwona ngati mnyamata wathanzi 🙂
Ndikudabwabe momwe magz awa adakhalira motere: crunchy: - lol
PHASE 3 - Njira zolaula ndi VCR
Tsopano tumizani ku 1985. Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinayamba kujambulidwa ndi mafilimu a zolaula anali mu nyengo yotchuka ya Dutch FilmNet Club Club. Kuchokera ku 23: 00 mpaka m'mawa izi ndi malo oti mukhale ngati mukufuna kuwona zowawa. Tinalembetsa makanema onse. Kwa mnyamata wa zaka 15, izi zinali zabwino kwambiri kuti zisakhale zoona. Nthawi zambiri usiku wopanda tulo komanso tilu tambiri tomwe tinkanyowa. 🙂 Zinakhala bwino kwambiri nditapeza VCR yoyamba yoyamba. Izi zinandilola kulembetsa nyenyezi zanga zomwe ndimakonda ndikuzibwezeretsa tsiku lomwe ndinkakhala ndekha kunyumba. Ndikuganiza 50% ya matepi anga onse anali P panthawiyo. Kusungidwa mosamala mu bokosi kapena kutchedwa "Zonse" ndi zinthu 🙂
PHASE 4 - Intaneti ndi DVD
Kenako zaka 10 pambuyo pake. 1995. Moyo unali wabwino, bwenzi lapamtima, zambiri komanso zachiwerewere zambiri. Koma pa ubale umene ndinapeza Intaneti zolaula. Anayamba ndi zithunzi zolimbitsa. Pamene anali kuntchito ndipo libido yanga inabwereranso, ndikupita ku intaneti (mumayenera kuitanako ndiye :)) ndikumasula zinthu zina zatsopano. Mafilimu omwe akadali aakulu kwambiri kuti atsatire mwamsanga, kotero poyamba ndinawasunga pazithunzi zooneka bwino. Ndinkachita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi ndi zibwenzi nthawi zonse, koma sizinandipangitse ngati zinthu zomwe ndinasungidwa kuchokera ku magulu a nkhani.
PHASE 5 - Kuthamanga Kwambiri pa intaneti
Pitani ku 2005. Ukwati. Libido inayamba kusagwirizana ndi mkazi. Kubadwa kwa malo P pa intaneti. Anayamba kukopera mafilimu tsopano. Bwerani, akazi ambiri otentha, nthawi yaying'ono kwambiri. Anayamba kusonkhanitsa okondedwa, ali ndi malingaliro enieni pakupeza ejac yangwiro, odwala 🙂
PHASE 6 - Zambiri, zatsopano, zachilendo, zosangalatsa, zongopeka
Ndi 2010. Chisudzulo. Anakhalabe mdziko langa laling'onoting'ono, abwenzi omwe adasiya, adasokoneza ma P 🙂 Gigabytes ndi ma Gigabytes azinthu za HQ, zokonzedwa bwino ndi "zisudzo", PMO pafupifupi tsiku lililonse, zochitika pagulu zochepa. Kuyenda kuchokera kwa bulu-wamwamuna kupita ku boobs-man ndikubwereranso. Ngakhale ubongo wanga sukudziwa zomwe ndimakonda kwenikweni. Ndikabwera kunyumba yopanda anthu, mowa ndi PMO zimandipangitsa kuti ndizisangalala. Tsiku lotsatira, mobwerezabwereza.
GAWO 7 - Kuchuluka kwa chilichonse sikuli kwabwino kwa inu
Tsopano ndi 2014. Ngakhale atsikana otentha kwambiri m'mavidiyo samandiyendetsa. Ayenera kukhala pa malo enaake, kukhala ndi mawonekedwe ena ndi mawonekedwe ena kuti awonongeke. Zina zonse "zakuthupi" zilipo pokhapokha kuti zitha kukhala ndi malo pa intaneti yanga (yakula msinkhu.
GAWO 8 - Chifukwa chiyani? Lekani kutsika uku!
Jan 2015. Ndimakhalanso ndi PMO. Katatu mu masiku awiri. Thupi langa ndi ubongo zatha. Mmalo mopita ndi kuthamangitsa akazi, ndikudutsa mumsampha wanga wamakono kuti ndipeze chirichonse chomwe chingachiritse ululu wanga wamkati. Pamene ndimakhala ejaculate chifukwa cha i-dont-know-which-1000th, chinachake chimasweka. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chiyani?
Ndiyeno panthawi yomwe ndikufufuza anthu omwe ali ndi mavuto omwewo ndimapeza NoFap. Werengani nkhani. Kumva ululu ndi kumenyana ndi aliyense. Lurk kwa masabata angapo ndiyeno ndikulenga akaunti, tumizani ena. Ikani kachiwiri kachiwiri ndikuchita manyazi. Pangani china. Ikani.
Ndiyeno chenicheni changa choyamba kuyesera. Beji ndi zonse. Masabata awiri. Ndiyeno masabata awiri ena. Ndiyeno sabata lina. Pano pa 4th yesetsani, koma mukuwonjezeka. Ndipotu, 3 MO ya masabata a 6 ndi abwino kwambiri kwa oyamba a NoFap.
Choncho, kuti nkhaniyi ikhale yayitali kwambiri. Zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri pa nthawi ndipo ndi nthawi yosiya kamodzi.
TL; DR: Ndakhala ndikupita patsogolo P m'zaka zapitazi za 30, ndikudziŵa pafupifupi nyenyezi iliyonse / chojambula, koma tsopano ndatha ndi izi.
LINK - Zaka zoposa 30 ndikudyetsa ubongo wanga ndi P. Almost prehistoric, kotero ndiyimbireni Fapster Erectus 🙂
mwa -h2o-
Maola a 10 maulendo anga apita chifukwa cha zolaula.
Maola a 10 maulendo anga apita chifukwa cha zolaula.
Ichi ndi chifukwa chake kukumbitsani f *** s ubongo wanu !!!
Ichi ndi chifukwa chake kukumbitsani f *** s ubongo wanu !!! ZOCHITIKA
Sindinazindikire Kuti Ndakhala Ndikukhudzidwa Ndi Zithunzi Zolaula
Sindinazindikire Kuti Ndakhala Ndikukhudzidwa Ndi Zithunzi Zolaula
Mvula yoopsa.
[Cuckolding] tsoka.
Chikhalidwe chathu chasintha KUSINTHA pa zolaula
Cholinga chotsutsana ndi zolaula; Chifukwa chake anthu amakhumudwa mukamafotokoza zolaula, ndipo mliriwu ukuchititsa
Potsiriza ndinasiya ubwana wanga, ndipo panthawiyi ndinali kuganizira zolaula
Potsiriza ndinasiya ubwana wanga, ndipo panthawiyi ndinali kuyang'ana zolaula m'mutu mwanga
Zaka zingapo zapitazo zakhala zikuchuluka, zamphamvu kwambiri, zowonongeka, komanso zowonongeka.
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